
A new client who I wrote about before (that story comes out later this month) sent me a text in between sessions. He was in emotional pain. His pain stemmed from relying to science to understanding his pain.
That’s never a good idea. Science gets it wrong about a lot of things. And the main thing it often gets wrong is about how the Universe works and how people and the Universe constitute a dynamic of creation.
Emotions play a huge role in that dynamic. And love is one of the most important emotions of them all, which is funny because so many people misunderstand that emotion. So when the client texted me, I jumped to respond. It was a great opportunity to clarify what science gets wrong about the Universe, in general, and about love in particular.
The client wrote expressing lamentation about his “lovesickness”. He amplified that condition by going to the internet, where he found a Wikipedia entry on “Limerence”. Click that link. You’ll see that science makes a reductionist analysis of this particular expression of love.
The client’s resonance with the “in-depth” discussion of Limerence gave no relief from his emotional pain. So I gave him an alternative, more empowering view. Love, I told him, is a resonance pattern. It shows up when one comes into proximity of a vibration matching very closely all that they are in that moment.
Freedom from scientific reductionism
Yearning is not the same as love. And what most people think is “lovesickness” actually happens when the person focuses so much on the absence of the person in question that momentum ensues. As it does, the power or intensity of that vibration increases. Focusing on the absence of something we want will always generate negative emotions. That’s why we come equipped with emotions. Emotions help us chart a path to auto-fulfilling desires.
If we don’t know that, however, we suffer emotional pain. Pain like yearning. Or lovesickness.
Science doesn’t acknowledge any of what I just wrote. It thinks reality is an objective thing separate from us. One that it can objectively observe and draw accurate conclusions on. This is a fundamental blinder of science. Reality is a projection of consciousness, springing from that consciousness and frequencies on which that consciousness focuses. This distortion in scientific understanding will forever keep it from understanding how the human-Universe dynamic dances through All That Is.
After describing this to the client, after describing his yearning in more positive terms, he almost immediately felt relief. I told him he enjoys far more leverage and influence on his reality than this Limerence thing offers.
Here’s how he responded:

When science gets it wrong, people suffer. So many examples of this litter history. Yes, it does eventually get some things right. But if we’re wanting to ascend into greater levels of spiritual mastery while in a physical body, we must put science where it belongs: in the back seat. And then let our Order of Operation influence us most.
That’s scary for many who believe science is The Way. And that’s why so many Spiritual Seekers exist and relatively few Spiritual Finders.