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How To Find The Gift In Toxic Work Relationships

Every so often, this practice reveals something so elegantly orchestrated, it takes my breath away.

This past week, two separate clients—each at very different stages of their Positively Focused journey—experienced the same situation from very different perspectives. Each showed up carrying the weight of several difficult interpersonal dynamics going on between them. Both were feeling triggered, off-balance, unsure of themselves.

One is a founder and business owner. I call her Madison. I wrote about her personal experience earlier this week. The other is her employee. I call her Jane. I wrote about her individual experience too. This post seems like it might be a repeat of those previous two posts.

It’s not though.

Instead, this post reveals the sacred opportunities showing up when family members, or, in this case, co-workers, are Positively Focused clients. We get to see the sacred process from two sides; we get a rare glimpse at how two people co-create the larger expansion process happening between us all. Where we each serve as transformation/transmutation angels for one another.

Perfect mirrors and manifestations

From their individual perspectives neither Jane nor Madison knew what was happening for the other person. Neither knew what stirred inside each of them was part of the same vibrational story playing out in perfect divine symmetry in the other.

But I knew.

Madison came to her session feeling frustrated and confused. She believed her employee wasn’t showing up the way she hoped — there was resistance, emotional unpredictability and apparent unwillingness to complete assignments. All that left Madison disappointed, frustrated and angry. She wasn’t sure if she was failing as a leader or simply outgrowing a version of herself that still felt responsible for everyone’s well-being. She also felt she was not get anything in return for what she’s paying Jane.

Jane, two days later, showed up with her own agitation. Something gnawed at her — an emotional static she couldn’t shake. She felt misunderstood. She also felt fear. Her fear was about letting Madison down by failing at assignments Madison gave her.

Jane didn’t want to be a failure in her own eyes either. But Madison’s assignments were vague or unclear. That’s because it’s not only Madison’s first time being a business owner, it’s also her first time being a boss. So she too is insecure in herposition. She, like Jane, also fears failure. But Madison suffers from a double-whammy: potentially seeing herself as a failure and her partner Tom seeing her that way too.

Unbeknownst to Madison, she was getting exactly what she focused on, which is what her fear was calling her attention to. So was Jane. Jane didn’t want to fail in Madison’s eyes. But her fear of failure prompted inaction on vague assignments. She also feared asking clarifying questions because that triggered Madison’s fear which surfaced as frustration in the past.

Isn’t it ironic?

Jane, acting out of her fear, or, rather, not acting, was the perfect reflection of Madison’s fears. Madison’s fears, meanwhile reflected back to Jane her fears. Both women were getting exactly what they were creating; frustrated versions of one another. And both were pointing the finger at the other person!

Conflict invites letting go

And here’s where it becomes divine: Both Madison and Jane were each feeling the same frequency…from opposite sides of the mirror: Fear and insecurity. They were a perfect match, in other words.

Madison was wrestling with the idea that to be a “good” manager — she had never been a manager before — she needed to present a picture of flawlessness. Jane wrestled with the idea that to stay employed, she had to suppress her authenticity. One was over-functioning. The other was under-expressing. Both were reacting to the same energetic pattern: the fear that authenticity isn’t safe.

In their own way, however, each showed up ready to release that distorted belief.

In Madison’s session, she saw how “I must show that I know it all” was an echo from long ago — an old strategy to survive in corporate culture. The strategy wasn’t wrong. It was wise when she worked in the corporate world. It doesn’t work in the small business world though.

What’s more, she’s learning to lead from alignment, not control. But old echos resisted that. So she created a version of Jane reflecting what Madison was doing so Madison could let those old beliefs go.

Ah-ha moments from intensity

In Jane’s session, she saw that her agitation wasn’t dysfunction. It was guidance. A signal that her own expansion was arriving. Not through rebellion, but also through letting go and opening up, softening.

She feared something she couldn’t possibly do: letting herself down and letting Madison down. She needed to trust the version of herself that wanted this opportunity instead of fearing Madison’s reactions as an indication of something bad about her. This fear pointed the way to expansion through authentic expression (asking questions). That version is what Madison needed most. Not a “yes-person”.

A lot more than this was happening in the interpersonal dynamic. But what you just read highlights the main event. As a result, neither woman “fixed” the relationship in our sessions. Instead, they needed an extra session. One in which both attended. We held it shortly after Jane’s. It was intense, as fear is an intense emotion.

But it offered many ah-ha moments for both women. That call wasn’t easy for either of them. But they’re both better now, as is their working relationship, for having it. Both stepped more fully into clarity of who they are becoming…as individuals, as business partners, as employee and employer.

Other people are gifts

They also offered each other a sacred gift: the opportunity to evolve in real-time through authentic, shared contrast. Each was a reflection of the other’s edge. And both navigated it not by hardening, but by softening. Not by demanding change from the other, although both probably wanted that initially, but by each becoming the version of themselves that no longer needed the old patterns.

This is what makes the Positively Focused journey so profound. We begin seeing how nothing is random. How every difficult interaction is divine orchestration. How life isn’t punishing us — it’s partnering with us. Offering mirrored experiences that reflect the exact vibration ready to be released. Often that mirror is other people.

Madison and Jane never planned this coordination. But their Broader Perspective’s did. And in honoring their own unfolding, they became co-creators in each other’s expansion — each woman rising through her own contrast into a new level of sovereignty, understanding, and empowerment.

If you’ve been in a tangled work relationship dynamic lately, pause before blaming or fixing. There’s a mirror waiting to be seen. And often, what looks like conflict is actually harmony in progress — a symphony of expansion tuning itself through two instruments, you and the other person, learning to resonate at a higher frequency.

That’s what I witnessed this week. And it was stunning.

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Why I know Life Is Going Great For Us All

This is so great. This past week I wrote about how previous generations entrain in-coming ones thereby slowing the process of expansion, both for individuals and the species as a whole. I know this is accurate. It explains why progress happens so slowly on a human-wide scale.

It needn’t happen as slowly at the individual level, but a lot of times it does. That’s because people allow into their experience the entrainment. It makes sense they do that. It seems that’s the way life should be lived. After all, everyone around us is living that way.

I fell into that for a few decades. I’ve found my way out now and none too soon. Especially since radical life extension on the horizon promises me another 60 years of physical life (I’m 61 now). At least. Living the next 60 years in my sovereignty, clarity and expansion, focused on expanding into more of all three thrills me.

And that thrill comes from experiences like the one prompting this post.

Wink and nod 

This post is about serendipity, when the Universe subtly nods in my direction as a way of saying “yep, you’re on track”. So many of these nods happen. I share many of them in this blog.

This morning brought another one. That’s why I’m sharing it today. I love immediate response from the Universe! Here’s how it unfolded.

In a short post I published two days ago, I described the generational entrainment process as part of explaining why people give up living through imagination for being realistic. That same day, a truly amazing manifestation happened. A post is in the works about that too. It will publish in July. I swear, every day multiple manifestations are popping into my awareness. It’s a freaking cornucopia of goodness!

And that’s what I felt this morning, June 8, when I checked my email. There, blessing me with its wisdom, was a Universal acknowledgment of the post I wrote two days ago. An amplification actually, is what it was. The email, from Abraham, was both wink and nod. And confirmation. Here’s what it said:

Thank goodness we’re eternal. My appreciation for that fact overwhelms me more and more. I’m thrilled with life, how it’s going for me, the species and everything else on the planet. The deeper, further, more into my expansion I allow myself, the more I see so much of what’s happening as happening in our favor.

And the more we as individuals are willing to let that “in our favor” in, the better our life goes.

Can you also see, however, that the more of us individuals who that do that, the faster it happens for all of us as a species? That’s what this message points to. That’s what my experience tells me.

And that’s thrilling. Because I’m on the timeline leading to more individuals becoming their version of what I enjoy. And on that timeline, life is really, really, really great!

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What Happens When a Boss Triggers an Old Pattern

This week, one of my clients—let’s call her Jane —brought something to our session many people can relate to: growing frustration with her employer.

On the surface, it looked like a straightforward situation. Several tense conversations. Feelings of insecurity and uncertainty. Interpretations that had her feeling dismissed, unseen, and emotionally tangled for days. She described a kind of internal agitation — something wasn’t sitting right, but she couldn’t tell if she was overreacting or if her intuition was trying to warn her of something.

And here’s where it got interesting.

As we followed the threads deeper, Jane realized this wasn’t just about her current employer. It wasn’t even about the comment she was interpreting. It was about much older momentum surfacing through the lens of this moment — an ingrained belief that said: “To stay safe, you must remain agreeable. To be respected, can’t be authentic.”

It was the classic conflict between authenticity and survival. Between speaking in ways aligned with what she felt and believed and keeping the peace. Between honoring her intuitive knowing and fearing the fallout of rocking the boat.

Tears to laughter

As we continued, she began to see the real source of her discomfort: not her boss, but the internalized authority figure she carried inside. The one that mirrored every boss, teacher, parent, or partner who’d ever told her—explicitly or energetically—that her voice was too much, her insight inconvenient, or her sensitivity a liability.

The moment she saw that, her energy shifted. Her struggles remained, but they softened.

What she felt wasn’t wrong. She wasn’t being “too sensitive.” Instead past momentum was resurfacing to be soothed. It’s belief momentum that had once served her, but now only blocks the flow of her sovereignty and expansion.

And here’s the beauty: Soothing that momentum didn’t require confronting her boss. She didn’t need to demand validation or placate her. Her increasing clarity wasn’t about being right in the external world — it was about reclaiming her right to feel sovereign in her being. And therefore, to be able to express herself fully, authentically.

When I described what “reclaiming” looked like, she softened. Jane’s energy shifted more and tears turned to a little laughter. What had felt like emotional blockage revealed itself as expansion in the moment — a calibration to a new version of herself. One that no longer needs to dim in order to stay safe. One that doesn’t mistake tension for danger.

The leader is waiting

What I love most about this kind of session is that the breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing against the external world. It comes from remembering who and what we are.

That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about. We don’t fix the world by wrestling with it. After all, the world doesn’t need fixing. It’s not broken. Nor are we. We’re not broken, nor do we need fixing. Instead, by realigning with our Broader Perspective the world reflects that alignment back to us.

But sometimes, nearly always actually, finding that alignment means letting life’s contrast serve us. Not as a warning, but as an invitation.

If you’ve had a moment recently where someone rubbed you the wrong way, consider that maybe it wasn’t about them at all. Maybe they were the perfect mirror, showing you in that moment where your expansion is ready to come through. And maybe that discomfort is also serving. It’s not that something has gone wrong, rather, your Broader Perspective is inviting you to expand.

If that’s where you are, and you’d like support in making sense of it all without collapsing into it, I’d love to show you what’s possible when you meet contrast from clarity, not fear.

Sometimes the boss is just a stand-in. The real leader is waiting to be you.

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Seeing The Good Life Through The Lens Of Imagination

Late last week I wrote a post about science and love. I highlighted a client experience showing how disempowering scientific interpretations of reality can be. In this post, I want to point out another gift that conversation brought. One that shows how all of us humans are divine, naturally connected to All That Is and therefore predisposed to the Charmed Life.

If that’s the case, if we are predisposed to the Charmed Life, why do so many humans not live that? The answer lies in the text conversation this client and I had. More specifically, what he texted after I showed him a more imaginative way to look at his “lovesickness” than through scientific lenses. Here’s what he wrote. Let’s look at it again:

The client writes about his ability to “see outside of a reductionist scientific view” of the world. He talks about seeing the Universe as it is: “a conscious one made of love and beauty.”

That’s a beautiful way to put it. It’s also accurate in the extreme. When this client sees the world that way, I’m sure he feels empowerment, joy, connection and what humans call love. Seeing the world that way is a guaranteed outcome of the Positively Focused practice and a hallmark of the Charmed Life. The practice makes that way of seeing habitual or chronic. Through that lens, one can see the world unfolding perfectly, with one’s desires fulfilling themselves right before one’s eyes.

That’s such an empowering place from which to live. So why does this client choose scientific lenses rather than lenses of empowerment?

It’s generational

The same reason most humans do it. In a word: “habituation”.

Each successive generation comes into the world through the generation before it. Those previous generations think their job is to teach the young how to move through the world.

It’s not their job to do that though. But they act as though it is.

Previous generations invariably get caught up in disempowerment’s momentum. The beliefs they form disconnect them from the beauty and love that is reality’s natural state. From there, all they see is disappointment, discouragement, boredom, bondage, fear and insecurity. Oh, they have fleeting glimpses of positive expectation or happiness, but most of their life doesn’t show up that way. The way their life does show up comes from habituation they learned from the generations coming before them.

It’s from there that previous generations entrain the next one. And THAT’S why people double-down on “being realistic”, and “facing the facts”. It’s why they argue against being “pollyanna”; why they believe in “confirmation bias”. It explains why “wishful thinking” as a pejorative describing being Positively Focused is a thing. And so, previous generations pass to the next one a fact-based, realistic lens.

That’s why people end up being realistic instead of imaginative.

We remember

The in-coming generation knows this is going to happen before they come in. So it’s not like they’re a victim of the previous generation. They know what they’re doing deep down. Still, a few come in remembering all this. And it’s those few who offer clarity to the rest.

They’re the visionaries. It’s people like them who move humanity forward. Others come to remind those who’ve forgotten so they may live lives charmed.

My job as one of the latter is to attract those few, remind them what they know and help them recover their sovereignty, their imagination. That’s what is happening with this client. It’s what happens with every client. And that’s why clients’ lives change for the better in dramatic fashion.

My “job” is an expression of love. It’s based on the beauty and love inherent in All That Is. Not science. It is an act of eternal imagination. And its reverberations span all dimensions.

Every person possesses this divine, natural connection to All That Is. The only difference between them and me and my clients is: we remember.

Maybe it’s time you remember too. Book a session, let’s find out.

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What Happens When Science Gets It Wrong About Love

A new client who I wrote about before (that story comes out later this month) sent me a text in between sessions. He was in emotional pain. His pain stemmed from relying to science to understanding his pain.

That’s never a good idea. Science gets it wrong about a lot of things. And the main thing it often gets wrong is about how the Universe works and how people and the Universe constitute a dynamic of creation.

Emotions play a huge role in that dynamic. And love is one of the most important emotions of them all, which is funny because so many people misunderstand that emotion. So when the client texted me, I jumped to respond. It was a great opportunity to clarify what science gets wrong about the Universe, in general, and about love in particular.

The client wrote expressing lamentation about his “lovesickness”. He amplified that condition by going to the internet, where he found a Wikipedia entry on “Limerence”. Click that link. You’ll see that science makes a reductionist analysis of this particular expression of love.

The client’s resonance with the “in-depth” discussion of Limerence gave no relief from his emotional pain. So I gave him an alternative, more empowering view. Love, I told him, is a resonance pattern. It shows up when one comes into proximity of a vibration matching very closely all that they are in that moment.

Freedom from scientific reductionism

Yearning is not the same as love. And what most people think is “lovesickness” actually happens when the person focuses so much on the absence of the person in question that momentum ensues. As it does, the power or intensity of that vibration increases. Focusing on the absence of something we want will always generate negative emotions. That’s why we come equipped with emotions. Emotions help us chart a path to auto-fulfilling desires.

If we don’t know that, however, we suffer emotional pain. Pain like yearning. Or lovesickness.

Science doesn’t acknowledge any of what I just wrote. It thinks reality is an objective thing separate from us. One that it can objectively observe and draw accurate conclusions on. This is a fundamental blinder of science. Reality is a projection of consciousness, springing from that consciousness and frequencies on which that consciousness focuses. This distortion in scientific understanding will forever keep it from understanding how the human-Universe dynamic dances through All That Is.

After describing this to the client, after describing his yearning in more positive terms, he almost immediately felt relief. I told him he enjoys far more leverage and influence on his reality than this Limerence thing offers.

Here’s how he responded:

When science gets it wrong, people suffer. So many examples of this litter history. Yes, it does eventually get some things right. But if we’re wanting to ascend into greater levels of spiritual mastery while in a physical body, we must put science where it belongs: in the back seat. And then let our Order of Operation influence us most.

That’s scary for many who believe science is The Way. And that’s why so many Spiritual Seekers exist and relatively few Spiritual Finders.

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Shapeshifting: Why Spiritual Gifts Are Not Spectacles

This image indicates an update on my shapeshifting pursuit. Anytime you see it, it indicates a post in the series.

Shapeshifting is something available to humans. Anything we can conceive, the Universe can deliver. That includes “occult” abilities. But if we think we’re going to realize such abilities as a way of being flashy or provocative to others, then it’s not going to happen.

It sounds like a contradiction. The Universe can deliver anything we want. Why not being flashy through occult powers?

It’s a good question.

I once thought stunning people with such an amazing feat was worthy of my pursuit. Now, not so much. That’s because shapeshifting isn’t a parlor trick. It’s not a spectacle. It, like so many other facets of All That Is, is a sacred process. It’s a process of transmutation, transmission, becoming, expression and expansion. A process not to take lightly.

If we’re wanting so shapeshift to prove something or be something in the eyes of another, we sully the sublime nature of what shapeshifting represents. We also block ourselves from it, until we expand beyond such desires.

The same holds for every other ability afforded those focused on their ascension.

When they matter

I know I’m on that ascension path. Many, many indicators show this. Dream experiences, meditation, how my thoughts, beliefs and awareness expand and what’s showing up in clients’ lives through the Positively Focused practice support my confidence I’m mastering this process.

I also know it’s expressing through me because at least two people asked in the last six months to show them how to do what I’m doing. That’s evidence.

Those two, whoever they are, are manifestations. They reflect back to me my own confidence that this is possible. Confidence bolstered by evidence I’ve created showing it’s possible.

A lot of evidence supports my confidence I’m mastering this sacred process.

And still, the process is not spectacle.

Years ago, HBO aired a show called The Young Pope. It stars Jude Law as the upstart Pope Pius XIII in a Vatican full of intrigues. The young Pius is highly controversial. But he also comes equipped with gifts. In one instance, he prays for a woman to have a child. Then she does. In another, he curses a nun who sides with an African dictator to control the water supply. Later, that nun dies when she drinks from the water supply.

In the series, people ask the Pope for a demonstration of such miracles. He rebukes such requests saying they are not “spectacles”. Then he goes on to perform them. Spontaneously. When they matter.

It’s for me

Recently, I’ve dialed back my desire for expressing this sacred process to anyone other than myself. Meanwhile, a more practical application draws my interest. I want to express this sacred process along those lines by way of showing myself that I expanded into this new ability. I want it to matter. For me.

What you just read is opaque, I know.

Keeping what that subject is close to my chest is evidence that I’m not taking shapeshifting as some kind of spectacle. Instead, I’m allowing this ability to emerge from within me as a divine expression of my own sovereignty, a reflection of what I know I am, reflecting that to me, as confirmation that I am All That Is in human form.

A time may come when I share with a select few how to achieve this level of rarified creative expression. For now, however, I’m content expressing further evidence of this ascensionary process for me and me alone.

I’ll still give updates though to those who follow this subject.

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How This Client Effortlessly Manifested a FREE 1-Carat Diamond

Diamond not to scale. Illustration not intended to reflect the client’s likeness.

That’s right. A client last week manifested a free 1-Carat diamond, in a massively surprising and delightful way. The experience put her over the moon.

It put me over the moon too. That’s because it, once again, showed how the Universe and our Broader Perspective cooperate to bring surprise and delight into our lives. I wrote “once again” because last week, other clients (and I) enjoyed surprising and delightful creations as well. One manifested a surprising repeat musical gig. Another created a situation around dating he thought was impossible, and yet, it happened. And another client found relief from responding to violence with violence.

Those last two offered such significant creation results, I scheduled them for my regular Monday release schedule. They require detailing how they happened, and it takes a while to tell those stories. So best to share them in long form.

Not this story though.

A delightful surprise

Telling this story is easy because it’s so obvious what happened. This client finds herself well into the Positively Focused advanced practice. She’s therefore more often than not finding the best things in life to put her attention on. And so she’s more often than not super high-flying. Her positive focus is well in place, in other words.

That’s why what happened, happened.

She went to a nonprofit fundraising event with friends. At the event, as such things go, organizers offered more ways to raise money than ticket sales. One was a raffle. The raffle offered several prizes, one of which was a 1-Carat diamond.

Guess who won that diamond?

“I swear Perry,” she said. “I knew I was going to win. I just felt it. I bought the ticket because my Broader Perspectivegave me the impulse to do so. But it was still fun winning because it proved how my Broader Perspective knows what will delight me!”

The client and her free 1-Carat creation.

She’s right

Yes, our Broader Perspective always knows where what we want unfolds. It’s always leading us to those things. But if we’re blocking the messages, the impulses, or if we’re allowing impulses from somewhere else to move us, we miss out.

Some people, for example, will read this story and think “that’s just random chance” or “that’s just coincidence” or “someone was going to win it”. Those are the very kinds of thoughts and beliefs that block Broader Perspective inspiration. And so, people holding such thoughts and beliefs are right. But only for them.

Not for this client though. She’s tuned in. She’s Positively Focused. So she’s getting everything she wants and she knows how that’s happening. It’s no wonder one of the other delightful things she’s created is a life partner who also enjoys the Positively Focused practice as well. A year ago, her partner became a client. Today, he calls the practice “undiscovered science.” His label attests to how accurate and how flawlessly the practice tunes people into receiving all they want.

That the client’s partner is now a client was a creation she wanted to manifest for herself. Well, that’s happened too. Over and over she’s proving her spiritual team knows how to deliver all that she’s wanting. So she doesn’t need to know details about how what she wants will happen. She doesn’t need to know when either. She only needs to tune in and enjoy life.

Just like every other client eventually discovers.

Book a session today. Let’s get you on the path to the joyful discovery of your Charmed Life.

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Why Time Flies When We Are Happy In The Now

I noticed this week an interesting phenomenon happening with clients. In session, they lose sense of time. For them, time flies by. By session end, they’re shocked time went so fast.

It’s a common human experience. One most humans only seldom acknowledge. Nevertheless, the experience proves how time shapes to our focus. We could even say time shows how subjective physical reality is.

Time morphs according to the point of consciousness experiencing it. It shapes and twists and turns one moment to the next. It can crawl by. Or it can pass in a flash. What is responsible for all that twisting turning?

Our focus, of course. When focused in one way, time speeds up. Focused another way, it slows down. The “way” in which we focus depends on beliefs active in us at any given moment. With positive belief, time flies. “Engaged” and “interest” or “fascination” are all emotions clients usually experience in-sesssion. These positive emotions stem from positive beliefs such as “I’m getting something valuable here” or “I am hopeful I’m going to resolve this”.

Negative belief slows time. Boredom, pessimism and insecurity are all emotions people tend to wallow in. In those emotions work days drag by. It takes forever to move through traffic. In these cases, versions of these beliefs are active: “I don’t want to be here” or, “I’m can’t wait until the weekend” or “This traffic sucks”.

There’s a direct connection, therefore, between our thoughts, beliefs, and our experience of time and reality. That direct connection is worth exploring.

Did you feel the energetic variation between this image and the previous one? Attitude is everything. And beliefs are what drive attitudes, and our experience of time.

Matching reality with nonphysical

I find in my own life that, as I am focused more and more positively, days fly by. Since I “work” only 2 1/2 days a week, you’d think I have lots of time available in the week. And yet, I find days often end before I complete all I’d like to. And most things I’d like to do are about fun. Indeed, I often wonder how I got all the tasks done that I did, back in the old days when I dedicated 40+ hours to work every week. I’m really surprised I got anything done other than working and sleeping back then.

I don’t feel a sense of scarcity in this. Rather, I feel a sense of joyful abundance and wonder. I recognize that days flying by is indicative of a very high vibration. After all, in non-physical, where all vibration is high, the sense of time is irrelevant because it flies by so quickly. Instantaneously, actually. In nonphysical everything happens simultaneously. That means, hardly any time is available to experience time passing.

So I could argue accurately, that my personal experience of “time” is beginning to match my subjective non-physicalexperience of time. I like that conclusion. It’s a conclusion that seems accurate, given my experience and client experiences.

An interesting postscript: I’m aware of my eternal nature. Since I am eternal, what would be the point of trying to get it all done in one day or one life? So while I wonder at this thing we call time, beliefs about time that once had me grasping for more of that are soothing. And in the soothing, I’m realizing I have all the time in the world. An eternity of it, actually.

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How To Get Hired Effortlessly For Your Next Gig

About this time last year, a Positively Focused client manifested a brilliant creation. Being an aspiring musician, the creation stunned the client. Up to then, they performed mostly at open mics and farmers markets.

So when they manifested a private performance gig back then, they were, rightfully, over the moon. It was a delightful and surprising experience. Little did they know, they set up a future for themselves that would further convince them how effortless life can get.

This year I encouraged the client to contact those people they performed for a year ago. Who knows, I suggested. They may want you back.

When I made the suggestion, the client said they wanted to. They said they didn’t have the people’s number though. I took that as a sign of their resistance. Resistance in the form of thinking these people wouldn’t want them for a repeat performance. The client said they feared the people would think they were weird or creepy for reaching out.

We talked about that and other resistant beliefs they held about reaching out to the couple. Finding relief, the client said they would reach out to those people via a letter after work this past week. The client had the couple’s address.

I could feel the client’s relief in setting that intention. Then, this week, the client left a voice text on my phone. They said they got a text while at work from a number they didn’t recognize.

It was the couple, the client explained. The wife’s brother’s birthday is in June and “we’d love to have you come back and play for us again” the text read.

“I released resistance and [the couple] came [to me] immediately!” The client exclaimed. I could hear the clarity, confidence and wonder in their voice. Still, I would have said it slightly differently.

The client soothed their resistant beliefs, which were blocking the fulfillment of their desire. That allowed the Universe to deliver what the client wanted…effortlessly. The couples’ Broader Perspective reminded them about the client’s stellar performance last year. That inspired the couple into becoming cooperative components in the unfolding of my client’s desire.

A lot more words, but those details are important. When we release resistance holding at bay what we want, what we want happens. The Universe knows what we want. It constantly gives us impulses leading to where the unfolding is happening. But if we’re full of resistant thoughts, those impulses can’t get through.

This client proved how effortlessly having what we want can get.

Nearly all my clients this week created astounding manifestations. I did as well. One manifested a FREE 1-Carat diamond, for example. In my own case, I manifested a marvelous precognition demonstration. The client this story is about also manifested truly astounding out of body experiences while in meditation this week. And another client transmuted being violently attacked into a blessing. That last one I’m publishing a post about later.

All these show how spectacular Living Charmed can feel. The great thing about it is there’s no upper limit preventing how much greater life can get.

So while effortless gigs, jewels and superpowers like precognition are part of the path, so is literally anything else we can conceive.

That’s how great life is lived Positively Focused.

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Why Clients Find The Positive Life So Powerful

Clients always prove to themselves how effective a Positively Focused orientation is. This usually happens between the first and second session. So it’s an easy “sell” getting clients bought in to being positive. I have a story cued up offering a real-life example of exactly this kind of thing. It features a client who manifested a result he previously thought impossible.

It will publish later in June.

Why does this always happen? Because the Universe is on our side. When we release beliefs blocking that fact, the Universe’s powerful, positive momentum shines through. When it does as a manifested reality matched to our desires, it literally becomes undeniable that this YCYOR business is real.

That one experience is so powerful, it hooks clients. Even if they can’t feel it yet (because their conscious sensitivity isn’t subtle enough to catch it) their Broader Perspective and the inner parts of their consciousness feel it. And that gets us rolling into more powerful levels of the practice.

In time, their sensitivity increases, as does their conscious awareness that something powerful is happening. Their lives change right before their eyes.

It starts from the inside out. They feel better. They can’t put a finger on why. Many think it’s me, but it’s not. It’s them. Then they start seeing their world match how they’re feeling. The world improves. But only for them.

By then, their interest grows so strong, a positive focus gradually becomes what they want more than anything. It’s not straightforward though. Clients go back and forth between eagerness for what they’re experiencing and falling back into old, distorted beliefs. The more evidence they show themselves, however, with help from me showing where that evidence exists, the more they lean into their Positively Focused orientation.

The clients who let their lives do the talking, become highly influential to others. This is especially true with family members, which explains why so many of my clients are sisters, brothers and spouses of early clients. Those closest to us get front-row seats to how much we change when we become positive, powerful people.

Some clients get really excited about their new lives. Those clients try convincing others with their mouths about how great the practice is. That hardly ever works, because words don’t really convince other people. What convinces them is witnessing with their own eyes the change happening in another. Words just get in the way.

And that’s why the Universe gets in on the act early. Because new clients, when they see, or even better, when they feel the evidence, they can’t deny it: Living Positively Focused is the way to go.