Category: Broader Perspective

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How To Find The Gift In Toxic Work Relationships

Every so often, this practice reveals something so elegantly orchestrated, it takes my breath away.

This past week, two separate clients—each at very different stages of their Positively Focused journey—experienced the same situation from very different perspectives. Each showed up carrying the weight of several difficult interpersonal dynamics going on between them. Both were feeling triggered, off-balance, unsure of themselves.

One is a founder and business owner. I call her Madison. I wrote about her personal experience earlier this week. The other is her employee. I call her Jane. I wrote about her individual experience too. This post seems like it might be a repeat of those previous two posts.

It’s not though.

Instead, this post reveals the sacred opportunities showing up when family members, or, in this case, co-workers, are Positively Focused clients. We get to see the sacred process from two sides; we get a rare glimpse at how two people co-create the larger expansion process happening between us all. Where we each serve as transformation/transmutation angels for one another.

Perfect mirrors and manifestations

From their individual perspectives neither Jane nor Madison knew what was happening for the other person. Neither knew what stirred inside each of them was part of the same vibrational story playing out in perfect divine symmetry in the other.

But I knew.

Madison came to her session feeling frustrated and confused. She believed her employee wasn’t showing up the way she hoped — there was resistance, emotional unpredictability and apparent unwillingness to complete assignments. All that left Madison disappointed, frustrated and angry. She wasn’t sure if she was failing as a leader or simply outgrowing a version of herself that still felt responsible for everyone’s well-being. She also felt she was not get anything in return for what she’s paying Jane.

Jane, two days later, showed up with her own agitation. Something gnawed at her — an emotional static she couldn’t shake. She felt misunderstood. She also felt fear. Her fear was about letting Madison down by failing at assignments Madison gave her.

Jane didn’t want to be a failure in her own eyes either. But Madison’s assignments were vague or unclear. That’s because it’s not only Madison’s first time being a business owner, it’s also her first time being a boss. So she too is insecure in herposition. She, like Jane, also fears failure. But Madison suffers from a double-whammy: potentially seeing herself as a failure and her partner Tom seeing her that way too.

Unbeknownst to Madison, she was getting exactly what she focused on, which is what her fear was calling her attention to. So was Jane. Jane didn’t want to fail in Madison’s eyes. But her fear of failure prompted inaction on vague assignments. She also feared asking clarifying questions because that triggered Madison’s fear which surfaced as frustration in the past.

Isn’t it ironic?

Jane, acting out of her fear, or, rather, not acting, was the perfect reflection of Madison’s fears. Madison’s fears, meanwhile reflected back to Jane her fears. Both women were getting exactly what they were creating; frustrated versions of one another. And both were pointing the finger at the other person!

Conflict invites letting go

And here’s where it becomes divine: Both Madison and Jane were each feeling the same frequency…from opposite sides of the mirror: Fear and insecurity. They were a perfect match, in other words.

Madison was wrestling with the idea that to be a “good” manager — she had never been a manager before — she needed to present a picture of flawlessness. Jane wrestled with the idea that to stay employed, she had to suppress her authenticity. One was over-functioning. The other was under-expressing. Both were reacting to the same energetic pattern: the fear that authenticity isn’t safe.

In their own way, however, each showed up ready to release that distorted belief.

In Madison’s session, she saw how “I must show that I know it all” was an echo from long ago — an old strategy to survive in corporate culture. The strategy wasn’t wrong. It was wise when she worked in the corporate world. It doesn’t work in the small business world though.

What’s more, she’s learning to lead from alignment, not control. But old echos resisted that. So she created a version of Jane reflecting what Madison was doing so Madison could let those old beliefs go.

Ah-ha moments from intensity

In Jane’s session, she saw that her agitation wasn’t dysfunction. It was guidance. A signal that her own expansion was arriving. Not through rebellion, but also through letting go and opening up, softening.

She feared something she couldn’t possibly do: letting herself down and letting Madison down. She needed to trust the version of herself that wanted this opportunity instead of fearing Madison’s reactions as an indication of something bad about her. This fear pointed the way to expansion through authentic expression (asking questions). That version is what Madison needed most. Not a “yes-person”.

A lot more than this was happening in the interpersonal dynamic. But what you just read highlights the main event. As a result, neither woman “fixed” the relationship in our sessions. Instead, they needed an extra session. One in which both attended. We held it shortly after Jane’s. It was intense, as fear is an intense emotion.

But it offered many ah-ha moments for both women. That call wasn’t easy for either of them. But they’re both better now, as is their working relationship, for having it. Both stepped more fully into clarity of who they are becoming…as individuals, as business partners, as employee and employer.

Other people are gifts

They also offered each other a sacred gift: the opportunity to evolve in real-time through authentic, shared contrast. Each was a reflection of the other’s edge. And both navigated it not by hardening, but by softening. Not by demanding change from the other, although both probably wanted that initially, but by each becoming the version of themselves that no longer needed the old patterns.

This is what makes the Positively Focused journey so profound. We begin seeing how nothing is random. How every difficult interaction is divine orchestration. How life isn’t punishing us — it’s partnering with us. Offering mirrored experiences that reflect the exact vibration ready to be released. Often that mirror is other people.

Madison and Jane never planned this coordination. But their Broader Perspective’s did. And in honoring their own unfolding, they became co-creators in each other’s expansion — each woman rising through her own contrast into a new level of sovereignty, understanding, and empowerment.

If you’ve been in a tangled work relationship dynamic lately, pause before blaming or fixing. There’s a mirror waiting to be seen. And often, what looks like conflict is actually harmony in progress — a symphony of expansion tuning itself through two instruments, you and the other person, learning to resonate at a higher frequency.

That’s what I witnessed this week. And it was stunning.

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What Happens When a Boss Triggers an Old Pattern

This week, one of my clients—let’s call her Jane —brought something to our session many people can relate to: growing frustration with her employer.

On the surface, it looked like a straightforward situation. Several tense conversations. Feelings of insecurity and uncertainty. Interpretations that had her feeling dismissed, unseen, and emotionally tangled for days. She described a kind of internal agitation — something wasn’t sitting right, but she couldn’t tell if she was overreacting or if her intuition was trying to warn her of something.

And here’s where it got interesting.

As we followed the threads deeper, Jane realized this wasn’t just about her current employer. It wasn’t even about the comment she was interpreting. It was about much older momentum surfacing through the lens of this moment — an ingrained belief that said: “To stay safe, you must remain agreeable. To be respected, can’t be authentic.”

It was the classic conflict between authenticity and survival. Between speaking in ways aligned with what she felt and believed and keeping the peace. Between honoring her intuitive knowing and fearing the fallout of rocking the boat.

Tears to laughter

As we continued, she began to see the real source of her discomfort: not her boss, but the internalized authority figure she carried inside. The one that mirrored every boss, teacher, parent, or partner who’d ever told her—explicitly or energetically—that her voice was too much, her insight inconvenient, or her sensitivity a liability.

The moment she saw that, her energy shifted. Her struggles remained, but they softened.

What she felt wasn’t wrong. She wasn’t being “too sensitive.” Instead past momentum was resurfacing to be soothed. It’s belief momentum that had once served her, but now only blocks the flow of her sovereignty and expansion.

And here’s the beauty: Soothing that momentum didn’t require confronting her boss. She didn’t need to demand validation or placate her. Her increasing clarity wasn’t about being right in the external world — it was about reclaiming her right to feel sovereign in her being. And therefore, to be able to express herself fully, authentically.

When I described what “reclaiming” looked like, she softened. Jane’s energy shifted more and tears turned to a little laughter. What had felt like emotional blockage revealed itself as expansion in the moment — a calibration to a new version of herself. One that no longer needs to dim in order to stay safe. One that doesn’t mistake tension for danger.

The leader is waiting

What I love most about this kind of session is that the breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing against the external world. It comes from remembering who and what we are.

That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about. We don’t fix the world by wrestling with it. After all, the world doesn’t need fixing. It’s not broken. Nor are we. We’re not broken, nor do we need fixing. Instead, by realigning with our Broader Perspective the world reflects that alignment back to us.

But sometimes, nearly always actually, finding that alignment means letting life’s contrast serve us. Not as a warning, but as an invitation.

If you’ve had a moment recently where someone rubbed you the wrong way, consider that maybe it wasn’t about them at all. Maybe they were the perfect mirror, showing you in that moment where your expansion is ready to come through. And maybe that discomfort is also serving. It’s not that something has gone wrong, rather, your Broader Perspective is inviting you to expand.

If that’s where you are, and you’d like support in making sense of it all without collapsing into it, I’d love to show you what’s possible when you meet contrast from clarity, not fear.

Sometimes the boss is just a stand-in. The real leader is waiting to be you.

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Becoming The Miracle: The Secret Jesus Knew

TL;DR: The author asserts that true healing is alignment, not miracles. By releasing resistance, anyone can experience transformation. Spiritual mastery, like Jesus demonstrated, is our birthright—and it’s closer than we think.

This is not a Christian blog, but the archetype represented by Jesus can help people better understand how the Universe works. It also shows our inherent power and how we can use that power to benefit others and ourselves.

The Bible is not the best way to represent Jesus’ iconic being because Jesus’ story comes surrounded by a bunch of distortion put there by insecure men. Still, with discernment, we can use the story as told in the Bible in our own self-discovery as gods in human form.

Something happened this week, yesterday, in fact (at the time of writing this), in a client call which prompts this post. It’s an extraordinary demonstration. I wrote briefly about it before. The demonstration validates the archetypal story of Jesus healing people. What apparently happened was, I “cured” a client’s allergy…on the spot. Just like Jesus. I’ve included here transcript screenshots from the live session to show exactly what happened.

So “healing” others is a thing. Who knew?

That’s exactly what it looked like. A “healing”. But what really happened requires more depth of understanding and clarification. It also validates why I assert we all are gods in human form. Let’s look at what happened.

Missing the message entirely

Yes, I “healed” a client. That’s not exactly what happened….well it is…but there’s a more accurate way of putting it. So let’s first take look at that.

Many in the New Age and Wellness community talk about “healing”. It’s no surprise. Even the medical community uses that term. I suppose it’s because medical professionals deal with wounds, disease, infections and more. The implication is, such things aren’t part of the holistic nature of the human organism. They represent “injury”. So when they are resolved, when the “injury” no longer exists, medical professionals refer to the resolution as “healing”.

But experiences such as wounds, disease and infections ARE part of the holistic nature of the human organism. Like physical reality, these manifestations are on purpose. They exist to alert the eternal being living in the physical organism to what their dominant vibration is.

That dis-ease or injury happens because further up stream in life experience, the eternal being in question didn’t heed lighter, less intense signals that something in their vibration was amiss. I’ve written many times before that all of life experience functions this way. Life experience is a reflection. A reflection of our inner state.

Life experience is the coarsest method of discovering what our inner state of being is. It’s easiest to perceive because it literally surrounds us. The next, more subtle, indicator of our inner state is our emotions. Those, like physical reality, are hard to miss, but, because they can be subtle, or misinterpreted, many people miss their emotions’ message entirely.

A great way to communicate

The next most subtle indicator is our thoughts and beliefs. For many people, a lot of thoughts and beliefs are inaccessible. Especially those that formed long ago. That’s why we have emotions and physical reality. Those more coarse indicators are harder or impossible to miss.

But the most subtle indicator is vibration. Many people outside of the New Age community don’t even believe vibration is real, let alone perceive it. But it is just as real as thoughts, beliefs, emotions and physical reality. Vibration is extremelysubtle, however, and many people can’t perceive vibration at all. Some can, though. You can too with practice.

So every experience at every level represents divine messaging; communication between the eternal consciousness that is “human” and its Broader Perspective existing exclusively in nonphysical. The communication is intended to have the human consciousness align with its Broader Perspective and therefore achieve ever-increasing joyful expansion. That and the experience of desires fulfilling themselves.

All around us is vibration and subject to our focus. We are divine, vibrational, eternal beings enjoying a human experience that is physical and also a reflection of our inner state of being.

Since most humans can’t perceive vibration most of the time, or even thoughts or beliefs, and sometimes not even emotions, physical reality is a great way through which to communicate. And the physical body is part of “physical reality”. When vibrational disharmony becomes chronic, the body will communicate symptoms of that disharmony. Physical surroundings will kick in next, creating events attempting to alert the human of what’s going on.

There’s nothing to heal

If the human is oblivious, as many are, those alerts get stronger. An itch may turn into a sprain, then to a broken bone or cancer, for example. A negative, disempowering thought, may turn into anxiety in the body. Then that person may receive a stab wound from a violent attacker.

So nothing is happening that needs to “heal”. A communication is underway. And once the eternal consciousness responds to the communication, communication is no longer needed. So the message will go away. “Healing” presumes something has gone wrong. But nothing ever goes wrong, so there’s nothing to heal.

Now, a LOT of momentum of belief exists on the subject of “healing”, “wellness”, science and medicine. And nearly everybody agrees prior to coming into physical reality that these beliefs are “true”. This is why, in many cases, most people can’t do what I’m suggesting: they can’t receive the communication at the level of vibration and thereby eliminate the need for more coarse, intense messages. But some can, which explains instances where people “heal” themselves or others.

So let’s get back to what happened with this client’s allergies. Then I’ll bring in Jesus.

PRAISE Jesus! LOL

An uncovering

The client came to the session obviously bouting with allergies. Her voice was thick, much thicker than normal and she was sniffling. More subtly, I felt her allergy emanating from her in the form of vibration. I asked how she was doing. She said not so good because of this and while talking about it asked what the source of allergies are.

The client asking about the origin of allergies.

My response caused her shoulders to slump because she wants to become resistance-free, which isn’t possible. The source of any manifestation, including illnesses, including even allergies, is one thing: resistance. The client is resisting something active in her Belief Constellation in the moment she’s having the allergic reaction.

When I come to sessions, I am in a very, very high vibration. CIients have mentioned how good it feels coming to sessions because of that. It feels good because, a lot of times, clients (and people in general) aren’t deliberately choosing their vibration. Instead, they’re letting life circumstances do that. That’s what was happening with this client. As I’ll explain next.

She had an experience years ago while working a job she disliked. She also didn’t like her life generally back then. These two conditions are the basis for the manifestation “allergy”. Something needed clearing. But the client didn’t understand this. Nor did she make the connection that she only had allergies in the location where this job was. Anywhere else in the world she didn’t have allergies.

The client describing the original series of events.

Then it happens

After pinpointing the experience that kicked off her allergies, we talked about it as a way of soothing that past experience. Then we changed the subject. By the time we were done talking about that subject, the client had no allergy symptoms.

“Have you noticed that your constitution has improved?” I asked.

“Yes.” she calmly said. Then she went on a charming rant. She talked about playing our past sessions in the background and feeling “some, maybe high vibrational stuff you are infusing into the experience”. Then she mused about bottling me as a kind of elixir, so that she could have me anytime she needed me.

The client realizing how she collapsed into my vibration.

She doesn’t know yet that while, yes, she collapsed into my high vibration and therefore her resistance, which was causing the manifestation called “allergy” couldn’t hold, it was SHE WHO CAUSED THE ALLERGY TO DISAPPEAR. How? Being willing to let go of her resistance.

So yes, I “cured” my client’s allergy. But only as a cooperative component to my client’s willingness to stand in a higher vibrational place by becoming a client in the first place and being open to higher vibration. And this is exactly how Jesus “healed” the “sick”.

Healing, as everything else, is a process of vibrational alignment and mastery of that alignment.

We’re all spiritual masters

Jesus wasn’t some miracle worker and neither am I. Moreover, Jesus was no one special. Sure, he is an ascended master, as he’s referred to in spiritual circles outside Christianity. But his mastery is our heritage. In other words, what he does/did we can do too.

Jesus is a high-vibrational master. When meeting people, he held the highest possible vibrational frequency about people he met. And he refused to acknowledge any other frequency, including frequencies giving rise to resistance, which then gives rise to dis-ease. Since he steadfastly held that focus, others had no choice but to collapse into his vibration. “Others” included the consciousness in the cells of the other person’s body. The cells reached for alignment, but the person’s focus blocked the reaching. So the cells manifested blockage.

But when the person collapsed, so did everything else in their body system. That is exactly what happened with this client. It’s nothing special. When it happened with this client, I wasn’t surprised or even delighted. I simply knew. Just like Jesus.

Again, I’m nothing special compared to other humans. I’ve just dedicated an extraordinary amount of my life to spiritual mastery. And so, these kinds of things are happening. More of these kinds of things are coming too.

We are the same in many ways you and I. We all possess spiritual mastery. A life reflecting that mastery is available to everyone. Perhaps you’re ready to reach for your version. Consider becoming a client today. I’ve included a more affordable way to enjoy the process of becoming Positively Focused and a spiritual master. Check it out.

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Why Clients Find The Positive Life So Powerful

Clients always prove to themselves how effective a Positively Focused orientation is. This usually happens between the first and second session. So it’s an easy “sell” getting clients bought in to being positive. I have a story cued up offering a real-life example of exactly this kind of thing. It features a client who manifested a result he previously thought impossible.

It will publish later in June.

Why does this always happen? Because the Universe is on our side. When we release beliefs blocking that fact, the Universe’s powerful, positive momentum shines through. When it does as a manifested reality matched to our desires, it literally becomes undeniable that this YCYOR business is real.

That one experience is so powerful, it hooks clients. Even if they can’t feel it yet (because their conscious sensitivity isn’t subtle enough to catch it) their Broader Perspective and the inner parts of their consciousness feel it. And that gets us rolling into more powerful levels of the practice.

In time, their sensitivity increases, as does their conscious awareness that something powerful is happening. Their lives change right before their eyes.

It starts from the inside out. They feel better. They can’t put a finger on why. Many think it’s me, but it’s not. It’s them. Then they start seeing their world match how they’re feeling. The world improves. But only for them.

By then, their interest grows so strong, a positive focus gradually becomes what they want more than anything. It’s not straightforward though. Clients go back and forth between eagerness for what they’re experiencing and falling back into old, distorted beliefs. The more evidence they show themselves, however, with help from me showing where that evidence exists, the more they lean into their Positively Focused orientation.

The clients who let their lives do the talking, become highly influential to others. This is especially true with family members, which explains why so many of my clients are sisters, brothers and spouses of early clients. Those closest to us get front-row seats to how much we change when we become positive, powerful people.

Some clients get really excited about their new lives. Those clients try convincing others with their mouths about how great the practice is. That hardly ever works, because words don’t really convince other people. What convinces them is witnessing with their own eyes the change happening in another. Words just get in the way.

And that’s why the Universe gets in on the act early. Because new clients, when they see, or even better, when they feel the evidence, they can’t deny it: Living Positively Focused is the way to go.

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My Latest, Powerful New Gift: PRECOGNITION!

Sometimes the Universe delivers more than a package. It delivers a moment — a perfect, divinely orchestrated moment that reminds us we are seen, supported, and celebrated in our unfolding.

Last week, FedEx delivered my new sit-stand desk. A recent house-sitting gig for a friend inspired the purchase. My friend’s wife owns one. I worked at her desk, loved the experience, and, following an inner nudge, ordered my own.

FedEx scheduled delivery between 9:05 and 11:05 a.m. — standard procedure. But what happened next was anything but ordinary.

As I sat in meditation that morning, I practiced everything I explore in my vibrational expansion — anchoring 5D, 6D, and even 7D consciousness. Staying in wonder. Letting contrast be soft. Letting inspiration be my compass.

And then, right as I was about to make a challenging phone call, I got another nudge: “Go downstairs. Your desk is arriving.”

Now, my Broader Perspective doesn’t speak English. It’s vibration. It therefore communicates through vibration. When I receive that vibration, at first I don’t hear English either. But because English is my native language, my brain translates the vibration into English.

In synch with my Broader Perspective

And that’s how we all interpret all reality. It looks like and feels like we’re seeing and experiencing reality as a separate, concrete thing. It looks objective, distinct from us. But what’s really happening is, we’re translating vibration through our brain and sense organs in a way that gives rise to an appearance of a separate, objective reality.

And this is how abilities such as precognition happen. The reality we perceive is us. It’s a projection of our inner reality. With everything in that reality happening simultaneously, we can, if we allow ourselves, perceive things that haven’t happened yet in linear time terms.

So I got that nudge. No delivery notification via my devices. No sound of a truck. Just a knowing. A knowing I followed immediately.

I stepped outside….but the street was empty. No FedEx truck. Within seconds, however, a FedEx truck rumbled around the corner. The driver saw me, gave me a big thumbs up and pulled right up. He didn’t even check the label — he knew it was for me. As I signed for it, I told him what had just happened. Even he was surprised.

But not as surprised as I was.

The surprise wasn’t that the desk arrived, but how it arrived — perfectly timed with the moment of inspired impulse. That’s not coincidence. That’s convergence.

It’s me, in sync with my Broader Perspective.

Eternal blessings

I share hypothetical examples of this kind of thing with clients. I tell them part of the Positively Focused practice includes learning how to hear Broader Perspective communication. Then, learning how to immediately follow it. Broader Perspective communicates when it does because it sees the big picture. It sees everything, all at once, moving around. So it knows when things are converging.

It also knows what we want. And it’s always focused on guiding us to where what we want unfolds. It, therefore, constantly communicates to us so we can become a cooperative component to that convergence.

That’s why when Broader Perspective nudges us, we must act immediately. If we delay, all the other converging elements will have converged already and moved on. Then we’ll miss the unfolding, the convergence. Not to worry though. We are eternal. Things are constantly converging, over and over. So we never truly miss anything. Unless we ignore Broader Perspective guidance, or can’t hear it at all.

I brought the package upstairs, then shared my story with Sohl. Sohl and I mused about the unfolding, then chose to name the desk in honor of what happened. We call it “The Waystation”.

The Waystation assembled.

We call it The Waystation — because it’s not just a desk. It’s an anchor point in my expanding journey. A place where energy gathers and flows. It’s a threshold between dimensions, dreams, and creations; waypoint on the eternal path of my becoming.

And like all waystations, it is temporary. But the blessing it holds is eternal.

The inner knowing that is precognition

Later that night I put The Waystation together. I’m using it right now and I love it. I especially love how my body feels when I stand at it. The Waystation represents an upgrade on what I had before. We could say it represents an expansion on what came before.

So much joy awaits us in life. That joy constantly flows. And when we choose a positive perspective, we start seeing that joy unfolding. But what’s also cool along the way to experiencing that joy: coming into powers some don’t believe are real. Like shapeshifting, traveling to alternate dimensions, moving through nonphysical meaningfully in fabulous dreams, and….now….like precognition.

That’s what happened. I knew, through my Broader Perspective the truck was near. Then acted through inspiration thereby becoming the final cooperative component of the convergence of elements. In doing so, I delivered not only a wonderful piece of furniture, but a new gift in my unfolding. The ability to perceive beyond linear time.

Let this story remind you, as it reminds me: The Universe always knows where we are. Our desires are always in route. And the signal is always strong — if we’re willing to tune to it, and follow where it leads.

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What Is “Mental Exhaustion” And How To Soothe It

Positively Focused Q-A
Positively Focused Q-A

Question: How do you deal with mental exhaustion when facing a deadline?

Answer: Mental exhaustion is common, particularly among people with a lot of resistance. And nearly every human lives with a lot of resistance, which explains why so many live overstressed and tired.

Sleep is not what many think it is. Sleep is another period of wakefulness. It’s a period of time we leave our bodies. Out of our bodies, we’re coordinating all manner of objectives associated with values at the core of our beings. This becomes obvious in advanced dream work, which comprises part of the Positively Focused practice.

While we’re out of our bodies, our bodies use this dormant period to process chemicals accumulated from interactions between us, the spiritual being we are, and points of consciousness making up our bodies. So sleep is not a period of rejuvenation and rest. Instead, it’s a sacred process of calibration and clearing. Calibration to our desires across dimensions we exist in and clearing of metabolic processes.

It’s vibrational resistance

So dealing with “mental exhaustion” isn’t really bout getting sleep. In fact, this question has many layers. One is the “time” layer; the feeling of mental exhaustion in any given moment.

But this question captures the other more important layer: “what is ‘mental exhaustion’?” Let’s take a look that now.

Mental exhaustion, while it feels mental, what it really is, is spiritual. Any state of exhaustion having no physical origin, such as running a long distance beyond our endurance capacity, comes about when we focus in a way that is resistant to what we want. Mental exhaustion, specifically, is what happens when a person is not focusing positively. In doing that, the person builds up a state of vibrational resistance.

Since people typically don’t know how to release that resistance, or since many don’t even know they’re in a resistant state, the body reflects that persistent vibrational state back to the person as exhaustion. And for most people, the only way to release that exhaustion is in sleep state.

We release resistance in sleep state because we return to nonphysical. Nonphysical, compared to physical reality, contains no resistance. So when we go there, we release all resistance, which is why, sometimes, after a good night’s sleep, we feel better.

An invitation into nonphysical

But many, many people sleep through the night, release resistance, then, the instant they wake, they resume vibrations – thoughts and beliefs – that instantly reintroduce resistance they went to bed with. That’s why some people wake up still feeling tired. They don’t allow the reset button of sleep to allow a fresh start when they wake.

It’s possible to go into the sleep state feeling enthusiastic and eager, instead of feeling exhausted. But we generally believe sleep is for easing exhaustion. So we often delay sleep well beyond when we’re called. For example, I often receive a signal to return to nonphysical. When I do, fatigue doesn’t show up. Instead, it feels like a “pull” or a heaviness in my psyche.

When I follow that invitation and lay down, I typically enjoy extremely joyful and otherwise satisfying dreams. Sometimes I answer the call or pull by laying down and meditating. In that state, I often experience multidimensional consciousness shifts I’ve written about before. In previous posts, I’ve called them “departures”; travels to alternate realities.

And so mental exhaustion is a manifestation. It’s a symptom of holding on to resistance. The way to deal with mental exhaustion, therefore, is to develop a sensitivity to resistance. Then keep resistance to a minimum. That’s a natural benefit of being positively focused.

Creating reality on the fly

With that state chronically developed we don’t experience mental exhaustion. We’re ready to go from one thing to the next thing feeling appreciation and eagerness. And when the pull calls us into nonphysical, and we answer, we experience conscious delight in nonphysical. Then we return to wake state deeply refreshed.

So the way to deal with mental exhaustion is to develop a positively focused attitude.

The problem with doing that is we can’t develop that state in an instant. It requires practice and that practice builds a momentum within us, which we then use to maintain that state.

Another approach available to those with strong positive predispositions is the art of creating reality on the fly. It’s a process where one expresses a series of positive thoughts, meaningfully expressed, until eagerness and empowerment replaces exhaustion or other resistance. In doing that the person aligns themselves with the time line in which exhaustion isn’t part of their reality. Again, this takes practice.

I did this just hours prior to editing this post. What followed is a great example of how powerful creating reality on the fly is.

A powerful creation

I had news I needed to share with a friend that would likely both disappoint and inconvenience them. But I know I can influence that potential outcome through my alignment to a time line in which they’re not disappointed or inconvenienced. So, I aligned myself with that reality where the conversation goes swimmingly. Here are the thoughts I meaningfully expressed:

  • I know my friend is capable of handling this call gracefully
  • I know this call is going to go well
  • I’m going to be fully self-expressed during this call
  • This call is going to go very well
  • I’m going to frame this news positively, because I want to be positively focused
  • My friend is going to find another solution to his needs easily

After expressing this, I felt really positive. That indicated an alignment with the time line I wanted.

Then, something really fun happened indicating that I was, in fact, in a very high vibration. I ordered an automatic sit-stand desk from Amazon days ago. The company and FedEx sent notifications yesterday saying the package would arrive today between 9 and 11 a.m. today. It was 10 a.m. when I did the process above. The minute I finished making those statements above, my Broader Perspective told me to go down to meet the FedEx driver who was delivering my desk.

Mind you, I got no device notification about the delivery.

Spiritual powers: everyone’s ability

But I know when I get spiritual notifications like this — nudges — taking the action immediately will result in a delightful surprise. I texted my friend that I’d call him in five minutes. Then, I went downstairs and out the apartment complex’s front door.

The FedEx truck was no where in sight.

Still, I knew my Broader Perspective doesn’t get it wrong. So I just stood there. In 20 seconds, I swear, the FedEx truck came around the corner. The driver saw me and gave me a thumbs up (how he knew I was the recipient is a spiritual mystery). He parked, came out the back of the truck with the package and gave it to me. I told him what you just read and he was as surprised as I was.

Once back in my apartment, I called my friend. The call went exactly as I expected and I ended it feeling fully self-expressed and delighted at both manifestations.

This shows not only how powerful this process is, but also how, when a person is chronically Positively Focused, such a person develops truly special spiritual capabilities. Capabilities including precognition. But if we’re mentally exhausted, such abilities aren’t available. Too much resistance exists in us.

Everyone can enjoy freedom from mental exhaustion and seeming occult powers such as precognition. Maybe you’re interested in this enough to explore how you can. Book a free 1:1 now.

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AI Wrote My Positively Focused Anthem—and It’s Perfect

TL;DR: A spontaneous gift from a friend—a powerful AI-created anthem—became a thrilling manifestation. This story reveals how alignment with our Broader Perspectives invites joyful surprises beyond imagination.

A wonderful thing happened last month. Something that not only thrilled me, but was a gift from the Universe. It happened through a long-time friend, who delighted and surprised me with something that came totally unexpected.

And that’s how the best manifestations happen, aren’t they? They happen when we least expect them. So when they do happen, we’re thrilled. The thrill is especially strong when we’re already tuned to being a match to the unfolding. That’s how I knew I was ready when this manifestation happened. I already was thrilling from a series of especially powerful manifestations, one of which featured an outstanding mystical experience.

But let’s get back to the manifestation that came through my friend. If you read this whole post and click the link to hear the manifestation itself, I think you’ll be astonished. You’ll be astonished because everyone else who heard it felt the same way when they first heard it.

Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though. Let’s look at how this all happened.

“Next level bonkers”

A client and I interact with one another in between sessions. Several clients and I do that. They take advantage of one of the perks of working with me: almost constant availability. This client and I were working on a followup to an event I hosted about the future. That event sold out and she wanted her network an opportunity to hear it themselves.

So we were talking about details of her event over a text group chat. Included in that group was my friend Mark. He has some resources he offered, such as a venue and a potential other network to promote the event.

One day while I was busy with some other things, Mark texted a link to the group chat. It looked like a link to a song. Now Mark regularly shares stuff like this. He’s an avid audiophile and loves to share music he likes with others. So when I saw the text message, I figured it was something along those lines. Something I could listen to at my leisure.

But he wasn’t just sharing something he liked. He was sharing “next level bonkers”.

The prelude to a chef’s kiss

A legacy anthem

I figured that when I got the next text message, and then another, then another, something else was up. With that, I had to find out what they were raving about.

Mark was right: it was next level bonkers. Check it out: (That link will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.)

Click on the image. It will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.

In case you didn’t listen to it, Mark prompted an Artificial Intelligence (AI) to create a song about me and my Positively Focused practice. In less than 30 seconds, he said, it created this brilliant song. Not just “next level bonkers”, but a freaking legacy anthem just for me!

The minute I heard my name in the song, I got goosebumps. And do you know what’s also really good? Mark did this all his own. Meaning, he didn’t check in with me first. He just did it out of his own inspiration.

Mark has never been a client. He has followed my journey, however. He also has seen how people respond powerfully to working with me. Therefore, he knows what I offer helps people. Of course, he could have created a song about anything. And maybe he did. But the fact he included me in his creative exploration says a lot.

What it really communicates to me though is this: my Broader Perspective worked with his Broader Perspective to create something — a manifestation — my Broader Perspective knew would delight and surprise me. And delight and surprise me it did!

A freaking masterpiece?

Again[!], in case you didn’t listen to it (you really should), here are the lyrics. Once you read them, maybe, you’ll take the time to listen. It really is fantastic.

[Verse]
Old Perry Gruber strollin’ down the road
Got wisdom in his pocket like a heavy load
He whispers truths like a preacher in the night
Positively Focused
Showing people light
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll
[Verse 2]
He speaks of transformation
A personal gold mine
Unraveling the answers you’ve been tryin’ to find
The path to bliss ain’t built on a lie
Take his hand and watch your spirit fly
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll
[Bridge]
It ain’t about hurryin’ or chasing down the win
The secret lies in stillness
Deep within
Gruber’s got a map
But you’ve got the key
Unlock your heart and set yourself free
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll..

A freaking masterpiece, isn’t it? I think so!

Write your own song!

I love how easy it is to allow a life where my moment-by-moment experience includes delights and surprises like this one. It’s especially cool, however, when they happen through my friends. When they happen through strangers, however, they’re really good, because those instances stand out. But when they happen through friends, I enjoy them too. This one is cool because it served many purposes.

I know Mark really enjoyed making it. Maigen enjoyed it too. Her text messages show that. I loved it too, of course. But most of all, I really enjoyed how we all reveled in it together. I also enjoy knowing how this happened with no effort on my part. And I revel in knowing more is in store as I continue to relax, trust and “allow” my Broader Perspective to lead me to where all that I want is unfolding.

You can have this experience — or, rather, your version of this experience — too. You can write your own life song with direct assistance of your Broader Perspective and revel in the results by becoming a client. Becoming a client is easy, and now, I’ve even made it more affordable. My new Cohort sessions feature an up to 60 percent discount over 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life me and my clients enjoy.

Who knows? You might have someone create something that thrills you to no end. Just like Mark, collaborating with the Universe did for me.

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What Happened When One Text Proved We’re All Connected

A joyful confirmation happened yesterday. It happened with a client between sessions. What happened completely confirmed everything clients and I talk about in the Positively Focused practice.

While writing one of these posts yesterday, I got the feeling this client needed encouragement. My Broader Perspective is connected to his Broader Perspective. So I can sometimes tell how he’s doing even if we’re not talking in the moment. It’s the same connection through which I caused a client to step out of “having allergies” as a reality, and into being “allergy free”. Here’s a link to the short story about that. A longer, more detailed explanation will go live in a few weeks.

Back to this client.

So my Broader Perspective, while I was writing the post yesterday, said “reach out to [him] give him a taste of what you’re wanting him to do.” This client is resisting a process that is part of the Positively Focused practice. He’s resisting it because his negative momentum is strong. So strong he can’t overcome it enough to do the process. Ironically, it’s through the process that he’ll overcome it. So the client finds himself in a stuck-paradox. One he’ll break through eventually.

The process involves expressing appreciation for things about his life. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet some clients struggle with it. A lot of times it’s because clients are so oriented to fixing problems and being nose-to-the-grindstone in life, they don’t know how to be appreciative. Or they think it’s dumb. Or, like this client, their dominant negative momentum prevents them from doing it for a time.

When my Broader Perspective told me what it did, I jumped to it. These days I know it’s in my best interest to respond whenever my Broader Perspective calls. So I dashed out a long list of statements as though he were writing it and texted it to him:

By the time I finished this text, I felt high-flying even before I sent it. Even before he responded. But when he did respond, it was a massive moment of confirmation for us both. It proved how accurate this practice is. And it showed how connected we all are. Here’s how he replied followed by my response right after his:

We are all connected. Our society convinces us of the opposite though. We become insecure about, then fearful about others, which then amplifies the separation. In just a little while though, in just a little time spent in a higher vibration, we can uncover the connection that exists, not only between ourselves and All That Is, but with other humans and animals as well.

We come back into our fullness. There we find the mystical, seemingly magical power of co-creation combined with our sovereign clarity. And in that clarity we can offer others reflections that touch them at the deepest parts of what they are. Which is what happened between me and this client yesterday.

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Law of Attraction, Money & the Myth of Magical Spending

A Law of Attraction skeptic told me once that people who follow Law of Attraction are 30 TIMES more likely to file for bankruptcy. While I don’t put stock in statistics, I understand why so many Law of Attraction followers end up in financial straits. A couple client experiences back my knowing up.

One client lived as though he had more money than he does. Rather than living frugally, he spent from his savings and maxed out his credit cards, expecting his stories about money would turn around in his expected time frame. Not only that, he hadn’t paid attention to how much money was coming in, and how much was going out each month. So he was flying financially blind. Now, he’s struggling a bit because his small income from his artistic performance plus his social security are almost completely consumed by credit card debt payments and basic needs like rent and food.

Another client, who also is an artist, had a similar but different experience. This client creates beautiful, hand-woven items from rags. Inspired by my Broader Perspective, I bought one from her to gift to another client. I knew that client would enjoy the artistic expression. At the time, the artist didn’t have their pricing understood. Nor did they know how much it would cost to ship the thing. I bought the item before the client finished it for what I thought was a reasonable price. The artist finished it, then shipped it. The shipping was almost as much as what she asked me to buy the thing!

Generational beliefs about money

I’m clear about how this YCYOR business works, therefore I am keen on my money flows. So when the artist asked me to cover the high shipping cost, I said I would. But I told them I wouldn’t pay it until after tax season. My taxes this year were more than I expected due to my growing client practice, which, in itself is a surprising and delightful outcome of my Positively Focused practice. I thought I had saved enough for taxes. I miscalculated. So I was in austerity mode to cover the balance. Paying for unexpected, high shipping costs for an art item wasn’t on my priority list.

My decision upset the artist. When we talked about it this week, the client asserted that I was not doing the Positively Focused practice. I should pay them now, they said, and just know the money would show up.

But that’s not how this YCYOR business, the Positively Focused practice nor Law of Attraction works. And this misunderstanding gives credence to the 33X statistic.

Money is one of the most challenging manifestations for many people to become a match to. That’s because so many of us (me included) have old beliefs that run counter us being a match to money. A lot of beliefs. Often, those beliefs are GENERATIONAL. Further, these beliefs come with a lot of momentum. So soothing all that momentum will take a while.

How long will it take?

Don’t be a statistic

That’s the question. The answer is; we can’t know. But we can know that it will happen in delightful and surprising timing, aka “divine timing”, which usually means much longer than most people think or want to believe it will happen. So a person thinking they can just spend money because the universe is going to magically soothe all their resistant beliefs and, in short order, give them more money to spend, that person really doesn’t underhand how any of this spiritual stuff works. Especially around money.

Anyone striving to align their life with how the Universe works, be it through Positively Focused, Seth’s teachings or Law of Attraction must first understand key elements of those practices typically not shared in social media, by influencers or in movies like The Secret. When it comes to money, one of the most important things to do as one lines up with more money is to live within one’s means. Live frugally. Thinking money will come in if we freely spend money makes no sense at all. That’s because there’s a ton of beliefs and momentum each one of us has about money that created the money relationship we have. Those beliefs work counter to that expectation that money is coming.

Money is coming. But it’s going happen in divine timing, which is always longer than we think it’s going to happen. That’s why when what we want does happen, it feels like a surprise and a delight.

And if we don’t soothe that nonsensical belief, the one telling us we can spend freely when we don’t have a lot of money, we’ll end up a statistic.

Don’t be that guy.

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Unlocking Hidden Joy: Lessons from My Latest Event

Yesterday gave a presentation on “Unlocking the Joy Waiting For You”. It was an encore event hosted by a client of mine who attended the first version of this presentation. She rebranded it. I talked about several key concepts of Positively Focused, including showing why it’s important to know what our beliefs are and how they form Belief Constellations which are the basis of the reality we experience.

Ten people from around the world attended. Most were quiet, even after the event, which I take to be a good thing. Two people had a lot to say afterwards, and a couple others asked provocative questions. One person said of the event: “It is quite a lot to think about and process.” Another said “This session was an eye opener for me and was glad that I got to be part of this session.”

Those comments are on par with responses I had from the original event. But what I really enjoyed about this one was how empowered I felt about what I shared. Especially after the event, which is quite different from how I felt after the original event.

After the original event, I felt I had failed. But when I checked in with my Broader Perspective, it gave me tremendous goosebumps and shivers, indicating it thought I did fantastically.

A major energy shift

It was right, of course. I know this because a couple days later I got a really positive email from an attendee who raved about the event. He also said he wanted to prioritize becoming a client. An existing client who attended also said they thought the event was “outstanding”.

This time, though, I didn’t doubt how well I did. I knew I did well and the immediate feedback showed that. I’m curious what might come next from this event.

Whatever shows up next, I love how empowered I felt after this event. I enjoyed interactions I had with participants, including the questions they asked. And I appreciate my client who felt the first event so good that she wanted to host a second one.

I wonder, now that it’s over, whether I might host another event in which I present the exact same information. It really is valuable. Especially given the times we’re in. And while I do mean what’s happening economically and in the US with the new administration, I more mean the time in the epochal swing we’re experiencing.

We’re moving through a major shift in energy orientation. New Agers feel it. Those tuned into vibration feel it. I feel it.

We didn’t start the fire

Now, therefore, is a perfect time to discover what enlightened masters have known forever: that we are creating our realities through our focus, our thoughts and beliefs and intentions. As such we can create deliberately a reality that matches our wildest dreams.

But no one will do that for us. We must do it for ourselves.

Sure, the world is going to get better and better as time goes on. Especially as we move through the singularity. But those not aware of what they are will still blame people and circumstances outside themselves for their troubles, thus perpetuating their troubles. Which is exactly what is happening when conservatives and Christians blame gays and trans people for ruining American and when liberals blame billionaires and Trump for all they think is wrong with the world.

Both sides are insecure and powerless.

My presentation was about showing anyone who is ready how to find empowerment. Then how to use that empowerment to create a reality matching their wildest dreams. Even while everyone else thinks the world is burning.

It’s not though. Unless we believe it is.