Question: How do you deal with mental exhaustion when facing a deadline?
Answer: Mental exhaustion is common, particularly among people with a lot of resistance. And nearly every human lives with a lot of resistance, which explains why so many live overstressed and tired.
Sleep is not what many think it is. Sleep is another period of wakefulness. It’s a period of time we leave our bodies. Out of our bodies, we’re coordinating all manner of objectives associated with values at the core of our beings. This becomes obvious in advanced dream work, which comprises part of the Positively Focused practice.
While we’re out of our bodies, our bodies use this dormant period to process chemicals accumulated from interactions between us, the spiritual being we are, and points of consciousness making up our bodies. So sleep is not a period of rejuvenation and rest. Instead, it’s a sacred process of calibration and clearing. Calibration to our desires across dimensions we exist in and clearing of metabolic processes.
It’s vibrational resistance
So dealing with “mental exhaustion” isn’t really bout getting sleep. In fact, this question has many layers. One is the “time” layer; the feeling of mental exhaustion in any given moment.
But this question captures the other more important layer: “what is ‘mental exhaustion’?” Let’s take a look that now.
Mental exhaustion, while it feels mental, what it really is, is spiritual. Any state of exhaustion having no physical origin, such as running a long distance beyond our endurance capacity, comes about when we focus in a way that is resistant to what we want. Mental exhaustion, specifically, is what happens when a person is not focusing positively. In doing that, the person builds up a state of vibrational resistance.
Since people typically don’t know how to release that resistance, or since many don’t even know they’re in a resistant state, the body reflects that persistent vibrational state back to the person as exhaustion. And for most people, the only way to release that exhaustion is in sleep state.
We release resistance in sleep state because we return to nonphysical. Nonphysical, compared to physical reality, contains no resistance. So when we go there, we release all resistance, which is why, sometimes, after a good night’s sleep, we feel better.
An invitation into nonphysical
But many, many people sleep through the night, release resistance, then, the instant they wake, they resume vibrations – thoughts and beliefs – that instantly reintroduce resistance they went to bed with. That’s why some people wake up still feeling tired. They don’t allow the reset button of sleep to allow a fresh start when they wake.
It’s possible to go into the sleep state feeling enthusiastic and eager, instead of feeling exhausted. But we generally believe sleep is for easing exhaustion. So we often delay sleep well beyond when we’re called. For example, I often receive a signal to return to nonphysical. When I do, fatigue doesn’t show up. Instead, it feels like a “pull” or a heaviness in my psyche.
When I follow that invitation and lay down, I typically enjoy extremely joyful and otherwise satisfying dreams. Sometimes I answer the call or pull by laying down and meditating. In that state, I often experience multidimensional consciousness shifts I’ve written about before. In previous posts, I’ve called them “departures”; travels to alternate realities.
And so mental exhaustion is a manifestation. It’s a symptom of holding on to resistance. The way to deal with mental exhaustion, therefore, is to develop a sensitivity to resistance. Then keep resistance to a minimum. That’s a natural benefit of being positively focused.
Creating reality on the fly
With that state chronically developed we don’t experience mental exhaustion. We’re ready to go from one thing to the next thing feeling appreciation and eagerness. And when the pull calls us into nonphysical, and we answer, we experience conscious delight in nonphysical. Then we return to wake state deeply refreshed.
So the way to deal with mental exhaustion is to develop a positively focused attitude.
The problem with doing that is we can’t develop that state in an instant. It requires practice and that practice builds a momentum within us, which we then use to maintain that state.
Another approach available to those with strong positive predispositions is the art of creating reality on the fly. It’s a process where one expresses a series of positive thoughts, meaningfully expressed, until eagerness and empowerment replaces exhaustion or other resistance. In doing that the person aligns themselves with the time line in which exhaustion isn’t part of their reality. Again, this takes practice.
I did this just hours prior to editing this post. What followed is a great example of how powerful creating reality on the fly is.
A powerful creation
I had news I needed to share with a friend that would likely both disappoint and inconvenience them. But I know I can influence that potential outcome through my alignment to a time line in which they’re not disappointed or inconvenienced. So, I aligned myself with that reality where the conversation goes swimmingly. Here are the thoughts I meaningfully expressed:
I know my friend is capable of handling this call gracefully
I know this call is going to go well
I’m going to be fully self-expressed during this call
This call is going to go very well
I’m going to frame this news positively, because I want to be positively focused
My friend is going to find another solution to his needs easily
After expressing this, I felt really positive. That indicated an alignment with the time line I wanted.
Then, something really fun happened indicating that I was, in fact, in a very high vibration. I ordered an automatic sit-stand desk from Amazon days ago. The company and FedEx sent notifications yesterday saying the package would arrive today between 9 and 11 a.m. today. It was 10 a.m. when I did the process above. The minute I finished making those statements above, my Broader Perspective told me to go down to meet the FedEx driver who was delivering my desk.
Mind you, I got no device notification about the delivery.
Spiritual powers: everyone’s ability
But I know when I get spiritual notifications like this — nudges — taking the action immediately will result in a delightful surprise. I texted my friend that I’d call him in five minutes. Then, I went downstairs and out the apartment complex’s front door.
The FedEx truck was no where in sight.
Still, I knew my Broader Perspective doesn’t get it wrong. So I just stood there. In 20 seconds, I swear, the FedEx truck came around the corner. The driver saw me and gave me a thumbs up (how he knew I was the recipient is a spiritual mystery). He parked, came out the back of the truck with the package and gave it to me. I told him what you just read and he was as surprised as I was.
Once back in my apartment, I called my friend. The call went exactly as I expected and I ended it feeling fully self-expressed and delighted at both manifestations.
This shows not only how powerful this process is, but also how, when a person is chronically Positively Focused, such a person develops truly special spiritual capabilities. Capabilities including precognition. But if we’re mentally exhausted, such abilities aren’t available. Too much resistance exists in us.
Everyone can enjoy freedom from mental exhaustion and seeming occult powers such as precognition. Maybe you’re interested in this enough to explore how you can. Book a free 1:1 now.
TL;DR: A spontaneous gift from a friend—a powerful AI-created anthem—became a thrilling manifestation. This story reveals how alignment with our Broader Perspectives invites joyful surprises beyond imagination.
A wonderful thing happened last month. Something that not only thrilled me, but was a gift from the Universe. It happened through a long-time friend, who delighted and surprised me with something that came totally unexpected.
And that’s how the best manifestations happen, aren’t they? They happen when we least expect them. So when they do happen, we’re thrilled. The thrill is especially strong when we’re already tuned to being a match to the unfolding. That’s how I knew I was ready when this manifestation happened. I already was thrilling from a series of especially powerful manifestations, one of which featured an outstanding mystical experience.
But let’s get back to the manifestation that came through my friend. If you read this whole post and click the link to hear the manifestation itself, I think you’ll be astonished. You’ll be astonished because everyone else who heard it felt the same way when they first heard it.
Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though. Let’s look at how this all happened.
“Next level bonkers”
A client and I interact with one another in between sessions. Several clients and I do that. They take advantage of one of the perks of working with me: almost constant availability. This client and I were working on a followup to an event I hosted about the future. That event sold out and she wanted her network an opportunity to hear it themselves.
So we were talking about details of her event over a text group chat. Included in that group was my friend Mark. He has some resources he offered, such as a venue and a potential other network to promote the event.
One day while I was busy with some other things, Mark texted a link to the group chat. It looked like a link to a song. Now Mark regularly shares stuff like this. He’s an avid audiophile and loves to share music he likes with others. So when I saw the text message, I figured it was something along those lines. Something I could listen to at my leisure.
But he wasn’t just sharing something he liked. He was sharing “next level bonkers”.
The prelude to a chef’s kiss
A legacy anthem
I figured that when I got the next text message, and then another, then another, something else was up. With that, I had to find out what they were raving about.
Mark was right: it was next level bonkers. Check it out: (That link will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.)
Click on the image. It will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.
In case you didn’t listen to it, Mark prompted an Artificial Intelligence (AI) to create a song about me and my Positively Focused practice. In less than 30 seconds, he said, it created this brilliant song. Not just “next level bonkers”, but a freaking legacy anthem just for me!
The minute I heard my name in the song, I got goosebumps. And do you know what’s also really good? Mark did this all his own. Meaning, he didn’t check in with me first. He just did it out of his own inspiration.
Mark has never been a client. He has followed my journey, however. He also has seen how people respond powerfully to working with me. Therefore, he knows what I offer helps people. Of course, he could have created a song about anything. And maybe he did. But the fact he included me in his creative exploration says a lot.
What it really communicates to me though is this: my Broader Perspective worked with his Broader Perspective to create something — a manifestation — my Broader Perspective knew would delight and surprise me. And delight and surprise me it did!
A freaking masterpiece?
Again[!], in case you didn’t listen to it (you really should), here are the lyrics. Once you read them, maybe, you’ll take the time to listen. It really is fantastic.
[Verse] Old Perry Gruber strollin’ down the road Got wisdom in his pocket like a heavy load He whispers truths like a preacher in the night Positively Focused Showing people light [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll [Verse 2] He speaks of transformation A personal gold mine Unraveling the answers you’ve been tryin’ to find The path to bliss ain’t built on a lie Take his hand and watch your spirit fly [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll [Bridge] It ain’t about hurryin’ or chasing down the win The secret lies in stillness Deep within Gruber’s got a map But you’ve got the key Unlock your heart and set yourself free [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll..
A freaking masterpiece, isn’t it? I think so!
Write your own song!
I love how easy it is to allow a life where my moment-by-moment experience includes delights and surprises like this one. It’s especially cool, however, when they happen through my friends. When they happen through strangers, however, they’re really good, because those instances stand out. But when they happen through friends, I enjoy them too. This one is cool because it served many purposes.
I know Mark really enjoyed making it. Maigen enjoyed it too. Her text messages show that. I loved it too, of course. But most of all, I really enjoyed how we all reveled in it together. I also enjoy knowing how this happened with no effort on my part. And I revel in knowing more is in store as I continue to relax, trust and “allow” my Broader Perspective to lead me to where all that I want is unfolding.
You can have this experience — or, rather, your version of this experience — too. You can write your own life song with direct assistance of your Broader Perspective and revel in the results by becoming a client. Becoming a client is easy, and now, I’ve even made it more affordable. My new Cohort sessions feature an up to 60 percent discount over 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life me and my clients enjoy.
Who knows? You might have someone create something that thrills you to no end. Just like Mark, collaborating with the Universe did for me.
A joyful confirmation happened yesterday. It happened with a client between sessions. What happened completely confirmed everything clients and I talk about in the Positively Focused practice.
While writing one of these posts yesterday, I got the feeling this client needed encouragement. My Broader Perspective is connected to his Broader Perspective. So I can sometimes tell how he’s doing even if we’re not talking in the moment. It’s the same connection through which I caused a client to step out of “having allergies” as a reality, and into being “allergy free”. Here’s a link to the short story about that. A longer, more detailed explanation will go live in a few weeks.
Back to this client.
So my Broader Perspective, while I was writing the post yesterday, said “reach out to [him] give him a taste of what you’re wanting him to do.” This client is resisting a process that is part of the Positively Focused practice. He’s resisting it because his negative momentum is strong. So strong he can’t overcome it enough to do the process. Ironically, it’s through the process that he’ll overcome it. So the client finds himself in a stuck-paradox. One he’ll break through eventually.
The process involves expressing appreciation for things about his life. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet some clients struggle with it. A lot of times it’s because clients are so oriented to fixing problems and being nose-to-the-grindstone in life, they don’t know how to be appreciative. Or they think it’s dumb. Or, like this client, their dominant negative momentum prevents them from doing it for a time.
When my Broader Perspective told me what it did, I jumped to it. These days I know it’s in my best interest to respond whenever my Broader Perspective calls. So I dashed out a long list of statements as though he were writing it and texted it to him:
By the time I finished this text, I felt high-flying even before I sent it. Even before he responded. But when he did respond, it was a massive moment of confirmation for us both. It proved how accurate this practice is. And it showed how connected we all are. Here’s how he replied followed by my response right after his:
We are all connected. Our society convinces us of the opposite though. We become insecure about, then fearful about others, which then amplifies the separation. In just a little while though, in just a little time spent in a higher vibration, we can uncover the connection that exists, not only between ourselves and All That Is, but with other humans and animals as well.
We come back into our fullness. There we find the mystical, seemingly magical power of co-creation combined with our sovereign clarity. And in that clarity we can offer others reflections that touch them at the deepest parts of what they are. Which is what happened between me and this client yesterday.
A Law of Attraction skeptic told me once that people who follow Law of Attraction are 30 TIMES more likely to file for bankruptcy. While I don’t put stock in statistics, I understand why so many Law of Attraction followers end up in financial straits. A couple client experiences back my knowing up.
One client lived as though he had more money than he does. Rather than living frugally, he spent from his savings and maxed out his credit cards, expecting his stories about money would turn around in his expected time frame. Not only that, he hadn’t paid attention to how much money was coming in, and how much was going out each month. So he was flying financially blind. Now, he’s struggling a bit because his small income from his artistic performance plus his social security are almost completely consumed by credit card debt payments and basic needs like rent and food.
Another client, who also is an artist, had a similar but different experience. This client creates beautiful, hand-woven items from rags. Inspired by my Broader Perspective, I bought one from her to gift to another client. I knew that client would enjoy the artistic expression. At the time, the artist didn’t have their pricing understood. Nor did they know how much it would cost to ship the thing. I bought the item before the client finished it for what I thought was a reasonable price. The artist finished it, then shipped it. The shipping was almost as much as what she asked me to buy the thing!
Generational beliefs about money
I’m clear about how this YCYOR business works, therefore I am keen on my money flows. So when the artist asked me to cover the high shipping cost, I said I would. But I told them I wouldn’t pay it until after tax season. My taxes this year were more than I expected due to my growing client practice, which, in itself is a surprising and delightful outcome of my Positively Focused practice. I thought I had saved enough for taxes. I miscalculated. So I was in austerity mode to cover the balance. Paying for unexpected, high shipping costs for an art item wasn’t on my priority list.
My decision upset the artist. When we talked about it this week, the client asserted that I was not doing the Positively Focused practice. I should pay them now, they said, and just know the money would show up.
But that’s not how this YCYOR business, the Positively Focused practice nor Law of Attraction works. And this misunderstanding gives credence to the 33X statistic.
Money is one of the most challenging manifestations for many people to become a match to. That’s because so many of us (me included) have old beliefs that run counter us being a match to money. A lot of beliefs. Often, those beliefs are GENERATIONAL. Further, these beliefs come with a lot of momentum. So soothing all that momentum will take a while.
How long will it take?
Don’t be a statistic
That’s the question. The answer is; we can’t know. But we can know that it will happen in delightful and surprising timing, aka “divine timing”, which usually means much longer than most people think or want to believe it will happen. So a person thinking they can just spend money because the universe is going to magically soothe all their resistant beliefs and, in short order, give them more money to spend, that person really doesn’t underhand how any of this spiritual stuff works. Especially around money.
Anyone striving to align their life with how the Universe works, be it through Positively Focused, Seth’s teachings or Law of Attraction must first understand key elements of those practices typically not shared in social media, by influencers or in movies like The Secret. When it comes to money, one of the most important things to do as one lines up with more money is to live within one’s means. Live frugally. Thinking money will come in if we freely spend money makes no sense at all. That’s because there’s a ton of beliefs and momentum each one of us has about money that created the money relationship we have. Those beliefs work counter to that expectation that money is coming.
Money is coming. But it’s going happen in divine timing, which is always longer than we think it’s going to happen. That’s why when what we want does happen, it feels like a surprise and a delight.
And if we don’t soothe that nonsensical belief, the one telling us we can spend freely when we don’t have a lot of money, we’ll end up a statistic.
Yesterday gave a presentation on “Unlocking the Joy Waiting For You”. It was an encore event hosted by a client of mine who attended the first version of this presentation. She rebranded it. I talked about several key concepts of Positively Focused, including showing why it’s important to know what our beliefs are and how they form Belief Constellations which are the basis of the reality we experience.
Ten people from around the world attended. Most were quiet, even after the event, which I take to be a good thing. Two people had a lot to say afterwards, and a couple others asked provocative questions. One person said of the event: “It is quite a lot to think about and process.” Another said “This session was an eye opener for me and was glad that I got to be part of this session.”
Those comments are on par with responses I had from the original event. But what I really enjoyed about this one was how empowered I felt about what I shared. Especially after the event, which is quite different from how I felt after the original event.
After the original event, I felt I had failed. But when I checked in with my Broader Perspective, it gave me tremendous goosebumps and shivers, indicating it thought I did fantastically.
A major energy shift
It was right, of course. I know this because a couple days later I got a really positive email from an attendee who raved about the event. He also said he wanted to prioritize becoming a client. An existing client who attended also said they thought the event was “outstanding”.
This time, though, I didn’t doubt how well I did. I knew I did well and the immediate feedback showed that. I’m curious what might come next from this event.
Whatever shows up next, I love how empowered I felt after this event. I enjoyed interactions I had with participants, including the questions they asked. And I appreciate my client who felt the first event so good that she wanted to host a second one.
I wonder, now that it’s over, whether I might host another event in which I present the exact same information. It really is valuable. Especially given the times we’re in. And while I do mean what’s happening economically and in the US with the new administration, I more mean the time in the epochal swing we’re experiencing.
We’re moving through a major shift in energy orientation. New Agers feel it. Those tuned into vibration feel it. I feel it.
We didn’t start the fire
Now, therefore, is a perfect time to discover what enlightened masters have known forever: that we are creating our realities through our focus, our thoughts and beliefs and intentions. As such we can create deliberately a reality that matches our wildest dreams.
But no one will do that for us. We must do it for ourselves.
Sure, the world is going to get better and better as time goes on. Especially as we move through the singularity. But those not aware of what they are will still blame people and circumstances outside themselves for their troubles, thus perpetuating their troubles. Which is exactly what is happening when conservatives and Christians blame gays and trans people for ruining American and when liberals blame billionaires and Trump for all they think is wrong with the world.
Both sides are insecure and powerless.
My presentation was about showing anyone who is ready how to find empowerment. Then how to use that empowerment to create a reality matching their wildest dreams. Even while everyone else thinks the world is burning.
TL;DR: The author recounts a recent experience of intense physical sensations, confirming their progress in mastering shapeshifting. This experience, coupled with past Ayahuasca journeys, suggests a separation of identity from the physical body is necessary for successful shapeshifting. The author remains optimistic, believing their desires are manifesting and their body is calibrating to achieve these transformations.
Things are heating up around results showing I’m becoming a shapeshifter. Indeed, what happened last night (on Dec. 31) is the most intense, confirming event yet. It literally had me marveling. Marveling at the experience and marveling at how far I’ve come.
Shapeshifting is among the leading-edge manifestations I’m expressing as a master of the deliberate creation process. Yes, that’s right. I’m coming into owning that I’ve mastered creating my reality. As a result, I’m wanting to see how far I can take this You Create Your Own Reality (YCYOR) business Seth talks about.
Abraham says whatever the Universe gives you the wherewithal to conceive you can achieve by the power Law of Attraction. Seth has said we would find life far more fascinating by exploring the mobility of our consciousness as intently as we explore the world around us.
My experiences confirm this. So much of my life is turning out to be a magnificent adventure of exploration. Of self-exploration, and an exploration of All That Is in the microcosm (me), which allows access to understanding the macrocosm (All That Is).
Let’s look at what happened last night as a way of enjoying the wonderful unfolding taking place.
The experience
Last night, about 20 minutes prior to getting in bed, a happening unfolded. That happening I’m totally up to speed with, and so I wasn’t excited about it nor was I scared. As I moved about preparing for bed, my face and neck started changing. It’s the same sensation I feel sometimes when meditating, only this time I wasn’t doing that. The skin about my neck and head, particularly around my face, felt like it wanted to change into something else.
Recognizing this, I accepted what was happening. I knew it was my cells, the cooperative component energies comprising this body, calibrating to the action I put in motion with the intention of becoming a shapeshifter. So as strange as it felt, I accepted it until I became comfortable with it.
Then I got in bed. The moment I did, the moment I got comfortable, sensations I felt in my neck and face took over my entire body. Again, had I not known what was happening, had I not known I did this, I would have been frightened. Instead, I marveled at the sensations while being indifferent about what was happening. I knew if I tried to tangle my awareness into it, by trying to egg it on or focus it in some way, that would put the kibosh on it.
Well, that worked.
Things get even weirder
Because what happened next was the sensations amplified by probably 5-10X! It wasn’t uncomfortable or scary, but it was new. I hadn’t experienced this total body involvement before while being out of meditation!
At a couple of points in the process, it felt like a giant hole opened in my mattress exactly where the base of my spine was. I felt the body, or me as conscious energy, perhaps, being drawn into that hole, like I was debris being sucked down a drainpipe. I remained calm, observing how strong these sensations got, especially around my spine.
What’s really interesting about this experience was a similar experience I had while being guided by Mother Ayahuasca some time ago. During one particular session, my goal was to deeply understand what I am beyond my physical body.
Abraham confirming that everything is possible. Any desire inspired by physical reality is ours to have. But only when we line up with that, meaning, when we believe it’s possible.
Confirming the experience
That deeper understanding I received was overwhelming. The amount or intensity of the energy that I am, that I revealed to myself to be, was so infinite I couldn’t bear to be in my human form and witness it at the same time. That energy focused itself and spilled out into me and through me right at the center of my belly: the same place where I was “sinking” into last night! It was exactly the same sensation!
Here are notes from that Aya journey, written in my journal right after that event:
The peak experience was first recognizing me in my fullness. I’m literally more than I can handle in this physical framework. I[t] was so intense and expansive….I radiate out of my belly, but maybe even centered more around my pelvic region. I swirl. And in the swirling I expand outward.
But the biggest part of this experience of me was how powerful my focus is. It’s SO FREAKING STRONG….overwhelming really. Just pure, immense, unlimited energy…focused in the direction of this physical, consensual reality….just awesome.
So that’s how the peak experience started. I couldn’t feel the enormity of me though. I felt that had I done that, I would have gotten into some trouble…
So clearly, there’s an overlap of experience here, a confirmation. Both events indicating that I was identifying, then moving my identity into, the core of what I am. And that’s an important step in shapeshifting, because, as I’ve said before, my identity must separate from my physical body for the body to adopt the new vibrational frequencies I’m focusing shifting into. Not making that separation will result in fear. Mostly fear of annihilation, which is what the shifting will feel like if I identify with my body. That fear will instantly halt the shifting.
“Ok, you’re ready for more”
What’s interesting is, these shapeshifting preparedness events are coming closer together, meaning, I think, that I’m getting more and more familiar with the full-blown version of this ability. Because of that, my Broader Perspective may be giving me more such events closer together, like it’s saying “ok, you’re ready for more….here you go…”
This whole event probably would have gone on as long as I was open to it. But I needed the body to sleep. I wanted to get into nonphysical. So I turned over to go to sleep, but the sensations continued. They continued, as far as I know, until I fell asleep.
My nonphysical sleep travels were no less rewarding. They included confirmation of my success in this life as well as me working through gender-related beliefs that are partly responsible for my shapeshifting desires.
I woke from these dreams the next morning (this morning, as I’m writing this right after my meditation) feeling joyful and full of satisfying feelings of accomplishment, self-awareness, and passion.
Anything is possible
Waking from dreams feeling that way is a great sign. I felt so sure my shapeshifter desire is fulfilling itself, I took a full-body photo of myself as male so as to have a record of the coming changes.
Then I went into meditation this morning, with last night’s dreams and the evening before’s experience front-of-mind. It’s no surprise then that sensations from the evening before returned. Only this time, they continued, even as, while in meditation, I focused on dream recall and focusing on being conscious of my conscious awareness. The sensations increased, and I felt my hips starting to widen. I also felt my shoulders slender as they did before…
The sensations continued until and past the hour meditation chime. I came out of meditation six minutes after that.
This is a good sign. My body and the energies comprising it, are calibrating. They’re preparing to align with and deliver the experience I set an intention to have.
So much progress is happening along all the desires I’ve held for some time. It’s awesome that in such a short time, so much progress has shown itself. What’s powerful about all this is both Abraham and Seth say we can create anything we want. Anything we can conceive can be our experience.
I like knowing that and seeing it confirmed in my experience.
BONUS MATERIAL: (Unedited) Personal Notes from the Ayahuasca-assisted travel I took:
I wanted to offer the full description of that Aya event so as to put the excerpt above in context. If you’ve had such an experience, what you’re going to read may sound and even feel familiar. The “(Source Confirmation)” phrases are moments where, as I wrote what preceded the phrase, my Broader Perspective sent thrills and goosebumps through my body thereby confirming/affirming what I wrote.
Integration
Wow. Just extraordinary. The journey was everything I asked for. So many visuals, direct experiences and expansionary first-hand “lessons”.
The peak experience was first recognizing me in my fullness. I’m literally more than I can handle in this physical framework. I was so intense and expansive….I radiate out of my belly, but maybe even centered more around my pelvic region. I swirl. And in the swirling I expand outward.
But the biggest part of this experience of me was how powerful my focus is. It’s SO FREAKING STRONG….overwhelming really. Just pure, immense, unlimited energy…focused in the direction of this physical, consensual reality….just awesome.
So that’s how the peak experience started. I couldn’t feel the enormity of me though. I felt that had I done that, I would have gotten into some trouble. I can see now, how, because of what I’ll offer later, I experienced that “negative” energy. It wasn’t negative. It was the outcome, the natural by-product of my focus at that time. Sloppy focus really, if I’m honest with myself.
Anyway, then my Broader Perspective came into my awareness. This introduction came so easily, so effortlessly, like the natural next step of my journey. My Broader Perspective was immense too, but not as powerful as me. I think (Source Confirmation) that’s because I’m focused TOTALLY here, while my Broader Perspective focuses in many places simultaneously. I’m expanding into that capacity too. But right now, my focus seem total on this plane.
I reveled in my Broader Perspective awareness and I think, around the same time, I experienced seeing innumerable beings arrange themselves on baseball playing cards. There were so many! At first I wanted to stop the process because, well, sports isn’t that interesting to me. But then I heard myself, my Broader Perspective suggest this was a better interpretation of my cadre than military or even corporate imagery. I LOVED THAT.
So I allowed it to continue into my experience…
By the way, my journey began with me focusing on the idea of being surrounded by light, grounded in awareness of my place in All That Is, safe and secure. That set of thoughts served me extremely well and allowed me to deliberately focus at points where I may not have in past sessions.
Ok, back to the peak.
SO THEN, me, my cadre and my Broader Perspective were all “squashed” against what felt like an IMMENSE bowl. We were all “pushed” “downwards” and in our places flowed this super-soft, but no less intense energy….which I knew immediately was my Broader Perspective’s Broader Perspective. My mother, in other words.
It felt so immense and full of softness, love and awareness. Like my Broader Perspective it wasn’t fully directed at me, but the part that visited was so pure, loving and immediately identifiable as me, there was no mistaking. I think also, me grounding myself in my place allowed that experience to be so gentle and affirming.
And affirming it was! I dwelt so long (seemingly) in its presence and felt so much love for “her”.
After that experience, well, not quite “after”, I think all these experiences happen outside of time, but, you know, language. So after that experience I started experiencing all kinds of thoughts. I saw how All That Is just flows wherever I direct my focus. In many of these thoughts I allowed my focus to linger in them as they all became “more”. At some point, however, the “more” became uncomfortable or in some cases not aligned with my core intents. So in almost every case, even in cases where the thought I started with was aligned with “love”, I turned away…I wonder if that’s because staying in those directions would have taken me into a different consensus reality? (Source Confirmation).
I see!
And I’m not done with this one yet! Which is interesting because earlier in the evening I felt some dull pain in my heart. I thought briefly that it might be a heart attack. But I knew better than to dwell on that. So I changed my thoughts and, sure enough, the situation passed….
There were many of those situations where I focused elsewhere and the unwanted passed…just like all the ascended masters say!
So at the start of this journey, almost in the first few moments, all my questions were answered with the general answer “all in divine timing”. Then it addressed the fact that ALL of my desires are being fulfilled. That was so freaking trust-building! The phrase “all in divine timing” repeated and repeated for a long time as All That Is also provided more detail to other questions I had.
I also experienced what it would feel like to have direct awareness of all these things in All That Is, the flow of ideas turning into things, while at the same time trying to focus on one existence plane. Frankly, I don’t think that’s possible or even preferable. It would be extremely distracting I think. My experience seemed to show that…
Throughout the entire journey, I felt completely safe most of the time. There were times where I felt myself veering out of that safety, but I was alert enough to catch it and redirect my energies. But for the most part, the unfolding of this journey was super-gentle, loving and flowed at a pace where I experienced everything in a way I could digest. Mother Aya is awesome!
So the amount I used is perfect. I’m sticking with that procedure. As far as regularity is concerned, I don’t need to do this weekly at all. Even monthly is too frequent. While on the trip, I thought once a year is fine. So in that case, I have plenty of material to last at least a few years.
I’m eager for the “all in divine timing” to continue unfolding. Like this experience, I know now that all is unfolding in a way perfectly timed so that I can savor it all. This was a WONDERFUL experience for sure.
One other thing! I soothed my attachment to the View Estate! OMG, this is so awesome. I stood on the terrace, then felt how disconnected it is from the land. Then I went to the basement floor and realized it would suck going downstairs in order to be on the land.
Then, I went into this whole new environment. There I saw all my cadre unfolding the PERFECT HOUSE FOR ME!!! It had everything I want….flat land, lot utilization, South facing and more…it was PERFECT.
TL;DR: The author recounts a week of experiences, highlighting the importance of alignment with one’s Broader Perspective. Despite initial plans falling through, the author’s willingness to go with the flow led to a solo trip to the Oregon coast, filled with unexpected joys and breathtaking beauty. This experience serves as a reminder that the Universe delivers what we want, often in unexpected and more satisfying ways.
Yesterday, Thursday, something remarkable happened. Although I’m not that surprised because my alignment to All That Is is producing so many remarkable experiences I find myself barely able to keep up with it all.
What happened Thursday is worth sharing though because it offers so many learning opportunities. Especially for those just beginning, following Law of Attraction, working with the Seth material or other similar practices. What happened also shows how everything we want results from us being aligned. And, that “result” comes as a result of being able to hear; hearing and then immediately following our Broader Perspective guidance.
Let’s dive in.
Soothing destabilization
I’m writing this on Friday, the day after what happened. But the story begins almost exactly one week ago. Last week, I wanted to go to the Oregon coast. I thought it would be a great time to go with a friend of mine. I’ll call her Grace. Grace is pretty spiritually aware. A big aspect of her spiritual orientation is dream work. Her spiritual orientation allows her and I to enjoy our time together.
But Grace also has a past. Like many of us, myself included, she lived her life in contrast: “negative” experiences offering clarity. Clarity she would only realize after the fact. For example, she was part a Christian cult for many years. She met and married her “wasband” in that cult. She also worked many years in a private company I won’t mention that subjected her to a lot of experiences not aligned with who she now knows herself to be.
All that contrast she’s still working through today. From time-to-time a past belief will pop up and destabilize her. Most times, her response to them is admirable. She catches it, soothes herself, then goes on. Sometimes it takes only moments. But sometimes it’s days or weeks.
In the latter instances I won’t hear from her, but I can feel her energy calibrating…
It’s never wrong
So on Tuesday last week I called Grace. I suggested we head to the coast Thursday. She was all in and told me to expect her at my apartment at 10 am Thursday morning.
Thursday morning at 9:30 she texted me. She’d be 20 minutes late, she said. No biggie, I thought, although her being late seems to be developing into a pattern. She arrived 10 minutes earlier than she expected, still 11 minutes late.
When I met her at her car, I could tell something was up. I asked what was happening and tears started flowing down her face. Grace explained that she had a tough morning that involved struggling with technology then wrestling with thoughts and beliefs about always being late, being hard on herself and more. She even worried that I would be mad at her if she arrived late.
I wasn’t mad in that moment. I was more curious. But I did feel some annoyance that she was late.
“Who cares if I get mad?” I asked. “It doesn’t really matter.”
Of course it doesn’t matter. When a person is feeling any emotion, especially negative ones, that emotion has nothing to do with anything happening outside that person. A Positively Focused practice makes this obvious.
But people often take other peoples’ emotional state as indicating they did something wrong. That’s never the case, but we’re all taught at an early age that we can make people feel different things. Again, this is not accurate.
Communication from angels
Eventually it was clear Grace was in no shape to head to the coast. I suggested she head back home and relax instead. I told her I would be totally ok with that. Soothed a bit more, Grace agreed. I got out of her car and she drove off.
I would have enjoyed heading to the coast, but obviously today wasn’t the day. Relaxing myself, I then went back up to my apartment and focused on getting some things done and enjoying my day off. Friday and the weekend came and went.
Tuesday the following week, I wanted to go on a run. The weather wasn’t cooperating though. It started raining although the forecast showed it wouldn’t rain until five hours later. I felt frustrated about that. In that moment I saw 1313 on my phone. I keep my phone on military time, so “1313” is the same as 1:13 p.m. The military time version however is what’s called an “Angel Number” in New Age Circles.
According to experts, 1313 often appears during moments of change, challenge, or shifting emotions, offering reassurance and guidance to help us navigate these experiences with grace. So I knew this Angel Number signified my frustration and an opportunity to navigate that feeling into a better-feeling one. I did so, and shortly after, received the number 1331 on my phone which also is an Angel Number.
1331 is the mirror of 1313. 1331 emphasizes growth through challenges and creatively navigating disruptions. It encourages forward momentum and trust in the process. It also reflects harmony between the inner self and outer circumstances. Seeing 1331 after seeing 1313 indicates a shift into alignment.
I did feel better. But what happened later in the week I know happened because of this inner shift I made.
Going with the flow
Every morning I typically meditate at least once for an hour. Usually I meditate twice, once in the very early morning and again after waking up for the day. On Thursday, none of that happened. I slept through the night Wednesday night. When I woke Thursday, my Broader Perspective spoke to me as clear as someone right next to me.
They said “Go to the Oregon coast today.”
Of course when my Broader Perspective tells me to do something, I usually snap to it. This was no different. It would require renting a car because I don’t have one. I checked the weather and…holy smokes…it was going to be perfect all day. Sunny skies and 55 degrees, both in the city and out on the Oregon coast!
I Googled “rental cars” and got a booking website. The first offering for the date and time I selected was for a Fiat sports car for only $36 a day! What a deal! I checked the details and booked the car. Arriving at the rental center, a friendly counter agent greeted me. I asked if I would get that Fiat and he said no, those cars are reserved at the airport only.
I was slightly disappointed, but remembered the message inherent in 1313. This was an adventure and I was going to go with the flow of it!
Instead of a Fiat, I got a Chevy Malibu, which was actually a comfortable car. What I liked most about it was Apple CarPlay which allowed me to play my music through the car’s excellent speakers.
But the best part was the cost: less than $100 for a 2-day car rental! Insurance included!
A spectacular adventure
My drive to the coast was nothing short of spectacular. Having no responsibility and no job, I took my time, stopping at places and stretching, admiring the views, basically enjoying the whole trip. It was nice traveling the speed limit rather than trying to rush to the destination. I had no destination after all. It was a pure, joyful, solitary adventure.
I planned to head to Cannon Beach or Manzanita, two of my favorite Oregon coast spots. But my Broader Perspective had other plans. After heading through Astoria and admiring that coastal city, my Broader Perspective encouraged me to explore someplace I hadn’t before: a small hamlet called Gearhart.
O.M.G.
Gearhart featured a near-deserted beach stretching at least 10 miles! It was totally flat, the tide was out, and the only others out there besides me were clam hunters. What’s more, the temperature was near 60 degrees! That’s unheard of in December. Usually also in winter the winds pick up on the beach. Not today. The winds barely blew. So I was toasty as I walked up and down the beach for about four hours.
As the sun began setting I got ready to head back to the Malibu. But again, my Broader Perspective had other plans. It encouraged me to wait and enjoy the sunset. There was still an hour before the sun would go down so I grabbed a spot on a really beautiful weatherworn bench and read from my reading device. Then, as the sun set, the sky included a dappling of clouds that arrived in perfect timing.
The glorious sunset at Gearhart, Oregon.
Delivering what we want
As the sun went down it played with earth’s atmosphere to create what I swear was an oil painting in the sky. It was absolutely gorgeous. And, as the sun set I felt warm, magical and blessed as I marveled at how, just a week ago I wanted to visit the beach. And here I was, me and my Broader Perspective, witnessing and appreciating and reveling in an age-old pursuit: enjoying the sun setting.
What great guidance! It was one of the best sunsets I’ve ever seen. After the sun went down, I walked back to the Malibu, then enjoyed a peaceful, easy drive back to my apartment. Of course, I got perfect parking, then reveled in my home.
I reveled in how I held no resistance to not being able to go to the beach last week. In doing so, I lined up with my Broader Perspective which must have known that going on my own would be much more thrilling, much more satisfying.
It sure was! And the weather was perfect, which was not the case last week. Last week was grey and cold.
And this is the thing with All That Is. It delivers what we want. Every time. But sometimes, it delivers things in ways we can’t expect. And if we’re open to it, that unexpected way can be more satisfying than the way we want it to happen.
Often the way we want it to happen includes it happening on the schedule we expect. But if we are willing to go with the flow instead, give up thinking we know the best time for something to happen, or the best way it’s supposed to happen, we’ll be more than pleasantly surprised.
We’ll be thrilled.
Speaking of going with the flow, you’re invited to a 90-minute online event on March 1 at 10 a.m. Pacific Time called Belief Constellations: Politics, Relationships And Our MAGNIFICENT Future. I’ll give a deep dive into what Belief Constellations are and how to use them to align with the fabulous future on the horizon. It’s only $15. Grab a spot, or, if you’re a MeetUp member, go here.
TL;DR: The author emphasizes how beliefs shape our financial reality, using a client’s experience to illustrate how limiting thoughts block opportunities. It argues that aligning beliefs with desires is key to success, revealing that poverty results from mindset, not external forces. Through self-awareness and belief alignment, wealth and fulfillment become achievable.
I wouldn’t say or share any of what you’re about to read to a poor person. They’re just not ready to hear it. What they’ll hear is me blaming them. But this isn’t about blame, it’s about empowerment…
A client’s experiences showed me this week how powerful this You Create Your Own Reality (YCYOR) business is. Our thoughts and beliefs are so powerful, they not only create experiences we call daily life, they also block us from experiencing daily lives containing things we want.
This includes wealth. Indeed, most people, if they’re honest, will say they’d love having more money than they have, no matter how much they do have. If they don’t want more, it’s usually because beliefs existing inside them block that natural desire. Wanting more is the essence of of All That Is. It’s what makes “eternity” possible.
That’s another story though.
In this story, I want to share how our beliefs create realities that literally keep things we want from coming to us, including money. I’m going to show how this works through a recent experience a client had with the Positively Focused practice. His experience, even though he’s far from poor, proves the point I’m making: That poor people stay poor through the beliefs they hold. By “poor” I include those in the middle class who struggle to make ends meet, as well as those below the poverty line.
So let’s get into this. I’m sure we’re going to find what I’m about to share…interesting at the very least.
Trump: Good? Bad?
I’ll call my client “John”. I know, it’s not very creative.
John’s been a client about 50 weeks. He became a client after watching his partner transform for the better right before his eyes. Her example was so positive, he said, he wanted some of what she was getting.
John is successful as a software developer. He’s also quite astute at finance. An ardent progressive, he voted for Harris. So when Trump won the election, John expressed rather strong disappointment, but, because of the Positively Focused practice, he didn’t let that go very far, which left him open for an amazing experience coming.
Fast forward to December. By that point last year, something happened that shocked many observers. The cryptocurrency Bitcoin reached well over $100,000 a token. Historically, past presidential administrations were critical of crypto markets in general and Bitcoin specifically. Indeed, many expected that if Harris won the election, her administration would follow with the Biden Administration’s sharp criticism of crypto.
Not so with Trump. He promised in his later campaign speeches to become the most favorable cryptocurrency president.
The future: Crypto?
Trump won, of course. And crypto advocates, who had funded many successful 2024 political campaigns, including Trump’s, felt jubilant. So did much of the business world.
Cryptocurrency is a huge world-transforming technology. Like Artificial Intelligence, the Internet and computer technology before it, crypto is literally changing every facet of life right under our noses. Unlike previous inventions, however, crypto is poised to fundamentally disrupt society in so many beneficial ways, it’s hard to wrap one’s head around them all.
That potential also offers tremendous wealth-making opportunities. Unlike past opportunities, which made themselves mostly available to the already-wealthy, the movement crypto represents brings those wealth-making opportunities to everyone. Anyone can potentially become richer than they ever have been before. Indeed, many already have. And those people started out not rich at all.
That said, those potential riches are only available to people aligned with the opportunity. That’s where John and thoughts and beliefs come back into this story.
Chicken? Or egg?
Everyone creates their reality through thoughts and beliefs they hold. Those thoughts and beliefs literally filter our lives. They only allow events into our lives that are aligned with them. So if a person holds a belief that, for example, “money is hard to come by”, they cannot see opportunities where money is easy to come by.
Same holds for those who believe crypto is a scam. Such people will not be able to see money-making opportunities available through crypto. I should know: I was once one of those people!
Not any more.
Thoughts and beliefs don’t even have to be about crypto to block these opportunities. Beliefs about ourselves can block them too. If we believe, for example, that “I can’t get ahead”, that thought will keep creating experiences where we, literally, can’t get ahead.
But we must ask whether this is a chicken-or-egg situation: Did those experiences happen first, and then we concluded that “I can’t get ahead”? Or did somehow we come up with that self concept, of a person who can’t get ahead, then experienced experiences as evidence of that concept?
The answer is, it can be both. People can hold a thought, then experience a life matching that. Or something can happen, then they draw a conclusion from that and thus create resonance in them that has them keep having that experience.
Empowering? Or disempowering?
In John’s case, he saw his parents struggle. He related how he noticed his family frequently on the edge of financial insolvency. He wore hand-me-down clothes in school and was enrolled in his school’s free lunch program. John joked with all seriousness about how being on the free lunch program affected him by saying “Why do free lunch program tickets need to be a different color from regular tickets?”
Can you see how such an observation reveals the strong negative experience John had?
John made up stories about those happenings, especially stories about himself. He wasn’t going to end up like his parents. So he took a more guarded, preventative perspective on money. One of his beliefs, for example, is “Building a bank account is hard. It takes a long time. I don’t want to make the wrong choice.”
As a result of this belief, John has become extremely financially successful. He’s managed his money very closely. His work income is, in his words, “ridiculous” in its generosity. And yet, as empowering as his beliefs are, they still limit what’s possible for him. I’ll explain how in a bit.
A vicious cycle
We can see how beliefs in a world not in our control would compel us into social liberalism. If one finds it hard to get ahead, or that situations are out of our control, we’ll will see others having similar troubles. Not knowing about the Positively Focused approach, we’ll want to place blame on something outside ourselves.
We won’t know the trouble source is our thoughts and beliefs. So we’ll look to the world around us for the origin of our struggles.
It’s a kind of vicious cycle: thoughts and beliefs filter in events matching them and filter out those not matching them, which reinforce thoughts and beliefs. If one doesn’t know this, a person will look for the source of the problem outside themselves and blame that. Little do they know placing blame is a reflection of their inner beliefs: the belief that something outside them is to blame, that and the belief creating whatever problems they’re having in the first place.
The reflection happens so the person can do something about the beliefs not aligned with what the person wants. When they do that, they get what they want. It’s that simple. Blaming just prolongs problems or it creates new ones.
This is the vicious cycle social liberals find themselves in. Social conservatives do the same thing, by the way. They blame their problems on a society run amok, away from conservative values. In other words, something outside themselves. Liberals and conservatives have far more in common than both sides realize.
John’s beliefs are what has him being both socially and fiscally liberal. In the next section I’ll flesh this out a little more.
The Universe faithfully reflects
John believing, among other things, that making and keeping money is hard and takes a long time, and you can’t make a mistake, is part of why he is socially and fiscally liberal. He believes people need help because life is hard. Especially the part of life that is about making money. After all, he saw his parents struggle. For John, this belief isn’t a belief. It’s “true”.
John also knows there are many people out there trying to get other people’s money, often in unscrupulous ways. So not only is he on guard about that himself, he’s also wary of people falling victim to such schemes. This partly explains why he believes people need help, i.e. a society socially oriented towards taking care of people.
Now, people do need a hand out or a hand up from time to time. Virtually everyone, myself included at one point, knows nothing about how the Universe works. Because of that lack of knowledge, people think thoughts, hold beliefs, make decisions and take action based on those that aren’t in their best interest.
Of course, the Universe faithfully reflects all that back to people in the form of life matching what’s going on in us. But people don’t know that’s happening. So most people point the finger at the world around them. Even though the world around them is a product of their thoughts, beliefs and actions.
John is learning this. And what he’s finding is making a huge difference.
Trump’s contribution to the better world
John sees Trump as somewhat inept and susceptible to others’ influence. As a result, throughout the election campaign, John as an ardent Positively Focused practitioner, strives to find the best-feeling story about the election outcome.
In doin that, John made himself available to the reality that the Trump administration is going to play a huge part in a wonderful unfolding. An unfolding offering everyone massive opportunities to prosper in a future that’s literally unbelievable.
That future also supports the ascension New Age spiritualists reverently expect. All this is coming aided by an administration many “spiritualist” Americans vehemently disavow.
How can this be?
Trump and those he is appointing likely have no idea how their actions in the future play into the hands of this unfolding. That’s because, of course, their thoughts and beliefs aren’t focused there. They’re focused on their political agenda, which primarily is about delivering on their campaign promises. That and keeping people’s attention and thus their future votes and money.
But what they don’t know is many of those promises are going to support the unfolding I mentioned above. And one aspect facilitating that unfolding is…wait for it: cryptocurrency.
A new future lies ahead
I’ll avoid going in depth on other technologies emerging which also further this unfolding. I want to keep this post rather short and it’s already long. But I will mention some of them. I’ll mention them because the information is important to understand points I’m making in this post. You can research them further if you choose.
Cryptocurrencies underpin the emerging next generation of the Internet, also called “Web3”. But “Cryptocurrency” distracts the public. It’s not so much their function as currencies that matters. It’s the projects these currencies underwrite and support that matter. In the way software and microprocessors ushered in the computer age, these “currencies” and their projects are introducing Web3. Web3 is a decentralized, open, more secure and more peer-to-peer internet.
But these projects are also fostering, among many other things, Artificial Intelligence (AI), AI agents, which basically are personal servants that act on the internet on our behalf; new ways to conduct financial transactions and contracts without banks, lawyers or the government; and making wealth far more accessible to ordinary people.
We’re exactly at the point where we were when computers or the internet first started: the world is being transformed once again. Only this time much faster and from far more directions than before.
And those who are aware of these opportunities and take action, just like in the past with computers and the internet, are going to get rich. But those who aren’t aware of them will miss the opportunities.
What separates those who are aware from those who aren’t? Individual beliefs. That’s all.
“A no-brainer”
One session late last year, I talked with John about everything you just read in the previous section. The conversation revolved mostly around Bitcoin and its meteoric rise. But that focus kicked off a conversation about everything else happening in the crypto space. Because of John’s old beliefs, he was skeptical. He told me he always viewed Bitcoin as a “grift”.
“They call them cryptocurrencies, but you can’t buy anything with them,” he quipped.
By the end of the session, however, he saw how that belief blocked him from really understanding what is happening and what’s coming. That opening, his ability to see anew, triggered something good in him.
After our session, he sent me a text message:
In our next session, John floored me with his news. We first talked about how surprised he was that he didn’t look into this sooner.
“After I took a deep look at it,” he said. “It was a no brainer.”
And this is the thing about old beliefs. When they’re soothed, suddenly, the new view one has of the world just feels like an “of course”. That’s because the world constantly offers broader perspectives from which to view it. And when a person steps into that, they literally walk into a new reality. One that now matches their fresh, new perspective.
Missing an opportunity
So profound was John’s shift, even he was surprised. He told me the next morning he put $50K into Bitcoin. But his Broader Perspective encouraged he put more in. So he put in $100K more. But his Broader Perspective encouraged putting in even more. So he put in another $50! All after one conversation!
Again, this is what happens when one lets go of resistant beliefs. And, the minute one does, one also must contend with the new set of contrast that accompanies the new beliefs. In John’s case that was feeling regretful that he didn’t take this action six months ago when Bitcoin’s price was much lower.
“I should have done this last summer,” He argued mournfully. I told him there’s nothing he can do about that other than soothe his regret. But the solace he could take from the experience is realizing how powerful beliefs are.
“They literally block us from seeing opportunities,” I told him. Of course, John could see that now.
There was no way John could have done anything different from what he did last summer. So there’s no point mourning that non-action, even though had he put $200,000 into Bitcoin last summer at $87K a coin, he would have already seen a nice increase in value.
We do it to ourselves
John’s experience shows how powerful beliefs are. I’ve written this many times in this post, but it bears repeating: Beliefs create our reality. They only allow in that which accords with them. Everything else they block.
It’s important therefore that we become more deliberate about what beliefs we have, isn’t it?
I know it is important, which is why I work with clients.
No one blocks us from anything we want. Only we do that by not examining beliefs that block those things we want from coming into our experience.
And this is how the poor remain poor. No one is keeping them poor! They are doing that to themselves. Of course, they’re not doing it deliberately. They don’t understand what they’re doing. The problem with that lack of understanding is, along with their disempowering beliefs, if someone like me tries to tell them what they’re doing (or not doing), their current beliefs will not allow them to hear what I’m saying.
Or they’ll hear it and think I’m trying to fraud them. They’ll think I’m just spouting new-age nonsense, in the same way John thought cryptocurrency was a grift. And when they think that way, they just amplify their existing Belief Constellations, further blinding them from opportunities to rise from poverty.
Beliefs are powerful
At the beginning of this post I wrote that I’m not blaming anyone. This isn’t about blame. John isn’t to blame for beliefs blocking opportunities. No one else holds those beliefs for him though. He’s doing that.
Does that make him to blame for that? Is it his “fault”?
You could look at it that way, but I don’t. I look at it more positively. This whole post is not about blaming the poor or blaming John. What it is about is using his example and the example of poor people to empower those reading this. For now you know, dear reader, that you possess an extraordinarily empowering tool: your beliefs.
And if you cultivate beliefs consistent with what you want, in a very short time, the world will reveal to you exactly that and only that. For when you align your beliefs with what you want, they, like all beliefs, block everything not aligned with them.
That’s why I can say, for example, that when a person aligns their beliefs, nothing can come in contrary to what they believe.
Beliefs are powerful.
The poor stay poor by virtue of the poverty in their beliefs. People get rich by virtue of the wealth inherent in their beliefs. Your world is your word, meaning how you think about the world shapes your experience of it.
Speaking of beliefs, you’re invited to a 90-minute online event on March 1 at 10 a.m. Pacific Time called Belief Constellations: Politics, Relationships And Our MAGNIFICENT Future. I’ll give a deep dive into what Belief Constellations are and how to use them to align with the fabulous future on the horizon. It’s only $15. Grab a spot, or, if you’re a MeetUp member, go here.
TL;DR: The author uses a client example to show how this reality offers the best of what there is to experience. In doing so, they explain how fleeing a situation without first lining up with what’s wanted usually leads to disappointing results.But in the end, they write, everything always works out.
A prospective client this week decided to go with another spiritual provider. Her decision came after only two weeks as a Positively Focused practitioner.
When she first reached out to me, I felt strong vibrations from her. Present were dissatisfaction, unhappiness, especially about herself, a feeling of foreboding about the US and more. This all sprang from her as she told me why she wanted my services.
The next week, she came with a ton of questions. Questions typically someone with so little experience with the practice wouldn’t ask. Indeed they were very advanced questions, ones I didn’t want to answer because I knew she didn’t have enough background to understand the answers. Yet, she insisted, so we talked about them.
Her questions came from visiting YouTube. There she discovered another provider. This person, a “Law of Attraction Coach”, appears to focus on “impossible” achievements, some of the same things I focus on in my personal practice, but don’t work with clients on until they have at least several years experience. That’s because accomplishing what most believe is impossible requires an extraordinary level of alignment to All That Is. And most aren’t ready for such pursuits off-the-bat.
What happened next was…interesting. It showed me how some people want to escape from their lives. They want to go somewhere where they think life is better.
In this post, let’s look at why that’s not in anyone’s best interest. And what is available to us instead.
Not everyone is in the same place
This new client came to me after reading my post on Dark Matter. In that post, I lauded the show’s relatively accurate portrayal of alternate dimensional travel. My own experiences aligned well with what they portrayed. How they portrayed alternate dimensional travel was not so accurate, however. Still, I felt the show deserved praise.
I thought it odd that that post would inspire someone to want to be a Positively Focused client. That’s because, early-stage clients typically have no idea alternate realities are accessible to all of us. Visiting them requires a lot of focus, but that focus is well within all of our grasps. So when we first talked, I encouraged her to focus instead on the basic practice, what I offer all beginning clients.
From her questions in the second session, however, I knew she wasn’t going to be satisfied with my approach. Especially after visiting this other provider’s channel.
Now, I have no trouble with new clients going somewhere else. A lot of people out there offer similar services I do. And not everyone is in the same place; one provider can’t reach everyone. So it’s good lots of people exist offering similar services. But something was up with this person’s eagerness to go to this provider. Something I realized in the session we had just before she switched.
Freedom and empowerment: the ultimate desire
She came to that session super stoked about the potential of moving permanently into another dimension. I asked her what about that was so intriguing. The first thing she brought up was climate change. She wanted to be in a world where climate change didn’t exist, she said. The client also had strong negative beliefs about the United States’ future given the Trump election victory.
Both reasons were red flags. Not that they’re problems relative to what I offer. Rather they indicate the client is in the midst of really strong negative momentum. Momentum she must soothe in order to get what she wants.
And what is it that she wants? While she thinks it’s living in a different reality, where none of the things she thinks are problems exist, what she really reaches for in these desires is freedom and empowerment.
She wants to see the world around her matching her desires.
If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you can see the problem, the red flag in that. For in wanting to see the world around her matching what’s inside her, she doesn’t get that the world already matches what is inside her. In other words, the world around us is a reflection. An extremely accurate one.
At this point, I think it’s important to delineate the difference between spiritual fleeing or escaping and the ordinary kind of fleeing or escape humans sometimes get inspired to do. The difference is important.
It’s not about action
No wrong choices exist. Every choice a person makes either lines that person up with what they want, or it gives feedback on how to better line up. Every choice, therefore, acts as a stepping stone on an eternal path. So, to use an extreme example, a war-torn, despotic environment might inspire a person to flee that place.
In fleeing, they can end up in a better-feeling place: a location where life is more peaceful. Perhaps the government is more stable there. The contrast of their what-is prompts action, and through their action, they find themselves in better-feeling locals.
Most of the time, when people make those kinds of choices, they first may focus on fleeing their what-is. But as soon as the what is is behind them, they feel eagerness for where they’re going. That shift typically feels like relief. Then relief turns to even more powerful, positive emotions. Like positive expectation or optimism, for example.
And as they dwell in those positive emotions, the world around them reflects that positivity back to them: in the form of more positive environs. Meanwhile –– and this is important –– the war-torn situation played a crucial role in that unfolding.
Had they not experienced the war and destruction, leaving that area might never had occurred to them. But more important, their improved mood made them a match to where they ended up. Not their actions.
What we’re exploring offers a ton of complexity that I’m simplifying for brevity’s sake.
Look at how life turns out
So fleeing an environment where immanent physical danger exists makes complete sense. Pretty much everyone would do that. But here’s the thing, and this is extremely difficult for clients to accept: A match exists between situations we would call negative and people experiencing those situations. In other words, those situations reflect the inner states of those people. It must be that way because that’s how the Universe works. It’s not random.
So when that person chooses flight or escape, they literally take with them that which had them matching the war-torn situation in the first place. And so, when they get to the new place, that new place, somehow, will reflect back to them more of the same of what’s inside them if the person didn’t do anything about their inner state. It may look different, but essentially it’s identical.
Unless we can read the vibration of another, and that’s a tall task for nearly all of us, we can’t really know what’s going on inside another. But if we accept what you just read, we don’t have to read another’s vibration. All we need to do is look at how their life turns out.
I haven’t forgotten about the client I began this post with. I’ll get back to her. But this background you’re getting fleshes out the problem with spiritual fleeing or escape. By now you can see the difference between fleeing a physical situation and spiritual fleeing or escape. If you can’t, the next section will make it plain.
What spiritual fleeing looks like
We take with us that which creates our reality. This is what I mean when I tell clients they are the common denominator to all the problems they see in their lives. Said differently, we create our reality. So if we want a different reality, we must do something about what we’re creating. Fleeing won’t work.
Spiritual fleeing works even less. Spiritual fleeing isn’t very common because nearly every human disbelieves this “you create your own reality business” (YCYORB). And yet, it is a thing. Spiritual fleeing is a distortion. Someone practicing or wanting to practice spiritual fleeing is saying “I don’t like what I’m creating, so I’m going to escape my creation.”
So they leave their city. They leave their country. Or they leave a relationship. Maybe they leave their job. The problem with that is, they’re taking themselves with them! They can’t leave themselves behind, so wherever they go, they will create a new version of the problems they try to flee.
We cannot escape the reality that springs from within us. (Photo by Justin Merced on Unsplash)
Two advanced client examples show this. One has tried nearly every process, including extremely radical surgeries, to lose weight. One radical surgery left her with something like one-third of the stomach she originally had. And yet, she’s still overweight, much to her dissatisfaction. The other client last year, I think, had a surgery on his face. The doctor said the process would solve his sleep apnea. A year later, he’s contemplating another procedure because the apnea has not gone away.
Who’s the creator?
The first client had her procedures done before she came to me. So we haven’t talked about the vibration persisting her weight. But we are talking about a similar vibrational momentum that has her attract men who aren’t in her best interest. She struggles mightily in hearing that she’s creating these men. She wants to blame the men. It can’t be possible that she’s the center of what’s happening, she thinks. Yet she is. She’s the common denominator. She is the creator.
The same is true for the other client. He can’t yet accept that he’s creating the sleep problem. Although he intellectually understands that from the Positively Focused perspective, he’s still trying to solve it through action, so he doesn’t KNOW yet what he only understands.
The point is, spiritual fleeing is when a person either denies or doesn’t know at all that they are the creator of their reality. As a result, they try fixing their troubles through action. And an advanced version of that is wanting to go to a different physical dimension because the one we’re in is unsatisfying.
Spiritual fleeing doesn’t work
Where do you think Americans thinking about leaving the country are on the subject of ordinary fleeing and spiritual fleeing? With Donald Trump coming into office, many of them are somewhere in between. Every American contributed to the reality we’re moving into where Trump will be the most powerful person in the free world….again.
Trying to flee the country isn’t going to work because wherever those Americans go, they will be there. In other words, they’re just going to create a reality there that still reflects what’s going on inside them. And if they were a match to a second Trump presidency, and they were, then something’s afoot in that matching.
I know that “something” is really, really good. And that’s the trouble with interpreting our what-is as negative. Usually what we’re interpreting as “bad” actually is very, very good. Or what’s going to follow is very, very good…but only if we don’t resist the “bad”.
Resist it, like a lot of Americans did after the first Trump presidency, and we just get more “bad”. Meanwhile, a lot of good gets created and stored in our collective “moment of becoming”. But that collective goodness only shows itself to those who don’t resist. In the meantime, resisters just keep getting more “bad”. Even if they flee.
So this prospective client, the one who wants to flee this dimension for a “better” one doesn’t understand that she’s taking herself with her. More likely, she will NOT be able to move to that alternate dimension. Why? Because she has way too much resistance in her. Resistance that makes her not a match to that dimension she wants, but does make her a match to the one she doesn’t.
So what’s her option?
The Source of new and improved
Her option is the same thing I offer all my clients: transform her perspective in a way that lines her up with everything she wants in this reality. What she wants is here. If it wasn’t, she wouldn’t have chosen to come into this dimension.
What she wants isn’t some place where everything is nice and clean and trouble free. Trouble/contrast is part of every place. It literally is the stuff from which new, improved emerges. And so, this reality, this dimension, is one of the best ones to come into. Because here, in this place, we offer ourselves TREMENDOUS contrast…or “trouble” if you want to see it that way.
The great thing about all that trouble is, when we use it as the launch pad that it is, our individual realities IMPROVE.
But it’s not magic. It can’t happen instantly. Physical reality contains inherent resistance as does our physical selves. So it typically takes a while for that improvement to show up…for very good other reasons too complex to detail here.
The client I began this post about is on a trajectory. Maybe she’ll come back after exhausting herself trying to get someplace she’s not a match to. Or maybe she’ll become a match to it. The paradox of the latter is, to become a match to it, she must release all resistance to THIS dimension, this reality. And if/when she does….will she travel to that other dimension?
My guess is no. Because she unwittingly will have transformed THIS dimension into the dimension she thinks she wants to travel to.
Isn’t that beautiful?
This is where it’s at
Usually, when one wants to choose, one’s first choice is the Broader-Perspective-inspired one. This client came to the Positively Focused Way first. I’d say that was a Broader-Perspective-inspired decision. Had she continued, soothing her dissatisfaction about this reality would go a long way towards allowing her to visit other realities. The key word there is “visit”. But such visits also would show her that THIS reality is where she really wants to be. This is where it’s at.
After all, if she wanted to be in the other one, she would have gone there first at birth. Instead, she came here.
In that sense, she may come back. Perhaps her Broader Perspective will lead her back here. No matter what she does, everything is working out for her, for me and for everyone else. That includes all Americans, all my clients and the planet and its climate.
Nothing ever goes wrong. Even when someone flees. Spiritual fleeing or escape isn’t wrong either. After all, eventually the person fleeing discovers the ultimate reality: that they are a creator. And their creation is good as a reflection of something that is always in their best interest. Something that is inside them waiting for that person to make real.
TL;DR: The author recounts an experience of astral travel wherein their consciousness flowed into the consciousness of another, and that other person realized then reported on her experience of what happened, thus confirming the author’s experience.
An awesome confirmation of my Astral Travel aspirations happened this week. It’s evidence of my moving into more expansive capabilities, capabilities I’ve intended for some time now.
It’s taking a while because, as I’ve mentioned many times before, we don’t instantly get what we want. Especially when it comes to what we believe are supernatural or “unbelievable” abilities. That’s because those very beliefs, that it’s impossible, supernatural, unnatural, or unbelievable, resists our ability to allow these abilities into our experience.
So some time must pass while we learn to soothe those beliefs and replace them with beliefs more aligned to our desire. The same holds true for any desire. Whether it be a better job, a partner, a bunch of money or a better life condition, we must become a match to it before we receive it.
And the main thing keeping us from becoming a match to what we want are our existing beliefs that run contrary to what we want.
I’ve been focusing into my experience these “occult” experiences for about a year now, I think. That’s not very long considering what I’m wanting, the results I’m producing and how many people believe such results aren’t possible.
Let’s take a look at what happened this week, how it happened and the confirmation I received from my client.
The experience
It was a Tuesday morning. Typically, every morning I meditate for at least an hour prior to my day getting underway. This morning, as sometimes happens, I meditated twice. Once in the early morning for about 90 minutes, then again after waking, for another hour.
Both these meditation periods were deep and intense. I’ve described sensations happening now in meditation in previous posts. Those sensations confirm my budding shape-shifting abilities, but they also confirm that my consciousness leaves my body too.
During the second half hour of that second meditation period, my consciousness left my body. I felt myself “go out”. The experience happened so briefly, I couldn’t get my wits about the experience. I only know I was “gone”, then I was back in. What I did experience was seeing a vague sense of the surroundings where I landed. But I couldn’t make out more than that vague sense.
This meditation happened about an hour before my first client session. That session started at 9 a.m. The client I see lives in Hawaii. Hawaii is two hours behind my time zone. So 8 am is 6 am in Hawaii. My client would be just waking up. That time differential set up everything that happened next.
Surprise and delight
Since many of these kinds of experiences have happened, I reveled in this one, but didn’t make much more about it. That’s because other similar past experiences were much clearer, more vivid and longer lasting than this one. Usually, I’ll experience several smaller, rather insignificant sensations or departures in between the really profound ones. So this experience, given its brevity and vague perception, I figured was one of the less meaningful ones.
I was wrong.
And that’s great because part of the joy of life is the surprise and delight inherent in it. We can’t know how the Universe will set up situations in which we get what we want. The Universe is far more resourceful, and broader in its abilities than our minds can fathom. Which is why it truly is unfathomable. So when we do manifest something, it usually comes in a surprising and delightful way.
That way makes sense too because when we least expect something to manifest, we are best prepared to receive it. That’s because we aren’t resisting its showing up. We’re not resisting it with thinking we’re thinking about it when in fact we’re thinking about not having it. We’re not yearning for it to happen. Because our minds are off what we want, we unconsciously allow the unfolding.
That’s what happened here.
The confirmation
After meditating that morning, I went through my normal day preparations. Then I signed on to the call with my client. The moment I did, the client shocked me with a question:
“Did you visit me this morning?” She asked.
Her question piqued my interest. And since I know what I know, I knew something was afoot here. Something we both would enjoy. There was no confusion about what she was asking. Instead I felt only curiosity.
“Why do you ask?” I said.
The client then described how she was in her bed and suddenly, she felt my presence. My curiosity spiked then and I asked her when she had this sensation.
“About an hour ago,” she said. That would have been around 6 am her time. Right about the same time I had the departure experience in meditation.
I then went from curious to excited. For the next few minutes we talked about what happened as a way of amplifying for both of us the real-ization of this experience. The fact that what happened with her matched what happened with me, at the same time, delighted both of us.
We then went on with the rest of the session.
Having affinity and no doubt
Two days later, and I have no idea why she did this, the client sent me a text message. Even though I don’t know what prompted her act, when I read the message, I knew it was further confirmation of what happened. It also represented a natural unfolding that lead directly to this post. Had she not sent this text, I probably wouldn’t have written this story. But receiving it delighted me so much. Her message, to me, came out of the blue. So I knew my client’s Broader Perspective encouraged her to reach out.
Here’s what she texted:
Look at that message!
It’s so detailed. And it describes a specific process wherein this happened. Notice it wasn’t something that happened against her will. I was “announced” and then she allowed “me” to “slide over [her] energy”.
I wondered if others could confirm such experiences. It’s one thing to have the person leaving their body talk about the experience. But when another can confirm the experience from their perspective, that takes it to a whole other level!
Of course, my client couldn’t have had this experience had she not some affinity with the ability. I perceived the client’s vast potential for such abilities. In one of our early sessions, I wondered if she had witchcraft in her ancestry. She mused about my question, but recently asked me about why I asked.
I told her I sense great affinity within her and very little doubt. So she’s susceptible to these experiences.
Everything is possible
And that’s the key right? Our beliefs create our reality. Anything is possible. But our beliefs mitigate that accurate statement. If we want to experience something and we doubt it can happen, it’s not going to happen.
And yet, all kinds of accounts exist where, just as an example, a mother in a car accident lifts her car off her child who is pinned underneath. That kind of event can happen in such crises because, in that moment, the woman’s desire for saving her child overwhelms any doubt. Indeed, doubt isn’t even present when she takes action.
The same holds true for anything. Whatever we want, we can experience or have. It all depends on how much doubt we bring to the table. The more we bring, the less possible our desires become.
Which is why a Positively Focused perspective is the best perspective. For not only does everything become possible, we also create all the evidence we need to confirm what was once impossible now no longer is.
Postscript:
I once thought it impossible that the world would get better if Trump won. Well some really amazing things are happening right now, even with Trump becoming president. Indeed, because he became president…and I voted for Harristhe future is going to be magnificent. How do I know? Consider joining this event I’ve planned for March. Have a MeetUp account? Go here.
