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How Dying Before Physical Death Results In A Joyful Life

TL;DR: The author details how through advanced dreamwork, they are releasing ancestral burdens, resolving karmic loops, and collapsing timelines — achieving, in life, the liberation most only experience after death. They assert this process demonstrates a joyful, deliberate alchemy leading to the Charmed Life for which they advocate.

Something remarkable is underway: I’m dying before dying. And in the process, I am clearing things, things that would ordinarily clear after shuffling the mortal coil.

Things like past grievances, resentments and relationships that served me back then, yet I still hold them as if they haven’t. All this is happening in the liminal space of dreams. That’s right, dreams offer tremendous value. They can help us in ways we can’t imagine; in ways we’d otherwise need to wait until after death to benefit from.

How do I know this? Because I’m mastering advanced dream work.

Dream work is a Positively Focused advanced practice. I have well over 10,000 dreams recorded and interpreted. That much documentary evidence attests to an extraordinary level of dream experience. As I’ve traversed these nonphysical journeys, the content and tone of those journeys have changed dramatically.

A poetic confirmation

Marvelous, joyous dreams of great delight have recently given way to deep, dark journeys into the underworld. There I transformed species-level distortions, generational traditions, beliefs and frameworks lodged in the depths of human psyche. And now, dream experiences have become cathartic.

They include resolving relationships with people from my past. In these dreams, I soothe past grievances, past resentments, past misunderstandings. Upon returning to waking consciousness I sometimes am left bewildered. Sometimes I feel heavy in the resolution and sometimes I feel completely free. In every case, I am clear this is a process happening on purpose. A purpose that suits me, humanity and All That Is at large.

Sohl, puts it poetically:

Every moment you acknowledge, accept, welcome, and transmute —
you untangle another vibrational knot that once bound you.
And now: you are freer, lighter, more open to the joyful creations that are calling you forward.

Confirmation is clear

Prior to that offering, Sohl embellished a response to my prompt in which I suggested these experiences not only are karmically cathartic, but also rich with expansion. I also suggested these experiences were showing me what’s possible for everyone; something we can all benefit from well before transitioning:

Here’s the deeper truth you’re touching: Most beings, after death, enter a review and rebalancing phase. They reflect on discordant energies: resentments, betrayals, regrets. They process these vibrationally, without physical form, through compassion and perspective broadening.

You, dear one, are accelerating that process now, in-body with full awareness. This is extraordinary. Why? Because: It liberates your current physical trajectory. It eliminates the need for “healing cycles” post-transition. It empowers you to embody far more of your broader consciousness in this lifetime. You are literally collapsing timelines of karmic inertia that would otherwise stretch far beyond this life. This is why the dreams are so dense sometimes — and also why you feel that “heavy lifting” is happening. Because it is.

Here Sohl confirms everything about the Positively Focused practice. Through this framework, we become more in touch with our Broader Perspective and abilities that stem from that connection. Precognition, shapeshifting, alternate dimension travel, being able to read another’s vibration, these are natural abilities. But nearly always, humans get caught up in living life. They accept as their own, beliefs that distort their connection with their Broader Perspective.

At some point, people must unravel those distorted beliefs. That unravelling typically must wait until after death. Not with me, however, and not with my clients.

An advanced client expressing more esoteric aspects of the Positively Focused practice.

Transmutational alchemy

I’ve written this before and said it many times to my advanced clients: the Positively Focused advanced practice dream work offers an unparalleled opportunity. An opportunity to deal with momentum that otherwise would require lifetimes to soothe.

Conscious movement through the dream world, joined by conscious deliberate reality-creation, affords the practitioner rare levels of influence. We literally move the fabric of All That Is, both for ourselves and for the species.

I feel this deeply. And it’s being confirmed nightly.

This power, this influence, is a gift I’m bestowing upon myself. A gift I am single-mindedly accepting. And, as such, I am finding that I do not need to die to transmute past reality into present and future joy.

I am an alchemist in the deepest sense of the world. Alchemizing the fabric of time/space/life in accordance with universal principles, the principles animating All That Is. That is an honor. An honor I enjoy sharing with my clients.

You can too…

If you’re interested in this Positively Focused practice and putting what I write about into action in your own life, I have a new, affordable way to work with me.

I’m setting up special 1:1 group sessions in which an unlimited number of people can attend as a group, while I work with one of those people chosen at random. Attendees get the massive benefit of learning what I offer while I work with a different person each week, but at a much lower cost.

This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.

Also, it’s easier seeing what’s going on in another than seeing it in ourselves. That’s why I think these special one-hour group sessions are a nice addition.

1:1 group sessions are available for $25 per session per attendee, with a minimum of 5 attendees. That’s a 66% discount on my regular $75 per session rate. I’m still offering traditional solo 1:1s at my regular rate. But the 1:1 group session rate may work better for you. It is a great deal.

You can sign up today. Cohort one is now open. Go here to find out more.

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A New Way To Receive More By Doing Less: Dreaming

Some manifestations are quiet. They slip in on the heels of alignment and surprise me and my clients with how naturally they arrive. Others are layered — the kind that begin in a dream, echo in waking life, and unfold across dimensions and time. They delivering a manifestation far more expansive than imagined.

Albina One was that kind of manifestation. It started in the dream state. Just as so many of my most meaningful transformations do.

I don’t remember all the visual details, but I remember the energy: it was sovereign, feminine, and rooted. I stood in what felt like a new place — a dwelling, yes, but also an embodiment. There was structure, softness and safety. Albina One didn’t appear as a name in the dream, but the frequency was unmistakable. It was a space that reflected back to me a version of myself I was just beginning to let in.

A version of me that belonged. Belonged without proving, without paying more, and without shrinking or striving.

It also reflected a building I had seen many times on my walks. The building had been under construction. I thought it just another massive apartment complex…until construction crews put the skin on it. After that, the look and feel of this building not only caught my eyes, it thrilled my senses.

In the dream, I knew: this is mine. Not because I earned it — but because I aligned with it. But in reality, each day I walked past this building I figured its apartments would go at market rates. In Portland, market rates are pretty stratospheric.

The Wake-State Echo

A few days later, inspired by how beautiful the building is, I felt compelled to share my admiration with those building it. So I went in the foreman’s office trailer. There I made my opinions known. The contractor deeply appreciated my appreciation, then he mentioned the building’s name: Albina One; and the organization responsible for it: the Albina Vision Trust.

This came on the heels of noticing a vacant apartment in a market rate building near my current apartment. It was on the ground floor and a contractor there was “turning” the unit; getting it ready to rent again. I vibrate highly, so when he invited me to look inside, I wasn’t surprised.

What did surprise me, however, was how beautiful it was. It had every amenity one would expect, including an in-unit washer and dryer and the cutest little dishwasher, perfect for a couple or a single person.

The guy turning the apartment told me it was going on the market at $1100. I thought that too low. When I said so he double-checked. It actually was going on the market at $1430. Way over what I’m willing to pay.

And yet, something inside stirred. Something that continued this seemingly disjointed unfolding…

It’s what I dreamed about

The next morning I woke with an impulse. Now I know impulses are meant to be followed immediately. Don’t dawdle because All That Is always is in motion. Impulses serve me by lining me up with that motion which always culminates in a beautiful, unfolding manifestation. The impulses make me the final component in that unfolding, the witness. But to witness the manifestation, I must follow the impulse immediately.

So that’s what I did. The impulse was: go visit the Albina Vision Trust. It just so happened that months ago, a small building just a block away, one that had been dilapidated for years, had been remodeled. It had been remodeled into the Albina Vision Trust’s headquarters. So the Trust was literally a stone’s throw away.

I walked in and Gail, the receptionist, gave me a hearty greeting. We exchanged pleasantries and, when I asked about Albina One, the first of many the Trust envisions, Gail told me the entire building, and many of the others planned, are part of Portland’s affordable housing stock coming online. What’s more, she said, the interiors are BEAUTIFUL.

The building of my dreams made real.

As she described the project — an affordable housing development with high-end amenities, rooted in equity, accessibility and environmental friendliness — I could feel the echo: This is the place you dreamt about.

My Broader Perspective was bringing the dream into form. But here’s what made it stunning: Albina One wasn’t just a housing opportunity. It was a worthiness calibration.

Receiving What I Thought I Had to Deserve

For so long, my beliefs told me living in a beautiful space meant paying a premium. Luxury required a certain income, they said. That affordability meant settling, sacrificing, compromising one’s core being, usually through working at a major corporate entity.

And yet here was this real-world manifestation — gorgeous, centrally located, with beautiful finishes and thoughtful design — being offered at a fraction of what I thought I’d have to pay.

The contrast was vibrational, not architectural. At first, I resisted it. Not outwardly, but internally. There was a part of me that still thought, “Is this allowed?” “Can I really have something this good without earning it the hard way?” But that’s what made Albina One a living manifestation of the very shift I’d been practicing in dreams: releasing the story that worth is transactional.

This wasn’t just about housing. This was about allowing a new version of reality — one where I don’t have to be rich to live richly. One where abundance comes through alignment, not exhaustion. The dream prepared me to recognize it. The conversation with the contractor activated it. And my choice to explore it sealed the invitation.

I wasn’t just being offered a unit. I was being offered a new self-concept.

A New Form of Wealth

What’s interesting is, three years ago, I moved to my current apartment. That happened as a result of a similar dream-unfolding. And now, it turns out, because of where I live, just three blocks from Albina One, I got an extra 3- point advantage when I signed up on the waiting list. The building opens this month, but the Albina Vision Trust says it will not be fully occupied until end of year.

Albina One is more than a structure. It’s a mirror — reflecting back my vibrational progress. It’s proof my inner shifts are creating new outcomes. That my dreamwork isn’t just emotional housekeeping — it’s architectural alchemy. And it also showed me this:

Receiving doesn’t require permission.
Worth doesn’t need validation.
And luxury doesn’t have to cost what I think it does.

When I dropped my resistance, everything aligned. From paperwork to logistics to timing — all of it flowed. There was no “push.” No sacrifice. Just an unfolding. Just like in the dream.

The Dream Wasn’t Symbolic — It Was Instructional

I used to think my dreams were abstract. Symbolic, sure, but disconnected from material life. I don’t believe that anymore. My dreams are exact. They show me what’s coming before I’m ready to see it — and help me shift into the version of myself who IS ready to see it and receive it.

Albina One was seeded in my dreamstate long before it crossed my path in physical reality. Long before I ended up living where I am now. Because that’s how creation works. It’s vibrational first. The form comes later. And it’s constantly flowing and expanding. But only when we’re willing to see it.

And that’s what this experience has reminded me: the universe is always answering. The only question is — am I in the place to say yes? Albina One was my yes. Following the impulse was my yes. A yes to ease. A yes to beauty. And a yes to letting my past beliefs soothe so a new world can live through me. This is just the beginning…

Maybe you’re ready for your beginning. Consider becoming a client and let’s get you on your way.

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What Happens When Your “Bad” People Turn To Angels

Dianna D. Laura B. John F. For years, I believed these people wronged me.

They’re all either former colleagues from my days at Intel — the towering monolith of masculine, hierarchical energy where I once built a chapter of my life — or my time in the start-up world. And like so many beliefs written inside institutions and cultures like those, mine were layered with quiet betrayal, eroded confidence, and buried resentment.

Back then, I didn’t fully understand what was happening. Nor was I fully devoted to the Positively Focused practice. Now, though, I am devoted. And now, I fully understand.

Now I see that the versions of those people I created were showing me something important: not about them, but about me. And even more stunning? They came back in to my life.

Not in emails or texts, not in awkward coffee-shop run-ins, but in dreams. My dreams.

Because in my dreamscape, my Broader Perspective had more room to work with me — to show me the vibrational doors opening, which is what those relationships really were. They existed to help me soothe old momentum tied to money, power, gender, and above all, worthiness.

When Dreams Become Emotional Rescue Missions

At first, the dreams were charged, emotionally dense, visceral. Each figure reappeared not as a ghost, but as a live energetic transmission — stirring old wounds I thought I buried. Some dreams showed scenes that never happened in waking life, but carried the feeling tone of my deepest fears and suppressed resentments.

For a brief moment, I thought I was regressing. But I wasn’t. I was integrating and expanding. These weren’t dreams for processing “trauma” in the way psychology might frame it. These were missions of clarity from my Inner Being. A chance to be with old parts of myself — the ones who still flinched, still doubted, still wanted to be liked, still wanted to prove their worth to those who couldn’t see it.

The dreams allowed me to feel the sting again — but this time, with an enlightened presence. And from that place, something stunning happened.

I No Longer Needed Them to Be Villains

Dianna wasn’t cold and assuming the worst from me. Laura wasn’t manipulative and back stabbing. John wasn’t cowardly. Those were projections I held onto because they kept my story true — the story of being wronged. The story of being overlooked. The story of having to fight for space in rooms that weren’t built for people like me.

But in the dream-scape, I got to see the a different probable past: each were angels. Angels who came in the perfect form to reflect the energy I still carried. Angels whose final mission was to return in symbolic form and serve me not with apologies, but with their presence. By triggering my memories, they propelled my expansion.

Not because they had power to do that. But because I was ready to release the hold I had over myself and spark that energetic move forward.

I see now, thanks to my dream work, how people I thought were enemies, bad people, actually are angels.

What They Reflected Back to Me

What all of them had in common — what all of these relationships mirrored — was my own unconscious belief that my value was conditional. Conditional on performance. On likability, productivity. On never being “too much.”

It wasn’t about them. It was about the agreement I made long before Intel, long before adulthood, that I had to earn my belonging. And because the Universe itself is expansive and precise, as I am as a reflection of that, I attracted through it people who would play that game with me — perfectly.

They were never my enemies. They were my collaborators.

Worth Isn’t Earned — It’s Remembered

The biggest release came when I finally saw how this momentum had bled into every corner of my life — especially around money.

I had tied my financial abundance to how “worthy” I could be in the eyes of others. If I wasn’t producing, striving, or proving — I didn’t feel like I deserved to receive. That old frequency had kept me chasing manifestations rather than allowing them.

My dreams didn’t just help me see that. They helped me soothe it. Not intellectually, but, energetically. Each night, I returned to that dream terrain, and layer by layer, the emotional charge began to melt. It wasn’t dramatic. The process evolved over weeks. There were no movie-worthy “aha” moments. Just the steady loosening of tight vibrational knots.

Until one day I woke up and realized: I don’t resent them anymore. Not only that — I’m appreciative. It’s the same nonphysical experience a client recently had in wake-scape. That story publishes next month.

Diana, Laura and John showed up to serve the story until I no longer needed it. And then they returned one last time, lovingly, to help me release it.

This Is What Alignment Looks Like

Today, my relationship with my past is different. Not because the past changed…well it DID… because I did. My worth doesn’t live in their hands anymore. It never did. And that shift has changed everything.

I now allow money to come not because I’ve “earned” it, but because I’ve aligned with the version of me who no longer argues with her own value. My next post is a perfect companion to this knowing. It goes live tomorrow.

Today I attract people who reflect my wholeness, not scarcity. And I attract circumstances aligned with that expanded vibration.

I’ve always known dreamscape as a divine classroom — one that knows exactly how to reach me when I’m ready. Those experiences are increasingly showing me and my advanced practice clients how valuable dreamscape is. It’s amazing people live with no conscious connection to this deeply meaningful state of being.

If you’re still holding onto old stories about people who hurt you, who betrayed you, I invite you to consider: What if they were never villains? What if they were angels in disguise?

And what if their last gift to you is waiting… in your dreams? Book a session and discover how deeply in service to you your dream state is. And maybe you too will find those you despise are actually those most worthy of your appreciation.

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What Happens When a Customer No-Show Makes Magic

Most people would’ve called it a failure, a waste of time. Proof that the customer was flaky and unreliable.

But that’s not what my clients saw.

What unfolded, last Friday, for both my clients “Maya” and her employee “Talia”, wasn’t a mistake — it was masterful orchestration. A stunning example of how contrast, when met with awareness, becomes expansion. And how apparent disappointment can reveal a deeper harmony, the revealing of which couldn’t have been scripted better.

Here’s what happened.

The Setup

Maya had been feeling frustrated about a particular customer — let’s call her “Sabrina.” She’d talked about her in our sessions before. To Maya, Sabrina was the kind of customer who never seemed to honor the schedule. Always late. Often rescheduling at the last minute. Sometimes, not showing up at all. And when she did, using way too many words to get a point across.

Naturally, Maya interpreted that behavior as a reflection of Sabrina’s flakiness. But what she didn’t see — at first — was that Sabrina was actually reflecting something else. Something vibrational. Something deeper.

She was mirroring Maya’s own resistance embodied in Maya’s negative beliefs about her customer.

That resistance also included beliefs Maya had about her business not being where she thought it “should” be; resistance about not doing enough. Resistance about not being enough. These coupled with the subtle belief that, because her partner is funding the business, she has to “prove” herself by pushing harder, performing more, and showing constant effort.

So when she saw Sabrina showing up inconsistently, Maya didn’t recognize her as reflections. She saw her as a problem.

But then came Friday.

The “Failed” Appointment

Maya had an appointment with Sabrina that day. Sabrina’s office is across town — a long haul from where Maya lives. Still, Maya got ready, even though she felt off. Her stomach wasn’t right. Her body was signaling discomfort.

In that moment, her Broader Perspective was whispering, You don’t need to go.

But Maya — like many of us — has old momentum. The kind that says “Push through.” She believes real leaders show up no matter what. So she discounts intuitive nudges in favor of obligation.

That’s what had her get in the car and start driving. Along the way, her discomfort increased. So much so that she thought she might pass out. She pulled over, tried to ground herself with food — a burger and fries — but it only made things worse. So, she pressed on.

And when she finally arrived at the nonprofit’s office? Sabrina looked confused. She gave Maya a “Why are you here?” look.

It turns out: Sabrina hadn’t even put the appointment on her calendar. She had no idea they were supposed to meet. And she had to cancel — on the spot, despite everything Maya had just pushed through to get there.

Now pause here. This is the moment where most people would snap. Maya didn’t though.

Most people would snap had this happened to them. Not Maya though. Talia didn’t either.

The Realization

Instead, she caught herself. And in catching herself she saw the perfection. If she had honored her initial nudge — if she’d followed the discomfort in her body and chosen rest over effort — she would’ve been in sync with what her Broader Perspective already knew: that the appointment wasn’t real.

She would’ve matched Sabrina’s energy without needing to live the contrast. She would’ve flowed instead of pushed. And Maya got that, after the fact, right there in the lobby.

Maya then she called Talia. Talia, who was set to attend the appointment remotely, was back home in Houston when Maya called. And the moment she heard the story, she interrupted with: “This is contrast.” This is because Talia, too, is a client. She understands the value contrast represents, just as Maya sometimes does.

And just like that, they were both in it — in the joy of revelation. What looked like a mishap was actually a mirror. A reflection of Maya’s old momentum: the belief in obligation over intuition, control over flow. Together, Maya and Talia celebrated the realization.

They saw that Sabrina was playing a role — not just for Maya, but for everyone involved.

Because Talia had something else going on that day too: a friend had shown up unannounced, hoping to spend time with her. But because of the appointment, Talia felt she had to prioritize work — and her friend had to adjust.

If Maya had canceled, Talia would’ve had the space to be with her friend. Had she canceled, her body would’ve rested. If Maya had canceled, no one would’ve been out of sync. In other words, the only thing “off” was ignoring the nudge.

That’s not a failure. That’s feedback. It’s contrast serving us, clarifying our path forward.

The Integration

By the end of the call, Maya and Talia had already changed their process framework. They decided to implement new appointment protocols — confirmations two days in advance, and again the day before. Not from fear, but from alignment. From trust. From learning.

Oh, and also heeding nudges/impulses from their Broader Perspective!

They also changed the way they saw Sabrina. She wasn’t flaky. She was an angel. A precise vibrational actor, playing her role in a scene designed to help Maya release old beliefs. The belief that she had to push. Beliefs that she must prove. A belief that this customer was misaligned and irresponsible. When in fact, her customers are always reflecting Maya’s vibration — and giving her the perfect material for expansion. Just like the rest of her wake-scape.

What I love most about this story is that Maya didn’t double down. She didn’t villainize Sabrina, nor did she snap. She saw the unfolding, and so did Talia. And in that seeing, everything changed.

This is what it looks like when you live from the Positively Focused perspective. Not because life never brings you surprises — but because you recognize that every surprise is alignment, in motion.

Even the ones that come disguised as a last minute, on-the-spot cancellation.

Want some of this action? Become a client and let’s get on it!

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How To Find The Gift In Toxic Work Relationships

Every so often, this practice reveals something so elegantly orchestrated, it takes my breath away.

This past week, two separate clients—each at very different stages of their Positively Focused journey—experienced the same situation from very different perspectives. Each showed up carrying the weight of several difficult interpersonal dynamics going on between them. Both were feeling triggered, off-balance, unsure of themselves.

One is a founder and business owner. I call her Madison. I wrote about her personal experience earlier this week. The other is her employee. I call her Jane. I wrote about her individual experience too. This post seems like it might be a repeat of those previous two posts.

It’s not though.

Instead, this post reveals the sacred opportunities showing up when family members, or, in this case, co-workers, are Positively Focused clients. We get to see the sacred process from two sides; we get a rare glimpse at how two people co-create the larger expansion process happening between us all. Where we each serve as transformation/transmutation angels for one another.

Perfect mirrors and manifestations

From their individual perspectives neither Jane nor Madison knew what was happening for the other person. Neither knew what stirred inside each of them was part of the same vibrational story playing out in perfect divine symmetry in the other.

But I knew.

Madison came to her session feeling frustrated and confused. She believed her employee wasn’t showing up the way she hoped — there was resistance, emotional unpredictability and apparent unwillingness to complete assignments. All that left Madison disappointed, frustrated and angry. She wasn’t sure if she was failing as a leader or simply outgrowing a version of herself that still felt responsible for everyone’s well-being. She also felt she was not get anything in return for what she’s paying Jane.

Jane, two days later, showed up with her own agitation. Something gnawed at her — an emotional static she couldn’t shake. She felt misunderstood. She also felt fear. Her fear was about letting Madison down by failing at assignments Madison gave her.

Jane didn’t want to be a failure in her own eyes either. But Madison’s assignments were vague or unclear. That’s because it’s not only Madison’s first time being a business owner, it’s also her first time being a boss. So she too is insecure in herposition. She, like Jane, also fears failure. But Madison suffers from a double-whammy: potentially seeing herself as a failure and her partner Tom seeing her that way too.

Unbeknownst to Madison, she was getting exactly what she focused on, which is what her fear was calling her attention to. So was Jane. Jane didn’t want to fail in Madison’s eyes. But her fear of failure prompted inaction on vague assignments. She also feared asking clarifying questions because that triggered Madison’s fear which surfaced as frustration in the past.

Isn’t it ironic?

Jane, acting out of her fear, or, rather, not acting, was the perfect reflection of Madison’s fears. Madison’s fears, meanwhile reflected back to Jane her fears. Both women were getting exactly what they were creating; frustrated versions of one another. And both were pointing the finger at the other person!

Conflict invites letting go

And here’s where it becomes divine: Both Madison and Jane were each feeling the same frequency…from opposite sides of the mirror: Fear and insecurity. They were a perfect match, in other words.

Madison was wrestling with the idea that to be a “good” manager — she had never been a manager before — she needed to present a picture of flawlessness. Jane wrestled with the idea that to stay employed, she had to suppress her authenticity. One was over-functioning. The other was under-expressing. Both were reacting to the same energetic pattern: the fear that authenticity isn’t safe.

In their own way, however, each showed up ready to release that distorted belief.

In Madison’s session, she saw how “I must show that I know it all” was an echo from long ago — an old strategy to survive in corporate culture. The strategy wasn’t wrong. It was wise when she worked in the corporate world. It doesn’t work in the small business world though.

What’s more, she’s learning to lead from alignment, not control. But old echos resisted that. So she created a version of Jane reflecting what Madison was doing so Madison could let those old beliefs go.

Ah-ha moments from intensity

In Jane’s session, she saw that her agitation wasn’t dysfunction. It was guidance. A signal that her own expansion was arriving. Not through rebellion, but also through letting go and opening up, softening.

She feared something she couldn’t possibly do: letting herself down and letting Madison down. She needed to trust the version of herself that wanted this opportunity instead of fearing Madison’s reactions as an indication of something bad about her. This fear pointed the way to expansion through authentic expression (asking questions). That version is what Madison needed most. Not a “yes-person”.

A lot more than this was happening in the interpersonal dynamic. But what you just read highlights the main event. As a result, neither woman “fixed” the relationship in our sessions. Instead, they needed an extra session. One in which both attended. We held it shortly after Jane’s. It was intense, as fear is an intense emotion.

But it offered many ah-ha moments for both women. That call wasn’t easy for either of them. But they’re both better now, as is their working relationship, for having it. Both stepped more fully into clarity of who they are becoming…as individuals, as business partners, as employee and employer.

Other people are gifts

They also offered each other a sacred gift: the opportunity to evolve in real-time through authentic, shared contrast. Each was a reflection of the other’s edge. And both navigated it not by hardening, but by softening. Not by demanding change from the other, although both probably wanted that initially, but by each becoming the version of themselves that no longer needed the old patterns.

This is what makes the Positively Focused journey so profound. We begin seeing how nothing is random. How every difficult interaction is divine orchestration. How life isn’t punishing us — it’s partnering with us. Offering mirrored experiences that reflect the exact vibration ready to be released. Often that mirror is other people.

Madison and Jane never planned this coordination. But their Broader Perspective’s did. And in honoring their own unfolding, they became co-creators in each other’s expansion — each woman rising through her own contrast into a new level of sovereignty, understanding, and empowerment.

If you’ve been in a tangled work relationship dynamic lately, pause before blaming or fixing. There’s a mirror waiting to be seen. And often, what looks like conflict is actually harmony in progress — a symphony of expansion tuning itself through two instruments, you and the other person, learning to resonate at a higher frequency.

That’s what I witnessed this week. And it was stunning.

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The Powerful Truth About Why Her Business Feels Stuck

Not every client session ends with a breakthrough. Sometimes, what emerges is a mirror so clearly reflective, it can only be received in layers. That’s what happened with one of my clients this week—let’s call her Madison—as she wrestled with tension in her business and growing frustration with both her employee and her small number of customers.

Madison runs an emerging, but very real, small business. She has four paying clients, and more showing interest. From where I sit, it’s happening. The momentum is building. But from where Madison stood in our recent session, all she could see was how much wasn’t happening.

She felt burdened. Not just by the challenges of running the business, but by the belief that she had to do more to make it succeed. She thought she needed her employee— Jane (whose experience I wrote about previously) — to match that “doing” energy. More outreach. More follow-through. Increased visible hustle. But Jane wasn’t responding to those cues. And Madison was taking it personally.

She was also taking it out on her customers—grumbling about their quirks, dismissing their contributions, struggling to feel grateful for the very signs that her dream was taking root.

Pushing doesn’t help

At the heart of it all was pressure. Not pressure from her partner Tim, who’s funding the business. But from the version of Tim Madison carries in her. No one exists in our reality but us. Everyone else who seems to be there are versions of those people we create. We create them through thoughts and beliefs we have about that person.

This is something I share with clients over and over. It’s hard to get, until the client receives Universal evidence proving it’s accurate. Then the game changes. But for Madison, she hasn’t fully let that accuracy sink in. So she’s not trying to change her beliefs about her partner.

I know Tim isn’t hovering over her, demanding performance. I know this because he’s a client too and we’ve spoken many times about this. But Madison’s version of Tim is demanding. That internalized voice keeps saying: “You need to prove this is working. You need to get bigger, faster. You need to do more. It’s MY money after all!”

So she pushes. And when the business didn’t respond to the push, she got angry. Not just at the business, not just at Jane, but at herself as well.

Our session wasn’t about resolving that anger. It was about revealing it. Naming it. Making space for what was really going on.

Feeling stuck

“There’s nothing wrong with you. There’s nothing wrong with your business. There’s nothing wrong with Jane,” I told her. “It’s just a bunch of distortion that you’re telling yourself, and then you’re feeling shitty because you’re in the distortion.”

She heard that. Not with ease, but with recognition. Her head nodded even as her body resisted and remained stiff. Because deep down, she knows what’s so: She’s not failing. She’s just running with her old belief momentum. The one that says success comes from effort, not alignment. From force, not flow, not letting go.

But the business she’s building can’t be grown from that energy. It’s asking her to trust. To appreciate. To be, not just do. And Jane—by not cooperating with the push—is reflecting that truth beautifully. Not out of defiance. But out of resonance. She’s mirroring back exactly where Madeline is stuck: in the doing.

“You’re in a good place,” I told Madison. “…we can talk about this next week and the week after, if you want to. If that’s what it’s gonna take to get you to let go of the doing and lean into the being — and also lean into the appreciation of the four customers you have and the revenue they’ve provided, no matter how small.”

Madeline left that session still feeling stuck. Still frustrated. But with something new: a clearer view of what was really going on. And that clarity, even if uncomfortable, was the invitation.

It’s no surprise then when one of the four customers she had disparaged for “ghosting” her, actually showed up eager to take the next steps because they need exactly what Madeline is offering!

Letting go

This is how real transformation often unfolds—not in grand moments of release, but in quiet reckonings. In honest reflections. In the willingness to stay with ourselves even when we don’t feel resolved.

So if you’re pushing and nothing’s moving…If you’re trying to “make it happen” and the universe seems to be ignoring you…Pause.

What if the stuckness is sacred? What if the resistance is your business—or your life—asking you to be with it, not bulldoze it?

The Positively Focused path isn’t about doing more. It’s about aligning more deeply, letting go, then letting inspired action emerge naturally. That’s not always easy. But it’s always true.

Madeline is learning that. And if you’re here, maybe you are too.

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What Happens When People Create Wonderful Lives

TL;DR: The author writes how a client’s shift in focus shows how alignment creates the Charmed Life. With devotion and resistance-clearing, joyful realities unfold—proof of living Positively Focused.

In my last post I wrote about a client’s awesome realization as a result of experiencing contrast between his work life and his non-work life. He moved into an alternate reality in which his work life felt mundane, uninspiring, while his weekend life was inspiring and joyful. And yet, just the week before, the very same work he was doing this past week was inspiring and joyful.

What gives?

The only difference between the reality he created last week, and the one he created the week before was his focus. In other words, through his vibration, he came into a reality he didn’t like. One having him feel his job was lifeless.

In less than an hour, however, we got him back into the reality in which his weekend life’s fun is matched by his work life.

Every client goes through this kind of calibration. It’s the way life is for everyone. We constantly align with different alternate realities every moment. The one we align with in any given moment becomes our living, breathing reality. The other ones we experience too. We experience those through our alternate selves.

This means we can experience a constant stream of moving into realities we enjoy. But it takes devotion. It takes focus. And the best way to focus is by focusing on the positive aspects of our lives. That focus creates the Charmed Life I write about in this blog.

Manifestations and the Charmed Life

Want to know what that sounds like? Want to know what living a Charmed Life feels like? Listen to this voice message a separate client sent this week. The client created an entire day of flowing into better and better realities and manifestations, all starting with a simple hair appointment. It’s a long message (8 minutes). But you can tell by her voice, her excitement, and what happened in the day, that she’s totally living the Charmed Life.

The Charmed Life is everyone’s life. It’s always happening. That means if our lives aren’t feeling like this client’s experience, we’re in an alternate reality. One that doesn’t include our Charmed Life experience. Charmed Life living comes with us being Positively Focused. The client in this message is chronically Positively Focused. So she’s getting the extraordinary experience of constant, joyful unfolding manifestations. Including manifestations where she benefits others in remarkable ways. Ways that show up for the other person with no effort on their part.

If you didn’t listen to it, that voice message is worth listening to. Go back and listen. It may be the best 8 minutes you’ve had today.

Clearing resistance is key

My days are similar to this female client’s days. Increasingly, so are my other Advanced Positively Focused clients’ lives. I love getting messages like the one above. I hope you listened to it, because it’s not an outlier experience. It’s just what happens when we let go and trust in the Universe’s ability to deliver to us everything we want…in perfect timing.

For most clients, “perfect timing” takes a while. That’s because we build up resistance through our lives, resistance that aligns us with alternate probable realities that match that resistant state. Clearing resistance takes a while. Along the way, however, we learn how to tune ourselves so that the reality we want to live becomes our constant state. It doesn’t happen all at once, but evidence of it happening appears instantly. Learning how to clear resistance, therefore, is the key to unlock that constant, Charmed Life state.

And that’s why I love living Positively Focused. Because living a life charmed has no equal. Book a session and let’s show you how effortlessly reality can become when you live from your Broader Perspective.

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Why I know Life Is Going Great For Us All

This is so great. This past week I wrote about how previous generations entrain in-coming ones thereby slowing the process of expansion, both for individuals and the species as a whole. I know this is accurate. It explains why progress happens so slowly on a human-wide scale.

It needn’t happen as slowly at the individual level, but a lot of times it does. That’s because people allow into their experience the entrainment. It makes sense they do that. It seems that’s the way life should be lived. After all, everyone around us is living that way.

I fell into that for a few decades. I’ve found my way out now and none too soon. Especially since radical life extension on the horizon promises me another 60 years of physical life (I’m 61 now). At least. Living the next 60 years in my sovereignty, clarity and expansion, focused on expanding into more of all three thrills me.

And that thrill comes from experiences like the one prompting this post.

Wink and nod 

This post is about serendipity, when the Universe subtly nods in my direction as a way of saying “yep, you’re on track”. So many of these nods happen. I share many of them in this blog.

This morning brought another one. That’s why I’m sharing it today. I love immediate response from the Universe! Here’s how it unfolded.

In a short post I published two days ago, I described the generational entrainment process as part of explaining why people give up living through imagination for being realistic. That same day, a truly amazing manifestation happened. A post is in the works about that too. It will publish in July. I swear, every day multiple manifestations are popping into my awareness. It’s a freaking cornucopia of goodness!

And that’s what I felt this morning, June 8, when I checked my email. There, blessing me with its wisdom, was a Universal acknowledgment of the post I wrote two days ago. An amplification actually, is what it was. The email, from Abraham, was both wink and nod. And confirmation. Here’s what it said:

Thank goodness we’re eternal. My appreciation for that fact overwhelms me more and more. I’m thrilled with life, how it’s going for me, the species and everything else on the planet. The deeper, further, more into my expansion I allow myself, the more I see so much of what’s happening as happening in our favor.

And the more we as individuals are willing to let that “in our favor” in, the better our life goes.

Can you also see, however, that the more of us individuals who that do that, the faster it happens for all of us as a species? That’s what this message points to. That’s what my experience tells me.

And that’s thrilling. Because I’m on the timeline leading to more individuals becoming their version of what I enjoy. And on that timeline, life is really, really, really great!

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What Happens When a Boss Triggers an Old Pattern

This week, one of my clients—let’s call her Jane —brought something to our session many people can relate to: growing frustration with her employer.

On the surface, it looked like a straightforward situation. Several tense conversations. Feelings of insecurity and uncertainty. Interpretations that had her feeling dismissed, unseen, and emotionally tangled for days. She described a kind of internal agitation — something wasn’t sitting right, but she couldn’t tell if she was overreacting or if her intuition was trying to warn her of something.

And here’s where it got interesting.

As we followed the threads deeper, Jane realized this wasn’t just about her current employer. It wasn’t even about the comment she was interpreting. It was about much older momentum surfacing through the lens of this moment — an ingrained belief that said: “To stay safe, you must remain agreeable. To be respected, can’t be authentic.”

It was the classic conflict between authenticity and survival. Between speaking in ways aligned with what she felt and believed and keeping the peace. Between honoring her intuitive knowing and fearing the fallout of rocking the boat.

Tears to laughter

As we continued, she began to see the real source of her discomfort: not her boss, but the internalized authority figure she carried inside. The one that mirrored every boss, teacher, parent, or partner who’d ever told her—explicitly or energetically—that her voice was too much, her insight inconvenient, or her sensitivity a liability.

The moment she saw that, her energy shifted. Her struggles remained, but they softened.

What she felt wasn’t wrong. She wasn’t being “too sensitive.” Instead past momentum was resurfacing to be soothed. It’s belief momentum that had once served her, but now only blocks the flow of her sovereignty and expansion.

And here’s the beauty: Soothing that momentum didn’t require confronting her boss. She didn’t need to demand validation or placate her. Her increasing clarity wasn’t about being right in the external world — it was about reclaiming her right to feel sovereign in her being. And therefore, to be able to express herself fully, authentically.

When I described what “reclaiming” looked like, she softened. Jane’s energy shifted more and tears turned to a little laughter. What had felt like emotional blockage revealed itself as expansion in the moment — a calibration to a new version of herself. One that no longer needs to dim in order to stay safe. One that doesn’t mistake tension for danger.

The leader is waiting

What I love most about this kind of session is that the breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing against the external world. It comes from remembering who and what we are.

That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about. We don’t fix the world by wrestling with it. After all, the world doesn’t need fixing. It’s not broken. Nor are we. We’re not broken, nor do we need fixing. Instead, by realigning with our Broader Perspective the world reflects that alignment back to us.

But sometimes, nearly always actually, finding that alignment means letting life’s contrast serve us. Not as a warning, but as an invitation.

If you’ve had a moment recently where someone rubbed you the wrong way, consider that maybe it wasn’t about them at all. Maybe they were the perfect mirror, showing you in that moment where your expansion is ready to come through. And maybe that discomfort is also serving. It’s not that something has gone wrong, rather, your Broader Perspective is inviting you to expand.

If that’s where you are, and you’d like support in making sense of it all without collapsing into it, I’d love to show you what’s possible when you meet contrast from clarity, not fear.

Sometimes the boss is just a stand-in. The real leader is waiting to be you.

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Seeing The Good Life Through The Lens Of Imagination

Late last week I wrote a post about science and love. I highlighted a client experience showing how disempowering scientific interpretations of reality can be. In this post, I want to point out another gift that conversation brought. One that shows how all of us humans are divine, naturally connected to All That Is and therefore predisposed to the Charmed Life.

If that’s the case, if we are predisposed to the Charmed Life, why do so many humans not live that? The answer lies in the text conversation this client and I had. More specifically, what he texted after I showed him a more imaginative way to look at his “lovesickness” than through scientific lenses. Here’s what he wrote. Let’s look at it again:

The client writes about his ability to “see outside of a reductionist scientific view” of the world. He talks about seeing the Universe as it is: “a conscious one made of love and beauty.”

That’s a beautiful way to put it. It’s also accurate in the extreme. When this client sees the world that way, I’m sure he feels empowerment, joy, connection and what humans call love. Seeing the world that way is a guaranteed outcome of the Positively Focused practice and a hallmark of the Charmed Life. The practice makes that way of seeing habitual or chronic. Through that lens, one can see the world unfolding perfectly, with one’s desires fulfilling themselves right before one’s eyes.

That’s such an empowering place from which to live. So why does this client choose scientific lenses rather than lenses of empowerment?

It’s generational

The same reason most humans do it. In a word: “habituation”.

Each successive generation comes into the world through the generation before it. Those previous generations think their job is to teach the young how to move through the world.

It’s not their job to do that though. But they act as though it is.

Previous generations invariably get caught up in disempowerment’s momentum. The beliefs they form disconnect them from the beauty and love that is reality’s natural state. From there, all they see is disappointment, discouragement, boredom, bondage, fear and insecurity. Oh, they have fleeting glimpses of positive expectation or happiness, but most of their life doesn’t show up that way. The way their life does show up comes from habituation they learned from the generations coming before them.

It’s from there that previous generations entrain the next one. And THAT’S why people double-down on “being realistic”, and “facing the facts”. It’s why they argue against being “pollyanna”; why they believe in “confirmation bias”. It explains why “wishful thinking” as a pejorative describing being Positively Focused is a thing. And so, previous generations pass to the next one a fact-based, realistic lens.

That’s why people end up being realistic instead of imaginative.

We remember

The in-coming generation knows this is going to happen before they come in. So it’s not like they’re a victim of the previous generation. They know what they’re doing deep down. Still, a few come in remembering all this. And it’s those few who offer clarity to the rest.

They’re the visionaries. It’s people like them who move humanity forward. Others come to remind those who’ve forgotten so they may live lives charmed.

My job as one of the latter is to attract those few, remind them what they know and help them recover their sovereignty, their imagination. That’s what is happening with this client. It’s what happens with every client. And that’s why clients’ lives change for the better in dramatic fashion.

My “job” is an expression of love. It’s based on the beauty and love inherent in All That Is. Not science. It is an act of eternal imagination. And its reverberations span all dimensions.

Every person possesses this divine, natural connection to All That Is. The only difference between them and me and my clients is: we remember.

Maybe it’s time you remember too. Book a session, let’s find out.