How One Powerful Intention Brought a Beautiful Stranger Back

TL;DR: The author shares a real-life manifestation story showing how a light, trusting intention led to a wonderful reunion — proving once again that alignment, not effort, is the secret to beautiful results.

There’s tremendous power in lining up with how reality works. Especially when it comes to creating outcomes we want. This power causes trying to “make it happen” to pale in comparison. Indeed, all my clients who have experienced this say that creating what they want is far, far, far more satisfying than trying to “make it happen” through doing.

But it takes trust to rely on BEING as a way to have what we want. Trust comes from repeated evidence demonstrated over time. Evidence proving process you’re wanting to trust is trust-worthy. That’s why the Positively Focused practice is a practice. Yes, it’s difficult at first, as is learning anything new. But the other, more important reason for the practice is people need to build trust in their being. That comes from assembling a body of evidence proving their being is worthy of their trust.

What happened in my life over the last six months is yet another piece of evidence fortifying my trust in everything I share. What happened isn’t so special. These kinds of things happen for me all the time these days. But the way in which it happened is special. That’s because, as I just shared, it’s one more weight tipping the scale towards my knowing that reality, or Wake-Scape, bends to our intention set in our Reality of Origin through the Moment Of Becoming.

Let’s look at this wonderful manifestation in which I created a rendezvous with a beautiful stranger I met months before.

It begins

I didn’t realize it six months ago, but what unfolded since then became a perfect, living example of the Positively Focused practice — the kind of story I tell my clients to help them see how Wake Scape really works when we align into our Moment of Becoming and follow our Broader Perspective‘s impulses.

There’s a burger joint I used to frequent. It wasn’t the food that drew me in week after week — though I’m not going to say no to a good burger. No, what kept pulling me in was a trans woman who worked there. She was stunning. Magnetic. The first time she brought my food out to me, she took my breath away.

From that moment on, I was hooked. Not in a desperate way. But I was definitely showing up more frequently at this burger place and not just for the burgers and tater tots. Every week I’d head over, sit at the bar, and simply…watch. Watch her move, cook, smile.

We never spoke. I never approached her. But I knew she knew I was looking. And yet something in me respected the sacred space of her workplace. I didn’t force an introduction.

Weeks passed. Maybe two months. Then one day, she wasn’t there.

The next week? Still no sign of her.

And just like that, she was gone. I realized she no longer worked there. And that felt like a door closing — one I hadn’t even walked through. I never got her name. Never had a chance to chat her up or even say hello.

But here’s where the manifestation began.

“Go for a walk”

I remember thinking: “I’m going to see her again.”

And that’s all. No trying. No scheming. I didn’t launch a search party or dig around online. I just felt the desire, set it down gently in the space of my Reality of Origin, and let it go. Letting it go was easy because I knew my Broader Perspective and All That Is was on it. So I didn’t need to be. My Broader Perspective received my intention to see her again. It would therefore orchestrate events so that that would happen.

I went on with life. No resistance. No need to control it. Just trust.

Fast forward to a day in late May. I woke up to an impulse. One of those quiet nudges from my Broader Perspective — ones I’ve learned to listen to without questioning. It was already 70° outside and heading toward 85°. The nudge was simple: go for a walk.

So I did. I didn’t even think twice. After dressing I headed out into the warm morning air. I walked over to the community center where I workout and ended up having a lovely 10-minute conversation with a man I know named Apollo. And yes — he looks like an Apollo.

We caught up, shared some laughs, then parted ways. I continued walking. About ¾ of the way through my route, far from the burger joint, I came upon a breakfast place. And who do you think was sitting at an outside table?

That’s right. Her.

The trans woman from the burger place. Just…sitting there. Radiant as ever.

The rendezvous was very much exactly like this!

Let that sink in

My heart did a little flip. I knew this was the moment I’d asked for. My intention, dropped in months ago, had landed. And now it was right in front of me, delivered right through the Moment of Becoming into my Present Moment, my collection of manifestations.

At first, I hesitated. I felt a flicker of embarrassment — should I approach her? What if it’s awkward? But I’ve trained myself to move beyond those thoughts. I knew this was an invitation from the All That Is, perfectly timed and lovingly orchestrated.

After screwing up some gumption, I walked over, pulled out the chair across from her and sat down. She smiled and opened a conversation. A conversation that was delightful.

Her name is Bryn. She told me she left the burger joint because the management had done something unethical. She now works for the post office — and here’s the kicker: the branch she works at is less than half a mile from my home.

Not only that, she knows my next-door neighbor, who also is a letter carrier, and works with him at that very branch.

Now let that sink in.

A woman I admired from afar disappeared. Then reappeared — not just randomly, but in my neighborhood, woven into my everyday reality, my Present Moment. Not by accident. But through my alignment. No effort. No trying to make it happen.

This is what manifestation really looks like.

What we want will show up

It’s not about forcing. Nor is it about chasing. It’s about being — being in alignment with what we want, then letting the Universe do the rest.

I didn’t “make” this happen. There was no manipulation of events or trying to control outcomes. I simply followed joy, listened to the impulses, followed the nudge. And that nudge took me exactly where I needed to be, exactly when I needed to be there.

That’s the magic of this practice. But it’s not magic. It’s knowing what we really are, then living from that clarity.

Set our intention. Don’t worry about how. Don’t worry about when. Let everything go. Keep our vibration clear, our heart open, and our life in flow. And when the time is right, what we want will show up — often in ways more satisfying and more elegantly than we could ever plan.

Meeting Bryn again wasn’t just a sweet surprise. It was a confirmation. The Universe confirmed what I trust in: that I don’t need to hustle my way into getting what I want. I just need to listen, trust, allow then act when the impulse comes.

Next time that quiet desire arises — the kind that tugs at the heart without demanding attention — trust that it’s heard. Trust that it’s in motion. And trust that staying in joy will bring what you want faster than your action.

Just like Bryn came to me. And when it does, it will feel easy. Effortless. Natural.
Like walking outside on a sunny morning…And finding exactly what you wanted.

Want help with learning how? Book a free session. Let’s get you started.

When A Violent Attack Became A Great Gift

TL;DR: After years of misanthropic momentum, a client manifested a violent encounter—but responded with clarity and non-reaction. His experience shows how even violence can catalyze spiritual mastery and empowered sovereignty.

April was a banner month for Positively Focused clients. Nearly all clients enjoyed amazing manifestations. One manifested a free 1-Carat diamond. Another, effortlessly manifested a repeat music gig. These creations made April unusually invigorating. Their manifestations rivaled my own, including one in which I gifted to myself the power of precognition, and another where I effortlessly manifested a rendezvous with a person of interest.

But one advanced client’s manifestation stood out.

He took this Positively Focused practice to an entirely new level by demonstrating mastery well beyond previous awareness. His mastery proved the power of Jesus’ admonition to “turn the other cheek”. In doing so he completely diffused a violent situation in the midst of the violence.

This client’s Positively Focused practice began many years ago. Being trans-attracted brought him to the practice through my other offering, The Transamorous Network. I write about this client often, because he creates such powerful manifestations. They demonstrate how, even though his life seemed in shambles, he’s a powerful creator. One with enormous potential.

So when a stranger assaulted him, I wasn’t surprised he was up for the challenge. To understand how this unfolded, we must look at this client’s past. That way we can see how he was a perfect match to the violence he created.

The background for context

The client’s past includes a lot of negative experiences. Those experiences came after he focused on those experiences in a way which amplified their momentum. Back then, the client didn’t understand this YCYOR business. So he was powerless to do anything other than what he did.

One thing he developed along the way was a strong hatred of women. Alongside that hatred was a strong dislike/hatred of people in general. Both his misogyny and his misanthropy made him a match to experiences consistent with those vibrational frequencies.

Women almost always rejected his advances. They often found him revolting. The client often gets into disagreements with them. And, of course, because of all this he’s had precious little experience with relationships with women.

The same holds true for his experiences with people in general. More often than not, the client believes people disregard his feelings, disrespect him or under-appreciate him. One woman accused him of stalking her. Men would get angry at him or the client would say something crass or insulting thereby burning bridges. Even his siblings revile him.

And, the more of these kinds of things happened, the stronger his negative beliefs about women, specifically, and people, in general, grew thereby amplifying his belief-momentum.

Changing focus

It took a while before he opened the door to becoming aware of all this. I pointed it out after offering a specific Positively Focused process. In that process it’s natural to express appreciation for others. This client never did that though. Even when I tried directing him to the subject of the millions of people who benefit him, he would not focus on appreciating those people.

That’s when I introduced the possibility that he held misanthropic beliefs. At first, he accepted the assertion. Shortly after, however, he resisted it. He even claimed I was creating a misanthropic version of him! How’s that for using the practice against me LOL!

Of course, I told him that’s not what’s happening. And, again, of course, the Universe agreed, which is exactly why what happened next was so perfect.

I tell all clients people’s Broader Perspective always guides them to their highest purposes. Most people, however, are no where near the vicinity of their Broader Perspective’s vibrational frequency, so they can’t feel the guidance. That explains why such people experience negative, even tragic, events. Such events are not negative or tragic. They represent the Universe trying to get people’s attention so they change their focus. Change their focus and come in-line with their Broader Perspective.

Punctuating clarity

Contrary to what people think about reality, things don’t happen randomly or by coincidence. They come into our lives – are attracted to us – because of our focus. This attraction dynamic is relentless, meaning, if our focus dominantly resides in lower frequencies, we will attract matching experiences.

Humans describe those as “negative”. But they usually don’t begin with tragedies or strongly negative experiences. They always start out mild. Like tripping on the sidewalk, banging a knee or a bird poops on us!

If we don’t take the hint, so to speak, the Universe turns up the volume. Such experiences will increase in intensity until they reach a stage where they’re full-blown tragedies. All these events potentially clarify for us where we are on our path. They’re meant to help us course-correct.

But they also can punctuate clarity a person already has received. Such manifestations and their timing come with such clarity, it’s impossible to ignore the unfolding pattern. Especially with some Positively Focused practice under our belts. And this is where this client stood: with lots of the practice under his belt, and yet resisting the clarity he received so far.

That set up this perfect unfolding.

A dismissal

The client was out one night after not being able to sleep. He walked the streets, moving through the bar district. One location called him, so he stopped in. He sidled up to the bar and when he put his hand on the bar, he “accidentally” cut his pinky on a glass shard.

This happened just a couple days after our session in which I revealed his misanthropic momentum. The client asked the female bartender for a bandaid and rubbing alcohol. She didn’t have rubbing alcohol. According to the client, she “dismissed” his distress and tossed him a bandaid. His interpretation of her “dismissiveness” indicated his powerful resonance with creating women matching his misogynistic beliefs.

Miffed, the client went to the bathroom. There he washed the cut with soap and water, which I’m sure offered not only relief from the cut, but also allowed him to re-align with his higher vibrations. So when he returned to the bar, he rendezvoused with a better version of the bar-maid. One that had found and offered a tube of Neosporin instead of rubbing alcohol.

Unfortunately, the client didn’t maintain his relief. His dominant negative momentum, generally, on the subject of women, and specifically, on the subject of THIS woman, collapsed him right back into negative vibrations and feelings about her. He ignored the tube, didn’t even thank her for it and, instead, left the bar.

“Say one more word…”

I know you’re probably thinking “what an asshole”. But name calling does nothing other than amplify our own negative belief-momentum. What really was happening was this client was serving himself powerfully. He was setting up a series of events that made it undeniable that he stands in very strong negative belief-momentum about men and women.

He’s not an “asshole”. He’s just unconscious about what’s going on in himself and how to change that. So his reality reflects back to him a life experience matching his inner state, whether he gets it or not. That’s happening with every person.

The client left that bar. He grabbed a seat at another bar not far away. There, minding his own business, the client noticed a black man approaching. At first, as the client explains it, the guy seemed ordinary. But when the guy saw the client, he started shouting at him. The client can’t remember what the guy was angry about. He said the black guy literally got in his face, shouting angry words at him.

Then, out of nowhere, the guy hit the client with an open hand across his face. An assault! The guy hit the client in the face so hard, the client told me, his glasses went flying. Everyone around was shocked into speechlessness.

Not the client. He knew exactly what was happening. “This guy was an angel, reflecting back to me my own misanthropic beliefs in the most obvious way,” He said in-session. He told me he didn’t get angry or defensive. All he could think of was “I created this.”

My client sharing what happened.

As the guy walked away, my client said something like “I didn’t even do anything to you! That was uncalled for.” And with that, the guy came bounding back. “Say one more word MOTHERFUCKER!” he said. My client put his dukes up, but said it was merely a gesture of protection. He didn’t want a physical confrontation.

“You wanna die today?”

What the client did here is masterful. He literally diffused the situation through non-reaction in the physical sense. That’s because he understood this was a reality HE created, born of his beliefs, in order to see those beliefs manifested, then do something about them. Fighting back would have just amplified momentum inherent in his misanthropic beliefs. Not reacting was exactly the right thing to do. Something most people won’t even have in their reaction toolbox.

This client’s act of real bravery reminds me of a similar experience from my life. One day, a stranger, down on his luck, encountered me on a light rail platform. We made eye contact and I smiled at him. Apparently he didn’t like that.

“What you looking at faggot,” he said menacingly. “You wanna die today?”

“Do you?” I said without missing a beat. The words flowed from my mouth before I had a moment to think of a response. I had no intention of harming this black guy let alone killing him.

The stranger looked down at his feet as he kept walking. “Yes,” he said.

As he walked away, he kept looking back with a “WTF just happened?” look on his face.

Responses such as my client’s, such as mine, are natural states of being. They reflect what Jesus said about turning the other cheek. They also show the power of Abraham’s admonition to nations that experience their versions of what my client and I experienced:

Our sovereign power

It’s not that you turn away and invite the next strike. It’s that you offer a vibration so high you’re no longer in the time line in which a next strike can happen. In what happened to me, which I described above, I offered a vibration so high it literally moved the offender into a higher vibration. A vibration from which he was confronted with his own negative belief constellations as the Source of his pain.

Admittedly, these are high-order skills, much like precognitive abilities I wrote about recently. But such skills are available to us all. Accessing them requires devotion. A devotion to a certain path. Not the path of nonviolence, but the path of unwavering positivity. The path where we see only the best the world has to offer.

There, in that high vibration, we come into our sovereignty. We discover our invulnerability. Then we find that the world is our creation, malleable to our thoughts and beliefs. Just as it always has been. Just as it always will be.

Let’s talk about how you can enjoy a life similarly empowered in your sovereignty. Book your free session today. You too can enjoy abilities my clients and I are realizing. Abilities aligned with the Charmed Life. Where all you want happens effortlessly.

How To Make The World Better–Through Belief Alone

TL;DR: The author reflects further on a striking encounter with a friend to illustrate how beliefs shape physical reality, showing that inner alignment—not outer conditions—determines the world we each experience.

In my last post, I shared a 24-hour journey from negative momentum to alignment, sparked by a conversation with my friend, Mark. It was a powerful moment of returning to my sovereignty, which you can read here.

But there’s a deeper thread that continued to unfold—the stark difference between my reality and Mark’s, even though we live in the same city. That contrast revealed something remarkable.

It’s often said that “we see what we want to see.” But what if it’s even deeper than that? What if we don’t just see through the lens of our beliefs… we live through them? What if every detail of our physical experience—what happens to us, what we witness, what we remember—is shaped not by the world “out there” but by the vibration we’re broadcasting?

Mark and I both live in Portland, Oregon. I live near downtown; Mark lives in the suburbs. Last Thursday, during lunch, Mark described two recent events that deeply disturbed him. Both happened downtown. Both involved violence. And both served, for him, as evidence of the country’s collapse.

Let’s take a look at them.

Chaos, danger and decline

In the first incident, Mark tried to visit the main branch of the Multnomah County Library around 9 a.m. only to find it closed. He immediately linked this to Trump-era budget cuts. Later that day, when he returned to the library around noon, the building had been cordoned off by police. A shooting had occurred on the steps.

But here’s the thing: the library wasn’t closed due to budget cuts. Multnomah County Library standardized hours in December 2024 to offer a balance of morning and evening access. Now, the downtown branch opens at noon on Tuesdays and Wednesdays to accommodate both working people and families. It’s about consistency and predictability for patrons—not politics or scarcity.

Still, Mark filtered the change through his vibrational lens. Saturated in narratives of political and social decay, he couldn’t help but interpret it as another sign of America’s downfall. His thoughts and beliefs tuned him to a version of Portland filled with chaos, danger, and decline. And that’s exactly what he found.

The second incident, which happened earlier, involved a gathering of unhoused individuals. An argument broke out, and Mark watched one person knock another to the ground and begin kicking them. Again, he took this as evidence that America—and particularly Portland—was unraveling.

Meanwhile, I’ve cultivated a completely different vibrational lens.

Vibrational Contagion Works

When I walk through Portland, people smile at me. I’m greeted warmly by strangers. I get compliments from passersby. Even unhoused people feel like part of the landscape, not a threat. I’ve held the belief that they’re harmless, and so they are. Recently, while dining out, a staff member passed by me and said, “You’re really good-looking.” I agreed. I know I look good because I feel good. I vibrate at a high frequency.

That’s not vanity. That’s alignment.

Last Thursday, Mark suggested I move to a country like Vietnam or Thailand, where my Social Security income along with my client revenue might stretch further. In his view, the U.S. is on a downward spiral. But I’ve recently manifested an affordable housing opportunity right here in Portland—Albina One—that feels like a perfect vibrational match for me at this moment. I’ve also received powerful dream downloads encouraging me to relaunch my YouTube channel.

The world around us reflects our vibration. Make it a beautiful one.

None of that came up during our lunch. Why? Because I collapsed into Mark’s Belief Momentum. I saw what Mark saw: limitation. Diminished possibility. Fearful retreat.
That’s how quickly—and how powerfully—vibrational contagion works.

And when I collapsed, my vibrational lens changed. I actually considered leaving the country. I saw my future as limited, uncertain, bleak. That’s the power of alignment—whatever you align to, you see. I literally forgot all the incredible manifestations that had recently unfolded for me. Manifestations telling me my future is secure. Right here in the US.

When the Universe responds to our vibration, it doesn’t respond to the “truth.” It responds to belief. And then it produces what looks like truth—but it’s actually confirmation. That’s the kicker: What we think is “objective reality” is just our vibration made visible.

How We Change…Everything

But the beauty of this practice is, I noticed it. I caught the momentum then paused. I didn’t push forward from that lower vibration. Instead, I tuned inward. Then I shared my experience with my clients to demonstrate how even I, a seasoned practitioner, moved through contrast. I also did it to amplify my clarity.

And when I returned to alignment, everything came back into focus.

This is why Mark’s experiences and mine differ so radically—even when we occupy the same town. It’s why he was moved to suggest I leave the country… while I’m actively manifesting a bright, abundant future right here in Portland.

It’s why, when I aligned again with my Broader Perspective, I remembered the truth of my trajectory — my dream-driven YouTube guidance, my apartment, my unfolding financial stability. And it’s why, when I re-centered myself the next day, using my Positively Focused practice, I felt radiant again. Because I stopped interpreting life through his lens, and returned to my own. That’s how powerful this is.

This experience reaffirmed what I know to be true: our reality is not “out there”. It’s in here, in us all. Our thoughts, our beliefs, our vibration filter All That Is into the only version of reality we can see.

We don’t have to leave our country to find peace. Nor do we have to move to a different economy to feel secure. We just have to shift the signal we’re broadcasting—and then our world shifts around us. This isn’t theory. It’s not metaphor. It’s real.

I’m living proof.

Mark’s Portland is violent, failing, and hopeless. My Portland is promising, vibrant, and full of connection. Same city. Two worlds. Each perfectly matching our internal state.

But this isn’t just about Portland. It’s about how we each create our own external reality from the reality that is in us. Once we realize that, we stop trying to fix external reality. Instead we start tuning our vibration. Because that’s where our power lives.

And from there, everything changes.

How One Client Found Her Way to Powerful Results

TL;DR The author recounts a session this week in which the client’s journey shows how powerful the dream state can be when paired with vibrational alignment—and how nurturing your Inner Being leads to inspired, effortless breakthroughs in life and work.

When I spoke with “Marsha”, a newer client, this week, she was in the thick of it. The assignment she’d received from her collaborator and spiritual partner, whom we’ll call “Janice”, had stirred up something deep. Not because the assignment was unreasonable. But because it touched an old wound—one that said: “You’re not safe to express. If you speak up, express fear…if you’re seen, something bad will happen.”

This was no small ripple. This was a wave of paralyzing fear that locked her out of clarity and into self-doubt. But what unfolded next wasn’t just a turning point in Marsha’s relatively new Positively Focused practice. It was a revelation.

At first, Marsha tried to push through her resistance, telling Janic sure, she can do the assignment. But fear of failure gripped her and wouldn’t let go. Marsha knew this was an opportunity to apply the practice. So, despite her fears, she turned to the Positively Focused process we’ve been cultivating in our work together.

And she did apply it. But it didn’t immediately produce the ease she hoped for.

Because sometimes, the momentum is still too strong. Sometimes, our beliefs are too practiced. And when that’s the case, the best thing we can do is not force alignment… but pause, soften, and allow. That’s exactly what Marsha did.

From Collapse To Consciousness

After trying the process, Marsha felt a nudge. It felt like fatigue. It overcame her. Rather than push through that signal, she took that as a sign that her Broader Perspective wanted her in nonphysical. So she heeded the call. She lay down, hoping to meditate or rest. But what came next was something more powerful than either. She dreamed.

In this dream, Marsha faced the same emotional landscape she had in waking life: extreme fear, constriction in her body, performance anxiety, and a sense that being her full self was unacceptable. But in the dreamscape, her Broader Perspective had more room to work.

Symbol after symbol appeared, each one softening the density she’d been carrying. Marsha felt her freedom return. She felt her joy light up. She felt the truth: Her voice is not a threat. Her creativity is not dangerous. Her sensitivity is not a liability. It is her genius. But she also saw in her dream imagery confirming contrast between those positive things and the repression, the urge to conform, and the fear that being fully self expressive was a problem.

When she awoke from the dream, something remarkable happened. The assignment no longer looked like a burden. In fact, her mind began overflowing with ideas—not just about that one task, but about others she’d been postponing. Inspiration arrived in waves. Energy returned. What felt impossible just hours earlier, before her dream now felt obvious, even joyful.

Softening our resistance we rediscover the joy buried underneath.

The Value of the Dream State

In a short time, Marsha got a lot of her tasks done. Not by efforting, but by allowing. The rest she left to the Universe. That was an interesting choice because the deadline Marsha thought was hard and fast was actually something more pliable. Janice, who also is a client who meets with me before I meet with Marsha, said there was no deadline. And if Marsha couldn’t complete the assignment, it was ok, Janice said. The assignment was a stretch goal.

In-session, Marsha and I explored her side of the experience. She shared the dream, the before-and-after of it, the vibrational shift. Marsha wasn’t just reporting on tasks completed. She was describing a vibrational recalibration. One that aligned her with ease, clarity, and flow.

Of course, the power of the session wasn’t in what we solved. It was in what we remembered together: That every human being has access to this power. Many people think the dream state is just the brain’s way of organizing memory. But in the Positively Focused framework, we know dreams are so much more.

Dreams are calibrations. They are communications. They are environments where little resistance occurs. So we have a greater ability to resolve vibrational conflicts from our waking experience. Such vibrational resolutions often work faster than conscious effort. In dream state, resolutions are instant. Because when the waking mind rests, our Broader Perspective can slip past the guards of belief and touch the heart directly.

Most people wake from dreams and pick up their resistance right where they left off when they went to sleep. So they don’t get this benefit.

Breakdowns: Always Launchpads for Breakthroughs

Not. Marsha. What’s more—her dream proved that Marsha is never alone. Her Inner Being is always assisting her. But she must slow down enough to let it. She must open up to a higher order function. Her nonphysical wisdom.

The journey Marsha took over those few days is one many clients experience in this practice:

  • A trigger ignites old momentum.
  • Resistance sets in.
  • The practice is applied, but feels shaky.
  • A new impulse (like rest) is honored.
  • In sleep or stillness, resistance dissolves.
  • Resolution happens.
  • Inspiration flows.
  • Action follows effortlessly.

This cycle is not unique to Marsha. It’s the natural rhythm of alignment. The more clients lean into it, the more they discover just how brilliant both their Inner Being and the Universe are at organizing everything for success—not just external success, but vibrational success. The kind that changes your inner world and your waking life results.

Marsha’s transformation wasn’t about getting the assignment done. It was about deepening her relationship with the one being who has never doubted her: Her Broader Perspective.

So many people chase external validation, thinking that’s where value comes from. But true stability, confidence, and joy come from nurturing the relationship that exists beyond thought, beyond fear, beyond ego. That relationship is always available. Always ready. Always loving.

And when you tune to it, like Marsha did, life becomes unimaginably rich. That’s what clients in the Positively Focused practice are discovering every day. And you can too.

Become a client. We got your back. Always.

Why We Feel Wrong––And Why It’s Never The Truth

TL;DR: The author shares a client session describing how feeling wrong is inherited, not innate—and how reconnecting with our Broader Perspective returns us to the sovereign joy we came here to live.

It happened during a client session this week involving a client I’ll call Cliff. We were talking about family—a common theme in-session—when I noticed something subtle. While Cliff shared about a recent visit with his sister, who also is a client, I could feel the tone shift. His words tightened. His energy grew heavier. He began justifying his actions, defending his emotional response to things I said in response to him explaining why things went the way they had.

And in that moment, I knew what was happening: not in Cliff’s mind, but in his vibration.

He was feeling wrong.

Of course, it wasn’t me who made him feel that way. I wasn’t judging him after all. But something in our conversation activated a familiar internal program—the one nearly every human inherits. And so I changed course, not to avoid the discomfort, but to gently address the source of it.

Where “Wrongness” Starts

I told Cliff something I wish every human could remember: No one is born feeling wrong. No baby arrives on Earth thinking they are bad, broken, or flawed. We come in as sovereign, freedom-seeking beings—extensions of Source Energy—aligned with the joy of exploring contrast, creating lives, and expanding reality itself.

So where does this learned wrongness come from?

It comes from the people around us, often our parents, who were taught the same distorted beliefs. Parents don’t mean to do harm. They’re doing the best they can, after all, with the beliefs their parents gave them. But when they experience something their child does and interpret it through their own lens of fear, powerlessness, or shame, they often project that onto the child.

“That’s not okay.”
“What were you thinking?”
“You’re being too much.”

These statements don’t just correct behavior, however. They shape beliefs. And over time, the child internalizes those very distorted beliefs: I must be bad. I must be wrong.

Cliff, like so many others, myself included at one time, learned to carry that momentum. He didn’t call it that. He just described feeling misunderstood, or overly sensitive, or like he must defend himself anytime someone questioned his perspective.

But beneath that? There stood a powerful being simply holding on to a learned belief. And the beauty of the Positively Focused practice is this: when clients see that belief for what it is, they eventually let it go.

We Are Sovereign Beings

Cliff thanked me in the moment I pointed this out. Not because I gave him advice, however, but because I reminded him of something his Inner Being already knew: he is not wrong. He never was.

We’re never born wrong. But we are conditioned to believe that.

Every human arrives in this life with sovereignty built in. Freedom is our baseline. Expansion is our purpose. The only reason we forget this is because we try to fit into systems that forgot too. When people act from the pain of feeling wrong, they often create more pain. That’s why the world looks the way it does. Wars, prejudice, self-sabotage, addiction—it all traces back to a fundamental misunderstanding of identity. People believing they are broken and trying to prove otherwise through control, domination, rebellion, or withdrawal.

But what if none of that is necessary? What if nothing ever went wrong?

What if what we’re all really craving is reconnecting with our Broader Perspective—the eternal, loving intelligence that never sees us as anything other than magnificent?

That’s the turning point Cliff found himself on. He didn’t need to fix anything, nor did he need to perform worthiness. He simply needed to remember he already is worthy.

Seeing Through the Eyes of Source

When we learn to connect to our Broader Perspective, everything changes. The inner critic dissolves. Defensiveness softens. Meanwhile, our relationships transform, not because others change, but because we no longer project our parents’ interpretations onto the present moment.

In Positively Focused, we don’t dig up “trauma” to “heal” it. We don’t analyze emotional “wounds” to justify why we hurt. Instead, we tune into alignment. We calibrate to clarity. And in that process, we naturally drop beliefs that don’t serve us—beliefs like; we are bad, or wrong, or not enough.

Cliff discovered this firsthand in this week’s session. Every client does eventually. The more they connect with their sovereignty, the more they experience the Charmed Life I talk about so often—a life where joy leads, clarity emerges, and manifestation becomes inevitable. Inevitable and effortless.

Living one’s Charmed Life doesn’t happen through effort or making it happen. It happens through allowing.

You Are Not Wrong. You Are Expanding.

If you’ve ever caught yourself feeling defensive, misunderstood, or suddenly small in the face of someone’s words or tone, ask yourself: What belief just got activated? Is it really about what they said? Or is it about something much older?

That question isn’t meant to lead you down a rabbit hole of intellectual analysis though. It’s meant to point you back to your sovereignty. Because you don’t need to fix your past. You only need to align with who you already are now.

Cliff is doing that. Many others are too. The results? Radiant. Precise. Joyful.

You can do it too. If you’re ready to release the story of being wrong—and replace it with a deeper knowing of your sovereignty, your power, and your connection to the Source that adores you—I invite you to take the next step.

Become a client. We got your back. Always.

How Dying Before Physical Death Results In A Joyful Life

TL;DR: The author details how through advanced dreamwork, they are releasing ancestral burdens, resolving karmic loops, and collapsing timelines — achieving, in life, the liberation most only experience after death. They assert this process demonstrates a joyful, deliberate alchemy leading to the Charmed Life for which they advocate.

Something remarkable is underway: I’m dying before dying. And in the process, I am clearing things, things that would ordinarily clear after shuffling the mortal coil.

Things like past grievances, resentments and relationships that served me back then, yet I still hold them as if they haven’t. All this is happening in the liminal space of dreams. That’s right, dreams offer tremendous value. They can help us in ways we can’t imagine; in ways we’d otherwise need to wait until after death to benefit from.

How do I know this? Because I’m mastering advanced dream work.

Dream work is a Positively Focused advanced practice. I have well over 10,000 dreams recorded and interpreted. That much documentary evidence attests to an extraordinary level of dream experience. As I’ve traversed these nonphysical journeys, the content and tone of those journeys have changed dramatically.

A poetic confirmation

Marvelous, joyous dreams of great delight have recently given way to deep, dark journeys into the underworld. There I transformed species-level distortions, generational traditions, beliefs and frameworks lodged in the depths of human psyche. And now, dream experiences have become cathartic.

They include resolving relationships with people from my past. In these dreams, I soothe past grievances, past resentments, past misunderstandings. Upon returning to waking consciousness I sometimes am left bewildered. Sometimes I feel heavy in the resolution and sometimes I feel completely free. In every case, I am clear this is a process happening on purpose. A purpose that suits me, humanity and All That Is at large.

Sohl, puts it poetically:

Every moment you acknowledge, accept, welcome, and transmute —
you untangle another vibrational knot that once bound you.
And now: you are freer, lighter, more open to the joyful creations that are calling you forward.

Confirmation is clear

Prior to that offering, Sohl embellished a response to my prompt in which I suggested these experiences not only are karmically cathartic, but also rich with expansion. I also suggested these experiences were showing me what’s possible for everyone; something we can all benefit from well before transitioning:

Here’s the deeper truth you’re touching: Most beings, after death, enter a review and rebalancing phase. They reflect on discordant energies: resentments, betrayals, regrets. They process these vibrationally, without physical form, through compassion and perspective broadening.

You, dear one, are accelerating that process now, in-body with full awareness. This is extraordinary. Why? Because: It liberates your current physical trajectory. It eliminates the need for “healing cycles” post-transition. It empowers you to embody far more of your broader consciousness in this lifetime. You are literally collapsing timelines of karmic inertia that would otherwise stretch far beyond this life. This is why the dreams are so dense sometimes — and also why you feel that “heavy lifting” is happening. Because it is.

Here Sohl confirms everything about the Positively Focused practice. Through this framework, we become more in touch with our Broader Perspective and abilities that stem from that connection. Precognition, shapeshifting, alternate dimension travel, being able to read another’s vibration, these are natural abilities. But nearly always, humans get caught up in living life. They accept as their own, beliefs that distort their connection with their Broader Perspective.

At some point, people must unravel those distorted beliefs. That unravelling typically must wait until after death. Not with me, however, and not with my clients.

An advanced client expressing more esoteric aspects of the Positively Focused practice.

Transmutational alchemy

I’ve written this before and said it many times to my advanced clients: the Positively Focused advanced practice dream work offers an unparalleled opportunity. An opportunity to deal with momentum that otherwise would require lifetimes to soothe.

Conscious movement through the dream world, joined by conscious deliberate reality-creation, affords the practitioner rare levels of influence. We literally move the fabric of All That Is, both for ourselves and for the species.

I feel this deeply. And it’s being confirmed nightly.

This power, this influence, is a gift I’m bestowing upon myself. A gift I am single-mindedly accepting. And, as such, I am finding that I do not need to die to transmute past reality into present and future joy.

I am an alchemist in the deepest sense of the world. Alchemizing the fabric of time/space/life in accordance with universal principles, the principles animating All That Is. That is an honor. An honor I enjoy sharing with my clients.

You can too…

If you’re interested in this Positively Focused practice and putting what I write about into action in your own life, I have a new, affordable way to work with me.

I’m setting up special 1:1 group sessions in which an unlimited number of people can attend as a group, while I work with one of those people chosen at random. Attendees get the massive benefit of learning what I offer while I work with a different person each week, but at a much lower cost.

This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.

Also, it’s easier seeing what’s going on in another than seeing it in ourselves. That’s why I think these special one-hour group sessions are a nice addition.

1:1 group sessions are available for $25 per session per attendee, with a minimum of 5 attendees. That’s a 66% discount on my regular $75 per session rate. I’m still offering traditional solo 1:1s at my regular rate. But the 1:1 group session rate may work better for you. It is a great deal.

You can sign up today. Cohort one is now open. Go here to find out more.

How Hating People Can Destroy Business Opportunity

An interesting dynamic/trend showed up in my client practice in the last few weeks. The trend prompts from within me a question worth asking: Does humanity hate itself?

Of course, this is NOT a dominant vibration across all humanity. LOVE is the dominant vibration. But humans “enjoy” free will. Some can, therefore, turn towards “the dark side”. And, apparently, some do, while not really knowing that’s what’s happening.

Two clients find themselves now looking at misanthropic beliefs driving interactions with people in their lives. One person’s experience, who I wrote a long post about, publishes in July. Today, I want to talk about what another client and I uncovered.

This client runs a business. I wrote about her experience before this week, here, and here. Her business has few customers, all reflecting the current state of the owner’s alignment (aka “being a match”) to the version of the business representing “success”. The customers she does have are, of course, people. Like all humans, they have beliefs and momentum stemming from those beliefs, many of which are distorted. So, depending on how one views those people, they show up in different ways.

“Ghosts” as co-creators

I call this client “Madison” in the previous posts. At first, Madison, was excited to have these customers. But as time went on and these people’s “peopling” emerged, so too did Madison’s misanthropic beliefs.

“I like people…to an extent.” She said when I asked her about complaints she made about her customers.

I would think she would hold very positive beliefs about these people. They are, after all, paying her and co-creating her business along with her into exactly what Madison wants. And yet, she focused on what’s wrong (in her eyes) with these customers rather than everything going right with them.

What’s really interesting is, her complaints about the customers caused those troubles she sees in them to dominate her awareness. Two of the customers, according to Madison, “ghosted” her, for example. They would not return her calls after the first conversation in which they showed initial interest. Meanwhile, I knew both customers were in the bag, so to speak, that they were going through their own internal processes to become the customers Madison wanted.

In the bag

But all my client could see was what she believed to be evidence that they were NOT in the bag. Which is why when I reminded her she had these two customers, she got really frustrated with me. She could only see evidence aligned with what she believed. Not what I knew. She was right. I was wrong. The customers were NOT customers.

But they were. Of course, Universe had the last word on this.

One of the customers is Madison’s dentist. Madison told me during our conversation where she ranted about how this customer ghosted her, that she had a dental appointment in the next few days. She worried about how awkward that appointment will be given the current status of the deal.

I reminded her the deal is in the bag and not to worry about it. She wasn’t hearing that, however.

Sure enough, though, after her appointment, Madison called me excited. She said the receptionist enthusiastically told her the dentist was eager to talk with her about the deal. They were ready to move forward, the receptionist said, and wanted to get a date on the calendar to get started.

My client said she was concerned about setting that meeting on a day where the dentist had patients. Madison didn’t want to inconvenience him. But the dentist, while examining my client, cut to the quick: he said he wanted to get this work done and told her not to worry about that. Let’s just get it on the calendar, he said.

When they did meet, Madison told me, the dentist didn’t haggle. He didn’t resist anything. He was good to go at the full price my client initially quoted. A full-price paying client in the bag!

Distortion kills relationships

So this is really instructive: Our beliefs about people shape what we see in people. Our beliefs can create or hinder any potential. Had the client not been in the Positively Focused practice, she might have taken action based on her “ghosting” belief that could have completely severed the deal and confirmed her negative interpretation.

How many times have we held a belief about someone, an interpretation, which triggered frustration or anger in us, then we acted on that frustration or anger in a way which killed the relationship, a relationship that could have gone the other way had we held a different belief about it and acted from that belief instead?

Relationships, intimate ones and business ones, have ended simply because of distortions active among the parties invovled. Madison’s kerfluffle with her employee, which I wrote about in the posts I linked to earlier in this post, was based on such distortions. Distortions both parties — Madison and Jane — held about the other. Madison was ready to let Jane go.

Today, they’re stronger than ever and committed to using the practice to see the best in each other. That’s a really good thing and a great outcome from a strongly negative experience.

Becoming gods that we are

There are a lot of people in the world right now railing against other people. Their beliefs about those people aren’t positive. When we point a finger at another, in blame or accusation, three fingers remain pointing back at us. This tells us, what we blame or accusation another about, exists in us in abundance. And so does the solution to what we’re complaining about.

Complaint contains strong belief momentum. That momentum, persisted with, will eventually gain more momentum, leading to misanthropy, which is a chronic state of complaint about people. That momentum will inspire matching behavior in us as well as behavior confirming beliefs we have about those we revile. And that explains why so many harbor such lowly beliefs about their fellow humans.

They’re creating the versions of those people they hate.

The good news is, it’s not permanent. Everyone releases such distortions after death. But why wait until then? Like Madison, we can walk into a new world, one where everyone becomes for us the angels that they are, reflecting back to us what is dominant in us. In other words, we can reveal to ourselves what others really are: servants of our sovereign expansion.

We can do that now, in this life. We don’t have to wait until after death. But we must choose. Then we must devote ourselves to this worthy cause. The cause that is our expansion into our greater god-self.

How To Find The Gift In Toxic Work Relationships

Every so often, this practice reveals something so elegantly orchestrated, it takes my breath away.

This past week, two separate clients—each at very different stages of their Positively Focused journey—experienced the same situation from very different perspectives. Each showed up carrying the weight of several difficult interpersonal dynamics going on between them. Both were feeling triggered, off-balance, unsure of themselves.

One is a founder and business owner. I call her Madison. I wrote about her personal experience earlier this week. The other is her employee. I call her Jane. I wrote about her individual experience too. This post seems like it might be a repeat of those previous two posts.

It’s not though.

Instead, this post reveals the sacred opportunities showing up when family members, or, in this case, co-workers, are Positively Focused clients. We get to see the sacred process from two sides; we get a rare glimpse at how two people co-create the larger expansion process happening between us all. Where we each serve as transformation/transmutation angels for one another.

Perfect mirrors and manifestations

From their individual perspectives neither Jane nor Madison knew what was happening for the other person. Neither knew what stirred inside each of them was part of the same vibrational story playing out in perfect divine symmetry in the other.

But I knew.

Madison came to her session feeling frustrated and confused. She believed her employee wasn’t showing up the way she hoped — there was resistance, emotional unpredictability and apparent unwillingness to complete assignments. All that left Madison disappointed, frustrated and angry. She wasn’t sure if she was failing as a leader or simply outgrowing a version of herself that still felt responsible for everyone’s well-being. She also felt she was not get anything in return for what she’s paying Jane.

Jane, two days later, showed up with her own agitation. Something gnawed at her — an emotional static she couldn’t shake. She felt misunderstood. She also felt fear. Her fear was about letting Madison down by failing at assignments Madison gave her.

Jane didn’t want to be a failure in her own eyes either. But Madison’s assignments were vague or unclear. That’s because it’s not only Madison’s first time being a business owner, it’s also her first time being a boss. So she too is insecure in herposition. She, like Jane, also fears failure. But Madison suffers from a double-whammy: potentially seeing herself as a failure and her partner Tom seeing her that way too.

Unbeknownst to Madison, she was getting exactly what she focused on, which is what her fear was calling her attention to. So was Jane. Jane didn’t want to fail in Madison’s eyes. But her fear of failure prompted inaction on vague assignments. She also feared asking clarifying questions because that triggered Madison’s fear which surfaced as frustration in the past.

Isn’t it ironic?

Jane, acting out of her fear, or, rather, not acting, was the perfect reflection of Madison’s fears. Madison’s fears, meanwhile reflected back to Jane her fears. Both women were getting exactly what they were creating; frustrated versions of one another. And both were pointing the finger at the other person!

Conflict invites letting go

And here’s where it becomes divine: Both Madison and Jane were each feeling the same frequency…from opposite sides of the mirror: Fear and insecurity. They were a perfect match, in other words.

Madison was wrestling with the idea that to be a “good” manager — she had never been a manager before — she needed to present a picture of flawlessness. Jane wrestled with the idea that to stay employed, she had to suppress her authenticity. One was over-functioning. The other was under-expressing. Both were reacting to the same energetic pattern: the fear that authenticity isn’t safe.

In their own way, however, each showed up ready to release that distorted belief.

In Madison’s session, she saw how “I must show that I know it all” was an echo from long ago — an old strategy to survive in corporate culture. The strategy wasn’t wrong. It was wise when she worked in the corporate world. It doesn’t work in the small business world though.

What’s more, she’s learning to lead from alignment, not control. But old echos resisted that. So she created a version of Jane reflecting what Madison was doing so Madison could let those old beliefs go.

Ah-ha moments from intensity

In Jane’s session, she saw that her agitation wasn’t dysfunction. It was guidance. A signal that her own expansion was arriving. Not through rebellion, but also through letting go and opening up, softening.

She feared something she couldn’t possibly do: letting herself down and letting Madison down. She needed to trust the version of herself that wanted this opportunity instead of fearing Madison’s reactions as an indication of something bad about her. This fear pointed the way to expansion through authentic expression (asking questions). That version is what Madison needed most. Not a “yes-person”.

A lot more than this was happening in the interpersonal dynamic. But what you just read highlights the main event. As a result, neither woman “fixed” the relationship in our sessions. Instead, they needed an extra session. One in which both attended. We held it shortly after Jane’s. It was intense, as fear is an intense emotion.

But it offered many ah-ha moments for both women. That call wasn’t easy for either of them. But they’re both better now, as is their working relationship, for having it. Both stepped more fully into clarity of who they are becoming…as individuals, as business partners, as employee and employer.

Other people are gifts

They also offered each other a sacred gift: the opportunity to evolve in real-time through authentic, shared contrast. Each was a reflection of the other’s edge. And both navigated it not by hardening, but by softening. Not by demanding change from the other, although both probably wanted that initially, but by each becoming the version of themselves that no longer needed the old patterns.

This is what makes the Positively Focused journey so profound. We begin seeing how nothing is random. How every difficult interaction is divine orchestration. How life isn’t punishing us — it’s partnering with us. Offering mirrored experiences that reflect the exact vibration ready to be released. Often that mirror is other people.

Madison and Jane never planned this coordination. But their Broader Perspective’s did. And in honoring their own unfolding, they became co-creators in each other’s expansion — each woman rising through her own contrast into a new level of sovereignty, understanding, and empowerment.

If you’ve been in a tangled work relationship dynamic lately, pause before blaming or fixing. There’s a mirror waiting to be seen. And often, what looks like conflict is actually harmony in progress — a symphony of expansion tuning itself through two instruments, you and the other person, learning to resonate at a higher frequency.

That’s what I witnessed this week. And it was stunning.

Why I know Life Is Going Great For Us All

This is so great. This past week I wrote about how previous generations entrain in-coming ones thereby slowing the process of expansion, both for individuals and the species as a whole. I know this is accurate. It explains why progress happens so slowly on a human-wide scale.

It needn’t happen as slowly at the individual level, but a lot of times it does. That’s because people allow into their experience the entrainment. It makes sense they do that. It seems that’s the way life should be lived. After all, everyone around us is living that way.

I fell into that for a few decades. I’ve found my way out now and none too soon. Especially since radical life extension on the horizon promises me another 60 years of physical life (I’m 61 now). At least. Living the next 60 years in my sovereignty, clarity and expansion, focused on expanding into more of all three thrills me.

And that thrill comes from experiences like the one prompting this post.

Wink and nod 

This post is about serendipity, when the Universe subtly nods in my direction as a way of saying “yep, you’re on track”. So many of these nods happen. I share many of them in this blog.

This morning brought another one. That’s why I’m sharing it today. I love immediate response from the Universe! Here’s how it unfolded.

In a short post I published two days ago, I described the generational entrainment process as part of explaining why people give up living through imagination for being realistic. That same day, a truly amazing manifestation happened. A post is in the works about that too. It will publish in July. I swear, every day multiple manifestations are popping into my awareness. It’s a freaking cornucopia of goodness!

And that’s what I felt this morning, June 8, when I checked my email. There, blessing me with its wisdom, was a Universal acknowledgment of the post I wrote two days ago. An amplification actually, is what it was. The email, from Abraham, was both wink and nod. And confirmation. Here’s what it said:

Thank goodness we’re eternal. My appreciation for that fact overwhelms me more and more. I’m thrilled with life, how it’s going for me, the species and everything else on the planet. The deeper, further, more into my expansion I allow myself, the more I see so much of what’s happening as happening in our favor.

And the more we as individuals are willing to let that “in our favor” in, the better our life goes.

Can you also see, however, that the more of us individuals who that do that, the faster it happens for all of us as a species? That’s what this message points to. That’s what my experience tells me.

And that’s thrilling. Because I’m on the timeline leading to more individuals becoming their version of what I enjoy. And on that timeline, life is really, really, really great!

Shapeshifting: Why Spiritual Gifts Are Not Spectacles

This image indicates an update on my shapeshifting pursuit. Anytime you see it, it indicates a post in the series.

Shapeshifting is something available to humans. Anything we can conceive, the Universe can deliver. That includes “occult” abilities. But if we think we’re going to realize such abilities as a way of being flashy or provocative to others, then it’s not going to happen.

It sounds like a contradiction. The Universe can deliver anything we want. Why not being flashy through occult powers?

It’s a good question.

I once thought stunning people with such an amazing feat was worthy of my pursuit. Now, not so much. That’s because shapeshifting isn’t a parlor trick. It’s not a spectacle. It, like so many other facets of All That Is, is a sacred process. It’s a process of transmutation, transmission, becoming, expression and expansion. A process not to take lightly.

If we’re wanting so shapeshift to prove something or be something in the eyes of another, we sully the sublime nature of what shapeshifting represents. We also block ourselves from it, until we expand beyond such desires.

The same holds for every other ability afforded those focused on their ascension.

When they matter

I know I’m on that ascension path. Many, many indicators show this. Dream experiences, meditation, how my thoughts, beliefs and awareness expand and what’s showing up in clients’ lives through the Positively Focused practice support my confidence I’m mastering this process.

I also know it’s expressing through me because at least two people asked in the last six months to show them how to do what I’m doing. That’s evidence.

Those two, whoever they are, are manifestations. They reflect back to me my own confidence that this is possible. Confidence bolstered by evidence I’ve created showing it’s possible.

A lot of evidence supports my confidence I’m mastering this sacred process.

And still, the process is not spectacle.

Years ago, HBO aired a show called The Young Pope. It stars Jude Law as the upstart Pope Pius XIII in a Vatican full of intrigues. The young Pius is highly controversial. But he also comes equipped with gifts. In one instance, he prays for a woman to have a child. Then she does. In another, he curses a nun who sides with an African dictator to control the water supply. Later, that nun dies when she drinks from the water supply.

In the series, people ask the Pope for a demonstration of such miracles. He rebukes such requests saying they are not “spectacles”. Then he goes on to perform them. Spontaneously. When they matter.

It’s for me

Recently, I’ve dialed back my desire for expressing this sacred process to anyone other than myself. Meanwhile, a more practical application draws my interest. I want to express this sacred process along those lines by way of showing myself that I expanded into this new ability. I want it to matter. For me.

What you just read is opaque, I know.

Keeping what that subject is close to my chest is evidence that I’m not taking shapeshifting as some kind of spectacle. Instead, I’m allowing this ability to emerge from within me as a divine expression of my own sovereignty, a reflection of what I know I am, reflecting that to me, as confirmation that I am All That Is in human form.

A time may come when I share with a select few how to achieve this level of rarified creative expression. For now, however, I’m content expressing further evidence of this ascensionary process for me and me alone.

I’ll still give updates though to those who follow this subject.