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The Truth Chocolate Mints Tell About Magic

TL;DR: The author recounts a series of outstanding experiences, including stunning actions in nonphysical, which revealed the power of a simple four-step Positively Focused practice. Dream symbols confirmed the shift — proving again that presence is powerful, and alignment speaks through both waking life and the dreamworld to reveal to us our magical abilities.

This story begins with a whisper — one I’ve heard before. It was a quiet suggestion that perhaps my client flow might slow, that income could dip, that momentum might stall.

These were old thoughts, familiar ones. Their tone wasn’t quite panic. The suggestion didn’t conjure fear or dread. Instead, I calmly felt the suggestion like an old friend knocking gently, seeking access to my psyche. That tone represented a vibration I’ve felt before. One I’ve let in, in the past.

But this time, I didn’t answer the door with urgency or dread. Instead, I recognized the pattern and named it: old belief momentum. It wasn’t the truth and it wasn’t a problem. What it was: just old energy surfacing, asking to be seen and soothed.

And so I did what I teach my Positively Focused clients: I got still. I didn’t try to overwrite the feeling. Instead I let it be. Then I let it soothe.

Soothing is a powerful process. It is how we move from old, repeating, and dissatisfying outcomes into fresh, outcomes aligned with everything we’re wanting. The Universe constantly leads us to those fresh outcomes. But our comfortable, disempowering focus prevents us from hearing the guidance. Soothing those old beliefs we keep energizing through our focus is a hallmark of the Positively Focused practice.

One of those practice tools I whipped out when I felt this old friend, this comfortable, but undesirable suggestion rise in me. I knew it came to be soothed. And so that’s what I did. Here’s how I turned old momentum into presence, ease and reintegration.

The Soothing Practice: Four Steps to Integration

What I did next changed everything — not just in that moment, but across dimensions. The tool I used requires grounding in the Positively Focused Practice elementary level skills. Once those are mastered, the following four-step process not only makes intuitive sense, it also profoundly shifts our created reality:

In the first step we recognize the energy as old momentum — not a reflection of who we are now, but of what we once believed. Next, we accept that it’s there, in us, fully. We do so without pushing or resisting. We let is rest there in our awareness and accept that it is there rather than resist it. This is a crucial step. Next, we return to presence.

This is an advanced practice requiring personal instruction and something I show clients how to do. There, in presences we acknowledge (and experience) everything we want as already existing — here, now. Finally, once we’ve prepared our inner space with these three steps, we’re ready for the final, most profound step: Invite the energy home. This is a process of spiritual integration. We’re not trying to fix or flee what’s there. Instead we’re bringing back in what we once projected (rejected) out of us, as something we couldn’t accept.

The moment I did this process, my body relaxed. My breath expanded. That old belief — that abundance had to come through clients or anything else “out there” — lost its grip. I could feel the deeper reality: that I, myself, am the supply; that the Universe partners with me through resonance, not transaction. The process created within me a knowing; a knowing that I am the creator and the world around me bends to my focus.

As simple as this process sounds, it’s extremely effective. It’s also easy to do. One client used this practice in the middle of the night after waking in a panic about a health situation with her mom. In an instant she felt relief, relief that told her she aligned with a more empowering probable future reality. One in which she knew all is well and unfolding perfectly.

In my own case, confirmation came in the dream state. Just as it has so many times before.

Dreams as Reflections: Multidimensional Affirmation

In the first dream I saw a strangely structured crumbling house. Its laundry room was too large. Its walls were scratched with blackberry vines. It’s architecture, old and decrepit matched the architecture of old beliefs. I wandered through it aimlessly.

I came to a box. It was labeled “Chocolate Mints” — but appeared empty. In the dream I didn’t feel lack. Instead, I stayed present, and in that presence, I heard the sound of a soft rattle. When I opened the box again, it overflowed with delicious, chocolate mints — exactly what the label had promised.

Why hadn’t I seen the chocolates, the delicate sweets the first time? Because I had to align with the vibration, the probable reality, in which they were, not the one where they were not. The process in this dream was one of initiation: of asking me to make the vibrational shift. That I manifested in the dream the mints was the success indicator of making that shift.

In another dream, I glided through a winding trail in a silver Porsche. Then later, I maneuvered a wheelchair, once abandoned, now active. It carried me with surprising grace. At one point, large boulder-beings nearby took a bite of food and transformed — from rock to radiant human form just like that.

These images sound stochastic, and meaningless…but they weren’t. These images mirrored yet again the shift I’d made: taking “old” vehicles — discarded ways of being — and infusing them with new conscious movement. In the dream I was alchemizing nonphysical reality: turning what was once inert, to travel into expansion.

Aligning with the vibrational frequency in which the chocolates existed was part of my expansion in the dream.

There was an aquarium too. I released a small garfish into a vivid reef, narrating the scene like a nature host. But then, a new sound emerged: slow, deliberate breathing. It represented something foreign and shadowy but not scary. My nervous system registered it as threat. But instead of fleeing in fear, I moved away in peace. Just like I had hours earlier in physical reality when scarcity tried to whisper its story again.

And then came the final scene: a ridgeline real estate deal, followed by a quiet space of soaking tubs, elderly women, and light eroticism. That meetup wasn’t sexual — not exactly. Instead it was luscious, spacious and relaxed. It was pleasure with no pressure, no expectation. Like wealth with no proving or seeking validation. It was delicious.

The Moment of Knowing: Real-Time Realization

This final dream represented the culmination of my night’s adventure. An adventure of flowing through the vibrational landscape I moved through when I did the four-step focus process described above. Dreams confirmed what presence already accomplished.

When I woke, the dreams remained like misted glass — luminous, still humming. And I knew immediately: these weren’t just dreams. They were the continuation of the alignment I had chosen just hours before. The Universe didn’t wait to show me physical results. It responded instantly. Not through money or new clients (though those, too, are coming), but through metaphor. Deeply personal, symbolic architectures told me in no uncertain terms: You’ve shifted.

I saw the old beliefs — the broken house. Then I felt the familiar doubt — the empty box. Yet I stayed with myself long enough to allow the mints’ appearance. Next I rode the new vehicle, used the old one, then watched as others awakened simply because I did. And this phrase came through like a bell: “The idea that your abundance is externally tied to others’ choices is dissolving.“

What this experience showed me — once again — is that there is no division between dreaming and waking. Both are vibrational classrooms. In each we create canvases for clarity. In each we respond immediately and precisely, to the frequency we hold.

Coming Home In Correspondence

The Positively Focused practice is not about pretending contrast doesn’t exist. It’s about seeing contrast for what it is: a mirror. It’s a messenger. A beautifully wrapped invitation to return to the Self. When we respond with presence — when we integrate old momentum with grace as I did, as my clients are doing — reflections (physical reality) change. Not later. Now.

That night, I didn’t manifest mints in a box because I did some advanced dreaming technique. I found them because I focused where the mints were not where they were absent. Since writing this, two new clients have manifested and, in January, I had more people expressing interest in the practice than ever before.

Coincidence? I think not.

This is what I believe mastery is: not control, but correspondence. Not chasing signs, but allowing the conversation. This is the magic that chocolate mints told me. But it’s not magic. It’s how the Universe brings us all that we want, effortlessly. Including stable client rosters.

It is always available — not just in dreams, but in every quiet moment we choose to come home. Are you ready to come home?

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What Happens When You Master Power Over Death

TL;DR: The author shares a Master-level client’s journey toward commanding her own transition, revealing how worthiness and vibrational mastery lead to sovereignty over death itself.

What happens when a human being gets so vibrationally aligned, so consistently tapped in, that death itself becomes a conscious, deliberate choice? That’s what one of my clients—now a recognized Master in the Positively Focused practice—is exploring.

Her name is Maigen. And what you’re about to read is not science fiction or fantasy. It’s the in-real-time unfolding of someone uncovering the deepest truths of reality and standing at the threshold of what most people think is impossible. I call this the Mastery Path. And Maigen is walking it with grace, insight, and awe-inspiring clarity.

From Worthiness to Mastery

When someone first starts the Positively Focused practice, they often begin with a hunch. It’s a hunch that life could feel better, more fluid, more abundant. It’s a belief that has them saying to themselves “Is this all there is? There has to be more to life than this.”

And through this work, they discover there is.

Early results accumulate quickly, confirming that what I teach is more than philosophy—it’s applied knowing. Over time, those results shift people from hoping it works, to believing it works, and eventually to trusting it because life keeps proving it again and again. At a certain point, trust becomes knowing. And that’s when a person begins to uncover their inherent worthiness.

Uncovering, not earning.

And when someone fully owns their worthiness, their relationship to reality fundamentally changes. That’s what it means to reach Mastery in this practice. At the mastery level, clients naturally begin reaching for things humanity calls impossible—because their newly-reestablished vibrational orientation makes them available. That’s where Maigen is. And what she’s chosen to explore is extraordinary.

The Impossible Project: Manifesting Death on Her Terms

While I’m exploring my ability to shapeshift—yes, really—Maigen has set her sights on something just as provocative: consciously choosing the conditions of her death.

Now to be clear, we don’t even call it “death” in this practice. We call it transition—because you never die. You simply shift your attention from the frequency of physical reality to the frequency of nonphysical, which is your true home. It’s like changing the radio station. Nothing ends. You just refocus.

But what Maigen is doing isn’t about escaping life. What Maigen is doing is about fully mastering life—to such a degree that transition becomes a sovereign, joyful choice. She’s practicing readiness for the transition. She’s not trying to die. And in that, the readiness she’s preparing will allow her to choose when, how, and in what emotional state her transition will occur.

The thoughts she’s attracting as a result of all this are breathtaking.

Megan recently recorded a stream of consciousness that I believe is one of the clearest demonstrations of spiritual mastery I’ve ever heard. You can listen to it right now in this excerpt from the Worthiness Wednesday Episode about this feat from the Positively Focused YouTube Channel:

In it, she speaks candidly about her evolving belief. She acknowledges that while she doesn’t yet feel she can command her own transition, she believes it’s possible—and more than that, she believes her future self will know exactly how.

This is the architecture of mastery. She acknowledges her current limitation without shame. Meanwhile, she trusts in her future expansion without needing a timeline. Along the way, she knows soothing her doubt is the work. And she commits to practicing that soothing every day.

To hear her speak is to hear someone vibrating at the level of Jedi Masters and Bene Gesserit witches—archetypes that fiction has created, but Maigen is living into.

The Mirror of Artificial Intelligence

It gets even better. Maigen fed her voice memo into a generative AI that creates podcast episodes from user input. What came back is an extraordinary dialogue between two AI personas unpacking everything she said, with stunning clarity and reverence. Check it out:

The AI lays out what Megan has essentially created: a four-part final exam of mastery—

  1. Time of death
  2. Place of death
  3. Manner of death
  4. Experience of death

And it pinpoints the key insight: the fourth—experience—is vibrational. It means achieving full control of your internal state so that your transition is peaceful, deliberate, and joyful.

The AI then dives into her belief system. It explores her concept of levels as safeguards. the “show” discusses her view of the future self as the holder of knowable information, and her use of affirmation as a practice of readiness. In short, the AI recognized her mastery because her mastery was so clearly encoded in her vibration.

The “show” was also a perfect reflection of Maigen’s unfolding accomplishment. And of course it is, for AI is a mirror.

What Readiness Really Means

In the “show”, the AI hosts pose a profound question to listeners:

“If the power to control life’s final transition all depends on being ready… how would you ever know for sure that you are?”

Here’s the answer, from my perspective: You know you’re ready when worthiness becomes chronic. When worthiness becomes the default state of your being, you naturally begin experiencing the nonphysical while still alive—lucid dreams, out-of-body experiences, alternate dimensions, timelessness, profound joy. This is evidence of worthiness emerging. They’re echoes of the Broader Perspective you’re now harmonized with.

And from that resonance, you don’t just believe you’re eternal. You know it. And from that knowing, transition is no longer feared, delayed, or resisted. It’s just another choice.

I am so proud of Maigen. Her journey is proof that mastery is not only possible—it’s beautiful. She’s walking the razor’s edge of what humans think they can’t do. And the clarity she’s receiving from that walk is lighting the way for others.

If this resonates with you—if you can feel that this is your path too—I invite you to step into the practice. Reach out. Begin uncovering your worthiness. You never know where it will take you. Or what kind of “impossible” will become your next joyful project.

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Why Life’s Relentless Moments Actually Make You Better

TL;DR: The author explores how one client’s reaction to a harmless moment revealed old beliefs ready for release, showing how life’s relentlessness gently guides us toward love and sovereignty.

Many people in a spiritual pracctice misunderstand life’s relentlessness. They see unwanted moments as interruptions, or as some kind of cosmic punishment for getting their vibration “wrong.” Yet the opposite is true.

Life shows up exactly as it must, moment after moment, never tiring, always accurate, forever loyal to the inner condition each of us emanates. Life rises to meet whatever is active inside us so we can see it clearly enough to do something about it. That is the gift. It is the only way growth becomes possible.

This became crystal clear during a recent session with my client, when she shared an experience involving her mother’s new partner, Jeff. The situation offered such a perfect, surgical reflection of her old momentum that she couldn’t miss what was happening.

She found herself uneasy around him from the start, not because of anything he did, but because his presence awakened an entire Belief Constellation of unsoothed themes from her past. He felt “too familiar,” too quickly assured in how he spoke to her. Without realizing it, she slipped into the emotional posture she had learned in childhood whenever a new man entered her mother’s life.

The remarkable thing is that none of this had anything to do with Jeff. Life simply responded to vibrations my client carried for decades, vibrations she had already shifted significantly but not yet fully soothed. She had done such powerful work around worth and sovereignty that the next layer of refinement became available.

Reality rose to meet that available space, presenting exactly the person who could reflect back the next belief ready for release.

The Moment Everything Became Obvious

The pattern sharpened when her mother texted after a concert. Jeff had purchased tickets for himself and her mom, but their travel plans made the show difficult to attend. Rather than let the tickets go to waste, they offered them to my client. She accepted, enjoyed the concert with her partner, and felt genuine appreciation for the gift. Later, her mother wrote, “I’m so glad you had a fantastic time. You can thank Jeff for that.”

Those last words hit my client like a hammer. She bristled instantly. Her reaction surprised her, because nothing in the message was hostile or manipulative. Yet it touched the very nerve she had been carrying since adolescence: the expectation that she must bond with her mother’s partners, must accommodate them, must smile and play along for her mother’s sake. It was the same emotional blueprint that had defined so many relationships in her past. The entire dynamic stood in front of her again, wrapped in a single sentence.

Although she initially resisted the interpretation, she soon realized the entire episode existed for one reason only. The Universe was showing her what she still held. It wasn’t about gratitude or her mother’s intentions. It wasn’t even about Jeff.

What was happening was the Universe was giving my client a mirror so precise she couldn’t miss the reflection. A reflection offered as a loving guide, revealing the only belief standing between her and the vibrational state she truly wanted: the experience of being in love, in ease, in the sovereignty that brings complete internal freedom.

Why Life Feels So Relentless

Life reflects a person’s vibration the way a lake reflects the sky. It cannot help but mirror whatever faces it.

When someone holds fear, life offers situations where fear can be recognized. For someone carrying unworthiness, people show up who purposely draw that from them. When someone reaches for love but doesn’t yet believe in their own lovability, they meet characters who help reveal blocks obscuring that knowing. It feels relentless because consciousness is always expanding, always stretching toward more love, more joy, more freedom, and more clarity. The physical world cannot resist that expansion. It must cooperate with it.

My client had already made enormous strides in knowing her worth. She had left friendships that no longer matched her trajectory, learned how to express needs without forcing outcomes, and discovered new levels of empowerment in her marriage. All those changes created a new vibrational platform.

From that new altitude, the unresolved stepdad dynamic became visible. Life doesn’t stop giving us mirrors once we make progress. It gives us better mirrors. More refined mirrors. More specific mirrors. Because expansion is eternal, the refinement never ends.

The human journey takes many lifetimes because evolution is generous. We expand gradually, joyfully, incrementally, with full permission to take our time. If everything changed all at once, physical life would lose its purpose: savoring the becoming. The Universe’s relentlessness represents devotion of All That Is. It is the surest sign that we are supported and loved.

Life is lovingly giving us better, clearer mirrors.

The Softening That Changes Everything

As she worked through the discomfort, my client realized she didn’t actually dislike Jeff. She didn’t believe he was overstepping. She didn’t fear he would take her mother away from her. Beneath every layer of reactivity lived a single, simple truth: she just wanted to be in love. Not romantic love, necessarily, but the state of love—unconditional, uncomplicated, internally sourced. That was the vibrational condition life was leading her toward.

Once she allowed that recognition, the charge around the entire situation started dissolving. She saw her mother differently, no longer as someone pushing an agenda but as a woman excited about a new relationship. She saw Jeff more clearly too. In him she saw a perfectly ordinary human being who happened to trigger old beliefs. And she saw herself with new compassion, understanding how much progress she had already made and how little remained before this pattern fully released.

This is how soothing works. Soothing happens when truth rises gently from within, revealing what the heart already knows. She softened almost automatically in the face of the clarity revealed in the session. Clarity which showed the client her resistance was unnecessary.

The moment the charge diminished, the Universe reorganized around her new point of focus. Life always does this. It must. Improved internal conditions compel improved external reflections.

In time, her reality will match her softer stance. Interactions with Jeff will feel easier. Conversations with her mother will contain more sweetness and less subtext. The emotional landscape that once felt threatening will feel neutral, then pleasant, then quietly lovely. That gradual unfolding is the hallmark of a well-lived life.

The Universe Never Misses

In the end, her experience wasn’t about a man named Jeff. It wasn’t even about her mother. It was about the beautiful precision of a Universe that never misses, never wavers, never fails to deliver the exact conditions required for the next step of expansion. Life is relentless because love is relentless. Consciousness wants more of itself—more of its joy, more of its freedom, more of its brilliance—and physical reality becomes the perfect stage for that unfolding.

When resistance softens, love gradually takes its place. When love becomes the dominant vibration, life reflects it everywhere. This is how we become who we really are, not in a single leap, but through a thousand gentle recognitions. Each one reveals the next. One recognition liberates the next pocket of resistance. Another opens the heart a little wider.

Jeff, without even knowing it, became an angelic mirror for my client. In seeing what he evoked, she discovered what she was ready to release. In releasing it, she became a little more of the love she already is. And that, truly, is the whole point of being alive.

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How The Hidden Power Of Words Destroys The Daring Life

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Not long ago, a client offered an excellent metaphor. They were curious about something we talked about in our session. Curiosity is a great place to be. Curiosity will take one very close to the Charmed Life I write about.

Fascination is better. So is amazement. But those emotions naturally show up as clients create more and more evidence. More and more evidence validating everything I tell them in their Positively Focused sessions. Before they know it, the evidence piles up so high, they find themselves in fascination and amazement. Fascination and amazement turn to wonder not long after that. That’s because when one realizes they are worthy of all they desire, and they see those desires happening, wonder becomes the lens through which they experience life.

But I digress. Let’s get back to that client’s metaphor. It’s really instructive.

Clarity in a metaphor

Here’s what they wrote:

“Just want to make sure I understood…if we think of the barrier between conscious and subconscious as the surface of the ocean with the air being conscious thought and water being subconscious thought, then these little doubts and fears that briefly surface in the conscious mind are like icebergs, with the little bit on top one perceives and the huge mass of it (i.e., the momentum) still lurking below, even after one thinks they got a handle on it. Is this a more-or-less apt metaphor?”

The ice berg metaphor gets used often in describing consciousness. Same goes for oceans. So my client’s metaphor was unsurprising. The metaphor itself is mostly accurate.

But we humans over exaggerate what’s going on in life. We also bring that tendency to examining nonphysical, which “consciousness” is. Often, when we do over exaggerate, we do so in a negative direction. In other words, we catastrophize life.

Language often contributes to the catastrophization. Language is powerful. Words we choose literally shape our experience. You’ll see what I mean by taking a deeper look at my client’s metaphor.

Limits put on the limitless

The words “conscious” and “subconscious”, taken together, offer an example of how language can limit experience. When people use these words, they create two things out of something that actually is one thing. It seems there’s a “conscious” part of us. It’s that part of our awareness we’re aware of it. We’re conscious of it. Then there’s the “subconscious” part. We’re aware we have it. But we apparently can’t consciously access it.

So there’s a part of us we can access. And there’s a part we can’t. Between those two, apparently, a barrier exists. Our consciousness cannot pierce that barrier, which is what keeps the “sub” in subconscious.

The words we use have great power. They literally create our limits. (Photo by Glen Carrie on Unsplash)

But there is no actual separation between what people call “conscious” and “subconscious”. There is no barrier between the two. And there really isn’t even “two”. What does exist is our ability perceive all of what’s there, or not. Inability to perceive doesn’t necessarily mean a barrier blocks our ability to perceive. Inability to perceive only means we can’t perceive. We’re not able to. That’s not the same as “cannot”.

In Positively Focused sessions, clients learn to reunite their “conscious” and “subconscious”. Again, they were never separate to begin with. But our beliefs impose a division that’s not there. In doing so those beliefs limit what’s possible.

In our sessions, clients gradually realize everything is possible. Self-imposed limitations relax then. When that happens, one’s human awareness allows more and more, deeper, conscious awareness. This is why a Positively Focused practice includes dreamwork. We train our awareness to expand through to deeper levels of that awareness.

The results are profound.

Making life more serious than it is

Of course, expanding, deepening awareness takes place in physical too. It’s what causes clients to become more bold about life. We become more daring. More authentic. Which is something our Broader Perspective wants. Because of that, we feel a tremendous sense of adventure about life. Adventure and joy, pleasure and fun richly colors our life.

Self-imposed limits can block deeper self-awareness. After all, something existing in the “subconscious” implies we can’t access it. But nothing exists beyond our access. If we can ask the question, we can know the answer. That opens profound implications for self-awareness.

The other interesting thing about my client’s metaphor is it introduces drama and ominousness to the affair. That “huge mass” lurking beyond our perceptions stands ready to upend our plans. And we can’t access it so what do we do?

The reality is, nothing like that is happening. Seriousness, drama, and dire consequences are human constructs. Nothing “serious” happens in our lives. Even when it looks like it is, that’s our interpretation. And any interpretation can change. That’s what clients learn. And when they do, their life gets way better.

That’s why I use “Belief Constellation” instead of common metaphors explaining consciousness. For, as with constellations in the sky, our consciousness and everything in it is all visible…if we’re willing to connect the dots between feelings and thoughts, then other thoughts connected to that, and then other thoughts connected to that, then other thoughts connected…etc. Nothing is hidden from us. It’s all available to see, revel in, then create more of what we want.

But enjoying that means learning how to do it deliberately and consciously. Including how we speak about our experience.

Want to know more? Let’s talk.

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The Spectacular Life Is Scary For Most People. Me Included.

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I once had a female housemate named Debbie. She left her “real job” for a calling. Instead of that “real job”, she wanted to become a life coach. This was back in the day when “life coaching” was the thing. At the time, I too had just left my “real job” in pursuit of startups. So it was nice living with someone else who took the road less traveled.

Months went by and Debbie wasn’t making much progress as a life coach. I don’t know why she wasn’t succeeding. But one day, I happened to see her in passing at the house. In that moment, I knew Debbie had lost her dream.

The look on her face was obvious: nearly out of money, Debbie probably feared what she thought would happen next. She didn’t need to say anything. The dread on her face and tears in her eyes spoke volumes. I remember giving her a long embrace. I told her it would be ok.

She stayed with me in my house a couple more months. Then she moved out. She moved to another state, got a job for a utility and, today, as far as I can tell, is happy. She married. Got a dog. She’s gotten back into dance, something she loves. As far as I know, life is good for Debbie.

Giving the cold shoulder to our calling

As I move through circumstances associated with my calling, I know how Debbie felt. So many of us accept mainstream beliefs. Tow that line long enough and life shapes to those beliefs. Then we fall into a pattern. We’re successfully earning our living. We maybe have a family. Life’s pleasures keep us in that pattern.

I know: I lived exactly that life.

So when our passion calls us, we don’t easily hear it. Maybe we do, but we won’t follow it. Life is too good as it is, however it is. We have friendships, lovers. We have good, stable jobs. Of those who do try following the call, many don’t make it. Like Debbie. We try, but our old beliefs, those having us choose the mainstream, normal life won’t accept new ideas. Even if, in the long run, those new ideas would give us more satisfaction and joy. Far more than our mainstream life.

Mainstream beliefs will push back against anyone who dares to follow their dreams. So those called must overcome emotions old beliefs spark. Emotions warning us we may become homeless, penniless or failures. Beliefs saying life outside the safe mainstream, is too scary.

Even among the daring, many will not overcome scary thoughts about the future, risk and what others might think. I don’t blame Debbie for turning back. This path is not for the faint of heart. My own life offers sobering tales which would scare most people from trying what I’m doing. Most people won’t even begin. Let alone go as far as I have.

Most people never hear a calling. Many who do, give it the cold shoulder. Some try following it, but give in to fear. Fears destroys dreams. (Photo by Rodrigo Curi on Unsplash)

Is it worth it?

But my experience also proves it’s so worth it. It’s really scary at times. But I know what “fear” means. Yes, there’s that “False Evidence Appearing Real” thing. But fear also is a beneficial emotion, like all emotions. Understand what it’s saying and we can make our fear more compliant with our desires. More compliant with the path to which our calling draws us.

It takes a while transmuting emotions keeping us from living spectacular lives. That transmutation process, then, isn’t for the faint of heart. Most people won’t try. And the majority of people living ordinary, happy lives proves we don’t need to try to be happy.

Some of us do try, however. Others, like me, are called and the calling won’t take no for an answer. We are those who dare. It’s scary, yes. But the path, at least so far, is extremely rewarding. I believe it will be far more rewarding in the future too. Right now, it brings me extraordinary experiences I write about in this blog. Experiences convincing me I’ve made the right choice.

In reality though, I really had no choice. Repeating myself: My calling would not take no for an answer.

Is mainstream, ordinary success available on this path? I believe so. Money, influence, relevance and all that are coming. But first, I must believe I’m worthy of my calling.

Debbie gave up too early in my opinion. Was her’s a wrong decision? For her, I can’t say it was. She’s happy after all. At least that’s what it looks like on social media.

But for me, nothing short of the Charmed Life will do. And so, I’m committed to the very end. An end I expect will be spectacular.

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How To Easily Prove People Never Die

Positively Focused Q-A
Positively Focused Q-A

Question: How do you know a person never dies? Is the soul really eternal? How can you prove this?

This question leads to a kind of Unified Theory of Eternal Life. What a worthy and considerable question!

Why is it worthy? Because a person’s “soul”, All That Is and the Universe want the person to know they’re eternal. They also want them knowing each person creates their reality as they live life. Only then can one live an authentic life.

That’s because if a person fears death, or what happens after death, life gets colored by that fear. Many people fear death. That fear generates much anxiety. And anxiety blocks authentic living.

While seeking proof will reveal proof, such proof doesn’t exist in “objective” form. That’s because life (even “after-life”) is 100 percent subjective. So proof reveals itself only in life’s subjectivity. In other words, only you can prove it to yourself. And when you do, evidence you find will come through intimate, personal experience.

Being subjective, such experience won’t convince others. Therefore, proving it definitively to others won’t work. All the evidence is first-person experiential.

First things first

Physical life experience – particularly the external-seeming, objective aspects – are projections of the soul’s experience onto itself. So the being experiencing physical life experiences an experience of self projected into the awareness of itself. That projection looks and feels as an apparent “objective” reality.

Why does it appear that way?

So the experiencer can experience “more” of itself as well as fulfill “intentions” central to who and what “self” is. So seeing proof of an eternal soul first requires knowing what you just read. That information gives context to proof you’ll find. The proof, in other words, will look like life experiences. Those experiences will “prove” convincing.

You also need lots of patience. Proof rarely comes in a flash. And when it does, it is often missed or it’s bewildering or incomprehensible. Like a barely remembered dream in the morning, if you don’t know how to recall it, or replicate it, you can’t hold onto it.

But with patience, the gradual, unhurried nature of All That Is will reveal everything (anything really) you’re wanting to know.

Making proof visible instead of impossible

Next tip: you’re surrounded by evidence of your eternal nature. You just can’t see it right now. Seeing the proof necessitates orienting your perception so evidence shows up in your perception. Instead of perception showing you the absence of the evidence. The absence of evidence is what you see when you think you’re mortal. Which is why people think death is real.

“Orienting” your perception doesn’t mean “doing something” in physical reality. Instead, it means “allowing yourself to realize” what you want to know. “Doing something” and “allowing yourself to realize” represent two distinct things.

Bear with me while I continue adding more context.

One way eternal life seekers complicate matters happens when they think or believe in ways making seeing proof difficult if not impossible. The word “soul” for example, generates belief constellations that work against “allowing yourself to realize”. I wrote about this before, here.

Beliefs are communicable too, just like some diseases. They get passed on through language primarily. You’ll notice you talk to yourself almost constantly. Much of that internal dialogue confirms and reconfirms beliefs, many of which work against seeing answers sought. So the next step involves realizing how language and beliefs muddle perception, then cleaning up language and belief.

Practical example time 😊

For example, look at the following two statements:

  1. I want to see evidence that the soul never dies
  2. I want to be the realizer of my eternal nature

Notice the action-oriented nature inherent in statement one. It also presumes no visible evidence. The speaker wants to see what they don’t see.

This statement affirms evidence’s absence instead of affirming evidence’s abundance. The perceiver wants to see something she currently does not, the “does not” component gets emphasized above all else. It creates “disbelief”.

Notice statement two is passive. The speaker speaks to evidence showing itself to her. Further, her statement expresses desire to become something, not see something. It also affirms existence of what she wants to realize. She understands her eternal nature is a thing and she expresses her desires around experiencing that.

These subtle distinctions make all the difference.

The word “proof” is problematic as well. “Proof” is adversarial. It says “show me because I don’t believe it.” Wanting proof affirms your doubt. It also offers confrontation. “PROVE IT” is the energy of the word “proof”.

See the subtlety?

Let’s put this all together

Ok, so now you have a sense of four important premises:

  1. Evidence you want will occur as 100 percent subjective. It will only convince you. No one else.
  2. Desired evidence surrounds you. Wanting to create evidence or discovering it distracts you from experiencing it. You’re wanting to realize the already-existing evidence. Or better said: you’re wanting to realize your eternal nature, which already always has/is existed/existing.
  3. How you frame your request will either support your intent or defeat it.
  4. Your beliefs will hinder or help you become the realizer of the answer to your question.

So now, the process is simple: you simply ask for the answer in a way that supports getting the answer…then hold to knowing the answer shows itself.

What happens next: you’ll experience events confirming your intent. Things start happening showing that you’re eternal. But you must keep the four points in mind. Also, you must constantly question thoughts and reactions which will stop the evidence flow dead in its tracks.

The evidence becomes evident

For example, one day at a bus stop or someplace familiar, someone you know may join you. You’ll strike up a conversation and this person may say something – mention a newspaper or magazine article, a website, a book, or tv show – that will cause within you an “a-ha!” moment. What they say will sound perfectly timed and related to your intent. Perhaps they will mention the show God Friended Me, for example, or the Netflix show, The Good Place, both having themes in eternal life. And then one of many different things might happen:

  1. You will totally miss the relevance between the shows (and their premises) and your request. Here Universe and All That Is gave you a clue. But your beliefs will block the connection. So you’ll say something like “huh, interesting” and let the mention pass.
  2. Maybe you’ll think “hmm, I just read a blog about seeing my eternal nature and here is someone telling me about a TV show about god and the afterlife.” And your mind then might go: “this is a coincidence” and you’ll miss the relevance.
  3. OR….You may feel goose pimples or a shiver down your spine and think “This is no coincidence. This is evidence showing itself….” Then you’ll get excited….You might go home later and watch either show, enjoy the premise offered and then, be inspired to casually research online the word “serendipity”….

Do something like number three and you’re on your way.

Seeing overwhelming evidence

The seeming chance bus stop encounter began the realization. But if you aren’t alert, you’ll miss it. That’s how subtle Universe works. Your job remains maintaining alertness and expectation.

Keep this up and you’ll experience all kinds of evidence. They literally surround you:

  • You may be invited to an Ayahuasca event or a meditation session
  • Someone may start talking about eternity or life extension at a function you attend
  • A dream might happen where you experience events implying an eternal being
  • More events will happen confirming real what science calls “pseudoscience”.

And then, at some point, you’ll notice old beliefs gradually shifting. You’ll move through life differently. Your changed beliefs and lifestyle reveal more serendipitous opportunities making disbelief harder:

  • Dreams will become more and more lucid and engaging
  • You’ll start to want to know what your dreams are about
  • You’ll start playing with this whole idea that “you create your reality” and you’ll start getting evidence of that showing up all over your life
  • Then, really amazing things will start happening. Things that, in the past, you would have said “that’s coincidence” or “that’s impossible” or “random” or “confirmation bias” or some other nonsense. Only now you won’t say those things because they happen so often there’s too much of them proving they’re real.

By then you’re on your way.

The rest of the path is up to your realization. Keep it up and you will eventually realize what every sincere person realizes: life and everything in it, including you, is eternal and death is not the end. It’s only the beginning of more life.

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How Beautiful Results Make Rich Lives

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A client applying themselves to the Positively Focused practice produces not only beautiful results, but also a life full of richness. That belief eventually becomes “knowing” once they produce overwhelming evidence being Positively Focused works.

In knowing, clients begin realizing they are creators — invincible, eternal beings. That knowing is a beautiful result. Because once someone gets to knowing, life shows them more of what they are. Then life turns into the Charmed Life.

Life isn’t about wonderful manifestations, the evidence a Positively Focused practice produces. Oh, it’s nice getting these. But life’s true purpose reveals itself when one KNOWS what they are. Then they see how powerful they can be as they move in alignment with life’s true purpose.

Client stories abound

A few years ago, I wrote in this blog how my Charmed Life produces so much evidence I could literally spend all day, every day writing about them. That evidence continues at an expanding, increasing pace. And, client evidence adds to that wonderful stream of proof that the Positively Focused practice works.

The more clients come into their Charmed Lives, the more I get to write about, amplify and savor their experiences in my own life, thus prepping my life field for even more of my own evidence.

For instance, recently a new client texted a wonderful experience he had. To ordinary human consciousness, this experience seems ordinary. But because the client has honed his perception, he interpreted it quite differently from an ordinary interpretation.

As a result, he got the gold in that moment he created. Yes, he created it. Like all of us, he created this experience so that he could revel in the joy of his expanding perception. Most people miss that part about life. I love that he got it so clearly. Take a look:

My client getting it through a Positively Focused perspective.

Every now: blessed

Ordinary human consciousness misses the joy, the fun, the insights and the glorious synchronicities indicating one creates their reality. Such synchronicities happen in every now-moment. They indicate connection to All That Is, which is what we all are. When someone tunes into that knowing, first starting with desire, then hope, then incipient belief, evidence they produce becomes overwhelming.

Then, a simple-seeming thought to go to a corner store in the middle of the night becomes what it actually is: inner guidance leading to enlightenment.

Some clients ask “is it really possible to have no negative things happen in life, ever?” Of course, the answer is “yes”.

If the answer was “no” then tenets of the Positively Focused practice would break down. Tenets of the Positively Focused practice say “this is how the Universe works.” If exceptions existed, “this is how the universe works” would be false.

Every moment is a blessed experience. But every person enjoys free will. That includes freedom to choose any perspective through which to experience life. Free will is an awesome thing. It comes with awesome responsibility though. A person can create hell on earth, for themselves and others. Or that person can create heaven on earth.

And everyone experiencing that heaven or hell can only experience that if they believe such that they tune into that heaven or hell. No one creates for another. Ever. But people can resonate with one another such that they share very similar life experiences.

Beautiful results come to all

I advocate for everyone creating heaven for themselves. That happens by telling positive stories about life experience. Do that consistently and life must show its beauty to you. Do that frequently and momentum builds. Then, one experiences a gradual cascade of beautiful results and a rich life.

Once there, there’s no going back. Life gets better and better, as it should. As it is. For we’re all expanding. And what we’re expanding into is all good. Because that’s what we all are: all good.

Ready to produce your beautiful results? I got your back!

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How Bike Flats Can Lead To Great, Happy Results

I love positive derangement. Feeling so good, experiencing life so positively that people label you “crazy”, feels wonderful. The sweet spot of Positively Focused is that perspective. From there, the extraordinary shows itself nearly all the time.

This morning proves that assertion in abundance. It looks like coincidence to the uninitiated eye. But to the Positively Focused, what happened happened because that’s what happens when a person finds their grace and worthiness.

In other words, when a person finds they stand at the center of the Universe. There, life’s an adventure. I love sharing this story. I know it offers inspiration for others. That’s why I started this blog: to inspire others into a new reality. One where they get everything they want, the life I call a Charmed Life.

A wonderful day awaited

I woke up this morning super positive. Amazing dreams, an amazing “meditation” session, and an eagerness about the day fueled my rising. As usual when I wake these days, my higher knowing, my Broader Perspective, serves me a list of things it knows will inspire me.

That list included going grocery shopping. I planned a Safeway trip today, Friday, followed by a Trader Joe’s trip Saturday. But my my Broader Perspective said do both today.

My calendar showing the two appointments for shopping, one Friday, one Saturday. The was prior to receiving my Inner Being guidance.

I follow such guidance more quickly and often these days. Because I know following such guidance always leads to extraordinary experiences. I write about these every week in this blog.

I don’t have a car. Instead I get around by foot or my bike. A bike ride in the cool morning air this morning sounded great. By the afternoon, Portlanders expected temperatures in the low hundreds, so I felt eager about getting these trips in early.

Safeway was easy and fun. I enjoyed a nice chat with Tammy, the checkout person who usually rings my groceries. While checking out my groceries, I shared my excitement over how much food I got for so little money, thanks to Safeway’s loyalty program. Tammy agreed laughing. I’m sure she though me crazy.

Then I rode home with my panniers full of wonderful food. When it was all either in the fridge or pantry, I realized, I forgot toilet paper I bought. Rather than disappointment about that, I felt excitement about another ride to Safeway. That’s how much I like riding my bike. 😊

Getting the toilet paper happened quick. After putting it away, I prepared for my TJ run. Little did I know, while I prepared, the day had ready awesome delights prepared.

Good and bad here, now

It was a lovely ride to TJs. Before leaving home, I sat a few moments. In those moments I savored how good I felt, how wonderful it is owning the bike I own, how awesome it is living where I live and how much fun the ride to TJs would be.

I took an alternative path just to amplify the fun. Nearly everyone I passed greeted me with a smile. Cars stopped on main streets so I could cross. A young woman walking her dog sported a lovely hat and I told her so. She smiled in return. Fellow bike riders greeted me as I passed.

My beautiful transportation.

Everything went in a way indicating I had aligned with all that is good. My Broader Perspective and the Universe showed me all the way to TJs evidence of my alignment.

As Trader Joe’s approached, I saw a homeless person. Now in the past, when I ride by a homeless person on the way to Trader Joe’s, I have, again, in the past, worried about him going into my bike bags while I shop. So I lock my bike bags to my bike. I also leave nothing valuable in them.

This time, when I saw the homeless person, I imagined the homeless person trying to take my bags. Then he did some sort of vandalism because he couldn’t get them off my bike.

Slight insecurity accompanied that imagined scenario. That’s when I caught myself. Emotions tell me something important, I know. What was I doing? Creating a reality I didn’t want. That’s what my emotions told me. So I dropped that imagined scenario as quickly as I could. My positive feelings returned and, for a few moments that imagined scenario disappeared.

It would return a bit later. Thankfully, not in as big a manifestation as it could have!

“Good” and “bad” exist in every universal particle, in every scenario, in every moment. I know how I focus shapes how much of each fills my experiences. That’s why I practice a positive focus. It maximizes the former and excludes all of the latter.

Let the fun…continue?

Leaving that scenario behind, I locked my bike, went into the store, followed my intuition and got everything I wanted in about 10 minutes. I checked out and while doing so the wonderful checker greeted me with a smile and a nice little conversation.

Then, when I walked out the door I looked towards my bike. My attention went right to my rear tire. It was flat as a pancake!

For a brief second, that scenario I thought before returned. Did some homeless guy slash my tire? Slowly, I approached my bike. Again, I dropped that scenario. After all, no matter how it happened, it happened. My bike had a flat. Brooding about it wouldn’t fix my tire!

Houselessness runs rampant these days. It also triggers many people’s negative stories. Including mine. (Photo by Yawer Waani on Unsplash)

After loading the pannier with what I bought, I put them aside, then detached the tire, and opened my accessories bag. That’s when I noticed my repair kit was missing! The patch kit was there, but other tools I needed weren’t. I couldn’t repair the flat!

At that point, I stopped myself, took a breath and assessed my situation. This wasn’t what it looked like. Something brewed here, ready to be enjoyed. I didn’t know what though. Still, I know this flat wasn’t random or an accident.

So instead of jumping into action, I took a moment and reframed the situation.

“Boy, something really great is going to happen because of this,” I thought to myself. “This is going to be fun!” And I meant it!

Just then, another biker passed by riding an electric bike. Two people passed after that. Meanwhile I started putting my bike back together, figuring I would have to push my bike to a repair shop, call a Lyft or an Uber.

Bring on the wonder!

Minutes later, that electric bike rider returned. He asked me if everything was OK. I explained what happened, that I planned a walk to a repair shop. He mentioned The Bike Gallery, a major bike chain here in Portland.

Under his breath he said that if I took my bike there, and knocked on the door, the staff would let me in and fix my bike.

“I actually work there,” he added in an even lower tone.

Right then, I knew something amazing had come together. My spidey sense told me this was the Universe unfolding a continuous stream of extremely positive outcomes in response to my chronic positive focus. That stream started from my dreams. And with this flat, that stream continued. Here’s what happened next:

The guy left, I got my bike back together, then started walking from 43rd Ave. to the Bike Gallery located on 53rd Ave. I enjoyed the walk. It was good exercise. I enjoyed the increasing heat on my face and body while walking. A light sweat started on my skin, which evaporated in the light, heating breeze, cooling me in the process. The weight of my panniers full of food pushed down on the flat. That made it easy to push my bike even with no air in the tire.

Two-thirds of the way to the Bike Gallery, I looked up the street and saw a biker who looked like the same guy who helped me at Trader Joe’s. When he saw me he turned my way. It was the guy.

“You walk fast,” He said then pointed to the pannier latched to his bike. A huge manual air pump extended out of its open top. “I packed some repair tools and was coming back to rescue you,” He added. “I’ll meet you back at the store.”

The joy keeps coming

He greeted me when I arrived, then ushered me to the maintenance department. There he took my bike, disassembled it, took apart the flat tire and showed me what the problem was: the rim tape slipped causing the innertube to dip into one of the spoke dimples. That, combined with the pressure of the air in the tube, cut the tube open.

“You would not have been able to repair that.” He said. “And even if you tried with a new tube, that tube probably would’ve gotten punctured too.”

There’s my bike in the rack. The rim and tire rests against tool drawers.

Obviously, my Broader Perspective, the Universe and All That Is orchestrated this uncommon, uncanny flat tire situation. Responding the way I did, my blessed path unfolded, opening doors to a cavalcade of wonderful outcomes.

I could have got angry about the flat, railed at the sucky timing, or felt sorry for myself. Doing that would have opened different circumstances. Imagine, were I pissed, the guy who helped me may not have felt comfortable approaching me. Or maybe in my frustration I might have said something rude.

But by reframing the situation and seeing it as an adventure, the whole situation unfolded in this wonderful way. I aligned myself with those positive outcomes, which continued even while this guy repaired my tire.

While he repaired it, I noticed another bike repair guy grinning ear-to-ear while fiddling with the cash register. I felt inspired to compliment him, so I did.

“You’re having a great time,” I said. “I can tell by your smile.”

“I love what I do,” he said. “Bikes are the best.”

I agreed while noticing his name, Tim, on his name tag. While my bike got fixed, Tim and I enjoyed a great conversation. He worked at the Bike Gallery for many years and has been working on bikes all his life. This store was short-staffed, so his manager at the store where he usually works dispatched him here to help out. Imagine that! Another synchronicity!

Had that not happened, we wouldn’t have enjoyed what happened next.

The full monty brought to life

Tim said he’s lived in Portland all his life, repaired bikes all his life and feels he’s living his dream. Thus the smile. He lives in a place called Hillsboro, here in Oregon. His family lives in other local cities called Portland, Forest Grove and Salem.

He and I also talked about bicycle motocross, a passion of his, about my heroes from my bicycle motocross days whenI was a child. I loved watching real motocross while growing up in Southern California too. I told Tim that and Tim told me a great story where he met one of my number one heroes of that time. Tim and I both got more excited the more we talked. Did I say it was a great conversation?

Meanwhile the guy who rescued me, whose name was Randall, replaced the original fabric rim tape with an upgraded rubber version, put the bike back together, then rolled it over to me.

“How much do I owe you?” I asked.

“Nothing,” he said. “Enjoy the rest of your day.”

That’s when I really knew this flat tire offered tremendous opportunity, which I stepped into by framing it as a positive adventure instead of a mishap. That opened the door to this awesome experience.

Think about it. The flat itself was uncommon. I couldn’t have repaired it had I tried. The universe didn’t want me too. It and my Broader Perspective wanted me to witness how much they love me by orchestrating all that unfolded. So cool!

By way of explanation, I told Randall about the Positively Focused blog and how I write about these kinds of wonderful synchronicities that happen in my life all the time. Then I asked if I could take his picture. He said yes.

This is Randall and I:

Me and my guardian angel and bike repair guru, Randall (r).

Randall lives in Woodstock and rides his electric bike to The Bike Gallery every day unless work demands something different.

Something different and delightful always awaits the Positively Focused person. Nothing happens by accident. Everything happens on purpose. Being Positively Focused brings that purpose into focus. The purpose everything means to give us all is joyful recognition that the Universe is always on our side.

But if one doesn’t line up with that love, that joyful acknowledgment of this joyful purpose, they get struggle, pain, disappointment and more.

I prefer joy, love and happy results. So I do everything I can to foster and amplify those results. It’s easy, once I got the hang of it. As a result of that, even an unfixable bike flat serves up a great big heaping pile of joyful experience.

That’s the Charmed Life. There’s nothing better.

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How Perfect Manifestation Makes For Great Results

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It’s fun watching how my desires fulfill themselves. Even desires I want at one time, but then expand out of. These too still become my reality, whether I want them or not. When this happens, it’s a great Positively Focused lesson. Through them I learn how to refine my manifesting practice. What happened recently offers a perfect example.

A couple years ago after my marriage ended in divorce, I needed a job. I manifested the perfect job immediately, with no effort, in perfect timing. That job set me up to never work a job again.

While working at that company though, I briefly aspired to management. At the time I saw pretty great potential in moving up the ranks, potentially rising quickly as that company grew.

But those thoughts came from old patterns and belief constellations. Beliefs most people hold about what “success” looks like. In that constellation, belief looks like “career success”, “corporate success”, rising through the ranks and a big salary.

That kind of success though tends to cost a lot. One’s life balance, freedom, passions and authentic self-expression usually get squelched in such opportunities. I should know. I enjoyed just such success at a major utility and a high tech company spanning over 20 years. Both careers took their toll.

I’m glad I’m past that.

Be careful what you ask for…you might get it

Still, while at that big company, I got caught up in old beliefs. Other beliefs in that constellation had me doubt what I now no longer doubt. Those other beliefs told me pursuing my passions was scary, hard and hardly anyone succeeded doing that.

So one day, while doing my job, I thought about how cool it would be to transition into management at this company. I created a future reality where the company invited me to apply for a position that opened doors to future operational leadership.

Then I forgot all about it. I didn’t “try” to “make it happen”. In fact until what happened next happened, I forgot all about that future reality.

That’s because during the ensuing short months at that company, several other desires fulfilled themselves. Those opened doors to where I am now, not working and instead pursuing my passions and allowing my Charmed Life.

Here’s what happened.

If it’s not a “hell yes!”

Yesterday I got an email. It came from a recruiter working at the company where I worked. The email offered me an operational leadership position. The position offered exactly what I wanted: open doors to greater leadership.

The email offering…

The email specifically said “this role is a stepping stone into operational leadership”! At first, the email sounded interesting. But the more I thought about it, the less intriguing the opportunity felt.

“Why?” You may ask. “You manifested exactly what you wanted!”

True, I wanted that…a few years ago. Now, life and my desires changed. The opportunity sounded interesting. But interesting isn’t enough. I know if an opportunity doesn’t feel like a “Hell Yes”, it’s a “Hell no!”, no matter how good it sounds.

The real opportunity…

Given where I am, I wrote the sender telling him I wasn’t interested for several reasons. Then I thought about this experience and saw the gold in it.

I thought about the mechanics of this manifestation, what I did, or more important, what I didn’t do, and how it unfolded. Here’s what I saw:

  1. I created the desire our of my then, now
  2. The desire felt exciting at the time and I had sincere interest in it.
  3. Then, I totally forgot about it. I didn’t stew on it, I didn’t do any processes to amplify the desire or the fulfillment, I used no affirmations. I let it go.
  4. This is important: Fulfillment took a while. During that time I felt no impatience about getting anywhere, which allowed me to relax and let things unfold.
  5. As a result of all the above, the manifestation happened, with me not doing anything to “make it happen”.

This result typifies what I’d call perfect manifestation technique. No focus on “when” or “how”. No trying to make it happen. Total surrender and…fulfillment…with no effort on my part.

This manifestation also lets me know just because a manifestation fulfills itself doesn’t mean I need to step into it. Manifestations represent sign posts along my unfolding path to expansion, which has no end.

That means I face continual streams of unfolding desires, some I’ll embrace, others I’ll pass by.

Today far more interesting unfolding desires keep me excited about my now and the future. I enjoy watching all desires unfold though, whether I embrace them or not, knowing they all come with teachings which make me a better, deliberate creator.

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The Best, Most Powerful Affirmations

Positively Focused Q-A
Positively Focused Q-A

I’ve added yet another running series “Q/A” to my blog. It’s…well…about answering questions I get through the internets and sharing those answers with others as they may help others feel inspired and more connected to the God they are.

Question: What are the most powerful affirmations?

The most powerful affirmations are ones that work. That seems obvious, but reconsidering this obvious answer reveals an important point: the power isn’t in the affirmation. It’s in the person.

Any affirmation will work whenever the person using it aligns their creative energy with what they want. In other words, desires, those things which inspire affirmation use, fulfill themselves. They do that when the only thing blocking them gets out of the way. What is that thing? The affirmation user himself.

When affirmations work, they work for this reason. They allow one to soothe themselves out of the way. Standing there the fulfilled desires shows itself to the desire-er. Every time.

The most powerful affirmations? Prepare to be surprised. (Photo by Omkar Jadhav)

Affirmations have no power

All that work doesn’t happen because the affirmation is powerful. It happens because the user talks himself out of unhelpful disbelief. Then he feels himself into, belief, knowing and then gradually into the reality in which his desire already happened.

In short, there are no powerful affirmations. There are only powerful people. Expressions of God in human form, who align themselves through their thoughts to their fulfilled desires. One needn’t an affirmation for that. But affirmations can, and often do, focus one’s real power – life force focus.

Those knowing this don’t attribute their power to words. They own it themselves, because they are the power. When this happens, affirmations fall by the wayside. In their place emerges what had the power all along: eternal, nonphysical conscious energy embodied in human form.

That’s what every instance of physical reality is, including humans. So a human affirming it’s inherent power is the most powerful affirmation when it affirms it’s eternal reality then leverages that affirmation in service of its desires.