No, Negative Experiences Aren’t Just “Part Of Life”

Positively Focused Q-A

Question: When we tell ourselves a story that people who attract [negative] experiences bring it upon themselves through their [negative] vibration, are we also falling into the vibration of blame? Do we not all attract [negative] experiences no matter what?

Think about Jesus getting crucified, MLK getting shot, or maybe even any [negative] experience you or me have attracted in recent memory. It seems like the [negative] experiences happen no matter what. Couldn’t the same or similar circumstances still happen to a person with [highly positive] dominant momentum?

Answer: In short, no. A [negative] experience similar to those in dominant [negative] momentum energy cannot happen to someone who is consistently [highly positive].

Jesus isn’t a good example because he wasn’t a real person. Instead, he acted as an archetype in the imaginations of humankind at the time. So there’s that. MLK foresaw, accepted and allowed that experience into his life. IOW, he created it as part of his path. There are lots of enlightened beings, however, who transitioned in much peaceful ways, including the iconic Buddha.

Saying someone brings a [negative] experience onto themselves is not blaming…unless that’s the vibration in which you’re hearing it from. When I say this, I’m appreciative of the vast empowerment such a statement points to. I talk about this all the time in my blogs.

“Contrast” happens. But that contrast lessens as we are more chronically [highly positive]. So while a person with chronic [negative] vibration will have their purse stolen, for example, a chronic [highly positive] person may drop a glass they were washing. Or they may experience a really hot day. Or they may want to buy something and that thing isn’t on sale anymore. They experience much less contrast or negative experiences than those with dominant negative energy.

And, since a person who is REALLY highly positive recognizes that all [negative] experience is actually positive, they amplify such experiences…to the point that even these lighter versions do not happen. They happen, but they’re not experienced as contrasting experiences.

So no, I’M not “falling into blame” by saying another who experiences [negative] experiences brings it on themselves. Everyone creates their own reality. That’s a statement of empowerment. Unless YOU are still in negative energy and are interpreting that statement like many hearing it for the first time do: from their chronically [negative] state. Then such people think the speaker is blaming them.

But the speaker is not. The listener is hearing what the speaker DIDN’T say because the listener doesn’t realize they are projecting their blame state onto the words the speaker spoke and thus didn’t hear what that speaker actually said. Instead, they got a reflection of their own [negative] state.

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