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Why Losing My Bike Became a Perfect Manifestation

TL;DR: The author shares how a bike theft, rather than sparking outrage, revealed hidden momentum and prompted joyful expansion. A real-world demonstration of how deliberate creators can turn contrast into evidence of alignment.

Almost 30 days into living in my new apartment—top floor, panoramic view of downtown Portland, utterly satisfying—something unexpected happened. I suited up in my bike gear, ready to run errands on a crisp Saturday. My bike is my daily driver. Unless I’m walking or taking transit, I ride. It’s my main mode of getting around.

I keyed into the secure bike room, stepped inside… and froze. My bike was gone! In that moment, it felt like I had stepped into an alternate dimension. Not because of what I saw — but because of what I didn’t feel. My stomach dropped, sure. I registered the absence, the strangeness, the weight of the moment. But what never came was anger. There was no outrage, no sadness, no feeling of being violated. Just awareness, presence and a rising sense of wonder. I knew, immediately, that something very right was about to unfold.

Contrast Is Not the Villain. It’s the Portal.

Most people call events like this “negative experiences.” But that’s not what contrast really is—not from the vantage point of deliberate creation. Contrast is the way the Universe offers us the next level of ourselves. Every desire fulfilled births new expansion. And expansion requires contrast. It’s the friction that sharpens the arrow.

This new apartment is a desire fulfilled. It’s everything I wanted. And so, naturally, the next desire is already underway. In the Positively Focused practice, we understand that contrast is always part of the package. From that perspective, “negative experiences” are propulsion not punishment. It’s the Universe’s way of saying, “Are you ready for more?”

What looked like theft was actually a vibrational delivery. It was a perfectly timed opportunity to observe momentum that I hadn’t fully soothed — and to replace it with something better. It’s easy to see it now. But even in the moment, I knew. The absence of the bike was an invitation, it was instruction offering me something more.

A Problem Becomes a Gift—When You Know What’s Happening

I went to the building’s management office and told them what had happened. That’s when I learned the bike theft wasn’t an isolated incident. This thief had been breaking into the building since it was completed. Both the property managers and owners knew it. But they hadn’t told us tenants.

Had I known, I would’ve brought my bike upstairs. Instead, I trusted the “secure” bike room. The managers suggested I write the owners directly. So I did. In the email, I told them the full story. But I also told them how I was framing it: this entire experience was unfolding in service to all of us—owners, management, tenants, and me. I expected a positive outcome, and I wanted them to know I believed it was coming.

They responded swiftly with a full reimbursement. Nearly $3,000 in replacement value—my original $1,300 bike, plus gear, helmet, and accessories.

When I read their email, I didn’t feel elated. There was no sense of victory. I wasn’t surprised. I simply felt the steady knowing that always follows alignment. This was exactly the outcome I expected. Not because I’d demanded it—but because I never resisted it. The Universe doesn’t need to be forced. It just needs to be allowed.

After breaking into the “secure” bike room, the thief was clever. Rather than working through my robust lock, they just unscrewed the bolts holding the staple to the concrete floor.
My old Surly. I hope whoever has it ingots it as much as I did.

Your Vibration Always Has the Last Word

Many people—especially those who’ve been practicing this “you create your reality” business for a while—feel confused when something “bad” happens. They think they’ve cleaned up all their resistance. They think negative manifestations shouldn’t appear anymore. But life doesn’t work that way. Contrast doesn’t vanish at the advanced levels. It just gets more subtle, more refined, more instructive.

In my case, the bike theft wasn’t random. It reflected something still active in my field—momentum I hadn’t noticed. And since physical reality is always a lagging indicator, this event was simply the universe’s way of showing me what was already swirling in my vibration. The moment it appeared, I had a choice: lean into it, or push against it. I chose curiosity over complaint. And that choice changed everything.

This is how expansion works. When you see contrast for what it is, you no longer fear it. You meet it as a teacher, not a threat. And when you do that, it dissolves. It fulfills its purpose. And it delivers what it was always meant to bring: more.

Isn’t she a beauty? My new straggler…better components and new upgrades. I love it.

This Was the Setup for Something Even Better

The new bike that replaced my old one—along with all the accessories—represents a massive upgrade in quality ride and beauty. It’s not just an upgrade in physical form, however. It’s a reflection of who I’ve become. And the cooperative components that brought this to me—the reimbursement, the timing, the conversations—were perfectly orchestrated.

This whole experience was a vibrational gift. It emerged to help me spot old momentum, soothe it, and receive more. That’s how it always works when you’re Positively Focused. Contrast sharpens the signal. And the Universe responds with delight.

Some might still ask, “But if you’re so aligned, why did your bike get stolen in the first place?” And the answer is simple. Because every desire fulfilled opens the door to new expansion. And because contrast helps reveal — and release — any residual resistance still hanging around.

This wasn’t an error. It was evidence.

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The Truth Chocolate Mints Tell About Magic

TL;DR: The author recounts a series of outstanding experiences, including stunning actions in nonphysical, which revealed the power of a simple four-step Positively Focused practice. Dream symbols confirmed the shift — proving again that presence is powerful, and alignment speaks through both waking life and the dreamworld to reveal to us our magical abilities.

This story begins with a whisper — one I’ve heard before. It was a quiet suggestion that perhaps my client flow might slow, that income could dip, that momentum might stall.

These were old thoughts, familiar ones. Their tone wasn’t quite panic. The suggestion didn’t conjure fear or dread. Instead, I calmly felt the suggestion like an old friend knocking gently, seeking access to my psyche. That tone represented a vibration I’ve felt before. One I’ve let in, in the past.

But this time, I didn’t answer the door with urgency or dread. Instead, I recognized the pattern and named it: old belief momentum. It wasn’t the truth and it wasn’t a problem. What it was: just old energy surfacing, asking to be seen and soothed.

And so I did what I teach my Positively Focused clients: I got still. I didn’t try to overwrite the feeling. Instead I let it be. Then I let it soothe.

Soothing is a powerful process. It is how we move from old, repeating, and dissatisfying outcomes into fresh, outcomes aligned with everything we’re wanting. The Universe constantly leads us to those fresh outcomes. But our comfortable, disempowering focus prevents us from hearing the guidance. Soothing those old beliefs we keep energizing through our focus is a hallmark of the Positively Focused practice.

One of those practice tools I whipped out when I felt this old friend, this comfortable, but undesirable suggestion rise in me. I knew it came to be soothed. And so that’s what I did. Here’s how I turned old momentum into presence, ease and reintegration.

The Soothing Practice: Four Steps to Integration

What I did next changed everything — not just in that moment, but across dimensions. The tool I used requires grounding in the Positively Focused Practice elementary level skills. Once those are mastered, the following four-step process not only makes intuitive sense, it also profoundly shifts our created reality:

In the first step we recognize the energy as old momentum — not a reflection of who we are now, but of what we once believed. Next, we accept that it’s there, in us, fully. We do so without pushing or resisting. We let is rest there in our awareness and accept that it is there rather than resist it. This is a crucial step. Next, we return to presence.

This is an advanced practice requiring personal instruction and something I show clients how to do. There, in presences we acknowledge (and experience) everything we want as already existing — here, now. Finally, once we’ve prepared our inner space with these three steps, we’re ready for the final, most profound step: Invite the energy home. This is a process of spiritual integration. We’re not trying to fix or flee what’s there. Instead we’re bringing back in what we once projected (rejected) out of us, as something we couldn’t accept.

The moment I did this process, my body relaxed. My breath expanded. That old belief — that abundance had to come through clients or anything else “out there” — lost its grip. I could feel the deeper reality: that I, myself, am the supply; that the Universe partners with me through resonance, not transaction. The process created within me a knowing; a knowing that I am the creator and the world around me bends to my focus.

As simple as this process sounds, it’s extremely effective. It’s also easy to do. One client used this practice in the middle of the night after waking in a panic about a health situation with her mom. In an instant she felt relief, relief that told her she aligned with a more empowering probable future reality. One in which she knew all is well and unfolding perfectly.

In my own case, confirmation came in the dream state. Just as it has so many times before.

Dreams as Reflections: Multidimensional Affirmation

In the first dream I saw a strangely structured crumbling house. Its laundry room was too large. Its walls were scratched with blackberry vines. It’s architecture, old and decrepit matched the architecture of old beliefs. I wandered through it aimlessly.

I came to a box. It was labeled “Chocolate Mints” — but appeared empty. In the dream I didn’t feel lack. Instead, I stayed present, and in that presence, I heard the sound of a soft rattle. When I opened the box again, it overflowed with delicious, chocolate mints — exactly what the label had promised.

Why hadn’t I seen the chocolates, the delicate sweets the first time? Because I had to align with the vibration, the probable reality, in which they were, not the one where they were not. The process in this dream was one of initiation: of asking me to make the vibrational shift. That I manifested in the dream the mints was the success indicator of making that shift.

In another dream, I glided through a winding trail in a silver Porsche. Then later, I maneuvered a wheelchair, once abandoned, now active. It carried me with surprising grace. At one point, large boulder-beings nearby took a bite of food and transformed — from rock to radiant human form just like that.

These images sound stochastic, and meaningless…but they weren’t. These images mirrored yet again the shift I’d made: taking “old” vehicles — discarded ways of being — and infusing them with new conscious movement. In the dream I was alchemizing nonphysical reality: turning what was once inert, to travel into expansion.

Aligning with the vibrational frequency in which the chocolates existed was part of my expansion in the dream.

There was an aquarium too. I released a small garfish into a vivid reef, narrating the scene like a nature host. But then, a new sound emerged: slow, deliberate breathing. It represented something foreign and shadowy but not scary. My nervous system registered it as threat. But instead of fleeing in fear, I moved away in peace. Just like I had hours earlier in physical reality when scarcity tried to whisper its story again.

And then came the final scene: a ridgeline real estate deal, followed by a quiet space of soaking tubs, elderly women, and light eroticism. That meetup wasn’t sexual — not exactly. Instead it was luscious, spacious and relaxed. It was pleasure with no pressure, no expectation. Like wealth with no proving or seeking validation. It was delicious.

The Moment of Knowing: Real-Time Realization

This final dream represented the culmination of my night’s adventure. An adventure of flowing through the vibrational landscape I moved through when I did the four-step focus process described above. Dreams confirmed what presence already accomplished.

When I woke, the dreams remained like misted glass — luminous, still humming. And I knew immediately: these weren’t just dreams. They were the continuation of the alignment I had chosen just hours before. The Universe didn’t wait to show me physical results. It responded instantly. Not through money or new clients (though those, too, are coming), but through metaphor. Deeply personal, symbolic architectures told me in no uncertain terms: You’ve shifted.

I saw the old beliefs — the broken house. Then I felt the familiar doubt — the empty box. Yet I stayed with myself long enough to allow the mints’ appearance. Next I rode the new vehicle, used the old one, then watched as others awakened simply because I did. And this phrase came through like a bell: “The idea that your abundance is externally tied to others’ choices is dissolving.“

What this experience showed me — once again — is that there is no division between dreaming and waking. Both are vibrational classrooms. In each we create canvases for clarity. In each we respond immediately and precisely, to the frequency we hold.

Coming Home In Correspondence

The Positively Focused practice is not about pretending contrast doesn’t exist. It’s about seeing contrast for what it is: a mirror. It’s a messenger. A beautifully wrapped invitation to return to the Self. When we respond with presence — when we integrate old momentum with grace as I did, as my clients are doing — reflections (physical reality) change. Not later. Now.

That night, I didn’t manifest mints in a box because I did some advanced dreaming technique. I found them because I focused where the mints were not where they were absent. Since writing this, two new clients have manifested and, in January, I had more people expressing interest in the practice than ever before.

Coincidence? I think not.

This is what I believe mastery is: not control, but correspondence. Not chasing signs, but allowing the conversation. This is the magic that chocolate mints told me. But it’s not magic. It’s how the Universe brings us all that we want, effortlessly. Including stable client rosters.

It is always available — not just in dreams, but in every quiet moment we choose to come home. Are you ready to come home?

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How Life Confirms I’m Becoming a Shapeshifter

TL;DR: The author describes how a client seeking a shapeshifting instructor reflects two years of sustained alignment, illustrating how physical reality gradually confirms inner transformation through practical, leading-edge manifestations.

Earlier this week, I received a surprising phone call. A woman called me to learn more about what I do with clients. She had watched my YouTube videos and spoke with genuine enthusiasm about the depth, clarity, and care she felt coming through them. She described my explanations of All That Is and the nature of the Universe as “masterful,” and she was especially struck by the way I relate to people—how grounded and personal the work feels.

After we talked for a while, she told me she wanted to become a client. I rarely do what happened next because it doesn’t matter to me how people find me. I know it’s always through the process of vibrational resonance (attraction).

This time, however, my Broader Perspective encouraged the question. So, I asked how she had found my channel. I don’t run ads or conduct deliberate marketing campaigns. I don’t optimize aggressively for search. Her answer came as a massive confirmation:

“I was searching for a shapeshifting instructor.”

I actually laughed when I heard that. Of all the possible searches she could have typed into a search bar, that was the one that led her to me? No other explanation could suffice for why this person found me. She was a manifestation, a confirmation of my own focus on becoming a shapeshifter.

Physical Reality as a Lagging Indicator

The person on the other end of the line, a seventy-nine year old, deeply mystical, highly perceptive, person obviously devoted to living consciously, was particularly drawn to the two videos I posted about the Ant and the Grasshopper fable. She said she, sensed something in them that spoke to a deeper mechanics of reality rather than surface-level motivation. She noted – correctly – that I have only one real video about shapeshifting. I pointed her to my blog where I’m developing a series of written posts on my shapeshifting adventure, which includes this one.

A core principle of the Positively Focused framework is that physical reality doesn’t provide instantaneous feedback on our manifestation desires. Instead, physical reality is a lagging indicator. What shows up around us today, reflects vibrational harmony we’ve already been holding, often for quite some time.

When we truly align with a desire, the Universe doesn’t usually respond with the final form right away. Instead, it offers evidence along a gradient. First comes internal validation, initially as a thought or active belief, then as emotional response to that thought or belief. After that come less subtle confirmations; more thoughts like the initial ones, stronger emotional responses. Then, increasingly, tangible reflections that say, “Yes, this direction is correct.” start showing up in physical reality. These show up as reflections of our increasing alignment.

Alignment to what?

Alignment to the probable future reality which has within it the full-blown manifested desire. The woman on the phone fit that pattern perfectly.

The Gradual Unfolding is a Co-Creation

She didn’t arrive as proof that shapeshifting is complete or finished. She arrived as evidence that alignment is well underway. That distinction matters. Completion is static. Alignment is continual and unfolding. The more I expand, there more there is to expand into. So we never get “there” because there’s always more “there” to experience.

What struck me most about this connection, however, was how unnecessary this manifestation was for survival, income, or validation. Just twenty-four hours earlier, I set an intention to manifest another client as part of my roster. I was practicing the feeling place of the fulfillment of that manifestation. In other words, at my level in the Positively Focused practice I tune to the vibrational frequency of that which I desire as done. I no longer see the feeling of “manifesting” or “receiving”. There’s a big difference in that distinction.

So I wasn’t seeking clients for shapeshifting instruction. I wasn’t positioning myself as a teacher in that arena. And yet, here was someone who not only showed up as a manifestation of my desire (another client) but also someone looking for something so specific it HAD to pertain only to me. By the way, two other people wrote me on Medium.com asking me to teach them. I hadn’t heard back from them.

This person showing up represented an expansion from that previous point where I received interest but not engagement. Perhaps that was because I wasn’t all that interested in receiving another client.

Interestingly, since that call with that woman, I’ve held steady the vibrational frequency of expecting more clients. I’ve done that just as an experiment to see what happens. In just five days, two more people have expressed interest in becoming clients.

That’s how I know something is real. When life reflects a trajectory in such specific detail, I can’t miss it!

Two Years of Holding the Frequency

I began consciously working with shapeshifting as a lived practice in 2023. I wanted to show myself how far I could take Abraham’s words about anything being possible. What awaited me was proving to myself what consciousness can do when it’s allowed to move beyond inherited constraints.

This message really got my interest in becoming a shapeshifter into gear.

Over the past two years, the signals in my body have been consistent and unmistakable. I’ve felt sustained activity along the spine, particularly in regions associated with integration and perception. Sensations in the cerebellum and what many refer to as the third-eye region have come and amplified in waves, often accompanied by deep calm rather than drama.

At times, I’ve experienced clear energetic impressions of the body preparing to reorganize, as if receiving new instructions it already understands how to follow. None of this has felt forced. And it has happened gradually, in a timing allowing me to let go of resistance I have to the experience of my body changing shape. As a result of that 2-year dedication, my dominant feeling has turned from inquiry and excitement to calm readiness.

What has also become clear is that physical readiness does not override belief readiness. The body may be willing, but Belief Constellations still matter. Mental momentum, cultural conditioning, and long-held assumptions about what is possible all carry energetic weight.

That’s where the real work has been. Soothing resistance gently and honestly, allowing various Belief Constellations to give way in favor of a new set of beliefs. Beliefs more aligned with my desire.

The Caller as a Leading-Edge Manifestation

This caller embodies something important. She is not a mirror of who I have been, but of who I am becoming. That distinction is subtle, but profound.

In our second conversation, she shared that she felt she knew me from a previous life, one that took place roughly six hundred years ago in Greece. I didn’t need to validate or dismiss that perception. What mattered was the clarity with which she navigates non-physical reality and the ease with which she recognizes energetic continuity.

Like several of my clients, she identifies as being on the spectrum. Her perception is unfiltered in a way that feels precise rather than diffuse. She isn’t reaching for meaning. She’s recognizing patterns she already understands. That offers tremendous potential for her with the Positively Focused practice. It’s this type of person I’m eager to work with.

What makes her arrival so significant is not just that she wants to learn about shapeshifting, but that she acted on that desire. As I wrote above, earlier signs had already appeared. In 2023, after I published A Practical Guide to Becoming a Shapeshifter, two people commented asking me to teach them what I was exploring.

Those were early echoes. This caller represents expansion. The same signal, amplified. Interest turned to engagement. Curiosity now is commitment. That’s how manifestations grow.

The blog that got it all rolling…

How Major Manifestations Actually Arrive

There’s a persistent myth in spiritual spaces that big desires arrive suddenly and dramatically, as if the Universe flips a switch and Voila! It’s there. In reality, meaningful manifestations tend to unfold the same way living systems do: gradually, intelligently, and with feedback along the way.

Often, teachers like me find ourselves teaching what we are still integrating. When the momentum is clean, guidance flows naturally outward even as embodiment continues inward. I believe the caller felt this in my videos.

Again, her presence in my life doesn’t mean I’ve “arrived.” It means the path is unmistakably real. It means the frequency I’ve been holding has crossed a threshold where physical reality, that lagging indicator, confirms my thought on this subject is becoming a thing: the subject.

That’s the same principle illustrated in the Ant and the Grasshopper story when it’s told accurately. Alignment creates ease. Ease creates momentum. Momentum creates evidence humans call “reality”.

Gratitude Without Grasping

What I feel most strongly about this experience is appreciation without attachment. There’s no need to hurry anything. There’s no urge to capitalize, brand, or define.

Instead, there’s trust.

The caller’s arrival is not a destination. It’s a signpost. It’s a gentle, practical confirmation that alignment precedes manifestation, and that life faithfully reflects what we are willing to become.

Two years ago, this was an internal exploration. Today, it has a footprint in physical reality. And evidence such as this, when received calmly, is one of the most grounding gifts there is.

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How to Turn Firing Someone Into a Powerful Win

TL;DR: The author shares a stunning true story of a client who fired her employee—only to receive a $10K contract hours later. A real-life illustration of how vibrational alignment trumps effort every time. This is Part 1 of an astounding 3-Part story.

There’s something extraordinary that happens when we stop seeing life as a linear chain of cause and effect, and start recognizing it as a living mirror of our vibrational state. That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about—tuning your inner alignment so well that even what others call “negative experiences” turn out to be springboards into exactly what you’re wanting.

This three-part story is a powerful example. This is part one.

It involves two clients of mine—let’s call them Jane and Sally—whose lives intersected professionally. Jane employed Sally. But over time, their work relationship became strained. Jane had developed a dominant story: Sally wasn’t adding value. She believed it so thoroughly that she began telling everyone around her that Sally wasn’t producing anything meaningful. Eventually, Jane reached what she called the “last straw.”

She decided she was going to fire Sally. But the truth was: Sally had been doing great work—far beyond what was asked of her. Jane simply couldn’t see it.

When Stories Become Reality (and Blind Us to What’s True)

The Positively Focused perspective reminds us: your beliefs filter your world. Jane’s belief that Sally didn’t contribute value was so active, it completely blocked her ability to see the value right in front of her.

Sally had completed a task that Jane assigned—breaking up blog content for social media. Not only that, she also built, from scratch, a custom database using ChatGPT to organize and manage that content. But when Jane saw the database—because it had no content in it yet—she concluded Sally wasted her time. The truth was, Sally had the content ready. She just hadn’t loaded it in yet. Sally showed Jane the content, but Jane ignored what Sally presented.

Jane literally did not see what Sally had done…because her vibration wouldn’t allow it.

Firing Sally was the natural next step given Jane’s and Sally’s belief momentum.

This is not a failure of observation—it’s a demonstration of how powerfully our inner reality determines what we perceive outside us. Our persistent stories don’t just color the world; they shape it. They blind us to evidence that contradicts them. Jane wasn’t wrong in a moral sense. She was just vibrationally tuned to a version of Sally that matched her expectation.

This is how creation works.

The Universe Orchestrates More Than We Know

As this was unfolding, something else happened: a customer Jane had long disliked—due to their poor communication, arriving late to meetings, and overly wordy updates—suddenly died. The passing shocked Jane. But this loss created a vacuum in that customer’s organization.

A new interim CEO stepped in. She immediately emailed Jane, asking if Jane would be open to amending their contract—expanding it from a small $300 contract…to a $10,000 one.

Yes. From $300 to $10,000.

This is a client Jane had barely done any work for. But Jane had previously told me she wanted a second $10,000 client. The first one, a dental client, was already active. Now, out of what looked like tragedy and workplace drama, the Universe delivered the second.

Jane didn’t have to do anything for it. It came through alignment. That’s not the end of this story however. It’s just the beginning. But let’s pause here, because this is where many people miss the magic.

They think that Jane got lucky. That a door closed and another opened. That “one person died, another got fired, and everything worked out in the end.” But that’s not what happened.

What actually happened is this: the Universe perfectly matched everyone involved with the experiences they were aligned with—and in doing so, set up the next chapter of each person’s expansion. And they all won. Jane got her second $10,000 client. Sally, as you’ll see in Part 2, got something even more valuable than a job. And I, as their guide, got the supreme joy of watching divine timing play out in real time.

More to come tomorrow.

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The Hidden Magic Behind What Felt Like a Head Cold

Most people don’t think of a head cold as a spiritual experience. I do, however. Because last week, what moved through my body didn’t feel like “sickness.” It felt like resolution, recalibration. A dense kind of recalibration — the kind that comes after deep release, when your system catches up to a new frequency.

This week’s posts, you may notice, were atypically about me more than anything else. That’s because I moved through some things this week. I moved through a lot of old beliefs carrying a lot of density. That “moving” culminated in the physical resolution today’s post is about.

By the end of the last week, I wasn’t just feeling better — I was radiant. Clear and inspired. In flow. But to get there, I had to let the body follow through on its divine function: integrate vibration into matter.

This past week, the body caught up with my being. It started with a scratchy throat. When this kind of thing happens, I immediately affirm the body’s wellness. I know what I focus on gets bigger, so focusing on the body’s wellness amplifies wellness, not whatever that scratchiness was. Then I focused on parts of the body already experiencing wellness.

Wellness Not Illness

I share this process with all my clients. It works wonders in shortening what people call “colds”. Although I must say I don’t have much evidence for this because I experience this hardly ever. Anyway, back to the story.

Focusing on wellness, the scratchiness morphed from my throat to my right sinus. I continued focusing on wellness, this time focusing on my left sinus and the sensation just kind of hovered there. It never got worse. I never got a temperature. An impulse had me rest more than usual. For a brief moment, old patterns surfaced: What if I’m getting sick? Where did I pick this up? I even thought What if my clients find out? As if I’m not “supposed” to get “sick” LOL.

But then I paused. I know the difference between being out of alignment and being in realignment. And this felt like the latter. Because here’s what else had been happening last week:

  • I had completed a deep dream cycle where old professional wounds — involving Dianna D., Laura B. and John F. and the energy of Intel and start-up culture — had come full circle.
  • I had recognized these people not as villains, but as angels, reflecting my own old beliefs about unworthiness and tying value to output. And I had released them.
  • I had experienced the stunning confirmation of a dream-manifestation in my waking life — discovering Albina One, a beautiful, affordable housing opportunity that contradicted every limiting belief I’d held about money, success, and belonging.

That’s a lot of energy to move. And the body? The body always knows when it’s time to process. So I didn’t resist the scratchiness, the indication of the body recalibrating. Instead, I honored by allowing it, by not resisting it.

When Symptoms Are Signals

As the scratchiness moved, so did emotion. As the pressure in my sinus made itself known, I felt pressure of my old beliefs release. And, as the body craved rest, my awareness became more acute.

I wasn’t “down for the count.” I was in my vibrational workshop. One where old wiring loosened. Where stories I had held for years — about earning love, proving worth, hustling for stability — were leaving through both my thoughts and through my tissues.

This was somatic clearing. A divine detox. A deep invitation to let my cells, nerves, and fascia feel the integration that my spirit had already aligned with. And this is interesting: many new age thoughts argue for “detoxing” the body. Providers all over offer such processes, which often include bizarre drinks, foods or methods to “cleanse” the body.

I know the body does all this automatically. It doesn’t need a “detox”. The only effective such process is the one dealing with distorted beliefs we hold which then manifest in the body as sluggish metabolism or disease and, yes, even colds. So the release I moved through happened effortlessly. It just took time.

And yes — it was uncomfortable. But only in the way that change is uncomfortable. Because when we stop resisting discomfort, it becomes revelatory.

We can benefit from signals commonly known as “illness” if we catch the manifestation in the early stages.

From “Head Cold” to Flow State

By Sunday, the shift was unmistakable. I woke up feeling light. Not just symptom-free, but free — in my mind, in my heart, in my energy. I felt spacious, focused, joyful. And out of nowhere, inspiration struck.

Over the last few weeks, my Broader Perspective’s impulses included more and more nudges to revitalize my Positively Focused YouTube Channel. I’ve felt these nudges in the past, sat with them, but felt no strong desire to follow them. Now I know it wasn’t time back then.

Last Sunday it was time. I wasn’t moved to take the next step, I was compelled. While on a walk I unlocked phone and began filming. One YouTube short. Then another. And another.

Before I knew it, I created seven one-minute videos in a single afternoon — all of them precise, powerful, and joyful to make. They weren’t labored over, they were given. They poured out of me like water from a vessel that had finally been emptied of the old. This is the fruit of real alignment: effortless expression and divine timing.

And it didn’t come because I forced it. It came because I let myself be still. Because I trusted my body’s intelligence and divine timing. Because I allowed every phase of the process — even the congested ones — to be part of the unfolding.

The Integration: Physical, Emotional, Symbolic

This one week last week — this head cold week — tied together everything that came before it:

  • The dreams helped me release the emotional weight of the illusion of professional betrayal and disempowerment.
  • Albina One helped me receive evidence that I could be held, housed, and honored without needing to earn it.
  • And the body’s recalibration to all that aligned it with the new frequency.

That’s the reality behind spiritual expansion isn’t it? It’s not just mental or emotional. It’s somatic. It lives in the tissues. It lives in the nervous system. The manifestation of our spiritual essence manifests in every physical particle, especially those which compose the body. And if we don’t pause to allow that part of the process, we miss the deeper alchemy.

When you feel off, consider this: If your body starts “acting up” after a big energetic shift — whether it’s a dream breakthrough, a surprising manifestation, or an internal leap — ask yourself: What might my body be releasing right now? What am I finally ready to let go of? Could these symptoms be evidence of integration, not dysfunction?

A Rediscovery

Of course, pre-manifestational awareness is required to catch the process in its early unfolding. But you could also ask these questions afterwards and intend to catch it earlier next time.

The answers may reveal a beautiful release and integration process happening at the vibrational level, indicated by dreams and emotions. And culminating in the beautiful recalibration of your body to your new expansion. A recalibration process that we’ve been told is a bad thing: sickness.

All this doesn’t mean you don’t care for yourself. It means you care from a different place — one that honors your body as an intelligent translator of vibration, not a machine that’s breaking down. That’s what I did. And that’s why, by Sunday, I felt remarkable.

Remarkable and more confirmed than ever that this practice — this Positively Focused path — is the real deal.

This is the new way of living. Strike that. It’s actually age-old. But my clients and I, we’re rediscovering it. Why not join us?

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How To Get Over Imposter Syndrome And Be Happy

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TL;DR: A client transformed from feeling like an imposter to embracing self-love and confidence. By shifting focus inward, he overcame suicidal thoughts, found authenticity, and now thrives in the Charmed Life.

A surprising number of clients express having once experienced “Imposter Syndrome”. Usually, they make such statements after getting over that syndrome. Often, Imposter Syndrome precedes thoughts about killing themselves. Both the syndrome and wanting to kill one’s self point to a tremendously good thing. But most people can’t see the good; they only see the not good.

That’s why I do this work. I love it when people “suffering” from such conditions find their empowerment through those same conditions. On the way to building a permanent happiness in their lives, they find their empowerment and their confidence too. Sometimes, clients let me share their stories. In that way they become shining beacons for others. Their example helps others improve their lives.

Such is the case with the client who allowed me to share a segment of his recent session. In this session, he raved about his progress and about how much he loves who he has become. In that becoming, he’s not only learned to own his bad-assery, he also has found his authenticity feels better than trying to please people by being a chameleon.

Let’s look more closely at his story.

“I was making all that money…but still wanted to kill myself.”

Cain is an Positively Focused advanced client. As a result, he’s not only living the Charmed Life, he’s an example to others about what’s possible through the Positively Focused practice.

Before discovering Positively Focused, he was making a lot of money, but he still wasn’t happy. A big part of his unhappiness was feeling like an imposter, not feeling he fit in anywhere and struggling with being happy. But don’t take my word for it. Hear it directly from him. The video below comes right from our recent 1:1 session.

As you can tell, Cain has found an extraordinary level of self-love. Self love happens naturally once a person reaches for and achieves the Charmed Life I write about in this blog. The Charmed Life is the natural way of living. Living this way we’re free to be ourselves, no matter what other people think about us.

But very few people live their lives this way. Or they’re living a counterfeit version of it, where what they’re actually doing is reacting to what other people think of what they’re doing by living in a certain way as a kind of rebellion toward others’ opinions. That’s not the Charmed Life.

At their wits’ end

People can live according to how others think they should live for a long time. They can live their entire lives that way. But rarely do those people find happiness.

They may make a lot of money, like Cain was doing. But inside, they’re suffering. Some of those people end up wanting to kill themselves. Some actually do. About a third of my client roster comprises people who once thought about killing themselves. But everyone of them is now finding permanent happiness.

Why do so many people come to Positively Focused or something like Law of Attraction wanting to kill themselves as many of my clients have? I think it’s because they are at their wits’ end. They try everything else first because it doesn’t occur to them that the solution to their problems lies inside them.

So they try doing everything else they can. When that doesn’t work, their last stop tends to be something “woo”, like Law of Attraction or Positively Focused. They give up trying to “do” their way out of their problems, in other words. They try being. And then they get what they always wanted: Permanent happiness, a.k.a the Charmed Life.

You can have it too. And now it’s even more affordable. I’ve created new Cohort sessions that include up to a 60 percent discount on 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life my clients are discovering.

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Take A Break From The Bad News And Unlock Your Joy

Last month I hosted an event to help empower people given the times we’re living in.

It was a smash. The event sold out and attendees raved about hoe impactful it was. So much so, one attendee wanted to host another event for her network. We’re therefore having an encore this Saturday, April 5.

We are all powerful creators. So powerful that we even create our own reality. We do that through the thoughts and beliefs we hold on subjects we care about, but subjects we care little about too. And subjects we don’t think about at all.

Our thoughts and beliefs create our experience in a specific way. In this event, I’ll share how that happens. I also give very specific examples showing how it happens. Attendees will also get in on the act as some examples are deliberately designed to trigger within them what it feels like when their beliefs create their reality.

It’s a truly powerful event. So much so, several attendees raved about it even before the event happened. For example, the following screenshot shows a comment made by someone who purchased a ticket for the last event. He was responding to a friend of his on Facebook who was despondent over current events. Read how the responded:

Another example: After attending the last event, a guy wrote me after experiencing the triggering effect of the event:

“I was really impressed by [your event]…More importantly [your premise]… is rather obvious after you explained it the way you did.  This made it very easy for me to believe that I too, can and maybe really need to choose new beliefs on which to base my life and create my reality. You have convinced of how important it is that we each, as individuals, take responsibility for that, and do the work necessary to change our mindsets and beliefs into positive, life-affirming ones that will achieve our goals. I am convinced of this. I need to do it…I would like to be able to afford to ask for your help about that. I can’t do that yet, but I am setting it as a matter of importance that I be able to do that within the next few months.”

There are 20 tickets available. Five are sold. Get yours today. Or, if you have a question, contact me.

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Did I Just Levitate?

TL;DR: The author experiences levitation during meditation, unaware of the process until after it happens. They believe this indicates progress in a journey toward conscious levitation and other supernatural abilities.

Much of what happens as a person strives for supernatural abilities is, that ability, it kind of sneaks up on them. Like manifestations of all kinds, when they first happen, they usually happen much to our surprise.

That’s because we’re usually not aware when we’re a match to the full-blown manifestation. When we are a match to it, we don’t feel the match because it’s just an “of course” kind of feeling. This is what happened to me recently when I lay down on my bed to settle into what I thought would be a meditation.

A meditation didn’t happen though.

What did happen was astounding, which is a word I use often these days. I use that word often because the things I’m manifesting are far beyond what most people believe possible. This includes levitation.

So when I levitated recently, it caught me off guard. But I know what happened is just the beginning. And I know that, as I improve, as I expand, I’ll be able to better perceive the impending experience, remain conscious of it, and feel the fullness of it unfolding.

OK, here’s what happened.

The fall…

I felt sleepy.

I know that when I feel sleepy, that’s my Broader Perspective calling me into nonphysical. So I dimmed the lights and lay down on my bed with a blanket over the top of me. Immediately, familiar sensations started.

I felt a sense of my body dropping into my mattress. It’s a common experience these days after decades of meditation. Only this time when that happened, I also felt a sense of my physicalness, my physical body, dissolving into an energy field that was the shape of my body, only larger than my body.

I focused deliberately on that energy field. Whenever we focus on something, that something will increase. So focusing on the energy field, I knew, would amplify whatever was happening.

As it amplified, I felt the sensation grow more pronounced. First, it felt like a vague sensation. Then it felt like a capsule; a capsule rising up out of my body…with me, my consciousness, inside it.

Meanwhile, I felt a “numbing” sensation throughout the body too. Only it was much more pleasurable than actual numbing. I continued holding my focus, probably for ten minutes, then blanked out.

When I “came to”, I simultaneously felt the body fall back onto my mattress.

The fall startled me, but I wasn’t afraid. It was just a weird sensation to literally fall, when I hadn’t registered rising. But I was certain the body was in the air just prior to falling back onto the mattress. The body must not have been in the air very high because the fall back onto the bed wasn’t very far.

Once my startled state passed, I came back into my awareness, recognized what happened, then focused again on the energy capsule.

A first time experience

The energy capsule then began to pulsate within me, moving up and down my body from head to toe. It also pulsed from the center of my body, up my body to my chest as I lay there, then down my body to my spine. So two pulsations happened simultaneously in different directions, both feeling extremely good. So good I wanted to stay there.

This experience lasted nearly an hour, about 55 minutes. During that time I was not meditating. I was alert and conscious. Except for that indeterminate black-out period.

I thought I was going to go into nonphysical when I blanked out, but instead, I had this unique experience of my body falling back onto my bed. An experience, I think, that foretells a conscious levitation, or maybe even being able to fly, which is something else I want to happen.

Up until now, nothing like this, nothing like a levitation experience, has happened before. Regular readers of my blog will recall that I have successfully traveled outside my body, experienced alternate realities, both while conscious and while the body sleeps, and even have produced early-stage evidence that I’m becoming a match to being able to shape shift.

This is the first time I actually levitated.

Multi-layer manifestation awareness

Now one might ask, “how are you sure you levitated if you “blacked out”?

The answer is, for one, I “came to” as the body fell back onto the bed. The second answer is, I know I levitated because I know how awareness and manifestation interplay.

When a person wants to manifest something, the desire typically gets created in a state of resisting the desire. So a tension exists within the person. That tension can feel like impatience, or yearning. Such feelings tell us our resistance outweighs our desire. The key to manifesting a desire is having our desire outweigh our resistance. Better yet, have NO resistance and feel pure desire.

That latter state is challenging for most people, which is why our Broader Perspectives usually deliver our manifestations through what Abraham calls “the crack of least resistance” — a state when we’re relatively unconscious of what’s coming and thus not resistant to it. Or at least having very light resistance.

So when a manifestation happens for the first time, we typically experience what I call post-manifestational awareness. We don’t recognize the manifestation until after it happens. This levitation event came with me experiencing post-manifestational awareness of it.

The same thing used to happen with my dreams. Until I got better at dreaming.

Getting better improves awareness

As a person improves their awareness, they then can feel a manifestation happening in the midst of it happening. I call this mid-manifestational awareness. As more desires happen, our ability to know what it feels like when they happen improves. We get a lot of practice, in other words, as we manifest desire. Mid-manifestational awareness indicates improvement.

Given more time and practice, we can move into pre-manifestational awareness; we get to the point where our expectation is high. We just know the desire is coming. When it does fulfill itself, the fulfillment just feels like a “I knew that was going to happen!” event.

So I’m looking forward to moving into that state. Right now, on the subject of levitating, I’m in early stages. I’m in the post-manifestation awareness stage. That’s why I blanked out. And that’s why I “came to” just as my body fell back onto the bed. I came back into the experience at the end. In time, I’ll realize the experience in the middle. Then I’ll get it from the start.

It’s an awesome unfolding happening. All my supernatural desires are coming into my reality. My clients are having the same thing happen to them with their desires. Seeing our desires become real is thrilling. One client described it as “fascinating”:

Tangible manifestation

Tangible rewards are the name of the game in this Positively Focused Practice. It’s great feeling better about life. It’s great letting go of limiting beliefs, anxiety, stress, depression and anger.

But it’s a whole other thing to see desires become “tangibly” manifest. That’s the promise of this practice. It’s not just about feeling good. It’s about a life filled with the physical things we want. No matter what those things are.

My life is overflowing with such experiences. My clients’ lives are too. Maybe that’s why they keep moving forward in the practice. The better it gets, the better it gets.

And nothing is better than things just getting better…and better.

A new opportunity

If you’re interested in this Positively Focused practice and putting what I write about into action in your own life, I have a special invitation for you.

I created a new affordable way to work with me. I’m setting up special 1:1 group sessions in which an unlimited number of people can attend as a group, while I work with one of those people chosen at random. Attendees get the massive benefit of learning what I offer while I work with a different person each week, but at a much lower cost.

This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.

But it’s usually much easier seeing what’s going on in another than seeing it in ourselves. That’s why I think these special one-hour group sessions will be a hit.

These new special 1:1 group sessions are available for only $25 per session per attendee, with a minimum of 5 attendees. That’s a 66% discount on my regular $75 per session rate. I’m still offering traditional solo 1:1s at my regular rate. But the 1:1 group session rate may work for you. It is a great deal.

If you’re interested, let me know in the comments section and I’ll get back to you once I have the first group of five.

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How Everything We Want Thrills Us With Perfect Timing

TL;DR: The author recounts a week of experiences, highlighting the importance of alignment with one’s Broader Perspective. Despite initial plans falling through, the author’s willingness to go with the flow led to a solo trip to the Oregon coast, filled with unexpected joys and breathtaking beauty. This experience serves as a reminder that the Universe delivers what we want, often in unexpected and more satisfying ways.

Yesterday, Thursday, something remarkable happened. Although I’m not that surprised because my alignment to All That Is is producing so many remarkable experiences I find myself barely able to keep up with it all.

What happened Thursday is worth sharing though because it offers so many learning opportunities. Especially for those just beginning, following Law of Attraction, working with the Seth material or other similar practices. What happened also shows how everything we want results from us being aligned. And, that “result” comes as a result of being able to hear; hearing and then immediately following our Broader Perspective guidance.

Let’s dive in.

Soothing destabilization

I’m writing this on Friday, the day after what happened. But the story begins almost exactly one week ago. Last week, I wanted to go to the Oregon coast. I thought it would be a great time to go with a friend of mine. I’ll call her Grace. Grace is pretty spiritually aware. A big aspect of her spiritual orientation is dream work. Her spiritual orientation allows her and I to enjoy our time together.

But Grace also has a past. Like many of us, myself included, she lived her life in contrast: “negative” experiences offering clarity. Clarity she would only realize after the fact. For example, she was part a Christian cult for many years. She met and married her “wasband” in that cult. She also worked many years in a private company I won’t mention that subjected her to a lot of experiences not aligned with who she now knows herself to be.

All that contrast she’s still working through today. From time-to-time a past belief will pop up and destabilize her. Most times, her response to them is admirable. She catches it, soothes herself, then goes on. Sometimes it takes only moments. But sometimes it’s days or weeks.

In the latter instances I won’t hear from her, but I can feel her energy calibrating…

It’s never wrong

So on Tuesday last week I called Grace. I suggested we head to the coast Thursday. She was all in and told me to expect her at my apartment at 10 am Thursday morning.

Thursday morning at 9:30 she texted me. She’d be 20 minutes late, she said. No biggie, I thought, although her being late seems to be developing into a pattern. She arrived 10 minutes earlier than she expected, still 11 minutes late.

When I met her at her car, I could tell something was up. I asked what was happening and tears started flowing down her face. Grace explained that she had a tough morning that involved struggling with technology then wrestling with thoughts and beliefs about always being late, being hard on herself and more. She even worried that I would be mad at her if she arrived late.

I wasn’t mad in that moment. I was more curious. But I did feel some annoyance that she was late.

“Who cares if I get mad?” I asked. “It doesn’t really matter.”

Of course it doesn’t matter. When a person is feeling any emotion, especially negative ones, that emotion has nothing to do with anything happening outside that person. A Positively Focused practice makes this obvious.

But people often take other peoples’ emotional state as indicating they did something wrong. That’s never the case, but we’re all taught at an early age that we can make people feel different things. Again, this is not accurate.

Communication from angels

Eventually it was clear Grace was in no shape to head to the coast. I suggested she head back home and relax instead. I told her I would be totally ok with that. Soothed a bit more, Grace agreed. I got out of her car and she drove off.

I would have enjoyed heading to the coast, but obviously today wasn’t the day. Relaxing myself, I then went back up to my apartment and focused on getting some things done and enjoying my day off. Friday and the weekend came and went.

Tuesday the following week, I wanted to go on a run. The weather wasn’t cooperating though. It started raining although the forecast showed it wouldn’t rain until five hours later. I felt frustrated about that. In that moment I saw 1313 on my phone. I keep my phone on military time, so “1313” is the same as 1:13 p.m. The military time version however is what’s called an “Angel Number” in New Age Circles.

According to experts, 1313 often appears during moments of change, challenge, or shifting emotions, offering reassurance and guidance to help us navigate these experiences with grace. So I knew this Angel Number signified my frustration and an opportunity to navigate that feeling into a better-feeling one. I did so, and shortly after, received the number 1331 on my phone which also is an Angel Number.

1331 is the mirror of 1313. 1331 emphasizes growth through challenges and creatively navigating disruptions. It encourages forward momentum and trust in the process. It also reflects harmony between the inner self and outer circumstances. Seeing 1331 after seeing 1313 indicates a shift into alignment.

I did feel better. But what happened later in the week I know happened because of this inner shift I made.

Going with the flow

Every morning I typically meditate at least once for an hour. Usually I meditate twice, once in the very early morning and again after waking up for the day. On Thursday, none of that happened. I slept through the night Wednesday night. When I woke Thursday, my Broader Perspective spoke to me as clear as someone right next to me.

They said “Go to the Oregon coast today.”

Of course when my Broader Perspective tells me to do something, I usually snap to it. This was no different. It would require renting a car because I don’t have one. I checked the weather and…holy smokes…it was going to be perfect all day. Sunny skies and 55 degrees, both in the city and out on the Oregon coast!

I Googled “rental cars” and got a booking website. The first offering for the date and time I selected was for a Fiat sports car for only $36 a day! What a deal! I checked the details and booked the car. Arriving at the rental center, a friendly counter agent greeted me. I asked if I would get that Fiat and he said no, those cars are reserved at the airport only.

I was slightly disappointed, but remembered the message inherent in 1313. This was an adventure and I was going to go with the flow of it!

Instead of a Fiat, I got a Chevy Malibu, which was actually a comfortable car. What I liked most about it was Apple CarPlay which allowed me to play my music through the car’s excellent speakers.

But the best part was the cost: less than $100 for a 2-day car rental! Insurance included!

A spectacular adventure

My drive to the coast was nothing short of spectacular. Having no responsibility and no job, I took my time, stopping at places and stretching, admiring the views, basically enjoying the whole trip. It was nice traveling the speed limit rather than trying to rush to the destination. I had no destination after all. It was a pure, joyful, solitary adventure.

I planned to head to Cannon Beach or Manzanita, two of my favorite Oregon coast spots. But my Broader Perspective had other plans. After heading through Astoria and admiring that coastal city, my Broader Perspective encouraged me to explore someplace I hadn’t before: a small hamlet called Gearhart.

O.M.G.

Gearhart featured a near-deserted beach stretching at least 10 miles! It was totally flat, the tide was out, and the only others out there besides me were clam hunters. What’s more, the temperature was near 60 degrees! That’s unheard of in December. Usually also in winter the winds pick up on the beach. Not today. The winds barely blew. So I was toasty as I walked up and down the beach for about four hours.

As the sun began setting I got ready to head back to the Malibu. But again, my Broader Perspective had other plans. It encouraged me to wait and enjoy the sunset. There was still an hour before the sun would go down so I grabbed a spot on a really beautiful weatherworn bench and read from my reading device. Then, as the sun set, the sky included a dappling of clouds that arrived in perfect timing.

The glorious sunset at Gearhart, Oregon.

Delivering what we want

As the sun went down it played with earth’s atmosphere to create what I swear was an oil painting in the sky. It was absolutely gorgeous. And, as the sun set I felt warm, magical and blessed as I marveled at how, just a week ago I wanted to visit the beach. And here I was, me and my Broader Perspective, witnessing and appreciating and reveling in an age-old pursuit: enjoying the sun setting.

What great guidance! It was one of the best sunsets I’ve ever seen. After the sun went down, I walked back to the Malibu, then enjoyed a peaceful, easy drive back to my apartment. Of course, I got perfect parking, then reveled in my home.

I reveled in how I held no resistance to not being able to go to the beach last week. In doing so, I lined up with my Broader Perspective which must have known that going on my own would be much more thrilling, much more satisfying.

It sure was! And the weather was perfect, which was not the case last week. Last week was grey and cold.

And this is the thing with All That Is. It delivers what we want. Every time. But sometimes, it delivers things in ways we can’t expect. And if we’re open to it, that unexpected way can be more satisfying than the way we want it to happen.

Often the way we want it to happen includes it happening on the schedule we expect. But if we are willing to go with the flow instead, give up thinking we know the best time for something to happen, or the best way it’s supposed to happen, we’ll be more than pleasantly surprised.

We’ll be thrilled.

Speaking of going with the flow, you’re invited to a 90-minute online event on March 1 at 10 a.m. Pacific Time called Belief Constellations: Politics, Relationships And Our MAGNIFICENT Future. I’ll give a deep dive into what Belief Constellations are and how to use them to align with the fabulous future on the horizon. It’s only $15. Grab a spot, or, if you’re a MeetUp member, go here.

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No, Negative Experiences Aren’t Just “Part Of Life”

Positively Focused Q-A

Question: When we tell ourselves a story that people who attract [negative] experiences bring it upon themselves through their [negative] vibration, are we also falling into the vibration of blame? Do we not all attract [negative] experiences no matter what?

Think about Jesus getting crucified, MLK getting shot, or maybe even any [negative] experience you or me have attracted in recent memory. It seems like the [negative] experiences happen no matter what. Couldn’t the same or similar circumstances still happen to a person with [highly positive] dominant momentum?

Answer: In short, no. A [negative] experience similar to those in dominant [negative] momentum energy cannot happen to someone who is consistently [highly positive].

Jesus isn’t a good example because he wasn’t a real person. Instead, he acted as an archetype in the imaginations of humankind at the time. So there’s that. MLK foresaw, accepted and allowed that experience into his life. IOW, he created it as part of his path. There are lots of enlightened beings, however, who transitioned in much peaceful ways, including the iconic Buddha.

Saying someone brings a [negative] experience onto themselves is not blaming…unless that’s the vibration in which you’re hearing it from. When I say this, I’m appreciative of the vast empowerment such a statement points to. I talk about this all the time in my blogs.

“Contrast” happens. But that contrast lessens as we are more chronically [highly positive]. So while a person with chronic [negative] vibration will have their purse stolen, for example, a chronic [highly positive] person may drop a glass they were washing. Or they may experience a really hot day. Or they may want to buy something and that thing isn’t on sale anymore. They experience much less contrast or negative experiences than those with dominant negative energy.

And, since a person who is REALLY highly positive recognizes that all [negative] experience is actually positive, they amplify such experiences…to the point that even these lighter versions do not happen. They happen, but they’re not experienced as contrasting experiences.

So no, I’M not “falling into blame” by saying another who experiences [negative] experiences brings it on themselves. Everyone creates their own reality. That’s a statement of empowerment. Unless YOU are still in negative energy and are interpreting that statement like many hearing it for the first time do: from their chronically [negative] state. Then such people think the speaker is blaming them.

But the speaker is not. The listener is hearing what the speaker DIDN’T say because the listener doesn’t realize they are projecting their blame state onto the words the speaker spoke and thus didn’t hear what that speaker actually said. Instead, they got a reflection of their own [negative] state.