This is so great. This past week I wrote about how previous generations entrain in-coming ones thereby slowing the process of expansion, both for individuals and the species as a whole. I know this is accurate. It explains why progress happens so slowly on a human-wide scale.
It needn’t happen as slowly at the individual level, but a lot of times it does. That’s because people allow into their experience the entrainment. It makes sense they do that. It seems that’s the way life should be lived. After all, everyone around us is living that way.
I fell into that for a few decades. I’ve found my way out now and none too soon. Especially since radical life extension on the horizon promises me another 60 years of physical life (I’m 61 now). At least. Living the next 60 years in my sovereignty, clarity and expansion, focused on expanding into more of all three thrills me.
And that thrill comes from experiences like the one prompting this post.
Wink and nod
This post is about serendipity, when the Universe subtly nods in my direction as a way of saying “yep, you’re on track”. So many of these nods happen. I share many of them in this blog.
This morning brought another one. That’s why I’m sharing it today. I love immediate response from the Universe! Here’s how it unfolded.
In a short post I published two days ago, I described the generational entrainment process as part of explaining why people give up living through imagination for being realistic. That same day, a truly amazing manifestation happened. A post is in the works about that too. It will publish in July. I swear, every day multiple manifestations are popping into my awareness. It’s a freaking cornucopia of goodness!
And that’s what I felt this morning, June 8, when I checked my email. There, blessing me with its wisdom, was a Universal acknowledgment of the post I wrote two days ago. An amplification actually, is what it was. The email, from Abraham, was both wink and nod. And confirmation. Here’s what it said:
Thank goodness we’re eternal. My appreciation for that fact overwhelms me more and more. I’m thrilled with life, how it’s going for me, the species and everything else on the planet. The deeper, further, more into my expansion I allow myself, the more I see so much of what’s happening as happening in our favor.
And the more we as individuals are willing to let that “in our favor” in, the better our life goes.
Can you also see, however, that the more of us individuals who that do that, the faster it happens for all of us as a species? That’s what this message points to. That’s what my experience tells me.
And that’s thrilling. Because I’m on the timeline leading to more individuals becoming their version of what I enjoy. And on that timeline, life is really, really, really great!
This week, one of my clients—let’s call her Jane —brought something to our session many people can relate to: growing frustration with her employer.
On the surface, it looked like a straightforward situation. Several tense conversations. Feelings of insecurity and uncertainty. Interpretations that had her feeling dismissed, unseen, and emotionally tangled for days. She described a kind of internal agitation — something wasn’t sitting right, but she couldn’t tell if she was overreacting or if her intuition was trying to warn her of something.
And here’s where it got interesting.
As we followed the threads deeper, Jane realized this wasn’t just about her current employer. It wasn’t even about the comment she was interpreting. It was about much older momentum surfacing through the lens of this moment — an ingrained belief that said: “To stay safe, you must remain agreeable. To be respected, can’t be authentic.”
It was the classic conflict between authenticity and survival. Between speaking in ways aligned with what she felt and believed and keeping the peace. Between honoring her intuitive knowing and fearing the fallout of rocking the boat.
Tears to laughter
As we continued, she began to see the real source of her discomfort: not her boss, but the internalized authority figure she carried inside. The one that mirrored every boss, teacher, parent, or partner who’d ever told her—explicitly or energetically—that her voice was too much, her insight inconvenient, or her sensitivity a liability.
The moment she saw that, her energy shifted. Her struggles remained, but they softened.
What she felt wasn’t wrong. She wasn’t being “too sensitive.” Instead past momentum was resurfacing to be soothed. It’s belief momentum that had once served her, but now only blocks the flow of her sovereignty and expansion.
And here’s the beauty: Soothing that momentum didn’t require confronting her boss. She didn’t need to demand validation or placate her. Her increasing clarity wasn’t about being right in the external world — it was about reclaiming her right to feel sovereign in her being. And therefore, to be able to express herself fully, authentically.
When I described what “reclaiming” looked like, she softened. Jane’s energy shifted more and tears turned to a little laughter. What had felt like emotional blockage revealed itself as expansion in the moment — a calibration to a new version of herself. One that no longer needs to dim in order to stay safe. One that doesn’t mistake tension for danger.
The leader is waiting
What I love most about this kind of session is that the breakthrough doesn’t come from pushing against the external world. It comes from remembering who and what we are.
That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about. We don’t fix the world by wrestling with it. After all, the world doesn’t need fixing. It’s not broken. Nor are we. We’re not broken, nor do we need fixing. Instead, by realigning with our Broader Perspective the world reflects that alignment back to us.
But sometimes, nearly always actually, finding that alignment means letting life’s contrast serve us. Not as a warning, but as an invitation.
If you’ve had a moment recently where someone rubbed you the wrong way, consider that maybe it wasn’t about them at all. Maybe they were the perfect mirror, showing you in that moment where your expansion is ready to come through. And maybe that discomfort is also serving. It’s not that something has gone wrong, rather, your Broader Perspective is inviting you to expand.
Late last week I wrote a post about science and love. I highlighted a client experience showing how disempowering scientific interpretations of reality can be. In this post, I want to point out another gift that conversation brought. One that shows how all of us humans are divine, naturally connected to All That Is and therefore predisposed to the Charmed Life.
If that’s the case, if we are predisposed to the Charmed Life, why do so many humans not live that? The answer lies in the text conversation this client and I had. More specifically, what he texted after I showed him a more imaginative way to look at his “lovesickness” than through scientific lenses. Here’s what he wrote. Let’s look at it again:
The client writes about his ability to “see outside of a reductionist scientific view” of the world. He talks about seeing the Universe as it is: “a conscious one made of love and beauty.”
That’s a beautiful way to put it. It’s also accurate in the extreme. When this client sees the world that way, I’m sure he feels empowerment, joy, connection and what humans call love. Seeing the world that way is a guaranteed outcome of the Positively Focused practice and a hallmark of the Charmed Life. The practice makes that way of seeing habitual or chronic. Through that lens, one can see the world unfolding perfectly, with one’s desires fulfilling themselves right before one’s eyes.
That’s such an empowering place from which to live. So why does this client choose scientific lenses rather than lenses of empowerment?
It’s generational
The same reason most humans do it. In a word: “habituation”.
Each successive generation comes into the world through the generation before it. Those previous generations think their job is to teach the young how to move through the world.
It’s not their job to do that though. But they act as though it is.
Previous generations invariably get caught up in disempowerment’s momentum. The beliefs they form disconnect them from the beauty and love that is reality’s natural state. From there, all they see is disappointment, discouragement, boredom, bondage, fear and insecurity. Oh, they have fleeting glimpses of positive expectation or happiness, but most of their life doesn’t show up that way. The way their life does show up comes from habituation they learned from the generations coming before them.
It’s from there that previous generations entrain the next one. And THAT’S why people double-down on “being realistic”, and “facing the facts”. It’s why they argue against being “pollyanna”; why they believe in “confirmation bias”. It explains why “wishful thinking” as a pejorative describing being Positively Focused is a thing. And so, previous generations pass to the next one a fact-based, realistic lens.
That’s why people end up being realistic instead of imaginative.
We remember
The in-coming generation knows this is going to happen before they come in. So it’s not like they’re a victim of the previous generation. They know what they’re doing deep down. Still, a few come in remembering all this. And it’s those few who offer clarity to the rest.
They’re the visionaries. It’s people like them who move humanity forward. Others come to remind those who’ve forgotten so they may live lives charmed.
My job as one of the latter is to attract those few, remind them what they know and help them recover their sovereignty, their imagination. That’s what is happening with this client. It’s what happens with every client. And that’s why clients’ lives change for the better in dramatic fashion.
My “job” is an expression of love. It’s based on the beauty and love inherent in All That Is. Not science. It is an act of eternal imagination. And its reverberations span all dimensions.
Every person possesses this divine, natural connection to All That Is. The only difference between them and me and my clients is: we remember.
Maybe it’s time you remember too. Book a session, let’s find out.
A new client who I wrote about before (that story comes out later this month) sent me a text in between sessions. He was in emotional pain. His pain stemmed from relying to science to understanding his pain.
That’s never a good idea. Science gets it wrong about a lot of things. And the main thing it often gets wrong is about how the Universe works and how people and the Universe constitute a dynamic of creation.
Emotions play a huge role in that dynamic. And love is one of the most important emotions of them all, which is funny because so many people misunderstand that emotion. So when the client texted me, I jumped to respond. It was a great opportunity to clarify what science gets wrong about the Universe, in general, and about love in particular.
The client wrote expressing lamentation about his “lovesickness”. He amplified that condition by going to the internet, where he found a Wikipedia entry on “Limerence”. Click that link. You’ll see that science makes a reductionist analysis of this particular expression of love.
The client’s resonance with the “in-depth” discussion of Limerence gave no relief from his emotional pain. So I gave him an alternative, more empowering view. Love, I told him, is a resonance pattern. It shows up when one comes into proximity of a vibration matching very closely all that they are in that moment.
Freedom from scientific reductionism
Yearning is not the same as love. And what most people think is “lovesickness” actually happens when the person focuses so much on the absence of the person in question that momentum ensues. As it does, the power or intensity of that vibration increases. Focusing on the absence of something we want will always generate negative emotions. That’s why we come equipped with emotions. Emotions help us chart a path to auto-fulfilling desires.
If we don’t know that, however, we suffer emotional pain. Pain like yearning. Or lovesickness.
Science doesn’t acknowledge any of what I just wrote. It thinks reality is an objective thing separate from us. One that it can objectively observe and draw accurate conclusions on. This is a fundamental blinder of science. Reality is a projection of consciousness, springing from that consciousness and frequencies on which that consciousness focuses. This distortion in scientific understanding will forever keep it from understanding how the human-Universe dynamic dances through All That Is.
After describing this to the client, after describing his yearning in more positive terms, he almost immediately felt relief. I told him he enjoys far more leverage and influence on his reality than this Limerence thing offers.
Here’s how he responded:
When science gets it wrong, people suffer. So many examples of this litter history. Yes, it does eventually get some things right. But if we’re wanting to ascend into greater levels of spiritual mastery while in a physical body, we must put science where it belongs: in the back seat. And then let our Order of Operation influence us most.
That’s scary for many who believe science is The Way. And that’s why so many Spiritual Seekers exist and relatively few Spiritual Finders.
I noticed this week an interesting phenomenon happening with clients. In session, they lose sense of time. For them, time flies by. By session end, they’re shocked time went so fast.
It’s a common human experience. One most humans only seldom acknowledge. Nevertheless, the experience proves how time shapes to our focus. We could even say time shows how subjective physical reality is.
Time morphs according to the point of consciousness experiencing it. It shapes and twists and turns one moment to the next. It can crawl by. Or it can pass in a flash. What is responsible for all that twisting turning?
Our focus, of course. When focused in one way, time speeds up. Focused another way, it slows down. The “way” in which we focus depends on beliefs active in us at any given moment. With positive belief, time flies. “Engaged” and “interest” or “fascination” are all emotions clients usually experience in-sesssion. These positive emotions stem from positive beliefs such as “I’m getting something valuable here” or “I am hopeful I’m going to resolve this”.
Negative belief slows time. Boredom, pessimism and insecurity are all emotions people tend to wallow in. In those emotions work days drag by. It takes forever to move through traffic. In these cases, versions of these beliefs are active: “I don’t want to be here” or, “I’m can’t wait until the weekend” or “This traffic sucks”.
There’s a direct connection, therefore, between our thoughts, beliefs, and our experience of time and reality. That direct connection is worth exploring.
Did you feel the energetic variation between this image and the previous one? Attitude is everything. And beliefs are what drive attitudes, and our experience of time.
Matching reality with nonphysical
I find in my own life that, as I am focused more and more positively, days fly by. Since I “work” only 2 1/2 days a week, you’d think I have lots of time available in the week. And yet, I find days often end before I complete all I’d like to. And most things I’d like to do are about fun. Indeed, I often wonder how I got all the tasks done that I did, back in the old days when I dedicated 40+ hours to work every week. I’m really surprised I got anything done other than working and sleeping back then.
I don’t feel a sense of scarcity in this. Rather, I feel a sense of joyful abundance and wonder. I recognize that days flying by is indicative of a very high vibration. After all, in non-physical, where all vibration is high, the sense of time is irrelevant because it flies by so quickly. Instantaneously, actually. In nonphysical everything happens simultaneously. That means, hardly any time is available to experience time passing.
So I could argue accurately, that my personal experience of “time” is beginning to match my subjective non-physicalexperience of time. I like that conclusion. It’s a conclusion that seems accurate, given my experience and client experiences.
An interesting postscript: I’m aware of my eternal nature. Since I am eternal, what would be the point of trying to get it all done in one day or one life? So while I wonder at this thing we call time, beliefs about time that once had me grasping for more of that are soothing. And in the soothing, I’m realizing I have all the time in the world. An eternity of it, actually.
TL;DR: Two clients reveal how beliefs shape reality. Their contrasting experiences show that alignment, not effort, creates desired outcomes—and that even contrast serves expansion on the path to joy.
Two clients this week proved how powerful beliefs are. Both clients are trans-attracted. Both are advanced Positively Focused clients.
The delicate dance between the two clients illustrates how beliefs create reality. But they also show how deeply connected all of us are to each other. Further, what happened this week proves how each of us acts as both contrast AND as angels for one another, with both contrast and our angel-hood benefitting everyone involved.
I’ll clear up what I mean in a moment. When I’m done you’ll see the perfect co-creation of what happened between me, the two clients and their experiences.
To really understand what happened, though, I must introduce a subject that may be new to readers: trans attraction.
What is trans attraction?
Trans attraction is a classification of people who are attracted to transgender people. Typically, this attraction is exclusive. Much like homosexuals and lesbians, trans-attracted people tend to not find cisgender women or men attractive as potential relationship partners. They can appreciate beauty expressed in cisgender people, but their trans-attraction makes it challenging for trans-attracted people to enjoy relationships with such people.
That’s because they’re not here to do that. They’re here to enjoy leading-edge human experiences: expressing something other than heterosexuality. What’s more, such people, particularly trans-attracted men, are here to represent the completion or the fulfillment of what trans women desire: love and relationship.
The trouble with trans-attraction for most such men, however, is that it’s so not the norm. Almost always, trans-attracted men conclude their trans attraction means they’re gay. This is not the case.
But society’s dominant momentum on sexuality and gender, generally, and anything not conforming to the gender binary specifically, causes these men great discomfort. And the more value they place on others’ opinions over their own, the more such men struggle with an identity that is valid, wholesome and right, but against mainstream society’s grain.
So trans-attracted men are those who are strongly pulled to be in relationship with transgender women. The two clients in this story fit that classification perfectly.
There’s always more to expand into
Both men also struggled mightily with their beliefs about their self worth as trans-attracted men. One, who I’ll call Chris, struggled partly because, as a former Christian, his belief system told him, in no uncertain terms, that he was going to hell. The other, who I’ll call Seth, happens to be Jewish. He’s not concerned about hell.
But what caused Seth’s massive struggle were beliefs he held conflating a sexual exploration he had with his younger brother when he was nine, his discovery that he was trans attracted not much later, and his culture, which really, really puts a lot of weight on what others think.
Both men came to me wanting relief from these struggles. Both men have been clients about the same time. And, both men have made great progress in finding freedom to be who they authentically are.
As a result, both are living out loud their trans attraction. That’s a good thing. As with all expansion, however, there’s always more to expand into. And this is why I’m writing this. Because both men’s expansion came together in such an instructive and delightful way.
The set-up
Both Chris and Seth once believed it impossible to meet trans women who weren’t escorts or gold-diggers. They also believed it impossible to meet trans women who would be happy using their…uh…male appendages.
Ok, important note: many trans women are NOT happy doing that. But every desire we have is to be fulfilled. So if a man wants a trans woman who will be happy doing that, the Universe will fulfill that. That explains why there actually are trans women more than willing to use their male parts. And they’re not all escorts or gold-diggers either. Which brings me to what happened to set this experience up.
Seth has soothed his negative beliefs so much that, recently, he moved out of the Northeast and down to Austin. That’s a far more liberal location compared to where he came from. Austin enjoys a robust LGBTQ community. That’s despite being in Texas.
Still, it surprised Seth how easily he met trans women. And not just trans women, really pretty trans women! Old beliefs kept him doing things not necessarily in his best interest, however. Things like going to strip clubs and hiring escorts. But each time that happened, the outcome showed him why leaning in the direction of his trans attraction was better.
Reflecting beliefs to be soothed
Enough disappointment came from those encounters so that Seth gave up following through on such impulses. In doing so, he eventually started meeting higher quality trans women while just being himself, feeling good and putting himself out in the world.
That’s how I suggest everyone “find love”. But that’s another story.
Chris, for what it’s worth, isn’t at that point in his expansion. He still thinks trans women are hard to find. Particularly good looking ones. And, he doesn’t believe he’ll meet one by just “putting himself out there”. Because of those beliefs, he does what many people do who struggle finding a partner: he dates online.
Meanwhile, the really pretty girl Seth recently met is the kind of girl Chris thinks is rare. She’s trans, of course, and majoring in Math in college. Long story short, Seth and this girl ended up “sword fighting”, then in an open relationship: she has a boyfriend. But that boyfriend relationship rests on shaky ground. So she’s exploring her options. Seth is a great option!
Stepping stones
Meanwhile, Chris recently found several trans women online, some of which were more than willing to meet his specific desires. But in short order, these girls showed Chris exactly why I don’t recommend online dating. Oh, they were perfect matches. But not the people Chris could settle with.
Indeed, these women brought behaviors and characteristics reflecting beliefs Chris needs to clean up in himself so that he can attract better matches.
This explains why I call relationships stepping stones. A big plus of relationships is they reflect back to us our beliefs so we can do something about them and thereby find a more permanent happiness. Chris knew that. And he has cleaned up many beliefs. But some still persist. Like the one keeping him dating online.
Ok, back to Seth.
Deep shit
Seth’s relationship is doing the same thing Chris’ is. The same process holds for every relationship, and, every situation…all of reality actually. Life experience is a reflection. It reflects back to us what our dominant vibration is. The difference between Seth and Chris vibration is, Seth is meeting women more naturally. That’s because he believes that’s possible. So his experience is more delightful than Chris’. Chris is still trying to “make it happen” through a particular kind of doing: dating online.
That’s no fun.
Chris is still learning to let go. He still experiences impatience in his process, which explains why he’s working so hard at dating. It also explains why Chris ended up in what most people would call “deep shit.”
What happened was he shared full-body nudes with a trans woman online. His Broader Perspective warned him this particular person was not who Chris thought she was. Chris acknowledged this after the fact, after the “woman” turned out to be a scammer. A scammer who used that photo to try to blackmail Chris.
Long story story short, Chris ended up paying a security firm $5,000 to track and apprehend the scammer, who, wouldn’t you know it, lived in Nigeria.
The “gorgeous” trans woman
The good news is Chris didn’t amplify his troubles by focusing on them and lamenting or feeling regret. Rather, he did exactly what the Positively Focused practice recommends: he found humor in the whole experience. He also acknowledged, as I said, warnings his Broader Perspective used to catch his attention. After this experience, I strongly encouraged him to stop dating online, but, because of his beliefs, he said he probably wouldn’t stop for a while.
I could tell though that I made an impression. The impression I made had him ready for the next step in this story. For that, we have to go back to Seth.
Exactly one day after my session with Chris, Seth texted me. The moment I read it, I knew a three-way manifestation was happening. A manifestation that included me, Chris and Seth. The night before, the text said, Seth met a “gorgeous” trans woman, got her number and planned to meet her later in the week.
Here’s how he described it:
And when I asked how that happened, I knew it would be a perfect story, an example for Chris showing how his life could go. Here’s what Seth texted:
The Charmed Life
After I shared this conversation with Chris, Chris said he appreciated it. I could tell though that he’s still somewhat stuck in his own belief momentum. He just can’t believe strongly enough that a situation like Seth’s can happen to him. How do I know? He’s still dating online.
Most Positively Focused clients, even in the advanced practice, wobble a bit in their conviction. I do too sometimes. It’s par for the course. After all, we’re human. Our physical reality often feels so “true”. So true it can be very, very hard to believe in a reality that, to our human eyes, doesn’t exist. Especially when our existing physical reality is so present, so now and contains something we don’t want.
But that’s the prescription for getting everything we do want.
We must look where what we want is. That often requires looking into nonphysical, seeing the vibrational version of our desire then holding that focus long enough. Long enough for our physical reality to reflect that focus back to us in the form of physical reality.
That’s simple to say. It’s not easy though. That’s why the Positively Focused practice is a practice. And, since we’re all eternal, it’s a practice we can master, but only for that moment of mastery. For, again, we’re always expanding. Which means we’re always expanding into areas demanding ever-increasing levels of mastery.
The good news is, we can enjoy that never-ending practice. It’s in that enjoyment that we discover the Charmed Life.
Question: How do you deal with mental exhaustion when facing a deadline?
Answer: Mental exhaustion is common, particularly among people with a lot of resistance. And nearly every human lives with a lot of resistance, which explains why so many live overstressed and tired.
Sleep is not what many think it is. Sleep is another period of wakefulness. It’s a period of time we leave our bodies. Out of our bodies, we’re coordinating all manner of objectives associated with values at the core of our beings. This becomes obvious in advanced dream work, which comprises part of the Positively Focused practice.
While we’re out of our bodies, our bodies use this dormant period to process chemicals accumulated from interactions between us, the spiritual being we are, and points of consciousness making up our bodies. So sleep is not a period of rejuvenation and rest. Instead, it’s a sacred process of calibration and clearing. Calibration to our desires across dimensions we exist in and clearing of metabolic processes.
It’s vibrational resistance
So dealing with “mental exhaustion” isn’t really bout getting sleep. In fact, this question has many layers. One is the “time” layer; the feeling of mental exhaustion in any given moment.
But this question captures the other more important layer: “what is ‘mental exhaustion’?” Let’s take a look that now.
Mental exhaustion, while it feels mental, what it really is, is spiritual. Any state of exhaustion having no physical origin, such as running a long distance beyond our endurance capacity, comes about when we focus in a way that is resistant to what we want. Mental exhaustion, specifically, is what happens when a person is not focusing positively. In doing that, the person builds up a state of vibrational resistance.
Since people typically don’t know how to release that resistance, or since many don’t even know they’re in a resistant state, the body reflects that persistent vibrational state back to the person as exhaustion. And for most people, the only way to release that exhaustion is in sleep state.
We release resistance in sleep state because we return to nonphysical. Nonphysical, compared to physical reality, contains no resistance. So when we go there, we release all resistance, which is why, sometimes, after a good night’s sleep, we feel better.
An invitation into nonphysical
But many, many people sleep through the night, release resistance, then, the instant they wake, they resume vibrations – thoughts and beliefs – that instantly reintroduce resistance they went to bed with. That’s why some people wake up still feeling tired. They don’t allow the reset button of sleep to allow a fresh start when they wake.
It’s possible to go into the sleep state feeling enthusiastic and eager, instead of feeling exhausted. But we generally believe sleep is for easing exhaustion. So we often delay sleep well beyond when we’re called. For example, I often receive a signal to return to nonphysical. When I do, fatigue doesn’t show up. Instead, it feels like a “pull” or a heaviness in my psyche.
When I follow that invitation and lay down, I typically enjoy extremely joyful and otherwise satisfying dreams. Sometimes I answer the call or pull by laying down and meditating. In that state, I often experience multidimensional consciousness shifts I’ve written about before. In previous posts, I’ve called them “departures”; travels to alternate realities.
And so mental exhaustion is a manifestation. It’s a symptom of holding on to resistance. The way to deal with mental exhaustion, therefore, is to develop a sensitivity to resistance. Then keep resistance to a minimum. That’s a natural benefit of being positively focused.
Creating reality on the fly
With that state chronically developed we don’t experience mental exhaustion. We’re ready to go from one thing to the next thing feeling appreciation and eagerness. And when the pull calls us into nonphysical, and we answer, we experience conscious delight in nonphysical. Then we return to wake state deeply refreshed.
So the way to deal with mental exhaustion is to develop a positively focused attitude.
The problem with doing that is we can’t develop that state in an instant. It requires practice and that practice builds a momentum within us, which we then use to maintain that state.
Another approach available to those with strong positive predispositions is the art of creating reality on the fly. It’s a process where one expresses a series of positive thoughts, meaningfully expressed, until eagerness and empowerment replaces exhaustion or other resistance. In doing that the person aligns themselves with the time line in which exhaustion isn’t part of their reality. Again, this takes practice.
I did this just hours prior to editing this post. What followed is a great example of how powerful creating reality on the fly is.
A powerful creation
I had news I needed to share with a friend that would likely both disappoint and inconvenience them. But I know I can influence that potential outcome through my alignment to a time line in which they’re not disappointed or inconvenienced. So, I aligned myself with that reality where the conversation goes swimmingly. Here are the thoughts I meaningfully expressed:
I know my friend is capable of handling this call gracefully
I know this call is going to go well
I’m going to be fully self-expressed during this call
This call is going to go very well
I’m going to frame this news positively, because I want to be positively focused
My friend is going to find another solution to his needs easily
After expressing this, I felt really positive. That indicated an alignment with the time line I wanted.
Then, something really fun happened indicating that I was, in fact, in a very high vibration. I ordered an automatic sit-stand desk from Amazon days ago. The company and FedEx sent notifications yesterday saying the package would arrive today between 9 and 11 a.m. today. It was 10 a.m. when I did the process above. The minute I finished making those statements above, my Broader Perspective told me to go down to meet the FedEx driver who was delivering my desk.
Mind you, I got no device notification about the delivery.
Spiritual powers: everyone’s ability
But I know when I get spiritual notifications like this — nudges — taking the action immediately will result in a delightful surprise. I texted my friend that I’d call him in five minutes. Then, I went downstairs and out the apartment complex’s front door.
The FedEx truck was no where in sight.
Still, I knew my Broader Perspective doesn’t get it wrong. So I just stood there. In 20 seconds, I swear, the FedEx truck came around the corner. The driver saw me and gave me a thumbs up (how he knew I was the recipient is a spiritual mystery). He parked, came out the back of the truck with the package and gave it to me. I told him what you just read and he was as surprised as I was.
Once back in my apartment, I called my friend. The call went exactly as I expected and I ended it feeling fully self-expressed and delighted at both manifestations.
This shows not only how powerful this process is, but also how, when a person is chronically Positively Focused, such a person develops truly special spiritual capabilities. Capabilities including precognition. But if we’re mentally exhausted, such abilities aren’t available. Too much resistance exists in us.
Everyone can enjoy freedom from mental exhaustion and seeming occult powers such as precognition. Maybe you’re interested in this enough to explore how you can. Book a free 1:1 now.
TL;DR: A client became a life coach effortlessly—not by training or chasing clients, but by aligning with the version of themselves who already is one. By soothing limiting beliefs and embracing their natural gifts, they began attracting ideal reflections. This story shows how manifestation unfolds through vibrational alignment and trust.
A client wants to be a life coach. It’s going to be an awesome practice. They are a natural at helping people find their empowerment and they’ve been doing that for a while. But only with friends. Not with clients. And not for hire. Becoming a “life coach” is something they’ve always wanted. And so that’s the main reason for them becoming a Positively Focused client. That and settling some old relationship momentum.
This client is a natural coach because they’re predisposed to this You Create Your Own Reality (YCYOR) business. Some might call them gifted. Others might call them Wiccan. Both would be accurate. Because of that, this client is not here to build a practice through “doing”, like others build companies. And because of that, their path has been long. They’ve held for a long time a lot of negative beliefs, thereby building a lot of momentum for themselves over decades.
Ironically, a lot of things about this client set them up perfectly for the path they’re on, including their old beliefs and belief momentum. In this post I want to focus on how this client is building their business and how that’s happening effortlessly.
The latest indicator of success
When I wrote “effortlessly”, I meant that. It’s taken a while for this client to settle in on this way of growing their practice, but settle in they have. Part of the reason why they’ve settled in comes from trust they have after seeing so many amazing things, other than their practice, manifest effortlessly.
But their most recent manifestation brought this client a “chef’s kiss” experience relative to that coaching practice.
While on vacation with their husband, the client luxuriated on balmy Caribbean beaches. Visiting that part of the world was part of a Law of Attraction Caribbean cruise they booked. Most of that time on vacation put the client in a high-vibration state of mind. The couple enjoys vacations, cruising and Law of Attraction. So the combination offered a lot of positivity.
It’s no wonder then, what happened happened the way it did. During one part of the cruise, the client started up a conversation with a stranger. As it goes during get-to-know-yous, the stranger asked the client “What do you do?”
“I’m a life coach,” they said.
“Really? I could use one of those.” the man replied. Then he shared personal details about his life. People usually share their personal stories with this client.
That’s because – duh – they’re a natural coach! After sharing his personal details, the man had a question:
“How long have you been a life coach?” The man asked.
“All my life,” the client said.
The client found resonance with the vibrational version of themselves; the vibrational version that already is a coach.
Becoming a match NOW
Now, that response my client gave was ground breaking. That’s because they had a belief about being a coach (among other beliefs) that prevented them from becoming one. That belief was, “unless you have paying clients, you’re not a coach.” Another belief holding the client back was: “To be a coach, I must learn something I don’t know.”
Those two beliefs, in the past, would have kept the client from saying what they said. They would have felt like an imposter or a fraud or, worse, a liar.
Not any more though. Together we worked through both of those beliefs, among others. Doing so allowed the client to express themselves AS A COACH, NOW, with no relation to the client’s present reality. Instead, the client found resonance with the vibrational version of themselves; the vibrational version that already is a coach. Doing that, they became a match to a person who would want what they offer. Which is exactly what this guy expressed.
This client has no “training” in being a coach. Nor do I, however. Yet I’m thriving in my practice. How? By allowing my natural leadership and my natural gifts to shine. This client is learning to do the same. As they do that, they become a match to manifestations like what happened on their vacation.
It doesn’t matter if this guy they met becomes a client or not. That wasn’t the point of meet up. The point was it acted as a bread crumb showing the client they’re on the path to becoming fully what they already are.
It works 100 percent of the time
And that’s how everything works in this YCYOR business. The client is becoming more and more of a match to what they want. Meanwhile, the world around them increasingly reflects that back to them, as they soothe beliefs making them not a match.
That process takes some time. That’s why such a thing as “divine timing” exists. It also explains why many who think Law of Attraction doesn’t work fail at making it work. Same with those who believe Law of Attraction works, but doesn’t work for things they really want. It fails to work, or seems to not work on things we really want, because we usually think things we want should come to us on our expected time line.
Usually, divine timing is never synched with our expectations. Divine timing nearly ALWAYS significantly lags behind our expectations as to when something should happen. That’s why it’s so important to cultivate appreciation I call “on the way to”. The lag built into manifestations exists so that we can use that time to true up or calibrate to the desire we hold.
Many, however, get impatient in that gap. When they do that, they widen the gap. The lag gets longer because their impatience makes them not a match.
One value I bring to clients is highlighting this important aspect of manifesting and many other aspects of a practice most people don’t understand.
Manifestation is how the Universe works. It’s 100 percent effective. But we must be 100 percent aligned with how it works to have it work deliberately for us. Want to know more? Consider becoming a client. I’ve created a new, more affordable way to do that. Check out my Cohort sessions here.
This week included so many definite client testimonies showing the effectiveness, the power of being Positively Focused. My experience too this week amplified how being positive truly creates the best life possible. Truly, it’s the Charmed Life. My clients lives reflect it, my life reflects it.
In this post, I’ll share one example, from one client. I’ll share more tomorrow and the weekend. This client I’ve written about before. He’s the one who defied Donald Trump, Elon Musk and the Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). His return to work after DOGE fired so many of his colleagues, himself included was astonishing. And when he came back everyone welcomed him as essential to the agency’s mission.
But not only that, they loved him. They recognized him, his positive personality and his positive perspective as instrumental earlier this year when so many were scared and insecure.
As a result of who he was being during that time, someone in the agency nominated him to win the prestigious Transmission Employee of the Year Award. My client felt stoked and excited for the recognition. But, as I always tell my clients; with every moment of expansion comes along with it more contrast. Contrast giving birth to the next level of expansion.
We never stay in one spot, in other words. Not for long. We are in a constant state of expansion. And when we don’t keep up with that, we lose sight of how blessed we are moment by moment.
That’s exactly what happened with this client. He lost sight and needed a reminder. Thankfully, he has weekly sessions to help him.
Raving about work?
This week he came to his session feeling “content”. That’s not a terrible place, vibrationally. However, I encourage clients maintain energy states consistent with at least passion, enthusiasm and happiness. So when he shared his vibrational frequency, I dug in.
One of this client’s passions is racing motorcycles. Last weekend, he spent a wonderful two days in beautiful weather on his bike on the track. Friends and colleagues joined him. So it was a special time for him. Returning to work then felt like a let down comparatively. My guess is by Sunday evening, he already was feeling negative about going back to work. So by Wednesday, the day of his session, he wasn’t flying very high.
“All I do is look at a computer screen all day,” He said.
That was a phenomenally great place for the client to be. And that’s because it offered him such a tremendous opportunity. He wasn’t super negative, but it’s obvious that someone says this about his job they’re not feeling very passionate, enthusiastic or happy about their work.
What’s ironic is, in the last session, the client raved about his work as much as he raved about being at the track in this session! He loved the accolades he was getting. His colleagues constantly looked to him because of how well he did his work. Even his supervisors loved him, especially his humor. And, let’s not forget, this client makes bank at his job. That’s something he really enjoys about his work too. It literally funds his racing hobby.
Fantastic manifestations
After reminding him about all this, the client totally changed. He became a completely different person right before my eyes. I also felt the shift in his vibration. He moved out of contentment and into interest, which is right above optimism vibrationally. Then he talked about what happened this week at work, things he was completely oblivious to just moments ago.
One of those was the annual award nomination. Here’s how it read:
“Through adversity and change, this employee navigated the world transitioning from being a contractor to a full-time employee. All the while, expertly guiding and training a new team member. It takes a special type of person to not only accept their own obligations and priorities but those of others as well. This employee demonstrates the utmost professionalism in a lighthearted, easy to get along with manner. His knowledge of the organization and its personnel are invaluable, and he uses that knowledge to achieve organizational goals. His loyalty and faith in the organization has never waivered, even through very dark times. I owe my humble thanks and therefore recommend him as one of the organization’s most exemplary employees.”
Then, he remembered things from the last seven days that got him even more positive about the last week. In addition to racing, the client also is a musician. He busks at the local farmers market and aspires to having a musical career. This past week, two people approached him asking if he would teach them to play guitar. Another person, who belongs to a band, invited him to be the band’s front man and lead singer. And another person, a blues singer of some local repute, asked him if he’d enjoy writing songs together with her.
None of these things the client recalled. All of them were fantastic manifestations of his desires.
Positivity’s powerful filter
But after he did recall them, his demeanor changed even more. I think what struck him most was how, just moments before, none of what you just read was in his awareness. It’s not like they didn’t happen, however. They did. But the client had no access to them.
And this is the thing with life: everyone’s life is going great. But when we’re focused on things going not-great, that’s how we feel: not great. Feeling “not great” is a vibration. It’s an indicator of a vibrational frequency. And when we dwell in that frequency, everything that doesn’t match that frequency gets screened out.
This is why I advocate for being Positively Focused. Positively Focused is a vibrational frequency. When we maintain that frequency, then our life matches that. Because everything else gets screened out. Those other things still happen. They just don’t happen in the lives of those who are Positively Focused.
I’m overjoyed this client gave himself this powerful example of how important our vibration is. It literally shapes life experience. Maybe you’re ready to deliberately shape your own? If so, consider becoming a client today.
TL;DR: The author believes that by aligning with inspired desires and releasing limiting beliefs, they can become a shapeshifter. To achieve this, the author emphasizes the importance of “painting the target”; understanding vibrational frequencies associated with the desired form.
So many important steps comprise being able to do something pretty much every human believes is impossible. Whether it’s teleportation, telekinesis, levitation or shapeshifting, what’s required is willingness to literally go “where no man has gone before.”
Thankfully, the “going” is all in one’s head. For achieving these kinds of abilities simply means getting out of the way of them. That means letting go of beliefs making them impossible.
Abraham puts it plain as does Seth: anything this time-space reality has the wherewithal to inspire within us can be our experience. But only when we line up with that which we’ve been inspired to realize.
I’ve already proven this on many topics, some of which I’ve shared in this blog. More examples are on the way, but I’ve created so many things using this Positively Focused practice, I’ve decided to go “where no man has gone before.”
If I can create these things I’ve created in the past, with little to no effort on my part, then the “impossible” is possible too. Becoming a shapeshifter is no different than anything else I’ve created therefore. Same with teleportation, levitation and astral travel. That last one I’ve already confirmed I can do.
But there are key additional steps beyond getting resistant beliefs out of the way. And as I realize more evidence my shapeshifting desires are manifesting, this key step is becoming clearer. Interestingly, I’m already doing it.
Let’s take a look at what that key step is.
Painting the target
First, some terminology. I call my current body shape, the masculine form, “home”. My desired shape, I call the “target”. By calling my current shape “home”, I’m reinforcing the fact that, when ready, I will return to this shape. It’s not clear, however, that reinforcement is necessary.
For example, lots of people experiencing out of body travel report returning to their bodies automatically no matter how far they journey. Still, I want the safeguard.
So while imagining shifting to another shape or form, I think of it as my “target”. In order to hit the target, I must hone in on the target’s characteristics, much like a laser-guided munition hones in on the target’s surface the munition’s laser paints (how did this war analogy get in here?).
“Painting” the target then, for me, means collecting data about the target. This is the key step. I must paint a vibrational picture in my energy-awareness of the form I’m wanting to adopt.That way, I can identify frequencies that will create the appropriate emanation.
You see, our bodies are, like everything else, projections or emanations. These bodies, as complex as they are, result from vibrational frequencies we emanate that manifest as form. Vibrational logic would argue that if one can change the emanation frequency, the form will alter to match the new frequency. That’s the theory I’m working with anyway.
We’ll see if the theory holds. I think it will.
Being creepy. Maybe?
As I’ve described in a previous post, my first attempt at shapeshifting is to change my form from male to female. Several core values I hold direct this choice as my first target. I won’t go into them in favor of keeping this post short.
That said, the notion of changing my shape from male to female requires quite a feat. All kinds of variables come into question. I’m sure you can imagine some. And, if shapeshifting is possible, and I believe it is, those variables are all negotiable. Still, negotiating this shift, requires me integrating or knowing not just what it feels like to be a woman, but also what vibrational frequencies manifest as the female form.
Actually, it is less than understanding what women feel. It’s more about understanding the vibrational frequency that emanates as “female”.
I wrote above that I’m already doing this step. I’m already “painting” my target. What that looks like in real life is I’m finding myself intently observing women as they move around. Paying particular attention to women actors on streaming shows I find especially helpful too. That’s because the actors typically portray a character less burdened with distorted beliefs than ordinary humans. They’re more “simple” as a construct as well, and thus easier to paint.
Watching women in the wild supports my data collection as well. But, you can probably guess how that can appear creepy. I try to do it discreetly. But often I catch myself staring only after it’s gone way beyond what’s socially appropriate. For the most part, the women don’t know what’s happening.
The creepiness is mostly in my head..I hope.
Finding the essence
I can imagine some readers telling me how men will never understand what it means to be a woman. But accomplishing this requires that I do understand. At least well enough to allow the appropriate vibrational frequencies to flow as part of my emanation.
What’s fun about all this is I’ve done this many times. Many times on easier subjects, however. Still, because of those experiences, I have a great sense for how it feels when I achieve those frequencies. Past experience, in other words, emboldens me. I see no reason why I can’t do this.
Of course, Abraham agrees:
Abraham doesn’t talk much about feats like this. Seth, on the other hand, talks about it to a comparatively larger degree. And, he explains how to do it. Not with step-by-step instructions, but through allusion. So the reader must have an idea of what he’s saying and where he’s saying it to get the instructions.
And though the Abraham quote above speaks to the subject of well being, Law of Attraction applies equally to any desire. The manifestation process is the same.
Emboldened through experience
That’s another reason why I’m certain this shapeshifter thing can happen. Another quote Abraham often offers is that “it is as easy to create a castle as it is a button.” They distinguish castles and buttons as those things we believe are really “big” manifestations and those that are routine, respectively.
I have a TON of experience creating both castles and buttons. Which explains why I’m so confident I can create the outcomes I listed at the start of this post. Creating those outcomes are no different from those I’ve already created. And so I’m emboldened.
I’m emboldened because I know the key steps. Including the one I wrote about in this post.
A special invitation
If you’re interested in this Positively Focused practice and putting what I write about into action in your own life, I have a special invitation for you.
I created a new affordable way to work with me. I’m setting up special 1:1 group sessions in which an unlimited number of people can attend as a group, while I work with one of those people chosen at random. Attendees get the massive benefit of learning what I offer while I work with a different person each week, but at a much lower cost.
This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.
But it’s usually much easier seeing what’s going on in another than seeing it in ourselves. That’s why I think these special one-hour group sessions will be a hit.
These new special 1:1 group sessions are available for only $25 per session per attendee, with a minimum of 5 attendees. That’s a 66% discount on my regular $75 per session rate. I’m still offering traditional solo 1:1s at my regular rate. But the 1:1 group session rate may work for you. It is a great deal.
If you’re interested, let me know in the comments section and I’ll get back to you once I have the first group of five.
