I’m regularly traveling into alternate dimensions these days. So often I do so, they now just seem like every day occurrences. And yet, I don’t take them for granted. That’s because they offer so many touch points for my expansion.
One Positively Focused advanced client experiences similar “departures”. That’s confirming. It tells me these aren’t “hallucinations” or “fantasies” my brain makes up. Rather, they happen for anyone willing to allow their consciousness to travel free of the body.
Any visual experience that goes beyond ordinary waking reality is a “departure” from physical reality. They’re what I nowadays call “multidimensional consciousness shifts”. My “allowing” started with a series of sensations which happened in meditation. I’ve written about these many times in my early posts. They got stronger, and rather than resisting them or fearing them, I first brought conscious focus to them. I wanted to amplify them.
Then, at one point, I became indifferent to the sensations. Instead, I focused on their origin. The sensations themselves are echoes of a source. They are not the source itself. That focus actually caused the sensations to strengthen.
Those experiences gave way to full-on, sudden transitions into alternate realities. I’m getting better at holding onto them and bringing them back into my present-moment waking reality. But they still come in a fleeting manner.
What it looks like
Here’s an example of a multidimensional consciousness shift that happened in meditation this morning, straight from my records:
I was in an industrial area, a rundown industrial area, one that was about to be demolished. A great big warehouse stood before me off in the distance a bit, and where I stood, accompanying me was a band of women, all beautiful, of different aspects…I felt at home there. I then walked forward toward the warehouse. As I approached, these great big demolition trucks appeared before me. They were facing me and as I walked through the line of trucks I came to a van expecting to see my partner, my female partner there…I came back into this reality and meditation. Then I had another shift wherein I saw a male in construction worker protective equipment. He was using a shovel to dig into the earth where little plants grew. It wasn’t a garden. It was more like a median strip or a public park or something like that.
There’s a difference between these shifts and my extremely detailed, long-form dream experiences. The former always feels like current reality in the sense that the environment I visit feels ordinary. The latter always feels magical, whimsical.
Accompanying dream sojourns are intense emotions, almost always including deep senses of love and belonging. What’s more, dream imagery always conveys some kind of meaning or intention. Every object in the dream carries such a message. Not so with multidimensional consciousness shifts.
Shifting versus dreaming
That’s because where I end up when shifting is happening “on the other side” of nonphysical. The places I go are like this reality. They are leading edge, full-blown manifestations of energy intention, just like this physical reality. As leading edge manifestations, they are fully-formed so to speak.
Dreams are not fully-formed the way physical is. They are real. But they carry a process energy and occur in nonphysical, not “on the other side” of this reality. Because of that, the experience itself is many layered, fluid, and infused with the creative energy that is me.
When shifting I visit a me-counterpart having their own experience. When dreaming, I am in the center of my All-That-Is-ness experiencing nonphysical directly, unfiltered.
Of course, there’s a method to such meetings I call multidimensional consciousness shifts. Shifts I experience, the locations I visit, are resonant with vibrations I emanate in meditation. So I can glean meaning from those travels.
A lot of contrast happened this week. Mastery of the Positively Focused practice transforms contrast, what ordinary people would call “negative” experience, into fuel for expansion, so this week offered a lot of fuel for my expansion.
And expand I did. That expansion included more detailed integration of old beliefs. Old beliefs having to do with money, tying money to my self-worth, and soothing species-level beliefs where they coagulate in the collective consciousness.
That location, where the coagulation happens, is what people would call “the underworld”. That is, if religion didn’t confuse people about what that place is really about. But because most people are confused by religion, and therefore fear that place, they avoid having any awareness of it.
Not me. That’s because we can’t fully expand without re-integrating fully into ourselves, our contribution to that coagulation. And I’m committed to my full expansion. So that means visiting the underworld and doing my part to untangle all that. Also, I have a larger agenda than just expanding myself. I apparently am also about expanding all of humanity.
That explains no less than three forays into the underworld this week alone. I’m going to write a detailed post about what that looked like. But I can assure you, the density of that level of consciousness is….harrowing….
But the light I brought to that region was transformative, which turned MY experience of the underworld into something less hellish.
Life is always a reflection of our dominant vibration. “Life” includes nonphysical experiences. And the underworld is part of life. That I experienced that world the way I did tells me something about the power of my vibrational mastery. It tells me my dominant focus is so strong, I can even turn hell into a reflection of my luminous consciousness.
TL;DR: The author asserts that the Positively Focused dream work reveals dreams as profound nonphysical experiences offering guidance, transformation, and connection with transitioned loved ones. Clients awaken to their expansive nature, unlocking joy, clarity, and boundless potential.
Our dreams come packed with extremely helpful information and crucial relational connections. Information and connections that, if we’re aware of them, and we integrate them, they benefit us significantly. This includes connections with relatives who have “died”.
But if we don’t believe we dream, or worse, if we don’t think dreams mean anything, then we not only not benefit from them, something else happens that is totally unnecessary: at death we enter the next phase of our journeys unprepared.
This explains why dream work is a big part of the Positively Focused Advance Practice. In the advanced practice, clients learn about dreams, how to interpret them and how to benefit from that interpretation.
The deeper clients dive into the dream work, the better they get at both dreaming and interpreting their dreams. As that happens, their personalities change. They expand, meaning clients realize they are far more than their physical bodies, and that they exist in far more places than this time-space reality. The Positively Focused dream work therefore offers so many benefits it’s a wonder sometimes why some clients dismiss this part of the practice.
Let’s look at a client’s recent dream experience as an example of what’s available while our bodies sleep.
His astounding dream
Cain is a 36-week Positively Focused client (“Cain” is pronounced “Kayeen”, not “Kane”). Early on, he experienced something remarkable as a beginning client: twice at night he found himself face-to-face with beings not of this reality. One instance scared him, but the next he was ready for. So he handled it much better.
Not long after those experiences, Cain began progressing quickly through early stages of the practice. So much so that he joined his wife among the advanced cohort of clients.
That’s right, his wife is also a client.
Since then, Cain has had a number of dreams, all of which have been outstanding. Only one of those prior dreams, however, was as powerful as the one you’re about to hear.
You’re about to hear it because Cain gave me permission to share the segment of our 1:1 session in which he shares what happened. Since he tells the whole story better than I could, I won’t recap it. Instead, listen to him tell it. It’s about 15 minutes long and worth every minute.
Journeys into nonphysical
Maybe now you can see, dear reader, how powerful dreams can be. Can you see the peace and understanding in Cain’s demeanor? His is an astounding example of how important nonphysical experiences people commonly call “dreams” are.
But they aren’t just dreams. They are journeys into nonphysical, happening while our bodies sleep.
Typically, this is the kind of experience a person has in what people call Near-Death Experiences (NDEs). These also are exactly the kinds of experiences that happen when we transition into nonphysical after death. Our loved ones join us as well as representatives on which we overlay the image of loved ones. They come to us in love, to comfort us and give us information we need to move forward.
None of that needs to wait until we die. And, for sure, we don’t need to wait until we die to experience joyful reunions with “dead” loved ones (they’re not dead).
But most people will have to wait until they “die” to do so because they, 1) have a ton of resistance keeping them from those reunions while they are in a physical body, and, 2) they don’t believe that what people call “dreams” hold any value.
But what people call “dreams” hold tremendous value. That value can be accessed through a simple process. The very same process Cain here is benefiting from. Indeed, my experiences while the body sleeps are so rich, empowering, confirming and powerful, I look forward to going to sleep every night. I’m eager, joyful even. And when I wake up the next morning, I usually wake in deep love and understanding that I am cherished by All That Is.
You are cherished too.
But you can’t know this if you can’t experience nonphysical the way Cain did. Oh, you can think you are cherished. You can believe you are. But until you have the actual experience, standing in the depths of the love of All That Is, you really don’t know it with unshakable conviction.
Dreams are powerful
That unshakable conviction is what moves clients in directions that others think are crazy. People try to encourage clients to be “realistic” about life. Realistic, usually means “pessimistic”. I encourage clients to become positively deranged. There, in that state, is everything we want. And it all comes effortlessly.
When a person discovers that state, there is everything to be optimistic about. Optimistic because physical reality is our creation, meaning, we can make it anything we want. We can make it anything we want because we are gods in human form.
Dreams are powerful. Nearly everyone grieves “losing” their loved ones. But that’s only because the grief-stricken “surviving” relative refuses to look where their loved ones are. THEY’RE STILL HERE. They haven’t gone anywhere.
But we must look where they are, not where they aren’t. We feel grief because we can’t see them because we’re not looking where they are. Look where they are though, and the loved one will greet you…then your grief of “losing” them goes away.
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Another brief update. A few things are happening telling me I’m near becoming a shapeshifter. One, dreams over the last week-and-a-half indicate I’m coming into alignment with that goal. The same dreams show my cadre accomplishing the behind-the-scenes work necessary for me to become a shapeshifter. I will share in subsequent posts recordings of those dreams along with interpretations which show what that progress looks like.
Those experiences have been both thrilling and, to be honest, spiritually exhausting. Transmuting resistant Belief Constellations is hard spiritual work!
Another indication are sleep patterns changes as well as changes to my meditative practices. I know these changes are the prelude to the full-blown manifestation because these same changes happened back when I focused on having an awakening experience. That happened in my 20s and scared the crap out of me (I thought I had broken my brain 😜. I’m older and wiser now. I hope!
Over the last two weeks I now wake up at between 1 and 3 a.m. When I do, I’m wide awake and my Broader Perspective encourages meditation. Meditations are now comfortably exceeding 2 hours. Again, this same thing happened back in my 20s.
Becoming a match for sure
Also, while in meditation it is easier and easier to recall dreams just prior to the meditation. And, after meditating, when I lay back down, I near instantly return to dreams, which I remember after waking later in the morning. These dreams are also becoming even more vivid than before and run far longer. Often too while in meditation, departures into alternate realities are happening more frequently.
But the biggest indicator or shift is how my body feels in meditation. I used to feel a strong upward surge as though my spirit body is trying to move up and out of my body. But now, my body feels as though it turns to liquid, a soup or something like that. I believe that’s a sure sign that the body is prepared to shift and that my resistant beliefs are increasingly soothed enough for me to become a match to this desire.
All these shifts happened in the last ten days or so. As I wrote above, I’ll share my dream recordings and interpretations of those dreams so you can hear for yourself the progress happening indicated by what I’m up to when the body is asleep in bed.
More to come!
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TL;DR: The author recounts a client dream which featured them and uses the experience to assert that humans are more than human. They are eternal aware-energy beings.
A lot happens in nonphysical. “Nonphysical” is a better description of what humans call “Dreaming”. In that state, while the body refreshes itself in bed, our consciousness flows into the exact same place we come from before birth and return to after what humans call death.
Our “consciousness” is what we ultimately are: conscious aware energy.
While the body rests in sleep state, the aware energy that we are cooperates with innumerable other energetic beings in the massive co-creation that is universal expansion. Nearly every human knows nothing about this. Even those we vaunt as successful and highly educated. Indeed most humans think dreams are nothing more than the brain processing the day’s activities.
Nothing can be further from what’s really happening.
What’s really happening is each of us participates in the sacred process of creating more and more of All That Is. In that sacred process, we glorify ourselves and each other in a massive act of love. A massive act of loving ourselves. And through that act, that expression, out of us spring more joyful, unfolding realities.
So when clients get to the point of the Positively Focused dream work where they start experiencing the majesty of what they really are, that indicates remarkable-worthy progress.
Let’s look at what happened this week when a client met me in nonphysical and what happened next. And let’s look at what that means for him, for me and for the Universe at large.
What happened
The client, let’s call him “Jim”, talked about his experience in the beginning of our session. It happened that same morning, in the early hours, he said. In the “dream”, Jim said, we both walked into a large hall. Jim said he was part of “my followers”. As we entered the hall, two other beings entered as well accompanied by their followers. In the dream Jim recognized me and the other two as “spiritual leaders”.
The three spiritual leaders, me and the other two, sat at a large table. Our followers, Jim said, sat behind each of us. Then the spiritual leaders talked about plans underway. After the conversation, the three of us also talked about next steps. Jim then described how the spiritual leader he interpreted as leading the meeting entrusted me and the other leader with next steps. He said the presiding leader exuded tremendous confidence that me and the other being would complete the project.
So that was the experience as Jim described it. What does it mean? What’s the significance of an experience like that, one that humans would describe as “just a dream”? Was it just that? Or was it something more?
It was something more.
This was an important experience for Jim. It also was an important experience for me. Here’s why.
Way more than our physical bodies
Jim’s experience represents the second event a client shared in which the client and I interacted in nonphysical. The first happened a few weeks ago, when a client in Hawaii confirmed my Astral Travel experience. In that experience, while in a hypnopompic state, that client felt my consciousness arrive in her awareness. She allowed me to ride into and alongside her consciousness and experienced “me” in her awareness.
This happened while I was, at the same time, in meditation. I felt my own version of what she described. And so this experience confirmed by another that I’m progressing in my ability to travel as pure energy. If you’re interested about that experience, I wrote a whole blog post about it.
The fact that a second client now experienced me in their nonphysical state shows great promise for these two clients and for me. It confirms for me that these experiences aren’t just delusions I’m experiencing. Indeed, as Seth affirmed, they are real, actual experiences available to all of us. Because all of us are way more than our physical bodies.
We are pure, positive energy beings, as Abraham likes to say. I, for one, took those words seriously, as well as those of Seth. So I’ve focused a lot of my life over the last 10 years to discovering how far this You Create Your Own Reality Business (YCYORB) goes. What I’m discovering is, it can go as far as we want it…limited only by our beliefs.
And this is the benefit of Jim’s experience for him. It’s showing him, like mine are showing me, the true breadth and depth of who and what we are. And the feelings coming with such experiences are astounding in how good they feel.
Unlimited benefits
Jim fascination with that dream matched my own. The details are important because they confirm many things Abraham told me about my trajectory.
A lot happens in nonphysical. Even when we’re awake, parts of us remain active in there. We can perceive that active part of us, but it takes practice. That’s only because most humans condition themselves out of believing they can perceive that way.
The same holds true for perceiving nonphysical while the body sleeps. Again, most people don’t believe dreams mean anything. Those beliefs must be soothed before we perceive what’s really happening. Jim is a perfect example of what happens when we do that soothing. So are my experiences.
Dream state offers a peek into all that we are. (ChatGPT interpretation prompted by me)
Perceiving these alternative realities is our natural state. That’s why when I calm my mind, I can experience other dimensions in which I’m active. Of course, my awareness during sleep state is extremely keen. I remember a large number of dreams every night. And waking from them I feel the deepest joy and empowerment. I’ve written about those in previous posts. And I’ll likely write about more in the future.
The thing is, we are far more than human. Benefits that come from that broader awareness are unlimited. Through that awareness we can deliberately create any reality we want.
We’re all creators
Jim’s dream, as I wrote above, confirmed many things Abraham told me about my trajectory. I am an emissary of what’s possible. I’m here to show humanity what it’s capable of. And I’m here holding the space in which humanity is expanding.
I’m not the only one. As Jim’s “dream” showed, I’m accompanied and am co-creating with numbers of others, others who have cadres of humans here, on earth, assisting our collective intentions.
All of us have similar experiences. We may not all be “spiritual leaders” yet. Abraham, in a public event called me a “world leader”. It is a title I now embrace given all I’ve experienced. Like Neo in The Matrix, I now believe not only who I am but what I am and what I’m here for.
No, I’m beyond believing. I’ve experienced so much, I just know. I know what and who I am. And as I expand further into that knowledge, more and more becomes available. My expansion is boundless, as is yours, dear reader.
And so I invite you to discover what my clients and I are discovering: that the world is our creation. As such we can create whatever we desire. The only thing limiting us is our imagination. No political situation, no physical perceived limit holds sway. All of those bow before us.
Because we are creators. And when I appear in my clients’ dreams, they realize they are too.
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TL;DR: The author relates a client’s dream and the fascination they and the client shared in interpreting the dream and how the dream clarified aspects of the client’s life. They then encourage readers to explore their dreams as a bonafide source of real-life rewards.
One thing I really like about the Positively Focused Practice is dream work. It’s so powerful. It’s powerful because so much happens in dreams that directly tie to waking life.
Clients are discovering how powerful their dreams are as they learn how to connect their dream experiences to their waking life. Contrary to what psychology and science assert, immense, real-life value comes from the dream world. Indeed, our entire waking life stems from that place where dreams are born.
Today I want to show what that value looks like by sharing a client’s dream experience. I want to share how it relates to his waking experience and how he felt after discovering his dream gave him information he really wanted to know.
Ready? Here we go!
Participating in our expansion
Troy is an aspiring writer and musician. Most of his 67-year life brought Troy resentment and regret, however. That’s because early on, Troy conjured disempowering beliefs about his creative expression. He didn’t believe it was good enough. So, of course, the world around him reflected that belief back to him, in the form of people not appreciating his expression.
Like nearly all people, Troy saw what people were doing and saying, or rather not saying, about his work as evidence. He told himself people not appreciating his writing was proof his work wasn’t any good. Perhaps you can see the trouble here. And maybe you can see how almost everyone talks themselves in to trouble when they don’t know what physical reality is for.
Physical reality is a reflection. It is a reflection we each create. Our reflection shows us beliefs we hold about a myriad of subjects, including beliefs of which we may not be consciously aware. By experiencing physical reality, among other things, we can true up the reflection (what shows up in life) to include more of our desires.
Physical reality also exists so we can directly participate in our individual growth and the growth of All That Is. A better word for “growth” is “expansion”.
So Troy not knowing his reality is a reflection caused him to create more resentment and regret by misunderstanding how people’s response to his work was serving him.
Misinterpreting physical reality
Physical reality is the way All That Is expands. It also is the best way we as individuals expand. Everything in physical, therefore, is positive. It shows us where we are relative to our desires, much like a map shows us where we are relative to where we want to be. Physical reality also shows us how well we’re doing in getting to where we want to be. And it gives us clues to things we may be clueless about. Things having a massive effect on how well or not well we’re crating a life we want, for example.
All the while physical reality can be a joyful, pleasurable, exciting adventure. One literally filled only with those things we want and none of what we don’t.
But if we don’t know what you just read, we misinterpret physical reality. We misinterpret it as “real”….not a reflection. That gets us into trouble because if we mistake the reflection as reality, then we tend to create more of what we see thinking it’s real. That’s why most people’s lives come packed with some of what they want and a lot of what they don’t want.
Troy’s balance of those two things skewed to unwanted. A lot of what he didn’t want showed up in his life, which is why he ended up resentful and filled with regret.
Seeing reality differently
That was before Troy found the Positively Focused Practice. Indeed, anyone who believes physical reality is anything other than a reflection of their inner state is going to create a reality including some wanted and some unwanted. But when a person figures this out, amazement is at hand. That person can use physical reality for its intended purpose. And in using it that way, they can create the reality of their dreams.
How?
By using physical reality for the reflection it is. Then tuning their inner state to match what they want. When they do that, then physical reality, which, again, is a reflection, must reflect that more positive inner state, e.g. a life experience including more of what they want. That’s what Troy is learning to do. His dreams are helping him do that.
Physical reality is a reflection of our inner state. (Photo by Caroline Veronez)
Instead of interpreting his reality as evidence of negative beliefs about his writing, like he used to do, Troy started looking at his reality differently. He started seeing it as a reflection of his inner state. Then he started doing something about his inner state.
What did he do?
He began telling better stories about his life, about himself, and about the world in general. Doing so, his mood improved. And as that happened, gradually, his life improved too. Meanwhile, he started the dream work. Then small changes started happening regarding how people responded to his creativity. Troy eventually saw bits of evidence of his success as a writer emerging.
Shortly thereafter, Troy had a dream.
A happy dream
The dream confused him because he didn’t know how to interpret it.
He dreamed about a regionally famous musician. In the dream, she was apologizing for breaking Troy’s heart. Troy told her she didn’t break his heart and in response, the musician expressed disappointment. Troy felt bad about that. So he changed his tune. He told her that his heart was broken. As soon as he did, both he and the musician laughed uproariously. Troy woke at that moment in confusion.
When Troy told me this dream, I was overjoyed. That’s because I knew exactly what it was about. After explaining it to him, Troy too was really happy about the dream because the dream told him a lot of things about where he is and where he’s headed.
On the surface, the dream was about Troy’s creative aspirations. But the dream had an even deeper meeting. Let’s take a look at both.
Desire goes both ways
The regionally successful musician in the dream represented Troy’s desire for stardom. The reason this particular star showed up in his dream is because she’s familiar. Troy performed as a back up musician for her. And, Troy does see her as very successful. This is important because the musician is regionally successful. She’s not an international star like Beyonce or Taylor Swift, for example.
That accords with the balance of Troy’s desire for success and his belief in his ability to be successful. He doesn’t see himself as either an international best selling author, or an internationally-recognized musician. His desires, in other words, are tempered by what he believes is possible: regional success. It’s no wonder then that the regionally successful performer showed up in his dream instead of Taylor Swift.
The performer’s apology represented Troy’s frustration and disappointment over not having the success he wants. Historically Troy blamed everyone other than himself about not being successful. So here his stardom was taking responsibility for his lack of stardom, which is exactly what Troy wants according to his beliefs.
But Troy acknowledged in the dream that his heart wasn’t broken. That represented Troy taking back his power, which he’s doing in waking life through his Positively Focused practice. This is an important element of his dream. Amplifying that will empower him further in waking life.
Something remarkable happens next in the dream. When he says his heart wasn’t broken, his stardom affects an air of disappointment. This is so important. It shows that Troy’s stardom wants him to want that stardom as much as Troy wants the stardom!
This is such an important feature of this dream, I want to spend a little time on it next.
Our desires live apart from us
Our desires are as alive as we are. And, like us, they desire. Their biggest desire is their full self-expression, much like a human desires its full self-expression.
So when we birth a desire, that desire wants fulfillment. So much so that if we don’t fulfill it, it will go elsewhere to pursue its fulfillment. That’s why sometimes a person will have a desire, not act on it, and then someone else will suddenly seemingly express that same desire into the world. What happened there is the desire went elsewhere because it “knew” it wasn’t going to be fulfilled with the first person.
Another way a desire will fulfill itself is by finding its fulfillment in another dimension, an alternate reality, if you will. Indeed, desires are so ravenous for self-expression, usually when one person has a desire, many others receive that same desire at the same time!
So desires are as alive as we are and seek self expression. Troy’s dream showed him his desire – stardom – wants Troy to fully express it! That’s why the musician expressed disappointment when Troy said his heart wasn’t broken. The desire wants to know Troy’s heart is in it, i.e. he wants to fulfill it.
As I mentioned earlier, an even deeper meaning came along with this dream. Let’s examine that next.
Dreams give us important information about our life trajectory. (Photo by Egor Vikhrev)
Our desires know…
At the end of the dream both Troy and his desire (the musician) busted out laughing when Troy apologized for telling the musician his heart wasn’t broken. This was a major message from this dream.
We are all eternal beings. In our eternity, we don’t experience any of life as dire, serious or even significant. As humans we sometimes feel all these things. But from our Broader Perspective, our lives here on earth are about joy, fun and expansion. That’s all. Our desires feel the same way.
In other words, and I write about this all the time, we’re here to have fun in our lives. Nothing serious is happening, and our desires know this. That’s why, when Troy apologized, the musician representing Troy’s stardom, and Troy himself, in the dream, burst out laughing.
While talking about this dream with Troy, I could see his demeanor change in real time. His shoulders relaxed. He became more thoughtful. Then a lightbulb went off in his head as we talked about how his stardom wants him as much as he wants it. I could tell Troy really enjoyed finding out what we talked about.
And this is the nature of the dream reality. There is so much useful, valuable information happening in that reality. It’s the same reality we come from before we’re born. I call it “nonphysical”.
Real life rewards
Awareness of nonphysical, whether through dreams or otherwise, can vastly improve our waking experience. It’s a wonder humans don’t avail themselves of this valuable knowledge when it’s so effing close to them and being offered every day. A lot of people don’t even realize they’re dreaming! Let alone recalling any dreams, or better yet, interpreting them accurately.
But everyone dreams. Including those who think they don’t. But they don’t realize it happening because they unconsciously block those experiences. How? By telling themselves they don’t dream.
We can see from Troy’s experience that dreams offer a lot of value. They tell us how we’re doing on our path to everything we want. And they can give us huge insights into what life is all about.
Dreams offer really great real-life rewards. That’s why I encourage all my clients to discover those rewards by exploring their dreams.
TL;DR:The author uses a client’s surprising example to show how astonishing life can be, they say, when one realizes thoughts and beliefs create reality and puts that realization into action.
I shouldn’t be astonished when clients produce mysterious-seeming joy in their lives. But every time it happens, I am astonished. That’s because how it happens is aways astonishing. It confirms how resourceful the Universe is in giving us what we want.
A client this week experienced something truly astonishing. He proved to himself how he creates his reality with help from a vast array of nonphysical beings. Beings focused on making his life a joyful journey.
What happened left him speechless. It also left him feeling deep wonder. What happened engaged nearly every aspect of the Positively Focused Way. He created which reflected back to him extremely disempowering beliefs about an important subject. In response to that, he then created an astonishing manifestation in a grocery store. Then, a series of dreams he had brought home an extremely powerful message; one the client couldn’t miss. In getting the message, the client soared to new, until-now unattained heights of fascination.
How this all happened reflects the power inherent in all of us. We are all gods in human form, folks. We’re here experiencing a human experience for the joy of it. The joy and satisfaction inherent in expanding All That Is is our birthright. There’s infinite power, pleasure and possibility in that. That power, pleasure and possibility also is within us. And when we choose expressing those three things deliberately, like this client did, then our lives reflect the miraculous inherent in the entire Universe.
Let’s look more at what happened.
Getting unstuck
This client once struggled with strong suicidal thoughts. Those thoughts came from extremely disempowering interpretations of his early life experiences. None of those past experiences were bad. Experience never is. Instead, they clued him in on aspects of himself he hadn’t known before. Aspects that would later bring him into alignment with the joyful life he knew was his.
Back then, though, the client, who I’ll call John, didn’t interpret those experiences this way. Instead he interpreted them as extremely negative. Over time, those negative interpretations built momentum within him. John made all those negative interpretations about himself. As a result, he hated himself. In time, those interpretations became beliefs about himself, which is why he wanted to kill himself.
Wanting to kill one’s self is a natural thing. It happens when someone builds up negative momentum born of negative interpretations that eventually become negative beliefs. Those beliefs then create real world experiences proving them “true”. When that happens, those experiences become more and more one’s reality. This process happens on any subject.
When a person finds themselves stuck in extremely strong, negative beliefs, especially about themselves, wanting to end it all often is the best outcome. Especially if the person can’t find a way out of that torment. And many can’t.
Even so, everyone can get unstuck. They came into human form for a reason. That reason didn’t include checking out early, even though some do. John was someone who found his way out. He happened to do so through the Positively Focused Way.
But we’re getting ahead of ourselves…
Projection is common
Like many people stuck in self-hatred, John projected his self-hatred out into the world. Projection happens a lot in humanity. It makes sense if you think about it. Very few people realize where their external reality comes from. They don’t know the external reality they see comes from their inner state of being. It makes sense then that if a person doesn’t know their external reality springs from their inner state – thoughts and beliefs – then rather than doing something about their thoughts and beliefs, they’ll blame their external reality for their troubles.
That often includes blaming other people. But people, like everything else in our lives, are reflections too. Versions of people we meet reflect back to us what’s going on in us. So if we meet a lot of angry people, for example, we must have anger in us. Meet a lot of loving, cuddly dogs? There’s love in us. Yes, it’s that simple.
The target of John’s projection was obvious: women. He blamed a lot of what he didn’t like on the fact that women wouldn’t give him attention. John didn’t realize women spurning him was happening because he spurned himself. So he blamed women. He projected his self-hatred on women, in other words.
It’s vibration, momentum and attraction…not effort
While projecting his hatred onto women, John also wanted women. More directly, he wanted sex. But his approach to women reflected the mixture of his beliefs and desires. He wanted sex. And he believed the kind of sex he wanted came from women. But he hated women as a projection of hating himself. So every time he tried to woo women’s attention, they would, in his words, reject him.
No wonder! The women were reflecting all of John’s self-rejection back to him. It’s also no wonder that John started paying (a lot) for coaching on the subject of “the art of seduction”. A particularly popular offerer of that content caught his attention. Before long, John was thousands of dollars into this approach.
But it never worked for him. Women kept spurning him.
I tell clients many things over and over. So much so I sound like a broken record, I know. But as one client said recently “Perry, sometimes it takes time for what you tell us to move from our heads to our hearts.” I totally get that because I was once in my clients’ shoes. So when you read what you’re about to read, I get that it won’t likely sink in. Ready? Here it comes:
Taking action doesn’t make ANYTHING happen. Everything happening is a result of vibration, momentum and attraction.
This explains why John’s indulgence in “seduction coaching” wasn’t working. All the action in the world, all the money in the world, can’t overcome negative momentum. Abraham puts it plainly:
Misogyny: projected self hatred
It’s no wonder John’s inability to get what he wanted through “seduction coaching” deepened his self-hatred. It seemed the more he tried, the worse he got rejected. At his wits end, he discovered Positively Focused.
It took a while, but John discovered several things about himself. One thing he realized was he had turned into a misogynist. He doesn’t like admitting this, but it’s accurate. In fact, I’d argue most misogynists have some self hatred going on. They’re projecting that hatred onto women and that makes them hate women.
But that’s another story.
One day, John expressed wanting to go out with a woman. This was after a long period of focusing on other priorities through the Positively Focused Way. I suggested he do so as a way of seeing how he was doing soothing his old beliefs. I told him the woman he would meet would be a perfect match to where he was now in soothing his self hatred. He’d learn a lot too, I told him.
He did learn a lot
The woman he met, let’s call her Meg, was quite a bit older than John. They decided to go on a hike. John was super clear with Meg about his disinterest in dating or even a relationship. He was, he said, exploring and really looking for a casual hook-up. Meg told him she was open to that, but she wasn’t ready just yet.
The hike went well. At the end of the day though, Meg hadn’t contacted John. When John reached out, Meg said in a text that she liked her time with him but didn’t think they were a match.
As you can imagine, this sent John into a tail spin. It triggered all his past beliefs about himself and, through projection, about women. Over four days, John doubled down on these old beliefs making himself more and more miserable in the process. As far as John was concerned, Meg was, in his words, a crazy bitch, a cunt and liar and more. All the while John felt more and more unwanted, rejected and miserable.
What John had trouble understanding over those days was the following. John wasn’t miserable because of what Meg did or didn’t do. John was miserable and angry, for sure. But those emotions told John something he really wanted to know. They told him beliefs he held about himself and women are not the same beliefs his Broader Perspective knows about those subjects.
This is an important bit of information and I’ll dive a bit deeper next because it’s important to understand. Knowing this information also helps us appreciate what happened next.
The valuable message of our emotions
Physical reality is, as I wrote above, a reflection. But a lot of people don’t know this. They also don’t know they come equipped with a hugely beneficial tool to help them move through this reflection towards a reflection full of everything they want. That tool is their emotions.
Every human is, of course, more than human. We are all eternal beings. We’re also much more than can fit into a single human body. So when we become human, we put a portion of us into the human body. Meanwhile the vast majority of what we are remains in nonphysical; the place from which we come.
When we sort of split ourselves up like that, that part of us remaining outside our bodies enjoys a birds eye view of our lives. That part of us can see all the choices we might, will and will not make. It sees the alternate probable future realities flowing from all those choices. Yes, even the ones we will not make. All of these futures fulfill our main purpose for being, which is expanding All That Is and ourselves in the process. So our Broader Perspective is keenly, always, seeing what’s happening as uber positive.
It also delights in wherever we are in the moment because it can see how where we are is the perfect place for us at that moment. So it always sees our present moment in the most positive light. When we don’t see our present moment that way, we feel negative emotion.
So emotions help us integrate the part of us in our bodies with the part of us that remains where we come from. I’ll share why that integration is important next.
It’s all about inspired action
Because our Broader Perspective enjoys that birds eye view, and because it knows what we want at all times, it constantly sends us messages – clues or gut feelings – which will lead us to what we want. But to receive those messages, we must open ourselves to perceiving them. We do that by integrating ourselves, matching our perspective of life in our physical bodies to the perspective of our life our Broader Perspective has. Do that and we can “hear” the messages.
Follow the messages and our life unfolds in a seeming magical way. Everything we want comes easily, often with no effort. Remember what you read above about action? Action doesn’t make things happen. What action does do is, when we take it, that action positions us in the reality coordinates of time and space where the final unfolding of what we want appears.
Inspired action is action taken as a result of hearing our Broader Perspective’s messages. When we get a message and we follow it immediately, we rendezvous with a delightful unfolding. But All That Is is always in motion. So if we delay, if we hesitate when we get a message, then we miss the rendezvous. Taking inspired action immediately then, is key.
So emotions, are guides. They help us know, at any given moment, how aligned we are with our Broader Perspective. That tells us whether we can hear messages we send ourselves. And, when we hear the message and take the inspired action, we rendezvous with the ongoing Charmed Life I write about here. The life where everything happens with very little effort.
Let’s turn back to John’s story now.
A huge gift given to himself
It took a long time for John to understand what I was telling him when I told him, in response to his vitriol, that Meg was actually an angel he created for himself to see how his beliefs are making himself miserable. And that his misery, which is an emotion, was also a huge gift he was sending himself.
Can you see how it was a huge gift?
And for sure, Meg was an angel. Another way of putting it is, Meg was a reality John created for himself as a reflection, so that he can do something about his beliefs. She was, what we call a cooperative component to John getting what he wants. For he can’t get what he wants if he’s not integrated with his Broader Perspective. And “misery” tells him he’s not integrated!
So his experience with Meg was a huge gift.
As I told him before, Meg was also a perfect match to John. She was unsure of what she wanted as much as he was. She reflected his self-rejection back to him by expressing no future interest in him. Again, it wasn’t something John wanted to hear. I’m so glad therefore that the Universe stepped in and offered John an experience that brought that message home. What happened next was astonishing.
An astonishing unfolding
John felt a bit better after our talk. It took a while, but we’re all eternal, so how long it takes doesn’t matter. One day he got the inspired action to go to Whole Foods. He didn’t realize this was inspired action though. He just thought he was running an errand. That perspective was about to completely change.
While shopping, a little girl came up to John and, as he describes it, started a delightful conversation with him. John described her as “sweet” in a text he sent me just after the encounter.
But what really surprised me was what John texted next. Mind you, he was feeling much better after venting his vitriol at someone (me) who could channel that energy to his benefit rather than amplify it. Here’s his interpretation of that Whole Foods rendezvous:
Isn’t that an astonishing interpretation? Of course, when John shared that he couldn’t help but feel extremely positive emotion about himself, about the girl and about the experience. That’s because this interpretation was spot on. It also was exactly why the Universe brought him and the child together: so that he could further soothe his bogus beliefs. Beliefs about women and about himself.
John said he didn’t have words to express how delightful that experience was. He felt a shift happen in him, something that he hadn’t felt before. And he couldn’t believe it happened the way it did; through an experience with a child.
What happened next surprised John even more.
Dreams are critical
Over the next several nights, John had a series of dreams. These dreams took him to new heights of wonder and amazement.
Dream work is a big part of the Positively Focused Practice. That’s because dreams are a big part of life. Ninety-five percent of what’s necessary for us to have what we want happens in nonphysical. “Dream state” is another way of describing nonphysical. When we dream, we leave our bodies in bed. We join all the cooperative components in nonphysical. There we witness and interact with those components as they assemble everything needed – people, events, resources – so our desires unfold.
The reason I include dream work in the Positively Focused Practice is because conscious awareness of what’s happening when we sleep builds confidence and trust that all we want is happening on our behalf. Conscious awareness of dream activity is also extremely satisfying.
Another reason dream work is important is because it makes us aware that we are far more than our physical bodies. We become acquainted with all the other dimensions, the alternate and probable realities, in which we are active, just as we are active here in this reality.
Acquainting ourselves with our broader activities also lessens our fear of death and increases our belief that we are eternal. So dream work is a critical part of the practice.
John’s crucible
I ask clients that they record their dreams so we can interpret them together. This helps clients become more familiar with the dream world. It also softens their resistance to perceiving dreams.
Everyone dreams, but for important reasons, most people don’t know they dream. Many who do often forget them the moment they wake.
John fits in this category. Even so, he realized over several dreams in the ensuing days that he was sending himself an important message as evidenced in his text:
In our next session John and I marveled over these dreams. They were cluing him in on the process he’s going through, which very much feels to him like a crucible. Interestingly, John had never heard of the word before this. A crucible is something, usually a process something or someone goes through, that includes a severe trial. And through that trial a purification process happens.
So John realized these dreams were about soothing himself around the idea that he’s doing the work. Doing the work and benefitting from the work he’s doing. John was stunned in how applicable his dreams were. And he marveled the whole session about how well he was doing.
The unfolding in totality
I would love to end this story here, but that would be disingenuous. For as much as this experience moved John, he’s still struggling with reality as created by him, according to his still dominant negative belief momentum.
To understand what happened next, we have to recap what happened over the week I’m sharing about. John took my advice to test out his current vibrational state on the subject of his self-hatred and projecting that self-hatred onto women, by going out with one. That experience matched him with a person perfectly matching his vibration, Meg, who reflected perfectly back to John where he currently is.
John struggled over the next few days, but was able to finally soothe some of his negative momentum on the subject of himself and women. Soothing himself, he came into alignment with his Broader Perspective, which nudged him into Whole Foods where he rendezvoused with a fabulous amplification of the ongoing learning, which came in the form of a child.
Meanwhile, John further soothed himself in dreams in which he realized he was moving through a crucible.
But the Universe and his Broader Perspective weren’t done. In the marvelous, astonishing experience with that child, John integrated even more with his Broader Perspective. And so, the Universe brought him another gift.
A sick thrill
As we expand, the Universe will deliver more opportunity to expand even further. This is the never-ending process of expansion for ourselves and All That Is. It can’t be stated strongly enough: this is a NEVER-ENDING PROCESS. It’s that process of never-ending expansion that gives birth to our eternity.
John was in a strong post-expansion state of awareness in his realization of how profound his Whole Foods rendezvous was. So, John, the Universe and his Broader Perspective served up another opportunity for expansion. What that looked like was a surfacing of a series of old beliefs John has which also must be soothed for continued expansion.
These beliefs involved two subjects John has a lot of negative momentum around. One has to do with friends who, in John’s telling “rejected”, “disrespected” and “marginalized” him during what he would say was a time of need in his life. The other has to do with how he felt, again, disrespected, used and marginalized, by a transgender woman for whom he has extremely strong positive feelings.
But John didn’t see the surfacing of these beliefs, and their associated negative emotion, as an expansion opportunity. Instead, he let these beliefs trigger even more powerful, negative emotions. Until he found himself in the depths of powerlessness, grief and, again, self-hatred:
John sent the text above two days our session in which we talked about his dreams and after doing exactly what his text described over those two days.
It’s good we’re eternal
Many clients struggle with this. This “you create your reality” business is serious. It can be fun too, thrilling even, when you see everything you want happening with no effort on your part.
But until one builds evidence of that happening, it can be a real slog.
We can’t create a new reality without soothing the reality we’ve created. And if that created reality is extremely negative, then it’s going to take a while to soothe it. And, that reality will keep asserting itself, not as punishment, but because of momentum. Which is why it’s a good idea to see it reasserting itself as a positive thing.
This is another reason why it’s a good thing we’re eternal. There’s no rush to John soothing his hold momentum, wherein he’s numbing himself and feeling suicidal. He has all of eternity to do it. And he is doing it.
The empowering news is, he’s the only one who can do it. No one else will or can stand in his way and prevent the work from happening. No one but him. For just as he’s the only one who can do it, he’s also the only one who can keep himself from doing it. That applies to every client. It also applies to every person.
No one prevents any of us from having what we want. We all do that to ourselves. That’s why it’s so important to get that our reality springs from our thoughts and beliefs. Armed with that knowledge, we can create any reality we want. We can literally turn misery into a joyous mystery.
TL;DR: The author shares another out of body experience, the best they’ve yet experienced. They also explain what value exists in having such experiences. Then they differentiate their experience from dreams, asserting this was as real an experience as waking reality.
This experience was astounding. I know I write that each out of body travel I experience is “the best”, but it’s true…each is better than the last.
“Astounding” is accurate because, here I am, I’m sitting in my bed, having just did an hour meditation. During that meditation, about halfway through, I experience the most profound, clear and astonishing travel outside my body I’ve had to date.
This post is about that experience and how blessed I feel about what happened.
Finding vibrational harmony is key
Traveling outside my body is on the list of occult practices I’m developing as I pursue my Positively Focused practice. The practice posits that when one finds vibrational harmony with All That Is and their Broader Perspective, then anything is possible. If we can think it, we can experience it.
But doing so requires finding vibrational harmony. That’s not easy. The reason it’s not easy is because nearly every human, me included, comes into the world having forgotten who and what they are. They come into the world through people who’ve come before them, who also have forgotten. In that forgetting, we immediately become insecure. Then we look to those who came before us for guidance.
And when we do that, we often crate and amplify bogus beliefs about life and about ourselves. My extensive work with Positively Focused clients proves this. Those beliefs run counter to vibrational harmony with All That Is because All That Is knows what we’ve forgotten. Those bogus beliefs create a kind of interference pattern which blocks us from our knowing. When that happens, our life experience, which is a reflection of our vibratory state, shows us what’s happening in us. It shows us through life experiences matching that inner interference.
Humans describe those experiences typically as “negative”. But they’re not negative. They’re positive. They’re happening so we can know what’s going on inside us. And when we use such experiences that way, we gradually recover our natural vibrational harmony. When that happens, seemingly remarkable things become available too. Like being able to travel outside the body.
Dreams or out of body?
What’s really interesting is, like dream experience, travel outside the body is rarely the same for everyone as an experience. So the experience is unique to the particular point of consciousness we are. Which explains why science will probably never acknowledge such experience as real: travel to one particular alternate dimension cannot be confirmed by having others go there. That seems to be confirmed by my experience and the experience variety of my clients. Still, more exploration is needed though.
Dreams, of course, are travels out of the body. Our bodies remain in bed, asleep. Meanwhile, our consciousness returns to the place where we come from. This process happens “automatically”; dreams aren’t consciously triggered. Well, neither are out of body experiences. Both happen through a process called “allowing”. Still, a difference separates out of body experiences from dreams.
Occult experiences are as available to us as our dreams. (Photo by Loren Culter)
One difference is what we’re doing. In our dreams we do go into nonphysical, but we remain in the same vibrational vicinity of our earthly existence. The purpose of dreams is highly related to what we’re doing here. We don’t go off exploring. Instead, we process information in nonphysical and get guidance on our purposes here on earth. We also participate in assembling future earthly experiences we’re wanting. We select those things we want to experience in “physical” while experiencing in nonphysical things we’d rather not in physical. Things that would be too intense to experience as physical reality.
Nonphysical is vast. It’s literally infinite. In conscious out of body experiences, we explore some of that infinity. We’re not concerned with earthly conditions and experiences. Such travel is for the joy. But a lot more too.
The value of such explorations
The value of astral travel is multilayered. First and foremost, it’s an exhilarating experience. Once you know what you’re doing, and know that you’re allowing it, that awareness is an amazing thing. To go places unavailable to “human” consciousness is thrilling. Seeing these alternate realities, some of which resemble Earth not at all, is amazing!
We all live simultaneously in unlimited numbers of alternate realities making up the infinity of All That Is. And while that’s 100 percent accurate, that fact matters little in a practical way relative to our daily life. Unless, that is, we experience those other realities in which we exist with our own consciousness. When that happens, the value calculation totally changes.
The experience is different from being in physical reality. It’s as all-immersive as this reality, only it’s FAR MORE EMOTIONALLY SATISFYING. And that emotional satisfaction is soooooo good feeling, when I come back from such travels I’m marveling, basking in rich, deep and intense feelings of joy, thrill, love and belonging. I also feel my expanded nature. I KNOW I’m more than this physical body.
Those other worlds I visit too are so engrossing. I’m FULLY in that dimension. This dimension – Earth – is completely blotted out. When I come back, it’s like I return to a foreign place. It looks familiar, but it feels completely different. THAT is an experience that must be experienced. And that experience leads to the biggest value such travels offer.
Direct knowledge that I’m eternal
That value is also the most practical to our everyday lives here on earth. Having such experiences, it’s impossible to deny that they happened. And, as more pile up, it becomes obvious we are more than this one body on this planet.
The experiences, in other words, confirm that we are eternal beings, far more than what we are here, in these bodies. Coming into that awareness, we naturally start relaxing into our eternal lives. We give up rushing and being impatient. Our death grip on reality loosens. Anxiety starts to ebb. Stress gradually leaves our experience. A lot of emotional and physical problems resolve themselves. We become more of what and who we are: eternal beings enjoying a human experience, in our now.
There’s no better practical value than that!
And from there, the world literally is our oyster. We can create anything we want. After all, we’re creating what we’ve got, including all the things we like about life and all those things we don’t. Why not create a life with more of what we want and none of what we don’t? I’ll tell you why.
Because as long as we believe physical reality is real, and that we are limited to this one life, we cannot create deliberately. Instead, we live insecure lives. We live lives where we must get jobs, depend on others for our income, and suffer through experiences we’d rather not have.
I think that life sucks. Especially when such a better life is available to all of us.
So what was my experience like?
Let’s look now at what my travel was like. It was trippy, for sure. I traveled to an alternate existence. One quite different from today, but with similar features. And, the experiences I had, as I mentioned above, were deeply satisfying.
I should add here that these experiences didn’t make a lot of sense. I think that was because I came into the experience in the middle of the unfolding. And I left not long after. But I was “in” long enough to make coming back seem very foreign.
I came “in” in an open, futuristic space. It was very expansive, with a road leading into the horizon. No buildings were visible other than the cantilever overhang of the building I stood near. Next to me stood a trans woman resembling the woman from the Apple TV show Loot. Another trans woman stood in mid distance of the scene I saw. The first woman and I talked about the dating potential of the other woman. We also talked about who she’s currently dating…then, as abruptly as I arrived in that scene, I left. I then appeared in the next scene…
This part of the experience filled me with a lot of joy. I’m attracted to transgender women, so coming into that experience was very pleasurable, as was talking to that being who resembled Michaela Jaé Rodriquez. I can’t say how I knew it was a future reality. There were no indications — flying cars, for example — indicating a futuristic environment. I just knew it was the future.
The eyeglass shop
Abrupt transition took me to a totally different location. It was as pleasing as the first one, and had some connections to my waking reality as I had, the day before gone to the optometrist to order some new glasses…
…I’m talking with some others and preparing to go somewhere. I tell them goodbye, then leave. But then I double back and go into a shop. It’s very beautiful in there with accent lighting and tall, beige walls. There, on the wall, are several kinds of eyeglasses. While examining them, a tall, slender guy I recognize as being “superior” to me comes in and a woman comes from around a counter. They start talking with each other but not before the guy says to me “you lied”. He meant that I didn’t head off like I said I would. He’s being lighthearted, I know, when he says that. I continue examining the eyeglasses before heading out…
This environment was not only pleasant but interactions I had were amusing. That’s the main feeling of this travel; amusement. The glasses I saw were gorgeous, as was the space in which they were displayed. The people in the space both were very tall and I think the “superior” feeling was an interpretation of them being at a higher vibration than the Earth plane….
Entering the cooking show?
So I leave that location and appear in what I think is a kitchen. There…
A casserole pan of food is ready. Someone tells me to go put it in the dryer. I carry the pot with two pot holders to the laundry room. I go in and put the pot on a high shelf.It’s a long, narrow room. It feels more like hallway than a room.
Two dryers are in this space. One is running. I open the door of one not running. There’s an insulation insert in it. I take it out and notice some slots for a shelf, like modern-day dryers. But they’re not secured very well. I know they won’t hold the pan.
Above the dryer is the dryer shelf. I try putting the shelf on the slots, but they’re not arranged right, so I start fixing them. At that moment, a man and woman come up behind me. They’re talking about an episode of a show or play or something and the woman asks me to sing for them one of the songs from it. I know the song, but don’t sing it. I’m too busy working on getting the pot in the dryer.
Meanwhile, the pot on the shelf where I put it has turned into a version of a wooden briefcase I once had…back in the 90s. I put the briefcase on a comforter which, folded on a shelf across the narrow room from the dryers. Then I turn back to arranging the slots on the dryer…
Fascination, wonder and…where am I?
When I came back into my body, I was astounded at the break I felt. I was COMPLETELY unaware of my body laying on my bed. I was COMPLETELY unaware of the surroundings of my apartment. Coming back here to this plane, in this apartment, felt familiar, but at the same time it also felt very foreign. It was as though I hadn’t been in my apartment in a very long time.
Even my body felt strange.
This experience happened in a 60-minute meditation session. My apartment was quiet, the lights off. I lay on my bed, naked under a duvet. About 30 minutes passed before the travel began. I knew that because I time my meditations with my watch and the watch chimes when it’s halfway through the meditation. The travel itself took the remainder of that 30 minutes.
My heartbeat was pretty flat at about 50 BPM, which is about normal for me when I experience such trips:
My heart rate at a near flat 50BPM
Could I have been dreaming?
Some might claim I dreamt. But my watch also can tell when I’m sleeping. Not only can it tell when I’m sleeping at night, but even when I take a nap. So this meditation session, had I fallen asleep, would have registered as a nap on my watch, which it did not. I wasn’t asleep. So I wasn’t dreaming.
What’s more, I was totally aware of what I was doing and where I was. Meaning, I knew I wasn’t on Earth and I also knew I wasn’t in my body. My awareness also told me I could end this experience whenever I wanted, which I did as soon as I heard my watch signal the hour had elapsed. In other words, I was consciously aware of what was happening. When I dream, I’m usually aware, but the quality of my awareness isn’t as though I’m awake. In these experiences, I was fully awake where I was.
Two naps recorded during a 24 hour period last month. The graph in the center is my overnight sleep period. Below is my graph from last night. No nap recorded.
This is the most definitive, most delineated travel outside my body yet. I was for sure in an alternate dimension. And, as I said, when I came back into my body, I felt a bit confused, but also extremely satisfied with what I knew was an out of body experience.
The best yet
These kinds of experiences come after a long time practicing what I share with my Positively Focused clients. I believe it takes quite a bit of soothing before a person can achieve these kinds of experiences.
Some people have predispositions for these kinds of experiences. In other words, their natural familiarity with such abilities makes such experiences easy. I don’t think that’s the case for the majority of us. But I do believe they are available to all of us, depending on our ability to sooth beliefs which block the ability.
As I said, my clients are getting to that point. Many are now in various levels of the dream work, which I consider to be prerequisite to out of body travels. Knowing one dreams, being aware when dreaming then recalling dreams seems to prepare people for more conscious, deliberate travels outside the body. At least that’s the case with me.
By far this was the best out of body travel I’ve had yet. And yet, I know the nature of this work is that things continuously improve with no limit on how much improvement can happen. So I fully expect future travels will be even more rewarding that what happened today.
TL;DR: The author shares their admiration for the Apple TV series and compares it to experiences they have had with alternate dimension travel.
There’s a lot to like about Apple TV’s mind-bending series Dark Matter. Indeed, a lot of people are raving about the show. It enjoys a solid 83 percent on Rotten tomatoes and IMDB rates it at a very near 8 on its user-review scale.
Admittedly, I’m only at the first season’s fourth episode. Still, the story is well-grounded in excellence. The writing and acting are great. I’m enjoying the storytelling too. But what’s blowing my mind so far is how Dark Matter’s creators have nailed the process of visiting infinite dimensions comprising what they call the Multiverse.
And while the series’ story, acting, writing and technical aspects merit accolades, I believe the series’ success rests largely in another aspect of the show. That is, Dark Matter resonates with deep knowledge humanity possesses. Its creators, consciously or not, are urging humanity to expand beyond its limiting beliefs.
There’s a lot to explore here. Let’s jump in.
What is Dark Matter (the show)
Before we get to the fun stuff, I realize some may not have seen Dark Matter yet. It first aired on May 8 this year, so even I’m late to the party. I didn’t know about it until a client raved about its premise.
Like me, the show surprised her. That’s because the show’s “technical” details of alternate dimension travels accord very much with what she’s learning in her Positively Focused practice.
She said I should watch it. I just started watching this month. So if you don’t know about the show, here’s a brief, non-spoiler explanation. At least as far as I know it.
Dark Matter is about a science teacher in our present dimension. An alternate version of him succeeded in traveling through alternate dimensions through an invention the science teacher imagined, but didn’t follow through on. When the teacher chose not to follow through, physical reality forked to where a version of him did follow through, thus creating the breakthrough in an alternate reality.
But the version of the teacher who made the breakthrough is unhappy. He regrets decisions he made. So he travels to the science teacher’s dimension and abducts him with plans to replace him in our dimension. He leaves the teacher in his reality, bewildered and alone and surrounded by people demanding his genius.
That’s all I know so far.
Evidence proves it accurate
What you just read already reveals how accurate this series is. For indeed, every move we make in this reality creates multidimensional forks in “time”.
From that fork, infinite versions of what happens next come into being. Each of those versions include choice(s) we didn’t make, thereby allowing All That Is to explore all possible versions of reality.
Now, I know, it’s hard to accept what you just read as actually happening without evidence that it’s happening. That’s why, in the Positively Focused practice advanced sessions, we introduce meditation and dream work. Through meditation and dream work, we’re introduced to all these alternate versions of ourselves. We get to experience those alternate dimensions forking from our actions. With practice, we can visit those dimensions at will.
Doing so requires pretty heroic focus. It takes an unusual desire to get this far in the practice. Several clients are at the beginning stages of that level and what they’re finding is astonishing them.
What I’ve found astonishes me still. But that’s another story.
A deeply satisfying adventure
Dark Matter astonishes me too. It’s astonishing to me because it puts out there, right in the open, an invitation for human beings to expand beyond what they are. I write about this all the time and tell my clients the same.
Those ready to receive the invitation don’t see the show the same way those not ready to receive it do. The latter group just finds the show an engaging escape, an entertaining sci-fi drama that delivers. For the former group however, they find themselves inexplicably moved. Some of the moved ones will dismiss what’s happening.
But a small number of those might question what they’re experiencing. They might go so far as to try out for themselves perceiving their alternate lives. When they do, they begin a path that is irreversible. Irreversible and deeply satisfying should they continue.
And I believe this is the deeper message behind all good art. Artists offer themselves as conduits for All That Is. And their art communicates deeply accurate messages about reality, the Universe and ourselves. Moving pictures are some of the most powerful art.
Dark Matter offers a highly accurate communication. Its premises are real. As are the possibilities. But like all communication, distortions exist in the show. I want to look at those next.
They’re not fatal
Remember, I’ve only seen four episodes. So there’s probably more in store for my experience. Still the distortions, once understood, can be dispensed with. Do that and the message becomes far more accurate.
Many distortions in film, for example, involve good intentions of the creators. They’re making entertainment after all. So they often overly complicate the story to keep it engaging. They also include a lot of violence that’s not as reflective as what’s really happening. Another thing they do is include random acts that don’t make sense in the context of what’s really happening in the world outside of the show.
For example, it wouldn’t be possible for an alternate version of me to come into my reality, abduct me and take me back to his reality. Many reasons explain why this is so.
Firstly, subatomic particles comprising our bodies are the same ones comprising our alternate versions. Such particles not only vibrate, but also blink “on” and “off” in our reality. When they’re “off” here, they are “on” in our alternate realities. And when they’re “off” in those realities, they’re “on” here.
So it wouldn’t be possible for an alternate me and me to exist physically in the same reality. And that’s where things get really….interesting.
It gets interesting because if that’s the case then the alternate reality in which I meet myself must not exist, which means not all alternate realities happen.
But hold on, partner. That reality does exist. It just doesn’t exist in such a way that we can do what the Dark Matter characters do in the series.
[So I’m getting more and more exited writing about this because doing so is opening so many avenues to explore. I realize I must keep this post as short as possible, so I’m doing my best not to get too excited!]
We are not our bodies. We are what Seth calls the “Gestalt consciousness” that rides in, among and through the collective consciousness that is our bodies. That collective includes subatomic particles in our bodies, each of which enjoys consciousness as well.
It has to be true that we’re not our bodies, because at death, we continue existing even though the body deconstructs.
TThis is obvious in what humans call dreaming. There, we can see, hear, taste, communicate and even think and move around. We’re obviously doing all that outside our bodies. For as we engage in what we call the dream, our bodies are back under the covers in our beds!
What we are is conscious energy. We are vibration beings living a much bigger and more interesting experience than the ones we put ourselves into through these bodies.
In the dream state then, and in other altered consciousness experiences, we can visit our alternate selves. We do that every night when we dream. And Positively Focused clients are also learning to do that consciously, while awake.
But there’s even more happening. Something that also makes the Dark Matter plot fall apart. Let’s look at that next.
Nesting doll reality of All That Is
Each of our selves, living in each of these dimensions, live there while simultaneously connected to every other self. Not only that, each of those selves are constantly communicating and influencing one another. That makes sense when we consider the nature of our Broader Perspective.
Our Broader Perspective is that part of us that gave birth to us from a fork in its experience. It is that larger part of us remaining in nonphysical and guiding us through our human experience. It is us, as we are us in our bodies. It’s just a broader part of us.
That broader part of us also has a Broader Perspective. Like Russian nesting dolls, this lineage of Broader Perspectives run incessantly, all the way “back” to the original being that got all this All That Is started. Of course, there was no beginning. All That Is has been and always will be.
The point of all this is that there’s no need for one of our selves to come take over another of ourselves. That’s because each of us experiences viscerally in the dream state and other consciousness levels all that the other selves experience. We literally can feel their experiences. And that’s why living positively in this experience has such huge ramifications.
How we be in this life affects every other “life” that is ours in these other dimensions. And when we live this life positively, not only do we enjoy positive experiences as reflections of that inner state, we also influence all our other selves in their dimensions. Indeed, they affect us too, which is why sometimes we might find ourselves inexplicably sad, or pensive…or happy.
Our Broader Perspective relationship resembles Russian Nesting Dolls. (Photo by Didssph on Unsplash)
Thoughts are powerful, but momentum more so
There’s another distortion that happens I’m almost sure was because the show creators wanted to make the show exciting. In another part of the show, the teacher and a mental health practitioner begin exploring alternate dimensions through the device the other version of the teacher created. Their travels are chaotic and harrowing. Every alternate reality they find is a post-apocalyptic rendition of Earth.
The characters realize at one point that their thoughts just before opening a door are what causes them to enter said renditions. This is hogwash. To understand why, we must consider momentum.
Momentum is the basis of thoughts turning to things. That includes any kind of thought about experiencing supernatural abilities. Everyone naturally understands momentum. We talk about how it takes a long distance to stop a freight train, or how a cargo ship can’t “turn on a dime”. In other words, the more momentum an object has, the less likely that object will change direction.
The same is true with thoughts.
Since every human is first a pure, positive energy being, each enjoys an extremely strong momentum of positive orientation. This especially holds when considering most of us have lived very large numbers of previous lives. Our thoughts and intentions have a lot of momentum therefore.
This includes beliefs about whether it’s even possible to visit another dimension. Most of us don’t believe that’s possible. That explains why most don’t recognize having such experiences.
So a blithe thought one moment isn’t going to have enough momentum to move someone into another reality, especially one that is frightening, like a post-apocalyptic alternate reality.
But there’s a caveat.
Thoughts and momentum work together
In nonphysical, where alternate realities intertwine, very little resistance exists. As a result, it is very easy to get momentum going within the relatively small resistance levels there. But even then, it would take more than a passing thought, while in that altered state, to manifest or draw to us a harrowing alternate experience.
We can experience such experiences, but they usually happen after we’ve focused a bit on an unpleasant scenario. Another way such an experience can easily happen is if a lot of negative momentum exists around dominant negative thoughts and beliefs. This explains why in our practice we strive to live as positively as possible. Because when we do transition, whatever thought-momentum we possess we take with us in our return to nonphysical. That can be a problem.
For example, a Christian who fears going to hell and is unsure whether they lived a godly life will experience the content of their focus: hellish conditions. Someone who believes strongly that there is no afterlife, that life just ends and we blink out of existence when we die, will experience that too. They will have no experience of an afterlife.
The good news is, this is temporary. After a time guides will come to assist such people out of their torment and beyond their limiting beliefs.
The point is, it’s not possible to visit a hellscape version of reality off the bat. Unless the explorer already has a lot of thought-momentum about such realities. Thoughts alone can’t buck our existing momentum. And both characters seem to be somewhat positive people.
A gift All That Is inspired
As you’ve read, there’s no reason for one of our selves to take over another self’s life. Even if it wanted to, which it doesn’t, it can’t. But it sure makes for an engaging show!
Each self enjoys an intimate, visceral experience of every other self. Those selves also are in communication. That’s right, even though we don’t usually have conscious experience of this communication, it’s happening constantly.
In the Positively Focused advanced practices we learn how to hear this communication. With practice and tests, we can come to trust such communication. Indeed, it’s that communication that has me living the life I currently live, free from working for a living and enjoying the spiritual life I enjoy as a spiritual “teacher”.
Thoughts, beliefs and momentum are, in a sense, the basic building blocks of All That Is. We enjoy this reality because of them. But there’s so much more we can explore!
There are many other distortions we can talk about in Dark Matter. But I think it’s more important to enjoy the show for entertainment’s sake while paying attention to any cues one might have urging one to lean in the direction of exploring alternate realities. Those cues are not only important, they can be an immense source of deep, profound satisfaction.
Dark Matter is a gift inspired by All That Is consciousness. It gets a lot right about what’s really going on in the multiverse.
TLDR: A series of vivid, emotional dreams led to a deeply cathartic experience, resolving internal struggles with a sense of homecoming and fulfillment. This transformative journey left the writer feeling great and eager for more extraordinary living.
Wow. It’s 0736. I just woke feeling wonder. There’s a massive smile on my face. Happiness flows through me as well as a sense of powerful worthiness.
Worthiness is an important feeling. All my clients start out far from feeling worthy. A lack of worthiness plagues all of humanity. It’s complicated, but that unworthiness feeling explains all the drama humans create as a species and as individuals.
For me, however, my worthiness is growing by leaps and bounds. This morning offered yet another expansion of it. An expansion I am conscious of. And that consciousness, that awareness, is why I’m feeling wonder.
Here’s what happened.
Unpleasant is communication
Over the last few weeks, I noticed decisions I’ve made that resulted in less than desirable results. I won’t describe what the decisions were. That’s because I’d rather amplify vibrations associated with what’s having me feel wonder and worthiness. And focusing on the decisions will amplify that old momentum.
Suffice it to say the decisions were ones I noticed brought me unpleasant manifestations. Looking from the outside, you might describe these manifestations as extremely minor. Not like my newest client, who yesterday got T-boned while driving her cat in her Tesla to the Vet. No, my unpleasant manifestations these days are minuscule compared to that.
But like all unpleasant manifestations, they came in a cluster. A cluster of increasingly intense events. That intensity cluster was good. It caught my attention. And in that, I could do something about what was unfolding. If we don’t see what’s happening, we can’t do anything about it. I’m so glad I can see what’s happening.
So last night, I made a different decision. I decided I wanted to change my trajectory.
That’s what happened. But how it happened was extraordinary.
Leverage found in sleep
What happened all happened in dream state. While everyone dreams, hardly anyone understands what happens in that state. Even those who interpret dreams and those who do “dream therapy” likely don’t understand dreams. What’s happening in dreams is far more sophisticated than we know. And far more powerful.
What humans call dreams actually exist on many planes. These planes or dimensions are so numerous, the human brain can’t comprehend what’s happening. But our Broader Perspective, that larger part of us, understands it fully. What’s more, that part of us guides dream activity.
What we do while awake informs that activity. But dreams influence our waking experience in return. When a human can directly, deliberately use dream influence, life gets really interesting. For then we can use that influence to improve life experience.
That’s what happened last night.
It feels like it happened for me, instead of me making it happen. And that’s the yumminess of worthiness. Because everything that happens happens for us. In other words, we’re not making anything happen. We set our focus, then the Universe coordinates outcomes. Outcomes best fitting our focus or intention.
I got a direct experience of that last night. And, frankly, it feels AH-mazing seeing it unfold!
The “topography” of last night’s dream experience.
Proficiency produces powerful dream experience
I had three “segments” of dreams. The first came before my mid-night meditation. The second happened after that mediation. The third immediately followed the second. Several dreams comprised each segment. In total, I dreamed at least 15 dreams. All were extremely vivid and real, just like being awake. But the emotional “tone” or “flavor” of them was far more intense than waking reality.
Seth talks about senses we use in the dream state. Some correspond with our waking senses; seeing, hearing, etc. But some senses don’t correspond to waking senses. Perceiving through emotion is one of those. I can attest to the power of this sense. It feels absolutely intense. And whether it’s unpleasant emotion or pleasant emotion, it is that way…intense.
Which is why nightmares frighten us so.
In the first segment, I found myself in several different realities. I was in a suburb with houses, streets, sidewalks. But the place was nothing like waking reality. Where I was probably doesn’t even exist on this plane.
These first dreams all featured me making choices. While making them, I felt confused. I couldn’t decide what to choose. For example, I was in someone’s home. I was trying to choose a ball. The homeowner offered a variety from which to choose. There were many kinds of balls – basketballs, dodgeballs, etc. Some were old. Others were new. But, for some reason, I couldn’t choose.
On the way to that person’s home, I drove on a highway. While following traffic, I noticed I needed to follow the highway to the right. I didn’t do that though. Instead, I curved left. But I knew I wanted to go right!
Both of these are examples of me making decisions that resulted in unpleasant outcomes. You can see that they mimicked what I did while awake.
The set up continues
In the second segment, I walked through a dance club. To get there, I had to drive through an unfamiliar city at night. I parked my vehicle in the parking lot, then went inside. Inside, I met several unseemly youths. After those encounters, I decided to leave. But when I got outside, I noticed my vehicle was gone. I had just bought it. But then I realized my bad purchase decision: I bought a truck that was easy to steal.
Coaxing the youths to tell me who took it didn’t work. They took it, I knew, but they weren’t admitting it. At this point in the dream series I tried mightily to fix my decisions. Doing so got me feeling really intense negative emotion. Emotion that also was highly disempowering. It felt like despair, a wanting to give up. Highly uncharacteristic of me!
And this is another value of dream reality. It’s like a testing ground. It gives us experiences we won’t want in real life. There, we can experiment with them, and learn from them without having to live the dream “for real”.
I remember waking from the first segment feeling really clear those dreams were about my recent choices in waking reality. Waking from this second segment, it was clear how choices in the dream aligned with beliefs I have. Beliefs I’m wanting to change.
After that I went into the third segment. What happened next prompted this post.
Non sequiturs create resolution
In the third segment, I realized the purpose of this whole process. And the feeling I felt associated with that was extraordinary.
The dreams involved me being in the company of a beautiful being. I felt great comfort in their company. “Comfort” doesn’t do the feeling justice. Words can’t describe the power and pleasure of what I felt. We sat with others who watched a sporting event on television. I felt I belonged among these beings.
One of them, a female, stood before me. She had a beautiful body. Tattoos covered every inch of it. She said, without using any words, that she wanted to remove them. And that’s what she did. She peeled them away one by one with her fingers. As she did this, I felt something…a kind of release….
Then I was in an open area of low-lying buildings. My older brother stood beside me. Beneath our feet was a hand-woven rug of Middle Eastern origin. These fantastic planes flew above us. One after another passed over us and, as they did, I spoke to my brother in Farsi about how we can make use of this “campaign” to resolve differences between our country and others…
I know that doesn’t sound at all like the resolution I asked for. But you had to be there!
I’m including the major dreams only. Otherwise this post would be a TLDR experience. Suffice it to say, each one flowed one into the other with perfect cohesion. Still, I get they sound like non-sequiturs.
A perfect compendium of catharsis
The last dream I experienced before waking was the kicker. I stood in a shower. The shower wasn’t mine. Outside the shower window I heard children playing happily. Beside me, in the shower was a beautiful small-breasted woman. Her body was….nothing short of extraordinary. The water ran down both our bodies and all I remember besides what you just read was a feeling of HOME. It was a feeling of all being well, of release after climax, of ecstasy or completion.
Then a series of dreams happened that took this experience to a new level. It’s hard to describe exactly what happened. That’s because language doesn’t align with what happens in nonphysical. And the dream state happens in nonphysical.
Nevertheless the series involved me experiencing situations in which I “paused”. And in the pause, I did something that translated as resolving the process or beliefs or momentum that had me make decisions producing dissatisfying results. I knew that’s what happened, but it’s hard to make direct connection between what I saw and experienced in the dream and my translation of it.
All I can say is it was extremely cathartic. Especially after the climactic dream I experienced before that.
This entire process was such a fulfilling experience! When I woke it was just before 0730 and I knew, I just knew, what I asked for had been resolved on my behalf.
How did I know?
The joyful catharsis I felt directly stemmed from my dream experience. (Photo by Omid Armin on Unsplash)
Emotions: Indications of expansion
Because I felt GREAT. But that’s not all. I also felt FOR SURE that what you just read happened. I recalled ALL OF IT. Including the emotions, the associations with wake state experience prior to going to bed…all of it.
Before I started writing this, I amplified everything you’re reading by affirming how great it feels. I affirmed this new day. A new day unburdened by old belief. I expressed appreciation for, and felt joy in the expressing, my expanded awareness. I also expressed how blessed I felt by my cadre — the innumerable beings in nonphysical that support every desire I create as a result of being human.
Re-reading all this, I’m in awe. It’s this kind of experience that gradually becomes available to all my advanced practice clients. I feel blessed to lead the way. The way to extraordinary living. It certainly feels extraordinary. And I’m eager for more.
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