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How Poor Attitudes Keep Our Great Life Hidden

This week included so many definite client testimonies showing the effectiveness, the power of being Positively Focused. My experience too this week amplified how being positive truly creates the best life possible. Truly, it’s the Charmed Life. My clients lives reflect it, my life reflects it.

In this post, I’ll share one example, from one client. I’ll share more tomorrow and the weekend. This client I’ve written about before. He’s the one who defied Donald Trump, Elon Musk and the Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). His return to work after DOGE fired so many of his colleagues, himself included was astonishing. And when he came back everyone welcomed him as essential to the agency’s mission.

But not only that, they loved him. They recognized him, his positive personality and his positive perspective as instrumental earlier this year when so many were scared and insecure.

As a result of who he was being during that time, someone in the agency nominated him to win the prestigious Transmission Employee of the Year Award. My client felt stoked and excited for the recognition. But, as I always tell my clients; with every moment of expansion comes along with it more contrast. Contrast giving birth to the next level of expansion.

We never stay in one spot, in other words. Not for long. We are in a constant state of expansion. And when we don’t keep up with that, we lose sight of how blessed we are moment by moment.

That’s exactly what happened with this client. He lost sight and needed a reminder. Thankfully, he has weekly sessions to help him.

Raving about work?

This week he came to his session feeling “content”. That’s not a terrible place, vibrationally. However, I encourage clients maintain energy states consistent with at least passion, enthusiasm and happiness. So when he shared his vibrational frequency, I dug in.

One of this client’s passions is racing motorcycles. Last weekend, he spent a wonderful two days in beautiful weather on his bike on the track. Friends and colleagues joined him. So it was a special time for him. Returning to work then felt like a let down comparatively. My guess is by Sunday evening, he already was feeling negative about going back to work. So by Wednesday, the day of his session, he wasn’t flying very high.

“All I do is look at a computer screen all day,” He said.

That was a phenomenally great place for the client to be. And that’s because it offered him such a tremendous opportunity. He wasn’t super negative, but it’s obvious that someone says this about his job they’re not feeling very passionate, enthusiastic or happy about their work.

What’s ironic is, in the last session, the client raved about his work as much as he raved about being at the track in this session! He loved the accolades he was getting. His colleagues constantly looked to him because of how well he did his work. Even his supervisors loved him, especially his humor. And, let’s not forget, this client makes bank at his job. That’s something he really enjoys about his work too. It literally funds his racing hobby.

Fantastic manifestations

After reminding him about all this, the client totally changed. He became a completely different person right before my eyes. I also felt the shift in his vibration. He moved out of contentment and into interest, which is right above optimism vibrationally. Then he talked about what happened this week at work, things he was completely oblivious to just moments ago.

One of those was the annual award nomination. Here’s how it read:

“Through adversity and change, this employee navigated the world transitioning from being a contractor to a full-time employee. All the while, expertly guiding and training a new team member. It takes a special type of person to not only accept their own obligations and priorities but those of others as well. This employee demonstrates the utmost professionalism in a lighthearted, easy to get along with manner. His knowledge of the organization and its personnel are invaluable, and he uses that knowledge to achieve organizational goals. His loyalty and faith in the organization has never waivered, even through very dark times. I owe my humble thanks and therefore recommend him as one of the organization’s most exemplary employees.”

Then, he remembered things from the last seven days that got him even more positive about the last week. In addition to racing, the client also is a musician. He busks at the local farmers market and aspires to having a musical career. This past week, two people approached him asking if he would teach them to play guitar. Another person, who belongs to a band, invited him to be the band’s front man and lead singer. And another person, a blues singer of some local repute, asked him if he’d enjoy writing songs together with her.

None of these things the client recalled. All of them were fantastic manifestations of his desires.

Positivity’s powerful filter

But after he did recall them, his demeanor changed even more. I think what struck him most was how, just moments before, none of what you just read was in his awareness. It’s not like they didn’t happen, however. They did. But the client had no access to them.

And this is the thing with life: everyone’s life is going great. But when we’re focused on things going not-great, that’s how we feel: not great. Feeling “not great” is a vibration. It’s an indicator of a vibrational frequency. And when we dwell in that frequency, everything that doesn’t match that frequency gets screened out.

This is why I advocate for being Positively Focused. Positively Focused is a vibrational frequency. When we maintain that frequency, then our life matches that. Because everything else gets screened out. Those other things still happen. They just don’t happen in the lives of those who are Positively Focused.

I’m overjoyed this client gave himself this powerful example of how important our vibration is. It literally shapes life experience. Maybe you’re ready to deliberately shape your own? If so, consider becoming a client today.

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What Are Friends For? The Spiritual Truth About Friendship

What if friendships aren’t for support? What if friendships aren’t meant to soothe our loneliness or our troubles? These questions made up part of a conversation I enjoyed with a client this week. They questioned the purpose of friendships altogether given what they learned up to this point in the Positively Focused Advanced Practice.

They’re good questions. Questions about a subject most of us take for granted. A subject we just assume we understand, or just accept what we’ve seen from the world around us. But it’s a good idea to look at what we think friends are for. That’s because, looking at what we think could create a whole new reality around such relationships.

I want to keep this post short, so I’m not going to go into a lot of detail. I’ll just offer that friendships offer an excellent peek into the workings of All That Is. But to get the peek we must view our friendships from a fresh, new perspective.

If we are each in our own reality (and we are), and no one else is in that reality (accurate again), then what is a friendship? And what purpose do they serve? What if they served no purpose other than as opportunities to revel in the fun of having chosen to come into physical reality in the first place?

Insecurity: When it feels normal

That’s a question worth asking. Because when we use friendships for anything other than what they’re really for, we’re missing the point of what they are. Using them for support diminishes our self-reliance, our sovereignty. Doing so is relying on something outside ourselves to soothe low vibration energies (negative emotion) and reestablish high vibration energies (feeling good). When we do that, we amplify and reinforce several things.

First, doing so tells us that we aren’t the powerful, creative sovereign beings we are. Second, doing so causes the friend to feel the same way. And when they listen to our sob stories, they further amplify our disempowerment because when they subsequently try to make us feel better, that act, tells us “I see you can’t maintain your steady high vibration, so I’m going to do it for you”. That powerful statement further anchors within us insecurity, because it makes us reliant on something outside ourselves to feel better. That’s always a recipe for trouble.

Third, relying on friendships for support, because doing so reinforces insecurity in us, aligns us with future probable realities in which we’ll need that support again. When the friend again lends support, that act lines up up once again for more of the same.

Because of this dynamic, many, many people end up in a rut. They gain soothing support from friends. They feel good as a result, even though they’re in a state of disempowered insecurity, and therefore conclude this is what friendships are for (among other things). People can’t feel the insecurity and disempowerment, however. That’s because they’ve been there for so long, those energies just feel normal.

Eternal relationships

But should a friend ghost them, then those feelings get amplified in the friend’s absence. If the friend stops supporting them, then, again, those negative feelings get amplified.

Most people (including a couple clients who had this happen) don’t have the vibrational stability needed to bear this. Nor do they understand what the appropriate response to such events is. So they blame the person who ghosted or stop supporting them instead, rather than looking inward.

So what are friendships for? What are friends for? To understand the answers, we must understand what friends are.

Friends are cooperative components, members of our cadre, traveling with us on this wonderful journey of expansion and joy. They, like us, are eternal beings. They show up in physical as friends because they chose, as we did, to incarnate in the same era, knowing doing so was going to be fun, expansive and joyful. Friendships, therefore, are divine, eternal relationships between divine eternal beings, beings whose core values vibrationally match throughout time.

The purpose of friendships, therefore, is to amplify our joyful expansion as we revel in the contrast of daily life. They aren’t for support. We do that for ourselves. And when one sovereign friend gets this, then treats the friendship for what it’s really about – fun – then that friend offers their friend a powerful, transformational opportunity.

Friendships are spiritual relationships based on joy, fun and expansion. Seeing them as anything else can, and usually does, diminish life experience for everyone involved.

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The Sacred Way of Patience: Finding Joy in the Now

It might feel like an anachronistic way to live, but it’s vital for a peaceful, joyful, sovereign life. The more we embrace this way, the better life gets. I find this way essential, not only to my well being, but also essential to embracing everything that comes my way. Living this way isn’t easy, at first (is anything easy at first?). But with practice, it gets easier.

I’m referring to the way of patience.

Having spilled that bean, I’m certain you now know, dear reader, why I wrote that it may feel anachronistic. Patience isn’t something humanity embraces these days. By “patience” I’m not talking about that frustrated, willingness to endure. By patience, I mean, accepting…embracing…the delay showing up between what is and what we want.

Accepting, embracing is the way of patience, I believe. Coming into this present moment, seeing everything as it is – even in the absence of that thing we think needs to be there for us to be happy – and being satisfied, is the practice. That practice leads to an even more profound – and elusive – practice: presence.

In presence we need nothing. Including that thing we think we need to be present for us to be happy. In presence we find no desire at all. Just pure awareness. Pure knowing. In presence we are our full, sovereign selves.

Presence is something I show my Positively Focused clients how to allow. This presence also makes up a huge part of my personal practice. It melts away impatience and striving. It frees me from needing. It reacquaints me with clarity. Clarity that everything — every thing — is as it is. And it’s all good.

The famous singer songwriter Sting, once wrote: “Forever conditioned to believe that we can’t live/We can’t live here and be happy with less.” He’s describing the state of the absence of patience, the absence of presence. Sting’s beautiful words could be simplified to this: “For every condition we believe we want, we can live happily without it.”

Not as lyrical, I know. But both sing accurately.

I’m finding deep satisfaction just being. Letting things be, and letting things I want, to unfold without me needing to pursue them. That, my friends, takes patience. Especially in this day and time. It may be anachronistic, but the peace it brings is worth it.

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AI Wrote My Positively Focused Anthem—and It’s Perfect

TL;DR: A spontaneous gift from a friend—a powerful AI-created anthem—became a thrilling manifestation. This story reveals how alignment with our Broader Perspectives invites joyful surprises beyond imagination.

A wonderful thing happened last month. Something that not only thrilled me, but was a gift from the Universe. It happened through a long-time friend, who delighted and surprised me with something that came totally unexpected.

And that’s how the best manifestations happen, aren’t they? They happen when we least expect them. So when they do happen, we’re thrilled. The thrill is especially strong when we’re already tuned to being a match to the unfolding. That’s how I knew I was ready when this manifestation happened. I already was thrilling from a series of especially powerful manifestations, one of which featured an outstanding mystical experience.

But let’s get back to the manifestation that came through my friend. If you read this whole post and click the link to hear the manifestation itself, I think you’ll be astonished. You’ll be astonished because everyone else who heard it felt the same way when they first heard it.

Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though. Let’s look at how this all happened.

“Next level bonkers”

A client and I interact with one another in between sessions. Several clients and I do that. They take advantage of one of the perks of working with me: almost constant availability. This client and I were working on a followup to an event I hosted about the future. That event sold out and she wanted her network an opportunity to hear it themselves.

So we were talking about details of her event over a text group chat. Included in that group was my friend Mark. He has some resources he offered, such as a venue and a potential other network to promote the event.

One day while I was busy with some other things, Mark texted a link to the group chat. It looked like a link to a song. Now Mark regularly shares stuff like this. He’s an avid audiophile and loves to share music he likes with others. So when I saw the text message, I figured it was something along those lines. Something I could listen to at my leisure.

But he wasn’t just sharing something he liked. He was sharing “next level bonkers”.

The prelude to a chef’s kiss

A legacy anthem

I figured that when I got the next text message, and then another, then another, something else was up. With that, I had to find out what they were raving about.

Mark was right: it was next level bonkers. Check it out: (That link will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.)

Click on the image. It will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.

In case you didn’t listen to it, Mark prompted an Artificial Intelligence (AI) to create a song about me and my Positively Focused practice. In less than 30 seconds, he said, it created this brilliant song. Not just “next level bonkers”, but a freaking legacy anthem just for me!

The minute I heard my name in the song, I got goosebumps. And do you know what’s also really good? Mark did this all his own. Meaning, he didn’t check in with me first. He just did it out of his own inspiration.

Mark has never been a client. He has followed my journey, however. He also has seen how people respond powerfully to working with me. Therefore, he knows what I offer helps people. Of course, he could have created a song about anything. And maybe he did. But the fact he included me in his creative exploration says a lot.

What it really communicates to me though is this: my Broader Perspective worked with his Broader Perspective to create something — a manifestation — my Broader Perspective knew would delight and surprise me. And delight and surprise me it did!

A freaking masterpiece?

Again[!], in case you didn’t listen to it (you really should), here are the lyrics. Once you read them, maybe, you’ll take the time to listen. It really is fantastic.

[Verse]
Old Perry Gruber strollin’ down the road
Got wisdom in his pocket like a heavy load
He whispers truths like a preacher in the night
Positively Focused
Showing people light
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll
[Verse 2]
He speaks of transformation
A personal gold mine
Unraveling the answers you’ve been tryin’ to find
The path to bliss ain’t built on a lie
Take his hand and watch your spirit fly
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll
[Bridge]
It ain’t about hurryin’ or chasing down the win
The secret lies in stillness
Deep within
Gruber’s got a map
But you’ve got the key
Unlock your heart and set yourself free
[Chorus]
Fire on the mountain burning bright as day
Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way
Deep spiritual wisdom
Feel it in your soul
Step into joy now
Let the good times roll..

A freaking masterpiece, isn’t it? I think so!

Write your own song!

I love how easy it is to allow a life where my moment-by-moment experience includes delights and surprises like this one. It’s especially cool, however, when they happen through my friends. When they happen through strangers, however, they’re really good, because those instances stand out. But when they happen through friends, I enjoy them too. This one is cool because it served many purposes.

I know Mark really enjoyed making it. Maigen enjoyed it too. Her text messages show that. I loved it too, of course. But most of all, I really enjoyed how we all reveled in it together. I also enjoy knowing how this happened with no effort on my part. And I revel in knowing more is in store as I continue to relax, trust and “allow” my Broader Perspective to lead me to where all that I want is unfolding.

You can have this experience — or, rather, your version of this experience — too. You can write your own life song with direct assistance of your Broader Perspective and revel in the results by becoming a client. Becoming a client is easy, and now, I’ve even made it more affordable. My new Cohort sessions feature an up to 60 percent discount over 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life me and my clients enjoy.

Who knows? You might have someone create something that thrills you to no end. Just like Mark, collaborating with the Universe did for me.

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Is There Really No One Right Way? A Spiritual Paradox

Twice now two different people expressed the same, very interesting, spiritual belief. The first person shared it many years ago. I’m writing about it now because the second person shared it this past week.

The belief is a form of resistance, I believe, and also an assertion. An assertion embodying what we all know in our core selves. But mixed with the resistance, the belief, when expressed as an assertion, sometimes can come out like mild defensiveness.

The first person, from many years ago, uses this belief like a mantra. The belief, by the way, is “there’s no one right [spiritual] way.” The implication of this belief being that every spiritual approach is valid. Every way serves someone.

I wonder though if this belief is really accurate and whether the speakers really believe it. When I hear these two people express it, it sounds to me as though the speakers are justifying something. The justification, in my listening, is the paradox: the “right” way (for the speaker) is that there is no one right way.

Any way I like

“There’s no one right way”, in other words, allows the speaker to do it their way, which is fine. They don’t have to adhere to another way, even if that way would be more effective for getting what they want. I’m not suggesting there may be a more effective way than their way. What I am suggesting is “there’s no one right way” allows the speaker to stay with what they’re doing. Even if they’re not happy.

Again, I’m ok with that. Do you, I say. Live your life, your way.

But the paradox, again, is, that, even for the person who believes “there’s no one right way”, there actually IS one right way, especially for that person. The one right way for them is, “any way I like.”

I wonder if people who believe this experienced rather intense coercion in their past. Maybe a parent, or some other perceived authority, forced them to do things a certain way, maybe against their will. And that experience caused the speaker to rebel internally, to resist, in other words.

That resistance built up momentum to the point where any perceived attempt to have them do something they may not want to do triggers that past experience as the belief “there’s no one right way”. Someone with momentum behind such an experience would consider any attempt to encourage them to do something differently, even if doing it differently would benefit them, to be something “I don’t want to do”.

Interesting. That, paragraph above I just came out of my fingers while writing this post. I hadn’t thought about that before.

A conundrum

So the belief “there’s no one right way” falls somewhat flat for me. There is one right way, especially for the person who believes “there’s no one right way”. After all, there’s no other “way” the speaker could employ. For they, and everyone else, can only do something one way at a time.

The challenge is, everyone exists in their own reality. They are sovereign in that reality, meaning they, and they, alone create the experience they’re having. That means, their way is the one right way in their reality. But what’s the deal with “right”?

The “right/wrong” dichotomy is a false one, isn’t it? Someone standing in the “right/wrong” vibration is experiencing distortion therefore, are they not?

I would guess this first person, and the second person who expressed this belief last week, will probably not acknowledge this. But to me, the belief allows the person to skirt the idea that there is only one way – theirs – while claiming to accept that there are other, viable ways. But isn’t “there IS one “right” way” also a “way”? And if there is no one right way, then “there IS one right way” is also a valid “way”, is it not?

I find this belief, therefore, to be a conundrum.

One way?

Ultimately, there is one way of spiritual life. And by “spiritual life” I’m referring to All That Is and how it operates through all realities, including the physical one. That way is the paradoxical acceptance of “all ways”, with no single way being “better” or “righter” than another.

But that means, that in any given instance, there is “one way” as far as All That Is is concerned: It’s the way whatever is currently happening is happening. And, as a point of consciousness expands, I believe that consciousness evolves more and more to a “way” of being that allows only, really, one way to dominate.

That way is best represented by the word “joyful”. I wanted to write “love”, but we humans bring too much distortion to that word so we miss the point.

All That Is approaches All That Is in one way: joyfully, lovingly. Every other way leads to that. So, really, there is only one way. Right or otherwise. And that makes this “there’s no one right way” a kind of human copout, doesn’t it?

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Why Inner Peace Outshines Material Success

What if everything we want we want because we’ll feel better when we have it? What does that mean about our desires?

I spent the day yesterday with a friend of over 20 years. A startup entrepreneur, he’s got at least a couple million in the bank. He lives in the suburbs, in a beautiful, large, traditional house he owns outright. He has three lovely sons, all grown. His marriage to his wife has lasted over 50 years. Even though they’re rich, they’re also frugal. Both their cars have over 100,000 miles on them. One, a passenger van looks like it has over 100,000 miles on it. The other, a beetle, is the wife’s car. It’s immaculate.

Every time I hang out with this guy, I’m impressed with who he is. He focuses his life on giving back: to his family, his community. His startups are nearly always about creating prosperity for the most disadvantaged. The latest idea of his has to do with teaching entrepreneurship to the formerly incarcerated. And, should those businesses succeed, he invites those business owners to contribute a portion of their revenues to help build other companies that will support similar causes.

My life is decidedly different. I live in an urban area, in an apartment I rent. The diversity around me is incredible. I can get anywhere I need to in at most, a 20 minute walk, 10 minute bike ride or via public transportation. If necessary, I can rent a car for longer trips, although that hardly ever happens. And, my apartment is tiny compared to my friend’s home.

Our lives couldn’t be much different.

“It’s so refreshing”

But what stands out the most, for me, is how satisfied I am with all of my life. Not just my personal trappings, but life in general, including what’s happening here in the United States. My satisfaction, borne of the Positively Focused practice, affords me a deep peace in knowing everything is unfolding as it should. And, a knowing that life is getting better for everyone, even when it looks like it’s not.

But my friend and his wife are struggling with the “what is” of life. They’re suffering in seeing what’s happening, extrapolating a future from how they’re interpreting what’s happening into one that affords bleak misfortunes for their children, and their friends’ children. In other words, for all their material, apparent success, they can’t find the most important success of all: peace of mind.

Which is why when I shared what I see about what is and the future, the wife said “I’m so glad to hear your positive perspective on life. It’s so refreshing.”

We are joy incarnate

Materially, my wealth doesn’t compare to my friend’s. And yet, when I returned home from spending the day with him, I felt richer than ever. Not because I live in grand stature, but because my experience of life is determined by nothing other than my connection to All That Is and the joyful, sovereign, happiness that springs from that relationship alone.

Indeed, when I got home, I reveled in my own company, in my tiny apartment. I enjoyed seeing the trees in front of the building I live in and the sun splaying through their leaves. The sounds of my neighborhood felt so alive and vibrant. And in that witnessing, I knew many of the desires I once had, and still kind of have – for more money, for example – pale in comparison to the joy I feel in my own skin, in my own life.

I don’t need anything more than what I have (my life) to feel joyful, to feel peace, to feel I have all I want. And in that space, that vibration, I know anything else I desire is mine. Because I am that which I desire most.

You can enjoy a life condition as I just described. It can not be found in things. It’s not available to those pursuing what society tells us we should have. But through pursuing those things, everyone slowly realizes how relatively unsatisfying that pursuit is. And how much more value an inner-derived sense of peace offers.

Finding peace through the pursuit of the fleeting satisfaction found in material consumption is a valid path toward ultimate peace. Most people live their lives on that path. But you can take the shortcut to deep satisfaction by finding that joyful state that is YOU, right now.

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An Easy Way To Prove Manifestation Works

Yesterday I lost a sweater. I don’t even remember the last time I saw it. It was cool outside, and I wanted to wear it. So I opened the closet and looked where it should be.

It wasn’t there. I started to turn my apartment upside down. I wanted to wear it on a walk.

Then I stopped myself. I stopped myself because I knew what you’re about to read. I also knew that the more I might try to find it, the more “lost” it would become.

That’s the thing about vibration. Especially around little things like losing something. If we say to ourselves “XYZ is lost”, and then turn the house upside down, it’s highly likely we’re not going to find it.

Why?

Because when we go around trying to find it, we amplify the vibration “XYZ is lost”. Then we align ourselves with the probable reality in which the item can’t be found.

Such silly-seeming examples like this happen all the time. For example, a person will swear they misplaced their sunglasses….only to find them moments later…resting right where they left them: on their head! Or they’ll “lose” their keys, only to discover them later right where they left them: still in the front door lock (that’s happened to me more than once.)

Easy, light-hearted

Insignificant events such as losing something are great opportunities to prove that we create our reality. We create our reality through the thoughts we think, which aligns us to the alternate reality we are thinking about. The next time you lose something, rather than turning the house upside down, stop looking for it. Stop thinking about it. Turn your attention to something else.

When you do that, your Broader Perspective will inspire you. Soon thereafter, it will say “look over there!” And when you do, you’ll see the item you once thought was “lost”. That will happen because you’re now aligned with the reality in which the item is present.

This has happened to many clients over the years. And it has happened to me before, and again, with my sweater yesterday. So yesterday I relaxed into the knowing that the sweater was in my possession. I stopped looking for it, in other words (after turning my apartment upside down! LOL).

Later that day, I took my backpack to the grocery store. It’s the one I always take to fill with groceries. Mind you, I actually looked in that very backpack and did not see the sweater!!!!

I got milk, eggs and butter, then walked to the checkout counter. The checker rang up my things as I took my pack off and opened it. When I did, I looked in the pack and, there, rolled up, at the bottom of the pack, was my sweater!

This was a perfect, easy, rather light-hearted demonstration that my vibration, my thoughts and my focus create everything I desire. Including turning lost things into found things.

The next time you “lose” something, try this. You might be amazed.

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How To Get Over Imposter Syndrome And Be Happy

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TL;DR: A client transformed from feeling like an imposter to embracing self-love and confidence. By shifting focus inward, he overcame suicidal thoughts, found authenticity, and now thrives in the Charmed Life.

A surprising number of clients express having once experienced “Imposter Syndrome”. Usually, they make such statements after getting over that syndrome. Often, Imposter Syndrome precedes thoughts about killing themselves. Both the syndrome and wanting to kill one’s self point to a tremendously good thing. But most people can’t see the good; they only see the not good.

That’s why I do this work. I love it when people “suffering” from such conditions find their empowerment through those same conditions. On the way to building a permanent happiness in their lives, they find their empowerment and their confidence too. Sometimes, clients let me share their stories. In that way they become shining beacons for others. Their example helps others improve their lives.

Such is the case with the client who allowed me to share a segment of his recent session. In this session, he raved about his progress and about how much he loves who he has become. In that becoming, he’s not only learned to own his bad-assery, he also has found his authenticity feels better than trying to please people by being a chameleon.

Let’s look more closely at his story.

“I was making all that money…but still wanted to kill myself.”

Cain is an Positively Focused advanced client. As a result, he’s not only living the Charmed Life, he’s an example to others about what’s possible through the Positively Focused practice.

Before discovering Positively Focused, he was making a lot of money, but he still wasn’t happy. A big part of his unhappiness was feeling like an imposter, not feeling he fit in anywhere and struggling with being happy. But don’t take my word for it. Hear it directly from him. The video below comes right from our recent 1:1 session.

As you can tell, Cain has found an extraordinary level of self-love. Self love happens naturally once a person reaches for and achieves the Charmed Life I write about in this blog. The Charmed Life is the natural way of living. Living this way we’re free to be ourselves, no matter what other people think about us.

But very few people live their lives this way. Or they’re living a counterfeit version of it, where what they’re actually doing is reacting to what other people think of what they’re doing by living in a certain way as a kind of rebellion toward others’ opinions. That’s not the Charmed Life.

At their wits’ end

People can live according to how others think they should live for a long time. They can live their entire lives that way. But rarely do those people find happiness.

They may make a lot of money, like Cain was doing. But inside, they’re suffering. Some of those people end up wanting to kill themselves. Some actually do. About a third of my client roster comprises people who once thought about killing themselves. But everyone of them is now finding permanent happiness.

Why do so many people come to Positively Focused or something like Law of Attraction wanting to kill themselves as many of my clients have? I think it’s because they are at their wits’ end. They try everything else first because it doesn’t occur to them that the solution to their problems lies inside them.

So they try doing everything else they can. When that doesn’t work, their last stop tends to be something “woo”, like Law of Attraction or Positively Focused. They give up trying to “do” their way out of their problems, in other words. They try being. And then they get what they always wanted: Permanent happiness, a.k.a the Charmed Life.

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How To Live Happily Ever After For Regular People

Happily ever after is not just a story book tale. It can be the story of everyone’s lives. But it takes focus. After all, what does “live happily ever after” actually mean?

Is it riches and wealth? Is it a partner for life? Maybe an animal companion or a great occupation? Is it playing video games all day? Being high all the time?

I can tell you many people have one, some or all these conditions and more. And they’re not happy. Let alone happy “ever after”.

So what is living happily ever after?

It means in every moment one experiences happiness. And that happiness continues on and on and on and on…right up to one’s transition (and beyond, actually). The kind of happiness that looks like that, most people don’t enjoy.

That’s because one must choose to be happy. And they must choose it again, again and again and again…right up to one’s transition. The problem is, and I’m sure you know this, dear reader, most people don’t deliberately choose their state of being in any given moment. Most don’t think they can choose an emotional state. Instead, they let circumstances choose the emotion for them.

That’s not a recipe for happily ever after. That too is why so many think happily ever after only applies to story books. Not to “reality”.

But it does apply to reality too. If we develop the habit of choosing happiness, choosing to be positive, no matter what’s happening, then we can enjoy living happily ever after. It’s not easy making happiness habitual. Not at first. Like any habit though, continued practice makes it easy. So easy it becomes a habit.

Want proof that it’s possible? Look at your life now. Maybe you, like so many, let circumstances dictate how you feel. It seems instantaneous and is…because you’ve allowed it to become habitual. That’s proof that you can allow happiness to become habitual too. So you have evidence it’s possible.

My clients are living the possibility. This explains why they keep coming back. It also explains why they feel so good about life. Because happiness (positivity) is habit forming. And there’s nothing like a habit. A habit that feels good.

Happily ever after is available to everyone. Suffering and sadness (or any other negative emotion) is optional. Are you ready to make your way to happily ever after? Consider becoming a client. I’d be happy to show you the way.

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What Multidimensional Shifts Reveal About Consciousness

I’m regularly traveling into alternate dimensions these days. So often I do so, they now just seem like every day occurrences. And yet, I don’t take them for granted. That’s because they offer so many touch points for my expansion.

One Positively Focused advanced client experiences similar “departures”. That’s confirming. It tells me these aren’t “hallucinations” or “fantasies” my brain makes up. Rather, they happen for anyone willing to allow their consciousness to travel free of the body.

Any visual experience that goes beyond ordinary waking reality is a “departure” from physical reality. They’re what I nowadays call “multidimensional consciousness shifts”. My “allowing” started with a series of sensations which happened in meditation. I’ve written about these many times in my early posts. They got stronger, and rather than resisting them or fearing them, I first brought conscious focus to them. I wanted to amplify them.

Then, at one point, I became indifferent to the sensations. Instead, I focused on their origin. The sensations themselves are echoes of a source. They are not the source itself. That focus actually caused the sensations to strengthen.

Those experiences gave way to full-on, sudden transitions into alternate realities. I’m getting better at holding onto them and bringing them back into my present-moment waking reality. But they still come in a fleeting manner.

What it looks like

Here’s an example of a multidimensional consciousness shift that happened in meditation this morning, straight from my records:

I was in an industrial area, a rundown industrial area, one that was about to be demolished. A great big warehouse stood before me off in the distance a bit, and where I stood, accompanying me was a band of women, all beautiful, of different aspects…I felt at home there. I then walked forward toward the warehouse. As I approached, these great big demolition trucks appeared before me. They were facing me and as I walked through the line of trucks I came to a van expecting to see my partner, my female partner there…I came back into this reality and meditation. Then I had another shift wherein I saw a male in construction worker protective equipment. He was using a shovel to dig into the earth where little plants grew. It wasn’t a garden. It was more like a median strip or a public park or something like that.

There’s a difference between these shifts and my extremely detailed, long-form dream experiences. The former always feels like current reality in the sense that the environment I visit feels ordinary. The latter always feels magical, whimsical.

Accompanying dream sojourns are intense emotions, almost always including deep senses of love and belonging. What’s more, dream imagery always conveys some kind of meaning or intention. Every object in the dream carries such a message. Not so with multidimensional consciousness shifts.

Shifting versus dreaming

That’s because where I end up when shifting is happening “on the other side” of nonphysical. The places I go are like this reality. They are leading edge, full-blown manifestations of energy intention, just like this physical reality. As leading edge manifestations, they are fully-formed so to speak.

Dreams are not fully-formed the way physical is. They are real. But they carry a process energy and occur in nonphysical, not “on the other side” of this reality. Because of that, the experience itself is many layered, fluid, and infused with the creative energy that is me.

When shifting I visit a me-counterpart having their own experience. When dreaming, I am in the center of my All-That-Is-ness experiencing nonphysical directly, unfiltered.

Of course, there’s a method to such meetings I call multidimensional consciousness shifts. Shifts I experience, the locations I visit, are resonant with vibrations I emanate in meditation. So I can glean meaning from those travels.

But for now, I just enjoy the travel itself.