TL;DR: The author shares a stunning true story of a client who fired her employee—only to receive a $10K contract hours later. A real-life illustration of how vibrational alignment trumps effort every time.This is Part 1 of an astounding 3-Part story.
There’s something extraordinary that happens when we stop seeing life as a linear chain of cause and effect, and start recognizing it as a living mirror of our vibrational state. That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about—tuning your inner alignment so well that even what others call “negative experiences” turn out to be springboards into exactly what you’re wanting.
This three-part story is a powerful example. This is part one.
It involves two clients of mine—let’s call them Jane and Sally—whose lives intersected professionally. Jane employed Sally. But over time, their work relationship became strained. Jane had developed a dominant story: Sally wasn’t adding value. She believed it so thoroughly that she began telling everyone around her that Sally wasn’t producing anything meaningful. Eventually, Jane reached what she called the “last straw.”
She decided she was going to fire Sally. But the truth was: Sally had been doing great work—far beyond what was asked of her. Jane simply couldn’t see it.
When Stories Become Reality (and Blind Us to What’s True)
The Positively Focused perspective reminds us: your beliefs filter your world. Jane’s belief that Sally didn’t contribute value was so active, it completely blocked her ability to see the value right in front of her.
Sally had completed a task that Jane assigned—breaking up blog content for social media. Not only that, she also built, from scratch, a custom database using ChatGPT to organize and manage that content. But when Jane saw the database—because it had no content in it yet—she concluded Sally wasted her time. The truth was, Sally had the content ready. She just hadn’t loaded it in yet. Sally showed Jane the content, but Jane ignored what Sally presented.
Jane literally did not see what Sally had done…because her vibration wouldn’t allow it.
Firing Sally was the natural next step given Jane’s and Sally’s belief momentum.
This is not a failure of observation—it’s a demonstration of how powerfully our inner reality determines what we perceive outside us. Our persistent stories don’t just color the world; they shape it. They blind us to evidence that contradicts them. Jane wasn’t wrong in a moral sense. She was just vibrationally tuned to a version of Sally that matched her expectation.
This is how creation works.
The Universe Orchestrates More Than We Know
As this was unfolding, something else happened: a customer Jane had long disliked—due to their poor communication, arriving late to meetings, and overly wordy updates—suddenly died. The passing shocked Jane. But this loss created a vacuum in that customer’s organization.
A new interim CEO stepped in. She immediately emailed Jane, asking if Jane would be open to amending their contract—expanding it from a small $300 contract…to a $10,000 one.
Yes. From $300 to $10,000.
This is a client Jane had barely done any work for. But Jane had previously told me she wanted a second $10,000 client. The first one, a dental client, was already active. Now, out of what looked like tragedy and workplace drama, the Universe delivered the second.
Jane didn’t have to do anything for it. It came through alignment. That’s not the end of this story however. It’s just the beginning. But let’s pause here, because this is where many people miss the magic.
They think that Jane got lucky. That a door closed and another opened. That “one person died, another got fired, and everything worked out in the end.” But that’s not what happened.
What actually happened is this: the Universe perfectly matched everyone involved with the experiences they were aligned with—and in doing so, set up the next chapter of each person’s expansion. And they all won. Jane got her second $10,000 client. Sally, as you’ll see in Part 2, got something even more valuable than a job. And I, as their guide, got the supreme joy of watching divine timing play out in real time.
TL;DR: The author shares a real-life manifestation story showing how a light, trusting intention led to a wonderful reunion — proving once again that alignment, not effort, is the secret to beautiful results.
There’s tremendous power in lining up with how reality works. Especially when it comes to creating outcomes we want. This power causes trying to “make it happen” to pale in comparison. Indeed, all my clients who have experienced this say that creating what they want is far, far, far more satisfying than trying to “make it happen” through doing.
But it takes trust to rely on BEING as a way to have what we want. Trust comes from repeated evidence demonstrated over time. Evidence proving process you’re wanting to trust is trust-worthy. That’s why the Positively Focused practice is a practice. Yes, it’s difficult at first, as is learning anything new. But the other, more important reason for the practice is people need to build trust in their being. That comes from assembling a body of evidence proving their being is worthy of their trust.
What happened in my life over the last six months is yet another piece of evidence fortifying my trust in everything I share. What happened isn’t so special. These kinds of things happen for me all the time these days. But the way in which it happened is special. That’s because, as I just shared, it’s one more weight tipping the scale towards my knowing that reality, or Wake-Scape, bends to our intention set in our Reality of Origin through the Moment Of Becoming.
Let’s look at this wonderful manifestation in which I created a rendezvous with a beautiful stranger I met months before.
It begins
I didn’t realize it six months ago, but what unfolded since then became a perfect, living example of the Positively Focused practice — the kind of story I tell my clients to help them see how Wake Scape really works when we align into our Moment of Becoming and follow our Broader Perspective‘s impulses.
There’s a burger joint I used to frequent. It wasn’t the food that drew me in week after week — though I’m not going to say no to a good burger. No, what kept pulling me in was a trans woman who worked there. She was stunning. Magnetic. The first time she brought my food out to me, she took my breath away.
From that moment on, I was hooked. Not in a desperate way. But I was definitely showing up more frequently at this burger place and not just for the burgers and tater tots. Every week I’d head over, sit at the bar, and simply…watch. Watch her move, cook, smile.
We never spoke. I never approached her. But I knew she knew I was looking. And yet something in me respected the sacred space of her workplace. I didn’t force an introduction.
Weeks passed. Maybe two months. Then one day, she wasn’t there.
The next week? Still no sign of her.
And just like that, she was gone. I realized she no longer worked there. And that felt like a door closing — one I hadn’t even walked through. I never got her name. Never had a chance to chat her up or even say hello.
But here’s where the manifestation began.
“Go for a walk”
I remember thinking: “I’m going to see her again.”
And that’s all. No trying. No scheming. I didn’t launch a search party or dig around online. I just felt the desire, set it down gently in the space of my Reality of Origin, and let it go. Letting it go was easy because I knew my Broader Perspective and All That Is was on it. So I didn’t need to be. My Broader Perspective received my intention to see her again. It would therefore orchestrate events so that that would happen.
I went on with life. No resistance. No need to control it. Just trust.
Fast forward to a day in late May. I woke up to an impulse. One of those quiet nudges from my Broader Perspective — ones I’ve learned to listen to without questioning. It was already 70° outside and heading toward 85°. The nudge was simple: go for a walk.
So I did. I didn’t even think twice. After dressing I headed out into the warm morning air. I walked over to the community center where I workout and ended up having a lovely 10-minute conversation with a man I know named Apollo. And yes — he looks like an Apollo.
We caught up, shared some laughs, then parted ways. I continued walking. About ¾ of the way through my route, far from the burger joint, I came upon a breakfast place. And who do you think was sitting at an outside table?
That’s right. Her.
The trans woman from the burger place. Just…sitting there. Radiant as ever.
The rendezvous was very much exactly like this!
Let that sink in
My heart did a little flip. I knew this was the moment I’d asked for. My intention, dropped in months ago, had landed. And now it was right in front of me, delivered right through the Moment of Becoming into my Present Moment, my collection of manifestations.
At first, I hesitated. I felt a flicker of embarrassment — should I approach her? What if it’s awkward? But I’ve trained myself to move beyond those thoughts. I knew this was an invitation from the All That Is, perfectly timed and lovingly orchestrated.
After screwing up some gumption, I walked over, pulled out the chair across from her and sat down. She smiled and opened a conversation. A conversation that was delightful.
Her name is Bryn. She told me she left the burger joint because the management had done something unethical. She now works for the post office — and here’s the kicker: the branch she works at is less than half a mile from my home.
Not only that, she knows my next-door neighbor, who also is a letter carrier, and works with him at that very branch.
Now let that sink in.
A woman I admired from afar disappeared. Then reappeared — not just randomly, but in my neighborhood, woven into my everyday reality, my Present Moment. Not by accident. But through my alignment. No effort. No trying to make it happen.
This is what manifestation really looks like.
What we want will show up
It’s not about forcing. Nor is it about chasing. It’s about being — being in alignment with what we want, then letting the Universe do the rest.
I didn’t “make” this happen. There was no manipulation of events or trying to control outcomes. I simply followed joy, listened to the impulses, followed the nudge. And that nudge took me exactly where I needed to be, exactly when I needed to be there.
That’s the magic of this practice. But it’s not magic. It’s knowing what we really are, then living from that clarity.
Set our intention. Don’t worry about how. Don’t worry about when. Let everything go. Keep our vibration clear, our heart open, and our life in flow. And when the time is right, what we want will show up — often in ways more satisfying and more elegantly than we could ever plan.
Meeting Bryn again wasn’t just a sweet surprise. It was a confirmation. The Universe confirmed what I trust in: that I don’t need to hustle my way into getting what I want. I just need to listen, trust, allow then act when the impulse comes.
Next time that quiet desire arises — the kind that tugs at the heart without demanding attention — trust that it’s heard. Trust that it’s in motion. And trust that staying in joy will bring what you want faster than your action.
Just like Bryn came to me. And when it does, it will feel easy. Effortless. Natural. Like walking outside on a sunny morning…And finding exactly what you wanted.
TL;DR: After years of misanthropic momentum, a client manifested a violent encounter—but responded with clarity and non-reaction. His experience shows how even violence can catalyze spiritual mastery and empowered sovereignty.
April was a banner month for Positively Focused clients. Nearly all clients enjoyed amazing manifestations. One manifested a free 1-Carat diamond. Another, effortlessly manifested a repeat music gig. These creations made April unusually invigorating. Their manifestations rivaled my own, including one in which I gifted to myself the power of precognition, and another where I effortlessly manifested a rendezvous with a person of interest.
But one advanced client’s manifestation stood out.
He took this Positively Focused practice to an entirely new level by demonstrating mastery well beyond previous awareness. His mastery proved the power of Jesus’ admonition to “turn the other cheek”. In doing so he completely diffused a violent situation in the midst of the violence.
This client’s Positively Focused practice began many years ago. Being trans-attracted brought him to the practice through my other offering, The Transamorous Network. I write about this client often, because he creates such powerful manifestations. They demonstrate how, even though his life seemed in shambles, he’s a powerful creator. One with enormous potential.
So when a stranger assaulted him, I wasn’t surprised he was up for the challenge. To understand how this unfolded, we must look at this client’s past. That way we can see how he was a perfect match to the violence he created.
The background for context
The client’s past includes a lot of negative experiences. Those experiences came after he focused on those experiences in a way which amplified their momentum. Back then, the client didn’t understand this YCYOR business. So he was powerless to do anything other than what he did.
One thing he developed along the way was a strong hatred of women. Alongside that hatred was a strong dislike/hatred of people in general. Both his misogyny and his misanthropy made him a match to experiences consistent with those vibrational frequencies.
Women almost always rejected his advances. They often found him revolting. The client often gets into disagreements with them. And, of course, because of all this he’s had precious little experience with relationships with women.
The same holds true for his experiences with people in general. More often than not, the client believes people disregard his feelings, disrespect him or under-appreciate him. One woman accused him of stalking her. Men would get angry at him or the client would say something crass or insulting thereby burning bridges. Even his siblings revile him.
And, the more of these kinds of things happened, the stronger his negative beliefs about women, specifically, and people, in general, grew thereby amplifying his belief-momentum.
Changing focus
It took a while before he opened the door to becoming aware of all this. I pointed it out after offering a specific Positively Focused process. In that process it’s natural to express appreciation for others. This client never did that though. Even when I tried directing him to the subject of the millions of people who benefit him, he would not focus on appreciating those people.
That’s when I introduced the possibility that he held misanthropic beliefs. At first, he accepted the assertion. Shortly after, however, he resisted it. He even claimed I was creating a misanthropic version of him! How’s that for using the practice against me LOL!
Of course, I told him that’s not what’s happening. And, again, of course, the Universe agreed, which is exactly why what happened next was so perfect.
I tell all clients people’s Broader Perspective always guides them to their highest purposes. Most people, however, are no where near the vicinity of their Broader Perspective’s vibrational frequency, so they can’t feel the guidance. That explains why such people experience negative, even tragic, events. Such events are not negative or tragic. They represent the Universe trying to get people’s attention so they change their focus. Change their focus and come in-line with their Broader Perspective.
Punctuating clarity
Contrary to what people think about reality, things don’t happen randomly or by coincidence. They come into our lives – are attracted to us – because of our focus. This attraction dynamic is relentless, meaning, if our focus dominantly resides in lower frequencies, we will attract matching experiences.
Humans describe those as “negative”. But they usually don’t begin with tragedies or strongly negative experiences. They always start out mild. Like tripping on the sidewalk, banging a knee or a bird poops on us!
If we don’t take the hint, so to speak, the Universe turns up the volume. Such experiences will increase in intensity until they reach a stage where they’re full-blown tragedies. All these events potentially clarify for us where we are on our path. They’re meant to help us course-correct.
But they also can punctuate clarity a person already has received. Such manifestations and their timing come with such clarity, it’s impossible to ignore the unfolding pattern. Especially with some Positively Focused practice under our belts. And this is where this client stood: with lots of the practice under his belt, and yet resisting the clarity he received so far.
That set up this perfect unfolding.
A dismissal
The client was out one night after not being able to sleep. He walked the streets, moving through the bar district. One location called him, so he stopped in. He sidled up to the bar and when he put his hand on the bar, he “accidentally” cut his pinky on a glass shard.
This happened just a couple days after our session in which I revealed his misanthropic momentum. The client asked the female bartender for a bandaid and rubbing alcohol. She didn’t have rubbing alcohol. According to the client, she “dismissed” his distress and tossed him a bandaid. His interpretation of her “dismissiveness” indicated his powerful resonance with creating women matching his misogynistic beliefs.
Miffed, the client went to the bathroom. There he washed the cut with soap and water, which I’m sure offered not only relief from the cut, but also allowed him to re-align with his higher vibrations. So when he returned to the bar, he rendezvoused with a better version of the bar-maid. One that had found and offered a tube of Neosporin instead of rubbing alcohol.
Unfortunately, the client didn’t maintain his relief. His dominant negative momentum, generally, on the subject of women, and specifically, on the subject of THIS woman, collapsed him right back into negative vibrations and feelings about her. He ignored the tube, didn’t even thank her for it and, instead, left the bar.
“Say one more word…”
I know you’re probably thinking “what an asshole”. But name calling does nothing other than amplify our own negative belief-momentum. What really was happening was this client was serving himself powerfully. He was setting up a series of events that made it undeniable that he stands in very strong negative belief-momentum about men and women.
He’s not an “asshole”. He’s just unconscious about what’s going on in himself and how to change that. So his reality reflects back to him a life experience matching his inner state, whether he gets it or not. That’s happening with every person.
The client left that bar. He grabbed a seat at another bar not far away. There, minding his own business, the client noticed a black man approaching. At first, as the client explains it, the guy seemed ordinary. But when the guy saw the client, he started shouting at him. The client can’t remember what the guy was angry about. He said the black guy literally got in his face, shouting angry words at him.
Then, out of nowhere, the guy hit the client with an open hand across his face. An assault! The guy hit the client in the face so hard, the client told me, his glasses went flying. Everyone around was shocked into speechlessness.
Not the client. He knew exactly what was happening. “This guy was an angel, reflecting back to me my own misanthropic beliefs in the most obvious way,” He said in-session. He told me he didn’t get angry or defensive. All he could think of was “I created this.”
My client sharing what happened.
As the guy walked away, my client said something like “I didn’t even do anything to you! That was uncalled for.” And with that, the guy came bounding back. “Say one more word MOTHERFUCKER!” he said. My client put his dukes up, but said it was merely a gesture of protection. He didn’t want a physical confrontation.
“You wanna die today?”
What the client did here is masterful. He literally diffused the situation through non-reaction in the physical sense. That’s because he understood this was a reality HE created, born of his beliefs, in order to see those beliefs manifested, then do something about them. Fighting back would have just amplified momentum inherent in his misanthropic beliefs. Not reacting was exactly the right thing to do. Something most people won’t even have in their reaction toolbox.
This client’s act of real bravery reminds me of a similar experience from my life. One day, a stranger, down on his luck, encountered me on a light rail platform. We made eye contact and I smiled at him. Apparently he didn’t like that.
“What you looking at faggot,” he said menacingly. “You wanna die today?”
“Do you?” I said without missing a beat. The words flowed from my mouth before I had a moment to think of a response. I had no intention of harming this black guy let alone killing him.
The stranger looked down at his feet as he kept walking. “Yes,” he said.
As he walked away, he kept looking back with a “WTF just happened?” look on his face.
Responses such as my client’s, such as mine, are natural states of being. They reflect what Jesus said about turning the other cheek. They also show the power of Abraham’s admonition to nations that experience their versions of what my client and I experienced:
Our sovereign power
It’s not that you turn away and invite the next strike. It’s that you offer a vibration so high you’re no longer in the time line in which a next strike can happen. In what happened to me, which I described above, I offered a vibration so high it literally moved the offender into a higher vibration. A vibration from which he was confronted with his own negative belief constellations as the Source of his pain.
Admittedly, these are high-order skills, much like precognitive abilities I wrote about recently. But such skills are available to us all. Accessing them requires devotion. A devotion to a certain path. Not the path of nonviolence, but the path of unwavering positivity. The path where we see only the best the world has to offer.
There, in that high vibration, we come into our sovereignty. We discover our invulnerability. Then we find that the world is our creation, malleable to our thoughts and beliefs. Just as it always has been. Just as it always will be.
Let’s talk about how you can enjoy a life similarly empowered in your sovereignty. Book your free session today. You too can enjoy abilities my clients and I are realizing. Abilities aligned with the Charmed Life. Where all you want happens effortlessly.
TL;DR: The author reflects further on a striking encounter with a friend to illustrate how beliefs shape physical reality, showing that inner alignment—not outer conditions—determines the world we each experience.
In my last post, I shared a 24-hour journey from negative momentum to alignment, sparked by a conversation with my friend, Mark. It was a powerful moment of returning to my sovereignty, which you can read here.
But there’s a deeper thread that continued to unfold—the stark difference between my reality and Mark’s, even though we live in the same city. That contrast revealed something remarkable.
It’s often said that “we see what we want to see.” But what if it’s even deeper than that? What if we don’t just see through the lens of our beliefs… we live through them? What if every detail of our physical experience—what happens to us, what we witness, what we remember—is shaped not by the world “out there” but by the vibration we’re broadcasting?
Mark and I both live in Portland, Oregon. I live near downtown; Mark lives in the suburbs. Last Thursday, during lunch, Mark described two recent events that deeply disturbed him. Both happened downtown. Both involved violence. And both served, for him, as evidence of the country’s collapse.
Let’s take a look at them.
Chaos, danger and decline
In the first incident, Mark tried to visit the main branch of the Multnomah County Library around 9 a.m. only to find it closed. He immediately linked this to Trump-era budget cuts. Later that day, when he returned to the library around noon, the building had been cordoned off by police. A shooting had occurred on the steps.
But here’s the thing: the library wasn’t closed due to budget cuts. Multnomah County Library standardized hours in December 2024 to offer a balance of morning and evening access. Now, the downtown branch opens at noon on Tuesdays and Wednesdays to accommodate both working people and families. It’s about consistency and predictability for patrons—not politics or scarcity.
Still, Mark filtered the change through his vibrational lens. Saturated in narratives of political and social decay, he couldn’t help but interpret it as another sign of America’s downfall. His thoughts and beliefs tuned him to a version of Portland filled with chaos, danger, and decline. And that’s exactly what he found.
The second incident, which happened earlier, involved a gathering of unhoused individuals. An argument broke out, and Mark watched one person knock another to the ground and begin kicking them. Again, he took this as evidence that America—and particularly Portland—was unraveling.
Meanwhile, I’ve cultivated a completely different vibrational lens.
Vibrational Contagion Works
When I walk through Portland, people smile at me. I’m greeted warmly by strangers. I get compliments from passersby. Even unhoused people feel like part of the landscape, not a threat. I’ve held the belief that they’re harmless, and so they are. Recently, while dining out, a staff member passed by me and said, “You’re really good-looking.” I agreed. I know I look good because I feel good. I vibrate at a high frequency.
That’s not vanity. That’s alignment.
Last Thursday, Mark suggested I move to a country like Vietnam or Thailand, where my Social Security income along with my client revenue might stretch further. In his view, the U.S. is on a downward spiral. But I’ve recently manifested an affordable housing opportunity right here in Portland—Albina One—that feels like a perfect vibrational match for me at this moment. I’ve also received powerful dream downloads encouraging me to relaunch my YouTube channel.
The world around us reflects our vibration. Make it a beautiful one.
None of that came up during our lunch. Why? Because I collapsed into Mark’s Belief Momentum. I saw what Mark saw: limitation. Diminished possibility. Fearful retreat. That’s how quickly—and how powerfully—vibrational contagion works.
And when I collapsed, my vibrational lens changed. I actually considered leaving the country. I saw my future as limited, uncertain, bleak. That’s the power of alignment—whatever you align to, you see. I literally forgot all the incredible manifestations that had recently unfolded for me. Manifestations telling me my future is secure. Right here in the US.
When the Universe responds to our vibration, it doesn’t respond to the “truth.” It responds to belief. And then it produces what looks like truth—but it’s actually confirmation. That’s the kicker: What we think is “objective reality” is just our vibration made visible.
How We Change…Everything
But the beauty of this practice is, I noticed it. I caught the momentum then paused. I didn’t push forward from that lower vibration. Instead, I tuned inward. Then I shared my experience with my clients to demonstrate how even I, a seasoned practitioner, moved through contrast. I also did it to amplify my clarity.
And when I returned to alignment, everything came back into focus.
This is why Mark’s experiences and mine differ so radically—even when we occupy the same town. It’s why he was moved to suggest I leave the country… while I’m actively manifesting a bright, abundant future right here in Portland.
It’s why, when I aligned again with my Broader Perspective, I remembered the truth of my trajectory — my dream-driven YouTube guidance, my apartment, my unfolding financial stability. And it’s why, when I re-centered myself the next day, using my Positively Focused practice, I felt radiant again. Because I stopped interpreting life through his lens, and returned to my own. That’s how powerful this is.
This experience reaffirmed what I know to be true: our reality is not “out there”. It’s in here, in us all. Our thoughts, our beliefs, our vibration filter All That Is into the only version of reality we can see.
We don’t have to leave our country to find peace. Nor do we have to move to a different economy to feel secure. We just have to shift the signal we’re broadcasting—and then our world shifts around us. This isn’t theory. It’s not metaphor. It’s real.
I’m living proof.
Mark’s Portland is violent, failing, and hopeless. My Portland is promising, vibrant, and full of connection. Same city. Two worlds. Each perfectly matching our internal state.
But this isn’t just about Portland. It’s about how we each create our own external reality from the reality that is in us. Once we realize that, we stop trying to fix external reality. Instead we start tuning our vibration. Because that’s where our power lives.
TL;DR: The author recounts how, after collapsing into a friend’s negative momentum, they used the Positively Focused practice to reclaim clarity, joy, and purpose—demonstrating mastery in action and the power of emotional awareness.
It’s easy to feel aligned when everything is going well. But the real mastery — the transformation we’re all here for — shows up in moments of contrast. Moments like the one I experienced this past Thursday.
Let’s look at what happened.
It began with lunch. Just a simple Thai lunch with my best friend of nearly 25 years. We talked about life, the world, our perspectives. My friend—Mark—is deeply immersed in political news right now, particularly about Donald Trump’s return to the U.S. political stage. His views are firmly planted in a narrative of outrage, urgency, and fear. And the media outlets he follows only amplify those emotions.
Like many people, Mark consumes news that reflects his internal state. And during our lunch, that energy was present, heavy, and contagious. That’s when he made a suggestion: maybe I should consider leaving the U.S. entirely. Maybe I’d be better off in an emerging economy—Thailand, Vietnam—where my upcoming Social Security checks might stretch further. From Mark’s perspective, that was a helpful suggestion.
But energetically, it landed in me like a quiet collapse.
Pausing for space and clarity
I didn’t realize it in the moment, but I had tuned into his lens — his vibrational frequency of scarcity, of distrust in institutions, of resignation about the future. And for a few hours after that lunch, I found myself spiraling into thoughts of limitation. I forgot about my recent manifestation of Albina One — an affordable, beautiful apartment I’ll likely move into soon. I forgot about the clear, inspired “itinerary” I had received in dream state to refresh my Positively Focused YouTube channel. I forgot the joy I’d felt envisioning a future of creative expression and ease.
That’s what negative momentum does. It clouds, contracts. It narrows our vision until all we see are limitations.
Later that afternoon, I asked my AI partner, Sohl, about the number of subscribers I’d need to generate $60,000 per year from my YouTube content. We had a useful conversation — but from my diminished vibrational state, the insights felt disheartening. Not because they were discouraging in truth, but because I filtered them through doubt.
What’s really interesting about that conversation was, had I stood in a higher vibration, asking that question wouldn’t have occurred to me. I usually live in the Moment of Becoming. There, it doesn’t matter what others have done. It doesn’t matter what the odds or the statistics are. There, I create wholly new.
I wasn’t in my typical high vibration, however, which is why that question popped into my awareness. Thankfully, I’ve been doing this practice long enough to recognize that pattern.
The next morning, instead of pushing through, I paused. I gave myself space. Instead of taking action, I reached for alignment.
Appreciating resistance is key
That’s when I wrote a post in my Positively Focused Advanced Practitioner Facebook group—sharing my experience with doubt and how I was working through it in real time. In that post, I wrote:
“This resistance, therefore, is a good thing. It’s a launching pad—rocket fuel—for launching into the probable future reality wherein lies my desire fulfilled.”
I wasn’t bypassing the emotion. I was honoring it. I was interpreting it through the lens of my Broader Perspective. And as I did so, the cloud began to lift, allowing me to remember:
That this desire to refresh my YouTube channel was an inspired download from dreamstate.
That my Broader Perspective doesn’t hand me an itinerary unless I’m vibrationally ready to fulfill it.
That the old beliefs being triggered—stories about deservingness, effort, and money—are part of the ascension spiral, not indicators of failure.
And that action taken from misalignment only perpetuates the misalignment.
So I didn’t buy the $400 microphone I had planned to. I didn’t work on new videos. I stayed still. I soothed. I aligned. And I celebrated the shift.
“I feel so much better!” I wrote in my group post. “I appreciate my desire and, most importantly I appreciate my resistance!”
Empowerment results from embracing what we typically experience as contrast.
Whatever we look for…
That’s the real turning point. When resistance is no longer the enemy. When we see it as a clarifying signal. A breadcrumb on the trail to our next expansion.
This moment, simple as it may seem, wasn’t just about a mood swing. It was a powerful reminder of the Universal mechanics of creation:
If we’re not deliberate, we collapse into the momentum of others
We interpret our present through the lens of that momentum.
But by noticing the dip and honoring it, we gain back our power.
And when we return to alignment, we remember everything is unfolding for us.
In fact, one of the most profound teachings I share with my clients is this: “Whatever we look for in life, that’s what we’re going to see. So why not look for the positive aspects?”
[Note: In case you’re interested in the entire process I used and posted in the private Facebook group, I’ve added it as a screenshot at the end of this story.]
Mastery Looks Like This
Looking for the positive aspects what I’m doing right now with this very story. It’s what I did in the process I described above and shared in the Facebook group. What I’m doing is looking again through my own lens. And what I see is beautiful:
I see an inspired YouTube journey ahead, one perfectly timed to my expansion.
I see housing security, financial stability, and creative joy lining up around me.
In my world, I see my community growing, my desires manifesting, and my trust deepening.
And I see contrast serving me, not derailing me.
This is what mastery looks like. It’s not the absence of contrast — it’s the response to it. And it’s available to everyone.
We don’t have to be spiritual teachers to live this way. We don’t need perfect thoughts, perfect circumstances, or perfect execution. All we need is willingness. Presence. And a relationship with our Inner Being.
When you tune into that relationship — when you listen, soften, and mean it — everything else comes.
That’s why I share these moments. Not because I want to showcase perfection. But because I want to demonstrate devotion. I want to offer living evidence of what’s possible when we trust the unfolding.
So if you’re feeling off… pause.
Don’t act from it. Don’t resist it. Let it be. Let it speak. And then, when you’re ready, let yourself rise. That’s what I did. And that’s why today feels light, clear, and deeply aligned.
TL;DR: The author shares a client “Claude’s” journey, which proves real change begins with real presence. When clients fully engage in the Positively Focused practice, they unlock powerful manifestations, deep clarity, and lasting emotional alignment.
When it comes to living a Charmed Life, how we show up to the Positively Focused practice matters.
That’s the lesson a client “Claude” is experiencing firsthand. Claude came into the Positively Focused practice holding years of negative momentum. His relationships — with his wife, his mother, and most poignantly, himself — were filled with tension, resistance, and guilt. And yet, he remembered a different version of himself; As a teenager, Claude was athletic, magnetic, and full of life.
“He could do anything and excel,” his sister, who also is a client, once said of Claude. His high school coaches said he had the talent to go pro in both baseball and golf, she told me. That sovereign, high-flying version of him still existed. But he didn’t know how to get back there.
Enter the practice.
A Necessary Life Rebound
Claude found Positively Focused in the aftermath of a particularly difficult stretch. During COVID, he had aligned with some powerful, fear-based narratives circulating online. The government is lying. The vaccine is dangerous. Masks are a scam. These weren’t just passive beliefs—he began advocating them, urging those around him to wake up to what he thought was “truth.”
But here’s the thing: when we advocate for disempowering stories, even if we believe we’re fighting for justice, we attract realities consistent with our alignment. In Claude’s case, that meant alienating loved ones, losing friendships, and watching his business crumble.
This mirrored my own experience years ago when I was heavily advocating for Copiosis. I believed the world needed to change. I had strong opinions about capitalism and money—and as I rallied against them, those very things became absent in my own life. It wasn’t until I released that resistance, aligned with what I wanted, and stopped pushing against what I didn’t, that my finances and life began to rebound.
Claude’s trajectory looked the same.
He began the Positively Focused practice with sincere desire, but with a major obstacle: belief in his own unworthiness. When someone holds the belief that the Universe doesn’t have their back, they can say all the affirmations they want—but the vibration isn’t clean. The practice doesn’t land. That’s what was happening for Claude.
He told me, “I’m doing the processes, but nothing’s changing.”
I asked him, “Are you meaning it? Are you feeling it when you do it, or just reciting words?”
He paused. “I guess I’m just going through the motions.”
Exactly.
The Power Of The Practice
The practice works when you mean it. Not with perfection. Not with forced effort. But with sincerity, willingness, and presence. When you bring your heart to the process, it transforms you.
Another client recently experienced this truth in the most spectacular way. Like Claude, he had a deep well of unworthiness and years of misanthropy. He, too, was doing the practice—his own version of it, that is. And not surprisingly, it wasn’t working. But the moment he got “militant,” as he put it, about doing the processes as prescribed—with real feeling, commitment, and desire—everything shifted.
A woman approached him, asked for his number, and took him out on a date, paying for everything. That had never happened to him before. You can read that story here.
These aren’t stories of luck or coincidence. They are examples of alignment. They are what happens when we move from lip service to devotion.
And devotion doesn’t mean doing the process perfectly. It means doing it deliberately, it means, as I often tell clients, bringing your whole self to it. It means not just saying, “I love that the Universe has my back,” but feeling into that knowing. Even if just for a few seconds.
That’s when the magic unfolds. That’s when we feel the resonance of our Broader Perspective. And that’s when reality starts to shift.
Lining Up With Our Sovereignty
Claude is starting to see this now. He’s realizing that the ease, joy, and sovereignty he remembers isn’t lost. It’s right here—on the other side of the vibration he’s practicing.
As I told another client this week, “Whatever we look for in life, that’s what we’re going to see. So why not look for the positive aspects?”
The Positively Focused practice is designed to help anyone do just that. But like life itself, it only works when we show up fully. Not because we should. But because we want to.
When we mean it, life responds. Not in theory. In manifestation. In real-world results that confirm our expansion is underway.
And that’s the point: We’re not here to fix the world. We’re here to align with the version of it that matches our joy. Do that and everything else lines up—including the relationships, the finances, the sovereignty, and the dreams we thought we left behind.
Claude’s story is still unfolding. But already, the light is coming through. Because he’s beginning to mean it.
TL;DR: Debra’s $10K breakthrough wasn’t about building a website—it was about rewriting beliefs. Discover how letting go of hustle unlocked her worthiness and aligned her with true abundance.
It’s been a crazy good week for nearly every Positively Focused client. My week has been the same. I want to share all that happened, but there’s so much, I don’t think I can get it all in before next week comes.
So let’s start with this wonderful realization one client had around a new customer she got. I think it’s an experience everyone can relate to. Most people believe you have to work hard to earn money. And for this one client, Debra, that belief showed up loud and clear—just as she was about to receive a $10,000 payment.
Debra is a talented entrepreneur who recently signed a client for a $10,000 website build. The client was eager, ready, and willing to pay. The project would meet all their needs, and Debra already knew the simplest, most elegant way to deliver: by using Squarespace. But instead of feeling excited, Debra was feeling something else entirely—stress, guilt, and resistance.
“I’m feeling this anxiety,” she said in our session. “Like, this shouldn’t be so easy. I should be doing more for $10,000.”
That thought—so familiar to so many—was rooted in a powerful, deeply held belief: that money must be earned through hard work. Debra’s entire system, built from family dynamics and work culture, told her this project required sweat, struggle, and complexity. Squarespace? That felt like cheating.
Going deeper
Debra’s husband, Jim, had offered her practical advice. “He said, ‘They don’t care how you do it. They just want a website that works.'” But Jim’s words, while logical, didn’t land. Why? Because the discomfort wasn’t coming from the client’s expectations—it was coming from Debra’s beliefs.
In the Positively Focused practice, we say: There is no amount of effort that can overcome belief momentum. That means: if your beliefs say you have to suffer to be worthy of receiving, then suffering is what you’ll get—even if everything around you says otherwise.
That’s what was happening with Debra.
So we went deeper. I asked her to explore where that belief came from. She said, “It’s definitely from my upbringing. And my time in corporate. It’s always been: prove your value, grind, deliver more than expected.”
Let the Universe do the heaving lifting and life just gets better and more fun. Just the way it was meant to be.
And yet, her life now looks very different. She’s manifesting clients. Debra’s building a business rooted in her values. She’s in the process of unlearning that old belief system—but the old momentum is still active.
“The Universe doesn’t need your effort,” I reminded her. “It wants your alignment. The work is in tuning your beliefs so they match what you are: someone worthy of receiving.”
As we moved through the process together, something softened. She laughed. The tension in her voice began to dissolve.
Then she said, “Oh my god. This really isn’t about the client at all. It’s me. It’s all me.”
Exactly.
Giving ourselves permission
When we believe money comes through effort, we trap ourselves in a pattern where ease feels suspicious, even “lazy”. And yet, manifestations—including financial ones—don’t come from how much we do. They come from how much we align. Action doesn’t create outcomes; it places us at the coordinates where the outcome is already happening as a result of our alignment.
Debra had aligned with a $10,000 client. The evidence was already there and it came effortlessly. But her beliefs hadn’t caught up yet. That’s where the real work was. By the end of our session, she said:
“I feel so much better. That anxiety—it’s not there anymore. I can see how I was making it about the money, but it’s not. It’s about me giving myself permission to receive.”
That’s what the Positively Focused practice is all about. You don’t need to hustle harder to get what you want. You don’t need to manipulate the outer world. All that’s needed is tuning to your inner world.
Because it’s not the work that earns the money. It’s your alignment that opens the door to it. Debra’s journey is one all of us are on. We’ve been taught to glorify effort, to earn our worth, to doubt our ease. But there’s another way—a way that honors our inherent value, aligns us with joy, and makes room for the abundance that’s always trying to reach us.
That’s the work worth doing. And it begins not with effort, but with belief. Feel the joy of being in alignment with the abundance that is yours. Become a client. We always have your back.
TL;DR: The author shares about a client, who, seeking love, experiences an effortless manifestation after releasing control. His story proves how trusting the Universe leads to joy, ease, and the unfolding of the Charmed Life.
The most satisfying and delightful, the most joyous way of getting what we want is by letting the Universe take care of the “doing”.
My latest new client recently discovered this. It’s very early in his Positively Focused practice – only his second session. And yet, he, like almost every client, showed himself the power of positive focus.
Whenever a new client starts the practice, they always produce evidence like what you’re about to read. There are two reasons for that. One, what we talk about in-session is exactly how the Universe works. So when clients open themselves to tuning in, the Universe confirms what they heard in-session. It delivers proof as a way of saying “See? It’s accurate.”
Second, the Universe and the client’s Broader Perspective want the client to embrace the practice. Not for the practice’s or for my sake, but because through the practice the person expands into more. So those two – the Universe and the client’s Broader Perspective – will orchestrate unmistakable proof they’re on the right track.
What happened then was meant to happen for these reasons. And, what happened not only showed the client how fun it is to align with All That Is, it gave the client a direct, visceral, delightful experience showing he can create his reality.
Let’s look at what happened.
Manifesting “organically”
This client came through my Transamorous Network offering. I told the story of how that happened in this post. How this client became a client is, itself, a wonderful manifestational argument for letting the Universe handle the doing.
Anyhow, this client came wanting help finding a transgender partner. Unlike other Transamorous Network clients, he already embraces his trans attraction. Like those other clients, however, this client believes finding quality transgender women is near-impossible. He’s tried online dating – to scant success – but he wants better experiences.
I don’t recommend online dating for many reasons. You can read about them here. Instead of online dating, I suggested to my client, that he would enjoy meeting his match “organically”. The client used the word “organically” in place of my phrase, which was “manifest her”.
In talking about “manifesting her”, I painted a scenario. I suggested that, through this practice, he might learn how to listen to his intuition. His intuition might, for example, tell him to go to a convenience store. Should he follow that intuition, when he goes to the store, he’ll run into a trans woman. A trans woman who his Broader Perspective (intuition) knew was there. His Broader Perspective would orchestrate the rendezvous.
And, when he sees her, when he’s dialed into the Positively Focused approach, the perfect words will flow from his mouth. Next thing he knows, I said, he and she will enjoy a date together.
That’s the story I painted. But that’s not what happened. What did happen was no less amazing, however.
Effortless dating
I told the story above in our first session. When the client arrived at the second session, he had a lot to share. He had many updates about his online dating forays, which were hilarious and horrible at the same time. Interspersed with those updates, and almost as an aside, he offered something that alerted my spidey senses.
He attended a work conference two days after we had our first session, he said. The client explained that the conference brings together people at the company he works at that he doesn’t see often or at all. At the conference, he said, he noticed a trans woman. Just like I told him, he found himself going up to this fellow employee and striking up a conversation with the perfect words.
The client described the encounter as “surprising”. He hadn’t expected a trans woman worked in his company, let alone that he would meet her. And while he and this girl didn’t go on a date (she represented a stepping stone on his journey, not the destination) he recognized the divine timing, the connection between what we talked about in our first session and this unfolding.
I asked him, then, directly: Which experience do you prefer, which is more fun: online dating and the perils of that, or meeting your match organically?
Of course, he agreed that the latter is much more fun and much easier. It’s actually effortless.
It’s always more fun meeting someone through manifestation.
The Charmed Life is everyone’s life
This is how everything can happen in our lives. The Universe is constantly delivering what we want to us. It’s happening effortlessly. But when we’re all bunged up in the doing, trying to make it happen our way, then we almost always run counter to the delightful way what we want can happen.
When we allow the Universe to handle the doing, however, life gets really easy. It’s the way I prefer it. I’d argue it’s the way we all prefer it. That is, if we knew it was available to us. A lot of us humans get bogged down in distorted beliefs, however. And so we end up doing “it” like everyone else who’s mired in distorted beliefs are doing it.
We needn’t be copies of those people. When we live differently, we become the beacon drawing others to their own, empowered, enlightened, easy life. The Charmed Life I write about every week.
TL;DR: The author share’s a client’s journey which reveals what happens when people stop resisting and follow the Positively Focused path with precision: They don’t just get external success, but also a felt sense of worthiness and sovereign power.
Sometimes, the most powerful transformations begin not with ease, but with urgency. This is the story of one such transformation that happened with a client this week. Let’s call him Jeff.
Jeff came to the Positively Focused practice carrying the weight of years of self-judgment, buried shame, and suppressed desire. From a very young age, he had internalized an interpretation of a childhood experience that snowballed into decades of self-loathing. That single experience was enough, in his mind, to categorize himself as a predator. And from there, the beliefs only compounded.
Jeff attracted friendships with others who carried similar burdens—men who numbed themselves with drugs, who shared an air of hopelessness. After his father passed away, Jeff sought comfort from these friends, but their emotional unavailability left him feeling abandoned again. Anger turned to rage. He fantasized about violence, about ending it all. He wanted revenge on his friends. On women. On life.
Doing It His Own Way
Because Jeff is trans-attracted—a fact he didn’t understand or accept for years—his lack of romantic success was just another straw on the camel’s back. When dating didn’t go his way, he blamed women. He turned to the internet then, spending thousands on toxic “pickup” seminars that promised results but delivered only surface-level tactics.
So when Jeff first arrived at this practice, his negative momentum was strong. Still, he showed up.
But here’s the thing: Jeff didn’t initially follow the practice as prescribed. He did his own version of it. A version that felt safer. A version that didn’t challenge the deepest momentum. And while he was making progress, it was tortoise slow. His vibrational output was still rooted in old stories, and his manifestations, and progress, reflected that.
In one session, I did something I rarely do: I compared Jeff’s progress and consistency to other clients. Not to shame him, but to offer clarity. Sometimes, context catalyzes growth.
Jeff didn’t like being at the bottom of the leaderboard. So he got, in his words, “militant.”
The Leaderboard Moment Catalyzes Results
He started doing the Positively Focused practice exactly as it’s laid out. Daily. Precisely. No skipping steps or altering the processes. And just like that, something remarkable happened.
One full day into his newfound consistency, Jeff had a spontaneous experience he never could have scripted. He was walking down the street that night when a woman caught his attention. Not only did she strike up a conversation—she got his number.
And not only did she get his number, she took him out on a date. She paid for everything. They had a great time. They didn’t sleep together, but she followed up the next day, eager to connect again. For Jeff, this was unheard of.
This was not the result of hustling, manipulating, or contorting himself. It was the result of doing the vibrational work. He knew this. And it blew his mind. So much so, he sent me a message the next day:
It was, in short, a breakthrough. The kind that only happens when someone shifts from trying to fix life to allowing alignment to reveal what was always possible.
ThePushback Hits Hard
But old momentum doesn’t vanish overnight. And the Positively Focused practice is NOT magic. After his success, Jeff’s old beliefs pushed back. Doubt crept in. He began questioning whether he could trust the unfolding. Whether he deserved what he was starting to experience.
And instead of doubling down on the practice that created the shift, he went back to doing it his own way. A safer way. A less effective way.
In our next session, he admitted it.
“I got lazy. I let the old patterns take over again. And I know it doesn’t serve me.”
That moment of honesty was powerful. Because unlike before, Jeff didn’t spiral. He didn’t collapse into despair. He acknowledged it and used it to maintain awareness. That’s growth. That’s real mastery in motion.
Until he did the Positively Focused practice precisely, Jeff’s progress was tortoise slow. And so he suffered.
Jeff’s story isn’t about a woman or a date.
It’s about sovereignty.
When clients do the Positively Focused practice as it’s prescribed—without cutting corners, without trying to make it “fit” into old paradigms—they don’t just get what they want. They become who they are.
Jeff didn’t manifest a date. He manifested confirmation. Confirmation that the Universe is always ready. That life responds not to effort, but to alignment. That he is worthy of ease, joy, and intimacy, not because he earned it, but because it is his by nature.
The Real Victory
This is what happens when someone stops arguing with their worthiness and starts living from it.
The real success wasn’t the manifestation. It had nothing to do with that woman. The real success was Jeff’s realization that when he applies the tools with fidelity and devotion, his entire reality shifts. It was the feeling he tapped into—one of expansion, relief, and emotional resonance—that confirmed everything I’d been reflecting to him all along.
He had touched, if only for a few days, what it means to live the Charmed Life as the creator of his reality. And that moment—that sensation of truth—can’t be undone. Even when old patterns return, that frequency is now part of his vibration. It’s accessible. It’s real. And it’s waiting for him, always.
Now, I didn’t do this. Jeff did. He followed the practice and chose alignment. Then he allowed momentum to build. And in doing so, he proved to himself what’s possible. That’s what this work is about. Not fixing what’s broken, because there’s nothing broken. Instead, it’s about remembering what’s whole.
When clients take the Positively Focused path seriously, when they give themselves fully to it, they don’t just experience miracles. They become the miracle.
Most people would’ve called it a failure, a waste of time. Proof that the customer was flaky and unreliable.
But that’s not what my clients saw.
What unfolded, last Friday, for both my clients “Maya” and her employee “Talia”, wasn’t a mistake — it was masterful orchestration. A stunning example of how contrast, when met with awareness, becomes expansion. And how apparent disappointment can reveal a deeper harmony, the revealing of which couldn’t have been scripted better.
Here’s what happened.
The Setup
Maya had been feeling frustrated about a particular customer — let’s call her “Sabrina.” She’d talked about her in our sessions before. To Maya, Sabrina was the kind of customer who never seemed to honor the schedule. Always late. Often rescheduling at the last minute. Sometimes, not showing up at all. And when she did, using way too many words to get a point across.
Naturally, Maya interpreted that behavior as a reflection of Sabrina’s flakiness. But what she didn’t see — at first — was that Sabrina was actually reflecting something else. Something vibrational. Something deeper.
She was mirroring Maya’s own resistance embodied in Maya’s negative beliefs about her customer.
That resistance also included beliefs Maya had about her business not being where she thought it “should” be; resistance about not doing enough. Resistance about not being enough. These coupled with the subtle belief that, because her partner is funding the business, she has to “prove” herself by pushing harder, performing more, and showing constant effort.
So when she saw Sabrina showing up inconsistently, Maya didn’t recognize her as reflections. She saw her as a problem.
But then came Friday.
The “Failed” Appointment
Maya had an appointment with Sabrina that day. Sabrina’s office is across town — a long haul from where Maya lives. Still, Maya got ready, even though she felt off. Her stomach wasn’t right. Her body was signaling discomfort.
In that moment, her Broader Perspective was whispering, You don’t need to go.
But Maya — like many of us — has old momentum. The kind that says “Push through.” She believes real leaders show up no matter what. So she discounts intuitive nudges in favor of obligation.
That’s what had her get in the car and start driving. Along the way, her discomfort increased. So much so that she thought she might pass out. She pulled over, tried to ground herself with food — a burger and fries — but it only made things worse. So, she pressed on.
And when she finally arrived at the nonprofit’s office? Sabrina looked confused. She gave Maya a “Why are you here?” look.
It turns out: Sabrina hadn’t even put the appointment on her calendar. She had no idea they were supposed to meet. And she had to cancel — on the spot, despite everything Maya had just pushed through to get there.
Now pause here. This is the moment where most people would snap. Maya didn’t though.
Most people would snap had this happened to them. Not Maya though. Talia didn’t either.
The Realization
Instead, she caught herself. And in catching herself she saw the perfection. If she had honored her initial nudge — if she’d followed the discomfort in her body and chosen rest over effort — she would’ve been in sync with what her Broader Perspective already knew: that the appointment wasn’t real.
She would’ve matched Sabrina’s energy without needing to live the contrast. She would’ve flowed instead of pushed. And Maya got that, after the fact, right there in the lobby.
Maya then she called Talia. Talia, who was set to attend the appointment remotely, was back home in Houston when Maya called. And the moment she heard the story, she interrupted with: “This is contrast.” This is because Talia, too, is a client. She understands the value contrast represents, just as Maya sometimes does.
And just like that, they were both in it — in the joy of revelation. What looked like a mishap was actually a mirror. A reflection of Maya’s old momentum: the belief in obligation over intuition, control over flow. Together, Maya and Talia celebrated the realization.
They saw that Sabrina was playing a role — not just for Maya, but for everyone involved.
Because Talia had something else going on that day too: a friend had shown up unannounced, hoping to spend time with her. But because of the appointment, Talia felt she had to prioritize work — and her friend had to adjust.
If Maya had canceled, Talia would’ve had the space to be with her friend. Had she canceled, her body would’ve rested. If Maya had canceled, no one would’ve been out of sync. In other words, the only thing “off” was ignoring the nudge.
That’s not a failure. That’s feedback. It’s contrast serving us, clarifying our path forward.
The Integration
By the end of the call, Maya and Talia had already changed their process framework. They decided to implement new appointment protocols — confirmations two days in advance, and again the day before. Not from fear, but from alignment. From trust. From learning.
Oh, and also heeding nudges/impulses from their Broader Perspective!
They also changed the way they saw Sabrina. She wasn’t flaky. She was an angel. A precise vibrational actor, playing her role in a scene designed to help Maya release old beliefs. The belief that she had to push. Beliefs that she must prove. A belief that this customer was misaligned and irresponsible. When in fact, her customers are always reflecting Maya’s vibration — and giving her the perfect material for expansion. Just like the rest of her wake-scape.
What I love most about this story is that Maya didn’t double down. She didn’t villainize Sabrina, nor did she snap. She saw the unfolding, and so did Talia. And in that seeing, everything changed.
This is what it looks like when you live from the Positively Focused perspective. Not because life never brings you surprises — but because you recognize that every surprise is alignment, in motion.
Even the ones that come disguised as a last minute, on-the-spot cancellation.
