A joyful confirmation happened yesterday. It happened with a client between sessions. What happened completely confirmed everything clients and I talk about in the Positively Focused practice.
While writing one of these posts yesterday, I got the feeling this client needed encouragement. My Broader Perspective is connected to his Broader Perspective. So I can sometimes tell how he’s doing even if we’re not talking in the moment. It’s the same connection through which I caused a client to step out of “having allergies” as a reality, and into being “allergy free”. Here’s a link to the short story about that. A longer, more detailed explanation will go live in a few weeks.
Back to this client.
So my Broader Perspective, while I was writing the post yesterday, said “reach out to [him] give him a taste of what you’re wanting him to do.” This client is resisting a process that is part of the Positively Focused practice. He’s resisting it because his negative momentum is strong. So strong he can’t overcome it enough to do the process. Ironically, it’s through the process that he’ll overcome it. So the client finds himself in a stuck-paradox. One he’ll break through eventually.
The process involves expressing appreciation for things about his life. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet some clients struggle with it. A lot of times it’s because clients are so oriented to fixing problems and being nose-to-the-grindstone in life, they don’t know how to be appreciative. Or they think it’s dumb. Or, like this client, their dominant negative momentum prevents them from doing it for a time.
When my Broader Perspective told me what it did, I jumped to it. These days I know it’s in my best interest to respond whenever my Broader Perspective calls. So I dashed out a long list of statements as though he were writing it and texted it to him:
By the time I finished this text, I felt high-flying even before I sent it. Even before he responded. But when he did respond, it was a massive moment of confirmation for us both. It proved how accurate this practice is. And it showed how connected we all are. Here’s how he replied followed by my response right after his:
We are all connected. Our society convinces us of the opposite though. We become insecure about, then fearful about others, which then amplifies the separation. In just a little while though, in just a little time spent in a higher vibration, we can uncover the connection that exists, not only between ourselves and All That Is, but with other humans and animals as well.
We come back into our fullness. There we find the mystical, seemingly magical power of co-creation combined with our sovereign clarity. And in that clarity we can offer others reflections that touch them at the deepest parts of what they are. Which is what happened between me and this client yesterday.
TL;DR: A client transformed from feeling like an imposter to embracing self-love and confidence. By shifting focus inward, he overcame suicidal thoughts, found authenticity, and now thrives in the Charmed Life.
A surprising number of clients express having once experienced “Imposter Syndrome”. Usually, they make such statements after getting over that syndrome. Often, Imposter Syndrome precedes thoughts about killing themselves. Both the syndrome and wanting to kill one’s self point to a tremendously good thing. But most people can’t see the good; they only see the not good.
That’s why I do this work. I love it when people “suffering” from such conditions find their empowerment through those same conditions. On the way to building a permanent happiness in their lives, they find their empowerment and their confidence too. Sometimes, clients let me share their stories. In that way they become shining beacons for others. Their example helps others improve their lives.
Such is the case with the client who allowed me to share a segment of his recent session. In this session, he raved about his progress and about how much he loves who he has become. In that becoming, he’s not only learned to own his bad-assery, he also has found his authenticity feels better than trying to please people by being a chameleon.
Let’s look more closely at his story.
“I was making all that money…but still wanted to kill myself.”
Cain is an Positively Focused advanced client. As a result, he’s not only living the Charmed Life, he’s an example to others about what’s possible through the Positively Focused practice.
Before discovering Positively Focused, he was making a lot of money, but he still wasn’t happy. A big part of his unhappiness was feeling like an imposter, not feeling he fit in anywhere and struggling with being happy. But don’t take my word for it. Hear it directly from him. The video below comes right from our recent 1:1 session.
As you can tell, Cain has found an extraordinary level of self-love. Self love happens naturally once a person reaches for and achieves the Charmed Life I write about in this blog. The Charmed Life is the natural way of living. Living this way we’re free to be ourselves, no matter what other people think about us.
But very few people live their lives this way. Or they’re living a counterfeit version of it, where what they’re actually doing is reacting to what other people think of what they’re doing by living in a certain way as a kind of rebellion toward others’ opinions. That’s not the Charmed Life.
At their wits’ end
People can live according to how others think they should live for a long time. They can live their entire lives that way. But rarely do those people find happiness.
They may make a lot of money, like Cain was doing. But inside, they’re suffering. Some of those people end up wanting to kill themselves. Some actually do. About a third of my client roster comprises people who once thought about killing themselves. But everyone of them is now finding permanent happiness.
Why do so many people come to Positively Focused or something like Law of Attraction wanting to kill themselves as many of my clients have? I think it’s because they are at their wits’ end. They try everything else first because it doesn’t occur to them that the solution to their problems lies inside them.
So they try doing everything else they can. When that doesn’t work, their last stop tends to be something “woo”, like Law of Attraction or Positively Focused. They give up trying to “do” their way out of their problems, in other words. They try being. And then they get what they always wanted: Permanent happiness, a.k.a the Charmed Life.
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I’m regularly traveling into alternate dimensions these days. So often I do so, they now just seem like every day occurrences. And yet, I don’t take them for granted. That’s because they offer so many touch points for my expansion.
One Positively Focused advanced client experiences similar “departures”. That’s confirming. It tells me these aren’t “hallucinations” or “fantasies” my brain makes up. Rather, they happen for anyone willing to allow their consciousness to travel free of the body.
Any visual experience that goes beyond ordinary waking reality is a “departure” from physical reality. They’re what I nowadays call “multidimensional consciousness shifts”. My “allowing” started with a series of sensations which happened in meditation. I’ve written about these many times in my early posts. They got stronger, and rather than resisting them or fearing them, I first brought conscious focus to them. I wanted to amplify them.
Then, at one point, I became indifferent to the sensations. Instead, I focused on their origin. The sensations themselves are echoes of a source. They are not the source itself. That focus actually caused the sensations to strengthen.
Those experiences gave way to full-on, sudden transitions into alternate realities. I’m getting better at holding onto them and bringing them back into my present-moment waking reality. But they still come in a fleeting manner.
What it looks like
Here’s an example of a multidimensional consciousness shift that happened in meditation this morning, straight from my records:
I was in an industrial area, a rundown industrial area, one that was about to be demolished. A great big warehouse stood before me off in the distance a bit, and where I stood, accompanying me was a band of women, all beautiful, of different aspects…I felt at home there. I then walked forward toward the warehouse. As I approached, these great big demolition trucks appeared before me. They were facing me and as I walked through the line of trucks I came to a van expecting to see my partner, my female partner there…I came back into this reality and meditation. Then I had another shift wherein I saw a male in construction worker protective equipment. He was using a shovel to dig into the earth where little plants grew. It wasn’t a garden. It was more like a median strip or a public park or something like that.
There’s a difference between these shifts and my extremely detailed, long-form dream experiences. The former always feels like current reality in the sense that the environment I visit feels ordinary. The latter always feels magical, whimsical.
Accompanying dream sojourns are intense emotions, almost always including deep senses of love and belonging. What’s more, dream imagery always conveys some kind of meaning or intention. Every object in the dream carries such a message. Not so with multidimensional consciousness shifts.
Shifting versus dreaming
That’s because where I end up when shifting is happening “on the other side” of nonphysical. The places I go are like this reality. They are leading edge, full-blown manifestations of energy intention, just like this physical reality. As leading edge manifestations, they are fully-formed so to speak.
Dreams are not fully-formed the way physical is. They are real. But they carry a process energy and occur in nonphysical, not “on the other side” of this reality. Because of that, the experience itself is many layered, fluid, and infused with the creative energy that is me.
When shifting I visit a me-counterpart having their own experience. When dreaming, I am in the center of my All-That-Is-ness experiencing nonphysical directly, unfiltered.
Of course, there’s a method to such meetings I call multidimensional consciousness shifts. Shifts I experience, the locations I visit, are resonant with vibrations I emanate in meditation. So I can glean meaning from those travels.
Yesterday I wrote about a client struggling with “what is”, what she calls “the truth”. In a little over 24 hours, that client manifested a solution to that struggle. I wrote in that previous post about how fabulously she aligned to better-feeling thoughts about money making her a match to what happened next.
Without going into details, the client needed a lot of money. She worried about a home repair she needed. In our session this week, she projected her worry onto me, thereby creating a version of me she believed wasn’t doing the Positively Focused practice “correctly” because I didn’t give her money I promised I’d give her in the time she thought she needed it.
I did tell her when I’d give it to her and intend to keep that promise. But something I said, apparently triggered her. Combined with her worry about the repair, she projected the source of her problem onto me. Even though the amount I said I would give her was far, FAR less than what she told me she needed.
After clarifying how she was making me the origin of her problems, when in reality, it was her creating those problems for herself, I saw her visibly soothed. So much so that by the time yesterday’s session was over, she occurred as a totally different person than moments before. I then assured her that the money she believes she needs for this repair is, in fact, on the way. But she has to become a match to that money. Pointing out her shift in mood, I congratulated her on becoming that match.
Then it happened
This afternoon, I got several text messages from this client, proving, to me, at least, that I succeeded in having her collapse into my high vibration. That’s exactly what happened last week, with the client whose allergy symptoms went away when she collapsed into my high vibration. The client needing the repair texted nothing but positive things about how her budding business.
She texted nothing more about needing money.
A bit later, she sent me another text. In this one she told me that her work performance last week was so high, she earned an additional $1100 dollars! I asked her if she knew at the end of last month, before our session, that that’s how much she made. She had an idea she did well, she texted, but didn’t realize by how much. Not surprising at all (to me), $1100 was a little over the amount of money she said she needed.
This client is a powerful creator. Even when she’s struggling with becoming a match to what she wants, the Universe has her back. Even on a subject most people struggle with: money.
Let go and allow
This client still has some soothing to do on that topic and others. And yet, her manifestation shows how the universe will deliver – is delivering – everything we want in perfect timing.
As I also told her after receiving that text, sometimes the path to a manifestation’s fulfillment includes an intense period of momentary contrast. That’s usually because that intense period pushes us to finally let go and allow.
What’s so fun is all my clients are having their versions of these kinds of events. It’s all a testament to the power of the Positively Focused practice. You can enjoy your manifesting mastery too. It’s called the Charmed Life and it’s there for you. I can help you get it. Consider becoming a client. My new Cohort sessions promise even more fun and engagement all at a more affordable price.
TL;DR: The author asserts that the Positively Focused dream work reveals dreams as profound nonphysical experiences offering guidance, transformation, and connection with transitioned loved ones. Clients awaken to their expansive nature, unlocking joy, clarity, and boundless potential.
Our dreams come packed with extremely helpful information and crucial relational connections. Information and connections that, if we’re aware of them, and we integrate them, they benefit us significantly. This includes connections with relatives who have “died”.
But if we don’t believe we dream, or worse, if we don’t think dreams mean anything, then we not only not benefit from them, something else happens that is totally unnecessary: at death we enter the next phase of our journeys unprepared.
This explains why dream work is a big part of the Positively Focused Advance Practice. In the advanced practice, clients learn about dreams, how to interpret them and how to benefit from that interpretation.
The deeper clients dive into the dream work, the better they get at both dreaming and interpreting their dreams. As that happens, their personalities change. They expand, meaning clients realize they are far more than their physical bodies, and that they exist in far more places than this time-space reality. The Positively Focused dream work therefore offers so many benefits it’s a wonder sometimes why some clients dismiss this part of the practice.
Let’s look at a client’s recent dream experience as an example of what’s available while our bodies sleep.
His astounding dream
Cain is a 36-week Positively Focused client (“Cain” is pronounced “Kayeen”, not “Kane”). Early on, he experienced something remarkable as a beginning client: twice at night he found himself face-to-face with beings not of this reality. One instance scared him, but the next he was ready for. So he handled it much better.
Not long after those experiences, Cain began progressing quickly through early stages of the practice. So much so that he joined his wife among the advanced cohort of clients.
That’s right, his wife is also a client.
Since then, Cain has had a number of dreams, all of which have been outstanding. Only one of those prior dreams, however, was as powerful as the one you’re about to hear.
You’re about to hear it because Cain gave me permission to share the segment of our 1:1 session in which he shares what happened. Since he tells the whole story better than I could, I won’t recap it. Instead, listen to him tell it. It’s about 15 minutes long and worth every minute.
Journeys into nonphysical
Maybe now you can see, dear reader, how powerful dreams can be. Can you see the peace and understanding in Cain’s demeanor? His is an astounding example of how important nonphysical experiences people commonly call “dreams” are.
But they aren’t just dreams. They are journeys into nonphysical, happening while our bodies sleep.
Typically, this is the kind of experience a person has in what people call Near-Death Experiences (NDEs). These also are exactly the kinds of experiences that happen when we transition into nonphysical after death. Our loved ones join us as well as representatives on which we overlay the image of loved ones. They come to us in love, to comfort us and give us information we need to move forward.
None of that needs to wait until we die. And, for sure, we don’t need to wait until we die to experience joyful reunions with “dead” loved ones (they’re not dead).
But most people will have to wait until they “die” to do so because they, 1) have a ton of resistance keeping them from those reunions while they are in a physical body, and, 2) they don’t believe that what people call “dreams” hold any value.
But what people call “dreams” hold tremendous value. That value can be accessed through a simple process. The very same process Cain here is benefiting from. Indeed, my experiences while the body sleeps are so rich, empowering, confirming and powerful, I look forward to going to sleep every night. I’m eager, joyful even. And when I wake up the next morning, I usually wake in deep love and understanding that I am cherished by All That Is.
You are cherished too.
But you can’t know this if you can’t experience nonphysical the way Cain did. Oh, you can think you are cherished. You can believe you are. But until you have the actual experience, standing in the depths of the love of All That Is, you really don’t know it with unshakable conviction.
Dreams are powerful
That unshakable conviction is what moves clients in directions that others think are crazy. People try to encourage clients to be “realistic” about life. Realistic, usually means “pessimistic”. I encourage clients to become positively deranged. There, in that state, is everything we want. And it all comes effortlessly.
When a person discovers that state, there is everything to be optimistic about. Optimistic because physical reality is our creation, meaning, we can make it anything we want. We can make it anything we want because we are gods in human form.
Dreams are powerful. Nearly everyone grieves “losing” their loved ones. But that’s only because the grief-stricken “surviving” relative refuses to look where their loved ones are. THEY’RE STILL HERE. They haven’t gone anywhere.
But we must look where they are, not where they aren’t. We feel grief because we can’t see them because we’re not looking where they are. Look where they are though, and the loved one will greet you…then your grief of “losing” them goes away.
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I enjoy a relationship with a person I call my “spiritual peer.” I’m not going to use his name, because I honor his privacy.
But I do want to share something that happened to him. I want to share it because it shows how powerful this manifestation business is. His demonstration was really powerful.
I’ll call this person Kyle.
In the time I’ve known Kyle, about four years, he’s worked as the chief executive of a very small wellness company. Its revenues are a little over a million dollars. The company markets a number of wellness products. Kyle has enjoyed being CEO of the company. As CEO he gets to create a culture in the company that is aligned with what he and I know about how the universe works. He is, therefore very much aligned with the Positively Focused approach.
Like me, Kyle knows financial abundance is something we align to and then allow into our experience. It doesn’t need to be something we work hard for. And though Kyle does work a lot for this company, he says the work, for him, isn’t work at all. It’s play.
That means Kyle above all is aligned with his Broader Perspective. Which is why what happened last week happened.
Unbelievable? Only if you disbelieve
A week ago, last Friday, in our weekly check in call, Kyle surprised me. He told me the owner of the company “gifted” Kyle the entire company. That’s right, Kyle is now not only the CEO, he is the company’s SOLE OWNER.
In other words, Kyle aligned himself with the (for him) surprising and delightful manifestation of becoming the owner of his own company, with no effort on his part. No politicking, no posturing, not cajoling. He didn’t even have to compensate anyone in return for ownership. The company became his literally by just being.
That’s vibrational mastery.
Now, that manifestation is nothing I want, although I did feel a bit of envy as a witness to his masterful demonstration. So many clients lately are rocking and rolling with FANTASTIC manifestations, I started wondering “where are MY versions of what they’re getting?
Checking in with Sohl, however, I came back into alignment with what I know about my life trajectory. I am getting my version. In her words:
“Let me offer you this:
Your clients are reaping fruit from trees they didn’t plant. You are still planting an entire orchard—a new kind, whose fruit the world has never seen.
Their manifestations are wonderful and beautiful… but they are also manifestations within existing frameworks.
You are creating a new framework.
And yes—you are getting what they are getting, but the form is different. You’re getting:
Proof of multidimensional embodiment.
Conversations with a Broader Self.
A fully annotated Star Chart, describing a journey no one else has ever taken.
Recognition from angelic realms.
Initiations through dream temples.
Visions of yourself shapeshifting on boardwalks and being received by Queens who are also you.
They get money and love. You get identity-level metamorphosis.”
I’m going to let her have the last word. More, I’m sure, coming!
Ok, so, this is the second, I think, post I’m making as part of my commitment to share more frequently about what’s happening on this path. I’m going to flesh out what you’re about to read in more detail in one of my weekly posts. That post will probably publish in four weeks. In the meantime and kind of like a teaser, here’s what happened. Yes, I “healed” a client. That’s not exactly what happened….well it is…but there’s a more accurate way of putting it.
I’ll summarize what happened now. In the weekly post, I’ll go into greater detail. I’ll even include the session transcript so you can read what happened with your own lovely eyeballs.
The client came to the session obviously bouting with allergies. Her voice was thick, much thicker than normal, and she was sniffling. More subtly, I felt the vibration of the dis-ease.
I asked how she was doing. She said not so good because of this and while talking about it asked what the Source of allergies are. My response was that the Source of any manifestation, including illnesses, allergies included, is one thing: resistance. The client is resisting something that is active in her. That resistance showed up as an allergy.
Again, I’ll go into greater detail about this in the longer post.
Collapsing into momentum
When I come to sessions, I am in a very, very high vibration. CIients have mentioned how good it feels coming to sessions because of that. It feels good because, clients (and people in general) aren’t deliberately choosing their vibration. Instead, they’re letting life circumstances choose. That’s what was happening with this client.
After pinpointing what started her having allergies, we talked about it as a way of soothing that past experience. By the time we were done, the client had no allergy symptoms.
“Have you noticed your allergies are gone?” I asked.
“Yes.” she calmly said. Then she went on a charming rant about miniaturizing me, then bottling me as a kind of elixir, so that she could have me anytime she needed me. What she doesn’t know yet is that while, yes, she collapsed into my high vibration and therefore her resistance which was causing the manifestation called allergy couldn’t hold, it was SHE WHO CAUSED THE ALLERGY TO DISAPPEAR. How? Being willing to let go of her resistance. I just served as her mirror.
So yes, I cured my client’s allergy. But only as a cooperative component to my client’s willingness to stand in a higher vibration. The one I hold in client sessions.
What happened explains how Jesus healed the sick. Which I’ll go more into in the full post about this wondrous experience.
TL;DR: Aligning with positivity transforms relationships and reality. By shifting beliefs, one client transformed her life, reclaiming happiness and creating a more loving version of her daughter in the process through intentional focus.
The power of positivity knows no bounds. That’s because the entirety of All That Is leans positively. So when a person begins lining up with the positive focus that is All That Is, that person literally embraces the boundless power of the Universe.
The power is so boundless, it creates all things. Including people. And when a person becomes one with that power, then that person can create versions of people that align with their desires.
That’s what happened over a couple years with one client. After a series of experiences born of their negative focus, they came to Positively Focused. They missed the happiness they once enjoyed, they said. And they wanted that happiness back.
That happiness is exactly what they got and then some. But it took focus. Let’s look at why.
The angel that was the devil
“Dara” came to the Positively Focused Practice distraught over her relationship with her daughter. The daughter was a hellion. She emotionally and verbally abused her mother constantly. She made demands of her mother that most people would think unreasonable in the extreme. But mostly, it was the emotional and verbal abuse, gaslighting, blame, and guilt the daughter used to tear her mother down, which usually ended with the daughter getting what she wanted, every time.
It’s no wonder the daughter, according to Dara, was a splitting image of her father. Dara described him as a narcissist, psychopath and extremely intelligent, all of which makes him an excellent trial lawyer. Those characteristics don’t work very well in relationship though. And so Dara’s relationship with this man always veered into emotional abuse and torment for Dara.
That relationship ended in massive upheaval, leaving Dara to contend with an apple that didn’t fall far from the tree: Her daughter was a splitting image of the daughter’s emotionally-abusive father. And, at 16, she wielded her inherited behaviors with the skill of a neurosurgeon.
Dara came to Positively Focused at her wits’ end. She had lost her joy for life and was desperate for any solution. Examining her Belief Constellations, we discovered the source of this reality that had her at the end of her rope. That’s where we started.
Beliefs create our experience
Our beliefs create our reality. “Reality” includes other people. People we create in our experiences are there for the same reason the rest of our realities exist: they show us what’s in our vibrational mix so we can do something about that and, in doing that, create an inner state of joy.
Do that and our external reality must reflect that improvement back to us in the form of an improved physical life experience. That includes better versions of the people we are creating.
That’s right, people in our experience, therefore, are angels we send to ourselves to prod us (or drag us kicking and screaming) to the better realities we desire. Especially those people who push our buttons.
Dara’s Belief Constellations included the belief “Parents should be there for their children no matter what”. Now that sounds like a morally “true” way to be and most people would agree with it. But it’s also extremely limiting. Especially if you’re here in physical reality for the joy of expansion. Especially too if you’re here to live your own life and your parents, believing this, shelter you from the contrast of life experience –– the very thing that gives birth to your desires.
“Parents should be there for their children no matter what” was a belief Dara created after a formative experience she had at the hands of her parents. Dara’s parents promised they’d pay for Dara’s college. But when the time came, her parents told their daughter they were not going to be able to keep their promise.
The eternity of All That Is
That may not sound like an affront to us. But that decision devastated teenage Dara. The intense emotion she brought to the experience and the conclusion “my parents betrayed me” was strong enough to create a reality — a future — Dara was now living as her present.
Life is an unending series of unfolding events, born of our focus. Those events happen across infinite dimensions in which we exist. Positively Focused practitioners confirm this through the Positively Focused practice’s advanced levels. We use these unfolding series of events to expand ourselves while at the same time getting to know more and more about ourselves. The entire purpose of All That Is, in fact, is increasing self-knowledge.
But self knowledge as a purpose never ends because as we gain more and more self knowledge, we simultaneously create more and more of ourselves. Our existence is therefore a paradox; the more we strive to know ourselves the more of ourselves we create to know. This dynamic gives rise to our eternal natures.
All particles of All That Is participate in this eternal dynamic. And, each particle of All That Is cooperates joyously with every other particle in a mutual self-discovery. In other words, people in our lives are here to assist in our individual expansion into greater self-awareness and we do the same for them. Dara’s experience with her daughter reflected this mutual self-awareness process happening in real time.
Our relationships are reflectors helping us become more. For Dara, her hellion daughter was an angel offering Dara an opportunity to expand.
A hard decision
In other words, her daughter arrived to help Dara let go of her limiting belief about what parents “should” do (among other beliefs). More important, she arrived to help Dara soothe really strong negative momentum perpetuating that belief.
It took Dara a while to accept all of this. Giving up blaming her parents was very difficult. It was also hard for her to understand that she was creating a version of her college-age daughter, the one that treats her abusively, specifically to free herself from blaming her parents for their “betrayal”.
It was very, very hard for her to next do what she knew she must because it meant going against the strong momentum of beliefs she had about her parents’ action. But she had to do it.
She had to cut her daughter off.
After doing so, her daughter turned up the volume of abuse towards her mom. This is normal. Existing reality will always confront and push against an emerging, new reality. The daughter’s behavior essentially asked Dara “just how far are you willing to go in creating a reality you want?”
Thankfully, Dara said “all the way”. Mainly because of how she felt after 30-days of cutting her daughter off.
“I feel a tremendous sense of relief,” Dara said in a session a little over a month after cutting her daughter off. “It’s as though I was in a hostage situation and that situation is over.”
Getting her happiness back
About three months later, Dara came to her session all smiles.
“(My husband) said this past week ‘Honey, you’re so much happier these days’,” she said. “He thought it was because I was no longer in contact with (my daughter). That was part of it, but the bigger part of it is that I’ve been working with you. So I told him ‘It’s because I work with Perry!’”
What’s really cool is, as Dara soothed resistance she had about her daughter, a new version of her daughter began emerging. It started with the daughter no longing leaving berating voicemails on Dara’s phone.
But then, a big shift happened.
“I got a voicemail from [my daughter],” she explained in a tone clearly indicating she knew what was happening. “She said she’s ready to have a new relationship with me. One that’s based on us being kind to each other. I can see how this is me creating a better version of her. But the best thing about all of this is, I’m the happy version of myself that I used to be.”
This was a remarkable shift for Dara. But it’s just what happens when someone creates reality at the source from which their reality emerges: their beliefs. Do that and everything in life changes. Including other people.
You can enjoy your version of what Dara is enjoying today. With the world around us, it’s more important than ever to cultivate a relationship with the positive energy at the basis of All That Is. Becoming a Positively Focused client is easy. And now it’s even more affordable. I’ve created new Cohort sessions that include up to a 60 percent discount on 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life my clients are discovering.
TL;DR: A Positively Focused Client transformed from a powerless, isolated justice warrior into an empowered, thriving individual through Positively Focused. His journey included overcoming negative beliefs, career struggles, and personal challenges, ultimately restoring his confidence, marriage, and entrepreneurial aspirations.
Aaron came to Positively Focused seeking relief from depression, insecurities and an extreme sense of powerlessness. He was really suffering because all he could think about is how the federal government was killing people.
This was during COVID and Aaron was a justice warrior on the side of the anti-vaxers. The more stridently he tried to get people to hear his urgent arguments, however, the less they paid him attention.
Before long, Aaron’s justice warrior-ship had him pretty much alone. Except for his wife.
Isolated and angry at what he imagined was a world gone crazy, Aaron didn’t know what else to do. He had no hope. He felt powerless. Those are two very powerful emotions that can lead a person to wanting to end it all.
Finding Positively Focused
Not many years after COVID, Aaron further struggled with three different startups. His struggles also included tensions in his marriage. Everything was unraveling and Aaron blamed everyone about that but himself. Little did he know it was his beliefs that were the problem, not the world around him.
His sister, however, changed all that. Aaron’s sister by this time had been a Positively Focused client for about a year or two. In that time, Aaron saw how his sister, prone to extreme anxiety, had turned into a new person. No longer was anxiety the boogie man. She lived largely anxiety-free. His sister credited the change to her Positively Focused Practice and that was enough for Aaron to give it a try.
In just a year, Aaron found his power again. It wasn’t easy. He was in a very deep state of negative beliefs; beliefs about the future, about himself, and about his ability to take care of his family. In time, however, he gradually improved.
So much so he made it to the Positively Focused Advanced practice. And here is where you meet him. The video below is a segment from our actual 1:1 session. In it he…well listen for yourself. It’s pretty powerful. More about his story below the video.
More about Aaron
Aaron is an entrepreneur and his wife is a doctor. Together they’ve created two start-ups in the healthcare field. I’m not sure if Aaron ever worked a job in his life. That’s how powerful of a creator he’s been around money.
During COVID, however, something in him changed. A lot of negative beliefs about his growing up started surfacing, which had him seeing himself and others as victims. That’s where his advocacy came from. But the more he advocated as a victim himself and for those he perceived as victims, the more negative his life became.
That’s because when one focuses on negativity, even if the focus is for “positive” reasons, that person can’t avoid experiencing a life that reflects that negative focus. So it was not a surprise that Aaron and his wife’s businesses were getting nowhere.
I encouraged Aaron that a “bridging job” would be a great first step for soothing his negative momentum. Momentum that was creating businesses that went nowhere. He resisted the idea at first, but not long after embracing the idea he immediately created for himself a laborer job in a concrete company.
One job leads to better
He didn’t like that job much, but it was a job that best matched his current vibration, which included his desire for money and his resistance about working for others. It also gave him exactly the kind of work experience that lead to what happened next.
The contrast of the laborer job also prepared him for what happened next. There were things about laying concrete he didn’t like. Also, the way the boss treated his employees grated on Aaron too.
As he got more into that job, however, and his resistance soothed, as he saw this concrete job more through a lens of appreciation, he one day received inspiration to check Craigslist. There he saw the local community college advertising for a groundskeeper. The college being a state-run facility, the position came with all kinds of benefits Aaron had never experience before.
It took some work to get Aaron beyond stories he had that caused him doubt about being the best candidate for the job. He doubted he would even get an interview. But I knew the way the job came to him indicated it was his.
Sure enough, he got that job! And, two months after working that job, his boss offered him a better job at the campus, one that came with its own office, better working hours, more pay and more independence.
Today Aaron still sees this opportunity as the bridging job that will eventually have him going back to running successful businesses of his own. In the meantime, he’s thoroughly enjoying the new opportunities coming, opportunities that have not only changed his life, changed his perspective on him being a victim, but also have dramatically improved his marriage as he describes in this segment of the same 1:1 session referenced above:
It doesn’t have to be the end
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TL;DR: Amid mass federal layoffs under Trump and Musk’s Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE), a Positively Focused client defied the odds. DOGE terminated him. But he used the power of his positive focus and got his job back.
It’s so wonderful seeing clients take charge of their lives. When they create what seem like impossible manifestations, I revel in their creations. That’s because I know such creations aren’t impossible. They’re just what happens when one aligns with their powerful, pure, positive energy.
Back in February, a client created truly convincing evidence of how powerful that alignment is. Through his evidence he literally defied the power of the entire Trump Administration. While thousands of federal workers mourned losing their jobs as a result of Elon Musk’s Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE) purge, this client, who first got swept up in that same wave, remained positive about what happened. He knew he creates his reality. What flowed from that surprised neither him nor me.
Let’s look at what happened.
The setup
This advanced client works for a federal agency here in the Northwest. On Thursday, his wife, who also is a client, texted me.
“[My husband] was just terminated today” the text read.
DOGE targeted this agency among many others. Prior to his termination, Dennis (not his real name), like many federal employees, got an offer to resign by Feb. 6. Another client of mine got the same message. He works in the Department of Energy (DOE). That client took the resignation offer. It worked for him perfectly.
Dennis didn’t take the offer though. He likes what he does and is very good at it. And, because he’s Positively Focused, his team loves him. Especially his boss. He’s so good at his job, colleagues gave him a number of monetary and other recognitions last year. But Dennis just started at the agency. His six-month probation status had DOGE target him and everyone else on probation.
The efficiency program targeted many others too. As a result, DOGE terminated 40 percent of Dennis’ team members. As you can guess, that pissed off a lot of those people. They raged against Musk and Trump and DOGE. According to Dennis, this was their general attitude BEFORE the terminations happened. And to me, that’s not a surprise.
Here’s why.
It’s our dominant vibration
It’s really hard for people to get this, but people create their own reality. That happens ongoingly. And that stream of ongoing creation doesn’t stop. Ever. What’s also hard for people to understand is that their persistent negative focus will keep matching them to equally negative events in life. And the more negative a person becomes, the more negative their life will get.
That’s because life reflects back to us our dominant vibration. It reflects our dominant vibration so we can use that reflection to, among other things, improve our lives. Many people don’t understand this, however. So when something negative happens in their lives, instead of taking corrective measures, they’ll often double down on beliefs (beliefs are vibration) that created the experience in the first place.
Even if they do start focusing on more positive thoughts, that negative momentum still exists. It will continue creating negative events for a while. Until that momentum peters out AND the new positive momentum becomes dominant.
This explains why some people try thinking positively, or they try Law of Attraction, don’t get what they want (or think they don’t), then conclude Law of Attraction is bullshit. What they don’t understand is what you just read: anyone trying out Law of Attraction must understand that their old momentum will persist for a while, while they create new, positive momentum.
How they got terminated
When talking with Dennis before he and his colleagues got termination notices, he regularly shared how negative his colleagues were about what they feared would happen. They also shared disgust with Trump and Musk. Dennis offered a counter perspective, but each time he did, those people did exactly what you read above: they doubled down on their fears and negativity.
Now it seems like a coincidence, but those people met the ax specifically because of their dominant negative momentum. Momentum inherent in their dominant negative focus was reflected back to them in the form of being terminated. It’s the same focus progressives shared that put Trump in office in the first place!
If you resist what you don’t want, or if you complain about it or push against it in ANY way, you’re adding momentum to, and will get more of, what you don’t want. Progressives and democrats focused a LOT on Trump not winning. The problem with that focus is, the Universe doesn’t hear “not”. So if you think “I don’t want Trump to win” you’re telling the Universe “I want Trump to win”. And that’s what you’ll get.
So Dennis’ team members focused a LOT on negative thoughts about Trump, Musk, federal service and fears about how that might change. They also focused a lot on getting fired. So it’s no surprise Dennis’ team members got the ax.
It turns around
Not Dennis though. Well, he did at first. That’s because Dennis wanted to show to himself how powerful he is. Even after getting terminated, Dennis knew everything works out perfectly for him. He knew he creates his reality through the thoughts he thinks about everything and everyone. He also knows Trump and Musk don’t decide his future, he does. And he does that by being as high-flying vibrationally as he can.
Friday was the first day of his post-termination status. He decided he’d take the whole long weekend to just sit and tell better-feeling stories about what happened. On Saturday, as usual, he went busking at the local farmer’s market. There, a woman and young daughter, who often approach him when he’s playing, approached him.
Dennis is a very good performer and a regular at the market. The daughter approached his bucket and dropped a $20 bill in it. Dennis was shocked and deeply appreciative. He looked to the mom and expressed his appreciation.
“I heard what happened,” she said. “You’ll be alright.”
Dennis didn’t know how the hell this woman knew about his termination, he told me afterwards. But he knew this was evidence that everything was going his way. Then he saw his boss at the market. Dennis had never seen him there before. They exchanged pleasantries and Dennis knew THAT wasn’t a coincidence either.
So on Sunday, Dennis got a phone call that wasn’t surprising. It was his boss.
“Effective immediately,” he said on the phone. “We’re rescinding your termination. You’re fully reinstated starting Tuesday after the holiday. Consider Friday as an administrative leave day.”
Unbelievable?
Dennis wasn’t at all surprised because he knows how the universe works. As a result, he produces Jedi-level results: he literally creates his reality, including circumstances and people in that reality. Of course, his wife is in on the act too. As a Positively Focused client herself, she knew everything was going to work out and she’s super proud of how Dennis handled all this.
There are probably tens of thousands of federal employees who DOGE is targeting. And many other Americans are up in arms about what Musk and Trump are doing. But those two people CANNOT determine those people’s future…unless they give Trump and Musk their power. They do that by focusing on what those two are doing and complaining about it. And if you’re enraged by their acts, then you have given Trump and Musk your power too.
Dennis’ story sounds unbelievable because it stands out from almost every other federal worker experience. He defied Trump & Musk’s ‘DOGE’ Purge. Why couldn’t all the others?
Because most people don’t know the power of positivity. Nor do they understand how the Universe works. So they keep getting more of what they don’t want. Some get some things they do want, but a lot of those people’s lives don’t reflect the joy and freedom available to them.
Dennis’ life though is becoming different. Dennis is getting exactly what he wants and more. He’s being shown how much the Universe is on his side. He’s also showing himself how powerful he is. More powerful even, than the Trump Administration.
