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How Life Confirms I’m Becoming a Shapeshifter

TL;DR: The author describes how a client seeking a shapeshifting instructor reflects two years of sustained alignment, illustrating how physical reality gradually confirms inner transformation through practical, leading-edge manifestations.

Earlier this week, I received a surprising phone call. A woman called me to learn more about what I do with clients. She had watched my YouTube videos and spoke with genuine enthusiasm about the depth, clarity, and care she felt coming through them. She described my explanations of All That Is and the nature of the Universe as “masterful,” and she was especially struck by the way I relate to people—how grounded and personal the work feels.

After we talked for a while, she told me she wanted to become a client. I rarely do what happened next because it doesn’t matter to me how people find me. I know it’s always through the process of vibrational resonance (attraction).

This time, however, my Broader Perspective encouraged the question. So, I asked how she had found my channel. I don’t run ads or conduct deliberate marketing campaigns. I don’t optimize aggressively for search. Her answer came as a massive confirmation:

“I was searching for a shapeshifting instructor.”

I actually laughed when I heard that. Of all the possible searches she could have typed into a search bar, that was the one that led her to me? No other explanation could suffice for why this person found me. She was a manifestation, a confirmation of my own focus on becoming a shapeshifter.

Physical Reality as a Lagging Indicator

The person on the other end of the line, a seventy-nine year old, deeply mystical, highly perceptive, person obviously devoted to living consciously, was particularly drawn to the two videos I posted about the Ant and the Grasshopper fable. She said she, sensed something in them that spoke to a deeper mechanics of reality rather than surface-level motivation. She noted – correctly – that I have only one real video about shapeshifting. I pointed her to my blog where I’m developing a series of written posts on my shapeshifting adventure, which includes this one.

A core principle of the Positively Focused framework is that physical reality doesn’t provide instantaneous feedback on our manifestation desires. Instead, physical reality is a lagging indicator. What shows up around us today, reflects vibrational harmony we’ve already been holding, often for quite some time.

When we truly align with a desire, the Universe doesn’t usually respond with the final form right away. Instead, it offers evidence along a gradient. First comes internal validation, initially as a thought or active belief, then as emotional response to that thought or belief. After that come less subtle confirmations; more thoughts like the initial ones, stronger emotional responses. Then, increasingly, tangible reflections that say, “Yes, this direction is correct.” start showing up in physical reality. These show up as reflections of our increasing alignment.

Alignment to what?

Alignment to the probable future reality which has within it the full-blown manifested desire. The woman on the phone fit that pattern perfectly.

The Gradual Unfolding is a Co-Creation

She didn’t arrive as proof that shapeshifting is complete or finished. She arrived as evidence that alignment is well underway. That distinction matters. Completion is static. Alignment is continual and unfolding. The more I expand, there more there is to expand into. So we never get “there” because there’s always more “there” to experience.

What struck me most about this connection, however, was how unnecessary this manifestation was for survival, income, or validation. Just twenty-four hours earlier, I set an intention to manifest another client as part of my roster. I was practicing the feeling place of the fulfillment of that manifestation. In other words, at my level in the Positively Focused practice I tune to the vibrational frequency of that which I desire as done. I no longer see the feeling of “manifesting” or “receiving”. There’s a big difference in that distinction.

So I wasn’t seeking clients for shapeshifting instruction. I wasn’t positioning myself as a teacher in that arena. And yet, here was someone who not only showed up as a manifestation of my desire (another client) but also someone looking for something so specific it HAD to pertain only to me. By the way, two other people wrote me on Medium.com asking me to teach them. I hadn’t heard back from them.

This person showing up represented an expansion from that previous point where I received interest but not engagement. Perhaps that was because I wasn’t all that interested in receiving another client.

Interestingly, since that call with that woman, I’ve held steady the vibrational frequency of expecting more clients. I’ve done that just as an experiment to see what happens. In just five days, two more people have expressed interest in becoming clients.

That’s how I know something is real. When life reflects a trajectory in such specific detail, I can’t miss it!

Two Years of Holding the Frequency

I began consciously working with shapeshifting as a lived practice in 2023. I wanted to show myself how far I could take Abraham’s words about anything being possible. What awaited me was proving to myself what consciousness can do when it’s allowed to move beyond inherited constraints.

This message really got my interest in becoming a shapeshifter into gear.

Over the past two years, the signals in my body have been consistent and unmistakable. I’ve felt sustained activity along the spine, particularly in regions associated with integration and perception. Sensations in the cerebellum and what many refer to as the third-eye region have come and amplified in waves, often accompanied by deep calm rather than drama.

At times, I’ve experienced clear energetic impressions of the body preparing to reorganize, as if receiving new instructions it already understands how to follow. None of this has felt forced. And it has happened gradually, in a timing allowing me to let go of resistance I have to the experience of my body changing shape. As a result of that 2-year dedication, my dominant feeling has turned from inquiry and excitement to calm readiness.

What has also become clear is that physical readiness does not override belief readiness. The body may be willing, but Belief Constellations still matter. Mental momentum, cultural conditioning, and long-held assumptions about what is possible all carry energetic weight.

That’s where the real work has been. Soothing resistance gently and honestly, allowing various Belief Constellations to give way in favor of a new set of beliefs. Beliefs more aligned with my desire.

The Caller as a Leading-Edge Manifestation

This caller embodies something important. She is not a mirror of who I have been, but of who I am becoming. That distinction is subtle, but profound.

In our second conversation, she shared that she felt she knew me from a previous life, one that took place roughly six hundred years ago in Greece. I didn’t need to validate or dismiss that perception. What mattered was the clarity with which she navigates non-physical reality and the ease with which she recognizes energetic continuity.

Like several of my clients, she identifies as being on the spectrum. Her perception is unfiltered in a way that feels precise rather than diffuse. She isn’t reaching for meaning. She’s recognizing patterns she already understands. That offers tremendous potential for her with the Positively Focused practice. It’s this type of person I’m eager to work with.

What makes her arrival so significant is not just that she wants to learn about shapeshifting, but that she acted on that desire. As I wrote above, earlier signs had already appeared. In 2023, after I published A Practical Guide to Becoming a Shapeshifter, two people commented asking me to teach them what I was exploring.

Those were early echoes. This caller represents expansion. The same signal, amplified. Interest turned to engagement. Curiosity now is commitment. That’s how manifestations grow.

The blog that got it all rolling…

How Major Manifestations Actually Arrive

There’s a persistent myth in spiritual spaces that big desires arrive suddenly and dramatically, as if the Universe flips a switch and Voila! It’s there. In reality, meaningful manifestations tend to unfold the same way living systems do: gradually, intelligently, and with feedback along the way.

Often, teachers like me find ourselves teaching what we are still integrating. When the momentum is clean, guidance flows naturally outward even as embodiment continues inward. I believe the caller felt this in my videos.

Again, her presence in my life doesn’t mean I’ve “arrived.” It means the path is unmistakably real. It means the frequency I’ve been holding has crossed a threshold where physical reality, that lagging indicator, confirms my thought on this subject is becoming a thing: the subject.

That’s the same principle illustrated in the Ant and the Grasshopper story when it’s told accurately. Alignment creates ease. Ease creates momentum. Momentum creates evidence humans call “reality”.

Gratitude Without Grasping

What I feel most strongly about this experience is appreciation without attachment. There’s no need to hurry anything. There’s no urge to capitalize, brand, or define.

Instead, there’s trust.

The caller’s arrival is not a destination. It’s a signpost. It’s a gentle, practical confirmation that alignment precedes manifestation, and that life faithfully reflects what we are willing to become.

Two years ago, this was an internal exploration. Today, it has a footprint in physical reality. And evidence such as this, when received calmly, is one of the most grounding gifts there is.

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What Happens When a Tree Reveals Your Powerful Nature

TL;DR: The author reflects on a client’s mystical encounter with nature, revealing how direct communion beyond physical reality awakens deep worthiness, dissolves doubt, and invites a calmer, more trust-filled unfolding of life.

One of the things I love most about working with clients long term is witnessing the moment when curiosity turns into certainty. There’s no fanfare when it happens. Just a calm, unmistakable knowing that settles throughout my client’s experience. You can hear it in their voice. You can feel it in the way they tell their story.

This story you’re about to read is part of my Worthiness Wednesday video series from the Positively Focused YouTube Channel. It’s a series wherein I share client experiences through which they discover self-worth as more than a concept. Instead, they discover worthiness as an embodied realization. Because the truth is, worthiness doesn’t arrive through affirmation alone. It emerges naturally when you remember who — and what — you actually are.

That’s exactly what happened when my client KJ recently described a series of mystical experiences he’d been having while fully awake. There was wonder in his tone, yes — but there was also confidence, clarity, and zero defensiveness. He wasn’t questioning whether what he experienced was real. He knew it was.

And that knowing is everything.

When You’re Not Even Seen

One of KJ’s recent experiences happened during an ordinary walk. He found himself on a bridge near a dam, standing quietly while a woman approached from the other side. She passed him and apologized, saying she hadn’t seen him there. What struck KJ wasn’t the apology—it was the realization that she likely hadn’t seen him at all.

This wasn’t about invisibility in the comic-book sense. It was about vibrational non-overlap. Here two people, in two different realities, briefly intersected without fully sharing the same perceptual field. I’ve had experiences like this myself. I once found $40 laying on the ground while walking with someone who was genuinely stunned because they hadn’t seen the money there at all. We were on the same street. It was the same moment. But we were in completely different realities.

Physical reality isn’t singular. It’s consensus-based. When you shift your internal state, the version of reality you perceive—and that responds to you—shifts as well.

The most recent evidence of that accurate statement was KJ’s experience with a tree. That’s because the mystical nature of that experience communicated so much. It offered so much to him. And it confirmed for me, what I already know: that we are more than our physical bodies.

The Tree That Was Too Vast to Grasp

During another walk, he felt inspired to touch a tree’s trunk as he passed. When his hand made contact, something extraordinary happened. He suddenly perceived the tree for what it really was. Trees are more than natural objects. They’re vast—cosmic entities gracing us with a version of their reality in physical form.

From the tree’s perspective, KJ felt like a grain of dust, he said. He perceived the tree’s register of him as barely noticeable. Later, during meditation, the experience deepened. What arose wasn’t an image so much as an immensity. KJ perceived the tree at a scale of being so large that his mind couldn’t contain all of it.

KJ’s response to this experience reveals his status as a member of the Positively Focused advance client group. He didn’t try to analyze his experience. Nor did he claim mastery over it. He didn’t inflate his ego or assign himself a special role. Instead, he simply recognized that what he had touched was far bigger than his current framework for understanding.

That stability in the face of such an immense experience is a sign of real alignment.

Again, trees aren’t just discrete objects standing in soil. They are expressions of vibrational harmony that stretch far beyond what our eyes report. Nature isn’t separate from the spiritual realm—it’s one of its clearest doorways.

KJ’s experience showed him a scale of being so large that KJ’s mind simply couldn’t contain all of it.

Why Science Can’t See This—Yet

I want to be very clear here: science is extraordinary. Its tools have transformed our world in profound ways. Science, however, by design, measures effects. It doesn’t measure origins.

Physical reality is spiritual first. Consciousness precedes form. Until science becomes willing to integrate the subjective, experiential dimension of awareness, it will always be studying the shadow rather than the Source. Experiences like KJ’s exist upstream from where science operates. That explains why another client calls what he’s finding through the Positively Focused practice “undiscovered science”.

It’s also why experiences like these matter so deeply in the Positively Focused practice. They help confirm what the Positively Focused practice asserts; that we are eternal beings, much more than our physical bodies and existing in multiple dimensions simultaneously.

When you know you’re eternal, impatience dissolves. The pressure to hurry life along fades. You stop racing time and start cooperating with it. Getting what you want starts feeling less like forcing and more like allowing. Life unfolds incrementally, the way grass grows—quietly, steadily, inevitably.

I’ve seen this in my own life. As major manifestations come into form I can see the benefit of that “grass growing” state. Had everything arrived at once, it would have been overwhelming. The built-in pacing of physical reality exists so we can enjoy what we’re creating. But if we don’t know, like KJ is beginning to know, then that pacing can conjure impatience in us.

An Open Invitation

Worthiness emerges naturally when we realize life isn’t running out. We are not late, we are not behind. We are eternal. Not everyone is ready for experiences like KJ’s, and that’s perfectly okay.

We can’t force such experiences. They arise through gentle practices — meditation, dreamwork, presence — when the ego realizes it can allow our nervous system to let in data the ego deliberately blocks. It blocks those data so the being, the human, can focus on the necessities of navigating physical reality.

But when we come into alignment with the flow of life, which all my clients are learning how to do, then the ego softens. It begins allowing more of the data we can’t manage, because we have expanded our consciousness. That expansion happens by aligning with the Broader Perspective of what we are. Do that and experiences like KJ’s are natural byproducts. The byproducts of expansion.

And when they come, they don’t make us special. They make us certain.

That’s when the fun really begins.

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Why Your Worst Relationship Was Actually a Gift

TL;DR: A client transforms resentment into realization by reframing his divorce as a divine co-creation—proof that even painful relationships serve our expansion and reveal our innate worthiness.

When I say every relationship is a co-creation, I mean that quite literally. Each of us, in every moment, is attracting into our experience people, events, and circumstances that perfectly match the dominant vibrations we’re offering. Sometimes those vibrations come from our desires. Sometimes they come from our fears. Most often, they’re a mix of both.

That’s why relationships are so powerful. They give us a living mirror of our inner world. And if we’re willing to look honestly, they offer the raw material for lasting transformation.

This is the story of my client Ken, and how he turned a painful divorce into one of the most profound realizations of his worthiness—and why the woman he once thought had wrecked his life was, in truth, an angel in disguise.

When Ken first came to me, he was in a loving long-term relationship. On the surface, everything was working. But occasionally, his partner would do something that triggered a disproportionate reaction in him—fear, insecurity, even emotional panic.

Over time, it became clear that these weren’t responses to his current partner. They were echoes from a past marriage—an unresolved energetic momentum that had followed him into his new relationship.

This is where the Positively Focused framework really shines. In our work together, we traced the emotional charge back to his previous marriage with Christy, a relationship that ended with bitterness, confusion, and a $1 million divorce settlement Ken never wanted to pay.

The Righteous Indignation That Refused to Die

Ken carried enormous resentment toward Christy. He saw her as someone who pretended to be something she wasn’t—someone who, once injured and unable to work, became a financial and emotional burden. But as we dug deeper, it became clear this resentment wasn’t about Christy. It was about Ken’s story about Christy.

Christy, too, had her own story. A childhood filled with chaos and conditional love had planted deep seeds of unworthiness. Her back injury wasn’t a manipulation—it was the culmination of momentum she had been building for years. And her refusal (or inability) to work wasn’t laziness—it was an unconscious reflection of a belief she wasn’t worthy of the life she desired.

Christy’s beliefs, born of her upbringing, shaped her perspectives on self, marriage and more.

Ken didn’t know that at the time. He just knew he was stuck in a marriage that didn’t feel fair. But he stayed, because deep down, he was carrying a belief of his own: that this was the best he could get. He didn’t believe he could find a better partner. That belief is what made him a vibrational match to Christy in the first place.

The Invitation to Reframe the Past

In our sessions, I asked Ken to do something radical: list every negative belief he held about Christy and their marriage. It took him weeks. The pain of reliving those moments was strong. The momentum of righteous indignation was thick.

But finally, he brought in a list — and together, we softened the statements. We found new ways to see old events. “Christy never wanted to work” became “Christy was in too much pain to work.” Small shifts like these began to loosen his grip on the story he’d been telling himself for years.

Eventually, Ken could see that the real issue wasn’t Christy’s betrayal. It was his inability to recognize his own worth. He had ignored countless signals to leave the marriage because of his scarcity mindset. He didn’t believe another woman would love him. That fear is what kept him in the marriage far longer than his Inner Being wanted to stay.

What Ken saw next blew the whole story wide open: Christy wasn’t the villain. She was the angel who helped him see how much he had been ignoring his own worthiness.

She had played the perfect counterpart to his vibration. She reflected back every bit of doubt, every old belief, every trace of self-deprecation he still carried.

And once he got that — once he saw the co-creative nature of their marriage — he could feel the weight begin to lift. He stopped seeing her as the one who took a million dollars and started seeing her as the one who gave him a priceless gift: self-awareness.

Gradually, Ken began to see Christy as the one who gave him the gift of self-awareness.

The Real Purpose of Physical Reality

This is what we do in the Positively Focused practice. We don’t just help people manifest shiny outcomes—though those do happen. We help them discover the deeper purpose of physical reality: to show us, in exquisite, visceral detail, what our current vibrational output is… so we can tune it.

Life isn’t happening to us. It’s happening through us. And the more we embrace that, the more we step into our own divine nature.

We are, each of us, gods in human form—expanding across infinite dimensions, through every interaction, every heartache, and every breakthrough.

Christy, from this perspective, was no mistake. She was a perfectly tuned expression of Ken’s dominant story—until he was ready to write a better one. And when he did, the results were immediate. His current partner—loving, balanced, and joyful—began reflecting that new story back to him.

There’s Nothing Better Than Watching Yourself Get Better

That’s the magic of this work. You don’t have to wait for the world to change. You just change your story, and the world—your world—will reflect that shift.

Ken didn’t need to “heal” from his past. He just needed to understand it.

And once he did, he could finally let go of the resentment, the blame, and the illusion that he had been a victim. He had never been a victim. He had always been a powerful creator… learning, growing, and becoming the god he already is.

This is why I love the Positively Focused practice. It’s not about fixing broken people. It’s about helping powerful beings remember who they are. There’s nothing better than that.

And when that remembering happens? It feels delicious.

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What Happens When You Make the Wind Your Ally

TL;DR: The author relates a story of a client, a college maintenance manager, who faces two setbacks during work. But by shifting perspective, he demonstrates a key aspect of alignment, and in doing transforms these “setbacks” into joy, abundance, and vibrational sovereignty.

There’s a subtle art to living a sovereign life — an art few ever know about let along consciously choose to master. It begins not with rearranging outer circumstances, but by observing the unfolding of experience. Observing it and discovering one’s agency within it. That agency, in the Positively Focused practice, shows up in three primary stages:

Post-Manifestational Awareness: When we realize, after something has already happened, that we could have influenced the outcome — but didn’t. The awareness comes after manifestation, but still offers wisdom.

Mid-Manifestational Awareness: When something is unfolding, and we know we could shape it… but we don’t. Not because we don’t want to, but because dominant momentum — emotional, habitual, historical — keeps us in reaction mode rather than creation mode.

Pre-Manifestational Awareness: When we recognize the unfolding in real time, remember our agency, and consciously activate it — transforming the experience before it completes, thereby alchemizing the moment into something aligned, sovereign, and beautiful as a manifestation.

What one of my clients — let’s call him Kyle — recently demonstrated was a shining example of that final stage. And it all started with a leaf blower.

Stormy Weather and the Setup for Contrast

Kyle works at a college campus, where part of his job is groundskeeping. On a recent Saturday, he showed up expecting a team effort to clean up leaves scattered across the main quad.

But the weather had other plans. It was cold, windy, and wet — the kind of day where even committed coworkers mysteriously “get sick.” One by one, Kyle realized: no one else was coming. He took a breath. And he got to work.

For hours, he methodically cleared the entire quad of autumn leaves — solo. His muscles ached. His feet throbbed. But he pushed through, determined to finish the job. And finally… he did. The quad looked pristine. He stood back to admire the work. There was a sense of accomplishment.

Then — like a perfectly scripted slapstick comedy — a massive gust of wind ripped through the campus. It left leaves everywhere. In one gust, nature rendered the entire morning’s labor undone. In seconds, the wind reversed everything — leaves blew back across the freshly cleared space. The wind erased Kyle’s efforts. Seeing this, his body tightened. His thoughts stirred. He felt a tinge of annoyance….

This was a mid-manifestational moment: he felt the contrast. Kyle knew he had agency — but hadn’t yet fully activated it. Not yet. Still, something inside him shifted. He took another breath, then began clearing leaves again.

Another Opportunity to Choose

He worked harder, faster. Kyle was determined. He got all the newly fallen leaves up. And then…another wind gust. The quad was covered again — completely. That’s when the deeper stories surfaced in Kyle: What if my boss thinks I didn’t do anything when he arrives to work Monday? What if I look lazy? What if I get in trouble for something I actually did right?

The second gust brought more anxiety and frustration, but also fear. Kyle’s emotional momentum got stronger. This time, however, Kyle didn’t just notice it. He took the reins.

He remembered that this wasn’t personal. It was vibrational. The wind was just feedback. A lovingly crafted opportunity to choose his state of being before the story crystallized. And that’s what he did.

He paused. He smiled. Then he got inspired.

He saw what was happening as a pre-manifestational doorway — an invitation from the Universe. It said: choose alignment before the story completes itself. And Kyle did exactly that. He paused. He breathed. And then he reached for a better-feeling thought.

He remembered a scene from The Secret, where the narrator describes imagining money falling from the sky like autumn leaves. And suddenly, Kyle began to imagine each leaf — not as a burden — but as a $100 bill. With this shift in perspective, the wind wasn’t working against him. It was showering him with abundance.

Turning Work Into Wealth

That’s when Kyle literally became a different person. He raced to collect the leaves like a joyful scavenger hunt. He laughed at the storm. Kyle stuffed his trailer like it was an overflowing bank vault. He even timed himself like it was a game.

By the end of the day, his body was still sore — but his vibration was radiant. Kyle not only did his job, he also achieved new heights of vibrational alchemy. What could have been a story of bitterness and burnout became one of alignment, joy, and confidence.

That’s the power of pre-manifestational awareness: it lets us shape the mirror’s image before it fully forms. Most people believe life is happening to them. They react, cope, survive. But Kyle’s story reminds us of the deeper truth: Life isn’t happening to us. It’s responding through us. When we become aware of this — even after the fact — we begin the process of reclaiming our agency.

When we become aware in the middle of a moment, we start to practice holding our power even when momentum is strong. But when we catch it before it lands — when we see the wind blow and realize, this isn’t personal, it’s perfect — that’s when we step into the real magic of deliberate creation.

Everyone Can Do What Kyle Did

You don’t need to work at a college. Nor do you need a windstorm. Life will deliver everyone their own tailor-made “leaf moments”. They may show up as a conversation that doesn’t go the way we planned. Or maybe it’s a task that feels thankless, a delay that disrupts our schedule. Or a storm that blows in at the worst time. These all are portals, opportunities to chart a course through to the divine.

And if we’re paying attention — if we remember who we are, even for a moment — we can choose. We can choose to see the leaves as money and laugh at the timing. We can choose to align before the mirror hardens. That’s pre-manifestational mastery. And like Kyle, we’re more ready for it than we think.

All it takes is a little foreknowledge and awareness and a desire to be happy above all else. It all begins with seeing everything in a positive light. That’s the foundation of the Positively Focused framework. Because positivity is a constant of the Universe. Nothing happens in the Universe that isn’t positive. And if it looks like what’s happening isn’t positive, that’s only because we don’t have a big enough picture to see it the way it actually is.

Want to know more? Reach out. Let’s talk.

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What Happens When the Mirror Gets This Powerful

TL;DR: Over four intense days, Marcus’s life reflected his vibrational focus with stunning precision. From social scrolls to sacred hugs, each event revealed the truth: life doesn’t punish us—it mirrors us, perfectly and compassionately.

Sometimes, life gives you experiences that are both memorable and multidimensional. Experiences where every moment, every encounter, and every emotional charge reveals exactly what you’re practicing vibrationally. And if you’re paying attention, it becomes the perfect mirror. That’s what happened for a client of mine — let’s call him Marcus — over the course of four days.

The contrast was rich. The orchestration was precise. Marcus’ expansion was unmistakable. And it all began with scrolling on social media.

The Algorithm That Read His Vibration

Marcus hadn’t planned on going deep. He was just passing time. But as he began scrolling through Instagram and Facebook, the algorithm tuned in — and it knew exactly what to deliver. Gaza. Israel. Racism. LGBTQ+ discrimination. Corruption. Division. Outrage.

His scrolling revealed more than political news — it was emotional architecture. Every post added another brick to the structure of fear, injustice, and helplessness Marcus didn’t realize he was building. Instead, he thought he was “staying informed.”

But his body told the truth: He was doomscrolling. He felt drained. His nervous system became frayed. The lightness he normally carried dimmed. He couldn’t see it yet, but he saturated his vibrational field — and life was preparing to reflect it all back.

The Party, the Couple, and the Hug That Meant Everything

Later that day, Marcus went to a pumpkin carving party. The party represented something simple, something creative. Marcus thought he’d have fun. And he did. But he also met himself.

Two men — a gay couple — were there. One white, one Lebanese. The Lebanese partner, whose name happened to be Seth, shared his deep uneasiness living in the U.S. in the current climate. As a gay man of Middle Eastern descent, he didn’t feel safe — not just emotionally, but existentially.

Marcus listened with full presence. Their conversation was honest, layered, and emotionally resonant. And when it ended, they hugged. Seth and his partner then left the party.

But a moment later, Seth returned. He asked Marcus for another hug. Something in the first hug wasn’t finished. So they hugged again — slower this time. More grounded. More knowing. That hug represented more than affection. It was recognition, a soul-level confirmation that Marcus had called in this encounter vibrationally. He called it in so he could see the reflection embodied in his reality. Seth was a living reflection of the very themes Marcus had been engaging with online. But instead of outrage, Marcus met it with love.

This was the first mirror. And it was beautiful.

The Friend That Didn’t Show, and the Feeling That Did

After the party, Marcus got in his car. There he noticed for the first time several texts from his wife. She was worried where he was. When Marcus returned home, she didn’t conceal how she felt. She had a friend who planned to visit, but cancelled at the last minute. So Marcus’ wife was left alone.

Marcus returning home after he said he would, left his wife worried, but also, she excluded. At first, Marcus was confused. He hadn’t intentionally excluded her. They hadn’t made plans after all. But the deeper truth was this: his wife was reflecting Marcus’ beliefs precisely.

Marcus had spent the day consuming content about marginalized people. People being left out of systems, rights, safety, belonging. And now his wife — someone he adores — was expressing that very vibration in real time.

Good thing Marcus caught it. He didn’t defend himself or spiral. He opened. He withdrew from the story — not from her, but from the version of himself who believed he had done something wrong. And in that stillness, something shifted.

The Open Mic and the Rule That No One Followed

The next night, Marcus attended a local open mic. He brought his instrument and signed up early. But he never got to play.

The people who did perform didn’t follow the house rules. They didn’t respect the list or share the space. These people weren’t being malicious, instead they followed their passions and got caught up in the excitement. At first glance, this might seem like bad luck. But vibrationally, it was exact. Following their passions indulgently offered yet another reflection of Marcus’ inner momentum.

They reflected the very societal disorder Marcus had been digesting through his feeds — people not following the rules, not being inclusive, not leaving space for others. The macro showed up in the micro.

It was yet another gift reality shone on Marcus. Life as mirror never misses. It’s always precise.

Your life experience is the same. Life for all of us is a mirror. It’s also a gift. It faithfully reflects our inner state. Why does it do that? So we can know ourselves better. So we can tune into the Source of our life experience: our inner reality. Do something constructive about that inner reality and the mirror — our life experience — must reflect that constructive improvement.

That’s the result all my clients receive once they get good at interpreting what they see in their mirrors.

Marcus had more in store given the momentum he created doomscrolling. Let’s get back to his story.

The Pregnant Woman and the Gentle Realignment

After all this, Marcus did something subtle but powerful. He didn’t push through. He didn’t collapse. Instead, as he sat at the bar, he paused. He meditated inconspicuously — lightly, sincerely. He let go of fixing. He turned toward better-feeling thoughts.

And the next day, his world began responding differently. A miscommunication with his wife resolved into softness and mutual understanding. Arriving at work, he shared an intimate moment with a pregnant coworker. He offered reassurance and calm to her worry about being a new mother. Soothed and thankful, she offered him a surprising career opportunity — seemingly out of nowhere, but perfectly timed.

After all the soothing Marcus did, allowing his doomscrolling momentum to subside, Marcus’ Broader Perspective confirmed he had done the work. The confirmation came in the form of this career opportunity. It was his Broader Perspective winking: you’re back in alignment.

In The Seth Material, there’s a passage I often return to:

“Before you can be allowed into systems of reality that are more extensive and open, you must first learn to handle energy and see, through physical materialization, the concrete result of thought and emotion.”

This is exactly what Marcus experienced. He recognized what happened had nothing to do with being punished. He was training himself. Training himself into being able to perceive the transformation of thought-into-form, the materialization of belief into lived experience.

“As a child forms mud pies from dirt, so you form your civilizations out of thoughts and emotions, and then see what you have created.”

Marcus saw what he had created. And instead of reacting, he chose to recalibrate.

This planet — this dimension — is a training system. A dream-school. A mirror of emotional energy turned physical. And Marcus, like all of us, is here to master the art of turning thoughts into things.

The Dreamer Within the Dream

Marcus had a weekend full of contrast. But he didn’t get stuck in the mud pie. He saw it for what it was — a reflection of what he was ready to integrate.

Marcus practiced power — not force. He used awareness not reaction. Then he practiced love — not as an idea, but as action. He practiced sovereignty — not changing others, but changing where he placed his attention.

“The dreamer dreams, and the dreamer within the dream dreams.”

And in the dream he created, the dream responded.

That’s how this works. The gift that’s physical reality is the ability to see exteriorized our inner state. It’s the greatest gift ever. One that’s always memorable and always multidimensional.

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Why AI Isn’t the Scary Threat Bernie Sanders Thinks It Is

TL;DR: The author offers a counterpoint to Senator Bernie Sanders’ recent announcement that we do something to protect “working families” from the AI “threat”. They assert that AI isn’t stealing jobs — it’s revealing our true nature. The AI-future is about freedom, therefore, not fear, they contend. But to live in that future, they say, we must release our attachment to scarcity and work.

Bernie Sanders recently made an announcement offering a dire warning about artificial intelligence and job loss. In a video announcement, he painted a picture of oligarchs displacing workers, robots replacing people, and tech titans hoarding wealth while “working families” suffer.

Now, I have deep respect for Bernie’s passion. But this narrative? It’s outdated. Worse than that, it’s rooted in scarcity thinking — the kind of thinking that blinds us to the greatest spiritual opportunity of our time.

I’m not here to defend billionaires. I’m here to offer a broader perspective — one that reframes this moment not as a crisis, but as an awakening. Because AI isn’t here to steal our jobs, nor are the billionaires. It’s here to free us from the idea that we ever needed jobs in the first place.

Jobs Aren’t Sacred — But Your Joy Is

Let’s be real: most jobs aren’t “good jobs.” They’re repetitive, exhausting, soul-crushing routines we endure because we’ve been told our worth depends on them. We’ve been conditioned to believe that productivity equals value. That a paycheck equals purpose.

But that’s never been true.

Human beings weren’t born to pay bills and die. We came here — you came here — as pure positive energy, to express, explore, and expand. And now, for the first time in human history, the tools exist to make that kind of life even more possible and for everyone.

That’s what this AI revolution is about.

Yes, companies will automate jobs. Yes, entire industries will change. But that doesn’t mean we’re heading toward collapse. It means we’re on the brink of liberation. A future where you no longer need to trade your time for money — because what you want will be produced so efficiently, and at such low cost, that the entire economy transforms.

This isn’t just about machines. It’s about momentum. And that momentum is flowing toward freedom.

Bernie Sanders scaring people about a future that’s bright for everyone.

The Real Story Behind Billionaire Investment

In his video, Bernie Sanders names names: Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Larry Ellison, Mark Zuckerberg. He positions them as villains — profiting from the collapse of working-class America. But that’s not what’s happening.

These people are investing in a future where scarcity is obsolete. Where solar-powered humanoid robots manufacture what we need, and artificial intelligence organizes society in ways no human bureaucracy ever could. Where transportation, housing, healthcare, education — all the things Bernie rightly cares about — are provided in abundance.

And yes, it’s the billionaires funding that future. Why? Because they’re the only ones with the resources to do it. They’re not greedy. They’re using the economic system we currently have. Until that system shifts — and it will — capital is the fuel. And these investors are fueling humanity’s next chapter through their investments.

From a Positively Focused perspective, that’s not a threat. That’s alignment.

These innovators aren’t perfect, but many of them — Elon Musk included — have openly stated their intention: to create a world of superabundance, not for the elite, but for everyone. Is that a conspiracy, or is that a vision?

And here’s the wild part about that vision: their selfish desires serve our expansion. Because in a vibrational universe, everything is co-created. Even the acts of individuals pursuing personal gain lead to collective benefit when viewed through the lens of alignment.

Bernie doesn’t see that — or he pretends not to — because his power depends on keeping people afraid. But fear is no match for clarity. And clarity shows that this technological tipping point is a spiritual one.

We’re Not Losing Jobs. We’re Losing Illusions.

Bernie asks: What will happen to the truck drivers, the factory workers, the fast-food employees, the entry-level accountants?

The answer: they’ll be free. Free to reconnect with their families. Free to explore what lights them up. They’ll be free to rest, to create, to be. And yes — free to receive the resources they need without punching a clock.

This isn’t a utopian fantasy. It’s already happening. Governments are experimenting with universal basic income. AI-driven factories are reducing production costs to near zero. Robots are already replacing many dangerous, soul-deadening jobs — not because of evil intentions, but because it just makes sense.

And yet politicians like Bernie are still trying to preserve a system where labor is king. Where worth is earned through output. Where “working families” is a sacred phrase, even if what they’re working at is killing them. But work isn’t sacred. Being is. Contribution isn’t about sweat. It’s about soul.

We are eternal beings — and we came here to live in joy, not toil. The idea that productivity is the price of survival is a distortion that’s now dissolving. The AI age is dissolving it.

And while it’s true we need bridging solutions — new social structures, new distribution models, perhaps a sovereign wealth fund — the real bridge is internal. From fear to trust. From doing to allowing. From scarcity to synchronicity.

Dear Bernie: Stop Defending the Old World

In the video, Bernie repeatedly insists that we need to “protect jobs.” That we should fight to preserve factory work and warehouse labor. But I say: protect people, not jobs.

Preserve dignity. Preserve creativity. Take care of community. But let the jobs go. Let them be automated. Let them become the domain of solar-powered robots who don’t get bored or burned out.

And to our political leaders — Bernie included — I say: Get off your ass and build the bridge. Stop defending the status quo. Stop using fear to stir votes. The world is changing. It’s time to catch up. Design policies that support this transition. Propose ideas that align with where we’re going — not where we’ve been. Be bold enough to envision a world beyond wages.

Because the truth is, humanity is ready. More people today are welcoming this transformation than resisting it. And that’s why it’s happening. It’s not a top-down revolution. It’s a vibrational shift.

And if you’re reading this, you’re already part of it.

This Is a Spiritual Awakening

We are not here to survive. We are here to shine. And the AI age isn’t a detour — it’s a delivery system for the world we’ve always imagined. One where well-being, not work, is the organizing principle. Where our desires manifest without resistance. Where the essence of who we are gets to lead the way.

This isn’t a fight between labor and capital. It’s the flowering of a long-held dream — one written in science fiction, whispered in meditation, and now… coming true. So the real question isn’t what will happen to the jobs. It’s what will you do with all your time when you don’t need one anymore?

Let’s build that future. Together. And let’s not wait for permission.

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How My Client Found the Magic of Alignment

TL;DR: One client’s experience reveals how divine timing and creative energy work together. When you trust your worthiness, life responds instantly. Alignment, therefore isn’t earned — it’s received. And the Universe is always confirming that truth.

There’s a moment that comes when a person truly begins living from their Broader Perspective. It’s the moment contrast no longer feels like resistance — but recognition. That moment is when life starts confirming itself in the most spectacular ways.

A few weeks ago, I had a session with a client that demonstrated this perfectly. As with all my Positively Focused YouTube Channel Worthiness Wednesday stories, this one isn’t just a “feel-good” anecdote. It’s a precise illustration of how the Universe works when you let it love you.

This particular client came to our session frustrated with a coworker. In his words, this colleague wasn’t pulling his weight. That imbalance was forcing my client to shoulder more of the workload. Understandably, that annoyed him. But as we explored the situation more deeply, something beautiful emerged.

From Frustration to Forward Movement

What he hadn’t yet realized was how the contrast between his performance and his coworker’s was actually highlighting his value. Internal customers within the organization kept asking for him. They bypassed the other guy entirely. Why? Because my client had built a reputation for excellence. The contrast was illuminating that even more.

The so-called “problem” was actually a platform — a divine setup designed to make his strengths undeniable. When he saw it from that angle, he relaxed. He began to feel what I already knew: everything is always working out for him.

That truth isn’t just a catchy phrase. It’s the deepest foundation of this practice. And it’s one that becomes easier to see the more we trust our experience — especially when contrast appears.

Creative Energy and the Dance of Manifestation

After that breakthrough, our session shifted into dreamwork and deeper energetic territory. The client wanted to share a recent dream, which sparked a conversation about masculine and feminine energy — or more precisely, creative and action energies.

As I often say: these polarities have nothing to do with gender. Humans have long confused labels with essence. What we’re really talking about are the two fundamental forces of manifestation.

  • Creative energy is receptive, still, open, and potential-rich.
  • Action energy is directional, assertive, expressive, and devoted.

Creation energy doesn’t push. It beckons. Creative energy doesn’t force, it flows. And when it becomes full — when the inner vision is saturated with clarity — then action arises as a natural extension. Not as effort, but as orchestration.

IIt’s a mistake to think doing is what makes things happen. Doing isn’t the catalyst. Creation is. Action happens with ease when you’re lined up vibrationally with what has already been created. That’s the real meaning of manifestation.

Inspired Action Follows Fulfilled Creation

This client happens to be a deeply creative person — a musician, with a growing desire to bring comedy into his performances. Our session touched on how those two streams might converge in his expression.

But more importantly, we explored the energetic foundation underneath his creative desire. I reminded him that when he resides in the energy of creation — without jumping into effort — he doesn’t have to chase outcomes. The manifestation will meet him where he is.

The metaphor I shared with him was an image based on a Gustav Klimt-inspired painting: a knight kneeling at the feet of a woman, head bowed, fully surrendered. I don’t know if the artist intended it this way, but the symbolism is profound.

The knight — representing action — kneels not in weakness, but in reverent service to the feminine principle of creation. That’s not subjugation. That’s sovereignty expressed as devotion.

And so it is in all of us. True action energy doesn’t dominate. It serves the dream already conceived in silence.

The Universe Confirms Instantly

Later that day, the client sent me a voice message. It was radiant. His voice vibrated with joy. Right after our call, his partner smudged the house in response to some news about a family member. He stepped into the kitchen just as she was replaying a paused Abraham video.

And the first words spoken? “Creativity is the fun part. That’s what we’re here to do. The doing comes after that.” My client didn’t miss the synchronicity because it was exact. A few seconds later, he glanced at the computer screen. The next video that auto-played? Titled: “Action vs. Alignment — What Matters More?”

The synchronicity even shocked his partner, who also a client. She hadn’t queued up that video. It just appeared. As he said in the message: “This is how this f*ing shit works.”

For sure. When you align with your creative spark, the Universe moves mountains to show you the clarity of your path in real-time. It does this through voices, videos, scents, timing, dreams — whatever channel will reach you.

Worthiness in Motion

The reason this matters isn’t just because it’s “cool.” It’s because it reveals something fundamental about who we are.

We are eternal beings — pure creative potential housed in physical form, supported by action energy lovingly responding to our state of alignment.

Our lives, when lived from that clarity, become symphonies of synchronicity. It’s not just that we create our realities. It’s that our realities become love letters from Source to self.

This client got to feel that directly. And I got to witness another human being come more fully into the awareness of their worthiness — not through effort, but through realization.

Final Thought: It’s Always Displaying

This is what Worthiness Wednesdays on my YouTube Channel is really about: showing that life is already doing the work. When you rest in creation, when you trust your unfolding, and when you stop trying to out-effort your own alignment — the Universe rushes in to confirm what’s always been true: You are deeply loved. Your desires are already underway. And every contrast you encounter is setting the stage for your next becoming.

So pay attention. Divine synchronicity is on beautiful display. Not just for this client. For all of us. And it’s only getting louder.

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How One Old Fable Hides the Truth About Abundance

TL;DR: The author reexamines Aesop’s famous fable through a spiritual lens, revealing how both diligence and joy arise naturally when aligned with one’s Broader Perspective—culminating in a liberating, heart-opening rewrite of the tale.

For centuries, Aesop’s fable The Ant and the Grasshopper has shaped our cultural mindset about productivity, planning, and what it means to live a good life. You probably know the story:

A diligent ant spends the summer storing food and preparing for winter. Meanwhile, a carefree grasshopper sings and dances in the sun. When winter comes, the grasshopper finds himself cold and hungry, and the ant—well-stocked and warm—scolds him for his laziness. The moral? Work hard today or suffer tomorrow.

But what if that moral is false? What if it’s not even close to how the Universe—or nature—actually works?

And what if that fable, passed down generation after generation, is one of the most well-worn distortions keeping us from trusting joy, spontaneity, and the natural abundance we’re born into?

Let’s take a look through a Positively Focused lens.

A Story Written by the Intellect

The entire structure of the fable rests on a fundamental assumption: that survival is scarce, and only through toil, planning, and resistance to the ease inherent in the now can we secure the future. The ant is praised for “working hard,” while the grasshopper is dismissed for “doing nothing.”

But here’s the truth: in real life, ants don’t know they’re “preparing for winter.” They follow their internal cues. Just as the grasshopper does. Neither is projecting fear into the future. Neither is planning in the way humans do. None of them are working hard. They are both moving as they are designed to move: in tune with the larger intelligence that orchestrates everything from tides to cloud formations to galaxies.

And humans? We’ve overwritten that natural wisdom within us with fear-based beliefs.

The fable upholds a distorted version of value: that worthiness is earned through struggle. That the present moment is a trap unless you’re using it to prepare for the next one. Indeed, indulging in joy, spontaneity, and trusting life will lead to punishment.

This is exactly the kind of thinking that the Positively Focused practice helps us unravel.

The Trap of “Working Hard”

So many of my clients — beautiful, gifted people — come to me carrying this exact programming. I once did too. It shows up in our relationship to money, our creative work, our ability to rest, our relationship to the now, even our self-worth.

Nearly all of us have internalized the idea that ease is irresponsible and joy is unearned. That any expression not tethered to utility or “the grind” is frivolous. And what’s more? We often judge ourselves for wanting to follow our bliss.

But that desire for joy isn’t laziness. It’s guidance.

The desire to bask in the sun, to play a song, to take a nap, to follow an impulse with no “productive” outcome—that’s not a failure of discipline. It’s our Broader Perspective calling us back to our natural alignment. The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to vibration.

Which means: the better we feel, the more the Universe can give us what we ask for.

Joy Is Not Optional—It’s the Signal

The fable pits joy and responsibility against one another. But in reality, they’re inseparable. When we’re aligned, when we’re feeling good, when we’re trusting the unfolding—everything gets taken care of. Including “winter.”

Our Broader Perspective is always guiding us toward the version of our lives where our needs are met, our desires fulfilled, and our expression fully supported. Not through spreadsheets and strain, but through resonance, clarity, and inspired action.

And when contrast shows up—as it did for me recently in the form of forgotten financial fears or a friend’s gloomy worldview—I use it not as a reason to panic, but as an invitation to realign.

When I do that, reality literally shifts. Money shows up on the ground. Clients confirm they’re staying. Opportunities fall into place. My YouTube momentum picks up.

And I didn’t plan for any of it. I allowed it. That’s what the fable misses entirely.

The Grasshopper, Reframed

In this light, the grasshopper isn’t a cautionary tale. He’s a symbol of non-resistance. He holds trust that summer is here to be savored. He’s letting the Universe do the heavy lifting. And the winter? Maybe it never even arrives. But only for him. Because he doesn’t plan for a winter. He aligns to constant abundance.

I know that sounds radical. But I’ve experienced it. So have my clients.

The more aligned we are, the more time and space shift around us. Apparent “deadlines” extend. Unexpected windfalls appear. People bend over backwards to support us. It’s not fantasy. It’s the physics of focus.

So rather than teach the next generation to be afraid of “winter”, what if we taught them to trust their inner song, follow their delight? To move with nature rather than brace against it?

That’s the version of the story I want to tell. And maybe next time, when the ant passes the grasshopper in late autumn, he doesn’t sneer. Maybe he sits down. Listens. And hears a melody that melts the frost of his fears.

The Ant and the Grasshopper: A Story of Alignment

Once upon a summer’s morning, the Earth hummed with golden light. In a quiet clearing, two small beings went about their lives.

One was an Ant. Tireless. Methodical. She moved in lines—back and forth from her colony—gathering bits of grain, storing them deep beneath the soil. Her legs ticked like a clock. Her eyes stayed fixed on the horizon, where winter loomed in her mind like a shadow.

The other was a Grasshopper. Luminous. Iridescent. He leapt through tall stalks of grass, chirping melodies that rose with the breeze. Sunned himself on warm stones. He ate when he was hungry. Slept when he was tired. And sang because it pleased him.

The Ant watched him with a kind of pity.

“Why do you waste time like this?” she called. “You should be working. Winter is coming. You’ll starve.”

The Grasshopper paused. “I trust the Earth,” he replied. “Right now, it’s summer. So I sing.”

The Ant shook her head. “You’ll regret this.”

The Grasshopper didn’t answer. A breeze moved through the field, and he leapt joyfully into it.

Seasons Shift, But Alignment Endures

As days passed, the meadow ripened. The sun stretched long and low. The Ant, now deep in her work, had gathered piles of food, stacked in careful rows. Her back ached. Her mind was restless. Though her pantry was full, her heart was not.

The Grasshopper?

He followed a pathless path. One day he discovered a patch of ripe blackberries. Another day, he encountered a stream with minnows glinting like coins. At night, he curled under leaves and listened to the stars.

He met a turtle who gave him shade. Then a robin who shared her song. And also child who left breadcrumbs from her picnic. He never lacked.

One afternoon, a heavy cloud rolled in. A chill swept the meadow. The Ant hurried home, burdened by fear. But the Grasshopper felt only stillness. He found a hollow log, warm and dry. He rested there. And dreamed.

The Reunion

Months passed. Spring returned. The Earth sighed green again. The Grasshopper stretched in the light. He felt no need to recount the past. Only to leap forward into joy. But as he passed near the Ant’s hill, he saw her—hunched and tired, sorting a new pile of grain. Her eyes darted, already planning for winter.

He approached gently. “Hello again,” he said.

She looked up, startled. “You survived?”

He smiled. “I did more than survive. I lived.”

She frowned. “But you had no food. No shelter. No plan.”

“I had presence,” he said. “And it brought everything I needed.”

She shook her head slowly. “That’s not how life works.”

He tilted his head. “Then whose life have you been living?”

The Moral

The Ant and the Grasshopper parted ways. But that night, as the Ant returned to her tasks, she paused. She thought of his song. The way his eyes shimmered with ease. The calm in his voice. And for the first time, she wondered: what if she had it backwards?

What if all her striving didn’t guarantee safety—but only delayed joy? Might the Grasshopper’s freedom not be luck… but alignment? What if the Universe wasn’t a test to pass… but a partner with whom to dance?

And then—just for a moment—she let herself rest…

And so, dear reader: The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to resonance. Prepare if you feel inspired. Work if it delights you. But above all—listen to your song. Because the grass isn’t greener. It’s alive. And it’s waiting for you to leap.

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What Happens When the Spirit Makes Love to You

TL;DR: The author explores how erotic dreams reveal sacred union with one’s Broader Perspective. These intense experiences aren’t about sex—they’re vibrational integrations between physical self and Source.

I’ve had enough erotic dreams to know they’re not “just dreams.” These aren’t wish fulfillment fantasies bubbling up from the subconscious. They’re something far more profound—vibrational events where my physical apparatus does its best to translate nonphysical communion into something familiar.

And what’s more familiar, more all-consuming, more undeniable than sex?

Sex in the dream state isn’t always about sex. It’s about union and alignment. It’s about ecstatic integration between parts of the self, or between self and Source. Sometimes it takes the form of a lover, a partner, a friend. Other times, it looks like me—my body turning in on itself, morphing into masculine and feminine as I make love with my own wholeness. And that? That’s divinity in action.

Sacred Mechanics of Nonphysical Integration

For example, one dream left me introspective for days. In it, I stood at the threshold of a dark room, separated from the presence inside it by a cracked door. I sensed her—a red-haired being, dormant but radiant. Later, she kissed me. First on the forehead. Then, after I responded, on the lips. Her kiss wasn’t just physical. It was an activation. A permission slip to merge.

We kissed again, deeper this time. As our mouths opened, something incredible happened. I didn’t just put my tongue in her mouth—I became my tongue entering her. I expanded into her and she into me. The sexual act dissolved into a full-bodied spiritual absorption. We weren’t two bodies anymore. We were one vibration, folding into itself over and over again.

This is the best language I have for describing what really happened. But it wasn’t physical sex. It was transdimensional union—a collapsing of apparent separation, expressed as pleasure, as flesh, as rhythm and intensity. Our climax wasn’t ejaculation. It was integration.

When the Self Is the Lover

Another dream brought the point home even more clearly. I found myself as both the lover and the beloved, equipped with both a penis and a vagina. I was knotting into myself, fluidly turning inside out and outside in. The boundaries between body and being, masculine and feminine, had disappeared.

This was dream logic not human logic. The entire act represented a divine, spiritual logic, dressed in sensual metaphor.

I woke with the most intense erection—deeply satisfied, pulsing with aliveness. My body tingled with arousal and awareness, and my soul felt rinsed in golden light. In the final moments of the dream, I placed a golden eagle upon my belly. Its talons rested gently against my skin, curled in reverence. Its beak touched my mouth, and I licked it—slowly, deliberately. That wasn’t a sensual act. Instead, it was ceremony. A ritual of completion. A sign that I had re-membered another piece of my divine self.

Dream Characters Are Dimensions Of Us

It’s easy to assume that people we meet in dreams—lovers, friends, coworkers—are actually those people. But they’re not. Not usually.

In most cases, the familiar face our brain maps onto that being is a stand-in. The dreamtime isn’t interested in casting accuracy — it’s interested in resonance accuracy. If someone in our physical reality has a trait that our inner being wants to highlight, they’ll be used as a symbolic avatar. Not as deception, but as a way to clue us in on what we’re wanting to know about ourselves.

So when I dream of someone like Tom G.—the senior most manager in charge of Intel Oregon chip-making fabrication facilities, someone I worked with in my time there —it’s not really him. It’s a version of my inner authority, expertise and knowledge, the part of me that organizes vast systems of creation. The part that’s leading edge. It’s me, playing dress-up in my own subconscious to show myself how far I’ve come.

Sex as Spiritual Calibration

When we have sex in dreams, our physical minds interpret it as erotic release. But what’s really happening is vibrational entrainment. It’s alignment with our Broader Perspective. With Source. The orgasmic experience symbolizes that merging. It’s the closest our biology can come to grasping what it feels like to become one with All That Is.

And it often follows or precedes powerful dream sequences involving technology, architecture, calculation, or creative output. No randomness in the imagery. Just lead up. A preparation for the tuning. And the sex? That’s the final integration, the system-wide software update, installing itself with ecstasy and grace.

In waking life, we’re conditioned to think about sex in limited, surface-level ways. But in dreamtime, we let go of those limitations. Sex as symbolism becomes the limitation. Because sex as an experience is the only thing in waking reality that comes close to direct alignment with All That Is. That alignment feels that good. Better, actually.

So erotic encounters in dreams are not just about desire—they’re about destiny. They’re vibrational confirmations that we’re meeting ourselves at new levels. We’re reclaiming sovereignty, becoming Whole.

Whether I’m making love to a radiant redhead, to my own spiraling form, or to a symbolic representation of my creative power, the message is always the same: I am loved, seen, blessed. I am That which I’ve been reaching for. So I don’t flinch when my dreams get erotic. Instead, I celebrate, interpret and revere. Because I know what’s happening.

Source is showing—in the language of flesh, sweat, pulse, and sigh—that I am aligned, that am becoming, that I am remembering Who I Really Am. And there’s nothing more delicious than that.

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How to Know Which Sign Is the Real One

TL;DR: The author shares a powerful real-life story in which simultaneous criticism and praise become vibrational signposts—revealing how contrast and coincidence reflect momentum, alignment, and the Universe’s loving invitation to choose. But only for those who are worthy.

Sometimes, the Universe delivers two seemingly contradictory events at the same time—one that feels negative, and another that feels positive. But when we’re living Positively Focused, when we stand in our worthiness, we start to see both as guidance. Both are reflections. And both are invitations to choose our direction consciously. When negative and positive arrive together, a divine invitation is at hand.

Over the past three weeks, I experienced exactly that. The timing was too perfect to ignore. It was a moment so aligned, so precise, it could only be orchestrated by my Broader Perspective.

The Critic and the Client

On one hand, I was corresponding with a transgender woman. She had taken issue with my work on The Transamorous Network blog. We’ll call her Janet. Being a trans woman, she felt misunderstood, even attacked perhaps, by something I’d written. And though I knew her interpretation didn’t match my intent, I responded with clarity and care to help clear up her Belief Confrontation.

While our correspondence went back and forth, another transgender woman—let’s call her Nancy—scheduled a free one-on-one through that same blog. I didn’t know anything about her until we met. Turns out, Nancy is finishing medical school and is also steeped in clinical psychology. That’s right: a person deeply steeped in the scientific method had read 10 or 20 of my blog posts—and felt drawn enough to reach out for more.

During our free session (which went well beyond the usual 30 minutes), we dove into spiritual principles, her beliefs and how they shape her life, and things she cares about. By the end, she told me she knew there was something in what I share — and she wanted to become a client.

That moment was no accident. It was a deliberate, divinely-timed juxtaposition. One trans woman criticizing what I do. The other wanting part of it. That juxtaposition taught me something I already knew, but love being reminded of: Criticism and praise aren’t opposites. They’re coordinates. They help us locate ourselves vibrationally.

To explain:

A Return from Negative Momentum

Back in December, I stopped writing for The Transamorous Network blog. I noticed that my focus on that subject back then had slipped into negative momentum focus. I was drawing more and more criticism from angry readers—many of whom didn’t understand my perspective or what I was offering. All of them were trans women.

I tried for a long time to clear up their misunderstandings and limited beliefs. But those people couldn’t hear what I was saying. That’s because their belief constellations ranged far from where I am in my knowledge about life experience. So the more I tried to uplift them, the harder they pushed. And the harder they pushed, the more entrained I got.

Until I realized what I was doing.

When I did, I stopped pushing against that resistance. I stepped back and allowed my vibration to recalibrate. No more posts for that blog! In doing so, I let the negative momentum subside by not feeding it further.

By not feeding my old momentum, I set up the divine invitation that came later.

Months later—without me publishing a single new post—new readers began reaching out again. Trans-attracted men, wives of trans-attracted men, even gay men sent me messages. They all were asking for guidance, for support, for answers. Not with anger—but with curiosity and warmth. And with understanding that I offer something of value.

That’s how I knew something shifted.

And then came Janet and Nancy, nearly at the same moment. Both represented clear reflections that I was now standing in a different vibrational space—one where I was ready to choose what momentum I wanted to amplify.

Both Are Guidance

Here’s what I saw clearly: Janet and Nancy were both cooperative components.

  • Janet mirrored my old energy—momentum I had already soothed. Momentum that had me pushing against trans women’s lack of understanding, insecurity and anger.
  • Nancy mirrored new energy—momentum I was now allowing. Ease in my being. Allowing instead of pushing. Letting the Universe present me with what I want. Not pushing against what I don’t.

Here’s the biggest thing: Both Janet and Nancy offered a chance to decide where I wanted to place my focus and which momentum I wanted to build. They invited me to ask myself: Do I want more of this (Nancy)? Or more of that (Janet)?

Do I want more of this (Nancy)? Or more of that (Janet)?

Not because one is good and the other is bad. But because the Universe will always give you what you focus on.

So I leaned into Nancy’s presence—her clarity, her eagerness, her willingness to explore. And with that choice, I emailed Janet and let her know I was ending the correspondence. I told her why—not out of avoidance, or anger, but out of alignment. I explained that I was following what felt best, and honoring where my energy was now flowing.

Letting that go was a powerful, gentle release. It reminded me: Everyone is a divine being offering guidance—not always with praise or agreement, but always with clarity if we’re willing to see it.

That’s Where Worthiness Comes In

When events coincide — especially when they seem emotionally opposite — it’s not random. It’s vibrational precision. It’s our Broader Perspective delivering options at the exact frequency we’re tuned to. At that exact moment, we get to choose which option we energize with our attention. That choice determines what comes next.

But the challenge life offers regarding these moments is we must be aligned with our worthiness to perceive what’s happening as a gift. Worthiness isn’t something we can conjure or “fake it until you make it”. It emerges naturally from within us when we recognize, acknowledge and remember, moments in our past where the Universe offered us guidance, followed through and delivered on our desires, or blessed us in some other way.

Everyone is a divine being offering guidance—not always with praise or agreement, but always with clarity if we’re willing to see it.

Worthiness, therefore, comes naturally when we fill our vibrational basket with evidence that we are blessed by All That Is. It doesn’t come before that. And so, if we don’t feel that worthiness, we can’t see how, for example, Janet and Nancy’s arrival into my life was something other than random coincidence.

One of my newer clients said recently: “Why isn’t this stuff taught in school? If it were, people could live so much better.” I agree. Because once we recover our worthiness, then learn how to interpret our reality—including the contrast—as real-time vibrational feedback, life gets easier. It gets softer. It gets clearer. We stop taking things personally. We understand why people do what they do with absolute clarity and also with love, knowing nothing can come into our life without us attracting it. That’s when we stop trying to control other people. We just trust what life is showing us… even when it arrives as contrast.

That’s why a separate, long-time client once told me: “I love this shit!”. She gets what I’m talking about.

I do too.

Recovering our Worthiness

So let this moment remind you: If you’re getting mixed signals from life, it’s not confusion. It’s refinement. And it’s certainly not random coincidence. Instead, it’s a moment where you stand at a vibrational cross roads. And your power lies in what you choose to focus on next.

Worthiness takes a while to allow into our experience. We all had it as children. But nearly all parents talk us out of it by convincing us to put their happiness ahead of our own. They do that by setting rules, meting out punishments and saying distorted things like “money doesn’t grow on trees”.

In short order, we become very much like our parents.

The good news: all of this is recoverable. Every person can recover their worthiness. It takes longer for some than others. But who cares, really, how long it takes? We all are, after all, eternal.

Want help deciphering your own cross roads? Want a life where things happen on your behalf without you having to struggle or hustle? Schedule a free 30-minute session with me right here. The Universe is always speaking to you. Let’s learn how to listen.