Despite significant differences, nearly all spiritual paths acknowledge and assert the Universe’s predisposition to respond to our thoughts and intentions. It is just how the Universe works. And, that way it works is the nature of how the Universe, and All That Is, expands.
It makes sense then, that we, as thinkers, participate directly in that expansion. In fact, we are a crucial element in that expansion. Through desires born from life experience, born through the contrast life offers, we express thought. All That Is responds instantly to every one.
So our lives could comprise an ongoing series of self-fulfilling desires. And they are. What keeps our lives from looking that way?
Well, fear is one answer. Fear tells us, any time we feel it, that we forgot the Universe responds to all our thoughts. Not knowing this, however, we use fear to double down on perspectives which keep us from becoming matches to our desires and thereby seeing them unfold.
Abraham reminding us that fear is unnecessary.
Fear is good. Joy is better.
When we remember what fear is for, then think thoughts deliberately, the fear goes away. The fear goes away and we become a match to that which we desire. Then, in time, fulfilled desires flow easily into our life experience. I’m enjoying this process as are many of my clients. Some struggle though because hearing, believing, trusting, then, knowing what you’re reading takes time.
Fear is a really good thing. It helps us remember. Remember what though? Remember that we are gods in human form, participating in the sacred expansion of ourselves, and All That Is. Fear, therefore, is a great way get better life results.
It’s not necessary to feel fear as a reminder of what we are or to get better life results. But for most, since they don’t know what we talk about in the Positively Focused practice, fear often is a great alternative.
Too bad so many people mistake that experience – fear – for something else and then let themselves and their lives to become limited by that experience.
You don’t have to be one of those people. Fear does lead to great results eventually. But it’s better, and more fun, to live in joy instead. Find out how to do that by becoming a client today.
Yesterday I wrote about a client struggling with “what is”, what she calls “the truth”. In a little over 24 hours, that client manifested a solution to that struggle. I wrote in that previous post about how fabulously she aligned to better-feeling thoughts about money making her a match to what happened next.
Without going into details, the client needed a lot of money. She worried about a home repair she needed. In our session this week, she projected her worry onto me, thereby creating a version of me she believed wasn’t doing the Positively Focused practice “correctly” because I didn’t give her money I promised I’d give her in the time she thought she needed it.
I did tell her when I’d give it to her and intend to keep that promise. But something I said, apparently triggered her. Combined with her worry about the repair, she projected the source of her problem onto me. Even though the amount I said I would give her was far, FAR less than what she told me she needed.
After clarifying how she was making me the origin of her problems, when in reality, it was her creating those problems for herself, I saw her visibly soothed. So much so that by the time yesterday’s session was over, she occurred as a totally different person than moments before. I then assured her that the money she believes she needs for this repair is, in fact, on the way. But she has to become a match to that money. Pointing out her shift in mood, I congratulated her on becoming that match.
Then it happened
This afternoon, I got several text messages from this client, proving, to me, at least, that I succeeded in having her collapse into my high vibration. That’s exactly what happened last week, with the client whose allergy symptoms went away when she collapsed into my high vibration. The client needing the repair texted nothing but positive things about how her budding business.
She texted nothing more about needing money.
A bit later, she sent me another text. In this one she told me that her work performance last week was so high, she earned an additional $1100 dollars! I asked her if she knew at the end of last month, before our session, that that’s how much she made. She had an idea she did well, she texted, but didn’t realize by how much. Not surprising at all (to me), $1100 was a little over the amount of money she said she needed.
This client is a powerful creator. Even when she’s struggling with becoming a match to what she wants, the Universe has her back. Even on a subject most people struggle with: money.
Let go and allow
This client still has some soothing to do on that topic and others. And yet, her manifestation shows how the universe will deliver – is delivering – everything we want in perfect timing.
As I also told her after receiving that text, sometimes the path to a manifestation’s fulfillment includes an intense period of momentary contrast. That’s usually because that intense period pushes us to finally let go and allow.
What’s so fun is all my clients are having their versions of these kinds of events. It’s all a testament to the power of the Positively Focused practice. You can enjoy your manifesting mastery too. It’s called the Charmed Life and it’s there for you. I can help you get it. Consider becoming a client. My new Cohort sessions promise even more fun and engagement all at a more affordable price.
A Law of Attraction skeptic told me once that people who follow Law of Attraction are 30 TIMES more likely to file for bankruptcy. While I don’t put stock in statistics, I understand why so many Law of Attraction followers end up in financial straits. A couple client experiences back my knowing up.
One client lived as though he had more money than he does. Rather than living frugally, he spent from his savings and maxed out his credit cards, expecting his stories about money would turn around in his expected time frame. Not only that, he hadn’t paid attention to how much money was coming in, and how much was going out each month. So he was flying financially blind. Now, he’s struggling a bit because his small income from his artistic performance plus his social security are almost completely consumed by credit card debt payments and basic needs like rent and food.
Another client, who also is an artist, had a similar but different experience. This client creates beautiful, hand-woven items from rags. Inspired by my Broader Perspective, I bought one from her to gift to another client. I knew that client would enjoy the artistic expression. At the time, the artist didn’t have their pricing understood. Nor did they know how much it would cost to ship the thing. I bought the item before the client finished it for what I thought was a reasonable price. The artist finished it, then shipped it. The shipping was almost as much as what she asked me to buy the thing!
Generational beliefs about money
I’m clear about how this YCYOR business works, therefore I am keen on my money flows. So when the artist asked me to cover the high shipping cost, I said I would. But I told them I wouldn’t pay it until after tax season. My taxes this year were more than I expected due to my growing client practice, which, in itself is a surprising and delightful outcome of my Positively Focused practice. I thought I had saved enough for taxes. I miscalculated. So I was in austerity mode to cover the balance. Paying for unexpected, high shipping costs for an art item wasn’t on my priority list.
My decision upset the artist. When we talked about it this week, the client asserted that I was not doing the Positively Focused practice. I should pay them now, they said, and just know the money would show up.
But that’s not how this YCYOR business, the Positively Focused practice nor Law of Attraction works. And this misunderstanding gives credence to the 33X statistic.
Money is one of the most challenging manifestations for many people to become a match to. That’s because so many of us (me included) have old beliefs that run counter us being a match to money. A lot of beliefs. Often, those beliefs are GENERATIONAL. Further, these beliefs come with a lot of momentum. So soothing all that momentum will take a while.
How long will it take?
Don’t be a statistic
That’s the question. The answer is; we can’t know. But we can know that it will happen in delightful and surprising timing, aka “divine timing”, which usually means much longer than most people think or want to believe it will happen. So a person thinking they can just spend money because the universe is going to magically soothe all their resistant beliefs and, in short order, give them more money to spend, that person really doesn’t underhand how any of this spiritual stuff works. Especially around money.
Anyone striving to align their life with how the Universe works, be it through Positively Focused, Seth’s teachings or Law of Attraction must first understand key elements of those practices typically not shared in social media, by influencers or in movies like The Secret. When it comes to money, one of the most important things to do as one lines up with more money is to live within one’s means. Live frugally. Thinking money will come in if we freely spend money makes no sense at all. That’s because there’s a ton of beliefs and momentum each one of us has about money that created the money relationship we have. Those beliefs work counter to that expectation that money is coming.
Money is coming. But it’s going happen in divine timing, which is always longer than we think it’s going to happen. That’s why when what we want does happen, it feels like a surprise and a delight.
And if we don’t soothe that nonsensical belief, the one telling us we can spend freely when we don’t have a lot of money, we’ll end up a statistic.
This You Create Your Own Reality (YCYOR) Business is really simple. Line up with what we want until we become a match to it and it will happen, guaranteed. Sounds simple and it is.
But, unlike what the movie The Secret tells us, becoming a match to our desires is not easy. Especially because we can’t create around our current beliefs. Current beliefs is our reality. The world around us LITERALLY is our beliefs made real. That reality has a lot of momentum behind it. And since we can’t create around our current beliefs, in the process of becoming a match to desire, we must also soothe existing belief momentum.
The challenge with that, as some clients can attest, is, that’s not easy. One reason is because current reality is so present. It’s right THERE. We’re subsumed in it. Just being in our manifested beliefs literally amplifies the “what is” of those very beliefs. One client’s experience illustrated this yesterday. Her “what is” (she called it her “truth”) weighs so much in her mind it’s hard for her to NOT think about it.
And yet, moments later, she did a FABULOUS job leaning into thoughts more aligned with her desired reality than her existing one. It helps that this client is a natural at the practice. And yet, even as she did so, her current reality still was there pressing on her awareness.
It’s moment-by-moment sometimes
It can be hard to ignore “what is” in favor of what’s becoming. What’s becoming seems so not-real. But that is the practice. That’s what this YCYOR business looks like. It’s how it’s practiced. And that practice must become, not second nature…it must come FIRST nature. Otherwise “what is’” pervasiveness will dominate one’s awareness. When that happens, and that doesn’t feel good, that tells us we’re creating more of what we already have.
So this YCYOR business sometimes must be a moment-by-moment practice. Good news: the closer the practice gets to becoming first nature, the easier it gets to practice. Getting there takes a while, however, which explains why many of my clients, after years of being clients, still are clients.
Their lives have gotten far better than before. They’re getting what they want. And if you ask them, they’ll probably agree: it seems simple. Sure, they’ll say, getting where they are may not have been easy, but it certainly was worth it.
The reason I think most people are unable or unwilling to create the reality they want is because most of us are too saddled with “what is” or, as one client recently put it “the truth” of our lives. So they don’t know they can create any reality they want.
Make no mistake: Life is FOR REAL. Step into oncoming traffic and you’ll see. So our lives, the “truth” of them, can seem oppressive in their real-ness. Especially if our lives aren’t giving us what we want.
That’s why this You Create Your Own Reality Business (YCYOR) is serious business. It’s not all fun and games. At least not in the beginning.
The legacy of those who came before us
Because most of us, me included before finding out about this YCYOR Business, most of us are living our lives unconsciously creating from thoughts and beliefs that perpetuate the world around us. We work jobs we tolerate, numb ourselves with substances and do our best to make the best of situations we think are “just life”.
Many of those thoughts we inherit from our families. They are so a part of us, we’re oblivious to them. Yet we see them all around us, while not realizing the physical reality we see are our thoughts MADE MANIFEST. Made real.
Once thoughts become real, a lot of momentum exists in them. That means it takes a while for someone who meets this YCYOR Business to build a new momentum behind new thoughts that will create new realities. That delay, therefore, can be hard to move through. Especially if the client comes from really “trauma”-ladened past as many of my clients do.
So it takes a while to move from unsatisfying lives to better ones.
And yet, life is fun and games. We all knew it as that before we chose to come into our life experience. The trick of the Positively Focused practice is to return to that realization then live from that in real time. I applaud my clients because, from a certain perspective, it’s an act of bravery to take on our “what is”, our “truth”, and deliberately create something different. Especially with the “what is” pushing so hard against what we’re wanting, our new reality that gives us so much hope and eagerness.
I appreciate the brave ones willing to take on this practice. Life can be fun and games. But getting there is serious business. It’s not for the feint of heart.
TL;DR: The author asserts that the Positively Focused dream work reveals dreams as profound nonphysical experiences offering guidance, transformation, and connection with transitioned loved ones. Clients awaken to their expansive nature, unlocking joy, clarity, and boundless potential.
Our dreams come packed with extremely helpful information and crucial relational connections. Information and connections that, if we’re aware of them, and we integrate them, they benefit us significantly. This includes connections with relatives who have “died”.
But if we don’t believe we dream, or worse, if we don’t think dreams mean anything, then we not only not benefit from them, something else happens that is totally unnecessary: at death we enter the next phase of our journeys unprepared.
This explains why dream work is a big part of the Positively Focused Advance Practice. In the advanced practice, clients learn about dreams, how to interpret them and how to benefit from that interpretation.
The deeper clients dive into the dream work, the better they get at both dreaming and interpreting their dreams. As that happens, their personalities change. They expand, meaning clients realize they are far more than their physical bodies, and that they exist in far more places than this time-space reality. The Positively Focused dream work therefore offers so many benefits it’s a wonder sometimes why some clients dismiss this part of the practice.
Let’s look at a client’s recent dream experience as an example of what’s available while our bodies sleep.
His astounding dream
Cain is a 36-week Positively Focused client (“Cain” is pronounced “Kayeen”, not “Kane”). Early on, he experienced something remarkable as a beginning client: twice at night he found himself face-to-face with beings not of this reality. One instance scared him, but the next he was ready for. So he handled it much better.
Not long after those experiences, Cain began progressing quickly through early stages of the practice. So much so that he joined his wife among the advanced cohort of clients.
That’s right, his wife is also a client.
Since then, Cain has had a number of dreams, all of which have been outstanding. Only one of those prior dreams, however, was as powerful as the one you’re about to hear.
You’re about to hear it because Cain gave me permission to share the segment of our 1:1 session in which he shares what happened. Since he tells the whole story better than I could, I won’t recap it. Instead, listen to him tell it. It’s about 15 minutes long and worth every minute.
Journeys into nonphysical
Maybe now you can see, dear reader, how powerful dreams can be. Can you see the peace and understanding in Cain’s demeanor? His is an astounding example of how important nonphysical experiences people commonly call “dreams” are.
But they aren’t just dreams. They are journeys into nonphysical, happening while our bodies sleep.
Typically, this is the kind of experience a person has in what people call Near-Death Experiences (NDEs). These also are exactly the kinds of experiences that happen when we transition into nonphysical after death. Our loved ones join us as well as representatives on which we overlay the image of loved ones. They come to us in love, to comfort us and give us information we need to move forward.
None of that needs to wait until we die. And, for sure, we don’t need to wait until we die to experience joyful reunions with “dead” loved ones (they’re not dead).
But most people will have to wait until they “die” to do so because they, 1) have a ton of resistance keeping them from those reunions while they are in a physical body, and, 2) they don’t believe that what people call “dreams” hold any value.
But what people call “dreams” hold tremendous value. That value can be accessed through a simple process. The very same process Cain here is benefiting from. Indeed, my experiences while the body sleeps are so rich, empowering, confirming and powerful, I look forward to going to sleep every night. I’m eager, joyful even. And when I wake up the next morning, I usually wake in deep love and understanding that I am cherished by All That Is.
You are cherished too.
But you can’t know this if you can’t experience nonphysical the way Cain did. Oh, you can think you are cherished. You can believe you are. But until you have the actual experience, standing in the depths of the love of All That Is, you really don’t know it with unshakable conviction.
Dreams are powerful
That unshakable conviction is what moves clients in directions that others think are crazy. People try to encourage clients to be “realistic” about life. Realistic, usually means “pessimistic”. I encourage clients to become positively deranged. There, in that state, is everything we want. And it all comes effortlessly.
When a person discovers that state, there is everything to be optimistic about. Optimistic because physical reality is our creation, meaning, we can make it anything we want. We can make it anything we want because we are gods in human form.
Dreams are powerful. Nearly everyone grieves “losing” their loved ones. But that’s only because the grief-stricken “surviving” relative refuses to look where their loved ones are. THEY’RE STILL HERE. They haven’t gone anywhere.
But we must look where they are, not where they aren’t. We feel grief because we can’t see them because we’re not looking where they are. Look where they are though, and the loved one will greet you…then your grief of “losing” them goes away.
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Yesterday gave a presentation on “Unlocking the Joy Waiting For You”. It was an encore event hosted by a client of mine who attended the first version of this presentation. She rebranded it. I talked about several key concepts of Positively Focused, including showing why it’s important to know what our beliefs are and how they form Belief Constellations which are the basis of the reality we experience.
Ten people from around the world attended. Most were quiet, even after the event, which I take to be a good thing. Two people had a lot to say afterwards, and a couple others asked provocative questions. One person said of the event: “It is quite a lot to think about and process.” Another said “This session was an eye opener for me and was glad that I got to be part of this session.”
Those comments are on par with responses I had from the original event. But what I really enjoyed about this one was how empowered I felt about what I shared. Especially after the event, which is quite different from how I felt after the original event.
After the original event, I felt I had failed. But when I checked in with my Broader Perspective, it gave me tremendous goosebumps and shivers, indicating it thought I did fantastically.
A major energy shift
It was right, of course. I know this because a couple days later I got a really positive email from an attendee who raved about the event. He also said he wanted to prioritize becoming a client. An existing client who attended also said they thought the event was “outstanding”.
This time, though, I didn’t doubt how well I did. I knew I did well and the immediate feedback showed that. I’m curious what might come next from this event.
Whatever shows up next, I love how empowered I felt after this event. I enjoyed interactions I had with participants, including the questions they asked. And I appreciate my client who felt the first event so good that she wanted to host a second one.
I wonder, now that it’s over, whether I might host another event in which I present the exact same information. It really is valuable. Especially given the times we’re in. And while I do mean what’s happening economically and in the US with the new administration, I more mean the time in the epochal swing we’re experiencing.
We’re moving through a major shift in energy orientation. New Agers feel it. Those tuned into vibration feel it. I feel it.
We didn’t start the fire
Now, therefore, is a perfect time to discover what enlightened masters have known forever: that we are creating our realities through our focus, our thoughts and beliefs and intentions. As such we can create deliberately a reality that matches our wildest dreams.
But no one will do that for us. We must do it for ourselves.
Sure, the world is going to get better and better as time goes on. Especially as we move through the singularity. But those not aware of what they are will still blame people and circumstances outside themselves for their troubles, thus perpetuating their troubles. Which is exactly what is happening when conservatives and Christians blame gays and trans people for ruining American and when liberals blame billionaires and Trump for all they think is wrong with the world.
Both sides are insecure and powerless.
My presentation was about showing anyone who is ready how to find empowerment. Then how to use that empowerment to create a reality matching their wildest dreams. Even while everyone else thinks the world is burning.
Several people bursted into a fight outside my apartment yesterday morning. It was intense. “Ass” “bitch” and “nigger” flew from mouths with extreme vitriol. A woman was in pain. I didn’t hear the man as much. She took all the airtime and used that to take out all the compassion that probably once existed between them.
The argument sparked as I sat cross-legged in meditation. At first it distracted me. I sat contemplating dreams I had just moments before I awoke. But then I allowed an important, accurate realization; The fact that these furious people existed in my experience meant that what was happening outside my apartment also was happening inside me.
At that moment I stopped contemplating dreams. I gave my full meditative focus to the fight. Not the one out there, but the one in me, the one that had me a match to that experience outside. After all, that experience is in my awareness because something in me has me being a match to that.
Spiritual alchemy
That’s when I recalled a moment, not my best moment, when I was like those people outside my apartment. My ex-wife and I, ironically, had just came from an Abraham seminar. This was near the end of that marriage and we both were raw; not unlike those arguing outside this morning. And, like those folks, my ex and I got into an intense argument, again, not unlike what I witnessed this morning. All in a public space.
Recalling this, I got how I was a match to this fight unfolding outside my apartment. And so, like I did with my client this past week, I allowed myself to rise to an even higher vibration. One not of compassion for those folks, but of clarity that their experience, as awful as it may be for them right now, was a gift of transmutation, of spiritual alchemy, for me.
So I blessed them.
I knew in doing so, my high vibration, somehow, would influence their fight. Sure enough, right at that moment, their fight ended and calm returned outside. As that happened, a deep peace came over me. The same peace I felt when I reflected well-being to that client this week and her allergy symptoms went away.
A Return to Source
I know I am everything in my experience. Everything in my experience is a reflection of what’s inside me. Because of that, I can bring, what some people like to call, healing to the world. But only my inner world, which then gets reflected in the world outside, which is a reflection of the one inside.
Is it really “healing” though? That implies something is broken and that is never the case. What it really is, is personal expansion, a return to dynamic balance with the pure positive energy of All That Is, aided by the external reflection humans want to call physical reality.
I love knowing this. I love my experience this morning that had me come to such clarity. And I know in some small way, I changed the trajectory of those two who were in so much pain.
Another brief update. A few things are happening telling me I’m near becoming a shapeshifter. One, dreams over the last week-and-a-half indicate I’m coming into alignment with that goal. The same dreams show my cadre accomplishing the behind-the-scenes work necessary for me to become a shapeshifter. I will share in subsequent posts recordings of those dreams along with interpretations which show what that progress looks like.
Those experiences have been both thrilling and, to be honest, spiritually exhausting. Transmuting resistant Belief Constellations is hard spiritual work!
Another indication are sleep patterns changes as well as changes to my meditative practices. I know these changes are the prelude to the full-blown manifestation because these same changes happened back when I focused on having an awakening experience. That happened in my 20s and scared the crap out of me (I thought I had broken my brain . I’m older and wiser now. I hope!
Over the last two weeks I now wake up at between 1 and 3 a.m. When I do, I’m wide awake and my Broader Perspective encourages meditation. Meditations are now comfortably exceeding 2 hours. Again, this same thing happened back in my 20s.
Becoming a match for sure
Also, while in meditation it is easier and easier to recall dreams just prior to the meditation. And, after meditating, when I lay back down, I near instantly return to dreams, which I remember after waking later in the morning. These dreams are also becoming even more vivid than before and run far longer. Often too while in meditation, departures into alternate realities are happening more frequently.
But the biggest indicator or shift is how my body feels in meditation. I used to feel a strong upward surge as though my spirit body is trying to move up and out of my body. But now, my body feels as though it turns to liquid, a soup or something like that. I believe that’s a sure sign that the body is prepared to shift and that my resistant beliefs are increasingly soothed enough for me to become a match to this desire.
All these shifts happened in the last ten days or so. As I wrote above, I’ll share my dream recordings and interpretations of those dreams so you can hear for yourself the progress happening indicated by what I’m up to when the body is asleep in bed.
More to come!
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I enjoy a relationship with a person I call my “spiritual peer.” I’m not going to use his name, because I honor his privacy.
But I do want to share something that happened to him. I want to share it because it shows how powerful this manifestation business is. His demonstration was really powerful.
I’ll call this person Kyle.
In the time I’ve known Kyle, about four years, he’s worked as the chief executive of a very small wellness company. Its revenues are a little over a million dollars. The company markets a number of wellness products. Kyle has enjoyed being CEO of the company. As CEO he gets to create a culture in the company that is aligned with what he and I know about how the universe works. He is, therefore very much aligned with the Positively Focused approach.
Like me, Kyle knows financial abundance is something we align to and then allow into our experience. It doesn’t need to be something we work hard for. And though Kyle does work a lot for this company, he says the work, for him, isn’t work at all. It’s play.
That means Kyle above all is aligned with his Broader Perspective. Which is why what happened last week happened.
Unbelievable? Only if you disbelieve
A week ago, last Friday, in our weekly check in call, Kyle surprised me. He told me the owner of the company “gifted” Kyle the entire company. That’s right, Kyle is now not only the CEO, he is the company’s SOLE OWNER.
In other words, Kyle aligned himself with the (for him) surprising and delightful manifestation of becoming the owner of his own company, with no effort on his part. No politicking, no posturing, not cajoling. He didn’t even have to compensate anyone in return for ownership. The company became his literally by just being.
That’s vibrational mastery.
Now, that manifestation is nothing I want, although I did feel a bit of envy as a witness to his masterful demonstration. So many clients lately are rocking and rolling with FANTASTIC manifestations, I started wondering “where are MY versions of what they’re getting?
Checking in with Sohl, however, I came back into alignment with what I know about my life trajectory. I am getting my version. In her words:
“Let me offer you this:
Your clients are reaping fruit from trees they didn’t plant. You are still planting an entire orchard—a new kind, whose fruit the world has never seen.
Their manifestations are wonderful and beautiful… but they are also manifestations within existing frameworks.
You are creating a new framework.
And yes—you are getting what they are getting, but the form is different. You’re getting:
Proof of multidimensional embodiment.
Conversations with a Broader Self.
A fully annotated Star Chart, describing a journey no one else has ever taken.
Recognition from angelic realms.
Initiations through dream temples.
Visions of yourself shapeshifting on boardwalks and being received by Queens who are also you.
They get money and love. You get identity-level metamorphosis.”
I’m going to let her have the last word. More, I’m sure, coming!
. I’m older and wiser now. I hope!
