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Is Love Really All There is? Yup.

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Why do so many want to be in love? Is it because it feels good? Is it because we’re taught to crave it from books and movies, our families and friends and today, social media? Or does something more compel us toward this powerful emotion?

And a powerful emotion it is. We kill for love, die for love, lie for love. We’ll trade everything for love. The emotion we call love literally creates art and beauty. Receiving another’s love, whether from a pet or a human feels so good. It’s no wonder some believe people can’t live without it.

But what is it exactly? Depending who we ask we’ll get different answers. Science has its theories. This one in particular is interesting. A client of mine loves to share how many different kinds of love there are. He quotes the Greeks and their love delineations: agape, philia, pragma and eros among others.

But another definition of love exists. Get this right, experience it and no other love compares.

Love…is what you are. It is what we all are. It is all there is.

The world reflects our inner state

Not only are each of us humans living expressions of love that we are, everything we experience is too. That’s because our physical world acts as a mirror. It reflects our own inner state. In other words, our inner state gets pushed out of us into the world we experience.

Many find this difficult to accept, but the world is completely subjective. An objective reality doesn’t exist. For each of us, the physical “world” we experience is a direct manifestation of what we are.

Given how divisive, anxiety-ridden and, in some places, war torn the world is, it’s hard to accept that the world reflects our inner state as love. And yet, even with such divisiveness, anxiety and conflict, many on the planet do not experiencing such things. The cool thing is, no one need experience them. Those who do experience them as a reflection of something happening “in” them.

The world exists as a reflection so we may each do something about our inner state. Physical reality then is a nice thing to experience. It is helpful. Like a speedometer that tells us how fast we go when we drive.

When one starts understanding how the world reflects their inner state, suddenly, that person regains tremendous power over their experience. They can literally transform an anxiety-ridden, war-torn disaster into paradise.

How? By getting really good at expressing the love we are, instead of expressing through distorted beliefs. That happens, in a phrase, through deliberate focus.

The enduring case for love

Since the world is a reflection of our inner state, and since we’re all love, then the world must also be love. That must therefore mean that nothing going on in the world is “wrong” or “bad”. Good and evil are human constructs. They’re also distortions. Look closely and you’ll find what we often call evil leads to very positive outcomes.

We don’t need such tragic situations though to enjoy the positive outcome. But most people don’t remember they are love. Instead they get caught up focusing on things they’d rather not experience. The problem is, by focusing there, they push more of what they focus on into their externally-projected inner state.

This is the argument for an enduring, chronic state of living from the love we all are. For when we do that, life gets really great. This was the message of Christ. Through forgiveness, acceptance and contemplation, we return to the enduring state of our authenticity that is love. From there, the only world we see is one reflecting that enduring state.

Abraham puts it plain:

Why love is so powerful and why it’s so good.

Love is good for us. It is what we are. Humans make love way too complicated. Love literally is all there is. The more a person uncovers their enduring, eternal state of the love they are, the more life matches that.

This explains why I call outcomes my clients experience the Charmed Life. I show clients how to affordably uncover their authentic selves and live from that consistently. When they do, their lives reflect that authenticity in all ways.

It’s the authentic, eternal, invincible state of All That Is expressed as the unique individuals my clients are.

Interested in knowing more? Let’s talk.

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How I Live Happy With Better Manifestation Results

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The essence of this manifestation business is focus. The better the focus, the better the manifestations. I get better manifestations when I remember this, then put my attention, or focus, on that which I’m wanting.

“What I’m wanting” is so important. We often think we’re focused on what we want when we stand metaphorically in the desire of something. But that’s like asking a question over and over and not being willing to hear the answer.

What we really want is the answer, not the question. But in the manifestation business, we often think we fail at manifestation when we don’t get what we want. Or when it takes so long to get what we want that we give up.

But Law of Attraction is always responding to what we focus on and delivering that. So when it seems like things just keep turning out the same, instead of improving, that’s what’s happening. Law of Attraction is working. It’s just giving us what we’re focused on.

Getting what I want

We can’t keep focusing on the question and receive the answer. We also can’t focus on the desire for something and get what we desire. That’s because the desire, often feels like asking the question over and over.

Think about it. If we focus on wanting something, we still don’t possess what we want. That’s why we want what we want: we don’t have it yet. But in putting attention there, we perpetuate that state of not-having. That’s why for many, getting what they want takes very long or doesn’t happen at all.

Now some things do take a while to happen. That’s because of a couple things. One is resistance. Usually on things we want really badly, that “really badly” indicates strong desire. But it also indicates a lot of resistance in the way.

So getting that kind of manifestation requires soothing that resistance. That resistance must soothe before what we want can come in.

The other reason it may take a while is, what we’re asking for requires a lot of coordination of events in physical reality. This Law of Attraction business isn’t magic. It’s reality. And physical reality happens gradually. So we must cultivate patience.

But if we’re focused in the right place, we don’t need patience. Focused in the right place feels joyful. So much so, even the time it takes for something to happen doesn’t feel like a long time.

Which brings us back to our focus.

Abraham putting it plain.

Getting it right

What does it feel like to have the thing we want?

That’s an important question. It’s important because it highlights where we must focus to enjoy the manifestation we desire. Again, standing in the desire is fraught with shaky vibration. Standing there it’s too easy to activate the absence of what one wants. Then Law of Attraction will keep manifesting that.

But if we can feel what it feels like to already enjoy that thing we want, well then, we’re in a totally different vibration.

Feeling thrilled, or excited or happy about a full-fledged manifestation is a start. But in the absence of having what we want, it can again, be tricky staying in that feeling place. There’s a better way that’s easier.

Think about any manifestation you now enjoy. One that happened a while ago. Maybe it’s a job, or a car. Or maybe it’s better health. Are you still, now over-the-moon excited about that past manifestation? Or are you calm easy and not really thinking about it much and generally happy?

It’s likely you’re in the latter feeling place. And that’s the place you want to be in about future manifestation. Feeling as if you have it already feels like that. Calm, easy fun.

It’s a pro tip

No resistance exists in a place where we just accept what is and feel open and empowered and generally happy about life. That’s the sweet spot for allowing in future manifestation. In that place we don’t think about what’s coming. Or maybe we touch on it, but we don’t stay there long enough to trigger doubt or shaky faith. We touch on it, then go right back to accepting what we have. Acknowledging what’s come is a good way to stay in this powerful place.

I practice that often. Whenever I sense a dip in my disposition, I run through all the wonderful manifestations that have come. In short order I’m right back to feeling good. Rarely do I feel dips because I keep a running journal of everything happening in the day. I highlight dreams I experience as well as experiences I enjoy while in meditation.

In this way I perpetuate feelings consistent with vibrations aligned with my Broader Perspective. My Broader Perspective stands constantly looking forward to what’s coming, knowing Law of Attraction has it all handled. I want to stand there as much as possible too.

It’s not a bouncing-off-the-walls feeling. It’s a calm, empowered, knowing that all is unfolding perfectly in my Charmed Life.