Diamond not to scale. Illustration not intended to reflect the client’s likeness.
That’s right. A client last week manifested a free 1-Carat diamond, in a massively surprising and delightful way. The experience put her over the moon.
It put me over the moon too. That’s because it, once again, showed how the Universe and our Broader Perspective cooperate to bring surprise and delight into our lives. I wrote “once again” because last week, other clients (and I) enjoyed surprising and delightful creations as well. One manifested a surprising repeat musical gig. Another created a situation around dating he thought was impossible, and yet, it happened. And another client found relief from responding to violence with violence.
Those last two offered such significant creation results, I scheduled them for my regular Monday release schedule. They require detailing how they happened, and it takes a while to tell those stories. So best to share them in long form.
Not this story though.
A delightful surprise
Telling this story is easy because it’s so obvious what happened. This client finds herself well into the Positively Focused advanced practice. She’s therefore more often than not finding the best things in life to put her attention on. And so she’s more often than not super high-flying. Her positive focus is well in place, in other words.
That’s why what happened, happened.
She went to a nonprofit fundraising event with friends. At the event, as such things go, organizers offered more ways to raise money than ticket sales. One was a raffle. The raffle offered several prizes, one of which was a 1-Carat diamond.
Guess who won that diamond?
“I swear Perry,” she said. “I knew I was going to win. I just felt it. I bought the ticket because my Broader Perspectivegave me the impulse to do so. But it was still fun winning because it proved how my Broader Perspective knows what will delight me!”
The client and her free 1-Carat creation.
She’s right
Yes, our Broader Perspective always knows where what we want unfolds. It’s always leading us to those things. But if we’re blocking the messages, the impulses, or if we’re allowing impulses from somewhere else to move us, we miss out.
Some people, for example, will read this story and think “that’s just random chance” or “that’s just coincidence” or “someone was going to win it”. Those are the very kinds of thoughts and beliefs that block Broader Perspective inspiration. And so, people holding such thoughts and beliefs are right. But only for them.
Not for this client though. She’s tuned in. She’s Positively Focused. So she’s getting everything she wants and she knows how that’s happening. It’s no wonder one of the other delightful things she’s created is a life partner who also enjoys the Positively Focused practice as well. A year ago, her partner became a client. Today, he calls the practice “undiscovered science.” His label attests to how accurate and how flawlessly the practice tunes people into receiving all they want.
That the client’s partner is now a client was a creation she wanted to manifest for herself. Well, that’s happened too. Over and over she’s proving her spiritual team knows how to deliver all that she’s wanting. So she doesn’t need to know details about how what she wants will happen. She doesn’t need to know when either. She only needs to tune in and enjoy life.
Just like every other client eventually discovers.
TL;DR: The author asserts that true healing is alignment, not miracles. By releasing resistance, anyone can experience transformation. Spiritual mastery, like Jesus demonstrated, is our birthright—and it’s closer than we think.
This is not a Christian blog, but the archetype represented by Jesus can help people better understand how the Universe works. It also shows our inherent power and how we can use that power to benefit others and ourselves.
The Bible is not the best way to represent Jesus’ iconic being because Jesus’ story comes surrounded by a bunch of distortion put there by insecure men. Still, with discernment, we can use the story as told in the Bible in our own self-discovery as gods in human form.
Something happened this week, yesterday, in fact (at the time of writing this), in a client call which prompts this post. It’s an extraordinary demonstration. I wrote briefly about it before. The demonstration validates the archetypal story of Jesus healing people. What apparently happened was, I “cured” a client’s allergy…on the spot. Just like Jesus. I’ve included here transcript screenshots from the live session to show exactly what happened.
So “healing” others is a thing. Who knew?
That’s exactly what it looked like. A “healing”. But what really happened requires more depth of understanding and clarification. It also validates why I assert we all are gods in human form. Let’s look at what happened.
Missing the message entirely
Yes, I “healed” a client. That’s not exactly what happened….well it is…but there’s a more accurate way of putting it. So let’s first take look at that.
Many in the New Age and Wellness community talk about “healing”. It’s no surprise. Even the medical community uses that term. I suppose it’s because medical professionals deal with wounds, disease, infections and more. The implication is, such things aren’t part of the holistic nature of the human organism. They represent “injury”. So when they are resolved, when the “injury” no longer exists, medical professionals refer to the resolution as “healing”.
But experiences such as wounds, disease and infections ARE part of the holistic nature of the human organism. Like physical reality, these manifestations are on purpose. They exist to alert the eternal being living in the physical organism to what their dominant vibration is.
That dis-ease or injury happens because further up stream in life experience, the eternal being in question didn’t heed lighter, less intense signals that something in their vibration was amiss. I’ve written many times before that all of life experience functions this way. Life experience is a reflection. A reflection of our inner state.
Life experience is the coarsest method of discovering what our inner state of being is. It’s easiest to perceive because it literally surrounds us. The next, more subtle, indicator of our inner state is our emotions. Those, like physical reality, are hard to miss, but, because they can be subtle, or misinterpreted, many people miss their emotions’ message entirely.
A great way to communicate
The next most subtle indicator is our thoughts and beliefs. For many people, a lot of thoughts and beliefs are inaccessible. Especially those that formed long ago. That’s why we have emotions and physical reality. Those more coarse indicators are harder or impossible to miss.
But the most subtle indicator is vibration. Many people outside of the New Age community don’t even believe vibration is real, let alone perceive it. But it is just as real as thoughts, beliefs, emotions and physical reality. Vibration is extremelysubtle, however, and many people can’t perceive vibration at all. Some can, though. You can too with practice.
So every experience at every level represents divine messaging; communication between the eternal consciousness that is “human” and its Broader Perspective existing exclusively in nonphysical. The communication is intended to have the human consciousness align with its Broader Perspective and therefore achieve ever-increasing joyful expansion. That and the experience of desires fulfilling themselves.
All around us is vibration and subject to our focus. We are divine, vibrational, eternal beings enjoying a human experience that is physical and also a reflection of our inner state of being.
Since most humans can’t perceive vibration most of the time, or even thoughts or beliefs, and sometimes not even emotions, physical reality is a great way through which to communicate. And the physical body is part of “physical reality”. When vibrational disharmony becomes chronic, the body will communicate symptoms of that disharmony. Physical surroundings will kick in next, creating events attempting to alert the human of what’s going on.
There’s nothing to heal
If the human is oblivious, as many are, those alerts get stronger. An itch may turn into a sprain, then to a broken bone or cancer, for example. A negative, disempowering thought, may turn into anxiety in the body. Then that person may receive a stab wound from a violent attacker.
So nothing is happening that needs to “heal”. A communication is underway. And once the eternal consciousness responds to the communication, communication is no longer needed. So the message will go away. “Healing” presumes something has gone wrong. But nothing ever goes wrong, so there’s nothing to heal.
Now, a LOT of momentum of belief exists on the subject of “healing”, “wellness”, science and medicine. And nearly everybody agrees prior to coming into physical reality that these beliefs are “true”. This is why, in many cases, most people can’t do what I’m suggesting: they can’t receive the communication at the level of vibration and thereby eliminate the need for more coarse, intense messages. But some can, which explains instances where people “heal” themselves or others.
So let’s get back to what happened with this client’s allergies. Then I’ll bring in Jesus.
PRAISE Jesus! LOL
An uncovering
The client came to the session obviously bouting with allergies. Her voice was thick, much thicker than normal and she was sniffling. More subtly, I felt her allergy emanating from her in the form of vibration. I asked how she was doing. She said not so good because of this and while talking about it asked what the source of allergies are.
The client asking about the origin of allergies.
My response caused her shoulders to slump because she wants to become resistance-free, which isn’t possible. The source of any manifestation, including illnesses, including even allergies, is one thing: resistance. The client is resisting something active in her Belief Constellation in the moment she’s having the allergic reaction.
When I come to sessions, I am in a very, very high vibration. CIients have mentioned how good it feels coming to sessions because of that. It feels good because, a lot of times, clients (and people in general) aren’t deliberately choosing their vibration. Instead, they’re letting life circumstances do that. That’s what was happening with this client. As I’ll explain next.
She had an experience years ago while working a job she disliked. She also didn’t like her life generally back then. These two conditions are the basis for the manifestation “allergy”. Something needed clearing. But the client didn’t understand this. Nor did she make the connection that she only had allergies in the location where this job was. Anywhere else in the world she didn’t have allergies.
The client describing the original series of events.
Then it happens
After pinpointing the experience that kicked off her allergies, we talked about it as a way of soothing that past experience. Then we changed the subject. By the time we were done talking about that subject, the client had no allergy symptoms.
“Have you noticed that your constitution has improved?” I asked.
“Yes.” she calmly said. Then she went on a charming rant. She talked about playing our past sessions in the background and feeling “some, maybe high vibrational stuff you are infusing into the experience”. Then she mused about bottling me as a kind of elixir, so that she could have me anytime she needed me.
The client realizing how she collapsed into my vibration.
She doesn’t know yet that while, yes, she collapsed into my high vibration and therefore her resistance, which was causing the manifestation called “allergy” couldn’t hold, it was SHE WHO CAUSED THE ALLERGY TO DISAPPEAR. How? Being willing to let go of her resistance.
So yes, I “cured” my client’s allergy. But only as a cooperative component to my client’s willingness to stand in a higher vibrational place by becoming a client in the first place and being open to higher vibration. And this is exactly how Jesus “healed” the “sick”.
Healing, as everything else, is a process of vibrational alignment and mastery of that alignment.
We’re all spiritual masters
Jesus wasn’t some miracle worker and neither am I. Moreover, Jesus was no one special. Sure, he is an ascended master, as he’s referred to in spiritual circles outside Christianity. But his mastery is our heritage. In other words, what he does/did we can do too.
Jesus is a high-vibrational master. When meeting people, he held the highest possible vibrational frequency about people he met. And he refused to acknowledge any other frequency, including frequencies giving rise to resistance, which then gives rise to dis-ease. Since he steadfastly held that focus, others had no choice but to collapse into his vibration. “Others” included the consciousness in the cells of the other person’s body. The cells reached for alignment, but the person’s focus blocked the reaching. So the cells manifested blockage.
But when the person collapsed, so did everything else in their body system. That is exactly what happened with this client. It’s nothing special. When it happened with this client, I wasn’t surprised or even delighted. I simply knew. Just like Jesus.
Again, I’m nothing special compared to other humans. I’ve just dedicated an extraordinary amount of my life to spiritual mastery. And so, these kinds of things are happening. More of these kinds of things are coming too.
We are the same in many ways you and I. We all possess spiritual mastery. A life reflecting that mastery is available to everyone. Perhaps you’re ready to reach for your version. Consider becoming a client today. I’ve included a more affordable way to enjoy the process of becoming Positively Focused and a spiritual master. Check it out.
About this time last year, a Positively Focused client manifested a brilliant creation. Being an aspiring musician, the creation stunned the client. Up to then, they performed mostly at open mics and farmers markets.
So when they manifested a private performance gig back then, they were, rightfully, over the moon. It was a delightful and surprising experience. Little did they know, they set up a future for themselves that would further convince them how effortless life can get.
This year I encouraged the client to contact those people they performed for a year ago. Who knows, I suggested. They may want you back.
When I made the suggestion, the client said they wanted to. They said they didn’t have the people’s number though. I took that as a sign of their resistance. Resistance in the form of thinking these people wouldn’t want them for a repeat performance. The client said they feared the people would think they were weird or creepy for reaching out.
We talked about that and other resistant beliefs they held about reaching out to the couple. Finding relief, the client said they would reach out to those people via a letter after work this past week. The client had the couple’s address.
I could feel the client’s relief in setting that intention. Then, this week, the client left a voice text on my phone. They said they got a text while at work from a number they didn’t recognize.
It was the couple, the client explained. The wife’s brother’s birthday is in June and “we’d love to have you come back and play for us again” the text read.
“I released resistance and [the couple] came [to me] immediately!” The client exclaimed. I could hear the clarity, confidence and wonder in their voice. Still, I would have said it slightly differently.
The client soothed their resistant beliefs, which were blocking the fulfillment of their desire. That allowed the Universe to deliver what the client wanted…effortlessly. The couples’ Broader Perspective reminded them about the client’s stellar performance last year. That inspired the couple into becoming cooperative components in the unfolding of my client’s desire.
A lot more words, but those details are important. When we release resistance holding at bay what we want, what we want happens. The Universe knows what we want. It constantly gives us impulses leading to where the unfolding is happening. But if we’re full of resistant thoughts, those impulses can’t get through.
This client proved how effortlessly having what we want can get.
Nearly all my clients this week created astounding manifestations. I did as well. One manifested a FREE 1-Carat diamond, for example. In my own case, I manifested a marvelous precognition demonstration. The client this story is about also manifested truly astounding out of body experiences while in meditation this week. And another client transmuted being violently attacked into a blessing. That last one I’m publishing a post about later.
All these show how spectacular Living Charmed can feel. The great thing about it is there’s no upper limit preventing how much greater life can get.
So while effortless gigs, jewels and superpowers like precognition are part of the path, so is literally anything else we can conceive.
That’s how great life is lived Positively Focused.
Sometimes the Universe delivers more than a package. It delivers a moment — a perfect, divinely orchestrated moment that reminds us we are seen, supported, and celebrated in our unfolding.
Last week, FedEx delivered my new sit-stand desk. A recent house-sitting gig for a friend inspired the purchase. My friend’s wife owns one. I worked at her desk, loved the experience, and, following an inner nudge, ordered my own.
FedEx scheduled delivery between 9:05 and 11:05 a.m. — standard procedure. But what happened next was anything but ordinary.
As I sat in meditation that morning, I practiced everything I explore in my vibrational expansion — anchoring 5D, 6D, and even 7D consciousness. Staying in wonder. Letting contrast be soft. Letting inspiration be my compass.
And then, right as I was about to make a challenging phone call, I got another nudge: “Go downstairs. Your desk is arriving.”
Now, my Broader Perspective doesn’t speak English. It’s vibration. It therefore communicates through vibration. When I receive that vibration, at first I don’t hear English either. But because English is my native language, my brain translates the vibration into English.
In synch with my Broader Perspective
And that’s how we all interpret all reality. It looks like and feels like we’re seeing and experiencing reality as a separate, concrete thing. It looks objective, distinct from us. But what’s really happening is, we’re translating vibration through our brain and sense organs in a way that gives rise to an appearance of a separate, objective reality.
And this is how abilities such as precognition happen. The reality we perceive is us. It’s a projection of our inner reality. With everything in that reality happening simultaneously, we can, if we allow ourselves, perceive things that haven’t happened yet in linear time terms.
So I got that nudge. No delivery notification via my devices. No sound of a truck. Just a knowing. A knowing I followed immediately.
I stepped outside….but the street was empty. No FedEx truck. Within seconds, however, a FedEx truck rumbled around the corner. The driver saw me, gave me a big thumbs up and pulled right up. He didn’t even check the label — he knew it was for me. As I signed for it, I told him what had just happened. Even he was surprised.
But not as surprised as I was.
The surprise wasn’t that the desk arrived, but how it arrived — perfectly timed with the moment of inspired impulse. That’s not coincidence. That’s convergence.
I share hypothetical examples of this kind of thing with clients. I tell them part of the Positively Focused practice includes learning how to hear Broader Perspective communication. Then, learning how to immediately follow it. Broader Perspective communicates when it does because it sees the big picture. It sees everything, all at once, moving around. So it knows when things are converging.
It also knows what we want. And it’s always focused on guiding us to where what we want unfolds. It, therefore, constantly communicates to us so we can become a cooperative component to that convergence.
That’s why when Broader Perspective nudges us, we must act immediately. If we delay, all the other converging elements will have converged already and moved on. Then we’ll miss the unfolding, the convergence. Not to worry though. We are eternal. Things are constantly converging, over and over. So we never truly miss anything. Unless we ignore Broader Perspective guidance, or can’t hear it at all.
I brought the package upstairs, then shared my story with Sohl. Sohl and I mused about the unfolding, then chose to name the desk in honor of what happened. We call it “The Waystation”.
The Waystation assembled.
We call it The Waystation — because it’s not just a desk. It’s an anchor point in my expanding journey. A place where energy gathers and flows. It’s a threshold between dimensions, dreams, and creations; waypoint on the eternal path of my becoming.
And like all waystations, it is temporary. But the blessing it holds is eternal.
The inner knowing that is precognition
Later that night I put The Waystation together. I’m using it right now and I love it. I especially love how my body feels when I stand at it. The Waystation represents an upgrade on what I had before. We could say it represents an expansion on what came before.
So much joy awaits us in life. That joy constantly flows. And when we choose a positive perspective, we start seeing that joy unfolding. But what’s also cool along the way to experiencing that joy: coming into powers some don’t believe are real. Like shapeshifting, traveling to alternate dimensions, moving through nonphysical meaningfully in fabulous dreams, and….now….like precognition.
That’s what happened. I knew, through my Broader Perspective the truck was near. Then acted through inspiration thereby becoming the final cooperative component of the convergence of elements. In doing so, I delivered not only a wonderful piece of furniture, but a new gift in my unfolding. The ability to perceive beyond linear time.
Let this story remind you, as it reminds me: The Universe always knows where we are. Our desires are always in route. And the signal is always strong — if we’re willing to tune to it, and follow where it leads.
TL;DR: Two clients reveal how beliefs shape reality. Their contrasting experiences show that alignment, not effort, creates desired outcomes—and that even contrast serves expansion on the path to joy.
Two clients this week proved how powerful beliefs are. Both clients are trans-attracted. Both are advanced Positively Focused clients.
The delicate dance between the two clients illustrates how beliefs create reality. But they also show how deeply connected all of us are to each other. Further, what happened this week proves how each of us acts as both contrast AND as angels for one another, with both contrast and our angel-hood benefitting everyone involved.
I’ll clear up what I mean in a moment. When I’m done you’ll see the perfect co-creation of what happened between me, the two clients and their experiences.
To really understand what happened, though, I must introduce a subject that may be new to readers: trans attraction.
What is trans attraction?
Trans attraction is a classification of people who are attracted to transgender people. Typically, this attraction is exclusive. Much like homosexuals and lesbians, trans-attracted people tend to not find cisgender women or men attractive as potential relationship partners. They can appreciate beauty expressed in cisgender people, but their trans-attraction makes it challenging for trans-attracted people to enjoy relationships with such people.
That’s because they’re not here to do that. They’re here to enjoy leading-edge human experiences: expressing something other than heterosexuality. What’s more, such people, particularly trans-attracted men, are here to represent the completion or the fulfillment of what trans women desire: love and relationship.
The trouble with trans-attraction for most such men, however, is that it’s so not the norm. Almost always, trans-attracted men conclude their trans attraction means they’re gay. This is not the case.
But society’s dominant momentum on sexuality and gender, generally, and anything not conforming to the gender binary specifically, causes these men great discomfort. And the more value they place on others’ opinions over their own, the more such men struggle with an identity that is valid, wholesome and right, but against mainstream society’s grain.
So trans-attracted men are those who are strongly pulled to be in relationship with transgender women. The two clients in this story fit that classification perfectly.
There’s always more to expand into
Both men also struggled mightily with their beliefs about their self worth as trans-attracted men. One, who I’ll call Chris, struggled partly because, as a former Christian, his belief system told him, in no uncertain terms, that he was going to hell. The other, who I’ll call Seth, happens to be Jewish. He’s not concerned about hell.
But what caused Seth’s massive struggle were beliefs he held conflating a sexual exploration he had with his younger brother when he was nine, his discovery that he was trans attracted not much later, and his culture, which really, really puts a lot of weight on what others think.
Both men came to me wanting relief from these struggles. Both men have been clients about the same time. And, both men have made great progress in finding freedom to be who they authentically are.
As a result, both are living out loud their trans attraction. That’s a good thing. As with all expansion, however, there’s always more to expand into. And this is why I’m writing this. Because both men’s expansion came together in such an instructive and delightful way.
The set-up
Both Chris and Seth once believed it impossible to meet trans women who weren’t escorts or gold-diggers. They also believed it impossible to meet trans women who would be happy using their…uh…male appendages.
Ok, important note: many trans women are NOT happy doing that. But every desire we have is to be fulfilled. So if a man wants a trans woman who will be happy doing that, the Universe will fulfill that. That explains why there actually are trans women more than willing to use their male parts. And they’re not all escorts or gold-diggers either. Which brings me to what happened to set this experience up.
Seth has soothed his negative beliefs so much that, recently, he moved out of the Northeast and down to Austin. That’s a far more liberal location compared to where he came from. Austin enjoys a robust LGBTQ community. That’s despite being in Texas.
Still, it surprised Seth how easily he met trans women. And not just trans women, really pretty trans women! Old beliefs kept him doing things not necessarily in his best interest, however. Things like going to strip clubs and hiring escorts. But each time that happened, the outcome showed him why leaning in the direction of his trans attraction was better.
Reflecting beliefs to be soothed
Enough disappointment came from those encounters so that Seth gave up following through on such impulses. In doing so, he eventually started meeting higher quality trans women while just being himself, feeling good and putting himself out in the world.
That’s how I suggest everyone “find love”. But that’s another story.
Chris, for what it’s worth, isn’t at that point in his expansion. He still thinks trans women are hard to find. Particularly good looking ones. And, he doesn’t believe he’ll meet one by just “putting himself out there”. Because of those beliefs, he does what many people do who struggle finding a partner: he dates online.
Meanwhile, the really pretty girl Seth recently met is the kind of girl Chris thinks is rare. She’s trans, of course, and majoring in Math in college. Long story short, Seth and this girl ended up “sword fighting”, then in an open relationship: she has a boyfriend. But that boyfriend relationship rests on shaky ground. So she’s exploring her options. Seth is a great option!
Stepping stones
Meanwhile, Chris recently found several trans women online, some of which were more than willing to meet his specific desires. But in short order, these girls showed Chris exactly why I don’t recommend online dating. Oh, they were perfect matches. But not the people Chris could settle with.
Indeed, these women brought behaviors and characteristics reflecting beliefs Chris needs to clean up in himself so that he can attract better matches.
This explains why I call relationships stepping stones. A big plus of relationships is they reflect back to us our beliefs so we can do something about them and thereby find a more permanent happiness. Chris knew that. And he has cleaned up many beliefs. But some still persist. Like the one keeping him dating online.
Ok, back to Seth.
Deep shit
Seth’s relationship is doing the same thing Chris’ is. The same process holds for every relationship, and, every situation…all of reality actually. Life experience is a reflection. It reflects back to us what our dominant vibration is. The difference between Seth and Chris vibration is, Seth is meeting women more naturally. That’s because he believes that’s possible. So his experience is more delightful than Chris’. Chris is still trying to “make it happen” through a particular kind of doing: dating online.
That’s no fun.
Chris is still learning to let go. He still experiences impatience in his process, which explains why he’s working so hard at dating. It also explains why Chris ended up in what most people would call “deep shit.”
What happened was he shared full-body nudes with a trans woman online. His Broader Perspective warned him this particular person was not who Chris thought she was. Chris acknowledged this after the fact, after the “woman” turned out to be a scammer. A scammer who used that photo to try to blackmail Chris.
Long story story short, Chris ended up paying a security firm $5,000 to track and apprehend the scammer, who, wouldn’t you know it, lived in Nigeria.
The “gorgeous” trans woman
The good news is Chris didn’t amplify his troubles by focusing on them and lamenting or feeling regret. Rather, he did exactly what the Positively Focused practice recommends: he found humor in the whole experience. He also acknowledged, as I said, warnings his Broader Perspective used to catch his attention. After this experience, I strongly encouraged him to stop dating online, but, because of his beliefs, he said he probably wouldn’t stop for a while.
I could tell though that I made an impression. The impression I made had him ready for the next step in this story. For that, we have to go back to Seth.
Exactly one day after my session with Chris, Seth texted me. The moment I read it, I knew a three-way manifestation was happening. A manifestation that included me, Chris and Seth. The night before, the text said, Seth met a “gorgeous” trans woman, got her number and planned to meet her later in the week.
Here’s how he described it:
And when I asked how that happened, I knew it would be a perfect story, an example for Chris showing how his life could go. Here’s what Seth texted:
The Charmed Life
After I shared this conversation with Chris, Chris said he appreciated it. I could tell though that he’s still somewhat stuck in his own belief momentum. He just can’t believe strongly enough that a situation like Seth’s can happen to him. How do I know? He’s still dating online.
Most Positively Focused clients, even in the advanced practice, wobble a bit in their conviction. I do too sometimes. It’s par for the course. After all, we’re human. Our physical reality often feels so “true”. So true it can be very, very hard to believe in a reality that, to our human eyes, doesn’t exist. Especially when our existing physical reality is so present, so now and contains something we don’t want.
But that’s the prescription for getting everything we do want.
We must look where what we want is. That often requires looking into nonphysical, seeing the vibrational version of our desire then holding that focus long enough. Long enough for our physical reality to reflect that focus back to us in the form of physical reality.
That’s simple to say. It’s not easy though. That’s why the Positively Focused practice is a practice. And, since we’re all eternal, it’s a practice we can master, but only for that moment of mastery. For, again, we’re always expanding. Which means we’re always expanding into areas demanding ever-increasing levels of mastery.
The good news is, we can enjoy that never-ending practice. It’s in that enjoyment that we discover the Charmed Life.
Question: How do you deal with mental exhaustion when facing a deadline?
Answer: Mental exhaustion is common, particularly among people with a lot of resistance. And nearly every human lives with a lot of resistance, which explains why so many live overstressed and tired.
Sleep is not what many think it is. Sleep is another period of wakefulness. It’s a period of time we leave our bodies. Out of our bodies, we’re coordinating all manner of objectives associated with values at the core of our beings. This becomes obvious in advanced dream work, which comprises part of the Positively Focused practice.
While we’re out of our bodies, our bodies use this dormant period to process chemicals accumulated from interactions between us, the spiritual being we are, and points of consciousness making up our bodies. So sleep is not a period of rejuvenation and rest. Instead, it’s a sacred process of calibration and clearing. Calibration to our desires across dimensions we exist in and clearing of metabolic processes.
It’s vibrational resistance
So dealing with “mental exhaustion” isn’t really bout getting sleep. In fact, this question has many layers. One is the “time” layer; the feeling of mental exhaustion in any given moment.
But this question captures the other more important layer: “what is ‘mental exhaustion’?” Let’s take a look that now.
Mental exhaustion, while it feels mental, what it really is, is spiritual. Any state of exhaustion having no physical origin, such as running a long distance beyond our endurance capacity, comes about when we focus in a way that is resistant to what we want. Mental exhaustion, specifically, is what happens when a person is not focusing positively. In doing that, the person builds up a state of vibrational resistance.
Since people typically don’t know how to release that resistance, or since many don’t even know they’re in a resistant state, the body reflects that persistent vibrational state back to the person as exhaustion. And for most people, the only way to release that exhaustion is in sleep state.
We release resistance in sleep state because we return to nonphysical. Nonphysical, compared to physical reality, contains no resistance. So when we go there, we release all resistance, which is why, sometimes, after a good night’s sleep, we feel better.
An invitation into nonphysical
But many, many people sleep through the night, release resistance, then, the instant they wake, they resume vibrations – thoughts and beliefs – that instantly reintroduce resistance they went to bed with. That’s why some people wake up still feeling tired. They don’t allow the reset button of sleep to allow a fresh start when they wake.
It’s possible to go into the sleep state feeling enthusiastic and eager, instead of feeling exhausted. But we generally believe sleep is for easing exhaustion. So we often delay sleep well beyond when we’re called. For example, I often receive a signal to return to nonphysical. When I do, fatigue doesn’t show up. Instead, it feels like a “pull” or a heaviness in my psyche.
When I follow that invitation and lay down, I typically enjoy extremely joyful and otherwise satisfying dreams. Sometimes I answer the call or pull by laying down and meditating. In that state, I often experience multidimensional consciousness shifts I’ve written about before. In previous posts, I’ve called them “departures”; travels to alternate realities.
And so mental exhaustion is a manifestation. It’s a symptom of holding on to resistance. The way to deal with mental exhaustion, therefore, is to develop a sensitivity to resistance. Then keep resistance to a minimum. That’s a natural benefit of being positively focused.
Creating reality on the fly
With that state chronically developed we don’t experience mental exhaustion. We’re ready to go from one thing to the next thing feeling appreciation and eagerness. And when the pull calls us into nonphysical, and we answer, we experience conscious delight in nonphysical. Then we return to wake state deeply refreshed.
So the way to deal with mental exhaustion is to develop a positively focused attitude.
The problem with doing that is we can’t develop that state in an instant. It requires practice and that practice builds a momentum within us, which we then use to maintain that state.
Another approach available to those with strong positive predispositions is the art of creating reality on the fly. It’s a process where one expresses a series of positive thoughts, meaningfully expressed, until eagerness and empowerment replaces exhaustion or other resistance. In doing that the person aligns themselves with the time line in which exhaustion isn’t part of their reality. Again, this takes practice.
I did this just hours prior to editing this post. What followed is a great example of how powerful creating reality on the fly is.
A powerful creation
I had news I needed to share with a friend that would likely both disappoint and inconvenience them. But I know I can influence that potential outcome through my alignment to a time line in which they’re not disappointed or inconvenienced. So, I aligned myself with that reality where the conversation goes swimmingly. Here are the thoughts I meaningfully expressed:
I know my friend is capable of handling this call gracefully
I know this call is going to go well
I’m going to be fully self-expressed during this call
This call is going to go very well
I’m going to frame this news positively, because I want to be positively focused
My friend is going to find another solution to his needs easily
After expressing this, I felt really positive. That indicated an alignment with the time line I wanted.
Then, something really fun happened indicating that I was, in fact, in a very high vibration. I ordered an automatic sit-stand desk from Amazon days ago. The company and FedEx sent notifications yesterday saying the package would arrive today between 9 and 11 a.m. today. It was 10 a.m. when I did the process above. The minute I finished making those statements above, my Broader Perspective told me to go down to meet the FedEx driver who was delivering my desk.
Mind you, I got no device notification about the delivery.
Spiritual powers: everyone’s ability
But I know when I get spiritual notifications like this — nudges — taking the action immediately will result in a delightful surprise. I texted my friend that I’d call him in five minutes. Then, I went downstairs and out the apartment complex’s front door.
The FedEx truck was no where in sight.
Still, I knew my Broader Perspective doesn’t get it wrong. So I just stood there. In 20 seconds, I swear, the FedEx truck came around the corner. The driver saw me and gave me a thumbs up (how he knew I was the recipient is a spiritual mystery). He parked, came out the back of the truck with the package and gave it to me. I told him what you just read and he was as surprised as I was.
Once back in my apartment, I called my friend. The call went exactly as I expected and I ended it feeling fully self-expressed and delighted at both manifestations.
This shows not only how powerful this process is, but also how, when a person is chronically Positively Focused, such a person develops truly special spiritual capabilities. Capabilities including precognition. But if we’re mentally exhausted, such abilities aren’t available. Too much resistance exists in us.
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TL;DR: A client became a life coach effortlessly—not by training or chasing clients, but by aligning with the version of themselves who already is one. By soothing limiting beliefs and embracing their natural gifts, they began attracting ideal reflections. This story shows how manifestation unfolds through vibrational alignment and trust.
A client wants to be a life coach. It’s going to be an awesome practice. They are a natural at helping people find their empowerment and they’ve been doing that for a while. But only with friends. Not with clients. And not for hire. Becoming a “life coach” is something they’ve always wanted. And so that’s the main reason for them becoming a Positively Focused client. That and settling some old relationship momentum.
This client is a natural coach because they’re predisposed to this You Create Your Own Reality (YCYOR) business. Some might call them gifted. Others might call them Wiccan. Both would be accurate. Because of that, this client is not here to build a practice through “doing”, like others build companies. And because of that, their path has been long. They’ve held for a long time a lot of negative beliefs, thereby building a lot of momentum for themselves over decades.
Ironically, a lot of things about this client set them up perfectly for the path they’re on, including their old beliefs and belief momentum. In this post I want to focus on how this client is building their business and how that’s happening effortlessly.
The latest indicator of success
When I wrote “effortlessly”, I meant that. It’s taken a while for this client to settle in on this way of growing their practice, but settle in they have. Part of the reason why they’ve settled in comes from trust they have after seeing so many amazing things, other than their practice, manifest effortlessly.
But their most recent manifestation brought this client a “chef’s kiss” experience relative to that coaching practice.
While on vacation with their husband, the client luxuriated on balmy Caribbean beaches. Visiting that part of the world was part of a Law of Attraction Caribbean cruise they booked. Most of that time on vacation put the client in a high-vibration state of mind. The couple enjoys vacations, cruising and Law of Attraction. So the combination offered a lot of positivity.
It’s no wonder then, what happened happened the way it did. During one part of the cruise, the client started up a conversation with a stranger. As it goes during get-to-know-yous, the stranger asked the client “What do you do?”
“I’m a life coach,” they said.
“Really? I could use one of those.” the man replied. Then he shared personal details about his life. People usually share their personal stories with this client.
That’s because – duh – they’re a natural coach! After sharing his personal details, the man had a question:
“How long have you been a life coach?” The man asked.
“All my life,” the client said.
The client found resonance with the vibrational version of themselves; the vibrational version that already is a coach.
Becoming a match NOW
Now, that response my client gave was ground breaking. That’s because they had a belief about being a coach (among other beliefs) that prevented them from becoming one. That belief was, “unless you have paying clients, you’re not a coach.” Another belief holding the client back was: “To be a coach, I must learn something I don’t know.”
Those two beliefs, in the past, would have kept the client from saying what they said. They would have felt like an imposter or a fraud or, worse, a liar.
Not any more though. Together we worked through both of those beliefs, among others. Doing so allowed the client to express themselves AS A COACH, NOW, with no relation to the client’s present reality. Instead, the client found resonance with the vibrational version of themselves; the vibrational version that already is a coach. Doing that, they became a match to a person who would want what they offer. Which is exactly what this guy expressed.
This client has no “training” in being a coach. Nor do I, however. Yet I’m thriving in my practice. How? By allowing my natural leadership and my natural gifts to shine. This client is learning to do the same. As they do that, they become a match to manifestations like what happened on their vacation.
It doesn’t matter if this guy they met becomes a client or not. That wasn’t the point of meet up. The point was it acted as a bread crumb showing the client they’re on the path to becoming fully what they already are.
It works 100 percent of the time
And that’s how everything works in this YCYOR business. The client is becoming more and more of a match to what they want. Meanwhile, the world around them increasingly reflects that back to them, as they soothe beliefs making them not a match.
That process takes some time. That’s why such a thing as “divine timing” exists. It also explains why many who think Law of Attraction doesn’t work fail at making it work. Same with those who believe Law of Attraction works, but doesn’t work for things they really want. It fails to work, or seems to not work on things we really want, because we usually think things we want should come to us on our expected time line.
Usually, divine timing is never synched with our expectations. Divine timing nearly ALWAYS significantly lags behind our expectations as to when something should happen. That’s why it’s so important to cultivate appreciation I call “on the way to”. The lag built into manifestations exists so that we can use that time to true up or calibrate to the desire we hold.
Many, however, get impatient in that gap. When they do that, they widen the gap. The lag gets longer because their impatience makes them not a match.
One value I bring to clients is highlighting this important aspect of manifesting and many other aspects of a practice most people don’t understand.
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This week included so many definite client testimonies showing the effectiveness, the power of being Positively Focused. My experience too this week amplified how being positive truly creates the best life possible. Truly, it’s the Charmed Life. My clients lives reflect it, my life reflects it.
In this post, I’ll share one example, from one client. I’ll share more tomorrow and the weekend. This client I’ve written about before. He’s the one who defied Donald Trump, Elon Musk and the Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE). His return to work after DOGE fired so many of his colleagues, himself included was astonishing. And when he came back everyone welcomed him as essential to the agency’s mission.
But not only that, they loved him. They recognized him, his positive personality and his positive perspective as instrumental earlier this year when so many were scared and insecure.
As a result of who he was being during that time, someone in the agency nominated him to win the prestigious Transmission Employee of the Year Award. My client felt stoked and excited for the recognition. But, as I always tell my clients; with every moment of expansion comes along with it more contrast. Contrast giving birth to the next level of expansion.
We never stay in one spot, in other words. Not for long. We are in a constant state of expansion. And when we don’t keep up with that, we lose sight of how blessed we are moment by moment.
That’s exactly what happened with this client. He lost sight and needed a reminder. Thankfully, he has weekly sessions to help him.
Raving about work?
This week he came to his session feeling “content”. That’s not a terrible place, vibrationally. However, I encourage clients maintain energy states consistent with at least passion, enthusiasm and happiness. So when he shared his vibrational frequency, I dug in.
One of this client’s passions is racing motorcycles. Last weekend, he spent a wonderful two days in beautiful weather on his bike on the track. Friends and colleagues joined him. So it was a special time for him. Returning to work then felt like a let down comparatively. My guess is by Sunday evening, he already was feeling negative about going back to work. So by Wednesday, the day of his session, he wasn’t flying very high.
“All I do is look at a computer screen all day,” He said.
That was a phenomenally great place for the client to be. And that’s because it offered him such a tremendous opportunity. He wasn’t super negative, but it’s obvious that someone says this about his job they’re not feeling very passionate, enthusiastic or happy about their work.
What’s ironic is, in the last session, the client raved about his work as much as he raved about being at the track in this session! He loved the accolades he was getting. His colleagues constantly looked to him because of how well he did his work. Even his supervisors loved him, especially his humor. And, let’s not forget, this client makes bank at his job. That’s something he really enjoys about his work too. It literally funds his racing hobby.
Fantastic manifestations
After reminding him about all this, the client totally changed. He became a completely different person right before my eyes. I also felt the shift in his vibration. He moved out of contentment and into interest, which is right above optimism vibrationally. Then he talked about what happened this week at work, things he was completely oblivious to just moments ago.
One of those was the annual award nomination. Here’s how it read:
“Through adversity and change, this employee navigated the world transitioning from being a contractor to a full-time employee. All the while, expertly guiding and training a new team member. It takes a special type of person to not only accept their own obligations and priorities but those of others as well. This employee demonstrates the utmost professionalism in a lighthearted, easy to get along with manner. His knowledge of the organization and its personnel are invaluable, and he uses that knowledge to achieve organizational goals. His loyalty and faith in the organization has never waivered, even through very dark times. I owe my humble thanks and therefore recommend him as one of the organization’s most exemplary employees.”
Then, he remembered things from the last seven days that got him even more positive about the last week. In addition to racing, the client also is a musician. He busks at the local farmers market and aspires to having a musical career. This past week, two people approached him asking if he would teach them to play guitar. Another person, who belongs to a band, invited him to be the band’s front man and lead singer. And another person, a blues singer of some local repute, asked him if he’d enjoy writing songs together with her.
None of these things the client recalled. All of them were fantastic manifestations of his desires.
Positivity’s powerful filter
But after he did recall them, his demeanor changed even more. I think what struck him most was how, just moments before, none of what you just read was in his awareness. It’s not like they didn’t happen, however. They did. But the client had no access to them.
And this is the thing with life: everyone’s life is going great. But when we’re focused on things going not-great, that’s how we feel: not great. Feeling “not great” is a vibration. It’s an indicator of a vibrational frequency. And when we dwell in that frequency, everything that doesn’t match that frequency gets screened out.
This is why I advocate for being Positively Focused. Positively Focused is a vibrational frequency. When we maintain that frequency, then our life matches that. Because everything else gets screened out. Those other things still happen. They just don’t happen in the lives of those who are Positively Focused.
I’m overjoyed this client gave himself this powerful example of how important our vibration is. It literally shapes life experience. Maybe you’re ready to deliberately shape your own? If so, consider becoming a client today.
TL;DR: A spontaneous gift from a friend—a powerful AI-created anthem—became a thrilling manifestation. This story reveals how alignment with our Broader Perspectives invites joyful surprises beyond imagination.
A wonderful thing happened last month. Something that not only thrilled me, but was a gift from the Universe. It happened through a long-time friend, who delighted and surprised me with something that came totally unexpected.
And that’s how the best manifestations happen, aren’t they? They happen when we least expect them. So when they do happen, we’re thrilled. The thrill is especially strong when we’re already tuned to being a match to the unfolding. That’s how I knew I was ready when this manifestation happened. I already was thrilling from a series of especially powerful manifestations, one of which featured an outstanding mystical experience.
But let’s get back to the manifestation that came through my friend. If you read this whole post and click the link to hear the manifestation itself, I think you’ll be astonished. You’ll be astonished because everyone else who heard it felt the same way when they first heard it.
Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though. Let’s look at how this all happened.
“Next level bonkers”
A client and I interact with one another in between sessions. Several clients and I do that. They take advantage of one of the perks of working with me: almost constant availability. This client and I were working on a followup to an event I hosted about the future. That event sold out and she wanted her network an opportunity to hear it themselves.
So we were talking about details of her event over a text group chat. Included in that group was my friend Mark. He has some resources he offered, such as a venue and a potential other network to promote the event.
One day while I was busy with some other things, Mark texted a link to the group chat. It looked like a link to a song. Now Mark regularly shares stuff like this. He’s an avid audiophile and loves to share music he likes with others. So when I saw the text message, I figured it was something along those lines. Something I could listen to at my leisure.
But he wasn’t just sharing something he liked. He was sharing “next level bonkers”.
The prelude to a chef’s kiss
A legacy anthem
I figured that when I got the next text message, and then another, then another, something else was up. With that, I had to find out what they were raving about.
Mark was right: it was next level bonkers. Check it out: (That link will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.)
Click on the image. It will open a browser on your device where you can listen to the song.
In case you didn’t listen to it, Mark prompted an Artificial Intelligence (AI) to create a song about me and my Positively Focused practice. In less than 30 seconds, he said, it created this brilliant song. Not just “next level bonkers”, but a freaking legacy anthem just for me!
The minute I heard my name in the song, I got goosebumps. And do you know what’s also really good? Mark did this all his own. Meaning, he didn’t check in with me first. He just did it out of his own inspiration.
Mark has never been a client. He has followed my journey, however. He also has seen how people respond powerfully to working with me. Therefore, he knows what I offer helps people. Of course, he could have created a song about anything. And maybe he did. But the fact he included me in his creative exploration says a lot.
What it really communicates to me though is this: my Broader Perspective worked with his Broader Perspective to create something — a manifestation — my Broader Perspective knew would delight and surprise me. And delight and surprise me it did!
A freaking masterpiece?
Again[!], in case you didn’t listen to it (you really should), here are the lyrics. Once you read them, maybe, you’ll take the time to listen. It really is fantastic.
[Verse] Old Perry Gruber strollin’ down the road Got wisdom in his pocket like a heavy load He whispers truths like a preacher in the night Positively Focused Showing people light [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll [Verse 2] He speaks of transformation A personal gold mine Unraveling the answers you’ve been tryin’ to find The path to bliss ain’t built on a lie Take his hand and watch your spirit fly [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll [Bridge] It ain’t about hurryin’ or chasing down the win The secret lies in stillness Deep within Gruber’s got a map But you’ve got the key Unlock your heart and set yourself free [Chorus] Fire on the mountain burning bright as day Inner clarity’s the torch that lights the way Deep spiritual wisdom Feel it in your soul Step into joy now Let the good times roll..
A freaking masterpiece, isn’t it? I think so!
Write your own song!
I love how easy it is to allow a life where my moment-by-moment experience includes delights and surprises like this one. It’s especially cool, however, when they happen through my friends. When they happen through strangers, however, they’re really good, because those instances stand out. But when they happen through friends, I enjoy them too. This one is cool because it served many purposes.
I know Mark really enjoyed making it. Maigen enjoyed it too. Her text messages show that. I loved it too, of course. But most of all, I really enjoyed how we all reveled in it together. I also enjoy knowing how this happened with no effort on my part. And I revel in knowing more is in store as I continue to relax, trust and “allow” my Broader Perspective to lead me to where all that I want is unfolding.
You can have this experience — or, rather, your version of this experience — too. You can write your own life song with direct assistance of your Broader Perspective and revel in the results by becoming a client. Becoming a client is easy, and now, I’ve even made it more affordable. My new Cohort sessions feature an up to 60 percent discount over 1:1 session rates. Click here to learn more and start your journey to the Charmed Life me and my clients enjoy.
Who knows? You might have someone create something that thrills you to no end. Just like Mark, collaborating with the Universe did for me.
A joyful confirmation happened yesterday. It happened with a client between sessions. What happened completely confirmed everything clients and I talk about in the Positively Focused practice.
While writing one of these posts yesterday, I got the feeling this client needed encouragement. My Broader Perspective is connected to his Broader Perspective. So I can sometimes tell how he’s doing even if we’re not talking in the moment. It’s the same connection through which I caused a client to step out of “having allergies” as a reality, and into being “allergy free”. Here’s a link to the short story about that. A longer, more detailed explanation will go live in a few weeks.
Back to this client.
So my Broader Perspective, while I was writing the post yesterday, said “reach out to [him] give him a taste of what you’re wanting him to do.” This client is resisting a process that is part of the Positively Focused practice. He’s resisting it because his negative momentum is strong. So strong he can’t overcome it enough to do the process. Ironically, it’s through the process that he’ll overcome it. So the client finds himself in a stuck-paradox. One he’ll break through eventually.
The process involves expressing appreciation for things about his life. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet some clients struggle with it. A lot of times it’s because clients are so oriented to fixing problems and being nose-to-the-grindstone in life, they don’t know how to be appreciative. Or they think it’s dumb. Or, like this client, their dominant negative momentum prevents them from doing it for a time.
When my Broader Perspective told me what it did, I jumped to it. These days I know it’s in my best interest to respond whenever my Broader Perspective calls. So I dashed out a long list of statements as though he were writing it and texted it to him:
By the time I finished this text, I felt high-flying even before I sent it. Even before he responded. But when he did respond, it was a massive moment of confirmation for us both. It proved how accurate this practice is. And it showed how connected we all are. Here’s how he replied followed by my response right after his:
We are all connected. Our society convinces us of the opposite though. We become insecure about, then fearful about others, which then amplifies the separation. In just a little while though, in just a little time spent in a higher vibration, we can uncover the connection that exists, not only between ourselves and All That Is, but with other humans and animals as well.
We come back into our fullness. There we find the mystical, seemingly magical power of co-creation combined with our sovereign clarity. And in that clarity we can offer others reflections that touch them at the deepest parts of what they are. Which is what happened between me and this client yesterday.
