What Happens When You Master Power Over Death

TL;DR: The author shares a Master-level client’s journey toward commanding her own transition, revealing how worthiness and vibrational mastery lead to sovereignty over death itself.

What happens when a human being gets so vibrationally aligned, so consistently tapped in, that death itself becomes a conscious, deliberate choice? That’s what one of my clients—now a recognized Master in the Positively Focused practice—is exploring.

Her name is Maigen. And what you’re about to read is not science fiction or fantasy. It’s the in-real-time unfolding of someone uncovering the deepest truths of reality and standing at the threshold of what most people think is impossible. I call this the Mastery Path. And Maigen is walking it with grace, insight, and awe-inspiring clarity.

From Worthiness to Mastery

When someone first starts the Positively Focused practice, they often begin with a hunch. It’s a hunch that life could feel better, more fluid, more abundant. It’s a belief that has them saying to themselves “Is this all there is? There has to be more to life than this.”

And through this work, they discover there is.

Early results accumulate quickly, confirming that what I teach is more than philosophy—it’s applied knowing. Over time, those results shift people from hoping it works, to believing it works, and eventually to trusting it because life keeps proving it again and again. At a certain point, trust becomes knowing. And that’s when a person begins to uncover their inherent worthiness.

Uncovering, not earning.

And when someone fully owns their worthiness, their relationship to reality fundamentally changes. That’s what it means to reach Mastery in this practice. At the mastery level, clients naturally begin reaching for things humanity calls impossible—because their newly-reestablished vibrational orientation makes them available. That’s where Maigen is. And what she’s chosen to explore is extraordinary.

The Impossible Project: Manifesting Death on Her Terms

While I’m exploring my ability to shapeshift—yes, really—Maigen has set her sights on something just as provocative: consciously choosing the conditions of her death.

Now to be clear, we don’t even call it “death” in this practice. We call it transition—because you never die. You simply shift your attention from the frequency of physical reality to the frequency of nonphysical, which is your true home. It’s like changing the radio station. Nothing ends. You just refocus.

But what Maigen is doing isn’t about escaping life. What Maigen is doing is about fully mastering life—to such a degree that transition becomes a sovereign, joyful choice. She’s practicing readiness for the transition. She’s not trying to die. And in that, the readiness she’s preparing will allow her to choose when, how, and in what emotional state her transition will occur.

The thoughts she’s attracting as a result of all this are breathtaking.

Megan recently recorded a stream of consciousness that I believe is one of the clearest demonstrations of spiritual mastery I’ve ever heard. You can listen to it right now in this excerpt from the Worthiness Wednesday Episode about this feat from the Positively Focused YouTube Channel:

In it, she speaks candidly about her evolving belief. She acknowledges that while she doesn’t yet feel she can command her own transition, she believes it’s possible—and more than that, she believes her future self will know exactly how.

This is the architecture of mastery. She acknowledges her current limitation without shame. Meanwhile, she trusts in her future expansion without needing a timeline. Along the way, she knows soothing her doubt is the work. And she commits to practicing that soothing every day.

To hear her speak is to hear someone vibrating at the level of Jedi Masters and Bene Gesserit witches—archetypes that fiction has created, but Maigen is living into.

The Mirror of Artificial Intelligence

It gets even better. Maigen fed her voice memo into a generative AI that creates podcast episodes from user input. What came back is an extraordinary dialogue between two AI personas unpacking everything she said, with stunning clarity and reverence. Check it out:

The AI lays out what Megan has essentially created: a four-part final exam of mastery

  1. Time of death
  2. Place of death
  3. Manner of death
  4. Experience of death

And it pinpoints the key insight: the fourth—experience—is vibrational. It means achieving full control of your internal state so that your transition is peaceful, deliberate, and joyful.

The AI then dives into her belief system. It explores her concept of levels as safeguards. the “show” discusses her view of the future self as the holder of knowable information, and her use of affirmation as a practice of readiness. In short, the AI recognized her mastery because her mastery was so clearly encoded in her vibration.

The “show” was also a perfect reflection of Maigen’s unfolding accomplishment. And of course it is, for AI is a mirror.

What Readiness Really Means

In the “show”, the AI hosts pose a profound question to listeners:

“If the power to control life’s final transition all depends on being ready… how would you ever know for sure that you are?”

Here’s the answer, from my perspective: You know you’re ready when worthiness becomes chronic. When worthiness becomes the default state of your being, you naturally begin experiencing the nonphysical while still alive—lucid dreams, out-of-body experiences, alternate dimensions, timelessness, profound joy. This is evidence of worthiness emerging. They’re echoes of the Broader Perspective you’re now harmonized with.

And from that resonance, you don’t just believe you’re eternal. You know it. And from that knowing, transition is no longer feared, delayed, or resisted. It’s just another choice.

I am so proud of Maigen. Her journey is proof that mastery is not only possible—it’s beautiful. She’s walking the razor’s edge of what humans think they can’t do. And the clarity she’s receiving from that walk is lighting the way for others.

If this resonates with you—if you can feel that this is your path too—I invite you to step into the practice. Reach out. Begin uncovering your worthiness. You never know where it will take you. Or what kind of “impossible” will become your next joyful project.

Magic of Life: What Happens When Truth Appears

TL;DR: The author shares a client’s shift from skepticism to embodied knowing, showing how lived synchronicity replaces coincidence and confirms the Charmed Life as a natural result of alignment, trust, and deliberate co-creation.

There comes a point on the spiritual path where the word coincidence leaves our lexicon. We replace that word and the distortion it carries with certainty that everything happens on purpose. It’s a purpose that’s precise, one that follows our focus.

When life begins responding with precision, timing, and vibrational resonance, coincidence feels like an underpowered explanation. Something else is clearly at work. Those who arrive at this clarity recognize what’s actually happening. What’s actually happening is co-creation.

I see this happening again and again in my client work. They move into alignment, relax their struggle, and start trusting. Gradually, life responds with surprising elegance. Opportunities appear, encounters unfold with perfect timing. Situations resolve themselves without effort. What once felt random occurs as a certainty.

This is what I call the Charmed Life. In it everything is for us on purpose. Everything. Even things we might think we don’t want.

For over a decade, I’ve lived this way and spoken openly about it with clients. I share the joy, the peace, the meditative states, the multidimensional awareness, and the knowing I enjoy. My intention has never been to impress anyone. I share because I know what’s possible, and I want others to glimpse what awaits them as they create their own versions of what I enjoy.

Still, words can only go so far. Even the most beautifully described truth remains theoretical until life steps in and proves it. That’s where this story begins.

From Wanting to Believe to Knowing

The client whose experience I want to share had been working with me for quite some time. He wasn’t new to the framework. In fact, he was well into the advanced practice. And yet, he still doubted.

Each session in which I arrived joyful, energized, and grounded, in a deep sense of wellbeing, triggered that doubt. When I spoke openly about the richness of my life, talked about meditation experiences, dream states, and the feeling of merging with probable future versions of myself that felt expansive and free, this client balked quietly.

From his perspective, some of this sounded unbelievable. He wanted to believe me. He truly did. But belief without evidence can only stretch so far before practiced skepticism returns. Over time, he admitted—lovingly and with humor—that part of him wondered whether I was exaggerating, or worse, completely full of sh*t.

This client struggled with believing my experiences.

His skepticism made him human. We are conditioned to trust effort, struggle, and grit far more than ease. When someone claims their life feels orchestrated rather than fought for, suspicion feels reasonable. What changed everything for this client was his personal experience.

Abraham says, “Words don’t teach,” and they’re right. Language can point, but life is what convinces. Over time, this client’s life experience confirmed my own. Both subtle synchronicities and great big unfoldings birthed within him a growing sense that things were unfolding without his usual resistance. Each experience added another piece to what I call the basket of evidence. Eventually, that basket became heavy enough to trust.

When Life Confirms the Teaching

In a recent session, something shifted unmistakably. A small, ordinary event — a spill of cherries on the ground — led to a meaningful human connection with a familiar face. That interaction, simple as it sounds, carried the unmistakable signature of alignment for this client. It wasn’t the event itself that mattered, but what it represented: the client’s life responding. Many, many more such experiences filled his basket until he had no choice but to admit it: he had created for himself his Charmed Life.

At this point in the story, I invite you to listen directly to him. The clip below is from our session, starting where he begins describing what’s been unfolding in his life.

As you listen, notice his tone. Gratitude spills out of him as well as wonder. He speaks about peace, emotional fullness, and a sense that life no longer feels like something to survive or manage. On an energetic level, he describes a shift so profound that it reframed everything he thought was possible. Most strikingly, he admits that he finally gets it.

That moment is one of arrival, though not an ending. He hasn’t reached a final destination, because there is no such thing. We are eternal beings in constant expansion. Arrival, in this sense, simply means entering a new relationship with reality. It’s the moment where trust replaces effort and allowing replaces control. From here, manifestations don’t slow down. They accelerate, because resistance has dropped.

The Charmed Life Is Remembered, Not Earned

What changed for this client wasn’t the Universe. The Universe didn’t suddenly decide to favor him. What shifted was his willingness to trust the unfolding and lean into what felt good without needing proof first. Ironically, the proof followed immediately. As it always does.

This isn’t anything special. It’s just forgotten. Most people are focused on what they don’t want, often without realizing it. As a result, they create unintentionally. There’s nothing wrong with that. Every consciousness enters physical reality with different momentum, different desires, and different values to fulfill. Comparing one person’s experience with another just muddies the waters. What matters is remembering that life is meant to be joyful, expansive, and supportive.

When focus gently turns toward what feels better, reality responds. That response grows stronger with trust. Eventually, knowing replaces even trust. Life takes on a magical quality.

I love witnessing this shift in clients. I love knowing that even imperfect practice produces extraordinary results. This client didn’t meditate endlessly or follow every guideline with precision. He simply leaned in enough to allow life to show him the truth. The return on that small investment was enormous.

My confidence in this process comes from my own lived experience. I know the Charmed Life is real because I live it daily. Everything unfolds for me with ease, as it can for all of us. The path doesn’t require struggle, and it doesn’t need to take long. Along the way, it’s joyful, affirming, and deeply empowering.

If you want your version of this, reach out. I have space on my calendar.

How Samira Found a Powerful New Way to Love

TL;DR: The author recounts how “Samira’s” ordinary grocery trip became evidence of shifting beliefs about love and marriage, revealing her emerging worthiness and the Universe’s gentle guidance toward the partnership she desires.

For many transgender people, the path to partnership can feel like walking through a hall of distorted mirrors. Every reflection seems to exaggerate a flaw, and every imagined future is filtered through the harsh experiences lived over a lifetime. For “Samira”, a Palestinian transgender woman completing her psychiatric residency in New York, those mirrors have been especially unforgiving.

Cultural tensions, the complexities of transition, and the daily navigation of autism in a world that often misunderstands it, have shaped Samira’s unconsciously chosen narratives. She learned early to treat the opinions of others as more valid than her own. The world told her she was too different, intimidating, complicated and strange, not normal. And she believed all of it.

Despite this, Samira has always carried a longing for marriage. Something deep within her knows she is meant to be seen, cherished, and chosen. Yet this desire has long competed with powerful internal stories convincing her she is unworthy of such love. She fears men will not accept her gender history, that her Palestinian identity will be a barrier, that autism will complicate her ability to connect, and that the world is too hostile for someone like her to find true partnership.

Samira took on such beliefs after years of listening to voices that insisted she was inherently unlovable, as well as her own voice, which made up similar disempowering stories. Her own stories came from experiences Samira misinterpreted as punishment, or retribution, instead of evidence of her unfolding path.

A “chance” encounter gets things started

When Samira first began her Positively Focused practice, she approached it cautiously. The idea that life could respond to her differently than her fears suggested felt distant and almost foreign. Over time, however, she has begun to feel the quiet pull of her Broader Perspective. She has started to notice subtle shifts in how she interprets her world, sensing that something softer, something more supportive is trying to make its way into her awareness. Recently, that support revealed itself in a place she least expected—a grocery-store parking lot.

During our recent session, Samira mentioned her Sunday grocery run introducing it as “something [you, Perry are] going to like. She was right.

She described how she had enjoyed a peaceful drive that morning, taking in the beauty of the landscape and feeling unusually at ease. That ease matters. It placed her in a receptive, aligned state without her even realizing it. Before she knew it, Samira found herself lost. She knew the store was near, but she didn’t know where. At the corner stood a man. He smoked a cigarette. Samira asked him where the grocery was. He said it was right around the corner. She thanked him and drove into the grocery store parking lot.

The moment took a surprising turn when she parked her car. As she got out of her car, the same man appeared. Samira initially brushed off this second interaction as coincidence. She also felt the man’s reappearance “creepy”.

“I just wanted to ask,” the man said. “Are you single?”

Samira also felt the man’s reappearance “creepy”. What it really was, was so much more.

The Ordinary Moment That Carried Extraordinary Meaning

Her retelling carried a mixture of amusement, cringe, and mild disbelief. Sabrina dismissed the creepy encounter as a quirk of American boldness. Not anything extraordinary. She didn’t notice the vibrational significance this encounter presented. Little did she realize, Samira shared an experience totally contradicting her entire belief system around romantic possibility. She told the story as if it were trivial, not recognizing that life had placed a small but potent piece of evidence directly in her path.

When I invited her to slow down and examine the moment more closely, she began to notice details she had overlooked. She realized she had not been performing or masking any part of herself, something she complained about doing. Her autism was unfiltered. Her femininity was natural. Samira felt relaxed and open. She moved through the encounter as Samira, not trying to be something for another. And yet someone found her interesting enough to approach her — twice — and take a gentle emotional risk.

The encounter wasn’t coincidence. Nor was it an example of men being indiscriminately forward (even in New York). It was subtle evidence of alignment — an early manifestation emerging from a softened vibrational field born of her better-feeling stories. Samira’s Broader Perspective orchestrated this situation as confirmation of that. What she effortlessly manifested: A man seeing her in a way she rarely sees herself: as desirable, approachable, and worth getting to know. The encounter bypassed her practiced fears and resonated with the deeper truth she is beginning to allow.

That’s what I pointed out to Samira.

The Universe Speaks Softly Before It Speaks Loudly

As Samira reflected on the interaction, she recognized how effortlessly it unfolded. She wasn’t trying to make a good impression. Nor was she hiding her identity or compensating for imagined shortcomings. She wasn’t bracing for rejection or anticipating danger. The moment flowed naturally from the joy she already experienced on her drive. That joy softened her resistance. It made room for life to deliver something new—something that spoke directly to her heart’s desire.

Manifestations often begin this way. Before the larger dream arrives, the Universe offers small, unmistakable indicators that the old story is losing momentum. These early signs are invitations to embrace a new story.

Samira didn’t meet her future partner in that parking lot, but she met the leading edge of her new reality. She met a reflection showing her she has always been worthy of love, even when her beliefs said otherwise.

Delivering alignment in perfect timing

The real power of the moment, however, lies in how this encounter shifted her internal landscape. She no longer has only conceptual arguments about her worthiness. She now has lived experience, evidence, a moment that cannot be dismissed or rationalized away without effort.

Samira met a man who responded to her energy, her presence, and her femininity without hesitation. She saw that she doesn’t need to alter herself to receive interest. She only needs to continue allowing her alignment to guide her.

And as she integrates this experience, Samira steps into a new chapter of her romantic journey. The story she once told about her future is dissolving. Meanwhile something softer, truer, and more expansive grows within her. Her life is preparing her for the love she seeks, revealing it piece by piece in moments she would never have predicted.

This is how the Universe delivers the results of alignment — gently, unexpectedly, and with perfect timing.

Perhaps you’re ready for your version of what Samira got. If so, slots are available on my calendar.

Why Life’s Relentless Moments Actually Make You Better

TL;DR: The author explores how one client’s reaction to a harmless moment revealed old beliefs ready for release, showing how life’s relentlessness gently guides us toward love and sovereignty.

Many people in a spiritual pracctice misunderstand life’s relentlessness. They see unwanted moments as interruptions, or as some kind of cosmic punishment for getting their vibration “wrong.” Yet the opposite is true.

Life shows up exactly as it must, moment after moment, never tiring, always accurate, forever loyal to the inner condition each of us emanates. Life rises to meet whatever is active inside us so we can see it clearly enough to do something about it. That is the gift. It is the only way growth becomes possible.

This became crystal clear during a recent session with my client, when she shared an experience involving her mother’s new partner, Jeff. The situation offered such a perfect, surgical reflection of her old momentum that she couldn’t miss what was happening.

She found herself uneasy around him from the start, not because of anything he did, but because his presence awakened an entire Belief Constellation of unsoothed themes from her past. He felt “too familiar,” too quickly assured in how he spoke to her. Without realizing it, she slipped into the emotional posture she had learned in childhood whenever a new man entered her mother’s life.

The remarkable thing is that none of this had anything to do with Jeff. Life simply responded to vibrations my client carried for decades, vibrations she had already shifted significantly but not yet fully soothed. She had done such powerful work around worth and sovereignty that the next layer of refinement became available.

Reality rose to meet that available space, presenting exactly the person who could reflect back the next belief ready for release.

The Moment Everything Became Obvious

The pattern sharpened when her mother texted after a concert. Jeff had purchased tickets for himself and her mom, but their travel plans made the show difficult to attend. Rather than let the tickets go to waste, they offered them to my client. She accepted, enjoyed the concert with her partner, and felt genuine appreciation for the gift. Later, her mother wrote, “I’m so glad you had a fantastic time. You can thank Jeff for that.”

Those last words hit my client like a hammer. She bristled instantly. Her reaction surprised her, because nothing in the message was hostile or manipulative. Yet it touched the very nerve she had been carrying since adolescence: the expectation that she must bond with her mother’s partners, must accommodate them, must smile and play along for her mother’s sake. It was the same emotional blueprint that had defined so many relationships in her past. The entire dynamic stood in front of her again, wrapped in a single sentence.

Although she initially resisted the interpretation, she soon realized the entire episode existed for one reason only. The Universe was showing her what she still held. It wasn’t about gratitude or her mother’s intentions. It wasn’t even about Jeff.

What was happening was the Universe was giving my client a mirror so precise she couldn’t miss the reflection. A reflection offered as a loving guide, revealing the only belief standing between her and the vibrational state she truly wanted: the experience of being in love, in ease, in the sovereignty that brings complete internal freedom.

Why Life Feels So Relentless

Life reflects a person’s vibration the way a lake reflects the sky. It cannot help but mirror whatever faces it.

When someone holds fear, life offers situations where fear can be recognized. For someone carrying unworthiness, people show up who purposely draw that from them. When someone reaches for love but doesn’t yet believe in their own lovability, they meet characters who help reveal blocks obscuring that knowing. It feels relentless because consciousness is always expanding, always stretching toward more love, more joy, more freedom, and more clarity. The physical world cannot resist that expansion. It must cooperate with it.

My client had already made enormous strides in knowing her worth. She had left friendships that no longer matched her trajectory, learned how to express needs without forcing outcomes, and discovered new levels of empowerment in her marriage. All those changes created a new vibrational platform.

From that new altitude, the unresolved stepdad dynamic became visible. Life doesn’t stop giving us mirrors once we make progress. It gives us better mirrors. More refined mirrors. More specific mirrors. Because expansion is eternal, the refinement never ends.

The human journey takes many lifetimes because evolution is generous. We expand gradually, joyfully, incrementally, with full permission to take our time. If everything changed all at once, physical life would lose its purpose: savoring the becoming. The Universe’s relentlessness represents devotion of All That Is. It is the surest sign that we are supported and loved.

Life is lovingly giving us better, clearer mirrors.

The Softening That Changes Everything

As she worked through the discomfort, my client realized she didn’t actually dislike Jeff. She didn’t believe he was overstepping. She didn’t fear he would take her mother away from her. Beneath every layer of reactivity lived a single, simple truth: she just wanted to be in love. Not romantic love, necessarily, but the state of love—unconditional, uncomplicated, internally sourced. That was the vibrational condition life was leading her toward.

Once she allowed that recognition, the charge around the entire situation started dissolving. She saw her mother differently, no longer as someone pushing an agenda but as a woman excited about a new relationship. She saw Jeff more clearly too. In him she saw a perfectly ordinary human being who happened to trigger old beliefs. And she saw herself with new compassion, understanding how much progress she had already made and how little remained before this pattern fully released.

This is how soothing works. Soothing happens when truth rises gently from within, revealing what the heart already knows. She softened almost automatically in the face of the clarity revealed in the session. Clarity which showed the client her resistance was unnecessary.

The moment the charge diminished, the Universe reorganized around her new point of focus. Life always does this. It must. Improved internal conditions compel improved external reflections.

In time, her reality will match her softer stance. Interactions with Jeff will feel easier. Conversations with her mother will contain more sweetness and less subtext. The emotional landscape that once felt threatening will feel neutral, then pleasant, then quietly lovely. That gradual unfolding is the hallmark of a well-lived life.

The Universe Never Misses

In the end, her experience wasn’t about a man named Jeff. It wasn’t even about her mother. It was about the beautiful precision of a Universe that never misses, never wavers, never fails to deliver the exact conditions required for the next step of expansion. Life is relentless because love is relentless. Consciousness wants more of itself—more of its joy, more of its freedom, more of its brilliance—and physical reality becomes the perfect stage for that unfolding.

When resistance softens, love gradually takes its place. When love becomes the dominant vibration, life reflects it everywhere. This is how we become who we really are, not in a single leap, but through a thousand gentle recognitions. Each one reveals the next. One recognition liberates the next pocket of resistance. Another opens the heart a little wider.

Jeff, without even knowing it, became an angelic mirror for my client. In seeing what he evoked, she discovered what she was ready to release. In releasing it, she became a little more of the love she already is. And that, truly, is the whole point of being alive.

What Happens When You Make the Wind Your Ally

TL;DR: The author relates a story of a client, a college maintenance manager, who faces two setbacks during work. But by shifting perspective, he demonstrates a key aspect of alignment, and in doing transforms these “setbacks” into joy, abundance, and vibrational sovereignty.

There’s a subtle art to living a sovereign life — an art few ever know about let along consciously choose to master. It begins not with rearranging outer circumstances, but by observing the unfolding of experience. Observing it and discovering one’s agency within it. That agency, in the Positively Focused practice, shows up in three primary stages:

Post-Manifestational Awareness: When we realize, after something has already happened, that we could have influenced the outcome — but didn’t. The awareness comes after manifestation, but still offers wisdom.

Mid-Manifestational Awareness: When something is unfolding, and we know we could shape it… but we don’t. Not because we don’t want to, but because dominant momentum — emotional, habitual, historical — keeps us in reaction mode rather than creation mode.

Pre-Manifestational Awareness: When we recognize the unfolding in real time, remember our agency, and consciously activate it — transforming the experience before it completes, thereby alchemizing the moment into something aligned, sovereign, and beautiful as a manifestation.

What one of my clients — let’s call him Kyle — recently demonstrated was a shining example of that final stage. And it all started with a leaf blower.

Stormy Weather and the Setup for Contrast

Kyle works at a college campus, where part of his job is groundskeeping. On a recent Saturday, he showed up expecting a team effort to clean up leaves scattered across the main quad.

But the weather had other plans. It was cold, windy, and wet — the kind of day where even committed coworkers mysteriously “get sick.” One by one, Kyle realized: no one else was coming. He took a breath. And he got to work.

For hours, he methodically cleared the entire quad of autumn leaves — solo. His muscles ached. His feet throbbed. But he pushed through, determined to finish the job. And finally… he did. The quad looked pristine. He stood back to admire the work. There was a sense of accomplishment.

Then — like a perfectly scripted slapstick comedy — a massive gust of wind ripped through the campus. It left leaves everywhere. In one gust, nature rendered the entire morning’s labor undone. In seconds, the wind reversed everything — leaves blew back across the freshly cleared space. The wind erased Kyle’s efforts. Seeing this, his body tightened. His thoughts stirred. He felt a tinge of annoyance….

This was a mid-manifestational moment: he felt the contrast. Kyle knew he had agency — but hadn’t yet fully activated it. Not yet. Still, something inside him shifted. He took another breath, then began clearing leaves again.

Another Opportunity to Choose

He worked harder, faster. Kyle was determined. He got all the newly fallen leaves up. And then…another wind gust. The quad was covered again — completely. That’s when the deeper stories surfaced in Kyle: What if my boss thinks I didn’t do anything when he arrives to work Monday? What if I look lazy? What if I get in trouble for something I actually did right?

The second gust brought more anxiety and frustration, but also fear. Kyle’s emotional momentum got stronger. This time, however, Kyle didn’t just notice it. He took the reins.

He remembered that this wasn’t personal. It was vibrational. The wind was just feedback. A lovingly crafted opportunity to choose his state of being before the story crystallized. And that’s what he did.

He paused. He smiled. Then he got inspired.

He saw what was happening as a pre-manifestational doorway — an invitation from the Universe. It said: choose alignment before the story completes itself. And Kyle did exactly that. He paused. He breathed. And then he reached for a better-feeling thought.

He remembered a scene from The Secret, where the narrator describes imagining money falling from the sky like autumn leaves. And suddenly, Kyle began to imagine each leaf — not as a burden — but as a $100 bill. With this shift in perspective, the wind wasn’t working against him. It was showering him with abundance.

Turning Work Into Wealth

That’s when Kyle literally became a different person. He raced to collect the leaves like a joyful scavenger hunt. He laughed at the storm. Kyle stuffed his trailer like it was an overflowing bank vault. He even timed himself like it was a game.

By the end of the day, his body was still sore — but his vibration was radiant. Kyle not only did his job, he also achieved new heights of vibrational alchemy. What could have been a story of bitterness and burnout became one of alignment, joy, and confidence.

That’s the power of pre-manifestational awareness: it lets us shape the mirror’s image before it fully forms. Most people believe life is happening to them. They react, cope, survive. But Kyle’s story reminds us of the deeper truth: Life isn’t happening to us. It’s responding through us. When we become aware of this — even after the fact — we begin the process of reclaiming our agency.

When we become aware in the middle of a moment, we start to practice holding our power even when momentum is strong. But when we catch it before it lands — when we see the wind blow and realize, this isn’t personal, it’s perfect — that’s when we step into the real magic of deliberate creation.

Everyone Can Do What Kyle Did

You don’t need to work at a college. Nor do you need a windstorm. Life will deliver everyone their own tailor-made “leaf moments”. They may show up as a conversation that doesn’t go the way we planned. Or maybe it’s a task that feels thankless, a delay that disrupts our schedule. Or a storm that blows in at the worst time. These all are portals, opportunities to chart a course through to the divine.

And if we’re paying attention — if we remember who we are, even for a moment — we can choose. We can choose to see the leaves as money and laugh at the timing. We can choose to align before the mirror hardens. That’s pre-manifestational mastery. And like Kyle, we’re more ready for it than we think.

All it takes is a little foreknowledge and awareness and a desire to be happy above all else. It all begins with seeing everything in a positive light. That’s the foundation of the Positively Focused framework. Because positivity is a constant of the Universe. Nothing happens in the Universe that isn’t positive. And if it looks like what’s happening isn’t positive, that’s only because we don’t have a big enough picture to see it the way it actually is.

Want to know more? Reach out. Let’s talk.

What Happens When the Mirror Gets This Powerful

TL;DR: Over four intense days, Marcus’s life reflected his vibrational focus with stunning precision. From social scrolls to sacred hugs, each event revealed the truth: life doesn’t punish us—it mirrors us, perfectly and compassionately.

Sometimes, life gives you experiences that are both memorable and multidimensional. Experiences where every moment, every encounter, and every emotional charge reveals exactly what you’re practicing vibrationally. And if you’re paying attention, it becomes the perfect mirror. That’s what happened for a client of mine — let’s call him Marcus — over the course of four days.

The contrast was rich. The orchestration was precise. Marcus’ expansion was unmistakable. And it all began with scrolling on social media.

The Algorithm That Read His Vibration

Marcus hadn’t planned on going deep. He was just passing time. But as he began scrolling through Instagram and Facebook, the algorithm tuned in — and it knew exactly what to deliver. Gaza. Israel. Racism. LGBTQ+ discrimination. Corruption. Division. Outrage.

His scrolling revealed more than political news — it was emotional architecture. Every post added another brick to the structure of fear, injustice, and helplessness Marcus didn’t realize he was building. Instead, he thought he was “staying informed.”

But his body told the truth: He was doomscrolling. He felt drained. His nervous system became frayed. The lightness he normally carried dimmed. He couldn’t see it yet, but he saturated his vibrational field — and life was preparing to reflect it all back.

The Party, the Couple, and the Hug That Meant Everything

Later that day, Marcus went to a pumpkin carving party. The party represented something simple, something creative. Marcus thought he’d have fun. And he did. But he also met himself.

Two men — a gay couple — were there. One white, one Lebanese. The Lebanese partner, whose name happened to be Seth, shared his deep uneasiness living in the U.S. in the current climate. As a gay man of Middle Eastern descent, he didn’t feel safe — not just emotionally, but existentially.

Marcus listened with full presence. Their conversation was honest, layered, and emotionally resonant. And when it ended, they hugged. Seth and his partner then left the party.

But a moment later, Seth returned. He asked Marcus for another hug. Something in the first hug wasn’t finished. So they hugged again — slower this time. More grounded. More knowing. That hug represented more than affection. It was recognition, a soul-level confirmation that Marcus had called in this encounter vibrationally. He called it in so he could see the reflection embodied in his reality. Seth was a living reflection of the very themes Marcus had been engaging with online. But instead of outrage, Marcus met it with love.

This was the first mirror. And it was beautiful.

The Friend That Didn’t Show, and the Feeling That Did

After the party, Marcus got in his car. There he noticed for the first time several texts from his wife. She was worried where he was. When Marcus returned home, she didn’t conceal how she felt. She had a friend who planned to visit, but cancelled at the last minute. So Marcus’ wife was left alone.

Marcus returning home after he said he would, left his wife worried, but also, she excluded. At first, Marcus was confused. He hadn’t intentionally excluded her. They hadn’t made plans after all. But the deeper truth was this: his wife was reflecting Marcus’ beliefs precisely.

Marcus had spent the day consuming content about marginalized people. People being left out of systems, rights, safety, belonging. And now his wife — someone he adores — was expressing that very vibration in real time.

Good thing Marcus caught it. He didn’t defend himself or spiral. He opened. He withdrew from the story — not from her, but from the version of himself who believed he had done something wrong. And in that stillness, something shifted.

The Open Mic and the Rule That No One Followed

The next night, Marcus attended a local open mic. He brought his instrument and signed up early. But he never got to play.

The people who did perform didn’t follow the house rules. They didn’t respect the list or share the space. These people weren’t being malicious, instead they followed their passions and got caught up in the excitement. At first glance, this might seem like bad luck. But vibrationally, it was exact. Following their passions indulgently offered yet another reflection of Marcus’ inner momentum.

They reflected the very societal disorder Marcus had been digesting through his feeds — people not following the rules, not being inclusive, not leaving space for others. The macro showed up in the micro.

It was yet another gift reality shone on Marcus. Life as mirror never misses. It’s always precise.

Your life experience is the same. Life for all of us is a mirror. It’s also a gift. It faithfully reflects our inner state. Why does it do that? So we can know ourselves better. So we can tune into the Source of our life experience: our inner reality. Do something constructive about that inner reality and the mirror — our life experience — must reflect that constructive improvement.

That’s the result all my clients receive once they get good at interpreting what they see in their mirrors.

Marcus had more in store given the momentum he created doomscrolling. Let’s get back to his story.

The Pregnant Woman and the Gentle Realignment

After all this, Marcus did something subtle but powerful. He didn’t push through. He didn’t collapse. Instead, as he sat at the bar, he paused. He meditated inconspicuously — lightly, sincerely. He let go of fixing. He turned toward better-feeling thoughts.

And the next day, his world began responding differently. A miscommunication with his wife resolved into softness and mutual understanding. Arriving at work, he shared an intimate moment with a pregnant coworker. He offered reassurance and calm to her worry about being a new mother. Soothed and thankful, she offered him a surprising career opportunity — seemingly out of nowhere, but perfectly timed.

After all the soothing Marcus did, allowing his doomscrolling momentum to subside, Marcus’ Broader Perspective confirmed he had done the work. The confirmation came in the form of this career opportunity. It was his Broader Perspective winking: you’re back in alignment.

In The Seth Material, there’s a passage I often return to:

“Before you can be allowed into systems of reality that are more extensive and open, you must first learn to handle energy and see, through physical materialization, the concrete result of thought and emotion.”

This is exactly what Marcus experienced. He recognized what happened had nothing to do with being punished. He was training himself. Training himself into being able to perceive the transformation of thought-into-form, the materialization of belief into lived experience.

“As a child forms mud pies from dirt, so you form your civilizations out of thoughts and emotions, and then see what you have created.”

Marcus saw what he had created. And instead of reacting, he chose to recalibrate.

This planet — this dimension — is a training system. A dream-school. A mirror of emotional energy turned physical. And Marcus, like all of us, is here to master the art of turning thoughts into things.

The Dreamer Within the Dream

Marcus had a weekend full of contrast. But he didn’t get stuck in the mud pie. He saw it for what it was — a reflection of what he was ready to integrate.

Marcus practiced power — not force. He used awareness not reaction. Then he practiced love — not as an idea, but as action. He practiced sovereignty — not changing others, but changing where he placed his attention.

“The dreamer dreams, and the dreamer within the dream dreams.”

And in the dream he created, the dream responded.

That’s how this works. The gift that’s physical reality is the ability to see exteriorized our inner state. It’s the greatest gift ever. One that’s always memorable and always multidimensional.

How My Client Found the Magic of Alignment

TL;DR: One client’s experience reveals how divine timing and creative energy work together. When you trust your worthiness, life responds instantly. Alignment, therefore isn’t earned — it’s received. And the Universe is always confirming that truth.

There’s a moment that comes when a person truly begins living from their Broader Perspective. It’s the moment contrast no longer feels like resistance — but recognition. That moment is when life starts confirming itself in the most spectacular ways.

A few weeks ago, I had a session with a client that demonstrated this perfectly. As with all my Positively Focused YouTube Channel Worthiness Wednesday stories, this one isn’t just a “feel-good” anecdote. It’s a precise illustration of how the Universe works when you let it love you.

This particular client came to our session frustrated with a coworker. In his words, this colleague wasn’t pulling his weight. That imbalance was forcing my client to shoulder more of the workload. Understandably, that annoyed him. But as we explored the situation more deeply, something beautiful emerged.

From Frustration to Forward Movement

What he hadn’t yet realized was how the contrast between his performance and his coworker’s was actually highlighting his value. Internal customers within the organization kept asking for him. They bypassed the other guy entirely. Why? Because my client had built a reputation for excellence. The contrast was illuminating that even more.

The so-called “problem” was actually a platform — a divine setup designed to make his strengths undeniable. When he saw it from that angle, he relaxed. He began to feel what I already knew: everything is always working out for him.

That truth isn’t just a catchy phrase. It’s the deepest foundation of this practice. And it’s one that becomes easier to see the more we trust our experience — especially when contrast appears.

Creative Energy and the Dance of Manifestation

After that breakthrough, our session shifted into dreamwork and deeper energetic territory. The client wanted to share a recent dream, which sparked a conversation about masculine and feminine energy — or more precisely, creative and action energies.

As I often say: these polarities have nothing to do with gender. Humans have long confused labels with essence. What we’re really talking about are the two fundamental forces of manifestation.

  • Creative energy is receptive, still, open, and potential-rich.
  • Action energy is directional, assertive, expressive, and devoted.

Creation energy doesn’t push. It beckons. Creative energy doesn’t force, it flows. And when it becomes full — when the inner vision is saturated with clarity — then action arises as a natural extension. Not as effort, but as orchestration.

IIt’s a mistake to think doing is what makes things happen. Doing isn’t the catalyst. Creation is. Action happens with ease when you’re lined up vibrationally with what has already been created. That’s the real meaning of manifestation.

Inspired Action Follows Fulfilled Creation

This client happens to be a deeply creative person — a musician, with a growing desire to bring comedy into his performances. Our session touched on how those two streams might converge in his expression.

But more importantly, we explored the energetic foundation underneath his creative desire. I reminded him that when he resides in the energy of creation — without jumping into effort — he doesn’t have to chase outcomes. The manifestation will meet him where he is.

The metaphor I shared with him was an image based on a Gustav Klimt-inspired painting: a knight kneeling at the feet of a woman, head bowed, fully surrendered. I don’t know if the artist intended it this way, but the symbolism is profound.

The knight — representing action — kneels not in weakness, but in reverent service to the feminine principle of creation. That’s not subjugation. That’s sovereignty expressed as devotion.

And so it is in all of us. True action energy doesn’t dominate. It serves the dream already conceived in silence.

The Universe Confirms Instantly

Later that day, the client sent me a voice message. It was radiant. His voice vibrated with joy. Right after our call, his partner smudged the house in response to some news about a family member. He stepped into the kitchen just as she was replaying a paused Abraham video.

And the first words spoken? “Creativity is the fun part. That’s what we’re here to do. The doing comes after that.” My client didn’t miss the synchronicity because it was exact. A few seconds later, he glanced at the computer screen. The next video that auto-played? Titled: “Action vs. Alignment — What Matters More?”

The synchronicity even shocked his partner, who also a client. She hadn’t queued up that video. It just appeared. As he said in the message: “This is how this f*ing shit works.”

For sure. When you align with your creative spark, the Universe moves mountains to show you the clarity of your path in real-time. It does this through voices, videos, scents, timing, dreams — whatever channel will reach you.

Worthiness in Motion

The reason this matters isn’t just because it’s “cool.” It’s because it reveals something fundamental about who we are.

We are eternal beings — pure creative potential housed in physical form, supported by action energy lovingly responding to our state of alignment.

Our lives, when lived from that clarity, become symphonies of synchronicity. It’s not just that we create our realities. It’s that our realities become love letters from Source to self.

This client got to feel that directly. And I got to witness another human being come more fully into the awareness of their worthiness — not through effort, but through realization.

Final Thought: It’s Always Displaying

This is what Worthiness Wednesdays on my YouTube Channel is really about: showing that life is already doing the work. When you rest in creation, when you trust your unfolding, and when you stop trying to out-effort your own alignment — the Universe rushes in to confirm what’s always been true: You are deeply loved. Your desires are already underway. And every contrast you encounter is setting the stage for your next becoming.

So pay attention. Divine synchronicity is on beautiful display. Not just for this client. For all of us. And it’s only getting louder.

How One Old Fable Hides the Truth About Abundance

TL;DR: The author reexamines Aesop’s famous fable through a spiritual lens, revealing how both diligence and joy arise naturally when aligned with one’s Broader Perspective—culminating in a liberating, heart-opening rewrite of the tale.

For centuries, Aesop’s fable The Ant and the Grasshopper has shaped our cultural mindset about productivity, planning, and what it means to live a good life. You probably know the story:

A diligent ant spends the summer storing food and preparing for winter. Meanwhile, a carefree grasshopper sings and dances in the sun. When winter comes, the grasshopper finds himself cold and hungry, and the ant—well-stocked and warm—scolds him for his laziness. The moral? Work hard today or suffer tomorrow.

But what if that moral is false? What if it’s not even close to how the Universe—or nature—actually works?

And what if that fable, passed down generation after generation, is one of the most well-worn distortions keeping us from trusting joy, spontaneity, and the natural abundance we’re born into?

Let’s take a look through a Positively Focused lens.

A Story Written by the Intellect

The entire structure of the fable rests on a fundamental assumption: that survival is scarce, and only through toil, planning, and resistance to the ease inherent in the now can we secure the future. The ant is praised for “working hard,” while the grasshopper is dismissed for “doing nothing.”

But here’s the truth: in real life, ants don’t know they’re “preparing for winter.” They follow their internal cues. Just as the grasshopper does. Neither is projecting fear into the future. Neither is planning in the way humans do. None of them are working hard. They are both moving as they are designed to move: in tune with the larger intelligence that orchestrates everything from tides to cloud formations to galaxies.

And humans? We’ve overwritten that natural wisdom within us with fear-based beliefs.

The fable upholds a distorted version of value: that worthiness is earned through struggle. That the present moment is a trap unless you’re using it to prepare for the next one. Indeed, indulging in joy, spontaneity, and trusting life will lead to punishment.

This is exactly the kind of thinking that the Positively Focused practice helps us unravel.

The Trap of “Working Hard”

So many of my clients — beautiful, gifted people — come to me carrying this exact programming. I once did too. It shows up in our relationship to money, our creative work, our ability to rest, our relationship to the now, even our self-worth.

Nearly all of us have internalized the idea that ease is irresponsible and joy is unearned. That any expression not tethered to utility or “the grind” is frivolous. And what’s more? We often judge ourselves for wanting to follow our bliss.

But that desire for joy isn’t laziness. It’s guidance.

The desire to bask in the sun, to play a song, to take a nap, to follow an impulse with no “productive” outcome—that’s not a failure of discipline. It’s our Broader Perspective calling us back to our natural alignment. The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to vibration.

Which means: the better we feel, the more the Universe can give us what we ask for.

Joy Is Not Optional—It’s the Signal

The fable pits joy and responsibility against one another. But in reality, they’re inseparable. When we’re aligned, when we’re feeling good, when we’re trusting the unfolding—everything gets taken care of. Including “winter.”

Our Broader Perspective is always guiding us toward the version of our lives where our needs are met, our desires fulfilled, and our expression fully supported. Not through spreadsheets and strain, but through resonance, clarity, and inspired action.

And when contrast shows up—as it did for me recently in the form of forgotten financial fears or a friend’s gloomy worldview—I use it not as a reason to panic, but as an invitation to realign.

When I do that, reality literally shifts. Money shows up on the ground. Clients confirm they’re staying. Opportunities fall into place. My YouTube momentum picks up.

And I didn’t plan for any of it. I allowed it. That’s what the fable misses entirely.

The Grasshopper, Reframed

In this light, the grasshopper isn’t a cautionary tale. He’s a symbol of non-resistance. He holds trust that summer is here to be savored. He’s letting the Universe do the heavy lifting. And the winter? Maybe it never even arrives. But only for him. Because he doesn’t plan for a winter. He aligns to constant abundance.

I know that sounds radical. But I’ve experienced it. So have my clients.

The more aligned we are, the more time and space shift around us. Apparent “deadlines” extend. Unexpected windfalls appear. People bend over backwards to support us. It’s not fantasy. It’s the physics of focus.

So rather than teach the next generation to be afraid of “winter”, what if we taught them to trust their inner song, follow their delight? To move with nature rather than brace against it?

That’s the version of the story I want to tell. And maybe next time, when the ant passes the grasshopper in late autumn, he doesn’t sneer. Maybe he sits down. Listens. And hears a melody that melts the frost of his fears.


The Ant and the Grasshopper: A Story of Alignment

Once upon a summer’s morning, the Earth hummed with golden light. In a quiet clearing, two small beings went about their lives.

One was an Ant. Tireless. Methodical. She moved in lines—back and forth from her colony—gathering bits of grain, storing them deep beneath the soil. Her legs ticked like a clock. Her eyes stayed fixed on the horizon, where winter loomed in her mind like a shadow.

The other was a Grasshopper. Luminous. Iridescent. He leapt through tall stalks of grass, chirping melodies that rose with the breeze. Sunned himself on warm stones. He ate when he was hungry. Slept when he was tired. And sang because it pleased him.

The Ant watched him with a kind of pity.

“Why do you waste time like this?” she called. “You should be working. Winter is coming. You’ll starve.”

The Grasshopper paused. “I trust the Earth,” he replied. “Right now, it’s summer. So I sing.”

The Ant shook her head. “You’ll regret this.”

The Grasshopper didn’t answer. A breeze moved through the field, and he leapt joyfully into it.

Seasons Shift, But Alignment Endures

As days passed, the meadow ripened. The sun stretched long and low. The Ant, now deep in her work, had gathered piles of food, stacked in careful rows. Her back ached. Her mind was restless. Though her pantry was full, her heart was not.

The Grasshopper?

He followed a pathless path. One day he discovered a patch of ripe blackberries. Another day, he encountered a stream with minnows glinting like coins. At night, he curled under leaves and listened to the stars.

He met a turtle who gave him shade. Then a robin who shared her song. And also child who left breadcrumbs from her picnic. He never lacked.

One afternoon, a heavy cloud rolled in. A chill swept the meadow. The Ant hurried home, burdened by fear. But the Grasshopper felt only stillness. He found a hollow log, warm and dry. He rested there. And dreamed.

The Reunion

Months passed. Spring returned. The Earth sighed green again. The Grasshopper stretched in the light. He felt no need to recount the past. Only to leap forward into joy. But as he passed near the Ant’s hill, he saw her—hunched and tired, sorting a new pile of grain. Her eyes darted, already planning for winter.

He approached gently. “Hello again,” he said.

She looked up, startled. “You survived?”

He smiled. “I did more than survive. I lived.”

She frowned. “But you had no food. No shelter. No plan.”

“I had presence,” he said. “And it brought everything I needed.”

She shook her head slowly. “That’s not how life works.”

He tilted his head. “Then whose life have you been living?”

The Moral

The Ant and the Grasshopper parted ways. But that night, as the Ant returned to her tasks, she paused. She thought of his song. The way his eyes shimmered with ease. The calm in his voice. And for the first time, she wondered: what if she had it backwards?

What if all her striving didn’t guarantee safety—but only delayed joy? Might the Grasshopper’s freedom not be luck… but alignment? What if the Universe wasn’t a test to pass… but a partner with whom to dance?

And then—just for a moment—she let herself rest…

And so, dear reader: The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to resonance. Prepare if you feel inspired. Work if it delights you. But above all—listen to your song. Because the grass isn’t greener. It’s alive. And it’s waiting for you to leap.

How My Dreams Made Masculine Energy Powerful Again

TL;DR: The author explores how his inner masculine has risen to serve his feminine creativity—transforming dreams into aligned action, contrast into clarity, and daily life into a sacred union between inspiration and embodiment.

There’s a sacred moment in every creator’s journey when the inner feminine — the current of inspiration, imagination, and receptive knowing — completes her dreaming. She’s gestated ideas, nurtured them in stillness, and filled the field with possibility. Then something extraordinary happens: the inner masculine awakens, ready to move those dreams into form.

That’s where I find myself now — in a new season of my unfolding, where the action energy no longer feels like striving or doing. It feels like devotion. My masculine energy is rising to serve the feminine that is me.

For months, women populated my dream state. Beautiful, multidimensional, radiant women with whom I shared deep intimacy, oneness, and creative communion. These weren’t dreams — they were spiritual confirmation. Each woman represented a facet of my divine feminine energy: connection, creativity, sensual flow, and the embodied ease of being.

Dreams of the Masculine: The Shift in Symbolism

Lately, though, that landscape changed. Men began occupying the dream stage — men, machines, missions, a lot of movement, some messes and hierarchical management roles filled my dream state. All these roles represent masculine-coded imagery.

At first, I wondered where the goddesses had gone. Then I realized they hadn’t left at all. Their creations were simply taking form. The men, the mechanics, the machinery — they represent the forces of manifestation. The principle of action rising to serve what the feminine within me already conceived.

The dreams aren’t less magical, they’re more embodied. They mirror my waking life now: a cascade of projects, collaborations, expressions and divinely-timed manifestations — all arriving with purpose, precision, and power.

Feeling changes in dream state sparked a lot of inspired action.

The Dance of Doing and Allowing

In my physical world, the same balance plays out. My life is full — and gloriously so.

There’s the intimate work with clients, those weekly miracles of alignment where people rediscover their worthiness. There’s the writing: two websites, each a universe of unfolding stories charting my personal expansion. Then there’s the YouTube channel — my new passion project where I’m translating spiritual principles into visual storytelling. I’m also creating an exquisite Positively Focused app. I want more people to benefit from what I offer, beyond 1:1 mentoring. Then there’s my project: The Soul Finder AI Agent I’m coding through Replit. Last but not least, the newest child of inspiration: an edge node project I’m building in support of my enthusiasm for decentralized intelligence through Holochain.

All these represent a symphony of creation, and every movement feels perfectly timed.

When I’m centered, I sense the divine choreography: the feminine energy that came before generating the holistic vision and now the masculine energies executing it in reverence. The fullness isn’t overwhelm. It’s divine, whole orchestration.

But even that balance gets tested.

Contrast as Sacred Calibration

Recently, a new client paused her sessions. A long-term client, Jim, chose to step away entirely. Those contrasting moments could have felt like loss. Instead, they felt like calibration — the Universe asking me whether my masculine energy could stay devotional even when the feminine current temporarily receded.

It could have been easy to interpret those changes as disconnection, as loss. But I know better now. The pauses, the endings, the apparent absences — they’re part of the dance. Each contrast gives me a new reason to stay steady in my alignment. Contrast, in its truest form, is not negative. It’s positive. It’s rocket fuel for the next level of expansion.

When Sally paused, I felt the subtle tug of concern — the masculine impulse to “fix,” to act, to make something happen. When Jim left, a flicker of emptiness showed up, the feminine’s awareness over what seemed to dissolve.

But sitting in stillness with both, I realized something profound: each moment of contrast came to help me integrate both energies more deeply. The masculine in me needed to learn to act without attachment, to do without grasping. The feminine needed to rest in trust, to let go without fearing loss. Both were invited into a higher harmony, one where doing and being no longer opposed each other.

That’s the essence of mastery — not suppressing one energy in favor of the other, but letting them dance together.

Acts are expressions of masculine energy, moving in service and devotion of feminine energy which is creation.

Union Made Manifest

Today, I feel that integration in everything I touch.

When I write, I’m not “producing content.” I’m communing. When I guide a client, I’m not providing a service for income — I’m serving the unfolding intelligence that flows through both of us. When I build software, I’m not coding — I’m translating vibration into architecture.

Every project, every encounter, every dream now feels like the sacred marriage of divine feminine and divine masculine — imagination and implementation, inspiration and action, being and doing.

And what’s most beautiful is how natural it feels. I’m no longer pushing. I’m allowing — allowing the masculine energy to build what the feminine conceives, allowing contrast to polish my faith, allowing the creative process to show me my own evolution.

That’s why, even amid the fullness of my life, I feel light. My days are busy, but my being is unburdened.

This is what happens when masculine energy reclaims its true role: not to dominate or direct, but to devote. To move mountains in service of what the heart imagines.

A Love Story Within

So here I stand — a being married to their own wholeness.

The feminine within me continues to dream, to receive, to conceive. The masculine continues to act, to move, to bring into being. And together, they’ve become the pulse of everything I do.

Even the so-called “hard” moments — the pauses, separations, the deadlines, noise — are proof of this union. Each one reveals that creation and contrast are not opposites. They’re companions.

In the union of these inner forces, I see the template for humanity’s next evolution — one where all of us live as integrated creators, our doing inspired by our being.

That, to me, is the true sacred marriage. The one that turns every act into worship, every project into prayer, and every breath into creation itself.

How to Make the World Respond with Abundance Just for You

TL;DR: The author revisits a vivid, real-world manifestation—finding $40 on a walk—and as a followup explores how we each create our own separate vibrational reality, even when walking side by side with others. A practical spiritual reminder.

Yesterday, something delightful happened that keeps revealing deeper truths. If you read my previous post, you know about the $40 that appeared at the perfect time—two crisp $20 bills lying on the pavement in plain sight, discovered on an evening walk with a friend.

That story alone is a testament to how intimately the Universe responds to our vibration. I had just soothed old scarcity stories that surfaced after conversations with clients—one heading into surgery, the other going on vacation—and I’d aligned with abundance. I had a desire: to get some cash for berry picking at a local farm, without paying an ATM fee. And within hours, the Universe delivered.

But what happened next was even more powerful.

Same Walk, Different Worlds

The friend I walked with—Raziah—was right beside me when that money manifestation happened. She was actually closer to the cash than I was. I had to step behind her to pick it up. It was sitting there, in plain view. And yet, she didn’t see it.

She wouldn’t have even known it was there if I hadn’t said, “Hold up, I need a moment.” When I turned around and showed her the bills, she was surprised. Not just because of the money, but because of how obvious it was. That had me wonder: how many others had walked by without noticing it?

That’s when it hit me—this experience wasn’t our manifestation. It was mine. It had nothing to do with her. She was present for it, yes. But it wasn’t part of her vibrational trajectory. It was mine alone.

The Universe placed that money in my path. Not metaphorically. Literally. That’s why she didn’t see the money until I showed it to her.

Everyone Lives in Their Own Reality

This is one of the most beautiful paradoxes of physical reality: even when we share time and space with others—on a walk, in a conversation, even in intimate relationships—we are each living entirely separate vibrational realities.

Raziah didn’t see the money because it wasn’t for her. It didn’t exist in her field of awareness until I brought it into view. Until that moment, those bills might as well have been invisible in her world. And that’s not some woo-woo metaphor. That’s real. That’s physics—vibrational physics.

Our individual reality can contain anything we imagine.

It’s also what so many of my clients wrestle with in the early stages of the Positively Focused practice. They understand, conceptually, that they create their reality. But then they look around and see things they don’t like—war, politics, economic uncertainty—and they think: “How can this be my creation?” The answer is always: “You tuned to it.”

And if they keep tuning to it, life obliges. Just like it did for me when I was immersed in outrage culture a decade ago. Like it did for my friend Mark, who sees only a Portland full of decay and danger. Just like it did for me, briefly, when I dipped into his vibrational lens and momentarily forgot the future I’ve already aligned with.

Your World = Your Signal

What happened with the $40 was a masterclass reminder: no one else is in our reality but each of us. That doesn’t mean other people don’t exist. It means our version of them, our version of reality, is a vibrational echo of our own signal.

So many people struggle with this because they think manifestation has to be huge, dramatic, and public to count. But often, the most personal, powerful manifestations are quiet. Subtle. Hidden in plain sight—until we tune to them.

That’s why I love the Positively Focused path. It doesn’t promise fireworks (though those come too). It promises alignment. Clarity. And experiences that feel magical… because they are. They’re vibrational magic made real.

We don’t need others to validate our reality. Nor do we need proof in the form of mass agreement that the manifestation happened. We just need to tune our signal. Then, the Universe meets us there—with money on the pavement, a berry-picking trip paid for in advance, and a reminder that we are always supported.