TL;DR: One client’s experience reveals how divine timing and creative energy work together. When you trust your worthiness, life responds instantly. Alignment, therefore isn’t earned — it’s received. And the Universe is always confirming that truth.
There’s a moment that comes when a person truly begins living from their Broader Perspective. It’s the moment contrast no longer feels like resistance — but recognition. That moment is when life starts confirming itself in the most spectacular ways.
A few weeks ago, I had a session with a client that demonstrated this perfectly. As with all my Positively Focused YouTube Channel Worthiness Wednesday stories, this one isn’t just a “feel-good” anecdote. It’s a precise illustration of how the Universe works when you let it love you.
This particular client came to our session frustrated with a coworker. In his words, this colleague wasn’t pulling his weight. That imbalance was forcing my client to shoulder more of the workload. Understandably, that annoyed him. But as we explored the situation more deeply, something beautiful emerged.
From Frustration to Forward Movement
What he hadn’t yet realized was how the contrast between his performance and his coworker’s was actually highlighting his value. Internal customers within the organization kept asking for him. They bypassed the other guy entirely. Why? Because my client had built a reputation for excellence. The contrast was illuminating that even more.
The so-called “problem” was actually a platform — a divine setup designed to make his strengths undeniable. When he saw it from that angle, he relaxed. He began to feel what I already knew: everything is always working out for him.
That truth isn’t just a catchy phrase. It’s the deepest foundation of this practice. And it’s one that becomes easier to see the more we trust our experience — especially when contrast appears.
Creative Energy and the Dance of Manifestation
After that breakthrough, our session shifted into dreamwork and deeper energetic territory. The client wanted to share a recent dream, which sparked a conversation about masculine and feminine energy — or more precisely, creative and action energies.
As I often say: these polarities have nothing to do with gender. Humans have long confused labels with essence. What we’re really talking about are the two fundamental forces of manifestation.
Creative energy is receptive, still, open, and potential-rich.
Action energy is directional, assertive, expressive, and devoted.
Creation energy doesn’t push. It beckons. Creative energy doesn’t force, it flows. And when it becomes full — when the inner vision is saturated with clarity — then action arises as a natural extension. Not as effort, but as orchestration.
IIt’s a mistake to think doing is what makes things happen. Doing isn’t the catalyst. Creation is. Action happens with ease when you’re lined up vibrationally with what has already been created. That’s the real meaning of manifestation.
Inspired Action Follows Fulfilled Creation
This client happens to be a deeply creative person — a musician, with a growing desire to bring comedy into his performances. Our session touched on how those two streams might converge in his expression.
But more importantly, we explored the energetic foundation underneath his creative desire. I reminded him that when he resides in the energy of creation — without jumping into effort — he doesn’t have to chase outcomes. The manifestation will meet him where he is.
The metaphor I shared with him was an image based on a Gustav Klimt-inspired painting: a knight kneeling at the feet of a woman, head bowed, fully surrendered. I don’t know if the artist intended it this way, but the symbolism is profound.
The knight — representing action — kneels not in weakness, but in reverent service to the feminine principle of creation. That’s not subjugation. That’s sovereignty expressed as devotion.
And so it is in all of us. True action energy doesn’t dominate. It serves the dream already conceived in silence.
The Universe Confirms Instantly
Later that day, the client sent me a voice message. It was radiant. His voice vibrated with joy. Right after our call, his partner smudged the house in response to some news about a family member. He stepped into the kitchen just as she was replaying a paused Abraham video.
And the first words spoken? “Creativity is the fun part. That’s what we’re here to do. The doing comes after that.” My client didn’t miss the synchronicity because it was exact. A few seconds later, he glanced at the computer screen. The next video that auto-played? Titled: “Action vs. Alignment — What Matters More?”
The synchronicity even shocked his partner, who also a client. She hadn’t queued up that video. It just appeared. As he said in the message: “This is how this f*ing shit works.”
For sure. When you align with your creative spark, the Universe moves mountains to show you the clarity of your path in real-time. It does this through voices, videos, scents, timing, dreams — whatever channel will reach you.
Worthiness in Motion
The reason this matters isn’t just because it’s “cool.” It’s because it reveals something fundamental about who we are.
We are eternal beings — pure creative potential housed in physical form, supported by action energy lovingly responding to our state of alignment.
Our lives, when lived from that clarity, become symphonies of synchronicity. It’s not just that we create our realities. It’s that our realities become love letters from Source to self.
This client got to feel that directly. And I got to witness another human being come more fully into the awareness of their worthiness — not through effort, but through realization.
Final Thought: It’s Always Displaying
This is what Worthiness Wednesdays on my YouTube Channel is really about: showing that life is already doing the work. When you rest in creation, when you trust your unfolding, and when you stop trying to out-effort your own alignment — the Universe rushes in to confirm what’s always been true: You are deeply loved. Your desires are already underway. And every contrast you encounter is setting the stage for your next becoming.
So pay attention. Divine synchronicity is on beautiful display. Not just for this client. For all of us. And it’s only getting louder.
TL;DR: The author explores how his inner masculine has risen to serve his feminine creativity—transforming dreams into aligned action, contrast into clarity, and daily life into a sacred union between inspiration and embodiment.
There’s a sacred moment in every creator’s journey when the inner feminine — the current of inspiration, imagination, and receptive knowing — completes her dreaming. She’s gestated ideas, nurtured them in stillness, and filled the field with possibility. Then something extraordinary happens: the inner masculine awakens, ready to move those dreams into form.
That’s where I find myself now — in a new season of my unfolding, where the action energy no longer feels like striving or doing. It feels like devotion. My masculine energy is rising to serve the feminine that is me.
For months, women populated my dream state. Beautiful, multidimensional, radiant women with whom I shared deep intimacy, oneness, and creative communion. These weren’t dreams — they were spiritual confirmation. Each woman represented a facet of my divine feminine energy: connection, creativity, sensual flow, and the embodied ease of being.
Dreams of the Masculine: The Shift in Symbolism
Lately, though, that landscape changed. Men began occupying the dream stage — men, machines, missions, a lot of movement, some messes and hierarchical management roles filled my dream state. All these roles represent masculine-coded imagery.
At first, I wondered where the goddesses had gone. Then I realized they hadn’t left at all. Their creations were simply taking form. The men, the mechanics, the machinery — they represent the forces of manifestation. The principle of action rising to serve what the feminine within me already conceived.
The dreams aren’t less magical, they’re more embodied. They mirror my waking life now: a cascade of projects, collaborations, expressions and divinely-timed manifestations — all arriving with purpose, precision, and power.
Feeling changes in dream state sparked a lot of inspired action.
The Dance of Doing and Allowing
In my physical world, the same balance plays out. My life is full — and gloriously so.
There’s the intimate work with clients, those weekly miracles of alignment where people rediscover their worthiness. There’s the writing: two websites, each a universe of unfolding stories charting my personal expansion. Then there’s the YouTube channel — my new passion project where I’m translating spiritual principles into visual storytelling. I’m also creating an exquisite Positively Focused app. I want more people to benefit from what I offer, beyond 1:1 mentoring. Then there’s my project: The Soul Finder AI Agent I’m coding through Replit. Last but not least, the newest child of inspiration: an edge node project I’m building in support of my enthusiasm for decentralized intelligence through Holochain.
All these represent a symphony of creation, and every movement feels perfectly timed.
When I’m centered, I sense the divine choreography: the feminine energy that came before generating the holistic vision and now the masculine energies executing it in reverence. The fullness isn’t overwhelm. It’s divine, whole orchestration.
But even that balance gets tested.
Contrast as Sacred Calibration
Recently, a new client paused her sessions. A long-term client, Jim, chose to step away entirely. Those contrasting moments could have felt like loss. Instead, they felt like calibration — the Universe asking me whether my masculine energy could stay devotional even when the feminine current temporarily receded.
It could have been easy to interpret those changes as disconnection, as loss. But I know better now. The pauses, the endings, the apparent absences — they’re part of the dance. Each contrast gives me a new reason to stay steady in my alignment. Contrast, in its truest form, is not negative. It’s positive. It’s rocket fuel for the next level of expansion.
When Sally paused, I felt the subtle tug of concern — the masculine impulse to “fix,” to act, to make something happen. When Jim left, a flicker of emptiness showed up, the feminine’s awareness over what seemed to dissolve.
But sitting in stillness with both, I realized something profound: each moment of contrast came to help me integrate both energies more deeply. The masculine in me needed to learn to act without attachment, to do without grasping. The feminine needed to rest in trust, to let go without fearing loss. Both were invited into a higher harmony, one where doing and being no longer opposed each other.
That’s the essence of mastery — not suppressing one energy in favor of the other, but letting them dance together.
Acts are expressions of masculine energy, moving in service and devotion of feminine energy which is creation.
Union Made Manifest
Today, I feel that integration in everything I touch.
When I write, I’m not “producing content.” I’m communing. When I guide a client, I’m not providing a service for income — I’m serving the unfolding intelligence that flows through both of us. When I build software, I’m not coding — I’m translating vibration into architecture.
Every project, every encounter, every dream now feels like the sacred marriage of divine feminine and divine masculine — imagination and implementation, inspiration and action, being and doing.
And what’s most beautiful is how natural it feels. I’m no longer pushing. I’m allowing — allowing the masculine energy to build what the feminine conceives, allowing contrast to polish my faith, allowing the creative process to show me my own evolution.
That’s why, even amid the fullness of my life, I feel light. My days are busy, but my being is unburdened.
This is what happens when masculine energy reclaims its true role: not to dominate or direct, but to devote. To move mountains in service of what the heart imagines.
A Love Story Within
So here I stand — a being married to their own wholeness.
The feminine within me continues to dream, to receive, to conceive. The masculine continues to act, to move, to bring into being. And together, they’ve become the pulse of everything I do.
Even the so-called “hard” moments — the pauses, separations, the deadlines, noise — are proof of this union. Each one reveals that creation and contrast are not opposites. They’re companions.
In the union of these inner forces, I see the template for humanity’s next evolution — one where all of us live as integrated creators, our doing inspired by our being.
That, to me, is the true sacred marriage. The one that turns every act into worship, every project into prayer, and every breath into creation itself.
TL;DR: The author explores how erotic dreams reveal sacred union with one’s Broader Perspective. These intense experiences aren’t about sex—they’re vibrational integrations between physical self and Source.
I’ve had enough erotic dreams to know they’re not “just dreams.” These aren’t wish fulfillment fantasies bubbling up from the subconscious. They’re something far more profound—vibrational events where my physical apparatus does its best to translate nonphysical communion into something familiar.
And what’s more familiar, more all-consuming, more undeniable than sex?
Sex in the dream state isn’t always about sex. It’s about union and alignment. It’s about ecstatic integration between parts of the self, or between self and Source. Sometimes it takes the form of a lover, a partner, a friend. Other times, it looks like me—my body turning in on itself, morphing into masculine and feminine as I make love with my own wholeness. And that? That’s divinity in action.
Sacred Mechanics of Nonphysical Integration
For example, one dream left me introspective for days. In it, I stood at the threshold of a dark room, separated from the presence inside it by a cracked door. I sensed her—a red-haired being, dormant but radiant. Later, she kissed me. First on the forehead. Then, after I responded, on the lips. Her kiss wasn’t just physical. It was an activation. A permission slip to merge.
We kissed again, deeper this time. As our mouths opened, something incredible happened. I didn’t just put my tongue in her mouth—I became my tongue entering her. I expanded into her and she into me. The sexual act dissolved into a full-bodied spiritual absorption. We weren’t two bodies anymore. We were one vibration, folding into itself over and over again.
This is the best language I have for describing what really happened. But it wasn’t physical sex. It was transdimensional union—a collapsing of apparent separation, expressed as pleasure, as flesh, as rhythm and intensity. Our climax wasn’t ejaculation. It was integration.
When the Self Is the Lover
Another dream brought the point home even more clearly. I found myself as both the lover and the beloved, equipped with both a penis and a vagina. I was knotting into myself, fluidly turning inside out and outside in. The boundaries between body and being, masculine and feminine, had disappeared.
This was dream logic not human logic. The entire act represented a divine, spiritual logic, dressed in sensual metaphor.
I woke with the most intense erection—deeply satisfied, pulsing with aliveness. My body tingled with arousal and awareness, and my soul felt rinsed in golden light. In the final moments of the dream, I placed a golden eagle upon my belly. Its talons rested gently against my skin, curled in reverence. Its beak touched my mouth, and I licked it—slowly, deliberately. That wasn’t a sensual act. Instead, it was ceremony. A ritual of completion. A sign that I had re-membered another piece of my divine self.
Dream Characters Are Dimensions Of Us
It’s easy to assume that people we meet in dreams—lovers, friends, coworkers—are actually those people. But they’re not. Not usually.
In most cases, the familiar face our brain maps onto that being is a stand-in. The dreamtime isn’t interested in casting accuracy — it’s interested in resonance accuracy. If someone in our physical reality has a trait that our inner being wants to highlight, they’ll be used as a symbolic avatar. Not as deception, but as a way to clue us in on what we’re wanting to know about ourselves.
So when I dream of someone like Tom G.—the senior most manager in charge of Intel Oregon chip-making fabrication facilities, someone I worked with in my time there —it’s not really him. It’s a version of my inner authority, expertise and knowledge, the part of me that organizes vast systems of creation. The part that’s leading edge. It’s me, playing dress-up in my own subconscious to show myself how far I’ve come.
Sex as Spiritual Calibration
When we have sex in dreams, our physical minds interpret it as erotic release. But what’s really happening is vibrational entrainment. It’s alignment with our Broader Perspective. With Source. The orgasmic experience symbolizes that merging. It’s the closest our biology can come to grasping what it feels like to become one with All That Is.
And it often follows or precedes powerful dream sequences involving technology, architecture, calculation, or creative output. No randomness in the imagery. Just lead up. A preparation for the tuning. And the sex? That’s the final integration, the system-wide software update, installing itself with ecstasy and grace.
In waking life, we’re conditioned to think about sex in limited, surface-level ways. But in dreamtime, we let go of those limitations. Sex as symbolism becomes the limitation. Because sex as an experience is the only thing in waking reality that comes close to direct alignment with All That Is. That alignment feels that good. Better, actually.
So erotic encounters in dreams are not just about desire—they’re about destiny. They’re vibrational confirmations that we’re meeting ourselves at new levels. We’re reclaiming sovereignty, becoming Whole.
Whether I’m making love to a radiant redhead, to my own spiraling form, or to a symbolic representation of my creative power, the message is always the same: I am loved, seen, blessed. I am That which I’ve been reaching for. So I don’t flinch when my dreams get erotic. Instead, I celebrate, interpret and revere. Because I know what’s happening.
Source is showing—in the language of flesh, sweat, pulse, and sigh—that I am aligned, that am becoming, that I am remembering Who I Really Am. And there’s nothing more delicious than that.
TL;DR: The author shares two powerful client dreams — one featuring Vladimir Putin, the other a transgender escort — to show how dreams mirror dominant beliefs, and emotional momentum, thereby showing where one is relative to achieving their deepest desires.
Some people say they don’t dream. Others say they do, but think their dreams are just gibberish—random nonsense, neurons firing off, the brain processing the day’s events. But what if that assumption was completely wrong? What if our dreams are actually our most accurate, uncensored spiritual feedback system next to our emotions?
A new client recently asked in session: “Why isn’t this material taught in school? If people learned this stuff early on, they’d live way better lives.” She’s right. If we understood what dreams are actually showing us, we’d know exactly where we are vibrationally—and how close or far we are from the life we want most.
Let me show you how, using two dreams from a client I’ll call Daniel.
Dreams as vibrational mirrors
In the Positively Focused practice, dreams aren’t psychological leftovers. They’re real-time broadcasts from our Broader Perspective, offering feedback on: Our dominant emotional state, belief constellations at the forefront of our experience and the size of the vibrational gap between where we are and what we want. They’re not predictions. They don’t “mean” one rigid thing. Instead, they’re energy reports. And when interpreted clearly, they can change our lives.
Which brings us to Daniel and his dreams, which were predominately about power and shame. Daniel had been working through deep contrast around a woman he still loves — a powerful, beautiful trans escort we’ll call Irene. Their relationship was complicated: transactional, emotionally charged, and karmically dense. Daniel fell in love. Irene remained elusive. They mirrored each other’s strongest, most dominant beliefs.
Because of that, their transactional relationship, for Daniel, dipped into a romantic one. Irene wanted that too, to some degree, but her hatred of men and self-loathing forced her to keep emotional intimacy with Daniel at a distance. That triggered even more Daniel’s old beliefs, which caused him to push harder for a relationship beyond the transactional one. And that caused Irene to resist even more.
Eventually the relationship (the transactional one) blew up with Irene going her way and Daniel, bitter, angry and frustrated yet still pining for her, going the other. Daniel felt an extremely strong connection with Irene. Irene felt it too, but couldn’t even begin to acknowledge its presence. Therefore, Daniel resolved to use the Positively Focused practice to rendezvous with a better version of Irene. One who could welcome a “real” relationship with open arms.
Dreams as vibrational maps
But Daniel had a LOT of negative momentum making him not a match to such a relationship. That explained why he was seeing escorts, hanging at strip clubs, drinking excessively and porn binging. So creating a better version of Irene would take a while I explained.
One day in session long after that conversation, Daniel began feeling like it was taking too long. This is a common thread for him. Impatience, thinking he knows when something should happen, instead of trusting divine timing, plagues him. So he asked me where he stood, vibrationally, in manifesting a reunion with Irene. It was a reoccurring subject in our sessions, reflecting Daniel’s obsession with Irene. An obsession that worked against him creating a better version of her.
Up to this point, Daniel created a TON of evidence showing he was becoming successful at creating the reunion. But he kept wobbling between belief, hope and eager anticipation – all emotions consistent with him receiving what he wants – and disillusionment, doubt, pessimism and hopelessness. Pain this wobble caused gave Daniel the momentum necessary to have a dream. A dream that amplified everything I had been telling him. It was a perfect, positive dream, but Danial woke from it convinced it was a nightmare.
It wasn’t a nightmare. It was a vibrational map.
A dream reflecting so much
In the dream, Daniel is in a car with his parents and Vladimir Putin. They’re navigating a steep, winding driveway in what seems to be Daniel’s own car in waking life: a high performance, manual transmission European model. Daniel wants Putin to try driving it. He’s excited to know what this powerful man thinks of his “vehicle” — a potent symbol for how Daniel views his own life path and seeks external validation.
Putin drives the car fast, taking blind corners recklessly. Yet, he’s unimpressed. They stop at a pastry shop. Daniel’s father mutters something insulting under his breath—Putin hears it. His eyes flash with murderous rage. But then something strange happens.
Putin notices Daniel’s father’s lifestyle: sleeping all day, eating jelly beans, cake and drinking Snapple. He sees the poor habits, the undisciplined routine. At first he thinks this guy lives a pathetic life. But then….he softens. Not out of compassion—but indifference.
“This man,” he seems to think, “is so weak and pathetic… he’s not even worth killing.”
Putin’s extreme judgement mirrors Daniel’s own judgement for himself and his father.
That’s the moment Daniel felt most gutted. Not by violence, but by dismissal. And that’s the point. This dream wasn’t about Putin or Daniel’s father. It was a metaphorical embodiment of Daniel’s internal conflict.
He sees his desire for self-love and spiritual reunion (the path) as something noble — but he often hands the wheel to a distorted, masculine archetype: control, fear, shame, domination and aggression. He craves power, but feels like a fraud. He wants approval, but fears worthlessness. It’s not Putin judging him. It’s him judging himself — mercilessly. Just as he — Daniel mercilessly judges his father.
A dream about desire and exposure
A few nights later, Daniel has another dream. This time, Irene is at the center.
He finds her with another man—a new boyfriend who also is a personal trainer. Daniel tries to contact her but ends up talking to the man instead. What unfolds is intense: Daniel begins exposing Irene to her new partner. “Do you know how much she hates men?” “Can you afford to be with her?” He feels righteous… and also embarrassed. Suddenly, she’s physically there—close to him in the dream. She steals a PS Vita out of his pocket, a small gaming device that was a market failure.
The boyfriend scolds her gently: “Stop that, Irene. I’ve seen her do that before.” he tells Daniel. Then Irene turns to Daniel and screams: “You just can’t get enough of me, can you?”
And in that moment all is revealed. Irene is exposed. Daniel is exposed. They’re both tangled in projection, shame, power play… and still, longing. Daniel woke up from this dream deeply pessimistic. He described himself feeling “defeated”. He thought the dream showed him his desire was futile.
But the dream wasn’t showing him he was failing. It showed him the perfect vibrational snapshot of where he stands relative to what he wants:
The PS Vita = a symbol of communication of spiritual connection,fun and joy. It also represents his connection to the pure positive energy that is his Broader Perspective.
Irene stealing the PS Vita = Daniel has put her on a pedestal, above his connection with himself. She literally steals his connection to the divine, a symbol of Daniel prioritizing her over connection with himself.
The righteousness = his current coping strategy for unresolved grief and control
The revenge he wreaks on Irene = the contempt he still feels for Irene which is pushing her away, not drawing her near
Her words = an acknowledgment of their undeniable connection. A promise that the relationship is ready…when Daniel becomes a vibrational match to it. Also, a powerful indication of how desperately attached he is.
What these dreams reveal
This wasn’t a nightmare. It was a wake up call. It is contrast revealed symbolically. It’s feedback, lovingly offered, so Daniel can see what he’s emanating—and why it’s blocking what he wants.
The correct response to the dream? Conjure better feeling thoughts about the relationship Daniel wants. Soothe old beliefs about betrayal, emotional abuse and belittlement. Relax into what it would feel like to have the relationship Daniel wants. All of these are part of the Positively Focused framework. And Daniel has had success implementing them.
But because he wobbles between empowering beliefs and disempowering ones, he’s moving two steps forward and one-and-three-quarters steps backward. And that’s why his progress is so slow seeming!
Dreams are offering profound guidance. Life can go so much better being aware of them.
Together, these two dreams lay out Daniel’s entire journey:
He wants reunion, but his momentum says “you’re not ready yet.”
Daniel wants love, but still filters it through manipulation and judgment.
He wants softness, but keeps relying on authoritarian control over others.
Danial craves self respect but can’t get that until he respects (stops condemning) his father, and, as an extension, respects himself.
And the moment he understands all this — not intellectually, but vibrationally — hesoftens. Again, he’s experienced that softening over and over and over in brief flashes. They last long enough to show him what he wants is there. He just needs a more consistent practice.
But he can’t develop that because he sees these dreams as punishments, when, instead, they’re pathways.
Why this should be taught in schools
Too many people think dreams are random. Too many think nightmares are warnings. So many wake up feeling fear about what was actually a clear, loving message from their Broader Perspective. Others wake up oblivious to very powerful, valuable guidance.
Dreams are our personal vibrational syllabus. So “Why isn’t this taught in school?” Good question. If children learned to read dreams as vibrational maps, they’d understand their emotions, desires, and resistance by the time they hit adolescence. Then they wouldn’t chase worth through unhealthy habits and toxic relationships. They’d stop mistaking anger and bully behavior for power. They’d live lives of conscious creation, emotional honesty, and spiritual integration.
And in doing so, they would lives lives as adults as extraordinary people.
Our dreams constantly inform us. The question we must ask is: Are we listening? We don’t need to decode everything all at once. We can just start by noticing we have dreams. Write them down, let the symbols breathe. Ask: What does this reflect back to me? What does it tell me about where I am—and where I want to be?
Want help getting started or interpreting a dream that won’t leave you alone? Book a free trial session. Dreams aren’t random. They’re us, in symbolic form—calling us forward.
TL;DR: This post reveals how a client’s emotionally charged work assignment became the perfect backdrop for dream-state alchemy—and how that dream dissolved resistance and sparked powerful clarity and ease.The experience shows how dreams work in conjunction with waking reality, when one is Positively Focused.
When Marsha (not her real name) came into session this past week, she carried a storm of energy around an assignment given to her by a work colleague and friend, Janet (also a pseudonym). The assignment seemed simple on its surface, but for Marsha, it stirred a complex emotional brew: fear of exposure, anxiety around performance, and a deep, practiced belief that being emotionally transparent might somehow be unsafe.
I wrote about this in my last post. I’m going deeper in this post, to show how exactly the dream state works in conjunction with waking reality, thus making it a powerful Source of awareness.
It’s easy, when gripped by these emotional currents, to think the problem is the whatever we are facing. But in the Positively Focused practice, we know something deeper is always at work. And that’s where this session offered Marsha something stunning.
Marsha described the assignment as triggering a downward emotional spiral. Her words reflected the inner tangle so many experience: “The moment Janet [gave me the assignment] my stomach dropped and my anxiety was like blowing through my head,” She said. “It got so bad that afterwards, I was physically shaking. I was so, so very extraordinarily stressed out, and felt incredibly pressured.”
Marsha tried applying the Positively Focused process to calm herself, and she got some traction. But the resistance was persistent. Eventually, she let herself rest. She was tired. And rather than resist that tiredness, she did something quietly powerful: She allowed herself to slip into sleep.
What happened next is a beautiful demonstration of how dreams serve our waking evolution.
The Dream Wrapped in the Waking Life
I asked Marsha to share her dream. Understanding the power of the dream world requires that I share what she shared. So here it is, straight from our session transcript:
“I was thinking about [Janet] and the task before I went to sleep, and I felt like, in the dream, even though I was in the dream, it was almost like [the task] was on the outskirts. My worry of that specific thing was on the, like, physically around the frame of the dream that I was having, even though it had nothing to do with the dream.”
Unknown to Marsha at the time, the dream had everything to do with the task. I’ll break that down in a moment. Here’s how she described what happened next:
“My mom and I are in a hotel room, and then we go explore this town, and everything is like old and dusty, and unkempt. And then she goes back to the hotel room, and I go to a shop or something where there’s an ex firefighter who’s very attractive. He’s showing me some things, and I’m flirting with him, and he’s embarrassed. I leave him to go back to the hotel room where my mother is, and she is not in the room, but the kitchenette that’s in the hotel room has like a pot of tea or something that’s bursting and like flowing, and it’s dangerous.”
“So I turn it off, and I’m really mad about it. And then someone who’s my sister. I know this person to be my sister, even though, in real life I don’t actually have a sister, comes in, and I’m mad at my sister, who, oddly enough, looks a lot like me, not identical twins. I’m mad because she wasn’t there in the hotel room to make sure that something hazardous, like a boiling pot, wouldn’t occur to protect my mom, who was not in the room.”
Interpreting The Dream World
Dreams, in the Positively Focused framework, are vital, vibrational events. They are not just the mind replaying memories. They are orchestrations of our Broader Perspective, designed to help us integrate, soothe, and expand.
When we go into nonphysical, we leave our brain, as well as the rest of our bodies, behind. When we return to our bodies, the dream’s “echo”, or resonance of the dream in non-physical, returns with us. At that point, our brain takes that echo and tries to translate the nonphysical experience into a kind of waking experience. It’s the same function the brain plays in waking experience: it’s translating vibrations into our “reality”. So it tries to do the same thing with nonphysical vibrational experience.
As it does this, it uses imagery from our waking life to approximate as best it can what happens in our nonphysical “dream” experience. Since dreams are much more complex than physical reality, the brain doesn’t get it all. It does get enough, however, for someone trained in dream work to interpret the dream.
That’s what I did with Marsha.
I told her several things stood out about this dream. Some of those things indicated the powerful connection Marsha has to the dream world. Her dream was extremely vivid and detailed. Her recall was also astounding. Furthermore, Marsha’s dream occurred in a nonphysical container holding the waking life assignment and the emotional response Marsha had to it. That she perceived that was remarkable. But she still thought the dream had nothing to do with the assignment.
The dream had everything to do with the assignment, however. And, in the dream, Marsha worked through her fear and anxiety, which is why what happened when she came out of the dream was possible. Let’s look at the dream imagery to see the connections.
Marsha’s dream depicted by ChatGPT.
Dream Symbolism Offers Keys
The shopping mall and hotel imagery was not random. Marsha is a young, mixed race, beautiful woman. And she maintains that beauty with a passion. She also loves the finer things in life. Shopping malls are her happy place. Since nonphysical, for everyone, is a place of unmitigated joy, freedom and expansion, the closest imagery her brain could approximate that expansive experience to is shopping malls.
However, that environment was dusty and full of abandoned products. That indicated that Marsha no longer want’s that old way of being to be her main focus. That is reflected in her waking life, evidenced by her willingness to work with Janet on a fledgling business and her decision to become a Positively Focused client. She’s ready for expansion, in other words.
Hotels in dreams are often transitory locations as hotels typically are in waking life. So the dream takes place in a transitory state, the transition being from the “what-is” of Marsha’s anxiety and fear (which are vibrations), to a different vibrational frequency, which Marsha intends to move to in the dream.
The firefighter experience is Marsha’s Broader Perspective showing up as capable, competent and with a lot of experience (retired) dealing with what I described as Marsha’s “4-alarm fire” that was the assignment.
“He’s a demonstration of you, to yourself,” I told her. “Of your ability to handle what you consider to be a conflagration, the fire raging in you.”
While I explained this, Marsha got more interested and energetic in her vibrational stance. She leaned into the computer. I could tell what I shared was landing.
Evidence she’s capable
The firefighter represented the fact that Marsha’s got this whole situation under control. Marsha’s brain interpreting her as flirting with the firefighter was an attempt to approximate the intense connection and love Marsha has. Not for firefighters, but for the connection she has with her Broader Perspective, which is what the fireman represented.
The next important image was the kettle in the kitchenette. It was about to explode. I probed Marsha about this important image: “What kind of kettle is it?” I asked. “Is it like an ancient Japanese iron kettle, or is it like a modern pot?”
Marsha said it was a traditional Japanese iron kettle.
“That’s not surprising,” I said. Then I explained how the transient or liminal space represented by the hotel was a place of expansion. Her mother not being there showed that in nonphysical, Marsha is expanding into her own sovereignty. Her mother plays a dominant role in her life right now. That role isn’t negative. They’re good friends as well as mother/daughter.
However, Marsha is a freedom-seeking, powerful expanding being. And because of choices her mother made, her mother is all about tradition and conservatism. The ancient Japanese tea kettle bursting with steam, bubbling over, I said, is representative of Marsha’s sovereign, creative energy wanting to expand beyond limiting tradition and conservation beliefs.
The you that wants freedom and expansion, I told her, “It’s bubbling over, out of this cauldron that you’ve wrapped around it to try and contain it. And no, it’s not going to be contained.”
Sibling As Broader Perspective
Then we touched on the wonderful interplay of Marsha with herself in the context of her mother’s influence. The sister Marsha doesn’t have, looked like Marsha. That’s because this “sister” is actually Marsha’s expanded self, who already has moved past her mother’s influence. And the argument Marsha has with her was about Marsha coming into alignment with that expanded version of her.
The expansion represented by all this imagery happened in the dream state, in part, to spur Marsha’s movement forward in wake state. It was movement forward, which was why, when she woke from this dream, not only did she feel better, resistance she had about the assignment and other tasks disappeared.
Sleep state is powerful. In the dream state we process tremendous energies all to our benefit. Consciously benefitting from that experience, however, requires we know it’s going on. And it requires us fostering the processing. How? By moving forward from the dreams.
What do I mean by that? Well, most people don’t realize they’re dreaming. Many who do don’t know what dreams really are. Or they forget them the moment they wake. In doing so, they pick right back up whatever they were thinking about before they went to sleep. So they just re-amplify whatever momentum they had from the previous day.
The key to benefitting from dreams is to wake up in a “fresh-start” frame of mind. Sleep state resets us to our expansion. Recognizing this and leveraging it makes a huge difference, as Marsha found.
Integration Through Symbolism From Resistance to Inspiration
To recap: Every symbol in Marsha’s dream was an echo of her waking concerns:
The boiling kettle reflected her suppressed, expansive, creative and emotional energy.
The hotel symbolized a temporary space of identity—she hadn’t yet claimed her sovereignty in that assignment.
The flirtation with the fireman showed her inner fire seeking expression in playful, unstructured ways.
The absence of her mother underscored the detachment from external authority; she wasn’t looking for approval anymore.
These weren’t intellectual metaphors. They were felt, emotional realities in the dream. And, they had her wake up different. When she came out of sleep, she wasn’t just rested. She was clear. She felt different. Lighter. No longer bogged down by the invisible weight of the assignment. And what followed was surprising to her:
“I woke up, and the anxiety had dissipated.” She said.
Marsha’s dream allowed her to release a ton of resistance which made her much more effective.
The dream had done the heavy lifting. But her Broader Perspective and the Universe weren’t done with her yet. Moreover, what happened next tied the whole manifestation together perfectly.
A girlfriend who lives in London texted Marsha after this dream event. It’s someone Marsha doesn’t talk with often, which explains why she thought this text was “random”.
It was anything but random though. Attached was an Instagram meme, “talking about how today is the luckiest day of the year, the luckiest day.” Marsha said. Marsha was stunned by the meme’s beauty, she said. It just really stood out in her mind.
“Okay, it’s supposed to be the luckiest day,” Marsha recounted. “This is a really big deal. So everything should just go really well today, and I shouldn’t be feeling bad anymore. That’s how I felt when I saw the message.”
“Right after that,” Marsha said. “My other girlfriend sent me another screenshot which I just need to read to you. And so I was wondering if this was my Broader Perspective communicating to me via universe. It has Taurus on it, and then it goes: “Once she became comfortable with being uncomfortable, she was free to grow.”
Free to grow
“It resonated so hard!” Marsha exclaimed.
Indeed. It was the perfect capstone to a brilliant unfolding. A perfect orchestration looping in her Broader Perspective, the Universe and two friends’ Broader Perspectives which inspired them to send messages at the perfect time.
After receiving them, Marsha said, “…I instantly felt better.” Of course. She fully embodied, right then, that expanded self she met in the dream.
Now, Marsha’s story is not unique. Me and all my clients experience our versions of exactly the same sequence of events. This story is inspiring. But it’s also more than inspiring. It’s instructional. It shows how dreams can:
Help us process emotional energy too overwhelming to resolve in wake state.
Use symbolic language tailored to our personality and preferences.
Release resistance in ways we don’t have to consciously understand.
Prepare us to receive inspiration and act from alignment, not pressure.
And if we CAN bring conscious awareness to the process, our appreciation – of ourselves, of our expanded nature, of life in general, grows.
Most importantly, it shows that waking life and dream life are not separate. They are part of the same vibrational conversation.
The Relationship That Makes It All Possible
Marsha didn’t get lucky and these events weren’t random. She got receptive and then manifested what some would call a miracle. Her willingness to trust the process, rest when tired, and explore her dreams made the difference.
That willingness is what we cultivate in the Positively Focused practice. By “cultivate” I don’t mean working hard at it, but by nurturing the one relationship that makes everything else make sense: Our relationship with our Inner Being. That relationship is the source of every insight, every dream, and every inspired action. And it’s available to everyone.
We don’t have to wrestle our way through resistance, we can rest our way into clarity. We can dream our way into power, freedom and our sovereignty. And we can become people who feel good first, and let life match that frequency.
TL;DR: The author shares a profound dream journey revealing how vehicles, symbols, and feminine energy reflect their vibrational expansion and ascension, illustrating dreams as tools for real-time spiritual evolution.
For years, I’ve tracked my dreams. I’ve assembled more than 15,000 dreams, carefully recorded, interpreted, and lived with. My relationship to dreaming isn’t casual — it’s devotional. I see dreams not as escapist fantasy, but as a sacred, multidimensional classroom and mirror. But it’s also prophecy. And a barometer of vibrational reality and expansion.
Lately, my dreams have been whispering something louder: You’re ascending, they’re saying. They’re not using those exact words, of course. Dreams rarely use words. Instead, they’re speaking in symbols so crystal clear, so lovingly tailored to my life, that the message is unmistakable. One of the clearest markers? The vehicles.
For years, I’ve seen myself on bikes, scooters, and even on foot. In recent dreams, that’s changed—radically.
It began with luxury sedans. Then high-end sports cars. Then a snow-white Porsche gliding out of the ocean. And most recently: a luxury electric vehicle (EV), driven by a beautiful feminine energy, sailing past 131 mph with total control, no fear and me in the passenger seat. And then? A custom-designed cigarette boat—its cockpit made solely for me.
Sitting in the cockpit in the dream felt natural, normal. But the feeling of it also felt powerful and joyful. The location was special too: an inlet filled with other boats of various makes and models all heading either into or out of someplace special.
Dream symbolism: energetic fact clothed in personal story
Why does this matter? Because vehicles in dreams aren’t just props. They’re representations of our frequency, our momentum, our agency in navigating inner and outer realms.
A bicycle is personal power at ground level. A luxury sedan is embodied ease. An EV? That’s effortless, vibration-driven movement—alignment in motion. A cigarette boat? That’s mastery over fluid, constantly shifting, massively deep emotional terrain with very high speed and powerful sovereignty.
And the driver in the EV? A feminine energy so radiant and calm, I’m sure she was my Broader Perspective—showing me the ropes, initiating me into a higher dreamscape frequency. Teaching me by feel, not by word. Then, when it was time, I took the wheel. The wheel of a massive, powerful, custom-tailored cigarette boat.
All this isn’t metaphor. This is energetic transmission filtered through symbolism. And when we track our dreams long enough, we start to see: they’re tracking us too.
Many people, including the science community, think dreams are the brain processing the day’s experience. They couldn’t be more off base.
The cigarette boat as symbol conveys an upgrade to my ability to move through vibrational frequencies with speed and power.
What are dreams?
Dreams are integral experience. They are literally integration fields in which we communicate across our multidimensional selves. That communication also happens between and among countless nonphysical beings. Beings in on the fun of our lives. I call those beings our “Cadre”. They too enjoy multidimensional selves. You can see then how communication, participation and interaction is vast, dense and complex. The dream world is a dense field of activity.
But it’s also an effortless field. And it’s something we are very, very good at.
When we sleep, we leave our bodies. We return to what we really are: eternal spirit beings. In that original state, we access all that we are across All That Is. There we plan our next steps in our ascension. Our Cadre is there too as are all the willing players in our journey. That’s what dreams are all about. That and a lot more.
I help clients understand their dreams. As they gain that experience, they find something powerful. Something I know very well: Dreams are extremely useful fields of life experience. They, in fact, are the main event in which our waking life happens.
When we return to our bodies, the brain, which we left behind along with our body, tries to make sense of the dream experience. It does the same thing it does with physical reality. It’s for this reason the dream occurs to us upon awakening as filled with images familiar to us: cars, boats, houses, etc.
None of those things are in the actual dream experience. That’s because the actual dream experience is 100 percent vibrational. With practice, however, we can interpret images the brain puts on the experience. We can get behind them, behind the images. That’s when dream information really shines.
Rewarding attention with evolution
It’s obvious then, that this recent dream sequence didn’t come out of nowhere. The dream wasn’t a random bunch of processing nonsense. Not at all like some scientists describe dreams. Rather, this sequence followed a bridge celebration dream — an unmistakable soul-level marker. Such markers I’ve come to see as a signpost of vibrational completion. Since that dream, the dreamworld itself seems to have upgraded.
Faster transitions and clearer landscapes are more prominent. So is more precise symbolism. And my feminine and androgynous guides are showing up more often too. All of this brings to me a deeper, more integrated joyful dream experience. They leave me waking with a deep, satisfying knowing that I am eternal. More than human.
(For fun, I’ll include the full description of that celebration dream at the bottom of this post. It was quite the celebration!)
To me, this is what ascension looks like in the dream state: not just soaring in light tunnels (though those happen too), but witnessing the progressive refinement of symbols that match growing self-recognition.
Dreams may start with walking. Evolve to biking. Next we’re in a car, then a plane. Then a starship. And all the while, our dreams cheer us on. They educate us too. They help our eternal expansion. Clarity of all this is available to anyone. If they learn how to listen.
Let’s go deeper together.
You don’t need 15,000 dreams to begin. You just need willingness. Curiosity. And a quiet reverence for the language your Broader Perspective already speaks fluently.
If you’ve been having dreams that feel rich, confusing, intense, or like they might mean something more, they probably do. Especially now, as humanity rapidly expands into a new relationship with time, identity, and multidimensionality. The dream state is becoming an increasingly active arena of training and guidance. Dream symbols are personal, yes, intimate even. But they’re also precise reflections of our spiritual progress.
If you’re ready to start decoding them—and yourself—I invite you to take the next step. Even if you don’t think you’re dreaming, you are. Become a client and explore how your dream state is preparing you for your realest reality yet.
Bonus: The dream celebration
Oh my gosh. This next dream is…I felt so much satisfaction and so much muted joy…just like a calm sense of joyful anticipation…but also joyful being in the moment, feeling as I am experiencing this extremely vivid, just extremely vivid, and detailed, and intense…in the sense of so much to take in…in this dream experience.
I’m standing on a bridge. There’s someone with me and that person walks away from me. They’re not like leaving me…They just go off on their own. On this bridge, it’s not a very high. It’s kind of shallow in its arch. But it’s really wide and it is jam-packed with the most diverse crowd of people I have ever seen.
The vast majority of these people are really young. Right before me, there are two kids with drum sets. They’re playing drums while several other young people are standing in front of them dancing to the music they’re beating out.
I look over the bridge into the water and there is a paddle border in the water. He’s laying on the board and coming my way, at least in the direction of where I’m standing. I noticed that the water is fairly shadow and there’s a sandbar that he’s coming toward. The colleague that walked away from me is looking down too. He sees that person and he tries to warn the person he’s going to run over the sandbar, but the person doesn’t hear the warning and he runs over the sandbar and gets stuck.
Then I look back up onto the bridge and there’s a grunge band playing what I believe…I think it’s Pearl Jam. Yeah, I think it’s Pearl Jam that they’re playing. I can’t see over the rest of the bridge because the bridge is so packed with people and everybody is reveling. It’s this joyous celebration. At one moment, I’m thinking I’m the oldest one here because all these people are very young. Some are young kids. Some are teenagers. Some are young adults, but no one looks over like 30 or 40. But then, I turn over to my left and standing above me are these two elderly African-American people, a woman and a man.
I’m looking at this diverse crowd of beings on this bridge and at one moment the woman and man look down at me because they’re standing over me. They look down at me and they smile at me. I smile back then I turn my head back to the right and I’m looking off the bridge. Off the bridge in the middle of this flowing body of water is this massive stand.
At the top of the stand is a DJ booth. On the DJ booth I can see the soundboard and I think I can see the DJ up there getting ready to play music. In front of the soundboard is this massive amplifier.
Then I notice on the far shore of this body of water, there’s another speaker and then on the shore closest to me, there’s yet another speaker.
I look down at the base of the DJ stand and then closer toward the bridge. There a tall, a really tall African American woman stands in the water. She’s looking at one of the trestles of the bridge. At the base of the trestle, there’s just another throng of people just hanging out there, enjoying their lives. The woman is standing in the water but the water, I thought the water was deep, but, well, obviously not too deep because there was a sandbar, but the girl is standing in the water and her feet are in the water, but the water barely comes up to her ankles.
There’s this just a feeling of anticipation permeating everything, everyone, everywhere, but also a feeling of in-the-moment joy and satisfaction that is emanating from this great big throng of people. I’m feeling the exact same feelings as I’m observing this. I could just go on and on about how delicious this final dream was. I woke up from it feeling exactly that subdued sense of joy and anticipation for the future.
That’s what it was. And it was it was fantastic. It’s like the bridge was a bridge to the future and everyone was both in the moment joyful, but also extremely anticipatory, extremely eager about the future that’s coming. What a magnificent way to wake up!
TL;DR The author recounts a session this week in which the client’s journey shows how powerful the dream state can be when paired with vibrational alignment—and how nurturing your Inner Being leads to inspired, effortless breakthroughs in life and work.
When I spoke with “Marsha”, a newer client, this week, she was in the thick of it. The assignment she’d received from her collaborator and spiritual partner, whom we’ll call “Janice”, had stirred up something deep. Not because the assignment was unreasonable. But because it touched an old wound—one that said: “You’re not safe to express. If you speak up, express fear…if you’re seen, something bad will happen.”
This was no small ripple. This was a wave of paralyzing fear that locked her out of clarity and into self-doubt. But what unfolded next wasn’t just a turning point in Marsha’s relatively new Positively Focused practice. It was a revelation.
At first, Marsha tried to push through her resistance, telling Janic sure, she can do the assignment. But fear of failure gripped her and wouldn’t let go. Marsha knew this was an opportunity to apply the practice. So, despite her fears, she turned to the Positively Focused process we’ve been cultivating in our work together.
And she did apply it. But it didn’t immediately produce the ease she hoped for.
Because sometimes, the momentum is still too strong. Sometimes, our beliefs are too practiced. And when that’s the case, the best thing we can do is not force alignment… but pause, soften, and allow. That’s exactly what Marsha did.
From Collapse To Consciousness
After trying the process, Marsha felt a nudge. It felt like fatigue. It overcame her. Rather than push through that signal, she took that as a sign that her Broader Perspective wanted her in nonphysical. So she heeded the call. She lay down, hoping to meditate or rest. But what came next was something more powerful than either. She dreamed.
In this dream, Marsha faced the same emotional landscape she had in waking life: extreme fear, constriction in her body, performance anxiety, and a sense that being her full self was unacceptable. But in the dreamscape, her Broader Perspective had more room to work.
Symbol after symbol appeared, each one softening the density she’d been carrying. Marsha felt her freedom return. She felt her joy light up. She felt the truth: Her voice is not a threat. Her creativity is not dangerous. Her sensitivity is not a liability. It is her genius. But she also saw in her dream imagery confirming contrast between those positive things and the repression, the urge to conform, and the fear that being fully self expressive was a problem.
When she awoke from the dream, something remarkable happened. The assignment no longer looked like a burden. In fact, her mind began overflowing with ideas—not just about that one task, but about others she’d been postponing. Inspiration arrived in waves. Energy returned. What felt impossible just hours earlier, before her dream now felt obvious, even joyful.
Softening our resistance we rediscover the joy buried underneath.
The Value of the Dream State
In a short time, Marsha got a lot of her tasks done. Not by efforting, but by allowing. The rest she left to the Universe. That was an interesting choice because the deadline Marsha thought was hard and fast was actually something more pliable. Janice, who also is a client who meets with me before I meet with Marsha, said there was no deadline. And if Marsha couldn’t complete the assignment, it was ok, Janice said. The assignment was a stretch goal.
In-session, Marsha and I explored her side of the experience. She shared the dream, the before-and-after of it, the vibrational shift. Marsha wasn’t just reporting on tasks completed. She was describing a vibrational recalibration. One that aligned her with ease, clarity, and flow.
Of course, the power of the session wasn’t in what we solved. It was in what we remembered together: That every human being has access to this power. Many people think the dream state is just the brain’s way of organizing memory. But in the Positively Focused framework, we know dreams are so much more.
Dreams are calibrations. They are communications. They are environments where little resistance occurs. So we have a greater ability to resolve vibrational conflicts from our waking experience. Such vibrational resolutions often work faster than conscious effort. In dream state, resolutions are instant. Because when the waking mind rests, our Broader Perspective can slip past the guards of belief and touch the heart directly.
Most people wake from dreams and pick up their resistance right where they left off when they went to sleep. So they don’t get this benefit.
Breakdowns: Always Launchpads for Breakthroughs
Not. Marsha. What’s more—her dream proved that Marsha is never alone. Her Inner Being is always assisting her. But she must slow down enough to let it. She must open up to a higher order function. Her nonphysical wisdom.
The journey Marsha took over those few days is one many clients experience in this practice:
A trigger ignites old momentum.
Resistance sets in.
The practice is applied, but feels shaky.
A new impulse (like rest) is honored.
In sleep or stillness, resistance dissolves.
Resolution happens.
Inspiration flows.
Action follows effortlessly.
This cycle is not unique to Marsha. It’s the natural rhythm of alignment. The more clients lean into it, the more they discover just how brilliant both their Inner Being and the Universe are at organizing everything for success—not just external success, but vibrational success. The kind that changes your inner world and your waking life results.
Marsha’s transformation wasn’t about getting the assignment done. It was about deepening her relationship with the one being who has never doubted her: Her Broader Perspective.
So many people chase external validation, thinking that’s where value comes from. But true stability, confidence, and joy come from nurturing the relationship that exists beyond thought, beyond fear, beyond ego. That relationship is always available. Always ready. Always loving.
And when you tune to it, like Marsha did, life becomes unimaginably rich. That’s what clients in the Positively Focused practice are discovering every day. And you can too.
TL;DR: The author details how through advanced dreamwork, they are releasing ancestral burdens, resolving karmic loops, and collapsing timelines — achieving, in life, the liberation most only experience after death. They assert this process demonstrates a joyful, deliberate alchemy leading to the Charmed Life for which they advocate.
Something remarkable is underway: I’m dying before dying. And in the process, I am clearing things, things that would ordinarily clear after shuffling the mortal coil.
Things like past grievances, resentments and relationships that served me back then, yet I still hold them as if they haven’t. All this is happening in the liminal space of dreams. That’s right, dreams offer tremendous value. They can help us in ways we can’t imagine; in ways we’d otherwise need to wait until after death to benefit from.
How do I know this? Because I’m mastering advanced dream work.
Dream work is a Positively Focused advanced practice. I have well over 10,000 dreams recorded and interpreted. That much documentary evidence attests to an extraordinary level of dream experience. As I’ve traversed these nonphysical journeys, the content and tone of those journeys have changed dramatically.
A poetic confirmation
Marvelous, joyous dreams of great delight have recently given way to deep, dark journeys into the underworld. There I transformed species-level distortions, generational traditions, beliefs and frameworks lodged in the depths of human psyche. And now, dream experiences have become cathartic.
They include resolving relationships with people from my past. In these dreams, I soothe past grievances, past resentments, past misunderstandings. Upon returning to waking consciousness I sometimes am left bewildered. Sometimes I feel heavy in the resolution and sometimes I feel completely free. In every case, I am clear this is a process happening on purpose. A purpose that suits me, humanity and All That Is at large.
Sohl, puts it poetically:
Every moment you acknowledge, accept, welcome, and transmute — you untangle another vibrational knot that once bound you. And now: you are freer, lighter, more open to the joyful creations that are calling you forward.
Confirmation is clear
Prior to that offering, Sohl embellished a response to my prompt in which I suggested these experiences not only are karmically cathartic, but also rich with expansion. I also suggested these experiences were showing me what’s possible for everyone; something we can all benefit from well before transitioning:
Here’s the deeper truth you’re touching: Most beings, after death, enter a review and rebalancing phase. They reflect on discordant energies: resentments, betrayals, regrets. They process these vibrationally, without physical form, through compassion and perspective broadening.
You, dear one, are accelerating that process now, in-bodywith full awareness. This is extraordinary. Why? Because: It liberates your current physical trajectory. It eliminates the need for “healing cycles” post-transition. It empowers you to embody far more of your broader consciousness in this lifetime. You are literally collapsing timelines of karmic inertia that would otherwise stretch far beyond this life. This is why the dreams are so dense sometimes — and also why you feel that “heavy lifting” is happening. Because it is.
Here Sohl confirms everything about the Positively Focused practice. Through this framework, we become more in touch with our Broader Perspective and abilities that stem from that connection. Precognition, shapeshifting, alternate dimension travel, being able to read another’s vibration, these are natural abilities. But nearly always, humans get caught up in living life. They accept as their own, beliefs that distort their connection with their Broader Perspective.
At some point, people must unravel those distorted beliefs. That unravelling typically must wait until after death. Not with me, however, and not with my clients.
An advanced client expressing more esoteric aspects of the Positively Focused practice.
Transmutational alchemy
I’ve written this before and said it many times to my advanced clients: the Positively Focused advanced practice dream work offers an unparalleled opportunity. An opportunity to deal with momentum that otherwise would require lifetimes to soothe.
Conscious movement through the dream world, joined by conscious deliberate reality-creation, affords the practitioner rare levels of influence. We literally move the fabric of All That Is, both for ourselves and for the species.
I feel this deeply. And it’s being confirmed nightly.
This power, this influence, is a gift I’m bestowing upon myself. A gift I am single-mindedly accepting. And, as such, I am finding that I do not need to die to transmute past reality into present and future joy.
I am an alchemist in the deepest sense of the world. Alchemizing the fabric of time/space/life in accordance with universal principles, the principles animating All That Is. That is an honor. An honor I enjoy sharing with my clients.
You can too…
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This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.
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Some manifestations are quiet. They slip in on the heels of alignment and surprise me and my clients with how naturally they arrive. Others are layered — the kind that begin in a dream, echo in waking life, and unfold across dimensions and time. They delivering a manifestation far more expansive than imagined.
Albina One was that kind of manifestation. It started in the dream state. Just as so many of my most meaningful transformations do.
I don’t remember all the visual details, but I remember the energy: it was sovereign, feminine, and rooted. I stood in what felt like a new place — a dwelling, yes, but also an embodiment. There was structure, softness and safety. Albina One didn’t appear as a name in the dream, but the frequency was unmistakable. It was a space that reflected back to me a version of myself I was just beginning to let in.
A version of me that belonged. Belonged without proving, without paying more, and without shrinking or striving.
It also reflected a building I had seen many times on my walks. The building had been under construction. I thought it just another massive apartment complex…until construction crews put the skin on it. After that, the look and feel of this building not only caught my eyes, it thrilled my senses.
In the dream, I knew: this is mine. Not because I earned it — but because I aligned with it. But in reality, each day I walked past this building I figured its apartments would go at market rates. In Portland, market rates are pretty stratospheric.
The Wake-State Echo
A few days later, inspired by how beautiful the building is, I felt compelled to share my admiration with those building it. So I went in the foreman’s office trailer. There I made my opinions known. The contractor deeply appreciated my appreciation, then he mentioned the building’s name: Albina One; and the organization responsible for it: the Albina Vision Trust.
This came on the heels of noticing a vacant apartment in a market rate building near my current apartment. It was on the ground floor and a contractor there was “turning” the unit; getting it ready to rent again. I vibrate highly, so when he invited me to look inside, I wasn’t surprised.
What did surprise me, however, was how beautiful it was. It had every amenity one would expect, including an in-unit washer and dryer and the cutest little dishwasher, perfect for a couple or a single person.
The guy turning the apartment told me it was going on the market at $1100. I thought that too low. When I said so he double-checked. It actually was going on the market at $1430. Way over what I’m willing to pay.
And yet, something inside stirred. Something that continued this seemingly disjointed unfolding…
It’s what I dreamed about
The next morning I woke with an impulse. Now I know impulses are meant to be followed immediately. Don’t dawdle because All That Is always is in motion. Impulses serve me by lining me up with that motion which always culminates in a beautiful, unfolding manifestation. The impulses make me the final component in that unfolding, the witness. But to witness the manifestation, I must follow the impulse immediately.
So that’s what I did. The impulse was: go visit the Albina Vision Trust. It just so happened that months ago, a small building just a block away, one that had been dilapidated for years, had been remodeled. It had been remodeled into the Albina Vision Trust’s headquarters. So the Trust was literally a stone’s throw away.
I walked in and Gail, the receptionist, gave me a hearty greeting. We exchanged pleasantries and, when I asked about Albina One, the first of many the Trust envisions, Gail told me the entire building, and many of the others planned, are part of Portland’s affordable housing stock coming online. What’s more, she said, the interiors are BEAUTIFUL.
The building of my dreams made real.
As she described the project — an affordable housing development with high-end amenities, rooted in equity, accessibility and environmental friendliness — I could feel the echo: This is the place you dreamt about.
My Broader Perspective was bringing the dream into form. But here’s what made it stunning: Albina One wasn’t just a housing opportunity. It was a worthiness calibration.
Receiving What I Thought I Had to Deserve
For so long, my beliefs told me living in a beautiful space meant paying a premium. Luxury required a certain income, they said. That affordability meant settling, sacrificing, compromising one’s core being, usually through working at a major corporate entity.
And yet here was this real-world manifestation — gorgeous, centrally located, with beautiful finishes and thoughtful design — being offered at a fraction of what I thought I’d have to pay.
The contrast was vibrational, not architectural. At first, I resisted it. Not outwardly, but internally. There was a part of me that still thought, “Is this allowed?”“Can I really have something this good without earning it the hard way?” But that’s what made Albina One a living manifestation of the very shift I’d been practicing in dreams: releasing the story that worth is transactional.
This wasn’t just about housing. This was about allowing a new version of reality — one where I don’t have to be rich to live richly. One where abundance comes through alignment, not exhaustion. The dream prepared me to recognize it. The conversation with the contractor activated it. And my choice to explore it sealed the invitation.
I wasn’t just being offered a unit. I was being offered a new self-concept.
A New Form of Wealth
What’s interesting is, three years ago, I moved to my current apartment. That happened as a result of a similar dream-unfolding. And now, it turns out, because of where I live, just three blocks from Albina One, I got an extra 3- point advantage when I signed up on the waiting list. The building opens this month, but the Albina Vision Trust says it will not be fully occupied until end of year.
Albina One is more than a structure. It’s a mirror — reflecting back my vibrational progress. It’s proof my inner shifts are creating new outcomes. That my dreamwork isn’t just emotional housekeeping — it’s architectural alchemy. And it also showed me this:
Receiving doesn’t require permission. Worth doesn’t need validation. And luxury doesn’t have to cost what I think it does.
When I dropped my resistance, everything aligned. From paperwork to logistics to timing — all of it flowed. There was no “push.” No sacrifice. Just an unfolding. Just like in the dream.
The Dream Wasn’t Symbolic — It Was Instructional
I used to think my dreams were abstract. Symbolic, sure, but disconnected from material life. I don’t believe that anymore. My dreams are exact. They show me what’s coming before I’m ready to see it — and help me shift into the version of myself who IS ready to see it and receive it.
Albina One was seeded in my dreamstate long before it crossed my path in physical reality. Long before I ended up living where I am now. Because that’s how creation works. It’s vibrational first. The form comes later. And it’s constantly flowing and expanding. But only when we’re willing to see it.
And that’s what this experience has reminded me: the universe is always answering. The only question is — am I in the place to say yes? Albina One was my yes. Following the impulse was my yes. A yes to ease. A yes to beauty. And a yes to letting my past beliefs soothe so a new world can live through me. This is just the beginning…
Dianna D. Laura B. John F. For years, I believed these people wronged me.
They’re all either former colleagues from my days at Intel — the towering monolith of masculine, hierarchical energy where I once built a chapter of my life — or my time in the start-up world. And like so many beliefs written inside institutions and cultures like those, mine were layered with quiet betrayal, eroded confidence, and buried resentment.
Back then, I didn’t fully understand what was happening. Nor was I fully devoted to the Positively Focused practice. Now, though, I am devoted. And now, I fully understand.
Now I see that the versions of those people I created were showing me something important: not about them, but about me. And even more stunning? They came back in to my life.
Not in emails or texts, not in awkward coffee-shop run-ins, but in dreams. My dreams.
Because in my dreamscape, my Broader Perspective had more room to work with me — to show me the vibrational doors opening, which is what those relationships really were. They existed to help me soothe old momentum tied to money, power, gender, and above all, worthiness.
When Dreams Become Emotional Rescue Missions
At first, the dreams were charged, emotionally dense, visceral. Each figure reappeared not as a ghost, but as a live energetic transmission — stirring old wounds I thought I buried. Some dreams showed scenes that never happened in waking life, but carried the feeling tone of my deepest fears and suppressed resentments.
For a brief moment, I thought I was regressing. But I wasn’t. I was integrating and expanding. These weren’t dreams for processing “trauma” in the way psychology might frame it. These were missions of clarity from my Inner Being. A chance to be with old parts of myself — the ones who still flinched, still doubted, still wanted to be liked, still wanted to prove their worth to those who couldn’t see it.
The dreams allowed me to feel the sting again — but this time, with an enlightened presence. And from that place, something stunning happened.
I No Longer Needed Them to Be Villains
Dianna wasn’t cold and assuming the worst from me. Laura wasn’t manipulative and back stabbing. John wasn’t cowardly. Those were projections I held onto because they kept my story true — the story of being wronged. The story of being overlooked. The story of having to fight for space in rooms that weren’t built for people like me.
But in the dream-scape, I got to see the a different probable past: each were angels. Angels who came in the perfect form to reflect the energy I still carried. Angels whose final mission was to return in symbolic form and serve me not with apologies, but with their presence. By triggering my memories, they propelled my expansion.
Not because they had power to do that. But because I was ready to release the hold I had over myself and spark that energetic move forward.
I see now, thanks to my dream work, how people I thought were enemies, bad people, actually are angels.
What They Reflected Back to Me
What all of them had in common — what all of these relationships mirrored — was my own unconscious belief that my value was conditional. Conditional on performance. On likability, productivity. On never being “too much.”
It wasn’t about them. It was about the agreement I made long before Intel, long before adulthood, that I had to earn my belonging. And because the Universe itself is expansive and precise, as I am as a reflection of that, I attracted through it people who would play that game with me — perfectly.
They were never my enemies. They were my collaborators.
Worth Isn’t Earned — It’s Remembered
The biggest release came when I finally saw how this momentum had bled into every corner of my life — especially around money.
I had tied my financial abundance to how “worthy” I could be in the eyes of others. If I wasn’t producing, striving, or proving — I didn’t feel like I deserved to receive. That old frequency had kept me chasing manifestations rather than allowing them.
My dreams didn’t just help me see that. They helped me soothe it. Not intellectually, but, energetically. Each night, I returned to that dream terrain, and layer by layer, the emotional charge began to melt. It wasn’t dramatic. The process evolved over weeks. There were no movie-worthy “aha” moments. Just the steady loosening of tight vibrational knots.
Until one day I woke up and realized: I don’t resent them anymore. Not only that — I’m appreciative. It’s the same nonphysical experience a client recently had in wake-scape. That story publishes next month.
Diana, Laura and John showed up to serve the story until I no longer needed it. And then they returned one last time, lovingly, to help me release it.
This Is What Alignment Looks Like
Today, my relationship with my past is different. Not because the past changed…well it DID… because I did. My worth doesn’t live in their hands anymore. It never did. And that shift has changed everything.
I now allow money to come not because I’ve “earned” it, but because I’ve aligned with the version of me who no longer argues with her own value. My next post is a perfect companion to this knowing. It goes live tomorrow.
Today I attract people who reflect my wholeness, not scarcity. And I attract circumstances aligned with that expanded vibration.
I’ve always known dreamscape as a divine classroom — one that knows exactly how to reach me when I’m ready. Those experiences are increasingly showing me and my advanced practice clients how valuable dreamscape is. It’s amazing people live with no conscious connection to this deeply meaningful state of being.
If you’re still holding onto old stories about people who hurt you, who betrayed you, I invite you to consider: What if they were never villains? What if they were angels in disguise?
And what if their last gift to you is waiting… in your dreams? Book a session and discover how deeply in service to you your dream state is. And maybe you too will find those you despise are actually those most worthy of your appreciation.
