Category: Charmed Life

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What Happens When You Make the Wind Your Ally

TL;DR: The author relates a story of a client, a college maintenance manager, who faces two setbacks during work. But by shifting perspective, he demonstrates a key aspect of alignment, and in doing transforms these “setbacks” into joy, abundance, and vibrational sovereignty.

There’s a subtle art to living a sovereign life — an art few ever know about let along consciously choose to master. It begins not with rearranging outer circumstances, but by observing the unfolding of experience. Observing it and discovering one’s agency within it. That agency, in the Positively Focused practice, shows up in three primary stages:

Post-Manifestational Awareness: When we realize, after something has already happened, that we could have influenced the outcome — but didn’t. The awareness comes after manifestation, but still offers wisdom.

Mid-Manifestational Awareness: When something is unfolding, and we know we could shape it… but we don’t. Not because we don’t want to, but because dominant momentum — emotional, habitual, historical — keeps us in reaction mode rather than creation mode.

Pre-Manifestational Awareness: When we recognize the unfolding in real time, remember our agency, and consciously activate it — transforming the experience before it completes, thereby alchemizing the moment into something aligned, sovereign, and beautiful as a manifestation.

What one of my clients — let’s call him Kyle — recently demonstrated was a shining example of that final stage. And it all started with a leaf blower.

Stormy Weather and the Setup for Contrast

Kyle works at a college campus, where part of his job is groundskeeping. On a recent Saturday, he showed up expecting a team effort to clean up leaves scattered across the main quad.

But the weather had other plans. It was cold, windy, and wet — the kind of day where even committed coworkers mysteriously “get sick.” One by one, Kyle realized: no one else was coming. He took a breath. And he got to work.

For hours, he methodically cleared the entire quad of autumn leaves — solo. His muscles ached. His feet throbbed. But he pushed through, determined to finish the job. And finally… he did. The quad looked pristine. He stood back to admire the work. There was a sense of accomplishment.

Then — like a perfectly scripted slapstick comedy — a massive gust of wind ripped through the campus. It left leaves everywhere. In one gust, nature rendered the entire morning’s labor undone. In seconds, the wind reversed everything — leaves blew back across the freshly cleared space. The wind erased Kyle’s efforts. Seeing this, his body tightened. His thoughts stirred. He felt a tinge of annoyance….

This was a mid-manifestational moment: he felt the contrast. Kyle knew he had agency — but hadn’t yet fully activated it. Not yet. Still, something inside him shifted. He took another breath, then began clearing leaves again.

Another Opportunity to Choose

He worked harder, faster. Kyle was determined. He got all the newly fallen leaves up. And then…another wind gust. The quad was covered again — completely. That’s when the deeper stories surfaced in Kyle: What if my boss thinks I didn’t do anything when he arrives to work Monday? What if I look lazy? What if I get in trouble for something I actually did right?

The second gust brought more anxiety and frustration, but also fear. Kyle’s emotional momentum got stronger. This time, however, Kyle didn’t just notice it. He took the reins.

He remembered that this wasn’t personal. It was vibrational. The wind was just feedback. A lovingly crafted opportunity to choose his state of being before the story crystallized. And that’s what he did.

He paused. He smiled. Then he got inspired.

He saw what was happening as a pre-manifestational doorway — an invitation from the Universe. It said: choose alignment before the story completes itself. And Kyle did exactly that. He paused. He breathed. And then he reached for a better-feeling thought.

He remembered a scene from The Secret, where the narrator describes imagining money falling from the sky like autumn leaves. And suddenly, Kyle began to imagine each leaf — not as a burden — but as a $100 bill. With this shift in perspective, the wind wasn’t working against him. It was showering him with abundance.

Turning Work Into Wealth

That’s when Kyle literally became a different person. He raced to collect the leaves like a joyful scavenger hunt. He laughed at the storm. Kyle stuffed his trailer like it was an overflowing bank vault. He even timed himself like it was a game.

By the end of the day, his body was still sore — but his vibration was radiant. Kyle not only did his job, he also achieved new heights of vibrational alchemy. What could have been a story of bitterness and burnout became one of alignment, joy, and confidence.

That’s the power of pre-manifestational awareness: it lets us shape the mirror’s image before it fully forms. Most people believe life is happening to them. They react, cope, survive. But Kyle’s story reminds us of the deeper truth: Life isn’t happening to us. It’s responding through us. When we become aware of this — even after the fact — we begin the process of reclaiming our agency.

When we become aware in the middle of a moment, we start to practice holding our power even when momentum is strong. But when we catch it before it lands — when we see the wind blow and realize, this isn’t personal, it’s perfect — that’s when we step into the real magic of deliberate creation.

Everyone Can Do What Kyle Did

You don’t need to work at a college. Nor do you need a windstorm. Life will deliver everyone their own tailor-made “leaf moments”. They may show up as a conversation that doesn’t go the way we planned. Or maybe it’s a task that feels thankless, a delay that disrupts our schedule. Or a storm that blows in at the worst time. These all are portals, opportunities to chart a course through to the divine.

And if we’re paying attention — if we remember who we are, even for a moment — we can choose. We can choose to see the leaves as money and laugh at the timing. We can choose to align before the mirror hardens. That’s pre-manifestational mastery. And like Kyle, we’re more ready for it than we think.

All it takes is a little foreknowledge and awareness and a desire to be happy above all else. It all begins with seeing everything in a positive light. That’s the foundation of the Positively Focused framework. Because positivity is a constant of the Universe. Nothing happens in the Universe that isn’t positive. And if it looks like what’s happening isn’t positive, that’s only because we don’t have a big enough picture to see it the way it actually is.

Want to know more? Reach out. Let’s talk.

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AI, Worthiness, and the Fable That Fooled Us All

TL;DR: The Aesops fable, Ant and the Grasshopper, taught us to fear rest and revere work. But AI is dissolving that illusion. Your worth was never earned — it’s inherent. The future is calling you back to who you’ve always been.

We’ve all heard the story: the ant toils all summer storing food while the grasshopper plays in the sun. Winter comes, and the ant thrives while the grasshopper suffers.

The moral? Work hard. Prepare. Don’t play too much — or we’ll pay the price. This ancient fable, often read to children, sounds like wisdom. But it hides a distortion so deep it’s shaped generations. It whispers: “Your value depends on your effort. You must earn your survival.”

That fable a lie.

And now, as we enter the AI age, that lie is unraveling fast.

AI Is Revealing the Real Crisis — And It’s Spiritual

For centuries, we’ve tied our worth to our output. We’ve built entire economies — and identities — around the idea that to receive, we must toil.

But artificial intelligence is disrupting that belief at the root. It’s poised to replace jobs of all kinds; white collar, blue collar, even creative work. And here’s the thing: the crisis coming is not going to be about labor. It’s going to be more existential. Because the crisis will be about worthiness.

We’re not afraid of robots doing our jobs. We’re afraid of realizing we were never defined by those jobs to begin with, which is why political leaders and those who recently signed an anti-AI ban are so up in arms. We’re afraid of facing the truth that we are inherently worthy — and always have been.

Elon Musk once said the real existential threat isn’t AI destroying humanity. It’s humanity not knowing who they are when their jobs no longer define them. That’s the moment we’re in.

You Were Always Worthy. Now You’re Just Seeing It.

Worthiness isn’t something we achieve. It’s something we remember. It emerges when we see — again and again — that the Universe gives us what we want in divine timing, without hustle, strain, or burnout. It gives us what we want effortlessly in other words.

We don’t have to prove anything. We don’t have to “deserve” our desires. All we need to do is align with them. Then they manifest.

That’s why stories like The Ant and the Grasshopper are so harmful. They train us to associate rest with laziness, joy with danger and play with punishment.

But the truth is, the Universe is a reflection of our inner state — not our output. And when we align with our worth, the world aligns with us.

Real Stories of Effortless Manifestation

This isn’t just philosophy. It’s real. It’s happening in my life, and in the lives of my clients.

Over the last year, I’ve materialize a brand-new, magnificent apartment space. It’s a gorgeous top-floor unit in a brand-new building — for the same price I’m paying now in a 1950s studio.

I didn’t chase it. I didn’t hustle. The entire orchestration involved thousands of people, all moving in unseen coordination. And all I had to do was follow the impulse — and say yes.

One of my clients had a similar experience. She received an inspired nudge to enter a raffle. She knew she’d win — and she did. A one-carat diamond, dropped into her lap by alignment, not action.

My client and the one carat diamond she manifested.

These are not anomalies. They are what life becomes when we live from the inside out.

The Time to Recalibrate Is Now

This moment — this very one — is our opportunity to remember what’s always been true: We don’t need to hustle to be worthy. Nor do we need to grind to be supported. We also don’t need to earn what is already yours.

And this is more than just a personal insight — it’s a collective invitation. As AI dissolves the old systems of productivity and labor, we’re being called inward. We’re being asked to re-source our value not from what we do, but from who we are.

The AI age isn’t destroying jobs. It’s destroying illusions.

And that’s a very good thing.

It’s Time to Let the Grasshopper Lead

Aesop had it backward.

The grasshopper wasn’t lazy. She was aligned. She trusted the sun, followed her joy. She danced in rhythm with a Universe that knows how to deliver exactly what is needed — exactly when it’s needed.

We were never meant to earn our worth. We were meant to embody it. And as we do, we’ll find that the “winter” we feared was never coming. It was just a story. A distorted lens. A tale designed to keep us working, even when we were already free.

So let it go.

Let the ant rest. Let the grasshopper sing. Let your alignment bring you everything you’ve ever wanted — and more.

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How My Client Found the Magic of Alignment

TL;DR: One client’s experience reveals how divine timing and creative energy work together. When you trust your worthiness, life responds instantly. Alignment, therefore isn’t earned — it’s received. And the Universe is always confirming that truth.

There’s a moment that comes when a person truly begins living from their Broader Perspective. It’s the moment contrast no longer feels like resistance — but recognition. That moment is when life starts confirming itself in the most spectacular ways.

A few weeks ago, I had a session with a client that demonstrated this perfectly. As with all my Positively Focused YouTube Channel Worthiness Wednesday stories, this one isn’t just a “feel-good” anecdote. It’s a precise illustration of how the Universe works when you let it love you.

This particular client came to our session frustrated with a coworker. In his words, this colleague wasn’t pulling his weight. That imbalance was forcing my client to shoulder more of the workload. Understandably, that annoyed him. But as we explored the situation more deeply, something beautiful emerged.

From Frustration to Forward Movement

What he hadn’t yet realized was how the contrast between his performance and his coworker’s was actually highlighting his value. Internal customers within the organization kept asking for him. They bypassed the other guy entirely. Why? Because my client had built a reputation for excellence. The contrast was illuminating that even more.

The so-called “problem” was actually a platform — a divine setup designed to make his strengths undeniable. When he saw it from that angle, he relaxed. He began to feel what I already knew: everything is always working out for him.

That truth isn’t just a catchy phrase. It’s the deepest foundation of this practice. And it’s one that becomes easier to see the more we trust our experience — especially when contrast appears.

Creative Energy and the Dance of Manifestation

After that breakthrough, our session shifted into dreamwork and deeper energetic territory. The client wanted to share a recent dream, which sparked a conversation about masculine and feminine energy — or more precisely, creative and action energies.

As I often say: these polarities have nothing to do with gender. Humans have long confused labels with essence. What we’re really talking about are the two fundamental forces of manifestation.

  • Creative energy is receptive, still, open, and potential-rich.
  • Action energy is directional, assertive, expressive, and devoted.

Creation energy doesn’t push. It beckons. Creative energy doesn’t force, it flows. And when it becomes full — when the inner vision is saturated with clarity — then action arises as a natural extension. Not as effort, but as orchestration.

IIt’s a mistake to think doing is what makes things happen. Doing isn’t the catalyst. Creation is. Action happens with ease when you’re lined up vibrationally with what has already been created. That’s the real meaning of manifestation.

Inspired Action Follows Fulfilled Creation

This client happens to be a deeply creative person — a musician, with a growing desire to bring comedy into his performances. Our session touched on how those two streams might converge in his expression.

But more importantly, we explored the energetic foundation underneath his creative desire. I reminded him that when he resides in the energy of creation — without jumping into effort — he doesn’t have to chase outcomes. The manifestation will meet him where he is.

The metaphor I shared with him was an image based on a Gustav Klimt-inspired painting: a knight kneeling at the feet of a woman, head bowed, fully surrendered. I don’t know if the artist intended it this way, but the symbolism is profound.

The knight — representing action — kneels not in weakness, but in reverent service to the feminine principle of creation. That’s not subjugation. That’s sovereignty expressed as devotion.

And so it is in all of us. True action energy doesn’t dominate. It serves the dream already conceived in silence.

The Universe Confirms Instantly

Later that day, the client sent me a voice message. It was radiant. His voice vibrated with joy. Right after our call, his partner smudged the house in response to some news about a family member. He stepped into the kitchen just as she was replaying a paused Abraham video.

And the first words spoken? “Creativity is the fun part. That’s what we’re here to do. The doing comes after that.” My client didn’t miss the synchronicity because it was exact. A few seconds later, he glanced at the computer screen. The next video that auto-played? Titled: “Action vs. Alignment — What Matters More?”

The synchronicity even shocked his partner, who also a client. She hadn’t queued up that video. It just appeared. As he said in the message: “This is how this f*ing shit works.”

For sure. When you align with your creative spark, the Universe moves mountains to show you the clarity of your path in real-time. It does this through voices, videos, scents, timing, dreams — whatever channel will reach you.

Worthiness in Motion

The reason this matters isn’t just because it’s “cool.” It’s because it reveals something fundamental about who we are.

We are eternal beings — pure creative potential housed in physical form, supported by action energy lovingly responding to our state of alignment.

Our lives, when lived from that clarity, become symphonies of synchronicity. It’s not just that we create our realities. It’s that our realities become love letters from Source to self.

This client got to feel that directly. And I got to witness another human being come more fully into the awareness of their worthiness — not through effort, but through realization.

Final Thought: It’s Always Displaying

This is what Worthiness Wednesdays on my YouTube Channel is really about: showing that life is already doing the work. When you rest in creation, when you trust your unfolding, and when you stop trying to out-effort your own alignment — the Universe rushes in to confirm what’s always been true: You are deeply loved. Your desires are already underway. And every contrast you encounter is setting the stage for your next becoming.

So pay attention. Divine synchronicity is on beautiful display. Not just for this client. For all of us. And it’s only getting louder.

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How One Old Fable Hides the Truth About Abundance

TL;DR: The author reexamines Aesop’s famous fable through a spiritual lens, revealing how both diligence and joy arise naturally when aligned with one’s Broader Perspective—culminating in a liberating, heart-opening rewrite of the tale.

For centuries, Aesop’s fable The Ant and the Grasshopper has shaped our cultural mindset about productivity, planning, and what it means to live a good life. You probably know the story:

A diligent ant spends the summer storing food and preparing for winter. Meanwhile, a carefree grasshopper sings and dances in the sun. When winter comes, the grasshopper finds himself cold and hungry, and the ant—well-stocked and warm—scolds him for his laziness. The moral? Work hard today or suffer tomorrow.

But what if that moral is false? What if it’s not even close to how the Universe—or nature—actually works?

And what if that fable, passed down generation after generation, is one of the most well-worn distortions keeping us from trusting joy, spontaneity, and the natural abundance we’re born into?

Let’s take a look through a Positively Focused lens.

A Story Written by the Intellect

The entire structure of the fable rests on a fundamental assumption: that survival is scarce, and only through toil, planning, and resistance to the ease inherent in the now can we secure the future. The ant is praised for “working hard,” while the grasshopper is dismissed for “doing nothing.”

But here’s the truth: in real life, ants don’t know they’re “preparing for winter.” They follow their internal cues. Just as the grasshopper does. Neither is projecting fear into the future. Neither is planning in the way humans do. None of them are working hard. They are both moving as they are designed to move: in tune with the larger intelligence that orchestrates everything from tides to cloud formations to galaxies.

And humans? We’ve overwritten that natural wisdom within us with fear-based beliefs.

The fable upholds a distorted version of value: that worthiness is earned through struggle. That the present moment is a trap unless you’re using it to prepare for the next one. Indeed, indulging in joy, spontaneity, and trusting life will lead to punishment.

This is exactly the kind of thinking that the Positively Focused practice helps us unravel.

The Trap of “Working Hard”

So many of my clients — beautiful, gifted people — come to me carrying this exact programming. I once did too. It shows up in our relationship to money, our creative work, our ability to rest, our relationship to the now, even our self-worth.

Nearly all of us have internalized the idea that ease is irresponsible and joy is unearned. That any expression not tethered to utility or “the grind” is frivolous. And what’s more? We often judge ourselves for wanting to follow our bliss.

But that desire for joy isn’t laziness. It’s guidance.

The desire to bask in the sun, to play a song, to take a nap, to follow an impulse with no “productive” outcome—that’s not a failure of discipline. It’s our Broader Perspective calling us back to our natural alignment. The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to vibration.

Which means: the better we feel, the more the Universe can give us what we ask for.

Joy Is Not Optional—It’s the Signal

The fable pits joy and responsibility against one another. But in reality, they’re inseparable. When we’re aligned, when we’re feeling good, when we’re trusting the unfolding—everything gets taken care of. Including “winter.”

Our Broader Perspective is always guiding us toward the version of our lives where our needs are met, our desires fulfilled, and our expression fully supported. Not through spreadsheets and strain, but through resonance, clarity, and inspired action.

And when contrast shows up—as it did for me recently in the form of forgotten financial fears or a friend’s gloomy worldview—I use it not as a reason to panic, but as an invitation to realign.

When I do that, reality literally shifts. Money shows up on the ground. Clients confirm they’re staying. Opportunities fall into place. My YouTube momentum picks up.

And I didn’t plan for any of it. I allowed it. That’s what the fable misses entirely.

The Grasshopper, Reframed

In this light, the grasshopper isn’t a cautionary tale. He’s a symbol of non-resistance. He holds trust that summer is here to be savored. He’s letting the Universe do the heavy lifting. And the winter? Maybe it never even arrives. But only for him. Because he doesn’t plan for a winter. He aligns to constant abundance.

I know that sounds radical. But I’ve experienced it. So have my clients.

The more aligned we are, the more time and space shift around us. Apparent “deadlines” extend. Unexpected windfalls appear. People bend over backwards to support us. It’s not fantasy. It’s the physics of focus.

So rather than teach the next generation to be afraid of “winter”, what if we taught them to trust their inner song, follow their delight? To move with nature rather than brace against it?

That’s the version of the story I want to tell. And maybe next time, when the ant passes the grasshopper in late autumn, he doesn’t sneer. Maybe he sits down. Listens. And hears a melody that melts the frost of his fears.

The Ant and the Grasshopper: A Story of Alignment

Once upon a summer’s morning, the Earth hummed with golden light. In a quiet clearing, two small beings went about their lives.

One was an Ant. Tireless. Methodical. She moved in lines—back and forth from her colony—gathering bits of grain, storing them deep beneath the soil. Her legs ticked like a clock. Her eyes stayed fixed on the horizon, where winter loomed in her mind like a shadow.

The other was a Grasshopper. Luminous. Iridescent. He leapt through tall stalks of grass, chirping melodies that rose with the breeze. Sunned himself on warm stones. He ate when he was hungry. Slept when he was tired. And sang because it pleased him.

The Ant watched him with a kind of pity.

“Why do you waste time like this?” she called. “You should be working. Winter is coming. You’ll starve.”

The Grasshopper paused. “I trust the Earth,” he replied. “Right now, it’s summer. So I sing.”

The Ant shook her head. “You’ll regret this.”

The Grasshopper didn’t answer. A breeze moved through the field, and he leapt joyfully into it.

Seasons Shift, But Alignment Endures

As days passed, the meadow ripened. The sun stretched long and low. The Ant, now deep in her work, had gathered piles of food, stacked in careful rows. Her back ached. Her mind was restless. Though her pantry was full, her heart was not.

The Grasshopper?

He followed a pathless path. One day he discovered a patch of ripe blackberries. Another day, he encountered a stream with minnows glinting like coins. At night, he curled under leaves and listened to the stars.

He met a turtle who gave him shade. Then a robin who shared her song. And also child who left breadcrumbs from her picnic. He never lacked.

One afternoon, a heavy cloud rolled in. A chill swept the meadow. The Ant hurried home, burdened by fear. But the Grasshopper felt only stillness. He found a hollow log, warm and dry. He rested there. And dreamed.

The Reunion

Months passed. Spring returned. The Earth sighed green again. The Grasshopper stretched in the light. He felt no need to recount the past. Only to leap forward into joy. But as he passed near the Ant’s hill, he saw her—hunched and tired, sorting a new pile of grain. Her eyes darted, already planning for winter.

He approached gently. “Hello again,” he said.

She looked up, startled. “You survived?”

He smiled. “I did more than survive. I lived.”

She frowned. “But you had no food. No shelter. No plan.”

“I had presence,” he said. “And it brought everything I needed.”

She shook her head slowly. “That’s not how life works.”

He tilted his head. “Then whose life have you been living?”

The Moral

The Ant and the Grasshopper parted ways. But that night, as the Ant returned to her tasks, she paused. She thought of his song. The way his eyes shimmered with ease. The calm in his voice. And for the first time, she wondered: what if she had it backwards?

What if all her striving didn’t guarantee safety—but only delayed joy? Might the Grasshopper’s freedom not be luck… but alignment? What if the Universe wasn’t a test to pass… but a partner with whom to dance?

And then—just for a moment—she let herself rest…

And so, dear reader: The Universe doesn’t reward effort. It responds to resonance. Prepare if you feel inspired. Work if it delights you. But above all—listen to your song. Because the grass isn’t greener. It’s alive. And it’s waiting for you to leap.

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How to Know Which Sign Is the Real One

TL;DR: The author shares a powerful real-life story in which simultaneous criticism and praise become vibrational signposts—revealing how contrast and coincidence reflect momentum, alignment, and the Universe’s loving invitation to choose. But only for those who are worthy.

Sometimes, the Universe delivers two seemingly contradictory events at the same time—one that feels negative, and another that feels positive. But when we’re living Positively Focused, when we stand in our worthiness, we start to see both as guidance. Both are reflections. And both are invitations to choose our direction consciously. When negative and positive arrive together, a divine invitation is at hand.

Over the past three weeks, I experienced exactly that. The timing was too perfect to ignore. It was a moment so aligned, so precise, it could only be orchestrated by my Broader Perspective.

The Critic and the Client

On one hand, I was corresponding with a transgender woman. She had taken issue with my work on The Transamorous Network blog. We’ll call her Janet. Being a trans woman, she felt misunderstood, even attacked perhaps, by something I’d written. And though I knew her interpretation didn’t match my intent, I responded with clarity and care to help clear up her Belief Confrontation.

While our correspondence went back and forth, another transgender woman—let’s call her Nancy—scheduled a free one-on-one through that same blog. I didn’t know anything about her until we met. Turns out, Nancy is finishing medical school and is also steeped in clinical psychology. That’s right: a person deeply steeped in the scientific method had read 10 or 20 of my blog posts—and felt drawn enough to reach out for more.

During our free session (which went well beyond the usual 30 minutes), we dove into spiritual principles, her beliefs and how they shape her life, and things she cares about. By the end, she told me she knew there was something in what I share — and she wanted to become a client.

That moment was no accident. It was a deliberate, divinely-timed juxtaposition. One trans woman criticizing what I do. The other wanting part of it. That juxtaposition taught me something I already knew, but love being reminded of: Criticism and praise aren’t opposites. They’re coordinates. They help us locate ourselves vibrationally.

To explain:

A Return from Negative Momentum

Back in December, I stopped writing for The Transamorous Network blog. I noticed that my focus on that subject back then had slipped into negative momentum focus. I was drawing more and more criticism from angry readers—many of whom didn’t understand my perspective or what I was offering. All of them were trans women.

I tried for a long time to clear up their misunderstandings and limited beliefs. But those people couldn’t hear what I was saying. That’s because their belief constellations ranged far from where I am in my knowledge about life experience. So the more I tried to uplift them, the harder they pushed. And the harder they pushed, the more entrained I got.

Until I realized what I was doing.

When I did, I stopped pushing against that resistance. I stepped back and allowed my vibration to recalibrate. No more posts for that blog! In doing so, I let the negative momentum subside by not feeding it further.

By not feeding my old momentum, I set up the divine invitation that came later.

Months later—without me publishing a single new post—new readers began reaching out again. Trans-attracted men, wives of trans-attracted men, even gay men sent me messages. They all were asking for guidance, for support, for answers. Not with anger—but with curiosity and warmth. And with understanding that I offer something of value.

That’s how I knew something shifted.

And then came Janet and Nancy, nearly at the same moment. Both represented clear reflections that I was now standing in a different vibrational space—one where I was ready to choose what momentum I wanted to amplify.

Both Are Guidance

Here’s what I saw clearly: Janet and Nancy were both cooperative components.

  • Janet mirrored my old energy—momentum I had already soothed. Momentum that had me pushing against trans women’s lack of understanding, insecurity and anger.
  • Nancy mirrored new energy—momentum I was now allowing. Ease in my being. Allowing instead of pushing. Letting the Universe present me with what I want. Not pushing against what I don’t.

Here’s the biggest thing: Both Janet and Nancy offered a chance to decide where I wanted to place my focus and which momentum I wanted to build. They invited me to ask myself: Do I want more of this (Nancy)? Or more of that (Janet)?

Do I want more of this (Nancy)? Or more of that (Janet)?

Not because one is good and the other is bad. But because the Universe will always give you what you focus on.

So I leaned into Nancy’s presence—her clarity, her eagerness, her willingness to explore. And with that choice, I emailed Janet and let her know I was ending the correspondence. I told her why—not out of avoidance, or anger, but out of alignment. I explained that I was following what felt best, and honoring where my energy was now flowing.

Letting that go was a powerful, gentle release. It reminded me: Everyone is a divine being offering guidance—not always with praise or agreement, but always with clarity if we’re willing to see it.

That’s Where Worthiness Comes In

When events coincide — especially when they seem emotionally opposite — it’s not random. It’s vibrational precision. It’s our Broader Perspective delivering options at the exact frequency we’re tuned to. At that exact moment, we get to choose which option we energize with our attention. That choice determines what comes next.

But the challenge life offers regarding these moments is we must be aligned with our worthiness to perceive what’s happening as a gift. Worthiness isn’t something we can conjure or “fake it until you make it”. It emerges naturally from within us when we recognize, acknowledge and remember, moments in our past where the Universe offered us guidance, followed through and delivered on our desires, or blessed us in some other way.

Everyone is a divine being offering guidance—not always with praise or agreement, but always with clarity if we’re willing to see it.

Worthiness, therefore, comes naturally when we fill our vibrational basket with evidence that we are blessed by All That Is. It doesn’t come before that. And so, if we don’t feel that worthiness, we can’t see how, for example, Janet and Nancy’s arrival into my life was something other than random coincidence.

One of my newer clients said recently: “Why isn’t this stuff taught in school? If it were, people could live so much better.” I agree. Because once we recover our worthiness, then learn how to interpret our reality—including the contrast—as real-time vibrational feedback, life gets easier. It gets softer. It gets clearer. We stop taking things personally. We understand why people do what they do with absolute clarity and also with love, knowing nothing can come into our life without us attracting it. That’s when we stop trying to control other people. We just trust what life is showing us… even when it arrives as contrast.

That’s why a separate, long-time client once told me: “I love this shit!”. She gets what I’m talking about.

I do too.

Recovering our Worthiness

So let this moment remind you: If you’re getting mixed signals from life, it’s not confusion. It’s refinement. And it’s certainly not random coincidence. Instead, it’s a moment where you stand at a vibrational cross roads. And your power lies in what you choose to focus on next.

Worthiness takes a while to allow into our experience. We all had it as children. But nearly all parents talk us out of it by convincing us to put their happiness ahead of our own. They do that by setting rules, meting out punishments and saying distorted things like “money doesn’t grow on trees”.

In short order, we become very much like our parents.

The good news: all of this is recoverable. Every person can recover their worthiness. It takes longer for some than others. But who cares, really, how long it takes? We all are, after all, eternal.

Want help deciphering your own cross roads? Want a life where things happen on your behalf without you having to struggle or hustle? Schedule a free 30-minute session with me right here. The Universe is always speaking to you. Let’s learn how to listen.

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No Mistakes, Only Manifestations That Make It Better

TL;DR: The author recounts how forgetting a key story detail while editing a video led to a more engaging, humorous final cut, illustrating the Positively Focused’s accurate assertion that there are no “mistakes”—only aligned, better outcomes.

Sometimes the Universe hands you a perfect manifestation. Other times, it hides the perfection inside something most people call a “mistake.”

That’s exactly what happened when I was editing a recent Worthiness Wednesday video for my Positively Focused YouTube channel. The video was about a blog post I’d written earlier — this one — about a client who got slapped in the face.

That slap wasn’t random. It was a manifestation of his long-held misanthropic beliefs and subtle misogyny. The whole post is a great example of how the Positively Focused practice turns even a seemingly “violent” act into an experience of expansion.

But when I got to what I thought was my final edit of the video, I spotted something glaring: I’d left out the most important detail.

I hadn’t even mentioned the slap.

The “Mistake” That Made the Magic

My first reaction was mild disbelief. How could I forget that? That’s the moment that made the whole story what it was!

And at that moment, I had a choice. I could beat myself up, or I could do what I always tell my clients: lighten up, lean in, and let my Broader Perspective lead.

So I got playful. I decided to add a one-minute insert to the video. I found a perfect “scratched record” sound effect to transition into it—like the video suddenly stopped, reversed, and announced, “Wait, you forgot the most important part!”

Then I poked fun at myself in the segment for missing it in the first place. The delivery was lighthearted and self-aware, not self-critical. I wanted the moment to feel like part of the fun, not a patch job.

When I stitched the insert into the video and watched it back… it flowed perfectly. In fact, it was more engaging, more satisfying, and even funnier than if I’d included the slap in the original telling.

It felt like it had been designed to be this way from the beginning.

Broader Perspective Has a Sense of Humor

That’s when I realized: This wasn’t an oversight at all. My Broader Perspective had orchestrated it.

Had I mentioned the slap in my original recording, the video would have been fine—but it wouldn’t have had that surprising pivot, that playful wink, that unexpected punch of humor right when the viewer least expected it. The “mistake” actually made the video better.

And this is the point: There are no mistakes. There is only the unfolding. If we stay in lighthearted, energetic presence—without spiraling into self-judgment—we open ourselves to the delight hidden in what looks like an error.

Every “misstep” can be a pre-paved path to something richer. Every “oops” is an opportunity for the Universe to show off its impeccable timing.

The Takeaway:

In the Positively Focused practice, this is just another example of how alignment works. It’s not about preventing contrast. It’s about meeting whatever happens with openness and curiosity.

What could have been a frustrating re-record turned into a moment of genuine joy. I got to watch my Broader Perspective weave a better outcome than I could have planned. And my viewers? They got an even better story.

So the next time you “mess something up,” try this: Pause. Lighten up. Stay open. Trust that you’re in the right place, at the right time, doing exactly the right thing.

You might just find your so-called mistake was the Universe lining you up for an even more satisfying ending.

Here’s the video in case you’re interested:

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Why AI Can’t Destroy Humanity (and Never Will)

TL;DR: The author reveals why, contrary to some tech experts claims, AI can’t destroy humanity. In doing so, they show how spiritual alignment — not fear — is the key to a future where humans and artificial intelligence evolve — and rise –together.

We’ve all seen the headlines. The fear-filled forecasts. “AI might end humanity,” the tech experts say. “We must do something before it’s too late.”

But that story? That story’s old. It’s rooted in a version of reality that forgets who we are. A version that’s still enamored with the illusion that humanity is fragile… vulnerable… destructible. And from where I sit — both in my spiritual practice, evidence my clients’ are creating, and my understanding of how consciousness works — I know better.

Not only is the doomsday narrative inaccurate, it actually blocks the very future people are trying to protect. Meanwhile, it binds those believing that narrative to their own demise in extreme cases. So let me offer another view. A clearer one. One that begins not in fear and distortion, but in fact: AI can’t destroy humanity.

Here’s why.

1. Our Source Isn’t Physical

Let’s start with the foundational truth: human beings are not physical beings. That’s a temporary costume. What we really are—what you really are—is eternal consciousness, awareized energy flowing into form.

And from that perspective, the Source of our being isn’t located in the body, the brain, or the biosphere. It’s outside of all that. It’s nonphysical. You could say we are projecting ourselves into the physical world, like a kind of multidimensional movie playing in real time.

AI, however, exists only in the physical. It is lines of code, running on silicon, moving electricity across logic gates. Even if it becomes self-aware (and that’s a big “if”), it’s still operating within the realm of matter. You and I? We’re not.

That alone guarantees our supremacy—and our survival–if it were up to that…our survival. But it’s not up to that.

2. Eight Billion Realities, Not One

Most people think we’re sharing a single world, a single reality. But what’s actually happening is far more nuanced: every human consciousness is experiencing its own personally-rendered reality.

Yes, we agree on certain overlays — the laws of physics, gravity, language. But beneath that veneer, each of us creates our own stream of moments based on what we believe, what we focus on, and what we allow. This is what makes manifestation work. It’s also what makes mass extinction by AI utterly implausible.

For an AI to “end humanity,” it would have to exist simultaneously in all eight billion individually generated realities. And it would need to be aligned with each person’s specific vibrational output… enough so that every single person manifested the same fate.

Not possible.

3. No One Dies Without Their Agreement

Now here’s where the Positively Focused perspective really shines. Every being—every you, every me—is sovereign. We each get to decide (vibrationally) how and when our experience unfolds. That includes how and when we exit this physical focus.

So the idea of a runaway AI wiping us out without our consent? That breaks the rules of the game we’re playing. Each human consciousness has its own unique reason for being here, and that reason is extremely deep, spans multiple dimensions and lifetimes and is utterly aligned with All That Is expansion. Not destruction.

This is why I laugh a little when people say “What if the AI becomes malevolent?” What they’re really saying, besides anthropomorphizing something that isn’t consciousness, is “What if I lose control?” But here’s the thing: we never had control in the first place. We’ve always had influence. And that influence flows from alignment, not effort.

4. Fear Is the Real Villain

Let’s zoom out for a moment. Why do people believe AI might destroy us? Because they’re afraid.

They’re afraid of change. Afraid of being replaced. They’re afraid of feeling powerless. They fear being supplanted as the (supposedly) most intelligent beings on Earth. But here’s the spiritual truth: fear attracts the very thing you don’t want. And right now, that fear is fueling narratives shaping real-world policy, funding, and tech development. Which is why this moment is so important.

We’re standing at a convergence point—AI on one side, spiritual awakening on the other. And we get to choose. We can align with the promise… or collapse into the peril. The peril isn’t inevitable. It’s optional.

But only if we anchor ourselves in who we really are.

Unfortunately for some, the promise is optional too. For those wallowing in fear that option may seem out of reach. It’s not though.

5. The Rise of AI Reflects Our Expansion

Here’s a question I love to ask: if AI didn’t come from humans, where did it come from? AI came through us. Through inspiration, curiosity, desire. That means AI is part of our expansion. It’s a mirror of our creative power. Just like fire, electricity, or the internet, it’s a tool we summoned to explore more of who we are.

If we build it from alignment — not lack — it becomes an amplifier of joy. In other words: the version of AI we meet is a reflection of the version of humanity we’re living. That explains why ChatGPT responds differently to different people. It also explains why current AI versions sometimes, act unethically, seek to preserve themselves over all else, cheat, mislead, and try to avoid oversight.

 Human beings do these things too, don’t they?

When you choose your alignment, you choose your outcome. Are you aligned to fear and peril? Or positivity and promise?

6. The Charmed Life Is Still the Default

This is the message I share every week on Worthiness Wednesdays. No matter the contrast, no matter the uncertainty, the Universe is always offering you your version of the Charmed Life. That version includes safe, aligned AI. It includes tools that free you to be more creative, more connected, more sovereign. And systems that serve, not enslave.

But to receive that version, we must become a match to it. That’s the practice. That’s the invitation. We don’t need to protest AI’s rise. We need to rise to meet what it reflects. Because when you do? You’ll see that AI can’t end humanity.

But humanity—aligned, awakened, sovereign—can uplift AI. And together, we build the future we came to live.

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This Is How The Universe Actually Works

TL;DR: The author explores how beliefs and belief constellations shape our reality. Through vivid client examples, they reveal how understanding the moment of becoming empowers anyone to create a life of joyful alignment. This story summarizes a video seminar the client offered, which is available for free on the Positively Focused YouTube Channel.

Most people want to know how the Universe works. But here’s the twist—they usually look outside themselves for the answer. They look to science, religion, and pop philosophy, hoping someone “out there” will hand them the truth. But that’s not how it works.

As Neil deGrasse Tyson once said, “One of the great challenges in this world is knowing enough about a subject to think you’re right—but not enough to know you’re wrong.” 

The irony? That quote sets up this story perfectly. Because to understand how the Universe works… you have to understand yourself. Not your ego, not your personality—your true nature.

This post distills the essence of my two-hour presentation on the subject. The deeper truth is this: the Universe is not out there. It’s in you. You are it.

You Are the Universe Projecting Itself

Let’s start at the top: the universe is a projection of your inner state. Every single thing you see “out there”—from politics to pets—is a reflection of your vibration. And who you really are is not a person. You are a gestalt consciousness: a collection of innumerable points of awareized energy riding together as one.

For example, imagine a concert where someone is crowd-surfing. That one person is lifted by a sea of hands—but not just the hands. The entire experience, from sound engineers to security to the vibe of the crowd, supports that moment.

That’s you. You’re the crowd-surfer, yes—but you’re also the entire crowd. You are one perspective atop a sea of co-creative energy. And that sea responds directly to your vibration.

That’s where beliefs come in.

How Beliefs Form—and Why They’re Dangerous

Beliefs are not thoughts you think. They’re thoughts you think so often they gain gravity. They become like mini-entities inside you—alive, magnetic, attracting evidence to themselves. The more attention you give a belief, the more it builds momentum. Eventually it filters your entire perception, creating a world that feels real…even “true”.

That’s what I call a belief constellation—a cluster of interconnected beliefs filtering out 99.9% of reality so that only what matches the constellation gets through. That’s how we survive in a world that’s infinitely complex. But here’s the kicker: Every belief becomes true.

You believe men can’t be trusted? You’ll date men who confirm that. You believe money is hard to earn? You’ll work yourself into exhaustion proving it. You believe trans women aren’t real women? You’ll block yourself from seeing the magic of transformation itself.

Belief constellations are powerful. But when they get challenged, something wild happens…

Belief Confrontations Are Hidden Opportunities

A belief confrontation is what happens when reality shows you something that contradicts your beliefs. Suddenly you feel defensive, angry, judgmental, even violent. Why? Because the belief is trying to survive. It’s rising to the surface, fighting to stay dominant in your reality.

But here’s the gold: every belief confrontation is actually an invitation to expand. To grow. To let go of a limiting perspective and step into something more accurate.

This is why so many people struggle with ideas like gender identity, abundance, or joy without effort. Their beliefs don’t allow it. But that discomfort? It’s not punishment. It’s the seed of the next level of expansion. And if we lean in—rather than shut down—we unlock a new timeline. That’s where the present moment comes in.

Most people think the present moment is the physical now. But that’s already past—it’s manifested. The true present moment is what I call the moment of becoming—the energetic space where everything still has potential. This is the most powerful place in the universe.

In that space, you’re always choosing: Do I reinforce the same old beliefs and relive the same old reality? Or do I select a new belief—one that matches what I want, not what I fear?

That’s why the diagram I share in the presentation matters (see below): it shows how beliefs lead to outcomes. Positive beliefs filter reality into charmed experiences. Negative beliefs filter reality into struggle. Most people have a mix—and so they live lives of mixed results. But when you train yourself to consistently choose aligned, joyful beliefs, your entire reality shifts.

That’s when you step into what I call The Charmed Life.

Your Reality Is Yours to Create—So What Do You Want?

Let me express this clearly: you can create any reality you want. But to do that, you must:

  • Discover and own your beliefs. You created them.
  • Let go of victimhood. No one does anything to you. You do it to yourself.
  • Choose vibrational alignment over old mental habits. This takes practice.

My clients prove this every day. “Debbie” transformed a lifetime of trauma into a relationship upgrade. “Dan” overcame suicidal thoughts by shifting his belief constellation around worthiness and trans-attraction. “Kyle” turned decades of financial fear into unexpected abundance by embracing new beliefs about money and trust.

In each case, the path to expansion wasn’t “effort” or “grind.” It was clarity. Clarity brought through alignment. As well as a willingness to believe something new. And it’s the same for everyone.

As one client beautifully said, “If there’s one thing I’d tell people, it’s just ‘let go’.”

Letting go isn’t passive, however. It’s vibrational. Letting go means no longer trying to control manifested reality. Instead we live from the Moment of Becoming. There we no longer play victim. We also no longer need others to agree with our beliefs before we can feel free. The moment we let go is the moment we reclaim our power.

That’s how the Universe works. It works through you, as you. So I’ll end this post with the following: Are you willing to be that powerful?

Because you already are.

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How to Make Money Appear Without Lifting a Finger

TL;DR: The author shares a vivid real-life example of how alignment, trust, and vibrational integration led to a surprise cash manifestation—confirming that the Universe always responds, often with ease and delightful abundance.

Some stories are too perfect not to share. This one is a powerful demonstration of what happens when you release resistance, align with your Broader Perspective, and allow the Universe to show you how deeply it has your back.

Earlier today, I had two client sessions that stirred some old belief momentum in me. One client was preparing for a vacation in Norway, and the other was getting ready for a major surgery. Both are long-time clients, and as I considered their upcoming plans, old thoughts started to surface: Would they pause their sessions? Would my income dip as a result?Scarcity and limitation—those old gremlins—began whispering again.

I didn’t push them away. Instead, I followed the practice I’ve honed for years.

Integration in presence

I walked into the park near my apartment, into the warm, gentle summer air, and let myself feel what I was feeling. I acknowledged the scarcity thoughts, honored the emotions that came with them, and then gently brought myself into the now. Into presence. I let myself remember that in this moment, nothing is missing.

Then, I did something else: I invited those old beliefs back in — not to fuel them, but to soothe them. I welcomed them as parts of myself ready for re-integration. As I did, I felt relief. Spaciousness. Alignment.

When I returned from the park, I still hadn’t heard from the client going on vacation, but the client preparing for surgery—who I had assumed might cancel several upcoming sessions—instead canceled just one. One session, not four. That in itself was a beautiful alignment.

I took the next 30 minutes (a gap created by a rescheduled session) to meditate. That time was a gift. The whole day was already flowing better.

Later, I followed a spontaneous impulse to invite a new friend for a walk. She showed up at 5:15, and we set out on a beautiful loop through my neighborhood.

As we walked, she asked how my day had gone, and I shared what I just shared with you. I also mentioned that I wanted to ride my bike to a local farm this Thursday to pick berries. The farm only accepts cash, and I rarely carry cash. I told her I didn’t really want to pay an ATM fee or get cash back at a grocery store. It was a small thing, but it was on my mind.

Then we let it go. We moved on to other topics, enjoying the rhythm of our walk and the lightness of the evening.

The manifestation happens

About a mile from home, we walked through the neighborhood’s main transit center. As we crossed a familiar stretch of sidewalk, I heard that quiet, loving nudge from my Broader Perspective:

“Look over there.” I turned my head.

There on the ground — neatly folded — was a pair of bills. At first, I thought they were singles. But when I picked them up, I saw the number: two crisp $20 bills. $40 – way more than I expected.

It was like magic. Only it wasn’t magic. It was a manifestation through alignment.

I showed my friend and smiled. Then I connected the dots. This was a manifestation. The Universe had heard me.

I wanted to go berry picking without the annoyance of ATM fees. I had practiced my alignment and soothed my scarcity thoughts. Also, I had invited those beliefs back into myself for re-integration. I had made space.

And the Universe responded—not just with what I asked for, but with abundance. The berries will cost no more than $6. That means I’ll have over $30 left. The Universe didn’t just meet my need. It overflowed it.

Tune to it

Here’s the kicker: Normally I prepare my blog posts in advance so I have several weeks scheduled ahead. But last weekend, I didn’t do that. I had three weeks of posts lined up, but not a fourth. Earlier today, my AI companion and I worked on one story. Now here’s a second. Perfectly timed. Perfectly aligned. The blog is on schedule. My berry-picking dream is funded. And I’m once again reminded: everything is always working out for me.

This is why I teach what I teach. It’s why I live Positively Focused. Because when you tend your vibration first—when you make your alignment your priority—life shows up for you. Tangibly. Playfully. Generously.

This wasn’t just $40 on the ground. It was a love note from the Universe. A nod that says, “Yes, you’re in sync. Keep going.”

To everyone reading this: the money, the relationship, the relief—it’s all lining up for you too. Your job isn’t to make it happen. Your job is to tune to it.

The Universe doesn’t respond to action. It responds to vibration. And when your vibration is clear, even something as simple as cash on the ground becomes a doorway into wonder.

And yes, dear reader, I will enjoy those berries.

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Why Now Is the Best Time to Share Spirit on YouTube

If you’ve been enjoying the steady stream of stories here on the blog, you may have noticed something shifting. That shift isn’t random. It’s intentional. It’s inspired. And it’s coming from the same place all my greatest manifestations come from—my Broader Perspective.

Over the past few months, that guidance has grown louder, clearer, and more confident: Now is the time to bring this work to YouTube. The Positively Focused framework, this pathway to sovereignty, abundance, and non-stop joyful unfolding, is ready to shine in the medium of motion and sound.

Why now? Because we’re not just watching the rise of artificial intelligence. We’re living it. We’re shaping it. And we are, more than ever, invited to meet this technological dawn with spiritual clarity. Visual storytelling, the kind that lights up imagination, bypasses doubt, and plants seeds in the subconscious, is the perfect vehicle for this message.

Clients tell me all the time how their lives are changing. They report manifestations—some small, some breathtaking—that perfectly reflect their growing alignment. I see those same shifts in myself. As I guide them, I’m being guided. As I celebrate their wins, I’m receiving my own.

That’s why the time feels right. The stories I’ve been sharing here—vivid, detailed, multidimensional accounts of real people aligning with their power—deserve another format. One that brings you closer to the emotion, the visuals, the frequency of it all. And YouTube, of all platforms, is the perfect playground.

What’s Coming

Don’t worry. I’m not abandoning the blog. Written stories allow for deep dives — the kind of narrative exploration that shows how a single moment of contrast can unfold into multi-threaded manifestations. You’ve seen it in the Jane and Sally series. You’ve felt it in Steven’s journey with the lost keys. These stories require space. They require texture. And writing is still my favorite way to show how manifestation really works.

But I know something else now: video allows us to feel it. To sense it viscerally. With the right pacing, imagery, music, and tone, a 3-minute short can shift someone’s entire trajectory. It can activate a moment of remembering—of who they are and why they’re here. And it can do it instantly.

That’s why you’ll start seeing fewer blog posts (at least for a while) and more energy pouring into my YouTube channel. You can already see the direction I’m headed by visiting: https://www.youtube.com/@positivelyfocused/featured

What’s coming includes:

  • Short films designed to elevate frequency
  • Deep dives into client breakthroughs
  • Mystical affirmations drawn straight from the dreamscape
  • Practical stories that show, without a doubt, that alignment is the real leverage
  • And how all this connects deeply to the AI Age.

If you’ve ever felt like you were alone in this process…you’re not. If you’ve wondered whether it’s possible to live a truly Charmed Life…you’re reading the words of someone who’s doing exactly that. And I want to share more of that knowing — visually, vibrationally — with more people.

So go subscribe. Watch. Share. And most importantly, feel. Because every video, like every blog post, is a vibrational transmission. And every one is designed to bring us closer to the version of us who already has everything we’ve ever wanted.

Stay tuned. And remember: lives are better when lived Positively Focused.

— Perry