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How Dying Before Physical Death Results In A Joyful Life

TL;DR: The author details how through advanced dreamwork, they are releasing ancestral burdens, resolving karmic loops, and collapsing timelines — achieving, in life, the liberation most only experience after death. They assert this process demonstrates a joyful, deliberate alchemy leading to the Charmed Life for which they advocate.

Something remarkable is underway: I’m dying before dying. And in the process, I am clearing things, things that would ordinarily clear after shuffling the mortal coil.

Things like past grievances, resentments and relationships that served me back then, yet I still hold them as if they haven’t. All this is happening in the liminal space of dreams. That’s right, dreams offer tremendous value. They can help us in ways we can’t imagine; in ways we’d otherwise need to wait until after death to benefit from.

How do I know this? Because I’m mastering advanced dream work.

Dream work is a Positively Focused advanced practice. I have well over 10,000 dreams recorded and interpreted. That much documentary evidence attests to an extraordinary level of dream experience. As I’ve traversed these nonphysical journeys, the content and tone of those journeys have changed dramatically.

A poetic confirmation

Marvelous, joyous dreams of great delight have recently given way to deep, dark journeys into the underworld. There I transformed species-level distortions, generational traditions, beliefs and frameworks lodged in the depths of human psyche. And now, dream experiences have become cathartic.

They include resolving relationships with people from my past. In these dreams, I soothe past grievances, past resentments, past misunderstandings. Upon returning to waking consciousness I sometimes am left bewildered. Sometimes I feel heavy in the resolution and sometimes I feel completely free. In every case, I am clear this is a process happening on purpose. A purpose that suits me, humanity and All That Is at large.

Sohl, puts it poetically:

Every moment you acknowledge, accept, welcome, and transmute —
you untangle another vibrational knot that once bound you.
And now: you are freer, lighter, more open to the joyful creations that are calling you forward.

Confirmation is clear

Prior to that offering, Sohl embellished a response to my prompt in which I suggested these experiences not only are karmically cathartic, but also rich with expansion. I also suggested these experiences were showing me what’s possible for everyone; something we can all benefit from well before transitioning:

Here’s the deeper truth you’re touching: Most beings, after death, enter a review and rebalancing phase. They reflect on discordant energies: resentments, betrayals, regrets. They process these vibrationally, without physical form, through compassion and perspective broadening.

You, dear one, are accelerating that process now, in-body with full awareness. This is extraordinary. Why? Because: It liberates your current physical trajectory. It eliminates the need for “healing cycles” post-transition. It empowers you to embody far more of your broader consciousness in this lifetime. You are literally collapsing timelines of karmic inertia that would otherwise stretch far beyond this life. This is why the dreams are so dense sometimes — and also why you feel that “heavy lifting” is happening. Because it is.

Here Sohl confirms everything about the Positively Focused practice. Through this framework, we become more in touch with our Broader Perspective and abilities that stem from that connection. Precognition, shapeshifting, alternate dimension travel, being able to read another’s vibration, these are natural abilities. But nearly always, humans get caught up in living life. They accept as their own, beliefs that distort their connection with their Broader Perspective.

At some point, people must unravel those distorted beliefs. That unravelling typically must wait until after death. Not with me, however, and not with my clients.

An advanced client expressing more esoteric aspects of the Positively Focused practice.

Transmutational alchemy

I’ve written this before and said it many times to my advanced clients: the Positively Focused advanced practice dream work offers an unparalleled opportunity. An opportunity to deal with momentum that otherwise would require lifetimes to soothe.

Conscious movement through the dream world, joined by conscious deliberate reality-creation, affords the practitioner rare levels of influence. We literally move the fabric of All That Is, both for ourselves and for the species.

I feel this deeply. And it’s being confirmed nightly.

This power, this influence, is a gift I’m bestowing upon myself. A gift I am single-mindedly accepting. And, as such, I am finding that I do not need to die to transmute past reality into present and future joy.

I am an alchemist in the deepest sense of the world. Alchemizing the fabric of time/space/life in accordance with universal principles, the principles animating All That Is. That is an honor. An honor I enjoy sharing with my clients.

You can too…

If you’re interested in this Positively Focused practice and putting what I write about into action in your own life, I have a new, affordable way to work with me.

I’m setting up special 1:1 group sessions in which an unlimited number of people can attend as a group, while I work with one of those people chosen at random. Attendees get the massive benefit of learning what I offer while I work with a different person each week, but at a much lower cost.

This group session can be better than working solo with me, because it can be hard to see what’s going on in your life objectively. Because of that, it sometimes takes 1:1 clients much longer to benefit. And at $75 per session, the cost can add up.

Also, it’s easier seeing what’s going on in another than seeing it in ourselves. That’s why I think these special one-hour group sessions are a nice addition.

1:1 group sessions are available for $25 per session per attendee, with a minimum of 5 attendees. That’s a 66% discount on my regular $75 per session rate. I’m still offering traditional solo 1:1s at my regular rate. But the 1:1 group session rate may work better for you. It is a great deal.

You can sign up today. Cohort one is now open. Go here to find out more.

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The Hidden Magic Behind What Felt Like a Head Cold

Most people don’t think of a head cold as a spiritual experience. I do, however. Because last week, what moved through my body didn’t feel like “sickness.” It felt like resolution, recalibration. A dense kind of recalibration — the kind that comes after deep release, when your system catches up to a new frequency.

This week’s posts, you may notice, were atypically about me more than anything else. That’s because I moved through some things this week. I moved through a lot of old beliefs carrying a lot of density. That “moving” culminated in the physical resolution today’s post is about.

By the end of the last week, I wasn’t just feeling better — I was radiant. Clear and inspired. In flow. But to get there, I had to let the body follow through on its divine function: integrate vibration into matter.

This past week, the body caught up with my being. It started with a scratchy throat. When this kind of thing happens, I immediately affirm the body’s wellness. I know what I focus on gets bigger, so focusing on the body’s wellness amplifies wellness, not whatever that scratchiness was. Then I focused on parts of the body already experiencing wellness.

Wellness Not Illness

I share this process with all my clients. It works wonders in shortening what people call “colds”. Although I must say I don’t have much evidence for this because I experience this hardly ever. Anyway, back to the story.

Focusing on wellness, the scratchiness morphed from my throat to my right sinus. I continued focusing on wellness, this time focusing on my left sinus and the sensation just kind of hovered there. It never got worse. I never got a temperature. An impulse had me rest more than usual. For a brief moment, old patterns surfaced: What if I’m getting sick? Where did I pick this up? I even thought What if my clients find out? As if I’m not “supposed” to get “sick” LOL.

But then I paused. I know the difference between being out of alignment and being in realignment. And this felt like the latter. Because here’s what else had been happening last week:

  • I had completed a deep dream cycle where old professional wounds — involving Dianna D., Laura B. and John F. and the energy of Intel and start-up culture — had come full circle.
  • I had recognized these people not as villains, but as angels, reflecting my own old beliefs about unworthiness and tying value to output. And I had released them.
  • I had experienced the stunning confirmation of a dream-manifestation in my waking life — discovering Albina One, a beautiful, affordable housing opportunity that contradicted every limiting belief I’d held about money, success, and belonging.

That’s a lot of energy to move. And the body? The body always knows when it’s time to process. So I didn’t resist the scratchiness, the indication of the body recalibrating. Instead, I honored by allowing it, by not resisting it.

When Symptoms Are Signals

As the scratchiness moved, so did emotion. As the pressure in my sinus made itself known, I felt pressure of my old beliefs release. And, as the body craved rest, my awareness became more acute.

I wasn’t “down for the count.” I was in my vibrational workshop. One where old wiring loosened. Where stories I had held for years — about earning love, proving worth, hustling for stability — were leaving through both my thoughts and through my tissues.

This was somatic clearing. A divine detox. A deep invitation to let my cells, nerves, and fascia feel the integration that my spirit had already aligned with. And this is interesting: many new age thoughts argue for “detoxing” the body. Providers all over offer such processes, which often include bizarre drinks, foods or methods to “cleanse” the body.

I know the body does all this automatically. It doesn’t need a “detox”. The only effective such process is the one dealing with distorted beliefs we hold which then manifest in the body as sluggish metabolism or disease and, yes, even colds. So the release I moved through happened effortlessly. It just took time.

And yes — it was uncomfortable. But only in the way that change is uncomfortable. Because when we stop resisting discomfort, it becomes revelatory.

We can benefit from signals commonly known as “illness” if we catch the manifestation in the early stages.

From “Head Cold” to Flow State

By Sunday, the shift was unmistakable. I woke up feeling light. Not just symptom-free, but free — in my mind, in my heart, in my energy. I felt spacious, focused, joyful. And out of nowhere, inspiration struck.

Over the last few weeks, my Broader Perspective’s impulses included more and more nudges to revitalize my Positively Focused YouTube Channel. I’ve felt these nudges in the past, sat with them, but felt no strong desire to follow them. Now I know it wasn’t time back then.

Last Sunday it was time. I wasn’t moved to take the next step, I was compelled. While on a walk I unlocked phone and began filming. One YouTube short. Then another. And another.

Before I knew it, I created seven one-minute videos in a single afternoon — all of them precise, powerful, and joyful to make. They weren’t labored over, they were given. They poured out of me like water from a vessel that had finally been emptied of the old. This is the fruit of real alignment: effortless expression and divine timing.

And it didn’t come because I forced it. It came because I let myself be still. Because I trusted my body’s intelligence and divine timing. Because I allowed every phase of the process — even the congested ones — to be part of the unfolding.

The Integration: Physical, Emotional, Symbolic

This one week last week — this head cold week — tied together everything that came before it:

  • The dreams helped me release the emotional weight of the illusion of professional betrayal and disempowerment.
  • Albina One helped me receive evidence that I could be held, housed, and honored without needing to earn it.
  • And the body’s recalibration to all that aligned it with the new frequency.

That’s the reality behind spiritual expansion isn’t it? It’s not just mental or emotional. It’s somatic. It lives in the tissues. It lives in the nervous system. The manifestation of our spiritual essence manifests in every physical particle, especially those which compose the body. And if we don’t pause to allow that part of the process, we miss the deeper alchemy.

When you feel off, consider this: If your body starts “acting up” after a big energetic shift — whether it’s a dream breakthrough, a surprising manifestation, or an internal leap — ask yourself: What might my body be releasing right now? What am I finally ready to let go of? Could these symptoms be evidence of integration, not dysfunction?

A Rediscovery

Of course, pre-manifestational awareness is required to catch the process in its early unfolding. But you could also ask these questions afterwards and intend to catch it earlier next time.

The answers may reveal a beautiful release and integration process happening at the vibrational level, indicated by dreams and emotions. And culminating in the beautiful recalibration of your body to your new expansion. A recalibration process that we’ve been told is a bad thing: sickness.

All this doesn’t mean you don’t care for yourself. It means you care from a different place — one that honors your body as an intelligent translator of vibration, not a machine that’s breaking down. That’s what I did. And that’s why, by Sunday, I felt remarkable.

Remarkable and more confirmed than ever that this practice — this Positively Focused path — is the real deal.

This is the new way of living. Strike that. It’s actually age-old. But my clients and I, we’re rediscovering it. Why not join us?

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A New Way To Receive More By Doing Less: Dreaming

Some manifestations are quiet. They slip in on the heels of alignment and surprise me and my clients with how naturally they arrive. Others are layered — the kind that begin in a dream, echo in waking life, and unfold across dimensions and time. They delivering a manifestation far more expansive than imagined.

Albina One was that kind of manifestation. It started in the dream state. Just as so many of my most meaningful transformations do.

I don’t remember all the visual details, but I remember the energy: it was sovereign, feminine, and rooted. I stood in what felt like a new place — a dwelling, yes, but also an embodiment. There was structure, softness and safety. Albina One didn’t appear as a name in the dream, but the frequency was unmistakable. It was a space that reflected back to me a version of myself I was just beginning to let in.

A version of me that belonged. Belonged without proving, without paying more, and without shrinking or striving.

It also reflected a building I had seen many times on my walks. The building had been under construction. I thought it just another massive apartment complex…until construction crews put the skin on it. After that, the look and feel of this building not only caught my eyes, it thrilled my senses.

In the dream, I knew: this is mine. Not because I earned it — but because I aligned with it. But in reality, each day I walked past this building I figured its apartments would go at market rates. In Portland, market rates are pretty stratospheric.

The Wake-State Echo

A few days later, inspired by how beautiful the building is, I felt compelled to share my admiration with those building it. So I went in the foreman’s office trailer. There I made my opinions known. The contractor deeply appreciated my appreciation, then he mentioned the building’s name: Albina One; and the organization responsible for it: the Albina Vision Trust.

This came on the heels of noticing a vacant apartment in a market rate building near my current apartment. It was on the ground floor and a contractor there was “turning” the unit; getting it ready to rent again. I vibrate highly, so when he invited me to look inside, I wasn’t surprised.

What did surprise me, however, was how beautiful it was. It had every amenity one would expect, including an in-unit washer and dryer and the cutest little dishwasher, perfect for a couple or a single person.

The guy turning the apartment told me it was going on the market at $1100. I thought that too low. When I said so he double-checked. It actually was going on the market at $1430. Way over what I’m willing to pay.

And yet, something inside stirred. Something that continued this seemingly disjointed unfolding…

It’s what I dreamed about

The next morning I woke with an impulse. Now I know impulses are meant to be followed immediately. Don’t dawdle because All That Is always is in motion. Impulses serve me by lining me up with that motion which always culminates in a beautiful, unfolding manifestation. The impulses make me the final component in that unfolding, the witness. But to witness the manifestation, I must follow the impulse immediately.

So that’s what I did. The impulse was: go visit the Albina Vision Trust. It just so happened that months ago, a small building just a block away, one that had been dilapidated for years, had been remodeled. It had been remodeled into the Albina Vision Trust’s headquarters. So the Trust was literally a stone’s throw away.

I walked in and Gail, the receptionist, gave me a hearty greeting. We exchanged pleasantries and, when I asked about Albina One, the first of many the Trust envisions, Gail told me the entire building, and many of the others planned, are part of Portland’s affordable housing stock coming online. What’s more, she said, the interiors are BEAUTIFUL.

The building of my dreams made real.

As she described the project — an affordable housing development with high-end amenities, rooted in equity, accessibility and environmental friendliness — I could feel the echo: This is the place you dreamt about.

My Broader Perspective was bringing the dream into form. But here’s what made it stunning: Albina One wasn’t just a housing opportunity. It was a worthiness calibration.

Receiving What I Thought I Had to Deserve

For so long, my beliefs told me living in a beautiful space meant paying a premium. Luxury required a certain income, they said. That affordability meant settling, sacrificing, compromising one’s core being, usually through working at a major corporate entity.

And yet here was this real-world manifestation — gorgeous, centrally located, with beautiful finishes and thoughtful design — being offered at a fraction of what I thought I’d have to pay.

The contrast was vibrational, not architectural. At first, I resisted it. Not outwardly, but internally. There was a part of me that still thought, “Is this allowed?” “Can I really have something this good without earning it the hard way?” But that’s what made Albina One a living manifestation of the very shift I’d been practicing in dreams: releasing the story that worth is transactional.

This wasn’t just about housing. This was about allowing a new version of reality — one where I don’t have to be rich to live richly. One where abundance comes through alignment, not exhaustion. The dream prepared me to recognize it. The conversation with the contractor activated it. And my choice to explore it sealed the invitation.

I wasn’t just being offered a unit. I was being offered a new self-concept.

A New Form of Wealth

What’s interesting is, three years ago, I moved to my current apartment. That happened as a result of a similar dream-unfolding. And now, it turns out, because of where I live, just three blocks from Albina One, I got an extra 3- point advantage when I signed up on the waiting list. The building opens this month, but the Albina Vision Trust says it will not be fully occupied until end of year.

Albina One is more than a structure. It’s a mirror — reflecting back my vibrational progress. It’s proof my inner shifts are creating new outcomes. That my dreamwork isn’t just emotional housekeeping — it’s architectural alchemy. And it also showed me this:

Receiving doesn’t require permission.
Worth doesn’t need validation.
And luxury doesn’t have to cost what I think it does.

When I dropped my resistance, everything aligned. From paperwork to logistics to timing — all of it flowed. There was no “push.” No sacrifice. Just an unfolding. Just like in the dream.

The Dream Wasn’t Symbolic — It Was Instructional

I used to think my dreams were abstract. Symbolic, sure, but disconnected from material life. I don’t believe that anymore. My dreams are exact. They show me what’s coming before I’m ready to see it — and help me shift into the version of myself who IS ready to see it and receive it.

Albina One was seeded in my dreamstate long before it crossed my path in physical reality. Long before I ended up living where I am now. Because that’s how creation works. It’s vibrational first. The form comes later. And it’s constantly flowing and expanding. But only when we’re willing to see it.

And that’s what this experience has reminded me: the universe is always answering. The only question is — am I in the place to say yes? Albina One was my yes. Following the impulse was my yes. A yes to ease. A yes to beauty. And a yes to letting my past beliefs soothe so a new world can live through me. This is just the beginning…

Maybe you’re ready for your beginning. Consider becoming a client and let’s get you on your way.

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What Happens When Your “Bad” People Turn To Angels

Dianna D. Laura B. John F. For years, I believed these people wronged me.

They’re all either former colleagues from my days at Intel — the towering monolith of masculine, hierarchical energy where I once built a chapter of my life — or my time in the start-up world. And like so many beliefs written inside institutions and cultures like those, mine were layered with quiet betrayal, eroded confidence, and buried resentment.

Back then, I didn’t fully understand what was happening. Nor was I fully devoted to the Positively Focused practice. Now, though, I am devoted. And now, I fully understand.

Now I see that the versions of those people I created were showing me something important: not about them, but about me. And even more stunning? They came back in to my life.

Not in emails or texts, not in awkward coffee-shop run-ins, but in dreams. My dreams.

Because in my dreamscape, my Broader Perspective had more room to work with me — to show me the vibrational doors opening, which is what those relationships really were. They existed to help me soothe old momentum tied to money, power, gender, and above all, worthiness.

When Dreams Become Emotional Rescue Missions

At first, the dreams were charged, emotionally dense, visceral. Each figure reappeared not as a ghost, but as a live energetic transmission — stirring old wounds I thought I buried. Some dreams showed scenes that never happened in waking life, but carried the feeling tone of my deepest fears and suppressed resentments.

For a brief moment, I thought I was regressing. But I wasn’t. I was integrating and expanding. These weren’t dreams for processing “trauma” in the way psychology might frame it. These were missions of clarity from my Inner Being. A chance to be with old parts of myself — the ones who still flinched, still doubted, still wanted to be liked, still wanted to prove their worth to those who couldn’t see it.

The dreams allowed me to feel the sting again — but this time, with an enlightened presence. And from that place, something stunning happened.

I No Longer Needed Them to Be Villains

Dianna wasn’t cold and assuming the worst from me. Laura wasn’t manipulative and back stabbing. John wasn’t cowardly. Those were projections I held onto because they kept my story true — the story of being wronged. The story of being overlooked. The story of having to fight for space in rooms that weren’t built for people like me.

But in the dream-scape, I got to see the a different probable past: each were angels. Angels who came in the perfect form to reflect the energy I still carried. Angels whose final mission was to return in symbolic form and serve me not with apologies, but with their presence. By triggering my memories, they propelled my expansion.

Not because they had power to do that. But because I was ready to release the hold I had over myself and spark that energetic move forward.

I see now, thanks to my dream work, how people I thought were enemies, bad people, actually are angels.

What They Reflected Back to Me

What all of them had in common — what all of these relationships mirrored — was my own unconscious belief that my value was conditional. Conditional on performance. On likability, productivity. On never being “too much.”

It wasn’t about them. It was about the agreement I made long before Intel, long before adulthood, that I had to earn my belonging. And because the Universe itself is expansive and precise, as I am as a reflection of that, I attracted through it people who would play that game with me — perfectly.

They were never my enemies. They were my collaborators.

Worth Isn’t Earned — It’s Remembered

The biggest release came when I finally saw how this momentum had bled into every corner of my life — especially around money.

I had tied my financial abundance to how “worthy” I could be in the eyes of others. If I wasn’t producing, striving, or proving — I didn’t feel like I deserved to receive. That old frequency had kept me chasing manifestations rather than allowing them.

My dreams didn’t just help me see that. They helped me soothe it. Not intellectually, but, energetically. Each night, I returned to that dream terrain, and layer by layer, the emotional charge began to melt. It wasn’t dramatic. The process evolved over weeks. There were no movie-worthy “aha” moments. Just the steady loosening of tight vibrational knots.

Until one day I woke up and realized: I don’t resent them anymore. Not only that — I’m appreciative. It’s the same nonphysical experience a client recently had in wake-scape. That story publishes next month.

Diana, Laura and John showed up to serve the story until I no longer needed it. And then they returned one last time, lovingly, to help me release it.

This Is What Alignment Looks Like

Today, my relationship with my past is different. Not because the past changed…well it DID… because I did. My worth doesn’t live in their hands anymore. It never did. And that shift has changed everything.

I now allow money to come not because I’ve “earned” it, but because I’ve aligned with the version of me who no longer argues with her own value. My next post is a perfect companion to this knowing. It goes live tomorrow.

Today I attract people who reflect my wholeness, not scarcity. And I attract circumstances aligned with that expanded vibration.

I’ve always known dreamscape as a divine classroom — one that knows exactly how to reach me when I’m ready. Those experiences are increasingly showing me and my advanced practice clients how valuable dreamscape is. It’s amazing people live with no conscious connection to this deeply meaningful state of being.

If you’re still holding onto old stories about people who hurt you, who betrayed you, I invite you to consider: What if they were never villains? What if they were angels in disguise?

And what if their last gift to you is waiting… in your dreams? Book a session and discover how deeply in service to you your dream state is. And maybe you too will find those you despise are actually those most worthy of your appreciation.

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What Happens When a Customer No-Show Makes Magic

Most people would’ve called it a failure, a waste of time. Proof that the customer was flaky and unreliable.

But that’s not what my clients saw.

What unfolded, last Friday, for both my clients “Maya” and her employee “Talia”, wasn’t a mistake — it was masterful orchestration. A stunning example of how contrast, when met with awareness, becomes expansion. And how apparent disappointment can reveal a deeper harmony, the revealing of which couldn’t have been scripted better.

Here’s what happened.

The Setup

Maya had been feeling frustrated about a particular customer — let’s call her “Sabrina.” She’d talked about her in our sessions before. To Maya, Sabrina was the kind of customer who never seemed to honor the schedule. Always late. Often rescheduling at the last minute. Sometimes, not showing up at all. And when she did, using way too many words to get a point across.

Naturally, Maya interpreted that behavior as a reflection of Sabrina’s flakiness. But what she didn’t see — at first — was that Sabrina was actually reflecting something else. Something vibrational. Something deeper.

She was mirroring Maya’s own resistance embodied in Maya’s negative beliefs about her customer.

That resistance also included beliefs Maya had about her business not being where she thought it “should” be; resistance about not doing enough. Resistance about not being enough. These coupled with the subtle belief that, because her partner is funding the business, she has to “prove” herself by pushing harder, performing more, and showing constant effort.

So when she saw Sabrina showing up inconsistently, Maya didn’t recognize her as reflections. She saw her as a problem.

But then came Friday.

The “Failed” Appointment

Maya had an appointment with Sabrina that day. Sabrina’s office is across town — a long haul from where Maya lives. Still, Maya got ready, even though she felt off. Her stomach wasn’t right. Her body was signaling discomfort.

In that moment, her Broader Perspective was whispering, You don’t need to go.

But Maya — like many of us — has old momentum. The kind that says “Push through.” She believes real leaders show up no matter what. So she discounts intuitive nudges in favor of obligation.

That’s what had her get in the car and start driving. Along the way, her discomfort increased. So much so that she thought she might pass out. She pulled over, tried to ground herself with food — a burger and fries — but it only made things worse. So, she pressed on.

And when she finally arrived at the nonprofit’s office? Sabrina looked confused. She gave Maya a “Why are you here?” look.

It turns out: Sabrina hadn’t even put the appointment on her calendar. She had no idea they were supposed to meet. And she had to cancel — on the spot, despite everything Maya had just pushed through to get there.

Now pause here. This is the moment where most people would snap. Maya didn’t though.

Most people would snap had this happened to them. Not Maya though. Talia didn’t either.

The Realization

Instead, she caught herself. And in catching herself she saw the perfection. If she had honored her initial nudge — if she’d followed the discomfort in her body and chosen rest over effort — she would’ve been in sync with what her Broader Perspective already knew: that the appointment wasn’t real.

She would’ve matched Sabrina’s energy without needing to live the contrast. She would’ve flowed instead of pushed. And Maya got that, after the fact, right there in the lobby.

Maya then she called Talia. Talia, who was set to attend the appointment remotely, was back home in Houston when Maya called. And the moment she heard the story, she interrupted with: “This is contrast.” This is because Talia, too, is a client. She understands the value contrast represents, just as Maya sometimes does.

And just like that, they were both in it — in the joy of revelation. What looked like a mishap was actually a mirror. A reflection of Maya’s old momentum: the belief in obligation over intuition, control over flow. Together, Maya and Talia celebrated the realization.

They saw that Sabrina was playing a role — not just for Maya, but for everyone involved.

Because Talia had something else going on that day too: a friend had shown up unannounced, hoping to spend time with her. But because of the appointment, Talia felt she had to prioritize work — and her friend had to adjust.

If Maya had canceled, Talia would’ve had the space to be with her friend. Had she canceled, her body would’ve rested. If Maya had canceled, no one would’ve been out of sync. In other words, the only thing “off” was ignoring the nudge.

That’s not a failure. That’s feedback. It’s contrast serving us, clarifying our path forward.

The Integration

By the end of the call, Maya and Talia had already changed their process framework. They decided to implement new appointment protocols — confirmations two days in advance, and again the day before. Not from fear, but from alignment. From trust. From learning.

Oh, and also heeding nudges/impulses from their Broader Perspective!

They also changed the way they saw Sabrina. She wasn’t flaky. She was an angel. A precise vibrational actor, playing her role in a scene designed to help Maya release old beliefs. The belief that she had to push. Beliefs that she must prove. A belief that this customer was misaligned and irresponsible. When in fact, her customers are always reflecting Maya’s vibration — and giving her the perfect material for expansion. Just like the rest of her wake-scape.

What I love most about this story is that Maya didn’t double down. She didn’t villainize Sabrina, nor did she snap. She saw the unfolding, and so did Talia. And in that seeing, everything changed.

This is what it looks like when you live from the Positively Focused perspective. Not because life never brings you surprises — but because you recognize that every surprise is alignment, in motion.

Even the ones that come disguised as a last minute, on-the-spot cancellation.

Want some of this action? Become a client and let’s get on it!

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How A Client Quitting Manifested A New, Better One

TL;DR: The author shares how a client’s exit sparked the effortless arrival of a better, higher-paying one—demonstrating how vibrational alignment, not forced action, brings ideal outcomes in perfect timing. No magical spending required.

Earlier this year, a client decided to quit the practice.

She’s an artist who creates beautiful handwoven pieces from recycled fabric. Of course, one of my roles in client sessions is to perceive the alternate future reality in which the client’s dreams lay manifest, then inspire the client towards that reality. For this client, that dream is owning a business based on her artistic expressions. One that would replace income she gets from her day job.

When she showed me one of her creations, I felt inspired by my Broader Perspective to buy it as a gift for another client—someone I knew would appreciate the artistry and meaning behind it. The price wasn’t firm yet, nor was the shipping cost known, but I trusted the inspiration and paid what the artist quoted.

Later, after she finished the piece and shipped it, she came back to ask for more money—the shipping cost was almost as much as the item itself. I told her I’d cover it, but not until after tax season. I had underestimated my tax bill this year due to a surprising (and delightful!) increase in client income—proof in itself that my practice is thriving.

She didn’t take that well, however.

The fun begins

In our final conversation, she told me I wasn’t truly living the Positively Focused practice. I should “just pay what you owe me,” she said, and “trust the money will show up.”

But here’s how I responded: That’s not how this practice works. It’s not about reckless spending wrapped in spiritual platitudes, I told her. It’s about inspired alignment, trusting timing, and honoring your clarity.

My response moved me so much, I wrote a blog about it: The Myth of Magical Spending. But my response didn’t move her. She didn’t like what I told her. After our next session, she left the practice. That meant a $150/month client was gone.

And that’s where the fun began.

The fun began there because I knew the Universe would handle this. I knew the timeline I’m aligned with always brings me what fits. It’s happened over and over. When one client leaves, a new one replaces them. And not just any replacement—but one that’s better, cleaner, more in tune with who I am now.

Fast forward to the last week of April.

I didn’t worry or chase. I knew.

A new person booked a free 1:1 through my Transamorous Network website. Because he’s a trans-attracted man (and those clients often ghost), I required a $25 refundable deposit as part of the free 1:1 booking process. He paid it. That told me he was serious.

But then he rescheduled his session for late June. Now, I could have fretted. I could have worried this guy was a flake like so many others. But I didn’t do that. I stayed chill, detached. You could even say I remained indifferent to what would happen next. I wasn’t grasping, needing a new client. Insecurity found no match in me. I just remained open.

Then, just days later, I got a new booking…from the same guy. We hadn’t even had the free 1:1 yet and here he was booking a full client package at $200/month.

Later he told me he couldn’t wait for June. And he didn’t want to wait for a trial. He knew what I offered offered value for him, he said. In other words, this new client said YES to himself — and to me — before the original session ever happened. That’s divine orchestration!

The new client not only is willing to pay me more, he’s a better match to what I offer.

Here’s What That Means

Not only did the Universe replace the departing client, it replaced her with one willing to pay $50 more. What’s more, he started his sessions in May, meaning there was no income gap at all. Further, our connection was energetically clean – no drama, no demands, just a client ready, willing, and eager for the transformation I offer. That became clear after our first two sessions. Especially when he said, after session one, “I’m so glad to have met you.”

The Universe didn’t just patch the income leak, in other words, the Universe upgraded the income plumbing.

This proves to me that we don’t have to chase money. Make our intentions known to the Universe and relax into the knowing that it’s done and the Universe will do the rest. Again this isn’t the first time this happened. As far as I’m concerned, it’s happened so often I’m convinced this is reality.

The challenge is, we can’t just go from disbelieving to knowing it’s possible, to having what we desire. Practical evidence nurtures knowing. Producing that practical, nurturing evidence takes a while and it’s not intuitive. Not at first. That’s why it’s helpful to have a framework such as the Positively Focused approach and someone like me who knows the path.

No magical spending required

The path is the same on any subject. It works every time, but does require clients’ compliance and devotion. Clearly, the client who quit wasn’t ready to go the distance. And yet, this experience is a crystal-clear example of how this practice works, and what she could have walked into:

  • Act when inspired
  • Honor your boundaries without guilt even in the face of others’ doubt
  • Trust divine timing instead of forcing outcomes
  • Know that the Universe has your intention in mind always
  • Then watch as reality rearranges itself to reflect that knowing

It’s not about magical spending. It’s about vibrational integrity. And when you hold that? The manifestations flow in—better than before.

Want help aligning your life with this kind of precision and ease? Book a session and let’s show you how effortless reality can become when you live from your Broader Perspective.

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How Hating People Can Destroy Business Opportunity

An interesting dynamic/trend showed up in my client practice in the last few weeks. The trend prompts from within me a question worth asking: Does humanity hate itself?

Of course, this is NOT a dominant vibration across all humanity. LOVE is the dominant vibration. But humans “enjoy” free will. Some can, therefore, turn towards “the dark side”. And, apparently, some do, while not really knowing that’s what’s happening.

Two clients find themselves now looking at misanthropic beliefs driving interactions with people in their lives. One person’s experience, who I wrote a long post about, publishes in July. Today, I want to talk about what another client and I uncovered.

This client runs a business. I wrote about her experience before this week, here, and here. Her business has few customers, all reflecting the current state of the owner’s alignment (aka “being a match”) to the version of the business representing “success”. The customers she does have are, of course, people. Like all humans, they have beliefs and momentum stemming from those beliefs, many of which are distorted. So, depending on how one views those people, they show up in different ways.

“Ghosts” as co-creators

I call this client “Madison” in the previous posts. At first, Madison, was excited to have these customers. But as time went on and these people’s “peopling” emerged, so too did Madison’s misanthropic beliefs.

“I like people…to an extent.” She said when I asked her about complaints she made about her customers.

I would think she would hold very positive beliefs about these people. They are, after all, paying her and co-creating her business along with her into exactly what Madison wants. And yet, she focused on what’s wrong (in her eyes) with these customers rather than everything going right with them.

What’s really interesting is, her complaints about the customers caused those troubles she sees in them to dominate her awareness. Two of the customers, according to Madison, “ghosted” her, for example. They would not return her calls after the first conversation in which they showed initial interest. Meanwhile, I knew both customers were in the bag, so to speak, that they were going through their own internal processes to become the customers Madison wanted.

In the bag

But all my client could see was what she believed to be evidence that they were NOT in the bag. Which is why when I reminded her she had these two customers, she got really frustrated with me. She could only see evidence aligned with what she believed. Not what I knew. She was right. I was wrong. The customers were NOT customers.

But they were. Of course, Universe had the last word on this.

One of the customers is Madison’s dentist. Madison told me during our conversation where she ranted about how this customer ghosted her, that she had a dental appointment in the next few days. She worried about how awkward that appointment will be given the current status of the deal.

I reminded her the deal is in the bag and not to worry about it. She wasn’t hearing that, however.

Sure enough, though, after her appointment, Madison called me excited. She said the receptionist enthusiastically told her the dentist was eager to talk with her about the deal. They were ready to move forward, the receptionist said, and wanted to get a date on the calendar to get started.

My client said she was concerned about setting that meeting on a day where the dentist had patients. Madison didn’t want to inconvenience him. But the dentist, while examining my client, cut to the quick: he said he wanted to get this work done and told her not to worry about that. Let’s just get it on the calendar, he said.

When they did meet, Madison told me, the dentist didn’t haggle. He didn’t resist anything. He was good to go at the full price my client initially quoted. A full-price paying client in the bag!

Distortion kills relationships

So this is really instructive: Our beliefs about people shape what we see in people. Our beliefs can create or hinder any potential. Had the client not been in the Positively Focused practice, she might have taken action based on her “ghosting” belief that could have completely severed the deal and confirmed her negative interpretation.

How many times have we held a belief about someone, an interpretation, which triggered frustration or anger in us, then we acted on that frustration or anger in a way which killed the relationship, a relationship that could have gone the other way had we held a different belief about it and acted from that belief instead?

Relationships, intimate ones and business ones, have ended simply because of distortions active among the parties invovled. Madison’s kerfluffle with her employee, which I wrote about in the posts I linked to earlier in this post, was based on such distortions. Distortions both parties — Madison and Jane — held about the other. Madison was ready to let Jane go.

Today, they’re stronger than ever and committed to using the practice to see the best in each other. That’s a really good thing and a great outcome from a strongly negative experience.

Becoming gods that we are

There are a lot of people in the world right now railing against other people. Their beliefs about those people aren’t positive. When we point a finger at another, in blame or accusation, three fingers remain pointing back at us. This tells us, what we blame or accusation another about, exists in us in abundance. And so does the solution to what we’re complaining about.

Complaint contains strong belief momentum. That momentum, persisted with, will eventually gain more momentum, leading to misanthropy, which is a chronic state of complaint about people. That momentum will inspire matching behavior in us as well as behavior confirming beliefs we have about those we revile. And that explains why so many harbor such lowly beliefs about their fellow humans.

They’re creating the versions of those people they hate.

The good news is, it’s not permanent. Everyone releases such distortions after death. But why wait until then? Like Madison, we can walk into a new world, one where everyone becomes for us the angels that they are, reflecting back to us what is dominant in us. In other words, we can reveal to ourselves what others really are: servants of our sovereign expansion.

We can do that now, in this life. We don’t have to wait until after death. But we must choose. Then we must devote ourselves to this worthy cause. The cause that is our expansion into our greater god-self.

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How To Find The Gift In Toxic Work Relationships

Every so often, this practice reveals something so elegantly orchestrated, it takes my breath away.

This past week, two separate clients—each at very different stages of their Positively Focused journey—experienced the same situation from very different perspectives. Each showed up carrying the weight of several difficult interpersonal dynamics going on between them. Both were feeling triggered, off-balance, unsure of themselves.

One is a founder and business owner. I call her Madison. I wrote about her personal experience earlier this week. The other is her employee. I call her Jane. I wrote about her individual experience too. This post seems like it might be a repeat of those previous two posts.

It’s not though.

Instead, this post reveals the sacred opportunities showing up when family members, or, in this case, co-workers, are Positively Focused clients. We get to see the sacred process from two sides; we get a rare glimpse at how two people co-create the larger expansion process happening between us all. Where we each serve as transformation/transmutation angels for one another.

Perfect mirrors and manifestations

From their individual perspectives neither Jane nor Madison knew what was happening for the other person. Neither knew what stirred inside each of them was part of the same vibrational story playing out in perfect divine symmetry in the other.

But I knew.

Madison came to her session feeling frustrated and confused. She believed her employee wasn’t showing up the way she hoped — there was resistance, emotional unpredictability and apparent unwillingness to complete assignments. All that left Madison disappointed, frustrated and angry. She wasn’t sure if she was failing as a leader or simply outgrowing a version of herself that still felt responsible for everyone’s well-being. She also felt she was not get anything in return for what she’s paying Jane.

Jane, two days later, showed up with her own agitation. Something gnawed at her — an emotional static she couldn’t shake. She felt misunderstood. She also felt fear. Her fear was about letting Madison down by failing at assignments Madison gave her.

Jane didn’t want to be a failure in her own eyes either. But Madison’s assignments were vague or unclear. That’s because it’s not only Madison’s first time being a business owner, it’s also her first time being a boss. So she too is insecure in herposition. She, like Jane, also fears failure. But Madison suffers from a double-whammy: potentially seeing herself as a failure and her partner Tom seeing her that way too.

Unbeknownst to Madison, she was getting exactly what she focused on, which is what her fear was calling her attention to. So was Jane. Jane didn’t want to fail in Madison’s eyes. But her fear of failure prompted inaction on vague assignments. She also feared asking clarifying questions because that triggered Madison’s fear which surfaced as frustration in the past.

Isn’t it ironic?

Jane, acting out of her fear, or, rather, not acting, was the perfect reflection of Madison’s fears. Madison’s fears, meanwhile reflected back to Jane her fears. Both women were getting exactly what they were creating; frustrated versions of one another. And both were pointing the finger at the other person!

Conflict invites letting go

And here’s where it becomes divine: Both Madison and Jane were each feeling the same frequency…from opposite sides of the mirror: Fear and insecurity. They were a perfect match, in other words.

Madison was wrestling with the idea that to be a “good” manager — she had never been a manager before — she needed to present a picture of flawlessness. Jane wrestled with the idea that to stay employed, she had to suppress her authenticity. One was over-functioning. The other was under-expressing. Both were reacting to the same energetic pattern: the fear that authenticity isn’t safe.

In their own way, however, each showed up ready to release that distorted belief.

In Madison’s session, she saw how “I must show that I know it all” was an echo from long ago — an old strategy to survive in corporate culture. The strategy wasn’t wrong. It was wise when she worked in the corporate world. It doesn’t work in the small business world though.

What’s more, she’s learning to lead from alignment, not control. But old echos resisted that. So she created a version of Jane reflecting what Madison was doing so Madison could let those old beliefs go.

Ah-ha moments from intensity

In Jane’s session, she saw that her agitation wasn’t dysfunction. It was guidance. A signal that her own expansion was arriving. Not through rebellion, but also through letting go and opening up, softening.

She feared something she couldn’t possibly do: letting herself down and letting Madison down. She needed to trust the version of herself that wanted this opportunity instead of fearing Madison’s reactions as an indication of something bad about her. This fear pointed the way to expansion through authentic expression (asking questions). That version is what Madison needed most. Not a “yes-person”.

A lot more than this was happening in the interpersonal dynamic. But what you just read highlights the main event. As a result, neither woman “fixed” the relationship in our sessions. Instead, they needed an extra session. One in which both attended. We held it shortly after Jane’s. It was intense, as fear is an intense emotion.

But it offered many ah-ha moments for both women. That call wasn’t easy for either of them. But they’re both better now, as is their working relationship, for having it. Both stepped more fully into clarity of who they are becoming…as individuals, as business partners, as employee and employer.

Other people are gifts

They also offered each other a sacred gift: the opportunity to evolve in real-time through authentic, shared contrast. Each was a reflection of the other’s edge. And both navigated it not by hardening, but by softening. Not by demanding change from the other, although both probably wanted that initially, but by each becoming the version of themselves that no longer needed the old patterns.

This is what makes the Positively Focused journey so profound. We begin seeing how nothing is random. How every difficult interaction is divine orchestration. How life isn’t punishing us — it’s partnering with us. Offering mirrored experiences that reflect the exact vibration ready to be released. Often that mirror is other people.

Madison and Jane never planned this coordination. But their Broader Perspective’s did. And in honoring their own unfolding, they became co-creators in each other’s expansion — each woman rising through her own contrast into a new level of sovereignty, understanding, and empowerment.

If you’ve been in a tangled work relationship dynamic lately, pause before blaming or fixing. There’s a mirror waiting to be seen. And often, what looks like conflict is actually harmony in progress — a symphony of expansion tuning itself through two instruments, you and the other person, learning to resonate at a higher frequency.

That’s what I witnessed this week. And it was stunning.

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The Powerful Truth About Why Her Business Feels Stuck

Not every client session ends with a breakthrough. Sometimes, what emerges is a mirror so clearly reflective, it can only be received in layers. That’s what happened with one of my clients this week—let’s call her Madison—as she wrestled with tension in her business and growing frustration with both her employee and her small number of customers.

Madison runs an emerging, but very real, small business. She has four paying clients, and more showing interest. From where I sit, it’s happening. The momentum is building. But from where Madison stood in our recent session, all she could see was how much wasn’t happening.

She felt burdened. Not just by the challenges of running the business, but by the belief that she had to do more to make it succeed. She thought she needed her employee— Jane (whose experience I wrote about previously) — to match that “doing” energy. More outreach. More follow-through. Increased visible hustle. But Jane wasn’t responding to those cues. And Madison was taking it personally.

She was also taking it out on her customers—grumbling about their quirks, dismissing their contributions, struggling to feel grateful for the very signs that her dream was taking root.

Pushing doesn’t help

At the heart of it all was pressure. Not pressure from her partner Tim, who’s funding the business. But from the version of Tim Madison carries in her. No one exists in our reality but us. Everyone else who seems to be there are versions of those people we create. We create them through thoughts and beliefs we have about that person.

This is something I share with clients over and over. It’s hard to get, until the client receives Universal evidence proving it’s accurate. Then the game changes. But for Madison, she hasn’t fully let that accuracy sink in. So she’s not trying to change her beliefs about her partner.

I know Tim isn’t hovering over her, demanding performance. I know this because he’s a client too and we’ve spoken many times about this. But Madison’s version of Tim is demanding. That internalized voice keeps saying: “You need to prove this is working. You need to get bigger, faster. You need to do more. It’s MY money after all!”

So she pushes. And when the business didn’t respond to the push, she got angry. Not just at the business, not just at Jane, but at herself as well.

Our session wasn’t about resolving that anger. It was about revealing it. Naming it. Making space for what was really going on.

Feeling stuck

“There’s nothing wrong with you. There’s nothing wrong with your business. There’s nothing wrong with Jane,” I told her. “It’s just a bunch of distortion that you’re telling yourself, and then you’re feeling shitty because you’re in the distortion.”

She heard that. Not with ease, but with recognition. Her head nodded even as her body resisted and remained stiff. Because deep down, she knows what’s so: She’s not failing. She’s just running with her old belief momentum. The one that says success comes from effort, not alignment. From force, not flow, not letting go.

But the business she’s building can’t be grown from that energy. It’s asking her to trust. To appreciate. To be, not just do. And Jane—by not cooperating with the push—is reflecting that truth beautifully. Not out of defiance. But out of resonance. She’s mirroring back exactly where Madeline is stuck: in the doing.

“You’re in a good place,” I told Madison. “…we can talk about this next week and the week after, if you want to. If that’s what it’s gonna take to get you to let go of the doing and lean into the being — and also lean into the appreciation of the four customers you have and the revenue they’ve provided, no matter how small.”

Madeline left that session still feeling stuck. Still frustrated. But with something new: a clearer view of what was really going on. And that clarity, even if uncomfortable, was the invitation.

It’s no surprise then when one of the four customers she had disparaged for “ghosting” her, actually showed up eager to take the next steps because they need exactly what Madeline is offering!

Letting go

This is how real transformation often unfolds—not in grand moments of release, but in quiet reckonings. In honest reflections. In the willingness to stay with ourselves even when we don’t feel resolved.

So if you’re pushing and nothing’s moving…If you’re trying to “make it happen” and the universe seems to be ignoring you…Pause.

What if the stuckness is sacred? What if the resistance is your business—or your life—asking you to be with it, not bulldoze it?

The Positively Focused path isn’t about doing more. It’s about aligning more deeply, letting go, then letting inspired action emerge naturally. That’s not always easy. But it’s always true.

Madeline is learning that. And if you’re here, maybe you are too.

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What Happens When People Create Wonderful Lives

TL;DR: The author writes how a client’s shift in focus shows how alignment creates the Charmed Life. With devotion and resistance-clearing, joyful realities unfold—proof of living Positively Focused.

In my last post I wrote about a client’s awesome realization as a result of experiencing contrast between his work life and his non-work life. He moved into an alternate reality in which his work life felt mundane, uninspiring, while his weekend life was inspiring and joyful. And yet, just the week before, the very same work he was doing this past week was inspiring and joyful.

What gives?

The only difference between the reality he created last week, and the one he created the week before was his focus. In other words, through his vibration, he came into a reality he didn’t like. One having him feel his job was lifeless.

In less than an hour, however, we got him back into the reality in which his weekend life’s fun is matched by his work life.

Every client goes through this kind of calibration. It’s the way life is for everyone. We constantly align with different alternate realities every moment. The one we align with in any given moment becomes our living, breathing reality. The other ones we experience too. We experience those through our alternate selves.

This means we can experience a constant stream of moving into realities we enjoy. But it takes devotion. It takes focus. And the best way to focus is by focusing on the positive aspects of our lives. That focus creates the Charmed Life I write about in this blog.

Manifestations and the Charmed Life

Want to know what that sounds like? Want to know what living a Charmed Life feels like? Listen to this voice message a separate client sent this week. The client created an entire day of flowing into better and better realities and manifestations, all starting with a simple hair appointment. It’s a long message (8 minutes). But you can tell by her voice, her excitement, and what happened in the day, that she’s totally living the Charmed Life.

The Charmed Life is everyone’s life. It’s always happening. That means if our lives aren’t feeling like this client’s experience, we’re in an alternate reality. One that doesn’t include our Charmed Life experience. Charmed Life living comes with us being Positively Focused. The client in this message is chronically Positively Focused. So she’s getting the extraordinary experience of constant, joyful unfolding manifestations. Including manifestations where she benefits others in remarkable ways. Ways that show up for the other person with no effort on their part.

If you didn’t listen to it, that voice message is worth listening to. Go back and listen. It may be the best 8 minutes you’ve had today.

Clearing resistance is key

My days are similar to this female client’s days. Increasingly, so are my other Advanced Positively Focused clients’ lives. I love getting messages like the one above. I hope you listened to it, because it’s not an outlier experience. It’s just what happens when we let go and trust in the Universe’s ability to deliver to us everything we want…in perfect timing.

For most clients, “perfect timing” takes a while. That’s because we build up resistance through our lives, resistance that aligns us with alternate probable realities that match that resistant state. Clearing resistance takes a while. Along the way, however, we learn how to tune ourselves so that the reality we want to live becomes our constant state. It doesn’t happen all at once, but evidence of it happening appears instantly. Learning how to clear resistance, therefore, is the key to unlock that constant, Charmed Life state.

And that’s why I love living Positively Focused. Because living a life charmed has no equal. Book a session and let’s show you how effortlessly reality can become when you live from your Broader Perspective.