“Something I feel that makes you such an effective spiritual guide/guru/life coach is that you establish this process as a two-way collaboration. You give much but you’re willing to receive as well in your interactions with your clients. I really appreciate that dynamic!”
“Kyle” is a recovering Christian who also is somewhat gender-fluid and trans-attracted. We’ve worked together for many years, soothing really strong negative beliefs about himself as a result of holding onto conflicting beliefs Christianity espouses, alongside what he knows about his gender fluidity. He also struggled a lot with worthiness issues, partly as a result of these conflicts, but also stemming from working in an industry (Defense) that is in conflict with Kyle’s morals and values.
Recently Kyle experienced an epiphany in the Positively Focused practice that had him make several steps indicating dramatic improvement in his life. He quit his defense contractor job, stopped being in the closet about his gender expression and romantic interest, and, as a result effortlessly met a trans woman who meets his every desire in a partner.
Over the years, Kyle discovered the value of the two-way approach I use to guide clients to the Charmed Life. The Positively Focused Practice is a two-way street. Clients benefit tremendously, but I do too in working with clients and seeing my own progress reflected in their progress. That’s something I really love about what I do.