Why Your Hidden Confidence Makes Success in Music Inevitable

TL;DR: The author shares how “Marcus’” vivid dream with Sleep Token revealed a deeper truth: the confidence he already embodies at work is the same energy preparing him for musical success. Dreams mirror readiness long before waking life does.

Dreams often arrive disguised as stories, symbols, and scenes. Yet behind every image is a vibration, and behind every vibration is an invitation. One client I’ll call “Marcus” dreamed recently of the band Sleep Token. That dream was a powerful, unmistakable invitation—one showing Marcus that the confidence he has cultivated in his job is preparing him for something much bigger. And all that is happening right now.

This dream not only entertained him, it introduced an expanded, new version of himself: a version who already belongs in music, already matches the emotional frequency of artistic mastery, and already holds the competence needed to thrive in a musical career.

The experience began as many important dreams do—with warmth, familiarity, and a sense of calm recognition, all fostered through Marcus’ Positively Focused practice. Let’s examine what happened.

The First Visit: Meeting Mastery in Disguise

In the dream, Marcus found himself at a rustic mountain bed-and-breakfast. A glowing fire pit crackled gently in the dusk light. The scene held quiet reverence, a soft, golden, peaceful atmosphere. It was serene, which reflected Marcus’ now high vibration.

Then Sleep Token appeared. Not the unmasked humans behind the band, but the full public persona: cloaks, masks, the mythic presence fans know. They sat near the fire with him, robes rustling in the breeze. Each band member held their head angled with attentiveness. Nothing about the interaction felt starstruck or strange to Marcus. It simply felt natural, as though these figures were good company rather than icons.

The absence of tension is the first important clue. Dreams reflect vibration long before our awareness perceives it. If Marcus was holding a vibration of inadequacy or intimidation, this segment would have felt overwhelming or chaotic. Instead, he experienced composure, presence and emotional stability. Excellence joined him and Marcus felt at home.

In the Positively Focused framework, this matters. Dream environments don’t respond to hopes or wishes. They respond to our active, dominant vibration. That Marcus could sit calmly beside these representations of musical mastery means he’s already close to the feeling he thinks he’s lacking. He already resonates with it. This version of him represented in the dream tells him he’s closer to his dream of earning a living through music than he thinks.

The masks and cloaks symbolized how Marcus still perceives high-level musicianship: mysterious, distant, elevated. Sleep Token, a favorite of Marcus, was the perfect symbol as they perform in similarly mysterious, masked attire.

Yet even in their mystique, the figures showed up not as unattainable projections worthy of Marcus’ adoration, but as equals. This dream told Marcus “You belong here more than you think.”

Unmasked and Human: The Dream Narrows the Gap

The following dream segment deepened that message. Marcus found himself back at the same fire, the same mountain lodge, the same warm glow—but this time, the Sleep Token members arrived without masks. Just familiar folks in hoodies, denim, jackets, casual streetwear.

Most critically, the energy shifted from mystique to familiarity. Marcus described how easy the conversation felt. He didn’t act like a fan meeting idols. He didn’t posture. Nor did he shrink. He simply participated as himself, and he welcomed the band members with gentle, grounded friendliness. The gap between “them” and “him”—between musical mastery and Marcus’ perceived place in relation to it—collapsed.

This is where the symbolic clarity heightens. Unmasking in dreams often signals revealed potential or acknowledged identity. Street clothes represent accessibility, relatability, and normalcy. When symbols present themselves as “ordinary people,” they’re telling the dreamer: “The thing you think is far away, represented by me, is actually within reach.”

Even Marcus’ waking-life choices support this interpretation. He intentionally avoids learning Sleep Token’s real identities because he prefers engaging with the artistry. Yet the dream revealed what he refuses to seek out consciously: their humanness, their ordinariness and their approachability. They showed up in the dream as fellow artists instead of distant figures. All of this points to a single vibrational truth: The competence Marcus feels at work is already translating into his creative life.

When Confidence Transfers: The Dream as Instruction

One of the most important insights that came through in the session was the idea of transference. Marcus has spent years developing competence, calmness, clarity, and effectiveness in his job. People rely on him. Colleagues trust him. Leadership praises him. He’s recognized for emotional steadiness, clear thinking and professional competence. These traits are a natural part of his character and shine through when he’s not worried about what others think about him, or whether he’s an imposter; two things he has soothed throughout his Positively Focused journey.

His dream showed him how his professional competence is ready to transfer into his musical passion. Here’s how:

  • Sitting calmly with masked Sleep Token mirrored the way he sits confidently with high-level professionals at work.
  • Chatting with the unmasked band echoed how naturally he communicates with peers who respect him.
  • Feeling relaxed and equal paralleled the sense of belonging he feels in his workplace.

The dream was not about music technique, skill acquisition, or external opportunity. It was about emotional equivalence. The sense of competence Marcus feels at work is the same sense that powers strong musicianship. When someone already knows how to maintain presence, intuition, clarity, and steadiness in one domain, they can expand those same abilities into another.

The sense of competence Marcus feels at work is the same sense that powers strong musicianship.

The dream said: “Use the emotional strength you already have. Your creative expansion draws from the same well.” Through the dream Marcus is learning to recognize that the confidence he already carries applies to his dream of becoming a professional musician.

The Final Goodbye: A Blessing, Not an Ending

The closing scene of the dream delivered its final message with simplicity and warmth. Marcus stood from the fire, ready to leave, and the unmasked Sleep Token members waved goodbye. Nothing dramatic happened, no sudden vanishing, no strange twist. Just a peaceful parting of peers filled with acknowledgment.

A wave in dreams is rarely about goodbye. More often, it’s a gesture of affirmation. Like a nod or a blessing. It says: “You’re ready. Go forward.” These dream figures didn’t cling, warn, or offer cryptic messages. Instead they sent him off gently — like mentors who know he no longer needs external reassurance. He already carries the feeling he once believed would come from outside validation.

This final wave symbolized completion of a vibrational milestone: Marcus is no longer relating to the idea of being a musician as a side hustle to his job. He’s now, in nonphysical, relating to his dream of being a musician from the inside. Literally.

The Positively Focused Insight: Dreams Reveal Who We Already Are

Marcus’ Sleep Token dream shows how deeply his inner being is guiding him toward recognizing his creative identity. He’s uncovering capabilities already operating within him. These dream sequences revealed to him his alignment with a life that includes music—not later, but now.

When our heroes appear as equals, we’re seeing a reflection of our own expansion. When masked figures return unmasked, our path is opening. And when dream characters wave us forward, that’s our Broader Perspective is saying: “Take the next step. You belong.”

Marcus is ready. His dream told him so. And waking reality will follow the vibration he has already stabilized within himself.

Dreams are hard to interpret. Especially ones that come vividly. Often, for those just starting out with realizing they’re dreaming, dreams can be opaque, cryptic. Sometimes they can be frightening. That’s why it’s good to have someone who can help someone new to their dreams understand their deeper, multi-layered meaning. It’s also why dream work comes in the later stages of the Positively Focused framework.

Interested in knowing more? Contact me if you like.

How Dreams Offer The Best Solutions To People’s Problems

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TLDR: A series of vivid, emotional dreams led to a deeply cathartic experience, resolving internal struggles with a sense of homecoming and fulfillment. This transformative journey left the writer feeling great and eager for more extraordinary living.

Wow. It’s 0736. I just woke feeling wonder. There’s a massive smile on my face. Happiness flows through me as well as a sense of powerful worthiness.

Worthiness is an important feeling. All my clients start out far from feeling worthy. A lack of worthiness plagues all of humanity. It’s complicated, but that unworthiness feeling explains all the drama humans create as a species and as individuals.

For me, however, my worthiness is growing by leaps and bounds. This morning offered yet another expansion of it. An expansion I am conscious of. And that consciousness, that awareness, is why I’m feeling wonder.

Here’s what happened.

Unpleasant is communication

Over the last few weeks, I noticed decisions I’ve made that resulted in less than desirable results. I won’t describe what the decisions were. That’s because I’d rather amplify vibrations associated with what’s having me feel wonder and worthiness. And focusing on the decisions will amplify that old momentum.

Suffice it to say the decisions were ones I noticed brought me unpleasant manifestations. Looking from the outside, you might describe these manifestations as extremely minor. Not like my newest client, who yesterday got T-boned while driving her cat in her Tesla to the Vet. No, my unpleasant manifestations these days are minuscule compared to that.

But like all unpleasant manifestations, they came in a cluster. A cluster of increasingly intense events. That intensity cluster was good. It caught my attention. And in that, I could do something about what was unfolding. If we don’t see what’s happening, we can’t do anything about it. I’m so glad I can see what’s happening.

So last night, I made a different decision. I decided I wanted to change my trajectory.

That’s what happened. But how it happened was extraordinary.

Leverage found in sleep

What happened all happened in dream state. While everyone dreams, hardly anyone understands what happens in that state. Even those who interpret dreams and those who do “dream therapy” likely don’t understand dreams. What’s happening in dreams is far more sophisticated than we know. And far more powerful.

What humans call dreams actually exist on many planes. These planes or dimensions are so numerous, the human brain can’t comprehend what’s happening. But our Broader Perspective, that larger part of us, understands it fully. What’s more, that part of us guides dream activity.

What we do while awake informs that activity. But dreams influence our waking experience in return. When a human can directly, deliberately use dream influence, life gets really interesting. For then we can use that influence to improve life experience.

That’s what happened last night.

It feels like it happened for me, instead of me making it happen. And that’s the yumminess of worthiness. Because everything that happens happens for us. In other words, we’re not making anything happen. We set our focus, then the Universe coordinates outcomes. Outcomes best fitting our focus or intention.

I got a direct experience of that last night. And, frankly, it feels AH-mazing seeing it unfold!

The “topography” of last night’s dream experience.

Proficiency produces powerful dream experience

I had three “segments” of dreams. The first came before my mid-night meditation. The second happened after that mediation. The third immediately followed the second. Several dreams comprised each segment. In total, I dreamed at least 15 dreams. All were extremely vivid and real, just like being awake. But the emotional “tone” or “flavor” of them was far more intense than waking reality.

Seth talks about senses we use in the dream state. Some correspond with our waking senses; seeing, hearing, etc. But some senses don’t correspond to waking senses. Perceiving through emotion is one of those. I can attest to the power of this sense. It feels absolutely intense. And whether it’s unpleasant emotion or pleasant emotion, it is that way…intense.

Which is why nightmares frighten us so.

In the first segment, I found myself in several different realities. I was in a suburb with houses, streets, sidewalks. But the place was nothing like waking reality. Where I was probably doesn’t even exist on this plane.

These first dreams all featured me making choices. While making them, I felt confused. I couldn’t decide what to choose. For example, I was in someone’s home. I was trying to choose a ball. The homeowner offered a variety from which to choose. There were many kinds of balls – basketballs, dodgeballs, etc. Some were old. Others were new. But, for some reason, I couldn’t choose.

On the way to that person’s home, I drove on a highway. While following traffic, I noticed I needed to follow the highway to the right. I didn’t do that though. Instead, I curved left. But I knew I wanted to go right!

Both of these are examples of me making decisions that resulted in unpleasant outcomes. You can see that they mimicked what I did while awake.

The set up continues

In the second segment, I walked through a dance club. To get there, I had to drive through an unfamiliar city at night. I parked my vehicle in the parking lot, then went inside. Inside, I met several unseemly youths. After those encounters, I decided to leave. But when I got outside, I noticed my vehicle was gone. I had just bought it. But then I realized my bad purchase decision: I bought a truck that was easy to steal.

Coaxing the youths to tell me who took it didn’t work. They took it, I knew, but they weren’t admitting it. At this point in the dream series I tried mightily to fix my decisions. Doing so got me feeling really intense negative emotion. Emotion that also was highly disempowering. It felt like despair, a wanting to give up. Highly uncharacteristic of me!

And this is another value of dream reality. It’s like a testing ground. It gives us experiences we won’t want in real life. There, we can experiment with them, and learn from them without having to live the dream “for real”.

I remember waking from the first segment feeling really clear those dreams were about my recent choices in waking reality. Waking from this second segment, it was clear how choices in the dream aligned with beliefs I have. Beliefs I’m wanting to change.

After that I went into the third segment. What happened next prompted this post.

Non sequiturs create resolution

In the third segment, I realized the purpose of this whole process. And the feeling I felt associated with that was extraordinary.

The dreams involved me being in the company of a beautiful being. I felt great comfort in their company. “Comfort” doesn’t do the feeling justice. Words can’t describe the power and pleasure of what I felt. We sat with others who watched a sporting event on television. I felt I belonged among these beings.

One of them, a female, stood before me. She had a beautiful body. Tattoos covered every inch of it. She said, without using any words, that she wanted to remove them. And that’s what she did. She peeled them away one by one with her fingers. As she did this, I felt something…a kind of release….

Then I was in an open area of low-lying buildings. My older brother stood beside me. Beneath our feet was a hand-woven rug of Middle Eastern origin. These fantastic planes flew above us. One after another passed over us and, as they did, I spoke to my brother in Farsi about how we can make use of this “campaign” to resolve differences between our country and others…

I know that doesn’t sound at all like the resolution I asked for. But you had to be there!

I’m including the major dreams only. Otherwise this post would be a TLDR experience. Suffice it to say, each one flowed one into the other with perfect cohesion. Still, I get they sound like non-sequiturs.

A perfect compendium of catharsis

The last dream I experienced before waking was the kicker. I stood in a shower. The shower wasn’t mine. Outside the shower window I heard children playing happily. Beside me, in the shower was a beautiful small-breasted woman. Her body was….nothing short of extraordinary. The water ran down both our bodies and all I remember besides what you just read was a feeling of HOME. It was a feeling of all being well, of release after climax, of ecstasy or completion.

Then a series of dreams happened that took this experience to a new level. It’s hard to describe exactly what happened. That’s because language doesn’t align with what happens in nonphysical. And the dream state happens in nonphysical.

Nevertheless the series involved me experiencing situations in which I “paused”. And in the pause, I did something that translated as resolving the process or beliefs or momentum that had me make decisions producing dissatisfying results. I knew that’s what happened, but it’s hard to make direct connection between what I saw and experienced in the dream and my translation of it.

All I can say is it was extremely cathartic. Especially after the climactic dream I experienced before that.

This entire process was such a fulfilling experience! When I woke it was just before 0730 and I knew, I just knew, what I asked for had been resolved on my behalf.

How did I know?

The joyful catharsis I felt directly stemmed from my dream experience. (Photo by Omid Armin on Unsplash)

Emotions: Indications of expansion

Because I felt GREAT. But that’s not all. I also felt FOR SURE that what you just read happened. I recalled ALL OF IT. Including the emotions, the associations with wake state experience prior to going to bed…all of it.

Before I started writing this, I amplified everything you’re reading by affirming how great it feels. I affirmed this new day. A new day unburdened by old belief. I expressed appreciation for, and felt joy in the expressing, my expanded awareness. I also expressed how blessed I felt by my cadre — the innumerable beings in nonphysical that support every desire I create as a result of being human.

Re-reading all this, I’m in awe. It’s this kind of experience that gradually becomes available to all my advanced practice clients. I feel blessed to lead the way. The way to extraordinary living. It certainly feels extraordinary. And I’m eager for more.

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