TL;DR: The author recounts a series of outstanding experiences, including stunning actions in nonphysical, which revealed the power of a simple four-step Positively Focused practice. Dream symbols confirmed the shift — proving again that presence is powerful, and alignment speaks through both waking life and the dreamworld to reveal to us our magical abilities.
This story begins with a whisper — one I’ve heard before. It was a quiet suggestion that perhaps my client flow might slow, that income could dip, that momentum might stall.
These were old thoughts, familiar ones. Their tone wasn’t quite panic. The suggestion didn’t conjure fear or dread. Instead, I calmly felt the suggestion like an old friend knocking gently, seeking access to my psyche. That tone represented a vibration I’ve felt before. One I’ve let in, in the past.
But this time, I didn’t answer the door with urgency or dread. Instead, I recognized the pattern and named it: old belief momentum. It wasn’t the truth and it wasn’t a problem. What it was: just old energy surfacing, asking to be seen and soothed.
And so I did what I teach my Positively Focused clients: I got still. I didn’t try to overwrite the feeling. Instead I let it be. Then I let it soothe.
Soothing is a powerful process. It is how we move from old, repeating, and dissatisfying outcomes into fresh, outcomes aligned with everything we’re wanting. The Universe constantly leads us to those fresh outcomes. But our comfortable, disempowering focus prevents us from hearing the guidance. Soothing those old beliefs we keep energizing through our focus is a hallmark of the Positively Focused practice.
One of those practice tools I whipped out when I felt this old friend, this comfortable, but undesirable suggestion rise in me. I knew it came to be soothed. And so that’s what I did. Here’s how I turned old momentum into presence, ease and reintegration.
The Soothing Practice: Four Steps to Integration
What I did next changed everything — not just in that moment, but across dimensions. The tool I used requires grounding in the Positively Focused Practice elementary level skills. Once those are mastered, the following four-step process not only makes intuitive sense, it also profoundly shifts our created reality:
In the first step we recognize the energy as old momentum — not a reflection of who we are now, but of what we once believed. Next, we accept that it’s there, in us, fully. We do so without pushing or resisting. We let is rest there in our awareness and accept that it is there rather than resist it. This is a crucial step. Next, we return to presence.
This is an advanced practice requiring personal instruction and something I show clients how to do. There, in presences we acknowledge (and experience) everything we want as already existing — here, now. Finally, once we’ve prepared our inner space with these three steps, we’re ready for the final, most profound step: Invite the energy home. This is a process of spiritual integration. We’re not trying to fix or flee what’s there. Instead we’re bringing back in what we once projected (rejected) out of us, as something we couldn’t accept.
The moment I did this process, my body relaxed. My breath expanded. That old belief — that abundance had to come through clients or anything else “out there” — lost its grip. I could feel the deeper reality: that I, myself, am the supply; that the Universe partners with me through resonance, not transaction. The process created within me a knowing; a knowing that I am the creator and the world around me bends to my focus.
As simple as this process sounds, it’s extremely effective. It’s also easy to do. One client used this practice in the middle of the night after waking in a panic about a health situation with her mom. In an instant she felt relief, relief that told her she aligned with a more empowering probable future reality. One in which she knew all is well and unfolding perfectly.
In my own case, confirmation came in the dream state. Just as it has so many times before.
Dreams as Reflections: Multidimensional Affirmation
In the first dream I saw a strangely structured crumbling house. Its laundry room was too large. Its walls were scratched with blackberry vines. It’s architecture, old and decrepit matched the architecture of old beliefs. I wandered through it aimlessly.
I came to a box. It was labeled “Chocolate Mints” — but appeared empty. In the dream I didn’t feel lack. Instead, I stayed present, and in that presence, I heard the sound of a soft rattle. When I opened the box again, it overflowed with delicious, chocolate mints — exactly what the label had promised.
Why hadn’t I seen the chocolates, the delicate sweets the first time? Because I had to align with the vibration, the probable reality, in which they were, not the one where they were not. The process in this dream was one of initiation: of asking me to make the vibrational shift. That I manifested in the dream the mints was the success indicator of making that shift.
In another dream, I glided through a winding trail in a silver Porsche. Then later, I maneuvered a wheelchair, once abandoned, now active. It carried me with surprising grace. At one point, large boulder-beings nearby took a bite of food and transformed — from rock to radiant human form just like that.
These images sound stochastic, and meaningless…but they weren’t. These images mirrored yet again the shift I’d made: taking “old” vehicles — discarded ways of being — and infusing them with new conscious movement. In the dream I was alchemizing nonphysical reality: turning what was once inert, to travel into expansion.
There was an aquarium too. I released a small garfish into a vivid reef, narrating the scene like a nature host. But then, a new sound emerged: slow, deliberate breathing. It represented something foreign and shadowy but not scary. My nervous system registered it as threat. But instead of fleeing in fear, I moved away in peace. Just like I had hours earlier in physical reality when scarcity tried to whisper its story again.
And then came the final scene: a ridgeline real estate deal, followed by a quiet space of soaking tubs, elderly women, and light eroticism. That meetup wasn’t sexual — not exactly. Instead it was luscious, spacious and relaxed. It was pleasure with no pressure, no expectation. Like wealth with no proving or seeking validation. It was delicious.
The Moment of Knowing: Real-Time Realization
This final dream represented the culmination of my night’s adventure. An adventure of flowing through the vibrational landscape I moved through when I did the four-step focus process described above. Dreams confirmed what presence already accomplished.
When I woke, the dreams remained like misted glass — luminous, still humming. And I knew immediately: these weren’t just dreams. They were the continuation of the alignment I had chosen just hours before. The Universe didn’t wait to show me physical results. It responded instantly. Not through money or new clients (though those, too, are coming), but through metaphor. Deeply personal, symbolic architectures told me in no uncertain terms: You’ve shifted.
I saw the old beliefs — the broken house. Then I felt the familiar doubt — the empty box. Yet I stayed with myself long enough to allow the mints’ appearance. Next I rode the new vehicle, used the old one, then watched as others awakened simply because I did. And this phrase came through like a bell: “The idea that your abundance is externally tied to others’ choices is dissolving.“
What this experience showed me — once again — is that there is no division between dreaming and waking. Both are vibrational classrooms. In each we create canvases for clarity. In each we respond immediately and precisely, to the frequency we hold.
Coming Home In Correspondence
The Positively Focused practice is not about pretending contrast doesn’t exist. It’s about seeing contrast for what it is: a mirror. It’s a messenger. A beautifully wrapped invitation to return to the Self. When we respond with presence — when we integrate old momentum with grace as I did, as my clients are doing — reflections (physical reality) change. Not later. Now.
That night, I didn’t manifest mints in a box because I did some advanced dreaming technique. I found them because I focused where the mints were not where they were absent. Since writing this, two new clients have manifested and, in January, I had more people expressing interest in the practice than ever before.
Coincidence? I think not.
This is what I believe mastery is: not control, but correspondence. Not chasing signs, but allowing the conversation. This is the magic that chocolate mints told me. But it’s not magic. It’s how the Universe brings us all that we want, effortlessly. Including stable client rosters.
It is always available — not just in dreams, but in every quiet moment we choose to come home. Are you ready to come home?
