Why Ignoring Spirit Guidance Makes Life Feel Harder

TL;DR: In this four-part series, the author explores how a client’s decision to override inner guidance set contrast in motion, showing that every opportunity begins as a soft whisper. But ignoring the whisper just makes the message louder and more painful. The author asserts that either way, no experience is ever misaligned.

The Universe said to a client last week “stay home.” It was a soft whisper that could have changed everything. When “Steven” woke up that morning, he already knew what to do. Or rather what not to do.

It wasn’t logic. No checklist appeared. It wasn’t a physical symptom either, like a scratchy throat.

Nevertheless, deep in his being, Steven felt it: Today was not a day to go to work. It was a Broader Perspective nudge—the kind he’d become increasingly familiar with as a Positively Focused client. The nudge came as a quiet, calm, inner voice. “Pause. Don’t push. Stay home.”

But Steven didn’t stay home. Instead, he shared that feeling with his wife. And she disagreed. “You should go,” she said. “Just get through it.”

Steven said her tone was kind but firm. And yet, that wasn’t what made Steven agree with her. Instead, it was a set of beliefs making up a large Belief Constellation. A constellation Steven couldn’t argue with. And in that moment, Steven did what most of us do far too often: He trusted external authority over inner knowing.

And that is where this story begins.

The foreshadowing

The story doesn’t begin the moment Steven’s keys went missing. Nor when his boss started strongly criticizing Steven for losing his keys. No, it started here, with Steven ignoring his knowing. In the moment Steven said “yes” to someone else’s voice, and “no” to his own. Because every bit of contrast—big or small—starts long before the event. It usually starts with a tiny departure from alignment. Like putting someone else’s opinion before our Broader Perspective’s opinion, for example.

The day before this, Steven had a beautiful moment with his sister — who’s also a Positively Focused client. They were connecting, growing, aligning together. It was a peak moment, that day. And the Universe? It responded accordingly. Which meant… the next level of expansion was coming.

Of course, every new level of expansion carries within it a new level of contrast. Contrast we’re not prepared for before the expansionary movement. Contrast that then sets the stage for the next step in our expansion. What unfolded next represented, therefore, a gift. Steven didn’t see it that way, however.

That night, driving home from that joyful experience with his sister, Steven struck a baby deer. The collision wasn’t violent. There was no injury to him or his vehicle. It killed the deer, however. And that, emotionally, hit Steven hard. He couldn’t sleep. His mind raced. He questioned himself. What did it mean? Was it a sign? Was it his fault?

He dipped into strong negative emotions that night. And he’d forgotten his practice. He forgot negative emotions, like contrast, are seeds of expansion. In his emotional turmoil, he also didn’t realize that the deer encounter was not a punishment. It wasn’t karma. It wasn’t even misfortune or an accident. What it was, was a perfect foreshadowing. The encounter foreshadowed a need for Steven to soothe.

A fork in timelines

The deer, then, served as a messenger. The messenger, the young mammal, was ready to return to nonphysical. Like all points of consciousness, it chose the circumstances of its transition. In doing so, it also chose to serve as the messenger it was.

Its message was not one of doom, but of misalignment. An indicator that the frequency Steven was on no longer matched the old timeline he was living in. The path he was taking was ready to shift. The deer marked the fork.

So the next morning, when Steven’s Broader Perspective said “stay home,” it wasn’t random. It was part of a larger orchestration. Again, Steven needed to soothe.

But here’s where things get fascinating: Steven didn’t ignore the nudge. He noticed it, he named it. He even voiced it. That matters, because many people never get to that step. They plow ahead, unaware of inner signals. Steven, however, was aware. He just chose, in this case, to listen to someone else.

Even that wasn’t “wrong.” But that choice created a cascade. A timeline fork—one that included lost keys, criticism from his boss, and the resurfacing of old, powerful emotional patterns Steven would have to work through.

Would that timeline have manifested if he’d stayed home? Unlikely. But this is where the Positively Focused practice shines: it doesn’t teach avoidance. It teaches awareness. Awareness and alignment. Because contrast is not the enemy—it’s the invitation.

Steven just RSVP’d the hard way.

Resistance Isn’t What You Think It Is

We often think resistance shows up as panic, chaos, a full-blown breakdown. But that’s the final expression of resistance. The beginning of resistance is so soft, it’s practically inaudible. It’s a subtle push against the stream. A decision that seems small. A moment of “I should” instead of “I want.”

When Aaron said “yes” to work that day, it wasn’t because he didn’t care about his alignment. It was because his old stories—the ones about responsibility, about being a good husband, about pushing through—had more momentum than his trust in the inner voice.

That’s not failure. That’s just contrast.

And contrast is a mirror. Here’s the twist: None of this should be interpreted as a mistake. The deer. The keys that would go lost. The upcoming confrontation with his boss. Even Steven’s fear about his promotion. All of it was divine.

Because Steven’s vibration was already changing. He was becoming someone new. And when that happens, life must respond with new experiences—experiences reflecting where we’ve been and where we’re going. So yes, Steven “should’ve stayed home.” But not because that would’ve been “better.” Only because that path would’ve been smoother.

This path? It was more bumpy. But also more illuminating. Because sometimes, the fastest way to growth is friction. And Steven was ready for growth.

Takeaway: Every contrast begins with a soft whisper from within. The question is: Are we listening? And if we’re not—can we appreciate the journey anyway?

Thanks for reading. Part 2 goes live tomorrow.