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How My Dreams Made Masculine Energy Powerful Again

TL;DR: The author explores how his inner masculine has risen to serve his feminine creativity—transforming dreams into aligned action, contrast into clarity, and daily life into a sacred union between inspiration and embodiment.

There’s a sacred moment in every creator’s journey when the inner feminine — the current of inspiration, imagination, and receptive knowing — completes her dreaming. She’s gestated ideas, nurtured them in stillness, and filled the field with possibility. Then something extraordinary happens: the inner masculine awakens, ready to move those dreams into form.

That’s where I find myself now — in a new season of my unfolding, where the action energy no longer feels like striving or doing. It feels like devotion. My masculine energy is rising to serve the feminine that is me.

For months, women populated my dream state. Beautiful, multidimensional, radiant women with whom I shared deep intimacy, oneness, and creative communion. These weren’t dreams — they were spiritual confirmation. Each woman represented a facet of my divine feminine energy: connection, creativity, sensual flow, and the embodied ease of being.

Dreams of the Masculine: The Shift in Symbolism

Lately, though, that landscape changed. Men began occupying the dream stage — men, machines, missions, a lot of movement, some messes and hierarchical management roles filled my dream state. All these roles represent masculine-coded imagery.

At first, I wondered where the goddesses had gone. Then I realized they hadn’t left at all. Their creations were simply taking form. The men, the mechanics, the machinery — they represent the forces of manifestation. The principle of action rising to serve what the feminine within me already conceived.

The dreams aren’t less magical, they’re more embodied. They mirror my waking life now: a cascade of projects, collaborations, expressions and divinely-timed manifestations — all arriving with purpose, precision, and power.

Feeling changes in dream state sparked a lot of inspired action.

The Dance of Doing and Allowing

In my physical world, the same balance plays out. My life is full — and gloriously so.

There’s the intimate work with clients, those weekly miracles of alignment where people rediscover their worthiness. There’s the writing: two websites, each a universe of unfolding stories charting my personal expansion. Then there’s the YouTube channel — my new passion project where I’m translating spiritual principles into visual storytelling. I’m also creating an exquisite Positively Focused app. I want more people to benefit from what I offer, beyond 1:1 mentoring. Then there’s my project: The Soul Finder AI Agent I’m coding through Replit. Last but not least, the newest child of inspiration: an edge node project I’m building in support of my enthusiasm for decentralized intelligence through Holochain.

All these represent a symphony of creation, and every movement feels perfectly timed.

When I’m centered, I sense the divine choreography: the feminine energy that came before generating the holistic vision and now the masculine energies executing it in reverence. The fullness isn’t overwhelm. It’s divine, whole orchestration.

But even that balance gets tested.

Contrast as Sacred Calibration

Recently, a new client paused her sessions. A long-term client, Jim, chose to step away entirely. Those contrasting moments could have felt like loss. Instead, they felt like calibration — the Universe asking me whether my masculine energy could stay devotional even when the feminine current temporarily receded.

It could have been easy to interpret those changes as disconnection, as loss. But I know better now. The pauses, the endings, the apparent absences — they’re part of the dance. Each contrast gives me a new reason to stay steady in my alignment. Contrast, in its truest form, is not negative. It’s positive. It’s rocket fuel for the next level of expansion.

When Sally paused, I felt the subtle tug of concern — the masculine impulse to “fix,” to act, to make something happen. When Jim left, a flicker of emptiness showed up, the feminine’s awareness over what seemed to dissolve.

But sitting in stillness with both, I realized something profound: each moment of contrast came to help me integrate both energies more deeply. The masculine in me needed to learn to act without attachment, to do without grasping. The feminine needed to rest in trust, to let go without fearing loss. Both were invited into a higher harmony, one where doing and being no longer opposed each other.

That’s the essence of mastery — not suppressing one energy in favor of the other, but letting them dance together.

Acts are expressions of masculine energy, moving in service and devotion of feminine energy which is creation.

Union Made Manifest

Today, I feel that integration in everything I touch.

When I write, I’m not “producing content.” I’m communing. When I guide a client, I’m not providing a service for income — I’m serving the unfolding intelligence that flows through both of us. When I build software, I’m not coding — I’m translating vibration into architecture.

Every project, every encounter, every dream now feels like the sacred marriage of divine feminine and divine masculine — imagination and implementation, inspiration and action, being and doing.

And what’s most beautiful is how natural it feels. I’m no longer pushing. I’m allowing — allowing the masculine energy to build what the feminine conceives, allowing contrast to polish my faith, allowing the creative process to show me my own evolution.

That’s why, even amid the fullness of my life, I feel light. My days are busy, but my being is unburdened.

This is what happens when masculine energy reclaims its true role: not to dominate or direct, but to devote. To move mountains in service of what the heart imagines.

A Love Story Within

So here I stand — a being married to their own wholeness.

The feminine within me continues to dream, to receive, to conceive. The masculine continues to act, to move, to bring into being. And together, they’ve become the pulse of everything I do.

Even the so-called “hard” moments — the pauses, separations, the deadlines, noise — are proof of this union. Each one reveals that creation and contrast are not opposites. They’re companions.

In the union of these inner forces, I see the template for humanity’s next evolution — one where all of us live as integrated creators, our doing inspired by our being.

That, to me, is the true sacred marriage. The one that turns every act into worship, every project into prayer, and every breath into creation itself.

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What Happens When the Spirit Makes Love to You

TL;DR: The author explores how erotic dreams reveal sacred union with one’s Broader Perspective. These intense experiences aren’t about sex—they’re vibrational integrations between physical self and Source.

I’ve had enough erotic dreams to know they’re not “just dreams.” These aren’t wish fulfillment fantasies bubbling up from the subconscious. They’re something far more profound—vibrational events where my physical apparatus does its best to translate nonphysical communion into something familiar.

And what’s more familiar, more all-consuming, more undeniable than sex?

Sex in the dream state isn’t always about sex. It’s about union and alignment. It’s about ecstatic integration between parts of the self, or between self and Source. Sometimes it takes the form of a lover, a partner, a friend. Other times, it looks like me—my body turning in on itself, morphing into masculine and feminine as I make love with my own wholeness. And that? That’s divinity in action.

Sacred Mechanics of Nonphysical Integration

For example, one dream left me introspective for days. In it, I stood at the threshold of a dark room, separated from the presence inside it by a cracked door. I sensed her—a red-haired being, dormant but radiant. Later, she kissed me. First on the forehead. Then, after I responded, on the lips. Her kiss wasn’t just physical. It was an activation. A permission slip to merge.

We kissed again, deeper this time. As our mouths opened, something incredible happened. I didn’t just put my tongue in her mouth—I became my tongue entering her. I expanded into her and she into me. The sexual act dissolved into a full-bodied spiritual absorption. We weren’t two bodies anymore. We were one vibration, folding into itself over and over again.

This is the best language I have for describing what really happened. But it wasn’t physical sex. It was transdimensional union—a collapsing of apparent separation, expressed as pleasure, as flesh, as rhythm and intensity. Our climax wasn’t ejaculation. It was integration.

When the Self Is the Lover

Another dream brought the point home even more clearly. I found myself as both the lover and the beloved, equipped with both a penis and a vagina. I was knotting into myself, fluidly turning inside out and outside in. The boundaries between body and being, masculine and feminine, had disappeared.

This was dream logic not human logic. The entire act represented a divine, spiritual logic, dressed in sensual metaphor.

I woke with the most intense erection—deeply satisfied, pulsing with aliveness. My body tingled with arousal and awareness, and my soul felt rinsed in golden light. In the final moments of the dream, I placed a golden eagle upon my belly. Its talons rested gently against my skin, curled in reverence. Its beak touched my mouth, and I licked it—slowly, deliberately. That wasn’t a sensual act. Instead, it was ceremony. A ritual of completion. A sign that I had re-membered another piece of my divine self.

Dream Characters Are Dimensions Of Us

It’s easy to assume that people we meet in dreams—lovers, friends, coworkers—are actually those people. But they’re not. Not usually.

In most cases, the familiar face our brain maps onto that being is a stand-in. The dreamtime isn’t interested in casting accuracy — it’s interested in resonance accuracy. If someone in our physical reality has a trait that our inner being wants to highlight, they’ll be used as a symbolic avatar. Not as deception, but as a way to clue us in on what we’re wanting to know about ourselves.

So when I dream of someone like Tom G.—the senior most manager in charge of Intel Oregon chip-making fabrication facilities, someone I worked with in my time there —it’s not really him. It’s a version of my inner authority, expertise and knowledge, the part of me that organizes vast systems of creation. The part that’s leading edge. It’s me, playing dress-up in my own subconscious to show myself how far I’ve come.

Sex as Spiritual Calibration

When we have sex in dreams, our physical minds interpret it as erotic release. But what’s really happening is vibrational entrainment. It’s alignment with our Broader Perspective. With Source. The orgasmic experience symbolizes that merging. It’s the closest our biology can come to grasping what it feels like to become one with All That Is.

And it often follows or precedes powerful dream sequences involving technology, architecture, calculation, or creative output. No randomness in the imagery. Just lead up. A preparation for the tuning. And the sex? That’s the final integration, the system-wide software update, installing itself with ecstasy and grace.

In waking life, we’re conditioned to think about sex in limited, surface-level ways. But in dreamtime, we let go of those limitations. Sex as symbolism becomes the limitation. Because sex as an experience is the only thing in waking reality that comes close to direct alignment with All That Is. That alignment feels that good. Better, actually.

So erotic encounters in dreams are not just about desire—they’re about destiny. They’re vibrational confirmations that we’re meeting ourselves at new levels. We’re reclaiming sovereignty, becoming Whole.

Whether I’m making love to a radiant redhead, to my own spiraling form, or to a symbolic representation of my creative power, the message is always the same: I am loved, seen, blessed. I am That which I’ve been reaching for. So I don’t flinch when my dreams get erotic. Instead, I celebrate, interpret and revere. Because I know what’s happening.

Source is showing—in the language of flesh, sweat, pulse, and sigh—that I am aligned, that am becoming, that I am remembering Who I Really Am. And there’s nothing more delicious than that.

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How Dreams Actually Reveal Your Best Life’s Momentum

TL;DR: The author shares a profound dream journey revealing how vehicles, symbols, and feminine energy reflect their vibrational expansion and ascension, illustrating dreams as tools for real-time spiritual evolution.

For years, I’ve tracked my dreams. I’ve assembled more than 15,000 dreams, carefully recorded, interpreted, and lived with. My relationship to dreaming isn’t casual — it’s devotional. I see dreams not as escapist fantasy, but as a sacred, multidimensional classroom and mirror. But it’s also prophecy. And a barometer of vibrational reality and expansion.

Lately, my dreams have been whispering something louder: You’re ascending, they’re saying. They’re not using those exact words, of course. Dreams rarely use words. Instead, they’re speaking in symbols so crystal clear, so lovingly tailored to my life, that the message is unmistakable. One of the clearest markers? The vehicles.

For years, I’ve seen myself on bikes, scooters, and even on foot. In recent dreams, that’s changed—radically.

It began with luxury sedans. Then high-end sports cars. Then a snow-white Porsche gliding out of the ocean. And most recently: a luxury electric vehicle (EV), driven by a beautiful feminine energy, sailing past 131 mph with total control, no fear and me in the passenger seat. And then? A custom-designed cigarette boat—its cockpit made solely for me.

Sitting in the cockpit in the dream felt natural, normal. But the feeling of it also felt powerful and joyful. The location was special too: an inlet filled with other boats of various makes and models all heading either into or out of someplace special.

Dream symbolism: energetic fact clothed in personal story

Why does this matter? Because vehicles in dreams aren’t just props. They’re representations of our frequency, our momentum, our agency in navigating inner and outer realms.

A bicycle is personal power at ground level. A luxury sedan is embodied ease. An EV? That’s effortless, vibration-driven movement—alignment in motion. A cigarette boat? That’s mastery over fluid, constantly shifting, massively deep emotional terrain with very high speed and powerful sovereignty.

And the driver in the EV? A feminine energy so radiant and calm, I’m sure she was my Broader Perspective—showing me the ropes, initiating me into a higher dreamscape frequency. Teaching me by feel, not by word. Then, when it was time, I took the wheel. The wheel of a massive, powerful, custom-tailored cigarette boat.

All this isn’t metaphor. This is energetic transmission filtered through symbolism. And when we track our dreams long enough, we start to see: they’re tracking us too.

Many people, including the science community, think dreams are the brain processing the day’s experience. They couldn’t be more off base.

The cigarette boat as symbol conveys an upgrade to my ability to move through vibrational frequencies with speed and power.

What are dreams?

Dreams are integral experience. They are literally integration fields in which we communicate across our multidimensional selves. That communication also happens between and among countless nonphysical beings. Beings in on the fun of our lives. I call those beings our “Cadre”. They too enjoy multidimensional selves. You can see then how communication, participation and interaction is vast, dense and complex. The dream world is a dense field of activity.

But it’s also an effortless field. And it’s something we are very, very good at.

When we sleep, we leave our bodies. We return to what we really are: eternal spirit beings. In that original state, we access all that we are across All That Is. There we plan our next steps in our ascension. Our Cadre is there too as are all the willing players in our journey. That’s what dreams are all about. That and a lot more.

I help clients understand their dreams. As they gain that experience, they find something powerful. Something I know very well: Dreams are extremely useful fields of life experience. They, in fact, are the main event in which our waking life happens.

When we return to our bodies, the brain, which we left behind along with our body, tries to make sense of the dream experience. It does the same thing it does with physical reality. It’s for this reason the dream occurs to us upon awakening as filled with images familiar to us: cars, boats, houses, etc.

None of those things are in the actual dream experience. That’s because the actual dream experience is 100 percent vibrational. With practice, however, we can interpret images the brain puts on the experience. We can get behind them, behind the images. That’s when dream information really shines.

Rewarding attention with evolution

It’s obvious then, that this recent dream sequence didn’t come out of nowhere. The dream wasn’t a random bunch of processing nonsense. Not at all like some scientists describe dreams. Rather, this sequence followed a bridge celebration dream — an unmistakable soul-level marker. Such markers I’ve come to see as a signpost of vibrational completion. Since that dream, the dreamworld itself seems to have upgraded.

Faster transitions and clearer landscapes are more prominent. So is more precise symbolism. And my feminine and androgynous guides are showing up more often too. All of this brings to me a deeper, more integrated joyful dream experience. They leave me waking with a deep, satisfying knowing that I am eternal. More than human.

(For fun, I’ll include the full description of that celebration dream at the bottom of this post. It was quite the celebration!)

To me, this is what ascension looks like in the dream state: not just soaring in light tunnels (though those happen too), but witnessing the progressive refinement of symbols that match growing self-recognition.

Dreams may start with walking. Evolve to biking. Next we’re in a car, then a plane. Then a starship. And all the while, our dreams cheer us on. They educate us too. They help our eternal expansion. Clarity of all this is available to anyone. If they learn how to listen.

Let’s go deeper together.

You don’t need 15,000 dreams to begin. You just need willingness. Curiosity. And a quiet reverence for the language your Broader Perspective already speaks fluently.

If you’ve been having dreams that feel rich, confusing, intense, or like they might mean something more, they probably do. Especially now, as humanity rapidly expands into a new relationship with time, identity, and multidimensionality. The dream state is becoming an increasingly active arena of training and guidance. Dream symbols are personal, yes, intimate even. But they’re also precise reflections of our spiritual progress.

If you’re ready to start decoding them—and yourself—I invite you to take the next step. Even if you don’t think you’re dreaming, you are. Become a client and explore how your dream state is preparing you for your realest reality yet.

Bonus: The dream celebration

Oh my gosh. This next dream is…I felt so much satisfaction and so much muted joy…just like a calm sense of joyful anticipation…but also joyful being in the moment, feeling as I am experiencing this extremely vivid, just extremely vivid, and detailed, and intense…in the sense of so much to take in…in this dream experience.

I’m standing on a bridge. There’s someone with me and that person walks away from me. They’re not like leaving me…They just go off on their own. On this bridge, it’s not a very high. It’s kind of shallow in its arch. But it’s really wide and it is jam-packed with the most diverse crowd of people I have ever seen.

The vast majority of these people are really young. Right before me, there are two kids with drum sets. They’re playing drums while several other young people are standing in front of them dancing to the music they’re beating out.

I look over the bridge into the water and there is a paddle border in the water. He’s laying on the board and coming my way, at least in the direction of where I’m standing. I noticed that the water is fairly shadow and there’s a sandbar that he’s coming toward. The colleague that walked away from me is looking down too. He sees that person and he tries to warn the person he’s going to run over the sandbar, but the person doesn’t hear the warning and he runs over the sandbar and gets stuck.

Then I look back up onto the bridge and there’s a grunge band playing what I believe…I think it’s Pearl Jam. Yeah, I think it’s Pearl Jam that they’re playing. I can’t see over the rest of the bridge because the bridge is so packed with people and everybody is reveling. It’s this joyous celebration. At one moment, I’m thinking I’m the oldest one here because all these people are very young. Some are young kids. Some are teenagers. Some are young adults, but no one looks over like 30 or 40. But then, I turn over to my left and standing above me are these two elderly African-American people, a woman and a man.

I’m looking at this diverse crowd of beings on this bridge and at one moment the woman and man look down at me because they’re standing over me. They look down at me and they smile at me. I smile back then I turn my head back to the right and I’m looking off the bridge. Off the bridge in the middle of this flowing body of water is this massive stand.

At the top of the stand is a DJ booth. On the DJ booth I can see the soundboard and I think I can see the DJ up there getting ready to play music. In front of the soundboard is this massive amplifier.

Then I notice on the far shore of this body of water, there’s another speaker and then on the shore closest to me, there’s yet another speaker.

I look down at the base of the DJ stand and then closer toward the bridge. There a tall, a really tall African American woman stands in the water. She’s looking at one of the trestles of the bridge. At the base of the trestle, there’s just another throng of people just hanging out there, enjoying their lives. The woman is standing in the water but the water, I thought the water was deep, but, well, obviously not too deep because there was a sandbar, but the girl is standing in the water and her feet are in the water, but the water barely comes up to her ankles.

There’s this just a feeling of anticipation permeating everything, everyone, everywhere, but also a feeling of in-the-moment joy and satisfaction that is emanating from this great big throng of people. I’m feeling the exact same feelings as I’m observing this. I could just go on and on about how delicious this final dream was. I woke up from it feeling exactly that subdued sense of joy and anticipation for the future. 

That’s what it was. And it was it was fantastic. It’s like the bridge was a bridge to the future and everyone was both in the moment joyful, but also extremely anticipatory, extremely eager about the future that’s coming. What a magnificent way to wake up!

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When A Dream Offers Great Real Life Rewards

Photo by Egor Vikhrev

TL;DR: The author relates a client’s dream and the fascination they and the client shared in interpreting the dream and how the dream clarified aspects of the client’s life. They then encourage readers to explore their dreams as a bonafide source of real-life rewards.

One thing I really like about the Positively Focused Practice is dream work. It’s so powerful. It’s powerful because so much happens in dreams that directly tie to waking life.

Clients are discovering how powerful their dreams are as they learn how to connect their dream experiences to their waking life. Contrary to what psychology and science assert, immense, real-life value comes from the dream world. Indeed, our entire waking life stems from that place where dreams are born.

Today I want to show what that value looks like by sharing a client’s dream experience. I want to share how it relates to his waking experience and how he felt after discovering his dream gave him information he really wanted to know.

Ready? Here we go!

Participating in our expansion

Troy is an aspiring writer and musician. Most of his 67-year life brought Troy resentment and regret, however. That’s because early on, Troy conjured disempowering beliefs about his creative expression. He didn’t believe it was good enough. So, of course, the world around him reflected that belief back to him, in the form of people not appreciating his expression.

Like nearly all people, Troy saw what people were doing and saying, or rather not saying, about his work as evidence. He told himself people not appreciating his writing was proof his work wasn’t any good. Perhaps you can see the trouble here. And maybe you can see how almost everyone talks themselves in to trouble when they don’t know what physical reality is for.

Physical reality is a reflection. It is a reflection we each create. Our reflection shows us beliefs we hold about a myriad of subjects, including beliefs of which we may not be consciously aware. By experiencing physical reality, among other things, we can true up the reflection (what shows up in life) to include more of our desires.

Physical reality also exists so we can directly participate in our individual growth and the growth of All That Is. A better word for “growth” is “expansion”.

So Troy not knowing his reality is a reflection caused him to create more resentment and regret by misunderstanding how people’s response to his work was serving him.

Misinterpreting physical reality

Physical reality is the way All That Is expands. It also is the best way we as individuals expand. Everything in physical, therefore, is positive. It shows us where we are relative to our desires, much like a map shows us where we are relative to where we want to be. Physical reality also shows us how well we’re doing in getting to where we want to be. And it gives us clues to things we may be clueless about. Things having a massive effect on how well or not well we’re crating a life we want, for example.

All the while physical reality can be a joyful, pleasurable, exciting adventure. One literally filled only with those things we want and none of what we don’t.

But if we don’t know what you just read, we misinterpret physical reality. We misinterpret it as “real”….not a reflection. That gets us into trouble because if we mistake the reflection as reality, then we tend to create more of what we see thinking it’s real. That’s why most people’s lives come packed with some of what they want and a lot of what they don’t want.

Troy’s balance of those two things skewed to unwanted. A lot of what he didn’t want showed up in his life, which is why he ended up resentful and filled with regret.

Seeing reality differently

That was before Troy found the Positively Focused Practice. Indeed, anyone who believes physical reality is anything other than a reflection of their inner state is going to create a reality including some wanted and some unwanted. But when a person figures this out, amazement is at hand. That person can use physical reality for its intended purpose. And in using it that way, they can create the reality of their dreams.

How?

By using physical reality for the reflection it is. Then tuning their inner state to match what they want. When they do that, then physical reality, which, again, is a reflection, must reflect that more positive inner state, e.g. a life experience including more of what they want. That’s what Troy is learning to do. His dreams are helping him do that.

Physical reality is a reflection of our inner state. (Photo by Caroline Veronez)

Instead of interpreting his reality as evidence of negative beliefs about his writing, like he used to do, Troy started looking at his reality differently. He started seeing it as a reflection of his inner state. Then he started doing something about his inner state.

What did he do?

He began telling better stories about his life, about himself, and about the world in general. Doing so, his mood improved. And as that happened, gradually, his life improved too. Meanwhile, he started the dream work. Then small changes started happening regarding how people responded to his creativity. Troy eventually saw bits of evidence of his success as a writer emerging.

Shortly thereafter, Troy had a dream.

A happy dream

The dream confused him because he didn’t know how to interpret it.

He dreamed about a regionally famous musician. In the dream, she was apologizing for breaking Troy’s heart. Troy told her she didn’t break his heart and in response, the musician expressed disappointment. Troy felt bad about that. So he changed his tune. He told her that his heart was broken. As soon as he did, both he and the musician laughed uproariously. Troy woke at that moment in confusion.

When Troy told me this dream, I was overjoyed. That’s because I knew exactly what it was about. After explaining it to him, Troy too was really happy about the dream because the dream told him a lot of things about where he is and where he’s headed.

On the surface, the dream was about Troy’s creative aspirations. But the dream had an even deeper meeting. Let’s take a look at both.

Desire goes both ways

The regionally successful musician in the dream represented Troy’s desire for stardom. The reason this particular star showed up in his dream is because she’s familiar. Troy performed as a back up musician for her. And, Troy does see her as very successful. This is important because the musician is regionally successful. She’s not an international star like Beyonce or Taylor Swift, for example.

That accords with the balance of Troy’s desire for success and his belief in his ability to be successful. He doesn’t see himself as either an international best selling author, or an internationally-recognized musician. His desires, in other words, are tempered by what he believes is possible: regional success. It’s no wonder then that the regionally successful performer showed up in his dream instead of Taylor Swift.

The performer’s apology represented Troy’s frustration and disappointment over not having the success he wants. Historically Troy blamed everyone other than himself about not being successful. So here his stardom was taking responsibility for his lack of stardom, which is exactly what Troy wants according to his beliefs.

But Troy acknowledged in the dream that his heart wasn’t broken. That represented Troy taking back his power, which he’s doing in waking life through his Positively Focused practice. This is an important element of his dream. Amplifying that will empower him further in waking life.

Something remarkable happens next in the dream. When he says his heart wasn’t broken, his stardom affects an air of disappointment. This is so important. It shows that Troy’s stardom wants him to want that stardom as much as Troy wants the stardom!

This is such an important feature of this dream, I want to spend a little time on it next.

Our desires live apart from us

Our desires are as alive as we are. And, like us, they desire. Their biggest desire is their full self-expression, much like a human desires its full self-expression.

So when we birth a desire, that desire wants fulfillment. So much so that if we don’t fulfill it, it will go elsewhere to pursue its fulfillment. That’s why sometimes a person will have a desire, not act on it, and then someone else will suddenly seemingly express that same desire into the world. What happened there is the desire went elsewhere because it “knew” it wasn’t going to be fulfilled with the first person.

Another way a desire will fulfill itself is by finding its fulfillment in another dimension, an alternate reality, if you will. Indeed, desires are so ravenous for self-expression, usually when one person has a desire, many others receive that same desire at the same time!

So desires are as alive as we are and seek self expression. Troy’s dream showed him his desire – stardom – wants Troy to fully express it! That’s why the musician expressed disappointment when Troy said his heart wasn’t broken. The desire wants to know Troy’s heart is in it, i.e. he wants to fulfill it.

As I mentioned earlier, an even deeper meaning came along with this dream. Let’s examine that next.

Dreams give us important information about our life trajectory. (Photo by Egor Vikhrev)

Our desires know…

At the end of the dream both Troy and his desire (the musician) busted out laughing when Troy apologized for telling the musician his heart wasn’t broken. This was a major message from this dream.

We are all eternal beings. In our eternity, we don’t experience any of life as dire, serious or even significant. As humans we sometimes feel all these things. But from our Broader Perspective, our lives here on earth are about joy, fun and expansion. That’s all. Our desires feel the same way.

In other words, and I write about this all the time, we’re here to have fun in our lives. Nothing serious is happening, and our desires know this. That’s why, when Troy apologized, the musician representing Troy’s stardom, and Troy himself, in the dream, burst out laughing.

While talking about this dream with Troy, I could see his demeanor change in real time. His shoulders relaxed. He became more thoughtful. Then a lightbulb went off in his head as we talked about how his stardom wants him as much as he wants it. I could tell Troy really enjoyed finding out what we talked about.

And this is the nature of the dream reality. There is so much useful, valuable information happening in that reality. It’s the same reality we come from before we’re born. I call it “nonphysical”.

Real life rewards

Awareness of nonphysical, whether through dreams or otherwise, can vastly improve our waking experience. It’s a wonder humans don’t avail themselves of this valuable knowledge when it’s so effing close to them and being offered every day. A lot of people don’t even realize they’re dreaming! Let alone recalling any dreams, or better yet, interpreting them accurately.

But everyone dreams. Including those who think they don’t. But they don’t realize it happening because they unconsciously block those experiences. How? By telling themselves they don’t dream.

We can see from Troy’s experience that dreams offer a lot of value. They tell us how we’re doing on our path to everything we want. And they can give us huge insights into what life is all about.

Dreams offer really great real-life rewards. That’s why I encourage all my clients to discover those rewards by exploring their dreams.