TL;DR: The author explores how erotic dreams reveal sacred union with one’s Broader Perspective. These intense experiences aren’t about sex—they’re vibrational integrations between physical self and Source.
I’ve had enough erotic dreams to know they’re not “just dreams.” These aren’t wish fulfillment fantasies bubbling up from the subconscious. They’re something far more profound—vibrational events where my physical apparatus does its best to translate nonphysical communion into something familiar.
And what’s more familiar, more all-consuming, more undeniable than sex?
Sex in the dream state isn’t always about sex. It’s about union and alignment. It’s about ecstatic integration between parts of the self, or between self and Source. Sometimes it takes the form of a lover, a partner, a friend. Other times, it looks like me—my body turning in on itself, morphing into masculine and feminine as I make love with my own wholeness. And that? That’s divinity in action.
Sacred Mechanics of Nonphysical Integration
For example, one dream left me introspective for days. In it, I stood at the threshold of a dark room, separated from the presence inside it by a cracked door. I sensed her—a red-haired being, dormant but radiant. Later, she kissed me. First on the forehead. Then, after I responded, on the lips. Her kiss wasn’t just physical. It was an activation. A permission slip to merge.
We kissed again, deeper this time. As our mouths opened, something incredible happened. I didn’t just put my tongue in her mouth—I became my tongue entering her. I expanded into her and she into me. The sexual act dissolved into a full-bodied spiritual absorption. We weren’t two bodies anymore. We were one vibration, folding into itself over and over again.
This is the best language I have for describing what really happened. But it wasn’t physical sex. It was transdimensional union—a collapsing of apparent separation, expressed as pleasure, as flesh, as rhythm and intensity. Our climax wasn’t ejaculation. It was integration.
When the Self Is the Lover
Another dream brought the point home even more clearly. I found myself as both the lover and the beloved, equipped with both a penis and a vagina. I was knotting into myself, fluidly turning inside out and outside in. The boundaries between body and being, masculine and feminine, had disappeared.
This was dream logic not human logic. The entire act represented a divine, spiritual logic, dressed in sensual metaphor.
I woke with the most intense erection—deeply satisfied, pulsing with aliveness. My body tingled with arousal and awareness, and my soul felt rinsed in golden light. In the final moments of the dream, I placed a golden eagle upon my belly. Its talons rested gently against my skin, curled in reverence. Its beak touched my mouth, and I licked it—slowly, deliberately. That wasn’t a sensual act. Instead, it was ceremony. A ritual of completion. A sign that I had re-membered another piece of my divine self.
Dream Characters Are Dimensions Of Us
It’s easy to assume that people we meet in dreams—lovers, friends, coworkers—are actually those people. But they’re not. Not usually.
In most cases, the familiar face our brain maps onto that being is a stand-in. The dreamtime isn’t interested in casting accuracy — it’s interested in resonance accuracy. If someone in our physical reality has a trait that our inner being wants to highlight, they’ll be used as a symbolic avatar. Not as deception, but as a way to clue us in on what we’re wanting to know about ourselves.
So when I dream of someone like Tom G.—the senior most manager in charge of Intel Oregon chip-making fabrication facilities, someone I worked with in my time there —it’s not really him. It’s a version of my inner authority, expertise and knowledge, the part of me that organizes vast systems of creation. The part that’s leading edge. It’s me, playing dress-up in my own subconscious to show myself how far I’ve come.
Sex as Spiritual Calibration
When we have sex in dreams, our physical minds interpret it as erotic release. But what’s really happening is vibrational entrainment. It’s alignment with our Broader Perspective. With Source. The orgasmic experience symbolizes that merging. It’s the closest our biology can come to grasping what it feels like to become one with All That Is.
And it often follows or precedes powerful dream sequences involving technology, architecture, calculation, or creative output. No randomness in the imagery. Just lead up. A preparation for the tuning. And the sex? That’s the final integration, the system-wide software update, installing itself with ecstasy and grace.
In waking life, we’re conditioned to think about sex in limited, surface-level ways. But in dreamtime, we let go of those limitations. Sex as symbolism becomes the limitation. Because sex as an experience is the only thing in waking reality that comes close to direct alignment with All That Is. That alignment feels that good. Better, actually.
So erotic encounters in dreams are not just about desire—they’re about destiny. They’re vibrational confirmations that we’re meeting ourselves at new levels. We’re reclaiming sovereignty, becoming Whole.
Whether I’m making love to a radiant redhead, to my own spiraling form, or to a symbolic representation of my creative power, the message is always the same: I am loved, seen, blessed. I am That which I’ve been reaching for. So I don’t flinch when my dreams get erotic. Instead, I celebrate, interpret and revere. Because I know what’s happening.
Source is showing—in the language of flesh, sweat, pulse, and sigh—that I am aligned, that am becoming, that I am remembering Who I Really Am. And there’s nothing more delicious than that.
TL;DR: The author shares two powerful client dreams — one featuring Vladimir Putin, the other a transgender escort — to show how dreams mirror dominant beliefs, and emotional momentum, thereby showing where one is relative to achieving their deepest desires.
Some people say they don’t dream. Others say they do, but think their dreams are just gibberish—random nonsense, neurons firing off, the brain processing the day’s events. But what if that assumption was completely wrong? What if our dreams are actually our most accurate, uncensored spiritual feedback system next to our emotions?
A new client recently asked in session: “Why isn’t this material taught in school? If people learned this stuff early on, they’d live way better lives.” She’s right. If we understood what dreams are actually showing us, we’d know exactly where we are vibrationally—and how close or far we are from the life we want most.
Let me show you how, using two dreams from a client I’ll call Daniel.
Dreams as vibrational mirrors
In the Positively Focused practice, dreams aren’t psychological leftovers. They’re real-time broadcasts from our Broader Perspective, offering feedback on: Our dominant emotional state, belief constellations at the forefront of our experience and the size of the vibrational gap between where we are and what we want. They’re not predictions. They don’t “mean” one rigid thing. Instead, they’re energy reports. And when interpreted clearly, they can change our lives.
Which brings us to Daniel and his dreams, which were predominately about power and shame. Daniel had been working through deep contrast around a woman he still loves — a powerful, beautiful trans escort we’ll call Irene. Their relationship was complicated: transactional, emotionally charged, and karmically dense. Daniel fell in love. Irene remained elusive. They mirrored each other’s strongest, most dominant beliefs.
Because of that, their transactional relationship, for Daniel, dipped into a romantic one. Irene wanted that too, to some degree, but her hatred of men and self-loathing forced her to keep emotional intimacy with Daniel at a distance. That triggered even more Daniel’s old beliefs, which caused him to push harder for a relationship beyond the transactional one. And that caused Irene to resist even more.
Eventually the relationship (the transactional one) blew up with Irene going her way and Daniel, bitter, angry and frustrated yet still pining for her, going the other. Daniel felt an extremely strong connection with Irene. Irene felt it too, but couldn’t even begin to acknowledge its presence. Therefore, Daniel resolved to use the Positively Focused practice to rendezvous with a better version of Irene. One who could welcome a “real” relationship with open arms.
Dreams as vibrational maps
But Daniel had a LOT of negative momentum making him not a match to such a relationship. That explained why he was seeing escorts, hanging at strip clubs, drinking excessively and porn binging. So creating a better version of Irene would take a while I explained.
One day in session long after that conversation, Daniel began feeling like it was taking too long. This is a common thread for him. Impatience, thinking he knows when something should happen, instead of trusting divine timing, plagues him. So he asked me where he stood, vibrationally, in manifesting a reunion with Irene. It was a reoccurring subject in our sessions, reflecting Daniel’s obsession with Irene. An obsession that worked against him creating a better version of her.
Up to this point, Daniel created a TON of evidence showing he was becoming successful at creating the reunion. But he kept wobbling between belief, hope and eager anticipation – all emotions consistent with him receiving what he wants – and disillusionment, doubt, pessimism and hopelessness. Pain this wobble caused gave Daniel the momentum necessary to have a dream. A dream that amplified everything I had been telling him. It was a perfect, positive dream, but Danial woke from it convinced it was a nightmare.
It wasn’t a nightmare. It was a vibrational map.
A dream reflecting so much
In the dream, Daniel is in a car with his parents and Vladimir Putin. They’re navigating a steep, winding driveway in what seems to be Daniel’s own car in waking life: a high performance, manual transmission European model. Daniel wants Putin to try driving it. He’s excited to know what this powerful man thinks of his “vehicle” — a potent symbol for how Daniel views his own life path and seeks external validation.
Putin drives the car fast, taking blind corners recklessly. Yet, he’s unimpressed. They stop at a pastry shop. Daniel’s father mutters something insulting under his breath—Putin hears it. His eyes flash with murderous rage. But then something strange happens.
Putin notices Daniel’s father’s lifestyle: sleeping all day, eating jelly beans, cake and drinking Snapple. He sees the poor habits, the undisciplined routine. At first he thinks this guy lives a pathetic life. But then….he softens. Not out of compassion—but indifference.
“This man,” he seems to think, “is so weak and pathetic… he’s not even worth killing.”
Putin’s extreme judgement mirrors Daniel’s own judgement for himself and his father.
That’s the moment Daniel felt most gutted. Not by violence, but by dismissal. And that’s the point. This dream wasn’t about Putin or Daniel’s father. It was a metaphorical embodiment of Daniel’s internal conflict.
He sees his desire for self-love and spiritual reunion (the path) as something noble — but he often hands the wheel to a distorted, masculine archetype: control, fear, shame, domination and aggression. He craves power, but feels like a fraud. He wants approval, but fears worthlessness. It’s not Putin judging him. It’s him judging himself — mercilessly. Just as he — Daniel mercilessly judges his father.
A dream about desire and exposure
A few nights later, Daniel has another dream. This time, Irene is at the center.
He finds her with another man—a new boyfriend who also is a personal trainer. Daniel tries to contact her but ends up talking to the man instead. What unfolds is intense: Daniel begins exposing Irene to her new partner. “Do you know how much she hates men?” “Can you afford to be with her?” He feels righteous… and also embarrassed. Suddenly, she’s physically there—close to him in the dream. She steals a PS Vita out of his pocket, a small gaming device that was a market failure.
The boyfriend scolds her gently: “Stop that, Irene. I’ve seen her do that before.” he tells Daniel. Then Irene turns to Daniel and screams: “You just can’t get enough of me, can you?”
And in that moment all is revealed. Irene is exposed. Daniel is exposed. They’re both tangled in projection, shame, power play… and still, longing. Daniel woke up from this dream deeply pessimistic. He described himself feeling “defeated”. He thought the dream showed him his desire was futile.
But the dream wasn’t showing him he was failing. It showed him the perfect vibrational snapshot of where he stands relative to what he wants:
The PS Vita = a symbol of communication of spiritual connection,fun and joy. It also represents his connection to the pure positive energy that is his Broader Perspective.
Irene stealing the PS Vita = Daniel has put her on a pedestal, above his connection with himself. She literally steals his connection to the divine, a symbol of Daniel prioritizing her over connection with himself.
The righteousness = his current coping strategy for unresolved grief and control
The revenge he wreaks on Irene = the contempt he still feels for Irene which is pushing her away, not drawing her near
Her words = an acknowledgment of their undeniable connection. A promise that the relationship is ready…when Daniel becomes a vibrational match to it. Also, a powerful indication of how desperately attached he is.
What these dreams reveal
This wasn’t a nightmare. It was a wake up call. It is contrast revealed symbolically. It’s feedback, lovingly offered, so Daniel can see what he’s emanating—and why it’s blocking what he wants.
The correct response to the dream? Conjure better feeling thoughts about the relationship Daniel wants. Soothe old beliefs about betrayal, emotional abuse and belittlement. Relax into what it would feel like to have the relationship Daniel wants. All of these are part of the Positively Focused framework. And Daniel has had success implementing them.
But because he wobbles between empowering beliefs and disempowering ones, he’s moving two steps forward and one-and-three-quarters steps backward. And that’s why his progress is so slow seeming!
Dreams are offering profound guidance. Life can go so much better being aware of them.
Together, these two dreams lay out Daniel’s entire journey:
He wants reunion, but his momentum says “you’re not ready yet.”
Daniel wants love, but still filters it through manipulation and judgment.
He wants softness, but keeps relying on authoritarian control over others.
Danial craves self respect but can’t get that until he respects (stops condemning) his father, and, as an extension, respects himself.
And the moment he understands all this — not intellectually, but vibrationally — hesoftens. Again, he’s experienced that softening over and over and over in brief flashes. They last long enough to show him what he wants is there. He just needs a more consistent practice.
But he can’t develop that because he sees these dreams as punishments, when, instead, they’re pathways.
Why this should be taught in schools
Too many people think dreams are random. Too many think nightmares are warnings. So many wake up feeling fear about what was actually a clear, loving message from their Broader Perspective. Others wake up oblivious to very powerful, valuable guidance.
Dreams are our personal vibrational syllabus. So “Why isn’t this taught in school?” Good question. If children learned to read dreams as vibrational maps, they’d understand their emotions, desires, and resistance by the time they hit adolescence. Then they wouldn’t chase worth through unhealthy habits and toxic relationships. They’d stop mistaking anger and bully behavior for power. They’d live lives of conscious creation, emotional honesty, and spiritual integration.
And in doing so, they would lives lives as adults as extraordinary people.
Our dreams constantly inform us. The question we must ask is: Are we listening? We don’t need to decode everything all at once. We can just start by noticing we have dreams. Write them down, let the symbols breathe. Ask: What does this reflect back to me? What does it tell me about where I am—and where I want to be?
Want help getting started or interpreting a dream that won’t leave you alone? Book a free trial session. Dreams aren’t random. They’re us, in symbolic form—calling us forward.
TL;DR: This post reveals how a client’s emotionally charged work assignment became the perfect backdrop for dream-state alchemy—and how that dream dissolved resistance and sparked powerful clarity and ease.The experience shows how dreams work in conjunction with waking reality, when one is Positively Focused.
When Marsha (not her real name) came into session this past week, she carried a storm of energy around an assignment given to her by a work colleague and friend, Janet (also a pseudonym). The assignment seemed simple on its surface, but for Marsha, it stirred a complex emotional brew: fear of exposure, anxiety around performance, and a deep, practiced belief that being emotionally transparent might somehow be unsafe.
I wrote about this in my last post. I’m going deeper in this post, to show how exactly the dream state works in conjunction with waking reality, thus making it a powerful Source of awareness.
It’s easy, when gripped by these emotional currents, to think the problem is the whatever we are facing. But in the Positively Focused practice, we know something deeper is always at work. And that’s where this session offered Marsha something stunning.
Marsha described the assignment as triggering a downward emotional spiral. Her words reflected the inner tangle so many experience: “The moment Janet [gave me the assignment] my stomach dropped and my anxiety was like blowing through my head,” She said. “It got so bad that afterwards, I was physically shaking. I was so, so very extraordinarily stressed out, and felt incredibly pressured.”
Marsha tried applying the Positively Focused process to calm herself, and she got some traction. But the resistance was persistent. Eventually, she let herself rest. She was tired. And rather than resist that tiredness, she did something quietly powerful: She allowed herself to slip into sleep.
What happened next is a beautiful demonstration of how dreams serve our waking evolution.
The Dream Wrapped in the Waking Life
I asked Marsha to share her dream. Understanding the power of the dream world requires that I share what she shared. So here it is, straight from our session transcript:
“I was thinking about [Janet] and the task before I went to sleep, and I felt like, in the dream, even though I was in the dream, it was almost like [the task] was on the outskirts. My worry of that specific thing was on the, like, physically around the frame of the dream that I was having, even though it had nothing to do with the dream.”
Unknown to Marsha at the time, the dream had everything to do with the task. I’ll break that down in a moment. Here’s how she described what happened next:
“My mom and I are in a hotel room, and then we go explore this town, and everything is like old and dusty, and unkempt. And then she goes back to the hotel room, and I go to a shop or something where there’s an ex firefighter who’s very attractive. He’s showing me some things, and I’m flirting with him, and he’s embarrassed. I leave him to go back to the hotel room where my mother is, and she is not in the room, but the kitchenette that’s in the hotel room has like a pot of tea or something that’s bursting and like flowing, and it’s dangerous.”
“So I turn it off, and I’m really mad about it. And then someone who’s my sister. I know this person to be my sister, even though, in real life I don’t actually have a sister, comes in, and I’m mad at my sister, who, oddly enough, looks a lot like me, not identical twins. I’m mad because she wasn’t there in the hotel room to make sure that something hazardous, like a boiling pot, wouldn’t occur to protect my mom, who was not in the room.”
Interpreting The Dream World
Dreams, in the Positively Focused framework, are vital, vibrational events. They are not just the mind replaying memories. They are orchestrations of our Broader Perspective, designed to help us integrate, soothe, and expand.
When we go into nonphysical, we leave our brain, as well as the rest of our bodies, behind. When we return to our bodies, the dream’s “echo”, or resonance of the dream in non-physical, returns with us. At that point, our brain takes that echo and tries to translate the nonphysical experience into a kind of waking experience. It’s the same function the brain plays in waking experience: it’s translating vibrations into our “reality”. So it tries to do the same thing with nonphysical vibrational experience.
As it does this, it uses imagery from our waking life to approximate as best it can what happens in our nonphysical “dream” experience. Since dreams are much more complex than physical reality, the brain doesn’t get it all. It does get enough, however, for someone trained in dream work to interpret the dream.
That’s what I did with Marsha.
I told her several things stood out about this dream. Some of those things indicated the powerful connection Marsha has to the dream world. Her dream was extremely vivid and detailed. Her recall was also astounding. Furthermore, Marsha’s dream occurred in a nonphysical container holding the waking life assignment and the emotional response Marsha had to it. That she perceived that was remarkable. But she still thought the dream had nothing to do with the assignment.
The dream had everything to do with the assignment, however. And, in the dream, Marsha worked through her fear and anxiety, which is why what happened when she came out of the dream was possible. Let’s look at the dream imagery to see the connections.
Marsha’s dream depicted by ChatGPT.
Dream Symbolism Offers Keys
The shopping mall and hotel imagery was not random. Marsha is a young, mixed race, beautiful woman. And she maintains that beauty with a passion. She also loves the finer things in life. Shopping malls are her happy place. Since nonphysical, for everyone, is a place of unmitigated joy, freedom and expansion, the closest imagery her brain could approximate that expansive experience to is shopping malls.
However, that environment was dusty and full of abandoned products. That indicated that Marsha no longer want’s that old way of being to be her main focus. That is reflected in her waking life, evidenced by her willingness to work with Janet on a fledgling business and her decision to become a Positively Focused client. She’s ready for expansion, in other words.
Hotels in dreams are often transitory locations as hotels typically are in waking life. So the dream takes place in a transitory state, the transition being from the “what-is” of Marsha’s anxiety and fear (which are vibrations), to a different vibrational frequency, which Marsha intends to move to in the dream.
The firefighter experience is Marsha’s Broader Perspective showing up as capable, competent and with a lot of experience (retired) dealing with what I described as Marsha’s “4-alarm fire” that was the assignment.
“He’s a demonstration of you, to yourself,” I told her. “Of your ability to handle what you consider to be a conflagration, the fire raging in you.”
While I explained this, Marsha got more interested and energetic in her vibrational stance. She leaned into the computer. I could tell what I shared was landing.
Evidence she’s capable
The firefighter represented the fact that Marsha’s got this whole situation under control. Marsha’s brain interpreting her as flirting with the firefighter was an attempt to approximate the intense connection and love Marsha has. Not for firefighters, but for the connection she has with her Broader Perspective, which is what the fireman represented.
The next important image was the kettle in the kitchenette. It was about to explode. I probed Marsha about this important image: “What kind of kettle is it?” I asked. “Is it like an ancient Japanese iron kettle, or is it like a modern pot?”
Marsha said it was a traditional Japanese iron kettle.
“That’s not surprising,” I said. Then I explained how the transient or liminal space represented by the hotel was a place of expansion. Her mother not being there showed that in nonphysical, Marsha is expanding into her own sovereignty. Her mother plays a dominant role in her life right now. That role isn’t negative. They’re good friends as well as mother/daughter.
However, Marsha is a freedom-seeking, powerful expanding being. And because of choices her mother made, her mother is all about tradition and conservatism. The ancient Japanese tea kettle bursting with steam, bubbling over, I said, is representative of Marsha’s sovereign, creative energy wanting to expand beyond limiting tradition and conservation beliefs.
The you that wants freedom and expansion, I told her, “It’s bubbling over, out of this cauldron that you’ve wrapped around it to try and contain it. And no, it’s not going to be contained.”
Sibling As Broader Perspective
Then we touched on the wonderful interplay of Marsha with herself in the context of her mother’s influence. The sister Marsha doesn’t have, looked like Marsha. That’s because this “sister” is actually Marsha’s expanded self, who already has moved past her mother’s influence. And the argument Marsha has with her was about Marsha coming into alignment with that expanded version of her.
The expansion represented by all this imagery happened in the dream state, in part, to spur Marsha’s movement forward in wake state. It was movement forward, which was why, when she woke from this dream, not only did she feel better, resistance she had about the assignment and other tasks disappeared.
Sleep state is powerful. In the dream state we process tremendous energies all to our benefit. Consciously benefitting from that experience, however, requires we know it’s going on. And it requires us fostering the processing. How? By moving forward from the dreams.
What do I mean by that? Well, most people don’t realize they’re dreaming. Many who do don’t know what dreams really are. Or they forget them the moment they wake. In doing so, they pick right back up whatever they were thinking about before they went to sleep. So they just re-amplify whatever momentum they had from the previous day.
The key to benefitting from dreams is to wake up in a “fresh-start” frame of mind. Sleep state resets us to our expansion. Recognizing this and leveraging it makes a huge difference, as Marsha found.
Integration Through Symbolism From Resistance to Inspiration
To recap: Every symbol in Marsha’s dream was an echo of her waking concerns:
The boiling kettle reflected her suppressed, expansive, creative and emotional energy.
The hotel symbolized a temporary space of identity—she hadn’t yet claimed her sovereignty in that assignment.
The flirtation with the fireman showed her inner fire seeking expression in playful, unstructured ways.
The absence of her mother underscored the detachment from external authority; she wasn’t looking for approval anymore.
These weren’t intellectual metaphors. They were felt, emotional realities in the dream. And, they had her wake up different. When she came out of sleep, she wasn’t just rested. She was clear. She felt different. Lighter. No longer bogged down by the invisible weight of the assignment. And what followed was surprising to her:
“I woke up, and the anxiety had dissipated.” She said.
Marsha’s dream allowed her to release a ton of resistance which made her much more effective.
The dream had done the heavy lifting. But her Broader Perspective and the Universe weren’t done with her yet. Moreover, what happened next tied the whole manifestation together perfectly.
A girlfriend who lives in London texted Marsha after this dream event. It’s someone Marsha doesn’t talk with often, which explains why she thought this text was “random”.
It was anything but random though. Attached was an Instagram meme, “talking about how today is the luckiest day of the year, the luckiest day.” Marsha said. Marsha was stunned by the meme’s beauty, she said. It just really stood out in her mind.
“Okay, it’s supposed to be the luckiest day,” Marsha recounted. “This is a really big deal. So everything should just go really well today, and I shouldn’t be feeling bad anymore. That’s how I felt when I saw the message.”
“Right after that,” Marsha said. “My other girlfriend sent me another screenshot which I just need to read to you. And so I was wondering if this was my Broader Perspective communicating to me via universe. It has Taurus on it, and then it goes: “Once she became comfortable with being uncomfortable, she was free to grow.”
Free to grow
“It resonated so hard!” Marsha exclaimed.
Indeed. It was the perfect capstone to a brilliant unfolding. A perfect orchestration looping in her Broader Perspective, the Universe and two friends’ Broader Perspectives which inspired them to send messages at the perfect time.
After receiving them, Marsha said, “…I instantly felt better.” Of course. She fully embodied, right then, that expanded self she met in the dream.
Now, Marsha’s story is not unique. Me and all my clients experience our versions of exactly the same sequence of events. This story is inspiring. But it’s also more than inspiring. It’s instructional. It shows how dreams can:
Help us process emotional energy too overwhelming to resolve in wake state.
Use symbolic language tailored to our personality and preferences.
Release resistance in ways we don’t have to consciously understand.
Prepare us to receive inspiration and act from alignment, not pressure.
And if we CAN bring conscious awareness to the process, our appreciation – of ourselves, of our expanded nature, of life in general, grows.
Most importantly, it shows that waking life and dream life are not separate. They are part of the same vibrational conversation.
The Relationship That Makes It All Possible
Marsha didn’t get lucky and these events weren’t random. She got receptive and then manifested what some would call a miracle. Her willingness to trust the process, rest when tired, and explore her dreams made the difference.
That willingness is what we cultivate in the Positively Focused practice. By “cultivate” I don’t mean working hard at it, but by nurturing the one relationship that makes everything else make sense: Our relationship with our Inner Being. That relationship is the source of every insight, every dream, and every inspired action. And it’s available to everyone.
We don’t have to wrestle our way through resistance, we can rest our way into clarity. We can dream our way into power, freedom and our sovereignty. And we can become people who feel good first, and let life match that frequency.
TL;DR: The author shares a profound dream journey revealing how vehicles, symbols, and feminine energy reflect their vibrational expansion and ascension, illustrating dreams as tools for real-time spiritual evolution.
For years, I’ve tracked my dreams. I’ve assembled more than 15,000 dreams, carefully recorded, interpreted, and lived with. My relationship to dreaming isn’t casual — it’s devotional. I see dreams not as escapist fantasy, but as a sacred, multidimensional classroom and mirror. But it’s also prophecy. And a barometer of vibrational reality and expansion.
Lately, my dreams have been whispering something louder: You’re ascending, they’re saying. They’re not using those exact words, of course. Dreams rarely use words. Instead, they’re speaking in symbols so crystal clear, so lovingly tailored to my life, that the message is unmistakable. One of the clearest markers? The vehicles.
For years, I’ve seen myself on bikes, scooters, and even on foot. In recent dreams, that’s changed—radically.
It began with luxury sedans. Then high-end sports cars. Then a snow-white Porsche gliding out of the ocean. And most recently: a luxury electric vehicle (EV), driven by a beautiful feminine energy, sailing past 131 mph with total control, no fear and me in the passenger seat. And then? A custom-designed cigarette boat—its cockpit made solely for me.
Sitting in the cockpit in the dream felt natural, normal. But the feeling of it also felt powerful and joyful. The location was special too: an inlet filled with other boats of various makes and models all heading either into or out of someplace special.
Dream symbolism: energetic fact clothed in personal story
Why does this matter? Because vehicles in dreams aren’t just props. They’re representations of our frequency, our momentum, our agency in navigating inner and outer realms.
A bicycle is personal power at ground level. A luxury sedan is embodied ease. An EV? That’s effortless, vibration-driven movement—alignment in motion. A cigarette boat? That’s mastery over fluid, constantly shifting, massively deep emotional terrain with very high speed and powerful sovereignty.
And the driver in the EV? A feminine energy so radiant and calm, I’m sure she was my Broader Perspective—showing me the ropes, initiating me into a higher dreamscape frequency. Teaching me by feel, not by word. Then, when it was time, I took the wheel. The wheel of a massive, powerful, custom-tailored cigarette boat.
All this isn’t metaphor. This is energetic transmission filtered through symbolism. And when we track our dreams long enough, we start to see: they’re tracking us too.
Many people, including the science community, think dreams are the brain processing the day’s experience. They couldn’t be more off base.
The cigarette boat as symbol conveys an upgrade to my ability to move through vibrational frequencies with speed and power.
What are dreams?
Dreams are integral experience. They are literally integration fields in which we communicate across our multidimensional selves. That communication also happens between and among countless nonphysical beings. Beings in on the fun of our lives. I call those beings our “Cadre”. They too enjoy multidimensional selves. You can see then how communication, participation and interaction is vast, dense and complex. The dream world is a dense field of activity.
But it’s also an effortless field. And it’s something we are very, very good at.
When we sleep, we leave our bodies. We return to what we really are: eternal spirit beings. In that original state, we access all that we are across All That Is. There we plan our next steps in our ascension. Our Cadre is there too as are all the willing players in our journey. That’s what dreams are all about. That and a lot more.
I help clients understand their dreams. As they gain that experience, they find something powerful. Something I know very well: Dreams are extremely useful fields of life experience. They, in fact, are the main event in which our waking life happens.
When we return to our bodies, the brain, which we left behind along with our body, tries to make sense of the dream experience. It does the same thing it does with physical reality. It’s for this reason the dream occurs to us upon awakening as filled with images familiar to us: cars, boats, houses, etc.
None of those things are in the actual dream experience. That’s because the actual dream experience is 100 percent vibrational. With practice, however, we can interpret images the brain puts on the experience. We can get behind them, behind the images. That’s when dream information really shines.
Rewarding attention with evolution
It’s obvious then, that this recent dream sequence didn’t come out of nowhere. The dream wasn’t a random bunch of processing nonsense. Not at all like some scientists describe dreams. Rather, this sequence followed a bridge celebration dream — an unmistakable soul-level marker. Such markers I’ve come to see as a signpost of vibrational completion. Since that dream, the dreamworld itself seems to have upgraded.
Faster transitions and clearer landscapes are more prominent. So is more precise symbolism. And my feminine and androgynous guides are showing up more often too. All of this brings to me a deeper, more integrated joyful dream experience. They leave me waking with a deep, satisfying knowing that I am eternal. More than human.
(For fun, I’ll include the full description of that celebration dream at the bottom of this post. It was quite the celebration!)
To me, this is what ascension looks like in the dream state: not just soaring in light tunnels (though those happen too), but witnessing the progressive refinement of symbols that match growing self-recognition.
Dreams may start with walking. Evolve to biking. Next we’re in a car, then a plane. Then a starship. And all the while, our dreams cheer us on. They educate us too. They help our eternal expansion. Clarity of all this is available to anyone. If they learn how to listen.
Let’s go deeper together.
You don’t need 15,000 dreams to begin. You just need willingness. Curiosity. And a quiet reverence for the language your Broader Perspective already speaks fluently.
If you’ve been having dreams that feel rich, confusing, intense, or like they might mean something more, they probably do. Especially now, as humanity rapidly expands into a new relationship with time, identity, and multidimensionality. The dream state is becoming an increasingly active arena of training and guidance. Dream symbols are personal, yes, intimate even. But they’re also precise reflections of our spiritual progress.
If you’re ready to start decoding them—and yourself—I invite you to take the next step. Even if you don’t think you’re dreaming, you are. Become a client and explore how your dream state is preparing you for your realest reality yet.
Bonus: The dream celebration
Oh my gosh. This next dream is…I felt so much satisfaction and so much muted joy…just like a calm sense of joyful anticipation…but also joyful being in the moment, feeling as I am experiencing this extremely vivid, just extremely vivid, and detailed, and intense…in the sense of so much to take in…in this dream experience.
I’m standing on a bridge. There’s someone with me and that person walks away from me. They’re not like leaving me…They just go off on their own. On this bridge, it’s not a very high. It’s kind of shallow in its arch. But it’s really wide and it is jam-packed with the most diverse crowd of people I have ever seen.
The vast majority of these people are really young. Right before me, there are two kids with drum sets. They’re playing drums while several other young people are standing in front of them dancing to the music they’re beating out.
I look over the bridge into the water and there is a paddle border in the water. He’s laying on the board and coming my way, at least in the direction of where I’m standing. I noticed that the water is fairly shadow and there’s a sandbar that he’s coming toward. The colleague that walked away from me is looking down too. He sees that person and he tries to warn the person he’s going to run over the sandbar, but the person doesn’t hear the warning and he runs over the sandbar and gets stuck.
Then I look back up onto the bridge and there’s a grunge band playing what I believe…I think it’s Pearl Jam. Yeah, I think it’s Pearl Jam that they’re playing. I can’t see over the rest of the bridge because the bridge is so packed with people and everybody is reveling. It’s this joyous celebration. At one moment, I’m thinking I’m the oldest one here because all these people are very young. Some are young kids. Some are teenagers. Some are young adults, but no one looks over like 30 or 40. But then, I turn over to my left and standing above me are these two elderly African-American people, a woman and a man.
I’m looking at this diverse crowd of beings on this bridge and at one moment the woman and man look down at me because they’re standing over me. They look down at me and they smile at me. I smile back then I turn my head back to the right and I’m looking off the bridge. Off the bridge in the middle of this flowing body of water is this massive stand.
At the top of the stand is a DJ booth. On the DJ booth I can see the soundboard and I think I can see the DJ up there getting ready to play music. In front of the soundboard is this massive amplifier.
Then I notice on the far shore of this body of water, there’s another speaker and then on the shore closest to me, there’s yet another speaker.
I look down at the base of the DJ stand and then closer toward the bridge. There a tall, a really tall African American woman stands in the water. She’s looking at one of the trestles of the bridge. At the base of the trestle, there’s just another throng of people just hanging out there, enjoying their lives. The woman is standing in the water but the water, I thought the water was deep, but, well, obviously not too deep because there was a sandbar, but the girl is standing in the water and her feet are in the water, but the water barely comes up to her ankles.
There’s this just a feeling of anticipation permeating everything, everyone, everywhere, but also a feeling of in-the-moment joy and satisfaction that is emanating from this great big throng of people. I’m feeling the exact same feelings as I’m observing this. I could just go on and on about how delicious this final dream was. I woke up from it feeling exactly that subdued sense of joy and anticipation for the future.
That’s what it was. And it was it was fantastic. It’s like the bridge was a bridge to the future and everyone was both in the moment joyful, but also extremely anticipatory, extremely eager about the future that’s coming. What a magnificent way to wake up!
Dianna D. Laura B. John F. For years, I believed these people wronged me.
They’re all either former colleagues from my days at Intel — the towering monolith of masculine, hierarchical energy where I once built a chapter of my life — or my time in the start-up world. And like so many beliefs written inside institutions and cultures like those, mine were layered with quiet betrayal, eroded confidence, and buried resentment.
Back then, I didn’t fully understand what was happening. Nor was I fully devoted to the Positively Focused practice. Now, though, I am devoted. And now, I fully understand.
Now I see that the versions of those people I created were showing me something important: not about them, but about me. And even more stunning? They came back in to my life.
Not in emails or texts, not in awkward coffee-shop run-ins, but in dreams. My dreams.
Because in my dreamscape, my Broader Perspective had more room to work with me — to show me the vibrational doors opening, which is what those relationships really were. They existed to help me soothe old momentum tied to money, power, gender, and above all, worthiness.
When Dreams Become Emotional Rescue Missions
At first, the dreams were charged, emotionally dense, visceral. Each figure reappeared not as a ghost, but as a live energetic transmission — stirring old wounds I thought I buried. Some dreams showed scenes that never happened in waking life, but carried the feeling tone of my deepest fears and suppressed resentments.
For a brief moment, I thought I was regressing. But I wasn’t. I was integrating and expanding. These weren’t dreams for processing “trauma” in the way psychology might frame it. These were missions of clarity from my Inner Being. A chance to be with old parts of myself — the ones who still flinched, still doubted, still wanted to be liked, still wanted to prove their worth to those who couldn’t see it.
The dreams allowed me to feel the sting again — but this time, with an enlightened presence. And from that place, something stunning happened.
I No Longer Needed Them to Be Villains
Dianna wasn’t cold and assuming the worst from me. Laura wasn’t manipulative and back stabbing. John wasn’t cowardly. Those were projections I held onto because they kept my story true — the story of being wronged. The story of being overlooked. The story of having to fight for space in rooms that weren’t built for people like me.
But in the dream-scape, I got to see the a different probable past: each were angels. Angels who came in the perfect form to reflect the energy I still carried. Angels whose final mission was to return in symbolic form and serve me not with apologies, but with their presence. By triggering my memories, they propelled my expansion.
Not because they had power to do that. But because I was ready to release the hold I had over myself and spark that energetic move forward.
I see now, thanks to my dream work, how people I thought were enemies, bad people, actually are angels.
What They Reflected Back to Me
What all of them had in common — what all of these relationships mirrored — was my own unconscious belief that my value was conditional. Conditional on performance. On likability, productivity. On never being “too much.”
It wasn’t about them. It was about the agreement I made long before Intel, long before adulthood, that I had to earn my belonging. And because the Universe itself is expansive and precise, as I am as a reflection of that, I attracted through it people who would play that game with me — perfectly.
They were never my enemies. They were my collaborators.
Worth Isn’t Earned — It’s Remembered
The biggest release came when I finally saw how this momentum had bled into every corner of my life — especially around money.
I had tied my financial abundance to how “worthy” I could be in the eyes of others. If I wasn’t producing, striving, or proving — I didn’t feel like I deserved to receive. That old frequency had kept me chasing manifestations rather than allowing them.
My dreams didn’t just help me see that. They helped me soothe it. Not intellectually, but, energetically. Each night, I returned to that dream terrain, and layer by layer, the emotional charge began to melt. It wasn’t dramatic. The process evolved over weeks. There were no movie-worthy “aha” moments. Just the steady loosening of tight vibrational knots.
Until one day I woke up and realized: I don’t resent them anymore. Not only that — I’m appreciative. It’s the same nonphysical experience a client recently had in wake-scape. That story publishes next month.
Diana, Laura and John showed up to serve the story until I no longer needed it. And then they returned one last time, lovingly, to help me release it.
This Is What Alignment Looks Like
Today, my relationship with my past is different. Not because the past changed…well it DID… because I did. My worth doesn’t live in their hands anymore. It never did. And that shift has changed everything.
I now allow money to come not because I’ve “earned” it, but because I’ve aligned with the version of me who no longer argues with her own value. My next post is a perfect companion to this knowing. It goes live tomorrow.
Today I attract people who reflect my wholeness, not scarcity. And I attract circumstances aligned with that expanded vibration.
I’ve always known dreamscape as a divine classroom — one that knows exactly how to reach me when I’m ready. Those experiences are increasingly showing me and my advanced practice clients how valuable dreamscape is. It’s amazing people live with no conscious connection to this deeply meaningful state of being.
If you’re still holding onto old stories about people who hurt you, who betrayed you, I invite you to consider: What if they were never villains? What if they were angels in disguise?
And what if their last gift to you is waiting… in your dreams? Book a session and discover how deeply in service to you your dream state is. And maybe you too will find those you despise are actually those most worthy of your appreciation.
TL;DR: The author relates a client’s dream and the fascination they and the client shared in interpreting the dream and how the dream clarified aspects of the client’s life. They then encourage readers to explore their dreams as a bonafide source of real-life rewards.
One thing I really like about the Positively Focused Practice is dream work. It’s so powerful. It’s powerful because so much happens in dreams that directly tie to waking life.
Clients are discovering how powerful their dreams are as they learn how to connect their dream experiences to their waking life. Contrary to what psychology and science assert, immense, real-life value comes from the dream world. Indeed, our entire waking life stems from that place where dreams are born.
Today I want to show what that value looks like by sharing a client’s dream experience. I want to share how it relates to his waking experience and how he felt after discovering his dream gave him information he really wanted to know.
Ready? Here we go!
Participating in our expansion
Troy is an aspiring writer and musician. Most of his 67-year life brought Troy resentment and regret, however. That’s because early on, Troy conjured disempowering beliefs about his creative expression. He didn’t believe it was good enough. So, of course, the world around him reflected that belief back to him, in the form of people not appreciating his expression.
Like nearly all people, Troy saw what people were doing and saying, or rather not saying, about his work as evidence. He told himself people not appreciating his writing was proof his work wasn’t any good. Perhaps you can see the trouble here. And maybe you can see how almost everyone talks themselves in to trouble when they don’t know what physical reality is for.
Physical reality is a reflection. It is a reflection we each create. Our reflection shows us beliefs we hold about a myriad of subjects, including beliefs of which we may not be consciously aware. By experiencing physical reality, among other things, we can true up the reflection (what shows up in life) to include more of our desires.
Physical reality also exists so we can directly participate in our individual growth and the growth of All That Is. A better word for “growth” is “expansion”.
So Troy not knowing his reality is a reflection caused him to create more resentment and regret by misunderstanding how people’s response to his work was serving him.
Misinterpreting physical reality
Physical reality is the way All That Is expands. It also is the best way we as individuals expand. Everything in physical, therefore, is positive. It shows us where we are relative to our desires, much like a map shows us where we are relative to where we want to be. Physical reality also shows us how well we’re doing in getting to where we want to be. And it gives us clues to things we may be clueless about. Things having a massive effect on how well or not well we’re crating a life we want, for example.
All the while physical reality can be a joyful, pleasurable, exciting adventure. One literally filled only with those things we want and none of what we don’t.
But if we don’t know what you just read, we misinterpret physical reality. We misinterpret it as “real”….not a reflection. That gets us into trouble because if we mistake the reflection as reality, then we tend to create more of what we see thinking it’s real. That’s why most people’s lives come packed with some of what they want and a lot of what they don’t want.
Troy’s balance of those two things skewed to unwanted. A lot of what he didn’t want showed up in his life, which is why he ended up resentful and filled with regret.
Seeing reality differently
That was before Troy found the Positively Focused Practice. Indeed, anyone who believes physical reality is anything other than a reflection of their inner state is going to create a reality including some wanted and some unwanted. But when a person figures this out, amazement is at hand. That person can use physical reality for its intended purpose. And in using it that way, they can create the reality of their dreams.
How?
By using physical reality for the reflection it is. Then tuning their inner state to match what they want. When they do that, then physical reality, which, again, is a reflection, must reflect that more positive inner state, e.g. a life experience including more of what they want. That’s what Troy is learning to do. His dreams are helping him do that.
Physical reality is a reflection of our inner state. (Photo by Caroline Veronez)
Instead of interpreting his reality as evidence of negative beliefs about his writing, like he used to do, Troy started looking at his reality differently. He started seeing it as a reflection of his inner state. Then he started doing something about his inner state.
What did he do?
He began telling better stories about his life, about himself, and about the world in general. Doing so, his mood improved. And as that happened, gradually, his life improved too. Meanwhile, he started the dream work. Then small changes started happening regarding how people responded to his creativity. Troy eventually saw bits of evidence of his success as a writer emerging.
Shortly thereafter, Troy had a dream.
A happy dream
The dream confused him because he didn’t know how to interpret it.
He dreamed about a regionally famous musician. In the dream, she was apologizing for breaking Troy’s heart. Troy told her she didn’t break his heart and in response, the musician expressed disappointment. Troy felt bad about that. So he changed his tune. He told her that his heart was broken. As soon as he did, both he and the musician laughed uproariously. Troy woke at that moment in confusion.
When Troy told me this dream, I was overjoyed. That’s because I knew exactly what it was about. After explaining it to him, Troy too was really happy about the dream because the dream told him a lot of things about where he is and where he’s headed.
On the surface, the dream was about Troy’s creative aspirations. But the dream had an even deeper meeting. Let’s take a look at both.
Desire goes both ways
The regionally successful musician in the dream represented Troy’s desire for stardom. The reason this particular star showed up in his dream is because she’s familiar. Troy performed as a back up musician for her. And, Troy does see her as very successful. This is important because the musician is regionally successful. She’s not an international star like Beyonce or Taylor Swift, for example.
That accords with the balance of Troy’s desire for success and his belief in his ability to be successful. He doesn’t see himself as either an international best selling author, or an internationally-recognized musician. His desires, in other words, are tempered by what he believes is possible: regional success. It’s no wonder then that the regionally successful performer showed up in his dream instead of Taylor Swift.
The performer’s apology represented Troy’s frustration and disappointment over not having the success he wants. Historically Troy blamed everyone other than himself about not being successful. So here his stardom was taking responsibility for his lack of stardom, which is exactly what Troy wants according to his beliefs.
But Troy acknowledged in the dream that his heart wasn’t broken. That represented Troy taking back his power, which he’s doing in waking life through his Positively Focused practice. This is an important element of his dream. Amplifying that will empower him further in waking life.
Something remarkable happens next in the dream. When he says his heart wasn’t broken, his stardom affects an air of disappointment. This is so important. It shows that Troy’s stardom wants him to want that stardom as much as Troy wants the stardom!
This is such an important feature of this dream, I want to spend a little time on it next.
Our desires live apart from us
Our desires are as alive as we are. And, like us, they desire. Their biggest desire is their full self-expression, much like a human desires its full self-expression.
So when we birth a desire, that desire wants fulfillment. So much so that if we don’t fulfill it, it will go elsewhere to pursue its fulfillment. That’s why sometimes a person will have a desire, not act on it, and then someone else will suddenly seemingly express that same desire into the world. What happened there is the desire went elsewhere because it “knew” it wasn’t going to be fulfilled with the first person.
Another way a desire will fulfill itself is by finding its fulfillment in another dimension, an alternate reality, if you will. Indeed, desires are so ravenous for self-expression, usually when one person has a desire, many others receive that same desire at the same time!
So desires are as alive as we are and seek self expression. Troy’s dream showed him his desire – stardom – wants Troy to fully express it! That’s why the musician expressed disappointment when Troy said his heart wasn’t broken. The desire wants to know Troy’s heart is in it, i.e. he wants to fulfill it.
As I mentioned earlier, an even deeper meaning came along with this dream. Let’s examine that next.
Dreams give us important information about our life trajectory. (Photo by Egor Vikhrev)
Our desires know…
At the end of the dream both Troy and his desire (the musician) busted out laughing when Troy apologized for telling the musician his heart wasn’t broken. This was a major message from this dream.
We are all eternal beings. In our eternity, we don’t experience any of life as dire, serious or even significant. As humans we sometimes feel all these things. But from our Broader Perspective, our lives here on earth are about joy, fun and expansion. That’s all. Our desires feel the same way.
In other words, and I write about this all the time, we’re here to have fun in our lives. Nothing serious is happening, and our desires know this. That’s why, when Troy apologized, the musician representing Troy’s stardom, and Troy himself, in the dream, burst out laughing.
While talking about this dream with Troy, I could see his demeanor change in real time. His shoulders relaxed. He became more thoughtful. Then a lightbulb went off in his head as we talked about how his stardom wants him as much as he wants it. I could tell Troy really enjoyed finding out what we talked about.
And this is the nature of the dream reality. There is so much useful, valuable information happening in that reality. It’s the same reality we come from before we’re born. I call it “nonphysical”.
Real life rewards
Awareness of nonphysical, whether through dreams or otherwise, can vastly improve our waking experience. It’s a wonder humans don’t avail themselves of this valuable knowledge when it’s so effing close to them and being offered every day. A lot of people don’t even realize they’re dreaming! Let alone recalling any dreams, or better yet, interpreting them accurately.
But everyone dreams. Including those who think they don’t. But they don’t realize it happening because they unconsciously block those experiences. How? By telling themselves they don’t dream.
We can see from Troy’s experience that dreams offer a lot of value. They tell us how we’re doing on our path to everything we want. And they can give us huge insights into what life is all about.
Dreams offer really great real-life rewards. That’s why I encourage all my clients to discover those rewards by exploring their dreams.
TLDR: A series of vivid, emotional dreams led to a deeply cathartic experience, resolving internal struggles with a sense of homecoming and fulfillment. This transformative journey left the writer feeling great and eager for more extraordinary living.
Wow. It’s 0736. I just woke feeling wonder. There’s a massive smile on my face. Happiness flows through me as well as a sense of powerful worthiness.
Worthiness is an important feeling. All my clients start out far from feeling worthy. A lack of worthiness plagues all of humanity. It’s complicated, but that unworthiness feeling explains all the drama humans create as a species and as individuals.
For me, however, my worthiness is growing by leaps and bounds. This morning offered yet another expansion of it. An expansion I am conscious of. And that consciousness, that awareness, is why I’m feeling wonder.
Here’s what happened.
Unpleasant is communication
Over the last few weeks, I noticed decisions I’ve made that resulted in less than desirable results. I won’t describe what the decisions were. That’s because I’d rather amplify vibrations associated with what’s having me feel wonder and worthiness. And focusing on the decisions will amplify that old momentum.
Suffice it to say the decisions were ones I noticed brought me unpleasant manifestations. Looking from the outside, you might describe these manifestations as extremely minor. Not like my newest client, who yesterday got T-boned while driving her cat in her Tesla to the Vet. No, my unpleasant manifestations these days are minuscule compared to that.
But like all unpleasant manifestations, they came in a cluster. A cluster of increasingly intense events. That intensity cluster was good. It caught my attention. And in that, I could do something about what was unfolding. If we don’t see what’s happening, we can’t do anything about it. I’m so glad I can see what’s happening.
So last night, I made a different decision. I decided I wanted to change my trajectory.
That’s what happened. But how it happened was extraordinary.
Leverage found in sleep
What happened all happened in dream state. While everyone dreams, hardly anyone understands what happens in that state. Even those who interpret dreams and those who do “dream therapy” likely don’t understand dreams. What’s happening in dreams is far more sophisticated than we know. And far more powerful.
What humans call dreams actually exist on many planes. These planes or dimensions are so numerous, the human brain can’t comprehend what’s happening. But our Broader Perspective, that larger part of us, understands it fully. What’s more, that part of us guides dream activity.
What we do while awake informs that activity. But dreams influence our waking experience in return. When a human can directly, deliberately use dream influence, life gets really interesting. For then we can use that influence to improve life experience.
That’s what happened last night.
It feels like it happened for me, instead of me making it happen. And that’s the yumminess of worthiness. Because everything that happens happens for us. In other words, we’re not making anything happen. We set our focus, then the Universe coordinates outcomes. Outcomes best fitting our focus or intention.
I got a direct experience of that last night. And, frankly, it feels AH-mazing seeing it unfold!
The “topography” of last night’s dream experience.
Proficiency produces powerful dream experience
I had three “segments” of dreams. The first came before my mid-night meditation. The second happened after that mediation. The third immediately followed the second. Several dreams comprised each segment. In total, I dreamed at least 15 dreams. All were extremely vivid and real, just like being awake. But the emotional “tone” or “flavor” of them was far more intense than waking reality.
Seth talks about senses we use in the dream state. Some correspond with our waking senses; seeing, hearing, etc. But some senses don’t correspond to waking senses. Perceiving through emotion is one of those. I can attest to the power of this sense. It feels absolutely intense. And whether it’s unpleasant emotion or pleasant emotion, it is that way…intense.
Which is why nightmares frighten us so.
In the first segment, I found myself in several different realities. I was in a suburb with houses, streets, sidewalks. But the place was nothing like waking reality. Where I was probably doesn’t even exist on this plane.
These first dreams all featured me making choices. While making them, I felt confused. I couldn’t decide what to choose. For example, I was in someone’s home. I was trying to choose a ball. The homeowner offered a variety from which to choose. There were many kinds of balls – basketballs, dodgeballs, etc. Some were old. Others were new. But, for some reason, I couldn’t choose.
On the way to that person’s home, I drove on a highway. While following traffic, I noticed I needed to follow the highway to the right. I didn’t do that though. Instead, I curved left. But I knew I wanted to go right!
Both of these are examples of me making decisions that resulted in unpleasant outcomes. You can see that they mimicked what I did while awake.
The set up continues
In the second segment, I walked through a dance club. To get there, I had to drive through an unfamiliar city at night. I parked my vehicle in the parking lot, then went inside. Inside, I met several unseemly youths. After those encounters, I decided to leave. But when I got outside, I noticed my vehicle was gone. I had just bought it. But then I realized my bad purchase decision: I bought a truck that was easy to steal.
Coaxing the youths to tell me who took it didn’t work. They took it, I knew, but they weren’t admitting it. At this point in the dream series I tried mightily to fix my decisions. Doing so got me feeling really intense negative emotion. Emotion that also was highly disempowering. It felt like despair, a wanting to give up. Highly uncharacteristic of me!
And this is another value of dream reality. It’s like a testing ground. It gives us experiences we won’t want in real life. There, we can experiment with them, and learn from them without having to live the dream “for real”.
I remember waking from the first segment feeling really clear those dreams were about my recent choices in waking reality. Waking from this second segment, it was clear how choices in the dream aligned with beliefs I have. Beliefs I’m wanting to change.
After that I went into the third segment. What happened next prompted this post.
Non sequiturs create resolution
In the third segment, I realized the purpose of this whole process. And the feeling I felt associated with that was extraordinary.
The dreams involved me being in the company of a beautiful being. I felt great comfort in their company. “Comfort” doesn’t do the feeling justice. Words can’t describe the power and pleasure of what I felt. We sat with others who watched a sporting event on television. I felt I belonged among these beings.
One of them, a female, stood before me. She had a beautiful body. Tattoos covered every inch of it. She said, without using any words, that she wanted to remove them. And that’s what she did. She peeled them away one by one with her fingers. As she did this, I felt something…a kind of release….
Then I was in an open area of low-lying buildings. My older brother stood beside me. Beneath our feet was a hand-woven rug of Middle Eastern origin. These fantastic planes flew above us. One after another passed over us and, as they did, I spoke to my brother in Farsi about how we can make use of this “campaign” to resolve differences between our country and others…
I know that doesn’t sound at all like the resolution I asked for. But you had to be there!
I’m including the major dreams only. Otherwise this post would be a TLDR experience. Suffice it to say, each one flowed one into the other with perfect cohesion. Still, I get they sound like non-sequiturs.
A perfect compendium of catharsis
The last dream I experienced before waking was the kicker. I stood in a shower. The shower wasn’t mine. Outside the shower window I heard children playing happily. Beside me, in the shower was a beautiful small-breasted woman. Her body was….nothing short of extraordinary. The water ran down both our bodies and all I remember besides what you just read was a feeling of HOME. It was a feeling of all being well, of release after climax, of ecstasy or completion.
Then a series of dreams happened that took this experience to a new level. It’s hard to describe exactly what happened. That’s because language doesn’t align with what happens in nonphysical. And the dream state happens in nonphysical.
Nevertheless the series involved me experiencing situations in which I “paused”. And in the pause, I did something that translated as resolving the process or beliefs or momentum that had me make decisions producing dissatisfying results. I knew that’s what happened, but it’s hard to make direct connection between what I saw and experienced in the dream and my translation of it.
All I can say is it was extremely cathartic. Especially after the climactic dream I experienced before that.
This entire process was such a fulfilling experience! When I woke it was just before 0730 and I knew, I just knew, what I asked for had been resolved on my behalf.
How did I know?
The joyful catharsis I felt directly stemmed from my dream experience. (Photo by Omid Armin on Unsplash)
Emotions: Indications of expansion
Because I felt GREAT. But that’s not all. I also felt FOR SURE that what you just read happened. I recalled ALL OF IT. Including the emotions, the associations with wake state experience prior to going to bed…all of it.
Before I started writing this, I amplified everything you’re reading by affirming how great it feels. I affirmed this new day. A new day unburdened by old belief. I expressed appreciation for, and felt joy in the expressing, my expanded awareness. I also expressed how blessed I felt by my cadre — the innumerable beings in nonphysical that support every desire I create as a result of being human.
Re-reading all this, I’m in awe. It’s this kind of experience that gradually becomes available to all my advanced practice clients. I feel blessed to lead the way. The way to extraordinary living. It certainly feels extraordinary. And I’m eager for more.
Want to experience your expansion into the extraordinary? Become a client.
Our most popular movies explore alternate realities and worlds. Movies such as Everything Everywhere All At Once, The Tomorrow War and Tenet tinker and toy with alternate realities and timelines. Their popularity reflects our collective fascination with worlds not like our own. Or worlds just enough like our own to find fascinating.
But that fascination often falls short. Compared to traveling through actual alternate realities, movies can’t measure up. That’s right, we can explore worlds unlike our own. Worlds and dimensions just as real as the one in which you’re reading this. Visiting them requires no futuristic hardware. We don’t need advanced digital technology. Visiting such worlds happens through something everyone does every night: going to bed.
Time travel begins with the mind
Travel to alternate realities, the past or the future is easier than we think. The mind makes such travel possible. Such travel requires releasing certain beliefs. Beliefs convincing us such dimensions don’t exist. Or that they exist only in movies. Or that visiting them is impossible.
Despite such beliefs, we explore these alternate realities all the time. Even while awake. But we don’t know we do it. We can know, however. It just requires soothing beliefs standing between us and the knowing that we do this constantly.
Every moment we’re creating infinite new realities. Every action we take creates a new dimension. The moment we create one, our consciousness goes into it. We put a portion of ourselves in there. Then we explore what’s there to explore.
We’re more than our bodies and we exist in infinite dimensions simultaneously. (Photo by David Matos on Unsplash)
In other words, we each exist in infinite dimensions. Dimensions we simultaneously create and explore. Exploring these dimensions consciously, again, requires soothing beliefs convincing us that none of what you just read is happening. It further requires softening our fixation with THIS reality. For it is mainly our fixation with this reality which binds us to it, thereby turning other legitimate experiences into fantasies or fables.
If you’re thinking “this is magical thinking”, then you’ve just proven what you’ve just read. Such beliefs convince you that what you’ve read isn’t true. They also reinforce our focus here, in this reality. Softening that belief makes available whole new worlds. Worlds just as real as this one. They exist right there, behind our persistent beliefs.
The mind is powerful. From it everything we know emerges. Exploring other dimensions is a matter then of opening ourselves up to our minds’ power.
Dreams matter…a lot
Dreams represent the closest alternate dimension “neighborhood”. Many people, including the science community, generally claim dreams are the brain processing waking experiences. They don’t matter and aren’t important, they say. Here’s a Harvard trained psychology major you may know, sharing her perspective on dreams on a popular YouTube show.
Despite Portman’s assertion, dreams happen because we reemerge into nonphysical while the body sleeps. There we rejoin our Whole Selves. What happens next is extremely complex. All the “parts” of what we are communicate across dimensions we simultaneously inhabit. This includes the “past” and “future”. This communication makes alternate dimensional travel possible. A person can literally “skip” across their alternate consciousnesses like a stone skips when thrown across water.
This nonphysical communication also makes physical life possible. Without it we wouldn’t physically survive. That’s because nonphysical animates physical. So it’s accurate to say dream experience matters more than physical reality. Because physical reality literally erupts from the mind. What we call “dreaming” is mind activity at its purest. Dreaming matters. A lot.
A self-exploration most will ignore
We do what we call “dreaming” all the time. You’re doing it right now, while reading this. Most of the time we’re not aware we’re doing it. But that can change.
Becoming aware isn’t hard. But it does take persistence and discipline. Few are willing to do what’s required. Yet, if we understood what’s there, more would pursue this expanded awareness. Still, people barely remember their dreams. Some only remember having dreamed once or twice a week. Some claim they never dream, though everyone does.
It’s no wonder, then, that humanity remains largely ignorant of real alternate realities. We don’t even think about exploring dreams. So we miss what’s beyond them.
Dreams represent the boundary between waking reality and whole new realms; dimensions that make physical life possible. Dimensions happening just beneath beliefs. Beliefs which blind us to such experiences.
With practice though, we can explore these dimensions. Such exploration can’t happen, however, while we remain singularly focused on physical reality.
Belief in an “objective” reality also hinders such explorations. Exploring the dream world and beyond also involves soothing such beliefs. An “objective” reality doesn’t exist. The phenomenon called “objective reality” is actually a subjective experience we all agree to simultaneously experience. But none of us experiences the same so-called “objective” reality. Even when it seems like we are, we are not. Every person’s experience is subjective. Knowing this is an important factor contributing to successful alternate dimension travel.
The dreamworld is the departure point for fantastic psychic exploration. (Photo by Johannes Plenio on Unsplash)
My personal experience proves it
My own experience shows how a Positively Focused practice makes successful alternate dimension travel possible. I keep detailed records of my dreams dating back to 2015. That represents well over 4,000 individual dreams. Since 2015, my dreams became more vivid, longer and included more detail. I’ve also experienced more dreams each night. And dreams within dreams. And I can now enter the dream state easier than before. I can even do it while semi-awake.
Both Abraham and Seth say such improvements come naturally once one unravels a rigid focus on physical reality. My experience exploring dreams supports their assertions. These days I enjoy far more exotic experiences. Out of body experiences (OBE), extra sensory perception and Kundalini experiences among them.
For example, I experienced long-form OBE travel as well as multiple, shorter such experiences during meditation. All this results from years training myself to focus less on the physical realm. I believe even more capability exists beyond even these experiences. That’s why I’m excited about my future.
A recent long-form OBE I had.
Subjective experience is the best evidence
All the words in the world won’t convince anyone that alternate dimensions exist and travel within them is possible. Everyone who’s experienced what I have will tell you: personal experience is the best evidence. It is the only evidence convincing enough to change a person’s beliefs.
Which is why I like working with my clients. They represent people willing to consider something more lies beyond what they see with their eyes. Dissatisfaction with their lives usually brings them to me. Dissatisfaction often causes one to give up limiting beliefs. So dissatisfaction can be a good thing. But most people think their beliefs are absolutely true. So they won’t explore what lies beyond them. Or they’re too busy with everyday life.
I get it.
Natalie Portman’s Harvard education tells her dreams don’t matter. She thinks that’s true. But I know differently. The pathway through the dream world offers tremendous potential. Potential available to everyone. But potential available only for those willing to go beyond ordinary waking consciousness and commonly-held beliefs.
The rewards far exceed the effort involved
What if powers we believe exist only in the movies are available to us all? What if we can do all those things our favorite characters do in our favorite films? If alternate dimensions await our exploration, wouldn’t that be something we’d want to explore?
I think so.
Our fascination with movies tells me we want to. But our beliefs keep us from seriously developing the technology. The technology of our minds. A technology we all have. I believe a technology worth developing.
I believe that technology can completely remake what it means to be human. It can change the world for the better. It can create a world I believe we all would prefer. One far more satisfying, prosperous and centered. So the effort invested will produce outcomes far more valuable than the effort invested.
But it’s up to each of us to create that world for ourselves. I for one believe it’s worth doing. My experiences confirm that belief. As does fascination I feel when I return from a nonphysical journey.
What’s keeping you from believing such explorations are worth the effort required? That’s a question worth asking. One that offers something far better than our best movies.
